"The Dedan Tolbert Show" - The Original Urban Podcast artwork

"The Dedan Tolbert Show" - The Original Urban Podcast

334 episodes - English - Latest episode: 4 months ago - ★★★ - 35 ratings

Whether it's relationship advice, politics, combating social injustice, spirituality or many other provocative topics... for over 15 years, "The Dedan Tolbert Show" has provided the realest form of talk radio while encouraging change and self reflection from a Christian perspective. Hosted by Life Coach, Author and Advice columnist, Dedan Tolbert, "The Dedan Tolbert Show" is one of the original urban podcasts, trailblazing the way for a new generation of self expression.
For more information about Dedan Tolbert and his life coaching services, please visit TrcLifeCoaching.com

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Episodes

"How to Avoid Being Placed in the FRIEND ZONE"

September 02, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 147 MB

Did you miss last year's all time classic special on “How to Avoid Being Put into the Friend Zone” where we discussed the effect ‘entertainers’ like Beyonce are having on impressionable young black women, why men target women for sex, what men look for in a wife vs a booty call, Scandal and why it’s so popular in the black community, what black men can do to protect our young women, how God says you should deal with being cheated on, and MANY other issues? If so, tune into "The BEST of The De...

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

September 01, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 163 MB

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

"Decoding Illuminati Symbolism: Post MTV Awards Special"

August 31, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 153 MB

Did you miss our annual Post MTV VMA Special, where we discussed "Decoding Illuminati Symbolism" and how to recognize demonic and satanic imagery in sports, television, movies and politics? If you've ever wondered exactly what "worshiping the devil" really means and what the Bible says about your favorite celebrities that do it every chance they get, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online wor...

Season 11 Fall Premier... LIVE 3 Hour Ask Dedan Advice Advice Lunch Hour!

August 29, 2016 16:00 - 2 hours - 134 MB

  “The Dedan Tolbert Show” returns LIVE TODAY at 12:00pm EST with the Season 11 Fall Premier, where I’ll be discussing many topics including: The 2016 Summer Olympics in Rio, Ryan Lochte’s lies, Gabby Douglas and her hair haters… Popular What’s Going on in the World Topics like: Nate Parker’s rape allegations affecting the release of his film, Hillary Clinton’s lies and corruption vs Donald Trump’s unpredictability, #mediapropaganda,  the death of Korryn Gaines, Race Relations in America, Bl...

"The BEST of Between Brothers"

August 29, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 150 MB

"The BEST of Between Brothers"

"Bad Bitches vs Beautiful Women"

August 28, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 161 MB

Unfortunately, in today’s society, it’s become both politically and socially acceptable for women not to carry themselves with respect by engaging in morally reprehensible, sexual/adulterous behavior. Not only is this trend affecting adults…but its spread to our young women, who have no clear and defined role models. Please join me on “The Best of The Dedan Tolbert Show” tonight at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of my special on “Bad Bitches vs Beautiful Women”, where we’ll address this epidemi...

"The Difference Between a BOO & a BOYFRIEND"

August 27, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 108 MB

Although often mistaken as being one in the same, there's a significant difference between a man viewing you as his future wife and you just being someone cool to "chill" with. Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of my special on "The Difference Between a 'BOO' and a 'BOYFRIEND'. To hear the signs that will indicate you're being viewed as his Friday night booty call and how to avoid being strung along indefinitely, listen 7 nights a week, 365 days a year...

"Dating 101: 1st Date Do's & Don'ts"

August 26, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

Did you miss my classic special on "Dating 101: 1st Date Do's and Don'ts"? If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... "REAL Radio that Matters for Over 10 Years".

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

August 25, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 146 MB

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

"The Definition of a Truly Loyal & Supportive Woman"

August 24, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 133 MB

When it comes to finding a wife, men look for many qualities…but none are more important than LOYALTY. Tune into “The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show” tonight at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of my special on “These 'Girls' Ain't Loyal: The Definition of a Truly Supportive Woman”. To hear an in depth analyzation of exactly what red flags are most common when dating and how to recognize the difference between you just being cool to chill with and a man planning on spending the rest of his life ...

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

August 23, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 122 MB

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

"The BEST OF THE DEDAN TOLBERT SHOW"

August 22, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 96.7 MB

"The BEST OF THE DEDAN TOLBERT SHOW"

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

August 21, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 128 MB

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

"Being a Black Man in White America"

August 20, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 152 MB

Whether it’s being targeted by overzealous, racist police officers, discriminatory supervisors in the workplace, ignorant "niggas" looking to rob/kill us in the streets, white women clutching their purses when passing by, or our ancestors being kidnapped, lynched and enslaved…Historically, black men have always had to work twice as hard to get just as far as other races. To hear a rebroadcast of our special on ""Being a BLACK Man in WHITE America", tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT a...

"Is Chivalry Dead?"

August 19, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 128 MB

Opening car doors, showing up with flowers, removing hats when entering a room, love letters and poems are just a few things a woman can expect from a man who’s passionate about building a future with you. Unfortunately, in today’s society, men who were raised with the knowledge of how to treat a woman are few and far between. Tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of our special on “Is Chivalry Dead?” Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or liste...

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

August 18, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

August 17, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 129 MB

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

"How to Avoid Being Targeted for SEX"

August 16, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 138 MB

When it comes to sex, the media has been known to glamorize various sexual fantasies involving multiple individuals, often labeling them as a “ménage trois”, or a “threesome”….When in reality, anything involving two men and a woman is nothing more than a “train” being ran. If you missed one of the realest “Keeping it Real Fridays” ever, where we discussed the definition of a train and the signs that will indicate when a man is attempting to set you up for one... tune into "The Dedan Tolbert S...

"The BEST of Between Brothers"

August 15, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 89.4 MB

"The BEST of Between Brothers"

"The BEST of Saturday Night LIVE"

August 14, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 141 MB

"The BEST of Saturday Night LIVE"

"Generational Curses and How to Identify/Overcome Them"

August 13, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 164 MB

  Did you miss our all time classic special on “Identifying, Understanding and Breaking Generational Curses, where we took an in depth look at The Book of Deuteronomy Chapter 28 and exactly what it says about how those who fail to obey His word will be cursed? To also hear us discuss: how to keep your children for paying for your past sins and the sins of your parents/grandparents, tune into a "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by...

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

August 12, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 146 MB

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

"Barbershop Talk: Saved but Still Having SEX"

August 11, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

"Barbershop Talk: Saved but Still Having SEX"

"How to Avoid Dealing With a No Good Bastard"

August 10, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 155 MB

A husband cheating with his wife’s best friend, fathers who haven’t seen/spoken to their kids in years, abusers, liars, and dogs are just a few examples of the worst possible types of men, who find ways of weaseling their way into the lives of unsuspecting women…Tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST, for a rebroadcast of my special on “How to Avoid Dealing With Low Down Dirty Bastards in 2014”. To hear the last live show we did before Christmas, where we discussed exactly h...

"When a Man Loves a Woman"

August 09, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 161 MB

"When a Man Loves a Woman"

"How to Avoid Being Placed in the Friend Zone"

August 08, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 147 MB

Did you miss our classic special on “How to Avoid Being Put into the Friend Zone”, where we discussed: the effect ‘entertainers’ like Beyonce are having on impressionable young black women, exactly why men target some women for sex, what men look for in a wife vs a booty call, Scandal and why it’s so popular in the black community, what black fathers can do to protect our young women, how God says you should deal with being cheated on, and MANY other issues? If so, tune into "The BEST of The ...

"Why He'll Hit..but Won't Commit"

August 07, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 137 MB

Many men claim to want a future with you...but in reality, only wanna smash. Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of my classic special on "Why He'll Hit...but Won't Commit." To hear all the signs and red flags that indicate you're being used for sex and how to avoid that type of behavior, call 646 200 0366 or listen online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com. "Real Radio that Matters".

"The BEST of Keeping it Real Fridays"

August 06, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 92.6 MB

"The BEST of Keeping it Real Fridays"

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

August 05, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

August 04, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 161 MB

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

August 03, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 164 MB

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

"Why Am I STILL Single???".... LIVE.... Ask Dedan LUNCH HOUR!

August 01, 2016 16:00 - 2 hours - 122 MB

  At 21, it feels like you have the rest of your life to find love, get married and have children… But at 31…or 41, that’s often not the case and a fear of being alone forever beings to kick in. “Ask Dedan Lunch Hour” on “The Dedan Tolbert Show” returns LIVE TODAY at 12:00pm EST where I’ll be discussing “Why Am I STILL Single???” To hear many of the emotional, spiritual and often sexual causes for not being able to find love, call 646 200 0366 or listen LIVE online worldwide at www.dedantol...

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

August 01, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 130 MB

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

"Reality TV: Entertainment or Destruction of the Black Community?"

July 31, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 128 MB

While very scripted and often downright fake… reality television has the vast majority of America glued to their television sets every week. If you’ve ever watched certain aspects of your life played out on the small screen, tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” tonight at 9:00pm EST as we discuss popular reality TV shows like: the Kardashians, T.I. and Tiny, Love & Hip Hop, Marrying the Game, Real Housewives of Atlanta and MANY others, in hopes of educating the masses on the importance striving...

"The LIVE Return of Ask Dedan Lunch Hour"- Talking Politics...RNC vs DNC 2016

July 29, 2016 16:00 - 2 hours - 146 MB

  “The Dedan Tolbert Show” is LIVE TODAY at 12:00pm EST with the return of “Ask Dedan Lunch Hour”, where I’ll be discussing the all the political drama from the RNC and  DNC, including: Melania Trump “borrowing” Michelle Obama’s speech, Ted Cruz not speaking at the convention but not endorsing Trump, the leaked DNC emails proving how rigged the political system really is, Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama’s attacks on Donald Trump, Bernie Sanders selling out, Hillary’s support for racist Marg...

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

July 28, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 119 MB

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert"

July 27, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 152 MB

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert"

"How to Identify & Avoid Dealing With a Player"

July 26, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 119 MB

Whether it’s Lil Scrappy, Stevie J, or Peter Gunz aka Mr. Panky…Both reality TV and the real world are literally filled with fake wannabe players who prey on unsuspecting women. Tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST as we discuss “How to Spot a Player”, where we’ll reveal exactly how to recognize men in the “Player Stage” and avoid falling victim to their lies, games and manipulation. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online at www.dedantolbertshow.com... “R...

"Saving our Children: The Mike Brown Tragedy"

July 25, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 118 MB

Did you miss our recent special on "Saving OUR Children...The Michael Brown Tragedy", where we discussed REAL issues affecting the black community such as: police brutality, black on black crime, the judicial system and came up with REAL solutions for impacting our youth? If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com..."REAL Radio that Matters".

"Games Being Played in and Out Of The Bedroom"

July 24, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 163 MB

Did you miss last year's classic special on “SEX GAMES 2014”, where we discussed games being played in and out of the bedroom, how to avoid being targeted for sex, open relationships, the role fathers need to play in their daughters lives, Scandal, and MANY other issues? If so, tune into a special rebroadcast TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST. Listen to "The Dedan Tolbert Show" 7 nights a week, 365 days a year by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com..."REAL Radio that Matt...

"I've In Love With a Church Girl" --Classic Rebroadcast

July 23, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

  In today’s society, we’re seeing more and more self proclaimed “women of God/ virtuous women”, dating/having sex with thugs and known drug dealers. A great example of this trend is shown in the recent movie, “I’m in Love With a Church Girl”, starring Ja Rule. Tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” tonight at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of our in depth analyzation of the movie and a discussion on why so many women claim to live for the Lord, yet choose men who clearly aren’t doing so. Listen 7...

"The BEST of Ask Dedan: Interracial Dating"

July 22, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 122 MB

Once being viewed as taboo... in 2013, Interracial Dating has become socially acceptable and in many parts of the black community, the preferred method of dating and finding love. Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of my special on "Interracial Dating...The REAL Reasons So Many Professional Black Men are Turning to White Women". To hear one of my most controversial shows of all time, call 646 200 0366 or listen 7 nights a week at www.dedantolbertshow.co...

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

July 21, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

"Blocking Your Blessing With SEX"

July 20, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 80.1 MB

The Bible says that God will not keep anything from His people who love Him….That being said, we often block our blessings with sin…specifically the sin of SEX. Tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of our discussion on Chapter 25 of The Book of Numbers, in regards to how the Israelites allowed SEX and LUST to bring about God’s wrath and how we often do the same exact things when dating and in relationships. To hear one of our highest rated shows ever, cal...

"The BEST of Ask Dedan Advice Mondays"

July 19, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 128 MB

"The BEST of Ask Dedan Advice Mondays"

"Waiting for Your King: How to be Found by Your Husband"

July 18, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 151 MB

Unfortunately, many "entertainers" and society as a whole have convinced many women that it's ok to classify themselves as being "happily single"..when in fact, the Bible instructs women to do the exact opposite by actively working to be the best woman possible. Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of my special on "How to Prepare Yourself While Waiting to Be Found By Your King". To hear exactly what to do to virtually guarantee you'll be found by the man...

"The BEST of Saturday Night LIVE"

July 17, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 112 MB

"The BEST of Saturday Night LIVE"

"Virtuous vs Voluptuous: The Definition of a Proverbs 31 Woman"

July 16, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

In today’s society, many woman have achieved physical, financial, educational, and career success but the Bible teaches us that it takes much more to be considered a TRUE woman of God. Tune into “The Best of The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of my special on "Virtuous vs Voluptuous...The Definition of a Proverbs 31 Woman". To hear exactly what it means to be viewed as the BEST possible woman/future wife, listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online wo...

"Barbershop Talk: How to Love a Black Woman the Right Way"

July 15, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 128 MB

In today's society, far too often do we hear stories of women having their hearts broken by the liars, dogs, cheaters, manipulators and abusers of the world. It's time for you to hear from great men who are looking to love, cherish and respect our beautiful black queens. Tune into a special rebroadcast of "Barbershop Talk" on "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST, where my all star panel of professional black men will discussed "How to Love a Black Woman the RIGHT Way". Listen 7 nigh...

"Black Lives Matter vs All Lives Matter vs Blue Lives Matter"

July 14, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 116 MB

  “The Dedan Tolbert Show” is back LIVE TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST to continue the discussion on Race Relations in America. To hear my thoughts on the Black Lives Matter vs All Lives Matter movements, Bloods and Crips uniting in protest, the three young black men who were shot this week in Southwest Philadelphia and lack of media coverage/outrage surrounding them, Wendy Williams vs Roland Martin, The proposed boycott of Target & Coca Cola, Prayer vs Protest/ battle between good and evil… plus MAN...

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