Perfectionist Unplugged: Enjoying vs Enduring Striving
Perfectionism Rewired with CLG
English - January 07, 2024 06:14 - 26 minutes - 23.9 MB - ★★★★★ - 29 ratingsSelf-Improvement Education Health & Fitness Mental Health courtney love gavin perfectionist perfectionist tendencies perfectionism perfectionists build resilience people pleaser perfectionistic catastrophize self-criticism Homepage Download Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
What *really* happens when you upgrade from control to power, the suck of growth as a perfectionist and ultimately finding empowerment in what initially seems like a total disaster. Join me (CLG) on the never before shared journey of choosing to rise to the occasion of being a perfectionist as I unravel my own striving, intrusive thoughts and how to playfully let go.
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Featured On Episode 200:courtneylovegavin.comPower of Paradox ep. 143Navigating Advocacy As A Perfectionist (Ep. 1 Self-Advocacy Series)Sunk Cost Fallacy (Ep. 2 Self-Advocacy Series)Medical Gaslighting + Misdiagnosis (Ep. 3 Self-Advocacy Series)How To Let Go Of Perfectionism (Shame Avoidance) ep. 145 Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 200 Timestamps:00:00-Striving becomes Self-sabotage
04:15-Once Upon A Perfectionist named CLG
6:06-Black and white thinking
10:38-How to stop overthinking
12:22-Embodied Presence Interoception Connection (E.P.I.C. Framework™)
13:20-Shifting from Shame Avoidance to Satisfying Success
14:42-Practice Makes Permanent
15:51-Intrusive Thoughts
17:27-Enjoying your perfectionism instead of enduring
20:43-Fixed Mindset
25:00-How To Feel Good NOW
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