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Modern Parenting Solutions

115 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago - ★★★★★ - 8 ratings

Hi There! I'm Dr. Becca Ballinger, Child Psychologist, Modern Parenting Expert, and mom to two wonderful young adults.

This podcast is where I share my best advice and strategies for Modern Parents who want to raise young people who are happy, healthy, moral, motivated, and feel confident to pursue their natural talents and passions.

Because I work with young people and their families every day in my Southern California private practice, I know the topics that interest today's parent the most:

✔️ Helping young people overcome lack of motivation for tasks and academics
✔️ Creating a strong parent-child relationship
✔️ Helping young people discover and develop their natural talents and passions
✔️ Teaching young people the "right" life lessons so they are prepared for young adulthood
✔️ Parenting kids who struggle with mental health issues in a way that EMPOWERS them and doesn't LIMIT them
✔️ And lots more topics!

My episodes are guided by the trends, topics, and questions that I get while working with real families in this Modern World. I try to update once every Sunday, but when life happens (i.e. my practice and patients need my attention or my own family requires my time) then I update when I can.

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Episodes

74. Finding Purpose: How to Help Your Tween or Teen Find Meaning in Life (Even If You Don’t Go To Church)

June 09, 2024 04:03 - 28 minutes - 26.5 MB

Is your young person feeling lost, wondering what the point of it all is? In today's episode, we tackle a challenge many parents face: helping their child or teen find a sense of purpose in life. It's all too common for young people to feel like life is just an endless cycle of meaningless tasks: going to work, doing boring work, coming home to pay bills, and then doing it all over again. But it doesn't have to be that way! Many worried parents tell me they fear their child or teen might...

73. Want Your Rules To Stick? The Best Parenting Advice No One Ever Told You

June 02, 2024 07:03 - 36 minutes - 33.6 MB

What if I told you that the reason you often give up on enforcing a household rule with your child or teen is because they're using science against you? And what if, by understanding this science, you could finally stop giving up RIGHT BEFORE they give in? In today’s episode, I'll show you why you're giving up too soon when your child or teen pushes back on your rules or boundaries...and your young person was just moments away from complying. There’s a game-changing concept that will hel...

72. Stop Feeling Manipulated By Your Child or Teen By Using These 4 Proven Strategies

May 26, 2024 07:33 - 37 minutes - 34.8 MB

Today, you’ll discover how to stop feeling manipulated by your child or teen using four proven strategies. This episode is a masterclass in understanding and managing emotional manipulation. You'll learn about the science behind why parents get caught in these cycles and, most importantly, how to break free. Dr. Becca Ballinger shares the four key strategies you need to create a peaceful and connected family environment. After listening, you will know exactly what to do to handle your yo...

71. Yes! You've Got To Start Planning For Your Summer Now - And Here's How

May 19, 2024 07:33 - 49 minutes - 45.6 MB

Summer's coming, and I know what you're thinking: How long until I'm secretly wishing for school to start again? This year, I want you to flip the script! Summer isn’t just about avoiding the summer ‘brain drain’ or surviving until fall—it's your golden opportunity to focus on your child or teen's natural strengths, deepen family bonds, and create those picture-perfect memories -- all while enjoying a well-earned break from academic pressures. If you're wondering how to keep your child or ...

70. Parenting with Heart: The PEACEful Approach to Discipline

April 28, 2024 07:33 - 42 minutes - 38.8 MB

Ever feel like your discipline approach is more of a mess than a success? Let's flip that script! If you're worried about being ineffective, crushing your child or teen's incredible spirit, or if tensions are high - it's time to introduce some PEACE into your routine. My 5-point PEACE plan isn't just about keeping order; it's about empowering your young person with the tools they need to grow into an amazing adult. What if you could discipline in a way that not only promotes good behav...

69. Setting Boundaries: The Tough Love Your Family Really Needs

April 21, 2024 17:44 - 36 minutes - 33.8 MB

Think setting boundaries is just about laying down the law? Let’s flip that idea on its head. In this episode, I'm diving into something truly eye-opening—the reciprocal nature of boundaries. This isn’t your typical chat about rules and limits. It’s about understanding that when you teach your child or teen to respect others’ boundaries, you empower them to expect and receive the same respect in return. In this powerful episode, I unpack how recognizing and respecting boundaries can dram...

68. 4 Ways To Motivate a Child or Teen Who Could Care Less

April 14, 2024 07:33 - 31 minutes - 29.1 MB

You asked...and I answered. After last week's episode, many of you wrote to me to tell me that you wanted to use the strategies discussed in the last episode, but you're dealing with a VERY unmotivated child or teen. Well...consider that problem solved! In today’s episode, I dive deep into 4 strategies for igniting a lasting spark of motivation in your young person - helping them not just survive but thrive in these critical final weeks of the school year. This isn't just about pushing...

68. 4 Ways To Motivate Your Child or Teen To End The School Year Strong

April 14, 2024 07:33 - 31 minutes - 29.1 MB

You asked...and I answered. After last week's episode, many of you wrote to me to tell me that you wanted to use the strategies discussed in the last episode, but you're dealing with a VERY unmotivated child or teen. Well...consider that problem solved! In today’s episode, I dive deep into 4 strategies for igniting a lasting spark of motivation in your young person - helping them not just survive but thrive in these critical final weeks of the school year. This isn't just about pushing...

67. Yes! Your Child Or Teen CAN Improve Their Grades With Only A Few Months (Or Weeks!) Left In The School Year

April 07, 2024 07:33 - 36 minutes - 33.1 MB

Feeling like it’s too late to turn your child or teen's school year around? Think again! Discover the inspiring story of how I helped a family transform their sons’ academic paths, boosting grades, confidence, and attitudes with only weeks to spare. In this episode, I weave the journey of working with this family into a powerful narrative, showing you why NOW is the perfect time to kick it into high gear and help your child or teen finish strong. Learn how taking action in these fina...

66. Raised By a Narcissist Parent? Move Forward As a Happier Individual And a More Effective Parent With These 10 Steps

March 10, 2024 08:33 - 47 minutes - 43.8 MB

If you were raised by a narcissist parent, then this episode is your key to breaking the cycle and forging a healthier, more joyful parenting path. In today’s episode, I dive into a topic that hits close to home for many: overcoming the impact of being raised by a narcissistic parent. This journey is about more than understanding your past; it's about reshaping your future as a parent. Join me as I guide you through a powerful 10-step process (plus a bonus step) designed to help you move...

65. Is College Right For Your Young Person? New Information You Need To Know

March 02, 2024 08:33 - 48 minutes - 44.3 MB

You cannot afford to miss today’s episode. I’m about to share insights that could dramatically shift your perspective on one of the biggest decisions facing your family: the journey to and through college for your teen. In a world where the value of a traditional college education is being questioned more than ever before, understanding the right path for your teen has never been more critical. Whether you're navigating the financial implications of student loans, considering the impact ...

64. 4 Categories of Life Skills You Can't Ignore Teaching Your Child or Teen

February 25, 2024 08:33 - 49 minutes - 45.1 MB

If you're a parent, you've likely pondered over how to best prepare your child or teen for the world beyond school walls. You might even feel the pressure mounting as you wonder how to tackle this monumental task. But what if I told you that embedding essential life skills for your child or teen into your daily routine could be straightforward, impactful, and might not require a complete overhaul of your family life? The secret? Integrating life skills education into everyday moments! I’...

63. Redefining Obedience: How To Go From Blind Obedience To Mutual Trust

February 18, 2024 08:33 - 37 minutes - 34.7 MB

Ever found yourself at a loss when your tried-and-true phrase 'because I said so' falls flat with your child or teen? You're not alone. As parents, we've all been there, stuck in the cycle of demanding obedience without truly connecting with our young person. It's a frustrating, often ineffective method that leaves both parties feeling misunderstood. But what if I told you there's a better way? In today's episode, I unpack the shift from blind obedience to a more meaningful, trust-ba...

62. The Secret to Being a Happy Parent: Why Embracing the ‘Gain’ Changes Everything

February 11, 2024 15:57 - 30 minutes - 28.2 MB

Is that all the progress you've made? If you've sometimes had this thought about your child or teen, then today's episode is a must-listen! Today's episode is all about turning that thought on its head, using a concept called the Gap and the Gain. This is a mindset strategy that's easy to use - and packs a HUGE punch too! This strategy shows you how being in the 'Gap' mindset leads you to feeling frustrated with your young person's progress, while the 'Gain' mindset allows you to ackno...

61. How To Help A Child or Teen Who Feels Different From Everyone Else

February 04, 2024 16:20 - 47 minutes - 43.3 MB

Navigating the journey of parenting a child or teen who feels "different" from their peers is a topic close to my heart. If you've ever found yourself wondering how to support your young person's unique qualities, or how to empower them to embrace their individuality - this episode is crafted especially for you. In today's heartfelt discussion, I'm opening up about my own experiences of feeling different and how those moments have shaped the person and parent I am today. Through sharing ...

60. From Trends to Teachable Moments: How To Navigate Popular Culture with Your Young Person

January 28, 2024 17:01 - 51 minutes - 47.5 MB

>> Click here to get the episode guide that compliments what you'll learn in today's episode << Navigating conversations about the latest trends with your child or teen can be challenging, but it’s an essential part of modern parenting. If you’re struggling to understand why your young person is so drawn to certain social media crazes or how to approach these topics, this episode is for you. In today’s discussion, I’m diving deep into the world of parenting and popular trends. I’m here t...

59. Every Parent Makes Mistakes: How To Forgive Yourself AND Repair Your Relationship With Your Child or Teen

January 21, 2024 08:33 - 36 minutes - 33.3 MB

Click HERE to get the Episode Guide. Has a parenting mistake left you feeling guilty and unsure about how to move forward? You're not alone. This episode is all about understanding that mistakes are a part of the parenting journey. It's not about being perfect; it's about learning, growing, and recovering from those missteps. Today, we're focusing on how you can heal, forgive yourself, and improve your relationship with your young person after a mistake. 📌 Here's What You'll Learn in...

58. How To Encourage Your Child or Teen to be Independently Self-Motivated

January 14, 2024 08:33 - 46 minutes - 42.7 MB

Transform Your Young Person's Motivation: The 4-Stage Journey to Self-Driven Success! Are you watching your child or teen meander through life with minimal drive? It's time to turn the tide! In this pivotal episode of The Modern Parenting Solutions Podcast, I unveil the final secret to unlocking your young person's independent self-motivation. Discover the science-backed 4-stage journey that promises not just a fleeting change, but a transformative shift in your young person's approach...

57. Beyond Lazy or Entitled: Understanding Your Child or Teen’s Natural Motivation Personality

December 31, 2023 08:33 - 56 minutes - 51.3 MB

Are you puzzled by what truly motivates your child or teen? This episode is a game-changer in understanding and harnessing their unique motivational powers! Discover the seven motivation personality types and identify which one resonates with your young person. This isn't just about learning these types; it's about transforming your approach to parenting. By recognizing your young person's motivation personality, you can apply effective, tailored strategies to strengthen their 'Motivation ...

56. Unlocking the Power of External Motivation: Reward Ideas for Motivating Kids and Teens

December 17, 2023 18:15 - 46 minutes - 42.5 MB

Are you struggling with the challenge of motivating a child or teen who doesn't seem to respond to the traditional rewards, such as extra screen time or taking away their cell phone? You're not alone, and this episode is your guiding light to transform your approach to your child's motivation. 📌 In This Episode, You’ll Discover: [6:42] Building the Motivation Muscle: A quick review of the fundamental elements essential to nurturing your young person's motivation. [13:10] The Power of...

55. Three (Bad) Parenting Habits That Destroy Your Child or Teen's Motivation

December 10, 2023 08:33 - 56 minutes - 52.1 MB

Feeling overwhelmed by your young person's lack of motivation? Struggling to inspire them to reach their full potential? If you're nodding along, desperate for a change, this episode is your beacon of hope! You're not alone, and today's episode is the first in a series dedicated to revolutionizing your approach to your child's motivation. Get ready to embark on a journey that promises to transform not just this semester, but potentially the entire academic trajectory of your young person...

54. How To Expertly Handle Toddler Tantrums, Teen Moodiness, and Extended Family Drama During The Holidays

November 19, 2023 08:33 - 35 minutes - 32.9 MB

Navigate Holiday Mayhem with Style: Say Goodbye to Stress and Hello to Joy! 🎄✨ Dreading the holiday meltdowns, teen mood swings, and family feuds? Wish you could glide through the holiday chaos with the grace of a figure skater and the cool of a winter breeze? Well, if you're nodding along and thinking, "Yes, please!", you're in the right place! You're not alone, and today's episode is all about turning those holiday headaches into holiday highlights. In this episode, I'm tackling th...

53. How To Enjoy The Holidays By Giving Gifts With Heart And Meaning

November 12, 2023 08:33 - 40 minutes - 37.3 MB

Make Christmas Enjoyable And Unforgettable This Year: Master the Art of Gift-Giving with Intention and Love! 🎄 Do you get stressed out just thinking about finding “the right” gifts for your child or teen this year? Ever feel like your Christmas gifts miss the mark? Are you tired of overspending and starting January with debt regret? You're not the only one. If you've ever faced these holiday dilemmas, this episode is crafted just for you. Join me as we journey through the art of inte...

52. When Your Child or Teen Doesn’t Want To Go To School: 10 Strategies That Work

October 29, 2023 07:33 - 54 minutes - 49.9 MB

From School Refusal to Ready & Willing: Dive Deep into Why Some Young People Say 'No' and How You Can Guide Them to a Consistent 'Yes'!  Tired of the morning battles? Feeling defeated with every "I don't want to go to school"? Frustrated because it's been a recurring pattern? You're not alone. Whether it's a recent challenge or you've been facing it for years, this episode is for you. This week's episode will uncover the heart of school refusal and give you the tools you need to addr...

51. Why Kids and Teens Lie and How To Solve This Problem

October 22, 2023 07:33 - 58 minutes - 54 MB

🎙️ The Truth About Lies: Uncover the 8 Reasons Why Young People Lie and How to Address Them Head-On!🌟 Feeling like you're playing detective more than parent lately? Wondering why your young person might be bending the truth or flat-out lying? You're not alone, and this episode is your ultimate guide to understanding and addressing this common but complex issue. 🎧 In this eye-opening episode, I'm diving into the nitty-gritty of why young people lie and, more importantly, how you can guide...

50. Use My Guide To Improve Your Child or Teen's First Quarter Grades

October 15, 2023 07:33 - 42 minutes - 38.6 MB

📚 "Bad Grades Be Gone: Turn Your Child or Teen's Academic Struggles Into Success—Before It's Too Late!" 🌟 It's only one quarter into the school year...are you feeling that pit in your stomach every time you think about your young person's grades? Trust me, you're not alone. But here's the good news: this episode is your lifeline.  In this must-listen episode, I'm diving deep into the strategies that will help you turn your young person's academic struggles into a success story. And the...

49. Parenting Q&A: Listener Questions on Family, Tweens, and Teens Answered

October 08, 2023 07:33 - 49 minutes - 45.2 MB

Ready to feel like you're part of a supportive parenting community? This episode is like sitting down for coffee with me and other like-minded parents, all of us sharing our most pressing questions and finding real solutions together. Trust me, you're not alone on this journey, and today's episode proves it! 🎙️ What's Inside Today's Coffee Chat—Err, I Mean Episode: [5:59] Question #1: One of our amazing listeners has seen some beautiful changes in their family life but is a bit anxious ab...

48. Traditional vs. Modern Parenting: The Five Pillars You Need To Know

October 01, 2023 07:33 - 39 minutes - 36.3 MB

Feel like you're walking a tightrope between modern and traditional parenting? Maybe you're not even sure which side you lean towards? Well, hold onto your earbuds, because this episode is packed with the tools you need to nail parenting in the modern world—no matter what your style is! 🎧 Here's a Peek Inside Today's Episode: [3:06] My results of The Traditional vs. Modern Parenting Quiz: I spill the beans on my own parenting style, and let's just say, it might surprise you. [4:31] I...

47. Down the Rabbit Hole: How To Protect Your Teen From The Self-Diagnosis Trend on Social Media

September 17, 2023 07:33 - 48 minutes - 44.6 MB

Ever find yourself deep in the trenches, navigating the complicated world of your young person’s mental health? Don't worry; you're not alone, and this episode is here to help you breathe easier! Join me in a groundbreaking episode where I crack open the lid on the recent surge of mental health self-diagnosis trends sweeping through social media platforms. Trust me, it’s an eye-opener you won't want to miss! 🎧 Grab Your Earbuds, Here’s What’s Inside: [2:24] My experience with previous...

46. Dream Big, Plan Smart: Your Guide to Future Visioning

September 10, 2023 07:33 - 39 minutes - 36.4 MB

👉 Grab Your Episode Homework Helper Here Ever feel stuck in a loop, asking your young person about their future, only to be met with a shrug or a mumbled "I don't know?" You're definitely not alone, and the fantastic news is—we've got the antidote! In this power-packed episode, I’m diving into the remarkable strategy of "Future Visioning," a game-changing way to inspire your child or teen to think big and act purposefully. From toddlers to teens, this approach is designed to nurture thei...

45. How to Flip the Script on Your Child's Impulse Control: 5 Game-Changing Tips

September 03, 2023 07:20 - 32 minutes - 30 MB

Ever feel like you're constantly putting out fires at home because your young person struggles with self-control? You're not alone, and the good news is, there's a solution! In this episode, I dive deep into the transformative power of teaching self-control skills to your young person. And I’m not just talking about resisting a marshmallow here (remember the classic Stanford Marshmallow Experiment?); we're talking about life-changing benefits that will make your family environment happier,...

44. Unlock Your Child's Success: My Five Best Back To School Tips For Parents

August 27, 2023 18:10 - 1 hour - 57.1 MB

=> Get The Episode Homework Sheet HERE <= Ready to kickstart a transformative school year for your child or teen?  In today's episode of Modern Parenting Solutions, we're diving deep into how you can use the Back to School season as a springboard for your young person's overall future success and happiness. And guess what? It's not just about the grades! We'll explore the five crucial developmental areas: academics, independence, decision-making skills, parent-child relationship, and b...

43. Teaching your child or teen to think for themselves: Cultivating Independent Thinkers

July 09, 2023 19:26 - 34 minutes - 31.2 MB

Ever wondered if your child’s stubborn streak could actually be a budding spark of independent thinking that, if nurtured correctly, could shape them into a confident, innovative adult? OR… Have you ever found yourself frustrated by your child’s constant indecisiveness, questioning if this could impact their ability to navigate the world confidently and independently as they grow? In this episode, you’ll learn why it’s not only important – but essential – to cultivate independent thoug...

42. How Establishing Family Routines and Rituals Can Help Modern Parents Overcome Overwhelm, Stress, and Disconnection

June 25, 2023 18:16 - 41 minutes - 37.6 MB

Parents confide in me all the time that they're tired, overwhelmed by all of the tasks screaming to get done on their to-do list -- and that they feel like they don't get enough time to be with their family. But what if I told you that there is ONE SIMPLE parenting strategy that could not only help you feel more peaceful and give you more time with your family, but it also makes your child or teen a better person too? You might be surprised to learn that all you have to do is to make sur...

41. Coping With Anxiety: Strategies For Parents of Anxious Kids and Teens [Part 2]

June 12, 2023 17:16 - 49 minutes - 45.3 MB

Here is part 2 of my series on parenting young people with anxiety. The previous episode and this episode gives you (in detail) my 4-step Anxiety Management Plan. I teach this plan to all the families that I work with in my private practice - so I know it works! Here's the plan: Step 1: Identify the anxiety triggers Step 2: Rate the anxiety Step 3: Use coping skills as necessary Step 4: Use cognitive reframe skills as necessary Confused? Need more detail on how to use coping sk...

40. Coping With Anxiety: Strategies For Parents of Anxious Kids and Teens [Part 1]

June 04, 2023 21:45 - 45 minutes - 41.9 MB

Tired of feeling helpless when your young person experiences an anxious episode? Whether parenting a young child or teenager, the strategies I talk about today will help you feel confident in supporting your young person through their anxiety. It may not be possible to eliminate your young person's anxiety for them, but you can help them learn how to manage and take charge of it, rather than letting anxiety control their life. The topic of young people and anxiety is a BIG one - and I ...

39. Thursday Thoughts: Listener Questions and APA Social Media Guidelines For Adolescents

June 01, 2023 17:14 - 38 minutes - 35.6 MB

Get ready for some parenting inspiration and support on today's Thursday Thoughts episode! As you know, my goal for the podcast is to provide education, inspiration, and support for all you Modern Parents out there (and...YES!...you are a Modern Parent if you are raising wonderful young people in today's modern world!).  My Sunday episodes are primarily used to provide specific education on a parenting strategy or technique, but my Thursday Thoughts episodes are all about the inspiration...

38. Stay Sane This Summer: Summer Strategies For Parents That Build Positive Parent-Child Relationships, Encourage Independence, and Create Lifelong Memories

May 29, 2023 15:13 - 51 minutes - 46.7 MB

So last week I gave you strategies to help you create a great summer for your young person...but this week I'm giving you strategies to help YOU have a great summer. Yes! YOU MATTER TOO! My goal for this episode is to give you practical strategies to help you stay sane this summer - I don't want you counting down the weeks...days...hours...until it's time to send your young person off to school again. To do that,I go over 6 common misconceptions that I hear from parents every summer, and...

37. It's Almost Summer Break...Are YOU Ready?

May 07, 2023 20:12 - 41 minutes - 38 MB

Why am I talking about Summer Break when it’s only May? Because you’ve GOT to take advantage of Summer Break to not only fight the traditional summer slump (you know…the sudden yearly disappearance of all that your young person learned over the past school year) but you’ve also got to address the Pandemic Backslide too. What is the Pandemic Backslide? Recent research examining the impact of the pandemic on young people reveals that it has set them back by ALMOST A YEAR! Through my in...

36. Thursday Thoughts: Negative Teenager Question & New Research on Teens and Social Media

April 27, 2023 07:30 - 15 minutes - 14.2 MB

Today's Thursday Thoughts episode answers a listener question on negative teens and I also discuss some important new research on teens and social media. Want more info on Modern Parent? Check out the great resources below… THE SELF-MOTIVATION CHEAT SHEET: CLICK HERE to download the free Self-Motivation Cheat Sheet THE SELF-MOTIVATION SUCCESS ACADEMY: Need more support in helping your child or teen master self-motivation? Then check out our online course for parents – The Self-Motivatio...

35. The Importance of Teaching Your Young Person to Live a Purposeful Life

April 23, 2023 20:06 - 36 minutes - 33.3 MB

Today's episode title might make your anxiety spike, as I'm sure you're already thinking, "As a parent, I need to ensure my young person is educated, I need to teach them to be kind and moral people, AND I have to help them develop their natural talents and interests...and now I also need to add growing their sense or purpose to the list? I can't do it all!" But I'm here to tell you that without focusing on your young person's sense of purpose, then everything else you attempt to teach the...

34. Why Mindset Matters AND The Three Most Relevant Mindsets For Today’s Young People

April 16, 2023 19:03 - 41 minutes - 38.4 MB

If I could wave a magic wand and improve just ONE thing for many of the young people that I help at my office, I would transform their negative and limiting mindsets into positive and empowering ones. This episode was inspired by some of the recent work that I've been implementing into the sessions with teens in my office. I can't tell you enough how focusing on changing the mindsets of many of my young patients has really improved their mental health, connections with family and friends, ...

33. 5 Myths About Kids and Motivation to Stop Believing in 2023

January 08, 2023 22:30 - 19 minutes - 17.4 MB

Because self-motivation is such an important and HUGE topic, I’m also continuing the theme on today’s episode. Last week, I told you about the 3 science-backed ingredients that need to be present in your day-to-day parenting in order to influence your child or teen’s self-motivation to grow. I know these ingredients work, too, because not only have I seen success with these ingredients when I used them with my own 2 kids, but I’ve also seen countless numbers of the parents I coach use th...

5 Myths About Kids and Motivation to Stop Believing in 2023

January 08, 2023 22:30 - 19 minutes - 15.4 MB

Because self-motivation is such an important and HUGE topic, I’m also continuing the theme on today’s episode. Last week, I told you about the 3 science-backed ingredients that need to be present in your day-to-day parenting in order to influence your child or teen’s self-motivation to grow. I know these ingredients work, too, because not only have I seen success with these ingredients when I used them with my own 2 kids, but I’ve also seen countless numbers of the parents I coach use th...

32. Why Is This Generation of Young People SO Unmotivated? Because They’re Missing These Three Important Daily Elements

January 02, 2023 21:28 - 37 minutes - 34.7 MB

Today’s episode is going to answer the question you’ve always wondered: why can’t young people just buckle down and get their work done? Believe it or not, self-motivation is like a physical muscle – it can be strengthened with practice. This means that parents can develop strategies to use with their young people to help them grow well-developed self-motivation muscles! In this episode, you’ll learn TWO important concepts: #1: Why your current parenting style might be DESTROYING your c...

Why Is This Generation of Young People SO Unmotivated? Because They’re Missing These Three Important Daily Elements

January 02, 2023 21:28 - 37 minutes - 30.6 MB

Today’s episode is going to answer the question you’ve always wondered: why can’t young people just buckle down and get their work done? Believe it or not, self-motivation is like a physical muscle – it can be strengthened with practice. This means that parents can develop strategies to use with their young people to help them grow well-developed self-motivation muscles! In this episode, you’ll learn TWO important concepts: #1: Why your current parenting style might be DESTROYING your c...

31. Thursday Thoughts: How To Stay Focused on The Right Parenting Mindset

December 08, 2022 19:04 - 18 minutes - 16.9 MB

Need inspiration and support with finding - and keeping - the right parenting mindset? My goal for The Modern Parenting Solutions podcast is to provide you with the education, inspiration, and support you need to be the best parent possible. My Sunday episodes are packed with actionable tips and strategies to provide the educational part of that goal, while my Thursday episodes provide you with the inspiration and support needed to really jump-start what you learn. In this episode, my go...

Thursday Thoughts: How To Stay Focused on The Right Parenting Mindset

December 08, 2022 19:04 - 18 minutes - 14.5 MB

Need inspiration and support with finding - and keeping - the right parenting mindset? My goal for The Modern Parenting Solutions podcast is to provide you with the education, inspiration, and support you need to be the best parent possible. My Sunday episodes are packed with actionable tips and strategies to provide the educational part of that goal, while my Thursday episodes provide you with the inspiration and support needed to really jump-start what you learn. In this episode, my go...

30. Ending The Semester on a Positive Note Before Going on Christmas Break

December 04, 2022 21:44 - 32 minutes - 29.6 MB

If your young person is struggling with their grades or other academic responsibilities - and they only have WEEKS left in the semester before going on Christmas Break - then this episode is a MUST LISTEN! This episode was inspired by the real-world issues going on with the young people at the Modern Parenting Solutions office this week. The other therapists and I have been busy helping young people who are very stressed out right now, but need to finish the semester on a positive note. ...

Ending The Semester on a Positive Note Before Going on Christmas Break

December 04, 2022 21:44 - 32 minutes - 25.7 MB

If your young person is struggling with their grades or other academic responsibilities - and they only have WEEKS left in the semester before going on Christmas Break - then this episode is a MUST LISTEN! This episode was inspired by the real-world issues going on with the young people at the Modern Parenting Solutions office this week. The other therapists and I have been busy helping young people who are very stressed out right now, but need to finish the semester on a positive note. ...