"The Dedan Tolbert Show" - The Original Urban Podcast artwork

"The Dedan Tolbert Show" - The Original Urban Podcast

334 episodes - English - Latest episode: 4 months ago - ★★★ - 35 ratings

Whether it's relationship advice, politics, combating social injustice, spirituality or many other provocative topics... for over 15 years, "The Dedan Tolbert Show" has provided the realest form of talk radio while encouraging change and self reflection from a Christian perspective. Hosted by Life Coach, Author and Advice columnist, Dedan Tolbert, "The Dedan Tolbert Show" is one of the original urban podcasts, trailblazing the way for a new generation of self expression.
For more information about Dedan Tolbert and his life coaching services, please visit TrcLifeCoaching.com

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Episodes

"When a Man Loves a Woman"

May 24, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 161 MB

When a man truly loves a woman, there's NOTHING he wouldn't do for her and nothing can stop him from being with her. Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a classic rebroadcast of our special on "When a Man Loves a Woman", where we discussed exactly how to know when a man loves you and views you as the woman he's going to spend the rest of his life with. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... "REAL Radio that Ma...

"Sexting: America's Dirty Little Secret"

May 23, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 119 MB

Did you miss last year's special on “SEXTING: America's Dirty Little Secret", where we discussed cell phone 'home movies', naked pics, seductive forms of flirting and the effect it has on dating and relationships? If so, tune into “The BEST Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... “Real Radio that Matters”.

"Hollywoods Definition of Beauty"

May 22, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 144 MB

Did you miss our special on “Hollywood’s Definition of Beauty”, Beyonce being named Time Magazine’s Most Influential Person, Lupita Nyong’o being named People Magazine’s Most Beautiful Woman, how men feel about women with weaves, tattoos, piercings and relaxed hair vs natural hair? If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or listen online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... "REAL Radio that M...

"Class vs Ass: The True Definition of Beauty:

May 21, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 114 MB

Did you miss last year's special on "Class vs Ass: Spring Fashion Do's & Don'ts", where we discussed exactly what being a beautiful, respectable and classy woman is all about and how men view women who do things like: twerk, make duck faces, play sexual games, flirt and have sex on the first night? If so, tune into "The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com...

"The Return of Ask Dedan Advice Hour"- LIVE 3 Hour Extravaganza!

May 20, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 140 MB

  “The Dedan Tolbert Show” is back LIVE TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST, with “Ask Dedan Advice Hour”, where we’ll be answering all your dating & relationship advice questions, as well as discussing popular “What’s Going on in The World Topics” like: Dr Umar Johnson’s controversial views on homosexuality, Obama’s gay/transgender agenda, the state of young black youth and what can be done to reach them, Diddy opening a charter school in Harlem, Donald Trump’s interview with rival Megyn Kelly, Steve Har...

"Remembering the Dream: Annual MLK Special"

May 19, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 80 MB

Did you miss our 4th annual “Remembering the Dream MLK Special” where we discussed: The true meaning of Dr. King’s dream, how Rev King would feel about the state of black entertainment with television shows like Empire, Scandal, Love & Hip Hop, and entertainers like Beyonce and Nikki Minaj? To hear our discussion on topics like: Sorority Sisters, my views on Greek Life as a whole, the lack of great black leaders, ridiculous comparisons to Barack Obama and Martin Luther King, “Madea” being mor...

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

May 18, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 147 MB

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

"The BEST of Ask Dedan Advice Mondays"

May 17, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 109 MB

"The BEST of Ask Dedan Advice Mondays"

"The BEST of Between Brothers"

May 16, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 134 MB

"The BEST of Between Brothers"

"The Definition of a High Maintenance Woman"

May 15, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 93.6 MB

Gucci, Louis, Prada everything….Hair and nails done every week…Luxury vehicle, exotic vacations several times a year etc….These are all great examples of the types of women that men looking for wives stay FAR away from. Tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of our special on “The Definition of a High Maintenance Woman”, where we discussed exactly what type of women the best men seek and the type of women who would be our worst nightmare. Listen to “The Ded...

"Becky With the Good Hair: How to Avoid Getting Cheated On" --LIVE SPECIAL!

May 14, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 166 MB

  “Keeping it Real Fridays” on “The Dedan Tolbert Show” returns LIVE TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST to discuss “Becky With the Good Hair: How to Avoid Getting Cheated On”… To also hear popular “What’s Going on in the World” topics, including: The controversy surrounding the racist remarks about Malia Obama going to Harvard, Donald Trump being the presumptive Republican nominee and media propaganda surrounding it, The Met Gala, Barack Obama’s speech at The White House Correspondence Dinner, Janet Jack...

"How to Know When You're Dealing With a Man in the Dog Stage"

May 13, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 123 MB

"How to Know When You're Dealing With a Man in the Dog Stage"

"How To Avoid Dealing With a Man in the Player Stage"

May 12, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 119 MB

Did you miss my special on “How to Identify and Avoid dealing With a Man in the ‘Player Stage’, where we discussed celebrity players like LIL Scrappy, Peter Gunz and Stevie J, as well as the number one signs to know if you’re being strung along/ used for sex? To hear the advice that’ll guarantee you’ll never have to deal with a man who’s “afraid of commitment”, tune into "The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST by calling 646 200 0366 or listening online worldwide at www.ded...

"Interacial Dating: Why Black Men are Dating White Women"

May 11, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 83.2 MB

Once being viewed as taboo... in 2016, Interracial Dating has become socially acceptable and in many parts of the black community, the preferred method of dating and finding love. Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of my special on "Interracial Dating...The REAL Reasons So Many Professional Black Men are Turning to White Women". To hear one of my most controversial shows of all time, call 646 200 0366 or listen 7 nights a week at www.dedantolbertshow.co...

"The BEST of Ask Dedan Advice Mondays"

May 10, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

"The BEST of Ask Dedan Advice Mondays"

"How to Go From Being a Single Mom to a Happy Wife"

May 09, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

Did you miss our special on "How to Go From Being a Single Mom...to a Happy Wife", where we discussed: how women who have multiple children with multiple men can still end up being found by the man that God has for them, the concerns that many men have with dealing with a single mother, how to eliminate baby mama drama, dealing with deadbeat dads and MANY other topics? If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling ...

"Decoding Illuminati Symbolism: MTV Awards Special"

May 08, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 153 MB

Whether it’s TV, politics, sports or movies… literally everywhere you look, you’re guaranteed to see clear and blatant demonic and satanic symbolism. When it comes to the “Illuminati”, you’ve heard the name….now tonight on “The Dedan Tolbert Show”, you’re gonna learn the meaning. Please join us tonight at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of our annual “Post MTV Video Music Awards Recap Special”, where we focused on “Decoding Illuminati Symbolism: Understanding Demonic/Satanic Symbolism”. The Bibl...

"The World vs the Word: What Do You Stand For?"

May 07, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 131 MB

Just like in the days of Adam and Eve, we've all been blessed abundantly and have the opportunity to experience the joys of living a life for Christ...Unfortunately, with all blessings, comes the temptations of the world. Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of my special on Psalms 1: 1-3 where we discussed "Who and What Do You Stand For...The World or the WORD?"...To hear us discuss the importance of distancing yourself from people and things of the worl...

"How to Know Beyond a Shadow of Doubt When a Man is in Love With You"

May 06, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 161 MB

When it comes to dating and relationships, it's become harder and harder for women to know when a man truly loves and wants a future with them... as opposed to just desiring them in a purely sexual manner. Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST as we discuss "How to Know Beyond a Shadow of a Doubt When a Man is in LOVE With You". Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or listen online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com #rrtm

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk LIVE"

May 05, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk LIVE"

"What Do Black Women Want in a Man?"

May 04, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

Did you miss our special on “What do Black Women Want in a Man?”, where we discussed: Jeremy Meeks and the REAL reasons many women end up having their hearts broken by sexual and emotional predators, Kerry Washington, the Obamas allowing their kids to listen to Jay Z and Beyonce, the United States impending war with Russia, Michelle Williams' new gospel song with Beyonce & Kelly Rowland, the difference between a real relationship and a situation, the new James Brown movie, and MANY other topi...

"Flawless: The True Definition of Beauty"

May 03, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

Did you miss our recent special on "Flawless: The REAL Definition of Beauty" on “The Dedan Tolbert Show” where we discussed how the hypocrisy of artists like Beyonce and Nicky Minaj have a huge effect on impressionable young girls who struggle with self esteem issues, police brutality, and MANY other topics? If so, tune into a special rebroadcast tonight at 9:00pm EST by calling 646 200 0366 or listen online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... “Real Radio that Matters for over 10 Years”.

"The BEST of Between Brothers"

May 02, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 89.4 MB

"The BEST of Between Brothers"

"The BEST of Saturday Night LIVE"

May 01, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 164 MB

"The BEST of Saturday Night LIVE"

"Keeping it Real Fridays: LEMONADE"... LIVE SPECIAL!

April 30, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 166 MB

“Keeping it Real Fridays” on “The Dedan Tolbert Show” returned LIVE last night where we discussed Beyoncé’s new album, “Lemonade” and the negative effect its having on young women around the world...To hear us also discuss popular “What’s Going on in the World” topics like: Birdman confronting the Breakfast Club, the real reason for Yolanda Adams morning show being cancelled, updates on the “death” of Prince, Hillary Clinton & Donald Trump’s huge victories in this week’s primarys, “Ask Dedan...

"Ask Dedan Advice Hour: Women Who Date Multiple Men"

April 29, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 134 MB

According to many self proclaimed relationship "experts", it's a good idea for women to date multiple men to increase their chances of finding love...when in reality, that advice keeps most women single indefinitely. Tune into a special LIVE "Ask Dedan" Advice Edition of "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST as we discuss "The Consequences of Dating Multiple Men", as well as answer ALL of YOUR dating and relationship advice questions. Call in with questions/comments LIVE at 646 200 0...

"The Top 10 Ways to Find LOVE"-two night special

April 28, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

When it comes to finding LOVE from a Biblical perspective, there are very specific things you absolutely must do …and certain things that should never be done. Tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST, for a rebroadcast of our classic Two Night 6 Hour special on “The 10 Steps to Both Women & Men Finding LOVE”. To hear an in depth breakdown of many destructive behaviors that often prolong the search for true happiness, and a step by step guide of exactly what to do to have love...

"Race Relations in America"-Special Rebroadcast

April 27, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 128 MB

Did you miss my classic special on “Race Relations in America” on “The Dedan Tolbert Show”, where we discussed many of the REAL issues plaguing the black community like: gang violence, the public school system, the breakdown of the black family, parents not caring that their child can only read and speak at 5th grade level, 13 year old girls twerking, having sex and ultimately getting pregnant, 10 year old drug dealers/killers, and MANY other issues we as a community need to stop ignoring? To...

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk LIVE"

April 26, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 133 MB

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk LIVE"

"The BEST of Between Brothers"

April 25, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 91.8 MB

Whether it’s our jobs, financial situation, relationship status or family issues… We’ve ALL been guilty of unnecessary COMPLAINING. “Between Brothers” on “The Dedan Tolbert Show” tonight at 9:00pm EST where we'll take an in depth look at the Book of Numbers and discuss how God viewed and punished the Israelites for complaining, being ungrateful and unappreciative of their blessings. To hear Minister Oshal High and I dissect what the Word says about the importance of being joyful at all times ...

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

April 24, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 126 MB

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

"Keeping it Real Fridays: LIVE Prince Special"

April 23, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 153 MB

“Keeping it Real Fridays” on “The Dedan Tolbert Show” returns LIVE TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST, where we’ll be discussing: the mysterious death of pop icon Prince, the latest updates with the race for the White House, our “rigged political system” and what that really means, violence in the black community and what can be done to put a stop to it, the effects of friends with benefits, trust in dating/relationships, RHOA: Cynthia Bailey vs Peter and how I predicted their impending divorce 5 years ag...

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

April 22, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 146 MB

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

”BET Awards Recap Special"

April 21, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 162 MB

Did you miss last year's classic Post Fourth of July "Ask Dedan" Special, where we discussed: the BET Awards, T.I./Tiny/Floyd Mayweather and the importance of respecting your mate, how to know when you’re being string along, the difference between sexy and hoeish summer attire, thirsty men with nothing better to do than give insecure women compliments on Instagram, the Beyonce & Jay Z On the Run tour, and MANY other topics? If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a...

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

April 20, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 134 MB

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

"Betrayal: What's OK and not OK in Relationships"

April 19, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 150 MB

Did you know that lusting after someone based on their physical “attributes” is the same as committing adultery in God’s eyes? If you missed last year's classic episode of “The Dedan Tolbert Show” where we discussed “Betrayal…What’s OK and not OK in relationships”, listening to the archives is essential if you hope to one day have real love. To hear an in depth analyzation of the things that are absolutely unforgivable to men while in relationships, how God viewed and punished women in the Ol...

"Think Like a Man Too"

April 18, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour

Did you miss our recent special on the hit film "Think Like a Man Too", where we did an in depth analyzation of each character and how they epitomize many of the dating and relationship issues commonly found in today's society? If so, tune into a special rebroadcast TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... "REAL Radio that Matters."

"How to Avoid Dealing With a Man in the Dog Stage"

April 17, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours

When it comes to LOVE, every woman dreams of one day walking down the aisle with that special man..Unfortunately, when it comes to SEX, every man goes through a dog stage where he'll say and do just about anything to get it. Tune into "Barbershop Shop Talk" on "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST as our all star panel of professional men will you exactly "How to Know if You're Dealing With a Man in the DOG Stage". Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or listen online at ww...

"How to Go From a Single Mom to a Happy Wife"

April 16, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours

Did you miss out special on "How to Go From Being a Single Mom...to a Happy Wife", where we discussed: how women who have multiple children with multiple men can still end up being found by the man that God has for them, the concerns that many men have with dealing with a single mother, how to eliminate baby mama drama, dealing with deadbeat dads and MANY other topics? If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling ...

"The Best of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

April 15, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours

"The Best of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

"Aliens, Demons,Giants & What the Bible Says About Them"

April 14, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours

Did you miss last year's classic special on "Aliens", "Ufo's", "Giants", "Zombies" and what the BIBLE says about them? If so, tune into "The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of one of my most provocative and informative shows ever. To hear Minister Oshal High and I discuss government cover ups, its origins in satanism and the occult...call 646 200 0366 or listen 7 nights a week online at www.dedantolbertshow.com..."REAL Radio that Matters "......... Plea...

"How to Avoid Getting Placed in the FRIEND ZONE"

April 13, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours

Did you miss our classic special on “How to Avoid Being Put into the Friend Zone”, where we discussed: the effect ‘entertainers’ like Beyonce are having on impressionable young black women, exactly why men target some women for sex, what men look for in a wife vs a booty call, Scandal and why it’s so popular in the black community, what black fathers can do to protect our young women, how God says you should deal with being cheated on, and MANY other issues? If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolber...

"Marrying the Game: Why Good Girls Like Hood Guys"

April 12, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours

VH1's hit reality show "Marrying the Game" from a few years ago was a great example of how many "good girls" fall in love with "bad boys", get their hearts broken, and remain emotionally scarred to the point where they're never found by Mr. Right. Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of our discussion on Jayceon and Tiffany's relationship and why it was destined for disaster. Listen by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com.....

"Between Brothers: Blocking your Blessing with SEX"

April 11, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour

The Bible says that God will not keep anything from His people who love Him….That being said, we often block our blessings with sin…specifically the sin of SEX. Tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” LIVE TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST as we discuss Chapter 25 of The Book of Numbers, in regards to how the Israelites allowed SEX and LUST to bring about God’s wrath and how we often do the same exact things when dating and in relationships. To hear one of the realest shows ever, call 646 200 0366 or listen ...

"Saturday Night LIVE: Are Black Women's Standards too High?"

April 10, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours

“Saturday Night LIVE” on “The Dedan Tolbert show” returns LIVE TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST where we’ll be discussing: Whether or not single, successful Black women have set their standards too high when it comes to dating and relationships, popular What’s Going on in the World topics like: The season premiere of Love & Hip Hop Atlanta, a review of the box office smash Batman vs Superman, Bill Clinton fighting with Black Lives Matter supporters, the ongoing legislative debate on transgender rights,...

"The BEST of Keeping it Real Fridays"

April 09, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours

"The BEST of Keeping it Real Fridays"

"The BEST of Keeping it Real Fridays"

April 09, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours

"The BEST of Keeping it Real Fridays"

"The Best of Barbershop Talk: Recognizing a Mans Potential"

April 08, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours

Did you miss Barbershop Talk LIVE on “The Dedan Tolbert Show” where my panel of some of the realest men in the country discussed “The Importance of Recognizing a Man’s Potential”? To hear us discuss exactly what happens when you only date men “on your level”, as well as the most important thing a woman can do on a first date to make a man view you as his future wife, tune into a rebroadcast tonight at 9:00pm EST by calling 646 200 0366 or listen online 7 nights a week at www.dedantolbertshow....

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

April 07, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

"Remembering the Dream: Annual MLK Special"- rebroadcast

April 06, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour

Along the way to becoming one of the greatest leaders the world has ever known, Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King marched, fought and ultimately died for our right to have freedom, equality and respect. Unfortunately, with the popularity of buffoonish shows television shows like: Love & Hip Hop, Empire, & Scandal…along with no class but a lot of ass entertainers like: Beyonce and Nicky Minaj…. It’s become evident that society will never respect us because we’re not respecting ourselves. Please ...

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