Transforming Relationship with Emotional Savvy
102 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 4 years ago - ★★★★★ - 48 ratingsYour go-to source for life-changing shifts in how you think about --and create relationship with--yourself and other humans. Discover new options for building the strength, assertiveness, resilience, boundaries, and balance needed to develop healthier relationships, ones based on equality, reciprocity, and mutuality.
Listening to these in-depth discussions with expert guests on a broad range of relationship topics can open your eyes, heart, and mind to new possibilities for creating the healthy, emotionally intimate relationship you want at home, and the clear, assertive one you need at work.
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Got Energy Leaks? Procrastination? Denial? Resentment? Forgiveness? GUEST: Brenda Adelman
August 29, 2018 21:38 - 45 minutes - 62.1 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor Stop Emotional Energy Leaks! What About Forgiveness? GUEST: Brenda Adelman, Acclaimed Actor. Author. Recipient of Hero of Forgiveness Award. --------------------------------------------- DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Do You Have Unfinished Business from Emotional Energy Leaks? What are emotional energy leaks? procrastination denial resentments grudges unresolved relationship issues for a ...
What About Toxic Shame? Powerful Strategies to Help With Addiction in the Family GUEST: Jeff Jones
August 22, 2018 02:00 - 46 minutes - 65 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor What About Toxic Shame? Powerful Strategies to Help With Addiction in the Family G GUEST: Jeff Jones, therapist, addiction counselor, interventionist, and family recovery coach. --------------------------------------------- DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: How to Give Up, Give Back, and Recover From Shame Have you ever felt shame? Been shamed? If you haven't, you've been extremely fortunate. Most ...
Abundance, Prosperity & Tapping Into The Body-Mind Connection GUEST: Jolen Philbrook
August 14, 2018 17:03 - 53 minutes - 49.4 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor Abundance, Prosperity & Tapping Into The Body-Mind Connection GUEST: Jolen Philbrook, Abundant Mindset Expert --------------------------------------------- DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Prosperity Starts Between Your Ears Sometimes, people are surprised when I talk about prosperity and relationship in the same sentence or breath. They simply haven't connected the two. Today, I'm talking about w...
Love, Dump, Or...? What About Radical Acceptance? GUEST: Andrea Miller
August 09, 2018 18:28 - 53 minutes - 49.3 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor Love, Dump, Or, ...? What About Radical Acceptance? GUEST: Andrea Miller, CEO of YourTango.com, author of Radical Acceptance DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: How Do You Create and Experience Acceptance in Your LIfe? You want to be seen, heard, known, acknowledged, appreciated, and accepted in life. By your parents. By your partner. By others in your world. Not everyone is willing or capable of doin...
Intimacy, Pleasure, and How to Get More of Both GUEST: Rabbi Manis Friedman
August 02, 2018 18:33 - 46 minutes - 42.8 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor Intimacy, Pleasure, and How to Get More of Both GUEST: Rabbi Manis Friedman, author of The Joy of Intimacy, and Doesn't Anyone Blush Anymore? DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Creating and Enriching Emotional Intimacy with your Partner "The deepest principle of human nature is the craving to be appreciated." ~ William James Emotional intimacy allows you to feel appreciated--and known, seen, heard, ...
What About Unconditional Love and Creating Peace? GUEST: Swami Sadashiva Tirtha
July 25, 2018 00:48 - 37 minutes - 51.8 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor What About Unconditional Love and Creating Peace in Relationships? GUEST: Swami Sadashiva Tirtha, The Orange Cowboy, host of the TV show, Talking with Our Angels DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Four Scary Reasons Unconditional Love May be a Dangerous Myth "Wait! Don't run away. I'm not taking away the idea of unconditional love. Hear me out...please. " ~ Dr. Rhoberta Shaler In today's episode, ...
Creating a Safe Place to Love Yourself GUEST: Pernilla Lillarose
July 18, 2018 00:03 - 49 minutes - 45.1 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor Creating A Safe Place To Love Yourself...and Doing It GUEST: Pernilla Lillarose, Hakomi Therapist, Self-Love Mentor, and Founder of Young Women Empowerment Circle DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: In today's episode, Dr. Shaler talks about what the term, "self-love" really means. We hear it spoken of so frequently that we may not think about what it actually means. It's not about being vain, arrogan...
How Personal Trauma Gave Rise to Strength, Courage, and Empowering Others GUEST: Tracy Malone
July 10, 2018 23:18 - 43 minutes - 39.8 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor How Personal Trauma Gave Rise to Strength, Courage, and Empowering Others GUEST: Tracy Malone, All around amazing woman, and founder of NarcissistAbuseSupport.com DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: In today's episode, Dr. Shaler talks about "Gaslighting." It's a real thing. When someone else wants to tell you what you think, feel, intend, or have done, and they insist they are right, there's a very goo...
How to Speak Up Powerfully When You Want Things to Change GUEST: Tina Dietz
June 19, 2018 21:43 - 44 minutes - 40.7 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor How to Speak Up Powerfully When You Want Things to Change - Episode 44 GUEST: Tina Dietz, Speaker, Audiobook Publisher, Podcast Producer, Content Marketing Expert DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: In today's episode, Dr. Shaler shares compelling ideas about how you can be keeping yourself from having the life and relationships you most want. What's getting in your way? What's stopping you? Do you kn...
Change Your Life with Powerful Self-Talk & Heart-Centered Focus GUEST: Candy Barone
June 13, 2018 15:17 - 45 minutes - 41.7 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor Change Your Life with Powerful Self-Talk & Heart-Centered Focus - Episode 43 GUEST: Candy Barone of You Empowered Strong: YES! Catalyst and change agent DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: In today's episode, Dr. Shaler shares compelling ideas about how you can be keeping yourself from having the life and relationships you most want. What's getting in your way? What's stopping you? Do you know? Stop an...
Mental Health: Know What To Do When It's Slipping Into Anxiety, Depression, or More GUEST: Kristin Walker
June 05, 2018 22:26 - 43 minutes - 40 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor Mental Health: Know What To Do When It's Slipping Into Anxiety, Depression, and More - Episode 42 GUEST: Kristin Walker, CEO of Mental Health News Radio Network DR. RHOBERTA SHALER'S TOPIC: Mental Illness Scares Us More Than A Broken Leg Today, Dr. Shaler talks about the prevalence of mental health issues in our world, and why it is so essential to remove any stigma from it. People feel...
Help! What About the Money When Thinking About Divorce? GUEST: Michelle Jacobik
May 30, 2018 00:18 - 44 minutes - 40.7 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor HELP! What About The Money When Thinking About Divorce - Episode 41 GUEST: Michelle Jacobik, author of Prosperity After Divorce DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: In this episode, Dr. Shaler introduces a new topic: prosperity. This is the first time she's addressed this. As you know, Dr. Shaler has written many books, and one called "What You Pay Attention To Expands" offers the keys to understanding ...
How to Keep Yourself Safe: Verbally, Physically, Emotionally GUEST: Susan Harrow
May 17, 2018 23:20 - 1 hour - 115 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor HOW TO KEEP YOURSELF SAFE: VERBALLY, PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY - Episode 40 GUEST: Susan Harrow, Creator of TRUE SHIELD: Verbal Self-Defense For Girls DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Do people respect you? Or, do they take you for granted? Maybe, there are only one or two people who get your knickers in a twist in that way, and this needs straightening out right away. Don't feel like a victim. There'...
How to Leave a Hijackal With Your Spiritual Self Intact GUEST: Lily Sanders
May 08, 2018 19:08 - 39 minutes - 54.2 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor HOW TO LEAVE A HIJACKAL WITH YOUR SPIRITUAL SELF INTACT - Episode 38 GUEST: Lily Sanders, Author of Truth to Triumph: A Spiritual Guide to Finding Your Truth DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: You've likely not happy when you blurt something out, and think better of it later, right? You want to have the presence of mind to be your best self, even in the face of irrationality, rudeness, and toxicity. ...
How To Live With Few Regrets & Move Towards Success GUEST: Scott Kimbro
April 04, 2018 01:00 - 58 minutes - 53.5 MBThe Relationship Help Show with Dr Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor HOW TO LIVE WITH FEW REGRETS AND MOVE TOWARDS SUCCESS Highlights: Dr. Shaler talks about "Are You Mistaking Activity for Progress?" Guest: Scott Kimbro, Author of SubmUrgency: How To Live & Die Without Regrets Dr. Shaler offers her own tricks on how to stop wasting time on regrets __________________________________________________________________________________________ Moving towards success is never ...
Is Your Family History Ruining Your Relationship Life? GUEST: Johanna Lynn
March 28, 2018 01:00 - 59 minutes - 54.8 MBRelationship Help Show with Dr Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor Dr. Shaler opens the show with thoughts on things you might believe about yourself if you were raised by a Hijackal® Guest, Johanna Lynn, Clinical Hypnotherapist All that happened to you in life affects everything that is currently happening in your life. If you are not getting the results in life and relationships that you want, then, you want to listen to this episode for sure. Dr. Shaler talks about a commo...
How to Manage Uncertainty, Ambiguity and Chaos in Relationships GUEST: Dr. Dennis Merritt-Jones
March 21, 2018 01:00 - 59 minutes - 54.1 MBThe Relationship Help Show with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor HOW TO MANAGE UNCERTAINTY, AMBIGUITY & CHAOS IN RELATIONSHIPS Toxic people thrive on--and, therefore create--uncertainty, ambiguity and chaos. That's how they gain power and control over people, conversations, and circumstances. Today's show will help you see where and how you are being controlled by uncertainty...even when you don't think it's possible. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler gives you strategies for safely ...
Is That Passive-Aggressive? GUEST: Dr. Ganz Ferrance
March 14, 2018 01:00 - 1 hour - 55 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor Is the behavior you're upset about passive-aggressive? Dr. Shaler gives you tips for recognizing and managing passive-aggressive behaviors. They can be so frustrating and infuriating. Respond well to passive-aggressive behavior. If you don't, it will continue, and the relationship will stay stuck! Guest: Dr. Ganz Ferrance talks about men and his book, The ME Factor: Your Systematic Guide to ...
Do Hijackals Become Wonderful With A New Partner? GUEST: Bree Bonchay
March 07, 2018 02:00 - 57 minutes - 52.4 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor HOW CAN I LEARN TO TRUST? Part 2 Today. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler offers further insights into learning to trust, and learning to trust AGAIN. Trust is such an essential element in a healthy relationship. You may have had previous experiences with folks in your life where you sadly learned you could not trust them. This tends to color your new relationships. Dr. Shaler offers insights to help yo...
How to Get Over Betrayal and Trauma to Trust Again
February 28, 2018 02:00 - 57 minutes - 52.4 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor How Can I Trust? Recovering from Relationship Trauma & Betrayal Guest: Michael Wayne Regier, Ph.D., Clinical Psychologist/Marriage Therapist Dr. Michael Wayne Regier received his PhD from the California School of Professional psychology. Early in his career he was on the faculty in the department of psychiatry at the Johns Hopkins School of medicine. He did a post doctoral internship in cou...
Learn to Say NO! to Toxic People GUEST: Laura Rubinstein
February 21, 2018 02:00 - 1 hour - 61.9 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor New insights on how to find love and support within yourself, to commit to creating and maintaining your healthy, safe life with other humans. Do You Want to Feel Showered with Appreciation? Do these things. Insights from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler Guest Conversation with Laura Rubinstein - Learn to Say No. What it Takes and Why We're Reluctant to Do It Toxic people, difficult people, push y...
Love Yourself, Tune Up Your Self-Confidence, & Step Out! Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
February 14, 2018 02:57 - 1 hour - 59.3 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor Valentine's Day Show: It All Starts With Loving Yourself. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler gives you insights, wisdom, and great tips for jumpstarting self-confidence. It Happened To Me - True Stories: Wendy Newman - Dating a Wealthy Man and Oops! Do you really need a new love story? It starts with you. What You Really Need to Have a Great Relationship Tune In and Turn Up Your Self-Confidence. CONN...
CHANGES: Is It Time to Change? GUEST: Filippo Voltaggio
February 07, 2018 02:00 - 1 hour - 59.4 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor CHANGES: Do You Need to Change To Have the Life & Relationship You Want? What Needs to Change? Guest: Filippo Voltaggio, Life Coach / Author / Radio Host Filippo's work as a Life Coach, Speaker, Author, Workshop Creator and Leader, and as Host of The LIFE CHANGES Show, revolves around change, and the wholeness and expansion of The Self. From early childhood Filippo Voltaggio never believe...
BULLYING: At Home, at work, at School. GUEST: Dr. Nekeshia Hammond
January 31, 2018 02:00 - 1 hour - 62 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor BULLYING. It could be happening to you, at home or at work. It could be happening to your child. Timely, practical insights into how to make it stop. Guest: Dr. Nekeshia Hammond talks with Dr. Shaler about how you can help your children deal with bullying, ADHD, and school issues. Learn how to respond well and speak up effectively. Dr. Nekeshia Hammond was raised in Orlando, Florida and no...
Call It What It Is: Abuse! US Olympic gymnasts. GUESTS: Liberty Forrest and Christine Baumgartner
January 24, 2018 02:00 - 1 hour - 56.7 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor URGENT TOPIC! Dr. Shaler has convened two insightful women to join her In a timely response to the court statements of Aly Raisman of US Gymnastics Team to her accused abuser, Dr. Larry Nassar. ABUSE! Systemic abuse! Why doesn't anyone listen to the victims? Is it because they are children? OUTRAGEOUS! Guests Liberty Forrest and Christine Baumgartner discuss how to recognize all kinds of ab...
Attachment: What Happens When It Goes Sideways. Guest: Dr. Gary Salyer
January 17, 2018 02:00 - 1 hour - 64.9 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor ATTACHMENT: WHAT HAPPENS WHEN IT GOES SIDEWAYS AND WHY THAT MATTERS Guest: Gary Salyer, PhD, author of Safe To Love Again More about Dr. Gary Salyer Dr. Gary Salyer speaks to audiences across the country as a featured expert, inspirational speaker on how to create the love we all deserve. He is an expert in Attachment Theory, the science of relationships, Bert Hellinger's Family Systems a...
Intuition, Loving Yourself and New Beginnings. Guest: Liberty Forrest
January 10, 2018 02:00 - 59 minutes - 54.3 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor Guest: Liberty Forrest - What It Takes To Trust Your Gut and Intuition More about Liberty Forrest Liberty Forrest is an award-winning author, a columnist and Huffington Post contributor. She's written articles for numerous publications in several countries and has written several books. Previously, she specialised in non-fiction inspirational self-help books but she now focuses on family sa...
Hijackals, Conflict and Tough Conversations. Guest: Charmaine Hammond
January 03, 2018 02:00 - 57 minutes - 53 MBEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor Guest: Charmaine Hammond, Communication, Collaboration, Conflict Resolution Expert More about Charmaine Hammond Charmaine Hammond, CSP, expert in communication, collaboration & conflict resolution has facilitated the resolution of some of the most complex workplace and family conflicts. She is a professional speaker, author and is passionate about building more kindness in workplaces, and c...
Stop the Toxic Dance and Recognize Hijackals® with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
December 26, 2017 15:00 - 58 minutesEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor Today's episode is all Dr. Shaler. She created the non-clinical term, Hijackals®, to give everyone a way to talk about the patterns, traits, and cycles of people with tendencies towards personality disorders. It's important to recognize when you're with a Hijackal. If you don't, you will think that everything in the relationship is your fault, because that's what the Hijackal tells you. You'...
Hijackals & Spirituality. Guest: Dr. Dennis Merritt-Jones
December 19, 2017 09:44 - 55 minutesEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor Guest, Dr. Dennis Merritt-Jones Intro - Hijackals, Power, and Spirituality Unconditional Love Can Be a Very Dangerous Myth with a Hijackal in Your Life GUEST: Dr. Dennis Merritt-Jones - Part 1 Becoming Who You Were Born to Be Dr. Dennis Merritt-Jones - Part 2 Spirituality is Not About Having Power Over People Dr. Rhoberta Shaler - Spirituality, Hijackals, and You. What To Do. About Den...
Recognizing Relationship Predators: Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
December 13, 2017 02:00 - 56 minutesHave You Become the Unwitting Prey of a HIjackal® Predator? SEG 2 - Jan: I Knew Better But I Married Him Anyway SEG 3 - Hijackals are Predators - Pt 1. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler SEG 4 - Hijackals are Predators - Pt 2 Dr. Rhoberta Shaler SEG 5 - Dating Red Flags That Mean Long-Term Relationship Trouble CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler YouTube: You...
Co-Parenting and Keeping Your Sanity. Guest: Karen Covy
December 06, 2017 02:00 - 57 minutesEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor Guest, Karen Covy - Divorcing A Hijackal® When Children Are Involved Karen Covy, divorce adviser, attorney, coach. It is imperative to know how to divorce a difficult person, a Hijackal, a toxic person. It is a different approach with different preparation. You have to know how to present things effectively to your attorney, and how to present yourself in court. SO much to know. That's the g...
How to See Red Flags of Dating Disasters Guest: Lorna Poole
November 28, 2017 14:00 - 58 minutesEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor Guest, Lorna Poole - Going from Dating Disaster to Finding Long-Time Love How's Your Dating Radar? Dr. Rhoberta Shaler helps you see why you may be missing red flags Guest, Dating Coach Lorna Poole, talks candidly how dating disasters woke her up to what she really wanted and how she found long-time love and what it took to get it. More about Lorna Poole She is the Founder & CEO of Lorna ...
Hijackals at Work: Workplace Bullying. Guest: Judy Hoberman
November 22, 2017 02:00 - 50 minutesEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor GUEST: Judy Hoberman, author of Walking on the Glass Floor on Workplace Bullying Workplace bullying is a top cause of stress, and a leading cause of quitting. It creates a hostile and toxic environment, often because the bullies are allowed to get away with their behavior. In this episode we discuss how to effectively deal with these types of people in your workplace, so you can get on with...
Hooked on Hope & Hijackals. Guest: Shirlene Reeves
November 14, 2017 14:00 - 54 minutesSeg 1 - Intro - Hooked on Hope & Hijackals Seg 2 - Verbal Abuse is Too Common Seg 3 - Shirlene Reeves Part 1 - How Hijackals Changed My Life Seg 4 - Shirlene Reeves Part 2 - How I left. What I learned. Being Hijackal-free. Seg 5 - Too much drama More about Shirlene Reeves Shirlene Reeves, one of only 253 Certified Financial Educators in the US, a web TV show host and a syndicated radio host on BBS Radio, publisher of Wealthy Woman Magazine and the author of Selling Through Your Heart -...
Signs of Abuse. Guest: Dr. Lee Baucom
November 07, 2017 14:00 - 57 minutesHow do you know if you're actually experiencing verbal abuse? What can you do to stop it? How best to respond? GUEST: Dr. Lee Baucom, creator of the Save The Marriage System. We'll discuss when and what marriages can be saved, and how to know when it's time to part ways. More about Dr. Lee Baucom: Dr. Lee Baucom is the creator of the internet marriage program, Save The Marriage. Dr. Baucom has over a quarter of a century of experience helping couples and individuals learn to thrive. Dr. B...
Difficult or Dangerous? Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
November 01, 2017 01:00 - 54 minutesEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor A new season begins! New format, new guests! Seg 1 - 6 minutes Intro to Episode Seg 2 - Q & A Filed for Divorce Seg 3 - What's up? Power in Positions - Harvey Weinstein Seg 4 - Is Your Relationship Difficult or Dangerous? Seg 5 - Have You Given Up Your Boundaries? CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor Twitter: Twitter.com/...
Trauma-Bonding. What and How. Guest: Dr. Gary Salyer
October 25, 2017 18:00 - 55 minutesAre you so attached to someone that you are "hooked on hope" that one day they will treat you better? Today, we talk about trauma-bonding and why you need to know about it. Guest, Dr. Gary Salyer, talks about the six rights you have in life, and how having or not having them will make all the difference in creating healthy relationships. Dr. Salyer is the author of Safe to Love Again, a book you absolutely need if you've ever been deeply hurt by a relationship. More about Dr. Gary Salyer ...
Are You Emotionally Safe? Guest, Antia Boyd
October 18, 2017 18:00 - 54 minutesAre you emotionally safe in your relationships? You may not have been, even with your parents. In this episode, Dr. Shaler talks about how to recognize and create emotional safety. Guest, Antia Boyd, of MagnetizeTheMan.com emphasizes that the ability--and safety--to be vulnerable in your primary relationship is paramount. Don't miss this. More about Antia Boyd Antia Boyd struggled for years with fear, wasting time and attracting emotionally unavailable men before she finally broke throug...
Building Self Confidence - Guest Betsy Chasse
October 11, 2017 18:00 - 56 minutesWould you like to feel more self-confident? Able to speak up and show up as strong and empowered? Today's show is all about the how-to's for that. Guest, Betsy Chasse, embodies an empowered life. An award-winning filmmaker, author, and entrepreneur, Betsy openly shares the ups and downs she's experienced and how she boldly treads forward...confidently. More about Betsy Chasse Betsy is an award winning filmmaker (What The Bleep Do We Know?!, Song of The New Earth, Pregnant In America) and ...
Perils of the People Pleaser Guest: Filippo Voltaggio
October 04, 2017 18:00 - 56 minutesDo you notice that you feel somehow obligated to meet the needs of other people? Why is that? In this episode, we talk about that, and my guest, Filippo Voltaggio, talks about why some people find it so difficult to say "No." Recognizing that, as an adult, you can choose to change your mindsets and patterns, he talks about his work, The Recalibration. More about Filippo Voltaggio Filippo's work as a Life Coach, Speaker, Author, Workshop Creator and Leader, and as Host of The LIFE CHANGES ...
Is OK Great Enough? Guest: Johnathan Mitchell
September 27, 2017 18:00 - 55 minutesDo you feel good about yourself? Are you OK with where you are in life? Or, have you been caught up in the endless push to be more, do more, have more? Where did you learn this? Guest, Jonathan Mitchell, talks about unleashing greatness within yourself. Is it a must, a push, a realistic expectation? Or, is it hype? Listen in. More about Jonathan Mitchell Jonathan is a certified life, success, and emotional health mentor. He is also an award winning songwriter, singer, and producer with hi...
Compassionate Communication. Guest: Laura Jack
September 20, 2017 01:00 - 55 minutesEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor Guest: Laura Jack, author of The Compassion Code Were you ever told to "be nice" or to "play nicely?" Any chance that turned into negating what you wanted in order to make other people happy? This show focuses on what you may be losing in life if you're still following that early "Be nice!" admonition. Guest, Laura Jack, author of The Compassion Code, joins in to discuss the distinctions...
The Need for Intimacy Guest: Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey
September 13, 2017 18:00 - 55 minutesTo keep yourself safe in any relationship it is SO important to know yourself, your values, needs, and wants, so well that you can set and maintain strong boundaries. That means you have to be assertive. Today, we talked about what it means to have and manage sexual boundaries with guest, Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey, from London, UK. A sex and intimacy coach, Dr. Lori had some very interesting insights on how to get across what's all right with you and to be clear about what's not! More about Dr....
Why Focus Matters in Relationships Guest: Laura Rubinstein
September 06, 2017 18:00 - 54 minutesDr. Rhoberta Shaler, host of The Relationship Help Show, wrote a book, What You Pay Attention To Expands. She helps you to look at your thought habits, and how they help or hinder. Guest, Laura Rubinstein, a hypnotherapist and Social Media Maven, provides insights into why it matters so much where you are placing your energy, time, and focus and about what you might be doing that you don't know you're doing and how it's secretly getting in your way. More about Laura Rubinstein Laura Rubin...
Teens: Finding the Joy, Facing the Challenges Guest: Donovan Dreyer
August 23, 2017 18:00 - 56 minutesDid you have a trying time raising teens? Maybe, you're doing it right now. Teen's brains are still developing, and we often don't understand what that means. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler helps you know what it means for teens to "have no remote." Guest, Donovan Dreyer, creator of the Solving Our Stress tool, shows why we need different approaches to talking with teens, and how to help them articulate the stresses they are under. More about Donovan Dreyer High School Counselor Coach of The Teen T...
How do you know that it's actually abuse? Guest: Susan Ball
August 16, 2017 18:00 - 55 minutesAbuse is a strong word. Too many people don't want to recognize that that is what is going on in their relationships. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler shares ways you can know if what's really going on in your relationship is abusive. Guest, Susan Ball, author of Courage & Grace, helps women heal from divorce and toxic relationships. A very candid discussion of what it feels like to be in an emotionally abusive relationship, and what it takes to get out of one. More about Susan Ball Susan Ball is the ...
How Hijackals Evade Your Radar Guest: Michelle Ann Owens
August 09, 2017 18:00 - 55 minutesYou can be unwittingly attracted to a person who will repeatedly hurt you. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler calls these folks "Hijackals™." They are relentlessly difficult people who are their worst at home or in their romantic relationships. Hijackals are attracted by people who accept their self-focused behaviors, and even take the blame for them. This is cycle of destruction that needs to stop. Listen in as my guest, Michelle Ann Owens, opens up about her relationship with a Hijackal, and we candidly...
Settling? or Finding Ideal Partner? Guest: Lori Peters
August 02, 2017 18:00 - 55 minutesNo one wants to "settle" in a relationship. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler talks about dating expectations and the consequences of having too few or too many. Guest, Lori Peters, creator of the Happiness Hangout show, shares her story of looking for Mr. Right and what happened that took so long to find him. Lori got married just shortly before the show. It all worked out. Listen in. More about Lori Peters Lori Peters is a writer who has been published and featured in several media outlets including ...
Divorcing a Difficult Person Guest: Karen Covy
July 26, 2017 18:00 - 55 minutesDivorcing is never easy, even when it's not hard. But when you're divorcing a Hijackal®, it can feel particularly crazy-making. This episode will help those thinking about or facing divorce, so that they can get through their divorce with less destruction. Guest, Dr. Karen Covy, an experienced divorce coach, and Dr. Rhoberta Shaler talk about everything from co-parenting to dating in your post-divorce world. More about Karen Covy I help people get through their divorce with dignity and co...