"The Dedan Tolbert Show" - The Original Urban Podcast artwork

"The Dedan Tolbert Show" - The Original Urban Podcast

334 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 2 months ago - ★★★ - 35 ratings

Whether it's relationship advice, politics, combating social injustice, spirituality or many other provocative topics... for over 15 years, "The Dedan Tolbert Show" has provided the realest form of talk radio while encouraging change and self reflection from a Christian perspective. Hosted by Life Coach, Author and Advice columnist, Dedan Tolbert, "The Dedan Tolbert Show" is one of the original urban podcasts, trailblazing the way for a new generation of self expression.
For more information about Dedan Tolbert and his life coaching services, please visit TrcLifeCoaching.com

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Episodes

"Is Chivalry Dead in America?"

July 13, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 128 MB

Opening car doors, showing up with flowers, removing hats when entering a room, love letters and poems are just a few things a woman can expect from a man who’s passionate about building a future with you. Unfortunately, in today’s society, men who were raised with the knowledge of how to treat a woman are few and far between. Tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of our special on “Is Chivalry Dead in 2013?” Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 ...

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

July 12, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

July 11, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 109 MB

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

"Alton Sterling, Philando Castille, Dallas Shooting...BET AWARDS LIVE SPECIAL!"

July 10, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

  “The Dedan Tolbert Show” returns LIVE TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST with my annual BET Awards Recap Special, where I’ll be discussing many of the tragic events of the last few weeks including: deaths of Alton Sterling, Philando Castille, the Dallas Police Shooting, Jesse Williams empowering yet controversial speech about the black lives matter movement and calls for his firing from ABC, BET’s tribute to Prince, hidden messages in Beyonce’s opening performance, “black twitter” attacking Justin Timb...

"The BEST of Keeping it REAL FRIDAYS"

July 09, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 96.7 MB

"The BEST of Keeping it REAL FRIDAYS"

"Trayvon Martin: The Verdict"

July 08, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 159 MB

"Trayvon Martin: The Verdict"

"Hollywood's Portrayal of Black Women"

July 07, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 144 MB

Did you miss our special on “Hollywood’s Portrayal of Black Women”, Beyonce being named Time Magazine’s Most Influential Person, Lupita Nyong’o being named People Magazine’s Most Beautiful Woman, how men feel about women with weaves, tattoos, piercings and relaxed hair vs natural hair? If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or listen online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... "REAL Radio th...

"The BEST of Between Brothers"

July 06, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 91.8 MB

"The BEST of Between Brothers"

"The BEST of Between Brothers"

July 05, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 138 MB

"The BEST of Between Brothers"

"The BEST of Between Brothers"

July 04, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 89.4 MB

The BEST of "Between Brothers" on "The Dedan Tolbert Show" all WEEKEND starting tonight at 9pm! 646 200 0366 or www.dedantolbertshow.com

"Why Black America Hates Stacey Dash"

July 03, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 129 MB

Once viewed as everyone’s favorite “girl next door”, ever since announcing her support for Republican Presidential Candidate Mitt Romney and recently becoming a correspondent for Fox News, Stacey Dash has become not only the butt of insensitive political jokes, but excommunicated all together from the black community at large. If you missed our special on “Why the Black America Hates Stacey Dash”, as well as many other issues including: the life and death of Maya Angelou, the controversial vi...

"90 Day Rule: How Long is Too Long to Wait for SEX"

July 02, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 127 MB

Whether it’s Steve Harvey, Iyanla Vanzant, or many other self-proclaimed relationship “experts”… when it comes to SEX, there’s no shortage of bad advice that puts some form of time frame on how long a woman should make a man wait for intimacy. Please join me on “The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of my special on “The 90 Day Rule: How Long is too Long to Wait for SEX?” If you think that just because a man sticks around for 90 days, that means you’ve go...

"The Best of Ask Dedan Advice Hour"

July 01, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 119 MB

Did you miss our Post Mother’s Day special on “The Dedan Tolbert Show”, where we discussed the Solange vs Jay Z fiasco and Beyonce’s role (or lack thereof) , Michael Sam and America’s ‘gay agenda’, the kidnapped Nigerian girls, the divorce of Sherri Sheppard, Love & Hip Hop, “Christians” who take part in Astrology, my recent trip to California, and MANY other issues? If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 64...

"Identifying & Overcoming Generational Curses"

June 30, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 164 MB

Did you miss our all time classic special on “Identifying, Understanding and Breaking Generational Curses, where we took an in depth look at The Book of Deuteronomy Chapter 28 and exactly what it says about how those who fail to obey His word will be cursed? To also hear us discuss: how to keep your children for paying for your past sins and the sins of your parents/grandparents, tune into a "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by ca...

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

June 29, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 109 MB

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

"The BEST of Saturday Night Live"

June 28, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 162 MB

Did you miss an all time classic edition of "Saturday Night LIVE" on "The Dedan Tolbert Show", where we discussed how Iyanla attempted to fix the life of DMX, as well as MANY other topics? If so, tune in tonight at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com. "REAL Radio that Matters for Over 10 Years".

"Aftermath of the Orlando Massacre...LIVE Ask Dedan Advice Hour"

June 27, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 139 MB

  “The Dedan Tolbert Show” returns from its mid-summer hiatus LIVE TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST, where I’ll be discussing MANY topics including: the aftermath of the tragic Orlando Massacre, gun legislation, homosexuality/America’s gay agenda, Donald Trump vs Hillary Clinton, my recent interview with Dr. Umar Johnson, the Stanford rape case, the two year old killed by the alligator, Ayesha Curry’s allegations of the NBA being rigged, the death of Muhammed Ali, Ask Dedan Advice hour, plus MANY other...

"The 10 Commandments: Then vs Now"

June 26, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 162 MB

Even though God gave His people very strict guidelines to follow in order to live a righteous life and obtain everlasting fellowship with Him in Heaven, society tends to make excuses for living in a perpetual state of unrepentant sin. Please join me on “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of our special on “The 10 Commandments” and how they’re applicable to our everyday lives in regards to: friends, family, politics and entertainment. Listen 7 nights a week by cal...

"Happy: What God Says About Homosexuality"

June 25, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 154 MB

Over the last several years, homosexuality has become socially and now thanks to our president, new legislation, and the entertainment industry... politically acceptable. However, according to the Bible, it will never be acceptable in God's eyes. Tune into "The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST, for a special rebroadcast of my special on "Happy...Americas GAY Agenda and What the Bible Says About it", where we discussed how He dealt with it in the past, as well as how Chris...

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

June 24, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

"The BEST of Barbershop Talk"

"Remembering the Dream: MLK Day Special"

June 23, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 80 MB

Along the way to becoming one of the greatest leaders the world has ever known, Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King marched, fought and ultimately died for our right to have freedom, equality and respect. Unfortunately, with the popularity of buffoonish shows television shows like: Love & Hip Hop, Scandal and Sorority Sisters…along with no class but a lot of ass entertainers like: Beyonce and Nicky Minaj…. It’s become evident that society will never respect us because we’re not respecting ourselv...

"How to Identify and Overcome Daddy Issues"

June 22, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

In today's society, 70% of black babies are born into single parent households. Unfortunately, growing up without a father has had a severe effect on millions of women, resulting in trust, abandonment and self-esteem issues. Tune into "The Best of The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of our classic special on "How to Identify, Deal With and Heal from DADDY ISSUES". Listen to "The Dedan Tolbert Show" 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide atwww.d...

"The BEST of the Dedan Tolbert Show"

June 21, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 164 MB

  "The BEST of Ask Dedan Advice Mondays"

"The Top 10 Ways to Finding Love" - PART II

June 20, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 118 MB

"The Top 10 Ways to Finding Love" - PART II

"The Top 10 Ways to Finding Love" - PART I

June 19, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 161 MB

"The Top 10 Ways to Finding Love" - PART I

"Good Girls Who Like Bad Boys"

June 18, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 129 MB

"Good Girls Who Like Bad Boys"

"Fighting Obesity in the Black Community"

June 17, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 120 MB

Did you miss last year's special on “Fighting Obesity in the Black Community”, where we focused on the reasons for obesity, how to lose and keep weight off, the effects obesity has on dating & relationships, and the keys to feelings 100% great about yourself? To hear my wife, Danielle Tolbert, share her testimony about how and why she decided to make a life change, tune into a special rebroadcast tonight at 9:00pm EST. Listen to "The Dedan Tolbert Show" 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366...

"How to Go From SINGLE MOM to HAPPY WIFE"

June 16, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

At the end of the day, everyone desires love and no one aspires to be a single mom... but because of certain circumstances, that's often the case for many women. Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show", TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST, for a rebroadcast of my special on "How to Go From Being a Single Mom...to a Happy Wife". To hear a step by step analysis of what it takes to be found by the man that God has for you, even with 2 or 3 kids with 2 or 3 different men... Call 646 200 0366 or listen online worldw...

"The Best of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

June 15, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 128 MB

"The Best of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

"Gender Role Reversal" - Ask Dedan Advice Mondays!

June 14, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 164 MB

  Over the last 50 years, we've seen a significant change in behavior in both men and women resulting in fewer healthy, successful, long lasting relationships/marriages. Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" LIVE tonight at 9:00pm EST, for a special edition of "Ask Dedan" Advice Mondays, where we'll discuss "Gender Role Reversal" and the effect its having on relationships in the black community. To hear us discuss men acting like women and women assuming the role of men and many other issues......

"How to Avoid Dealing With A Man on the DL"

June 13, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 155 MB

In today's society, we're seeing more and more educated, professional, successful, single men...Unfortunately, we're also seeing a huge increase in men who enjoy spending their free time having sex with other men. Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of my special on "How to Recognize and Avoid Men Living Life on the DL". Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com.

"How to Avoid Dealing With a BASTARD"

June 11, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 155 MB

A husband cheating with his wife’s best friend, fathers who haven’t seen/spoken to their kids in years, abusers, liars, and dogs are just a few examples of the worst possible types of men, who find ways of weaseling their way into the lives of unsuspecting women…Tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST, for a rebroadcast of my special on “How to Avoid Dealing With Low Down Dirty Bastards in 2014”. To hear the last show we did before Christmas, where we discussed exactly how to...

"Bad Bitches vs Beautiful Women"

June 10, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 161 MB

Unfortunately, in today’s society, it’s become both politically and socially acceptable for women not to carry themselves with respect by engaging in morally reprehensible, sexual/adulterous behavior. Not only is this trend affecting adults…but its spread to our young women, who have no clear and defined role models. Please join me on “The Best of The Dedan Tolbert Show” tonight at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of my special on “Bad Bitches vs Beautiful Women”, where we’ll address this epidemi...

"Saving Our Children: The Mike Brown Tragedy"

June 09, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 118 MB

Did you miss our recent special on "Saving OUR Children...The Michael Brown Tragedy", where we discussed REAL issues affecting the black community such as: police brutality, black on black crime, the judicial system and came up with REAL solutions for impacting our youth? If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com..."REAL Radio that Matters".

"Blocking Your Blessings With SEX"

June 08, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 80.1 MB

The Bible says that God will not keep anything from His people who love Him….That being said, we often block our blessings with sin…specifically the sin of SEX. Tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of our discussion on Chapter 25 of The Book of Numbers, in regards to how the Israelites allowed SEX and LUST to bring about God’s wrath and how we often do the same exact things when dating and in relationships. To hear one of our highest rated shows ever, cal...

"The BEST of Ask Dedan Advice Mondays"

June 07, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 92.6 MB

Did you miss our special on the Mimi and Nikko Sex Tape, how this type of behavior is one of the major issues plaguing the black community, Ask Dedan Advice Hour, where we discussed: how to get an ex to stop calling you, dating etiquette, and MANY other issues? If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... "REAL Radio that Matters".

"How to Recognize When You're Being Targeted for SEX"

June 06, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 138 MB

When it comes to sex, the media has been known to glamorize various sexual fantasies involving multiple individuals, often labeling them as a “ménage trois”, or a “threesome”….When in reality, anything involving two men and a woman is nothing more than a “train” being ran. If you missed one of the realest “Keeping it Real Fridays” ever, where we discussed the definition of a train and the signs that will indicate when a man is targeting you for SEX... tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGH...

"Blurred Lines: Good vs Evil"

June 05, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 164 MB

Did you miss last year’s classic episode of “The Dedan Tolbert Show”, where we discussed “Blurred Lines”, focusing on: the difference between metro sexual and gay, classy vs sexy, good vs evil and wife vs freak? To also hear our discussion on the breakups of Khloe & Lamar, Kris and Bruce Jenner, Preachers of LA, gay pastors, the Government Shutdown and MANY other topics…tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 20...

"Dr. Umar Johnson Interview LIVE"

June 04, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 116 MB

  Did you miss Dr. Umar Johnson on “The Dedan Tolbert Show”, where we discussed many topics including: the progress of the school he’s fundraising for, the controversy surounding his degrees, black relationships and the dissolution of two parent homes, police brutality, black pastors, why he didnt support Barack Obama, America’s gay agenda, popular entertainers who negatively influence our youth….plus MANY other topics! If so, CLICK THIS LINK TO LISTEN NOW!

"Happy: America's Gay Agenda & What the Bible Says About It"

June 03, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

Over the last several years, homosexuality has become socially and now thanks to our president, new legislation, and the entertainment industry... politically acceptable. However, according to the Bible, it will never be acceptable in God's eyes. Tune into "The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST, for a special rebroadcast of my special on "Happy...Americas GAY Agenda and What the Bible Says About it", where we discussed how He dealt with it in the past, as well as how Chris...

"LIVE Ask Dedan Advice Hour & Dr Umar Johnson Interview Preview"

June 02, 2016 01:00 - 1 hour - 79.5 MB

  “The Dedan Tolbert Show” returns LIVE TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST with “Ask Dedan Advice Hour”, where we’ll be discussing popular “What’s Going on in The World” topics like: the death of Harambe the Gorilla, Nigeria banning the reality show “I Am Cait”, Love & Hip Hop Atlanta, Tamar Braxton’s departure from The Real, the debate surrounding women breastfeeding in public, the Zika Virus, and a huge announcement regarding Friday night’s exclusive interview with Dr. Umar Johnson. Listen LIVE by call...

"Barbershop Talk: The Importance of Recognizing a Man's Potential"

June 01, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 165 MB

In today's society, we're seeing more and more successful black women achieving Masters/ Doctoral degrees and attaining high paying corporate jobs...which, unfortunately has lead to an increased sense of entitlement causing many women to only date men they feel are "on their level". Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast of "Barbershop Talk LIVE" where some of the realest men in the country discussed "The Importance of Recognizing a Man's Potential"...

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

May 31, 2016 01:00 - 3 hours - 164 MB

"The BEST of The Dedan Tolbert Show"

"How Being Mary Jane Equals Emotional Unavailability"-Part I

May 30, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 162 MB

In the history of television, there’s never been a more accurate representation of why so many professional, successful Africa American women remain single and have trouble finding love than the popular television series “Being Mary Jane”. If you missed our all time classic two night, 6 hour special where we discussed the many examples of Emotional Unavailability seen all throughout season 1, tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Also, look out fo...

"How to Avoid Playing the Goodbye Game"

May 29, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 140 MB

Meet someone, fall in 'love', argue, break up, have SEX, get back together...and then do it all over again...and again...and again. If you've ever tried to leave a toxic, dead end, non committal relationship that clearly wasn't of God...tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" tonight at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of my special on "Goodbye Game 2014...How to Leave & Stay Gone". To hear exactly how to not only walk away...but to stay gone, call 646 200 0366 or listen online worldwide at www.dedant...

"Barbershop Talk: The Definition of the Perfect Wife"

May 28, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 127 MB

At the end of the day, every young girl dreams of one day walking down the aisle in a beautiful dress and becoming the wife of the man of their dreams…Unfortunately, society has given women a very false idea of the qualities most important to a true man of God. If you’ve ever wondered what’s most important to men of today when seeking a mate, tune into “Barbershop Talk” on “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST as we discuss “The Definition of The Perfect Wife 2014”. Listen 7 nights ...

"Betrayal: Whats OK and Not OK in Dating & Relationships"

May 27, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 150 MB

Did you miss last year's classic episode of “The Dedan Tolbert Show” where we discussed “Betrayal…What’s Absolutely Unforgivable in dating & Relationships", if so, tune in tonight at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen to "The Dedan Tolbert Show" 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.DedanTolbertShow.com... "REAL Radio that Matters".

"The BEST of Ask Dedan Advice Hour"

May 26, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 119 MB

Did you miss our Post Mother’s Day special on “The Dedan Tolbert Show”, where we discussed the Solange vs Jay Z fiasco and Beyonce’s role (or lack thereof) , Michael Sam and America’s ‘gay agenda’, the kidnapped Nigerian girls, the divorce of Sherri Sheppard, Love & Hip Hop, “Christians” who take part in Astrology, my recent trip to California, and MANY other issues? If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 64...

"The BEST of Ask Dedan Advice Hour"

May 26, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 119 MB

Did you miss our Post Mother’s Day special on “The Dedan Tolbert Show”, where we discussed the Solange vs Jay Z fiasco and Beyonce’s role (or lack thereof) , Michael Sam and America’s ‘gay agenda’, the kidnapped Nigerian girls, the divorce of Sherri Sheppard, Love & Hip Hop, “Christians” who take part in Astrology, my recent trip to California, and MANY other issues? If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 64...

"The BEST of Between Brothers"

May 25, 2016 01:00 - 2 hours - 134 MB

Did you miss last month's special on the new movie, “NOAH”, where special guest, Minister Oshal High and I discussed it’s Biblical inaccuracies, its attempt to portray Noah as the opposite (uncaring, crazy, evil) of how he really was (kind, loving, walking with God) and Hollywood’s overall agenda to make a mockery out of Christianity? To hear us discuss the spiritual significance of this morning’s “Blood Moon” in regards to how it coincides with the Jewish holiday Passover, what Fallen Angels...

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