Looking For The Middle: The Christian’s Guide to Modern Dating

Be Your Own Person

Today's episode is short, sweet, and to the point! We're talking about motivations for dating someone, how to be your own person when you're dating someone, and we talk about some of things we still struggle with when it comes to this too.

CouchCast: You Like Him. He Doesn't Like You. When Do You Move On?

Oh this was a tough one! We've all been there... you really like this guy, but he just doesn't seem to be interested. When is enough time to just say ok, I'm moving on? We're talking about what to look for, how to draw boundaries with your time, and move on!

Navigating the Friend Zone!

Raise your hand if you've ever been friend zoned! Yep, that's what I thought, lots of hands going up right about now. Figuring out the friend zone is tough regardless of which side of the situation you are on. Today, we're talking about how to recognize when you're being put in the friend zone, ways you may not even realize you're putting someone else there, and we also went to the source and asked the guys directly... why do you friend zone a girl and how do you do it? This should be fun!

CouchCast: How Long Before You Will Know It Is/Isn't Working?

A great question to ask yourself when you first start dating someone new! How long do you give it before you know it is or isn't working? How do you know? What to look for? And more...

How to Get Asked Out... Or at Least Improve Your Odds!

Really when it comes down to it, there's no magic formula for this, but there are some things you can do to improve your odds of getting the guy you're interested in, or any guy for that matter, to ask you out. That is what we're talking about today...some practical (and not so practical) things you can do to make yourself more "ask out-able" (cuz that's a thing, right??) 

CouchCast: Pre-DTR Physical Boundaries

Drawing boundaries can be tough... there's this line between conviction and legalism and you have to constantly evaluate where you're walking on that line. Today, we're answering a listener question about what is ok and what isn't when it comes to physical affection and boundaries.

Dating in Your 20's vs. Dating in Your 30's

It's easy to only see the bad parts of the season you're currently in and only the good parts of every other situation you could possibly be in right now instead. The classic 'grass is always greener' mentality... Today, we're talking through the good AND the bad about dating at different stages of your life and what your mentality should be through all of it.

CouchCast: How to Breakup Well

It doesn't matter whether you're the person being broken up with or you're the person doing the breaking up... it's not fun no matter how you look at it. But, there are some things you can do to make it a little better and be able to look back without any regrets. That's what we're talking about today!

Is "The One" Out There? Do Soulmates Exist?

We hear it all the time.... "Follow your heart and you'll just know when you find 'the one'" Have you ever wondered if 'the one' really is out there? Well today, we're talking all about this topic and coming to a definite conclusion about whether we think soulmates actually exist. 

CouchCast: How to Pray for Your Future Husband

This was a great question from a listener! We all hear people say that you should pray for your future spouse, but what exactly to pray isn't always easy to figure out... In this episode, we talk about some of the things that we both pray about for our future husbands.

Online Dating #3 - Mel and Tres. A Success Story!

We all know someone who has tried online dating, but we don't all know someone who married the person they met online. So, today, we are interviewing Mel and Tres as they tell us all about their story... everything from awkward first dates, to navigating long distance in their relationship, to advice they would give to someone who is thinking of trying online dating. They have so much insight and wisdom! Don't miss it!

CouchCast: What to Do on the Weekend When You Don't Have a Date.

Don't have a date this weekend? That's ok! There is still plenty of stuff to do when you're not going out with someone... we talk about several of our favorites in today's CouchCast.

Online Dating #2 - Make Your Profile Stand Out, When to Setup a 1st Date, and How to Stay Safe

There are so many things to consider when you're dating online. Today we're continuing to take a look at what several of those are... how to make your profile interesting and memorable, when is the best time to set up a date, and how to keep yourself safe and minimize risk when online dating. 

CouchCast: How Important Are Common Interests?

Do you find it easier to date someone with a lot in common with you or do you prefer more of an opposites attract mentality? Today, we're talking about how much weight common interests should have.

Online Dating #1 - Which Sites to Use and How to Spot a Good Online Dating Profile

Hey Guys! Today kicks off our mini-series on online dating. In this episode, we're comparing sites and telling you the good and bad in each one, we're going through some things to look for in a guy's profile and how to navigate some of the initial steps of online dating.

CouchCast: What to Wear/Eat on a 1st Date

We've all worried about what to wear on a 1st date, but have you ever thought through what you should eat too? No?... just us? Ok, good to know! But seriously, if you have ever wondered about either of those, we throw out our thoughts on the subject here.

Why Can't My Life Be a Romantic Comedy?

Season 2 is here! And just in time for Valentine's Day! In this episode, we're swooning... uh... I mean discussing our favorite RomCom couples and what we love about them. There's nothing wrong with admiring good character in someone from a movie, but you've got to use some discretion and realize that movies just aren't real. So, manage your expectations accordingly!

Season 2 - Extended Sneak Peek!

Season 2 is just around the corner and we wanted to give you a look at what you can expect! And, yes, we realize now that we said 'super excited' approximately 170038579 times in these few minutes... we're working on expanding our vocabularies. Promise! ;)

CouchCast: The Dreaded DTR

You all know what we mean... Define. The. Relationship. So you've been dating a guy for a while but you're just not really sure where it's going and you both just need a little bit more clarity. Do you bring it up? Should you wait and let him do it? When's too soon? Too late? So many questions... we've got a few answers.  

CouchCast: How to Look Positively at Past Relationships

Bitter and alone, party of 1? Is this you right after a breakup? Today, we're talking about how to biblically learn and grow from the end of a relationship. It's not always easy, but it is always right. 

CouchCast: How Important Is Your Parent's or Friend's Approval?

Let's be real... you're most likely not asking yourself this if your parents and friends are crazy about the guy you're dating. You're asking this if they're not completely on board with him. Today, we're talking about how much their approval matters and how it should affect your decision making.

CouchCast: 1st Date Conversation Starters

Ever been on a 1st date where you can practically hear the proverbial crickets chirping over the awkward silence? Yeah, us too! So, we've put together some of our best ideas for what to fill those silences with... Have fun!

Roundtable Discussion on Modern Christian Dating & Relationships

Hey Everyone! We are really excited *shocker* to be in Duluth, GA this Friday for a roundtable discussion about dating in the 21st century as a Christian. If you're local, feel free to join us! You can email us for the details. 

Roundtable Discussion on Modern Christian Dating & Relationships

Hey Everyone! We are really excited *shocker* to be in Duluth, GA this Friday for a roundtable discussion about dating in the 21st century as a Christian. If you're local, feel free to join us! You can email us for the details. 

CouchCast: Does He Have to be a Stronger Christian to Lead Well?

Today, we're answering (or at least trying) the question of whether or not the guy you're dating has to be a stronger Christian than you are to lead well...

CouchCast: Flirting 101

We're discussing different flirting styles, how to tell when a guy is flirting with you, some things to avoid when flirting with him, and more!  

CouchCast: Girls Asking Guys Out... Good Idea or Bad Idea?

There's a difference between showing interest and pursuit... sometimes that line isn't clear, but where do you draw the line for yourself? Would you ask a guy out... or do you wait for him? We tell you what we think in today's episode!

Season 1 Blooper Reel!

Merry Christmas from us to you! We're giving you the gift of laughter this year.... laughter at our expense, that is. Enjoy! :)  

If Singleness Is A Gift, I'd Like To Return It...

Season 1 finale! We're coming into Christmas week and we know that navigating the holiday season as a single person can be tricky... We've got some tips and ideas for making it a smooth(er) couple of weeks as you navigate family, friends, parties, and all the other things you have going on!

Easier Said Than Done

Ok, we're getting real today. We know it's really easy for us to sit here every week and talk about all of the things that will fix issues or help you avoid problems, but implementing those things is a whole different ballgame and we realize that. So, we're talking today about the things we don't have figured out yet or the things we are still struggling with in this single and dating season. 

Hospitality & The Single Girl

Do you struggle to be hospitable in our hang-out culture? We're discussing ways today to focus on true hospitable in this season of singleness that will set you up well for later stages in life down the road.

Hospitality & The Single Girl

Do you struggle to be hospitable in our hang-out culture? We're discussing ways today to focus on true hospitable in this season of singleness that will set you up well for later stages in life down the road.

Are You Sure You Want To Get Married?

Does the thought of marriage scare you? For a lot of people, the idea of marriage isn't all rainbows and butterflies... today, we are going to look at what some of those fears are and give some (hopefully) helpful Biblical encouragement to tackle them!

CouchCast: Can Guys & Girls Be Just Friends?

A quick bonus mini-episode! One take, no notes, just imagine a conversation happening on a couch near you. An answer to the age old question... Can guys and girls be just friends? 

CouchCast: Can Guys & Girls Be Just Friends?

A quick bonus mini-episode! One take, no notes, just imagine a conversation happening on a couch near you. An answer to the age old question... Can guys and girls be just friends? 

Are You Content Or Just Distracted?

In today's society, where busyness is a badge of honor, it is so easy to mask a discontented spirit with the distractions of day to day life. Today, we look deeper into this and talk about areas in our own lives where we have done and are doing this even today. It's a daily process of seeking contentment in Christ and we are working on this just as much as the next person.

What's Chemistry Got To Do With It?

Today we're tackling the topics of chemistry and attraction and how important (or not) they are in a relationship. It's definitely one subject where we're still looking for the middle... 

What Christian Men Really Think About Dating (Part 2)

Are you lost when it comes to trying to figure out what guys really think about dating? We’ve been there too! So, we went straight to the source. We sent out a survey to Christian guys and asked them all kinds of questions to get inside their brains a little on this topic. Today is part 2 of what we found out!

What Christian Men Really Think About Dating (Part 1)

Are you lost when it comes to trying to figure out what guys really think about dating? We’ve been there too! So, we went straight to the source. We sent out a survey to Christian guys and asked them all kinds of questions to get inside their brains a little on this topic. Today is part 1 of what we found out! 

Girls and Their Lists...

Ok ladies, you all know what we mean... that list of what you want your future husband to be. We all have them, but if they're not handled wisely, they can be more trouble than help. Today we're going to explore which things should be non-negotiable and which ones you probably should let go!

Girl, Live Your Life!

'Waiting' can be a dreaded word among single Christian women, but it doesn't have to be! Today, we're talking about how to actively wait on the guy you're interested in to pursue you and also how to actively wait in a possibly extended period of singleness too.

Six Men You Should Want To Date (Part 2)

We all have a 'type', those types are all different, and that's ok! But, there are some things that should be consistent in a man you look to date, regardless of what your 'type' is.... most important being that he is following Jesus. Today we're looking at what practical characteristics should be present in a man who is truly seeking Christ and how you can spot them!

Six Men You Should Want To Date (Part 1)

We all have a 'type', those types are all different, and that's ok! But, there are some things that should be consistent in a man you to look date, regardless of what your 'type' is.... most important being that he is following Jesus. Today we're looking at what practical characteristics should be present in a man who is truly seeking Christ and how you can spot them!

Technology Etiquette For Dating

There is technology at every turn these days! It's a huge part of dating in the 21st century and if used correctly, it can be a great asset in a relationship... Today we're talking about how to balance technology with face to face communication and so much more.

First Date Do's and Dont's

You only get one chance at a good first impression! Join us today as we help you figure out how to ace that good first impression... 

Sneak Peek - New Episode Tomorrow!

What We Wish Was Different

In today's episode, we're answering the question 'What do we personally wish was different about Christian dating?'. We'll be talking about some of the quirks and challenges that come along with trying to date as a Christian woman who wants to honor God with her dating life.

Teaser Trailer #2 - What We Wish Was Different

Full episode releases this Wednesday! 9/5/18.

Teaser Trailer - What We Wish Was Different

Full episode will be released next week. 9/5/18.

All About Us!

**Official Season 1 Launch 9/5/18** Come get to know us a little better! This episode is nothing but us rambling on about our lives and hobbies so that you can feel like we're old friends sitting in a coffeeshop catching up on life... because that's probably where we are and what we're doing right now!