Secluded Thoughts
531 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 8 hours ago -Secluded Thoughts is dedicated to inspiring you to become the best version of yourself through genuine conversations on how to take accountability of your life. This show is all about being authentic, raw and vulnerable as we discuss topics like achieving goals, self improvement, following your dreams and more. If you struggle with self-doubt, getting out of your comfort zone, fear of any kind, and just need some motivation and inspiration to work on yourself and achieve your goals then you’re in the right place!
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69. It's time to take a break.
July 24, 2022 18:35 - 58 minutes - 53.7 MBIn this episode I really want to encourage you to TAKE A BREAK. I just got back from a 3 week vacation in St. Lucia where I DID NOT WORK. I actually rested and my mind and I have so much to tell you about what I learned. You need a break sis. So many amazing things will come from it!!! SPONSORS: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month of therapy using my link: https://betterhelp.com/SECLUDED GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com...
This perspective on "failure" will change your life (Clip from #31)
July 21, 2022 10:00 - 6 minutes - 6.33 MBIf you look at failure as an end all be all you will never prosper. You'll give up prematurely and never reach your full potential. This perspective on failure is going to change your life. This is a clip from Episode #31 - Don't put yourself in a box TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagra...
This perspective on "failure" will change your life
July 21, 2022 10:00 - 6 minutes - 6.33 MBIf you look at failure as an end all be all you will never prosper. You'll give up prematurely and never reach your full potential. This perspective on failure is going to change your life. This is a clip from Episode #31 - Don't put yourself in a box TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagr...
Stop letting people unload on you
July 19, 2022 11:45 - 8 minutes - 7.98 MBStop allowing people to unload on you for problems they created in their life. That's not your cross to bear. Sure, it's great to support them but sometimes if you really listen they're the culprit behind the problem and until they take accountability nothing is going to change. And if you help them realize that and they STILL don't plan on taking accountability because they'd rather complain, don't feel obligated to be their earpiece. You have to take accountability for WHAT YOU ALLOW peopl...
Stop letting people unload on you (Clip from #10)
July 19, 2022 11:45 - 8 minutes - 7.98 MBStop allowing people to unload on you for problems they created in their life. That's not your cross to bear. Sure, it's great to support them but sometimes if you really listen they're the culprit behind the problem and until they take accountability nothing is going to change. And if you help them realize that and they STILL don't plan on taking accountability because they'd rather complain, don't feel obligated to be their earpiece. You have to take accountability for WHAT YOU ALLOW peopl...
68. Are you being controlled by your ego?
July 17, 2022 12:00 - 43 minutes - 40.1 MBIs it you or your ego? Are you in control of your ego or is it controlling you? Might be the latter and you don't even realize it. Let's talk about how your ego puts you in unnecessary situations. Use my Audible affiliate link for your FREE 30 day trial that comes with 1 credit for a book: www.audibletrial.com/MXx703 Recommended book for episode: Ego is the Enemy by Ryan Holiday Amazon link: https://amzn.to/3P1BxaL SPONSORS: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp! Get 10% off your fir...
Are you being controlled by your ego?
July 17, 2022 12:00 - 43 minutes - 40.1 MBIs it you or your ego? Are you in control of your ego or is it controlling you? Might be the latter and you don't even realize it. Let's talk about how your ego puts you in unnecessary situations. Use my Audible affiliate link for your FREE 30 day trial that comes with 1 credit for a book: www.audibletrial.com/MXx703 Recommended book for episode: Ego is the Enemy by Ryan Holiday Amazon link: https://amzn.to/3P1BxaL SPONSORS: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp! Get 10% off your fir...
Are you feeding your mind with negativity? (Clip from #4)
July 14, 2022 09:55 - 10 minutes - 9.92 MBAre you subjecting yourself to negative media? What is the news doing for you? How does it benefit you to be up to date on all of the negative things that are happening in the world? And what about what you consume for hours on social media? Do you realize the effect it's having on you? There's both good and bad things going on in the world, which are you keeping up worth? This is a clip from Episode #4 - How to get rid of the negativity in your life TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: ...
Are you feeding your mind with negativity?
July 14, 2022 09:55 - 10 minutes - 9.92 MBAre you subjecting yourself to negative media? What is the news doing for you? How does it benefit you to be up to date on all of the negative things that are happening in the world? And what about what you consume for hours on social media? Do you realize the effect it's having on you? There's both good and bad things going on in the world, which are you keeping up worth? This is a clip from Episode #4 - How to get rid of the negativity in your life TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: ...
You're trying to do too much all at once
July 12, 2022 10:00 - 6 minutes - 5.78 MBIf you try to do too much at once in the beginning you'll burn out before you give yourself a real chance. Take it one step at a time and stop waiting on confidence to start. This is a clip from Episode #1: Perfectionism will get you nowhere - here's what to focus on instead TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instag...
You're trying to do too much all at once (Clip from #1)
July 12, 2022 10:00 - 6 minutes - 5.78 MBIf you try to do too much at once in the beginning you'll burn out before you give yourself a real chance. Take it one step at a time and stop waiting on confidence to start. This is a clip from Episode #1: Perfectionism will get you nowhere - here's what to focus on instead TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagr...
Stop chasing money. It's distracting you
July 10, 2022 12:00 - 37 minutes - 34.3 MBAre you doing things because you genuinely enjoy it or because of your need to make money? We all have bills and obligations but how much of what you do is influenced by your desire to make money? Do you have any balance? Let's talk about it. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month of therapy using my link: https://betterhelp.com/SECLUDED GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: @secludedthoug...
67. Stop chasing money. It's distracting you
July 10, 2022 12:00 - 37 minutes - 34.3 MBAre you doing things because you genuinely enjoy it or because of your need to make money? We all have bills and obligations but how much of what you do is influenced by your desire to make money? Do you have any balance? Let's talk about it. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month of therapy using my link: https://betterhelp.com/SECLUDED GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: @secludedthoug...
You don't work better under pressure sis
July 07, 2022 12:00 - 4 minutes - 4.06 MBWhen are you going to give up this lie? You don't work better under pressure, you just get it done last minute when you no longer have a choice. Let's talk about this. This is a clip from Episode #9 - 3 Horrible habits you should NEVER have TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secl...
You don't work better under pressure sis (Clip from #9)
July 07, 2022 12:00 - 4 minutes - 4.06 MBWhen are you going to give up this lie? You don't work better under pressure, you just get it done last minute when you no longer have a choice. Let's talk about this. This is a clip from Episode #9 - 3 Horrible habits you should NEVER have TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seclu...
You did NOT work this hard to stay the same
July 05, 2022 09:55 - 7 minutes - 6.8 MBYou'll start feeling out of place in your current environment and in doing the same things you've always done. It's going to get really and uncomfortable - and even worst when the people in your circle start telling you that you're changing or "switching up." But you did NOT work this hard to stay the same. This is a clip from Episode #37 - What to do when people say "You changed" TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: ...
You did NOT work this hard to stay the same (Clip from #37)
July 05, 2022 09:55 - 7 minutes - 6.8 MBYou'll start feeling out of place in your current environment and in doing the same things you've always done. It's going to get really and uncomfortable - and even worst when the people in your circle start telling you that you're changing or "switching up." But you did NOT work this hard to stay the same. This is a clip from Episode #37 - What to do when people say "You changed" TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: h...
For when you feel like giving up
July 03, 2022 12:00 - 37 minutes - 34.3 MBThis episode is dedicated to anyone who feels like quitting. This isn't just some motivational speech. Let's get real about what it's like to feel that way and the struggles we face along the way. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month of therapy using my link: https://betterhelp.com/SECLUDED GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: @secludedthoughts https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthough...
66. For when you feel like giving up
July 03, 2022 12:00 - 37 minutes - 34.3 MBThis episode is dedicated to anyone who feels like quitting. This isn't just some motivational speech. Let's get real about what it's like to feel that way and the struggles we face along the way. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month of therapy using my link: https://betterhelp.com/SECLUDED GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: @secludedthoughts https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthough...
It's okay to change your mind about your career
June 30, 2022 11:00 - 6 minutes - 6.01 MBJust because you started off pursuing one thing doesn't mean you have to stick with it till the end. It's ok to change your mind about your career. You're not locked into anything AND you can do multiple things. Don't put yourself in a box because of the time you've already invested in doing one thing. This is a clip from Episode #31 - Don't put yourself in a box. TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tikto...
It's okay to change your mind about your career (Clip from #31)
June 30, 2022 11:00 - 6 minutes - 6.01 MBJust because you started off pursuing one thing doesn't mean you have to stick with it till the end. It's ok to change your mind about your career. You're not locked into anything AND you can do multiple things. Don't put yourself in a box because of the time you've already invested in doing one thing. This is a clip from Episode #31 - Don't put yourself in a box. TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok...
It's time to own up to the things you allowed to happen to you (Clip from #7)
June 28, 2022 10:55 - 9 minutes - 8.53 MBIf you keep focusing on blaming people you will always paint yourself as the victim. When you shift your perspective and take accountability of the role YOU had to play in you getting hurt, you put the power back in your hands. It's time to put the power back in your hands. This is a clip from Episode #7 - 3 Things that are either making or breaking you right now. TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok...
It's time to own up to the things you allowed to happen to you
June 28, 2022 10:55 - 9 minutes - 8.53 MBIf you keep focusing on blaming people you will always paint yourself as the victim. When you shift your perspective and take accountability of the role YOU had to play in you getting hurt, you put the power back in your hands. It's time to put the power back in your hands. This is a clip from Episode #7 - 3 Things that are either making or breaking you right now. TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tikto...
No one is coming to save you
June 26, 2022 12:00 - 29 minutes - 26.9 MBThis episode is for you if you’re being taken for granted and you think the solution is finding the right person to appreciate you OR if you have an idea and you can’t quite find people doing it the way you want to do it and you think you need someone to validate it because it hasn’t been done before. I'm going to let you in on a very important lesson I learned when I felt that way a few years ago. G ET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CON...
65. No one is coming to save you
June 26, 2022 12:00 - 29 minutes - 26.9 MBThis episode is for you if you’re being taken for granted and you think the solution is finding the right person to appreciate you OR if you have an idea and you can’t quite find people doing it the way you want to do it and you think you need someone to validate it because it hasn’t been done before. I'm going to let you in on a very important lesson I learned when I felt that way a few years ago. G ET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CON...
Why you should stop seeking validation
June 23, 2022 10:00 - 6 minutes - 5.61 MBHere are 5 solid reasons to stop seeking validation from other people. If there's something you want to do but you find yourself stuck in a wheel of thinking of doing it but constantly running to people to validate your idea this clip is for you. This is a clip from Episode #2 - Seeking validation is killing your dreams. TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://ww...
Why you should stop seeking validation (Clip from #2)
June 23, 2022 10:00 - 6 minutes - 5.61 MBHere are 5 solid reasons to stop seeking validation from other people. If there's something you want to do but you find yourself stuck in a wheel of thinking of doing it but constantly running to people to validate your idea this clip is for you. This is a clip from Episode #2 - Seeking validation is killing your dreams. TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www...
Stop trying to be perfect and start
June 21, 2022 10:30 - 5 minutes - 4.88 MBYou can't perfect something you've never started. There will be obstacles along the way you won't be able to anticipate and you'll have to pivot. Stop trying to plan things out and just start. You'll get better as you go. This is a clip from Episode #1: Perfectionism will get you nowhere - here's what to focus on instead TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://ww...
Stop trying to be perfect and start (Clip from #1)
June 21, 2022 10:30 - 5 minutes - 4.88 MBYou can't perfect something you've never started. There will be obstacles along the way you won't be able to anticipate and you'll have to pivot. Stop trying to plan things out and just start. You'll get better as you go. This is a clip from Episode #1: Perfectionism will get you nowhere - here's what to focus on instead TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www...
The power of Introverts: We DON'T need to speak up.
June 19, 2022 12:00 - 31 minutes - 29.2 MBAll our lives we've had to fight as introverts! Ever since we were young we've been told to speak up or be more outgoing and always work in groups. They had us convinced that introversion was a weakness - but it's actually a strength once you learn how to leverage it. Let's talk about how. G ET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: @secludedthoughts https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Instagram: @secluded.thoughts ht...
64. The power of Introverts: We DON'T need to speak up.
June 19, 2022 12:00 - 31 minutes - 29.2 MBAll our lives we've had to fight as introverts! Ever since we were young we've been told to speak up or be more outgoing and always work in groups. They had us convinced that introversion was a weakness - but it's actually a strength once you learn how to leverage it. Let's talk about how. G ET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: @secludedthoughts https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Instagram: @secluded.thoughts ht...
Is it worth keeping them around? (Clip from #4)
June 16, 2022 10:40 - 4 minutes - 3.87 MBAren't you tired of being the martyr in your relationship? How much of yourself are you will to sacrifice to maintain relationships that drain you? You don't necessarily have to cut people off but you do need to set boundaries. And if those people don't respect your boundaries then is it worth keeping them around? This is a clip from Episode #4 - How to get rid of the negativity in your life. TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED...
Is it worth keeping them around?
June 16, 2022 10:40 - 4 minutes - 3.87 MBAren't you tired of being the martyr in your relationship? How much of yourself are you will to sacrifice to maintain relationships that drain you? You don't necessarily have to cut people off but you do need to set boundaries. And if those people don't respect your boundaries then is it worth keeping them around? This is a clip from Episode #4 - How to get rid of the negativity in your life. TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTE...
This is the "motivation" you need to start
June 14, 2022 10:00 - 4 minutes - 3.71 MBYeah you'll definitely hear all you need to hear after this one. This is a clip from Episode #5: Stop looking for motivation - this is what you need instead. TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Sponsorship Inquiries: [email protected] Support th...
This is the "motivation" you need to start (Clip from #5)
June 14, 2022 10:00 - 4 minutes - 3.71 MBYeah you'll definitely hear all you need to hear after this one. This is a clip from Episode #5: Stop looking for motivation - this is what you need instead. TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Sponsorship Inquiries: [email protected] Support thi...
How to set boundaries and protect your energy from negative people
June 12, 2022 17:36 - 50 minutes - 45.9 MBIf you're the 'strong friend' that everyone runs to to vent this one is for you. And I'm an empathetic and sensitive person who has always tried to be there for people so this is coming from someone who has genuinely tried to help people for years. But what do you do when people just seem content with complaining and not trying to solve their problem but insist on bringing their woes to you? Let's talk about it. It's time to protect your energy. G ET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https...
63. How to set boundaries and protect your energy from negative people
June 12, 2022 17:36 - 50 minutes - 45.9 MBIf you're the 'strong friend' that everyone runs to to vent this one is for you. And I'm an empathetic and sensitive person who has always tried to be there for people so this is coming from someone who has genuinely tried to help people for years. But what do you do when people just seem content with complaining and not trying to solve their problem but insist on bringing their woes to you? Let's talk about it. It's time to protect your energy. G ET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https...
Are you dating with a purpose or just wasting your time? (Clip from #41)
June 09, 2022 10:30 - 7 minutes - 6.49 MBAre you being intentional in your dating life or are you just dating because you don't want to be lonely? Do you know what you actually want or are you just working with a list of things you don't want? Let's talk about it. This is a clip from Episode #41 - Your circle is holding you back sis. TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoug...
Are you dating with a purpose or just wasting your time?
June 09, 2022 10:30 - 7 minutes - 6.49 MBAre you being intentional in your dating life or are you just dating because you don't want to be lonely? Do you know what you actually want or are you just working with a list of things you don't want? Let's talk about it. This is a clip from Episode #41 - Your circle is holding you back sis. TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThou...
When the new you starts making people uncomfortable
June 07, 2022 10:30 - 9 minutes - 8.66 MBOnce you start getting clear on what the best version of yourself looks like you start detaching from your current reality and acting in alignment - even if you don't notice it. You'll start feeling out of place in your current environment and in doing the same things you've always done. It's going to get really and uncomfortable - and even worst when the people in your circle start telling you that you're changing or "switching up." This is a clip from Episode #37 - What to do when people ...
When the new you starts making people uncomfortable (Clip from #37)
June 07, 2022 10:30 - 9 minutes - 8.66 MBOnce you start getting clear on what the best version of yourself looks like you start detaching from your current reality and acting in alignment - even if you don't notice it. You'll start feeling out of place in your current environment and in doing the same things you've always done. It's going to get really and uncomfortable - and even worst when the people in your circle start telling you that you're changing or "switching up." This is a clip from Episode #37 - What to do when people ...
To those who have been silent about sexual abuse/assault #MeToo
June 05, 2022 11:00 - 34 minutes - 31.2 MBThis is the hardest episode I've ever had to make - and believe me I didn't want to make it. But I felt called to. This is for all the victims of sexual abuse/assault who have been silent for far too long and suffering in silence. Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/t9e9IF4TjVQ TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: @secludedthoughts https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Instagram: @secluded.thoughts htt...
62. To those who have been silent about sexual abuse/assault #MeToo
June 05, 2022 11:00 - 34 minutes - 31.2 MBThis is the hardest episode I've ever had to make - and believe me I didn't want to make it. But I felt called to. This is for all the victims of sexual abuse/assault who have been silent for far too long and suffering in silence. Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/t9e9IF4TjVQ TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: @secludedthoughts https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Instagram: @secluded.thoughts https...
Are you guilty of these toxic traits?
June 02, 2022 10:25 - 6 minutes - 5.54 MBOne day it hit me out of nowhere that I couldn't have been the only person that was wronged in ALL my prior relationships.. so I started thinking.. and realized that I was more toxic than I realized. What about you? Are you guilty of these things too? Especially my fellow Pisces folks. This is a clip from Episode #3 - You might be more toxic than you think. TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@s...
Are you guilty of these toxic traits? (Clip from #3)
June 02, 2022 10:25 - 6 minutes - 5.54 MBOne day it hit me out of nowhere that I couldn't have been the only person that was wronged in ALL my prior relationships.. so I started thinking.. and realized that I was more toxic than I realized. What about you? Are you guilty of these things too? Especially my fellow Pisces folks. This is a clip from Episode #3 - You might be more toxic than you think. TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@s...
Should You Keep Your 'Day 1s?' (Clip from #41)
May 31, 2022 10:30 - 11 minutes - 10.9 MBYour circle will either make you or break you. Many of us are walking around bearing the weight of relationships that are draining us just because it's our family, or "day ones," or even your significant other. But just because you created relationships with these people (or in your family's case.. you were born into it) doesn't mean that all of these relationships are meant to be kept. The best version of yourself is going to require you to be more intentional about the relationships you c...
Should You Keep Your 'Day 1s?'
May 31, 2022 10:30 - 11 minutes - 10.9 MBYour circle will either make you or break you. Many of us are walking around bearing the weight of relationships that are draining us just because it's our family, or "day ones," or even your significant other. But just because you created relationships with these people (or in your family's case.. you were born into it) doesn't mean that all of these relationships are meant to be kept. The best version of yourself is going to require you to be more intentional about the relationships you c...
61. Learning to trust God and put him first is HARD
May 29, 2022 12:00 - 35 minutes - 32.7 MBEveryone talks about trusting God and putting God first but no one tells you what that's REALLY like. The truth is, learning to trust God is hard. And trying to put God first is even harder. This is what it has been like for me. What about you? Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/YVhhiDLm6FM TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: @secludedthoughts https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Instagram: @secluded.th...
Learning to trust God and put him first is HARD
May 29, 2022 12:00 - 35 minutes - 32.7 MBEveryone talks about trusting God and putting God first but no one tells you what that's REALLY like. The truth is, learning to trust God is hard. And trying to put God first is even harder. This is what it has been like for me. What about you? Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/YVhhiDLm6FM TO GET CLARITY ON YOUR IDEAL LIFE: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: @secludedthoughts https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Instagram: @secluded.t...
If all men are trash why do you want one
May 26, 2022 19:00 - 6 minutes - 6.01 MBYou set the bar so low to avoid disappointment but you still think it's their fault when you get hurt? You never expected much from them to begin with. Or what about all the people you tried to fix and then complained they were draining you? Orrr what about the fact that you want a genuine connection but also keep people at arms length so they can't get too close to you. What are you hoping to achieve with these behaviors? This is a clip from Episode 3 - You might be more toxic than you thi...