Looking For The Middle: The Christian’s Guide to Modern Dating
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An Honest Conversation About Dating and Singleness
October 30, 2019 10:00 - 43 minutes - 79.9 MBThe two of us have been having a lot of conversations lately about dating, singleness, patience, giving grace, practicing what you preach, and resting in God's timing. We just wanted to share with you what's been on our hearts and hopefully encourage you too!
CouchCast: Can You Date "Too Fast" as a Christian?
October 25, 2019 10:00 - 10 minutes - 9.34 MBHave you ever wondered if your new relationship was moving too quickly? It can be overwhelming and kind of scary... today, we're answering a great listener question about whether or not moving too fast is as much of an issue when it comes to dating as a Christian.
8 Things A Single Person Never Wants to Hear (...and how to respond to them)
October 23, 2019 10:00 - 42 minutes - 78.1 MBThe holidays are almost upon us and with that comes lots of parties and lots of well meaning family and friends who sometimes don't think before asking some of the most awkward questions. Today, we're taking a comical approach to how to respond to some of the outlandish things people say!
CouchCast: Should You Ever Date Your Ex?
October 18, 2019 10:00 - 10 minutes - 8.54 MBWell, this was a fun one! haha This is such a tricky question. There are so many variables at play. But, we're giving you several good general principles to follow and questions to answer to hopefully make it just a bit less tricky.
Why You Need a Tribe... The Importance of Good Girlfriends in Your Life
October 16, 2019 10:00 - 38 minutes - 33.1 MBWe all need good girlfriends in our lives for so many reasons! Today we're having our tribe on the show to talk about some of those reasons... and it gets a little loud! haha We're talking about things like accountability, support, humor, distraction. All things that are needed whether you are dating or single.
CouchCast: Perks of Being Single
October 11, 2019 10:00 - 12 minutes - 10.3 MBWho says being single is all bad? It's definitely not! You may struggle to find the perks off the top of your head (we sure did!), but when you stop and think about it, it's definitely not all bad :)
Are You Ready to Meet Your Husband?
October 09, 2019 10:00 - 33 minutes - 31.6 MBHave you ever stopped to wonder what your life would like when you meet that guy who will become your husband? That is the exact question posed by Stephanie May Wilson in her new Future Husband Quiz. We've both taken the quiz and it was really insightful and helpful! So, we're talking about what we learned and really encouraging you to go take the quiz in today's episode!
CouchCast: How to Let a Guy Know You're Interested
October 04, 2019 10:00 - 12 minutes - 22.5 MBThis is by far the most asked question we get! It can be tough figuring out how to let a guy know you're interested without becoming the pursuer. In today's CouchCast, we went directly to the experts and asked one of our guy friends the best way to really communicate this to them. We also talk about some of our go to flirting techniques so there's that too! ;)
How Far is Too Far?
October 02, 2019 10:00 - 43 minutes - 36.7 MBOk here it is... the sex talk. You've asked and now we're answering! We are asked on a regular basis how far is too far to go with my boyfriend? What standards or boundaries should we have? What's ok and what isn't? We know there is a lot of confusion out there because there are soooo many different opinions and views on this. We try to take this question and add some clarity and encouragement to an issue that can be frustrating and confusing.
CouchCast: How to Encourage Spiritual and Personal Growth in a Relationship
September 27, 2019 10:00 - 13 minutes - 24.6 MBThis was a great listener question! Definitely really made us stop and think... We're discussing ways to encourage your boyfriend and to improve both of your spiritual and personal growth as you are progressing in a relationship.
Non-Negotiables vs. Preferences... Where to Draw the Line?
September 25, 2019 10:00 - 31 minutes - 57.5 MBYou all know we like to make lists around here. We're just list people, I guess you could say. We've talked a lot about the lists we make about what we're looking for in a future spouse, but today we're putting a different spin on it. Are there things that may be preferences for some people, but are non-negotiables for you? How do you decide what those are? That's the question we're answering in today's episode.
CouchCast: Is it Ok to Date Someone from a Different Denomination?
September 20, 2019 10:00 - 11 minutes - 10.2 MBThis is a great listener question today! We are giving our thoughts on dating outside your denomination... does it matter? Are they all just labels anyway? What things are important and which ones aren't? We answer all of these in today's CouchCast.
7 Signs You're On a Good First Date
September 18, 2019 10:00 - 28 minutes - 24.7 MBEver been on a first date and wondered if it was going well? Or, have you wondered how to make sure the guy you were with knew you were having a good time without having to outright say it? We've got you covered! We're going over 7 signs of a good first date today (and a few signs of a not so good first date thrown in for good measure)! Join us!
CouchCast: What Do You Do With the Annoying Habits of Your Significant Other?
September 13, 2019 10:00 - 10 minutes - 18.4 MBOh this is a fun question to kick off CouchCast for season 3 with! We're talking about how to kindly deal with or bring up to your significant other that their constant knuckle cracking and loud gum chewing are driving you crazy!
Can Wanting Marriage Be a Bad Thing?
September 11, 2019 10:00 - 36 minutes - 30.8 MBWelcome Back to Season 3!! We're so excited to kick off another season with you guys and we're diving right in with the doozy of a question... Can Wanting Marriage Be a Bad Thing? We walk through several questions you can ask yourself to figure out if maybe you've got your priorities all out of order and how to get them whipped back into shape!
Season 3 Preview!
September 06, 2019 10:00 - 6 minutes - 5.97 MBSeason 3 is almost here and we can hardly wait so we wanted to come on here and give you guys a sneak peek of what to expect this season on Looking for the Middle! :)
Season 2 Blooper Reel!
September 04, 2019 10:00 - 1 minute - 3.32 MBIf there was any question as to whether or not we're both just a little nutty... there will be no doubt after this! Enjoy!! haha
Favorite Things Month - First Date Must-Haves!
August 30, 2019 10:00 - 12 minutes - 11.1 MBAs Favorite Things Month winds down and we gear up for Season 3, we thought it would be a good transition to talk about all of our favorite things on a first date. Take a listen to hear the things we don't leave the house without wearing or taking with us!
Favorite Things Month - Things We Use Everyday
August 23, 2019 10:00 - 15 minutes - 28.1 MBWe had a request for a 'Day in the Life' episode, but we couldn't figure out how to make that interesting with just audio haha... so, we are talking about the things in our lives we can't go a day without! Close enough, right?? :)
Favorite Things Month - Clothes & Shopping
August 16, 2019 10:00 - 12 minutes - 11.3 MBWe're back with another CouchCast in Favorite Things Month and today, we're talking about some of our favorite brands, stores, and a few shopping tips too.
Favorite Things Month - Bloggers and Instagrammers
August 09, 2019 10:00 - 12 minutes - 22.4 MBHey Guys! Today, we're talking about some of our favorite bloggers and instagrammers. Some serious, but mostly just the ones that make us laugh a lot. We all need a little more laughter in our lives! :)
Favorite Things Month - Beauty/Styling Products
August 02, 2019 10:00 - 15 minutes - 29.1 MBWe're doing CouchCast a little different for the month of August! Tune in to find out why... It's Favorite Things Month around here and we're talking about our favorite beauty and styling products. Everything from mascara to coffee scrubs to hair brush/straightener combos.
Summer Series - Q&A #5
July 31, 2019 10:00 - 21 minutes - 39.1 MBToday is our 5th and final Q&A episode of the summer! Next month we'll be back to CouchCast every Friday. Today, we're talking about body image, dating in high school, and when is the right time to tell your friend they need to break up with their boyfriend?
CouchCast: Is it Ever Ok to Date Someone Who is Not a Christian?
July 26, 2019 10:00 - 11 minutes - 20.9 MBSurprise! We've got a CouchCast for you this week! A great question that is not always fun to talk about, but it needs to be talked about... Is it ever ok to date someone who is not a Christian? That's what we're tackling today.
Summer Series - Q&A #4
July 24, 2019 10:00 - 30 minutes - 26.3 MBIt's a new day and we've got three new questions to answer for you! All three of these really made us think and hopefully they'll be super helpful to you!
Summer Series - Q&A #3
July 17, 2019 10:00 - 21 minutes - 18.3 MB3 Down, 2 to go... Keep the questions coming! We're talking today about how to tell the difference between nerves and red flags in a new relationship and also what pursuit really looks like to a Christian woman.
Summer Series - Q&A #2
July 10, 2019 10:00 - 22 minutes - 18.7 MBWe're back with round 2 of our summer question series!
Summer Series - Q&A #1
July 03, 2019 10:00 - 5 minutes - 47.6 MBHey Guys! Today, and the rest of July, we're answering your questions!
If You've Kissed Dating Goodbye, How to Say Hello Again
June 26, 2019 10:00 - 35 minutes - 31.3 MBIt's the season 2 season finale! We're taking it full circle today and getting back to a big reason why we started this podcast in the first place... We explain exactly why we're looking for the middle!
CouchCast: When to Meet the Families
June 21, 2019 10:00 - 9 minutes - 8.45 MBWhen is the best time to meet the family? That's what we're discussing today!
All About Long Distance Relationships
June 19, 2019 10:00 - 25 minutes - 21.5 MBThink you have what it takes to go the distance? Long distance that is... today, we're talking about what to look for in yourself and what it takes to navigate a long distance relationship well.
CouchCast: What Do I Do When I Have Strong Feelings for a Guy, but I'm Moving Away?
June 14, 2019 10:00 - 8 minutes - 15.7 MBAnother great listener question! Today, we're discussing options for what to do when you're moving away, but have strong feelings for someone. Tell him? Try long distance?
Just Relax!
June 12, 2019 10:00 - 26 minutes - 48.8 MBLet's not overcomplicate dating! Today, we're talking about ways you can make dating easier, more fun, and just relax while doing it.
CouchCast: Age or Maturity? Which is More Important?
June 07, 2019 10:00 - 9 minutes - 17.2 MBAge is just a number.... or is it? That's our topic of discussion in today's CouchCast!
Can You Be Too Picky?
June 05, 2019 10:00 - 29 minutes - 24.9 MBWe all have a type, and we know what we like, but can holding too tightly to that get you in trouble? That's what we're talking about today!
CouchCast: Where Can You Go to Meet Eligible, Christian Men?
May 31, 2019 10:00 - 10 minutes - 9.33 MBToday's question is from a listener who is wondering where she can go to meet eligible, godly, Christian men. We know she's not the only one wondering this, so we're going to take a stab at it today.
How to Know if He's a Keeper
May 29, 2019 10:00 - 24 minutes - 21.6 MBIn today's episode, we've got a list for you going into 10 ways to tell if the guy you're dating, or thinking about dating, is a keeper. Everything from does he make you laugh to does he point you to Jesus...
CouchCast: The Best Dating Advice We Ever Got
May 24, 2019 10:00 - 13 minutes - 24 MBThis was a fun one! We're talking about the best advice we've gotten about dating.... and then we're throwing in a twist and talking about the worst advice we've gotten too!
Managing Expectations
May 22, 2019 10:00 - 38 minutes - 29.1 MBOh those dreaded expectations... they always seem to get in the way don't they! In today's episode we're talking about why and how to manage your expectations in a relationship. We're talking about what is reasonable to expect and what isn't.
CouchCast: The Ideal Dating Timeline
May 17, 2019 10:00 - 13 minutes - 12.2 MBIn today's episode, we're answering the question, "How long should you date before getting engaged?". And also, we talk about how ridiculously short both of our parents' dating relationships were! #crazy
A First Date Checklist
May 15, 2019 10:00 - 43 minutes - 78.8 MBIn today's episode, we're going to walk you from start to finish on a first date... everything from date ideas to date prep to how to tell if it's going well/not going well and finally how to end the date well and when/how to follow up. It's a lot of info, so get ready and let's just jump in!
CouchCast: Is Age Just a Number?
May 10, 2019 10:00 - 9 minutes - 18 MBWe stumbled on this CouchCast question ourselves as we were recording a different episode! So, we wrote it down and this week it got picked from the bowl... what is a good age gap between you and the person you're dating? Purely subjective and purely fun this week!
Loneliness, Party of 1...
May 08, 2019 10:00 - 31 minutes - 25.3 MB1 is the loneliest number after all... But, it doesn't have to be! In today's episode, we are covering some strategies for combating loneliness while you're single and talking about what your focus should be on during that time.
CouchCast: What's Keeping You in Your Comfort Zone?
May 03, 2019 10:00 - 13 minutes - 25.5 MB{"'You miss 100% of the shots you don't take' - Wayne Gretzky" -Michael Scott} - Kristen Camp Need I say more?? lol
How to Relate Well to Friends in Different Stages
May 01, 2019 10:00 - 35 minutes - 34.2 MBWe've got a special guest host today! Melanie (Bethany's sister) is back! Kristen is on vacation so Mel stepped in and we talked all about the obstacles and challenges we face in trying to relate well to friends of all stages... single, married, kids. Everything.
CouchCast: What Does it Look Like for a Guy to Lead Well?
April 26, 2019 10:00 - 10 minutes - 9.16 MBIn today's episode, we're talking about leadership and what we think you should look for when you're trying to decide if a guy has good leadership potential.
So You've Been Rejected, Now What?
April 24, 2019 10:00 - 35 minutes - 33.8 MBNobody likes being rejected! But, today we're talking about different types of rejection and how to deal with and learn from each one.
CouchCast: The Friendzone Question We Didn't Answer
April 19, 2019 10:00 - 9 minutes - 18 MBIt was brought to our attention that we answered the 'how', but not the 'why' behind guys friendzone a girl... So, we remedied that, called up Kristen's brother again, and he set us straight! :)
Are You What He's Looking For?
April 17, 2019 10:00 - 42 minutes - 39.2 MBWe all have our lists of what we're looking for and we're told constantly to just hold out for that perfect guy and not to settle. But, very rarely are the tables turned on us and we're forced to ask ourselves do we have the qualities that the guy we're looking for is looking for? Today, we're doing just that!
CouchCast: What Do We Think About Chivalry?
April 12, 2019 10:00 - 9 minutes - 8.44 MBThis was a great listener question from one of our guy listeners! He asked what aspects of chivalry do girls appreciate? Kristen and I both have different answers... tune in to see if any of yours match ours!