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Life on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory Podcast

430 episodes - English - Latest episode: 5 months ago - ★★★★★ - 353 ratings

Life on the Swingset is a podcast and website about swinging, polyamory, and open relationships from the trenches. Through debates, interviews, and sexy discussions, The Swingset Crew tackles sex, relationships, and their accompanying accoutrements, and what it means to be open sexually in a world that’s often closed.

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SS 173: Swinging With Scars - Body Image & Identity After Major Life Changes

September 10, 2014 23:14 - 1 hour - 44.6 MB

Emotional scars, physical scars, both can wreak havoc on your emotional state and body image, especially when you feel different than before. Earlier this year Ginger took a hiatus from the Swingset for a body change, and tonight we're talking about why.   Give us a call and leave a voicemail at 573-55-SWING, (573-557-9464), we want your stories, your orgasms, your everything! Join us at CatalystCon West September 11-14 - use the promo code SWINGSET to save $10 off your pass! Want to hel...

SS 172: Organizing & Travelling with Sex Toys - What To Do With Our Dildos, Vibrators, Lube, Rope, Floggers, & Other Fun Things

September 04, 2014 14:50 - 1 hour - 43.9 MB

The two most non-"how do I start swinging" questions we get on the Swingset is how do you organize your sex toys and how do you travel with sex toy, so we go in depth with advice and suggestions on what to do with your growing piles of sexy at your own house and on the road.

SS 171: Coming Out Kinky with Guest Jean Franzblau

August 28, 2014 04:11 - 59 minutes - 33.2 MB

Jean Franzblau, speaker, writer and performer of the one woman show "Coming Out Kinky: A Grown Up Comedy" joins us for a discussion of her show as well as a performed excerpt, and a discussion on being kinky in general and what it means to show that to the world.

SS 170: The Messiness of Speaking Out About Sex and CatalystCon with Guest Dee Dennis

August 20, 2014 14:53 - 1 hour - 41.5 MB

After the explosive finale of last March's CatalystCon East, we bring Dee Dennis back on the show to discuss how hard it often is to get a dialog going about sex without having dissent everywhere. We try to parse the value of community vs being snarky, and Cooper drops the shocking revelation that sometimes he is controversial.

SS 169: Full Swap - Swingset's Partners Take Over The Show

August 13, 2014 14:50 - 1 hour - 52.3 MB

It's bizarro world and Life on the Swingset is going FULL SWAP. The Professor hosts this round table discussion featuring the partners of the Swingset, Ophilia Tesla, Tonia Thomas, and Ronin Technogeisha. They discuss being behind the scenes, putting up with the Swingset, their experience in the lifestyle, their desires and hopes, and quickly run out of time.  

SS 168: We Are All In Charge in the Swinging Lifestyle

August 07, 2014 15:22 - 1 hour - 42.8 MB

We're all evangelists for our lifestyles. We're not trying to convince people to try it out, we're there to offer our own experiences, to story tell, to educate when people ask for more information, and when people are ready to hop in, at least for us swingers, we all seem to make the same mistake. "Also, women run the lifestyle!" We unpack the sentiment, the history, and the reality behind the statement and the contention that the lifestyle is female run in swinging in tonight's podcast. ...

SS 167: Talking Dirty - Turning Your Filthy Thoughts Into Naughty Words

July 30, 2014 17:56 - 1 hour - 56.8 MB

A couple months ago we tackled the topic of flirting, and how it's rather essential to sexy interaction, rather exponentially expanded for non-monogamy. Tonight on Life on the Swingset: The Podcast we're going to turn that flirty talk into sexy talk and discuss talking dirty: how, when, why, and what's too much. We also take the time to answer an extended listener voicemail about equal rights, gay marriage, and the civil rights movement.   Want to help our friends at Burlesque Toy Shop ge...

SS 166: Gang Bang The Mailbag 15 - Cheating Males & Unicorns, Girl Girl Play, One Penis Policy, & Bad Swinging Experiences

July 23, 2014 14:19 - 1 hour - 46.4 MB

Another day, another gang bang of the old (and now thoroughly satisfied) mailbag.  We get a response from a listener about our DP episode, as well as an eye opening picture (which we refuse to share!) We discuss speaking up in the moment, solo cheating males, unicorns, girl girl only play, the one penis policy, stretch marks, and bad swinging experiences.  

SS 165: Gang Bang The Mailbag 14 - Swinging & Fairness, Fluid Bonding, & Oral Herpes Disclosure

July 16, 2014 20:04 - 1 hour - 43.8 MB

We're back, and we gang bang the ever willing mailbag fillled with your questions! We talk about chasing the white whale, a potential fluid bonding statute of limitations, cold sores (hsv1) and kissing protocol, and swinging & fairness. Dylan also talks about the "unfuckables".   Visit the Burlesque Toyshop to pick up the equipment to exercise your kegels for stronger orgasms while saving 20% when you use the promo code swingburlesque at checkout! Pick up the Je Joue Ami Balls and start y...

SS 164: Getting Naked on Camera: Taking Nude Pictures with Guest Elle Chase (Lady Cheeky)

July 02, 2014 15:49 - 1 hour - 39.1 MB

In many ways, swinging is a lot like regular online dating, searching through profiles, reaching out via email. In one way, it's not so much. Naked pictures. Oh, sure, regular online dating involves a lot of naked pictures these days too, but it's rare that you see someone naked BEFORE you decide to contact them. The value of good naked pics on a swinger profile is very high, and so tonight on Life on the Swingset the podcast, we're talking about taking them, and posing for them, and we're j...

SS 163: Swinging For Dummies VI: The First Date

June 26, 2014 22:22 - 1 hour - 50.4 MB

Tonight on Life on the Swingset, The Podcast, we’re going back to basics for another episode of Swinging For Dummies. In the series thus far we’ve talked about realizing you’re interested in non-monogamy, talking to your partner, group sex, sexy vacations, and swinging websites. But how about that ever important first date. How to prepare, how to engage, how to transition to playtime, and how to make sure there’s a second date.   Visit the Burlesque Toyshop and get a 20% discount when you...

SS 162: Don't Forget To Buckle Your Condom - Eroticizing Barriers

June 18, 2014 22:44 - 1 hour - 37.2 MB

We're all well aware of the risks inherent with sex, and we don't always like to use those barriers that keep us safe. From gloves and dental dams to the almighty condom, eroticizing barriers is what helps make them part of our sexuality and safety instead of "this thing we have to do." Tonight we're joined by Melissa White, CEO of our favorite online condom company Lucky Bloke to talk about how to make safer sex sexier.   Visit the Burlesque Toyshop and get a 20% discount when you use the...

SS 161: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On The Swingset

June 11, 2014 16:14 - 1 hour - 47.4 MB

Here at Life on the Swingset we've had our own little sexual evolutions and those evolutions haven't gone unnoticed. Today, JV and Shara from the Ending the Sexual Dark Age podcast to pose to us a few questions both their audience, and they have been wondering about.   Visit the Burlesque Toyshop and get a 20% discount when you use the promo code swingburlesque at checkout! Check out The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit to get your pegging adventure started! Give us a call and leave a voicem...

SS 160: Fumbling Toward Non-Monogamy With Guest Marcia Baczynski

June 04, 2014 16:23 - 1 hour - 38 MB

I has been a while since anyone here on the Swingset could consider themselves "new to this" but it behooves us to every once in a while put ourselves back into that new and nervous state, where everything was the first time, and we were discovering as we go. We don't have a lot of great models of healthy non-monogamy these days. Learning to advocate for our partners and ourselves, figuring out what we want and how to ask for it, learning the difference between a request, an offer, and an in...

SS 159: Flirting! with Reid Mihalko

May 29, 2014 22:25 - 1 hour - 39.9 MB

Flirting is perhaps the most important aspect of beginning any romantic and sexual relationship. As Swingers you really need to be on top of your flirting. Since we meet so many people in non-monogamy, how do we know when to start flirting, and how do we make it work for us? We're including this as an unofficial companion to our "Swinging for Dummies" series since it just feels right, so take a listen and hear about how to get new interactions going, with the flirt, and with our friend Reid ...

SS 158: A Primer On Swinging by Cooper Beckett at The Pleasure Chest Chicago

May 22, 2014 00:47 - 1 hour - 46.9 MB

Cooper does a one man show Primer on Swinging recorded live at The Pleasure Chest in Chicago. All audience questions have been replaced by the dulcet tones of our own Dylan Thomas for their protection, and also for the amusement of our listeners.   Class description: "Cooper Beckett, from the podcast Life on the Swingset, takes you through the common peaks and valleys of beginning swinging, covering jealousy, safer sex practices, communication and more. Whether you're brand new to swingin...

SS 157: Sex Education for College Students with Megan Andelloux

May 14, 2014 21:10 - 1 hour - 41.5 MB

When as adults we don't know what's going on with our sexuality, it can most often be chalked up to a lack of education. Education about risk, sure, but also education about the awesome things sex can bring. One woman looking to combat in a big way this lack of education is Megan Andelloux who speaks on an amazing variety of sexuality related topics at colleges across the nation. We discuss abstinence only education, glbtq awareness, sexual fluidity and identity, safer and risk aware sex, a...

SS 156: The Single Male Swinger - Messing With The Bull

May 07, 2014 21:55 - 1 hour - 56.2 MB

We still tend to treat the single male swinger as a problem, a pariah, when we host parties we wonder how to limit unpartnered male responses, we tense up at larger events where the male to female ratio may be wildly unbalanced, we are constantly on the lookout for the creep, the man who doesn't take no well, the recluse.   But really. What the fuck?   We're all just people, and we all just like to fuck, and when it comes down to it, we all know single men that have brought great joy, an...

SS 155: Handjobs & Fingering - This Week We're Strokin' Penises & Vulvas

April 21, 2014 21:55 - 1 hour - 49.4 MB

Handjobs and Fingering!  Now that we have your attention, we want everyone to remember that there's lots of pleasure to be hand through the wonders of the partnered manual stimulation of someone's genitals with fingers! Now that you're obviously terribly turned on, take a listen and you'll hear us setting a solid definition of what counts as a handjob and a discussion on different terms and euphemisms for it, talking about how to give and receive risk aware handjobs, and talk about why we'd...

SS 154: Gang Bang The Mailbag 13 - Erection Issues, Swinging Cliques & Gossip, & Body Types at Swing Clubs

April 15, 2014 18:57 - 1 hour - 50.1 MB

We took and answered a question about erections, specifically that even after obtaining a prescription for viagra that a gentlemen still experiences trouble while swinging and that it's resulted in less return couples than he and his wife are happy with; Ginger is a big fan of people getting what they need, Cooper and Dylan relay their experiences and strategies about expectations and Miko really just lays down the law and says "it doesn't matter". We continue on with a conversation about go...

SS 153: Gang Bang The Mailbag 12 - Black Rings, Herpes, Pre-Judgement, and Swinging as a Single Male

April 08, 2014 14:09 - 1 hour - 57 MB

Today we stick all our collective hands into our mailbag and pull your questions out! We're back for our twelve attempt at Gang Banging the Mailbag! We tackle questions about the black ring right handmovement, about discovering people you work with on swinger sites, on playing spontaneously with STIs, on attempting to open up after cheating, on judging people based on looks, and on swinging as a single male. Enjoy!

SS 152: DP, DVP, and DAP - The Double Penetration Spectacular

April 02, 2014 08:54 - 1 hour - 48.9 MB

Today, we discuss double penetration, double vaginal penetration, and double anal penetration, and not just the acts themselves. The act of any sort of double penetration requires thoughtfulness, planning, collaboration, communication, really just enhanced versions of all the skills we learned via trial by fire while finding our own ways into non-monogamy. As DP really is "professional grade" fucking we break it down into the basics, positions, risk-aware practices and being mindful of condo...

SS 151: Sex Work, Education, & Non-Monogamy with Guest Sabrina Morgan

March 24, 2014 16:46 - 1 hour - 36 MB

Sabrina Morgan is a tireless advocate for sex workers’ rights and education on sex work. Having experience as a sex worker herself, as well as practicing ethical non-monogamy presents its own unique set of challenges when navigating relationships, and she’s here to talk to us about that. We also answer the age old question "Has Cooper been anally fisted?"

SS 150: Dealing With Shame Around Sexuality, Swinging, & Polyamory With Guest Charlie Glickman

March 12, 2014 15:12 - 1 hour - 50 MB

Shame, it creeps up on us, sometimes out of nowhere and sometimes as a slow buildup but it can affect our sexuality in ways we don't expect and don't want. Sometimes tackling shame head on helps, sometimes not addressing it at all helps, but shame when tied in to the wonderful world of non-monogamy can be complex and disconcerting to your multiple partners. Charlie Glickman joins us to help sort out the why, the how, the what, and ways we can process and deal with shame in thoughtful and eff...

SS 149: Designing and Defining your Non-Monogamous Relationship

March 04, 2014 20:12 - 1 hour - 45 MB

How do you handle new relationships now that you’re non-monogamous? It’s like turning a cruise ship around, climbing a mountain, and a myriad of other metaphors. We have long talked about taking your relationship from a place of monogamy to a place of non-monogamy. How to take something that is already defined and do a full on paradigm shift with it, transforming it into something altogether new, exciting, and scary. We have not, really, discussed what it’s like for those of us who are begin...

SS 148: Take It Like A Man: An Introduction to Pegging, Recorded Live at the Tool Shed!

February 26, 2014 23:14 - 1 hour - 50.9 MB

Pegging: The act of a female giving anal sex to a male using a strap-on. Some couples enjoy the power reversal of this and some guys simply just like it up the arse. How do we do it? What are the right tools for the job? Does it actually feel good? I'm a straight guy, will pegging make me gay? Lyndzi Miller (@Lyndzi), Tool Shed staff member and sexuality educator, and Cooper answer these questions and cover the basics of pegging, a sexual activity that is quickly gaining popularity. They'l...

SS 147: Build Your Own Orgy - How To Have Sex With Many People at Once

February 10, 2014 17:16 - 1 hour - 38.9 MB

Masturbation is awesome, isn’t it? Sex for two, few would argue, is even better. Threesomes are roundly considered to be one of the epitome’s of the sexual experience. Let’s add a few more to that, shake it right up, and create something spectacular. A writhing mass of sexy, everywhere you look people giving or receiving pleasure. Tonight we talk about that wonder of wonders, that glory of glories, the orgy. Cooper will be joining Lyndzi Miller (@Lyndzi) up in Milwaukee at The Tool Shed: A...

SS 146: Sexcations - Travelling to Swing With Friends

February 03, 2014 17:12 - 58 minutes - 39.4 MB

Swing With Friends! ... except sometimes the distance between those friends is enough to qualify the trip as more of a sexcation instead of a normal date. Whether because we live in less populated areas or because we've struck up online flirtations, sometimes you have people you just want to reach out and touch, but have to drive or fly for a few hours to do so. Doing this sets up a whole list of different but parallel challenges, and rewards, to the normal swing encounter, and that's what ...

SS 145: Geeking Out About Sex With Kate McCombs, Founder of Sex Geekdom

January 29, 2014 06:00 - 59 minutes - 36.1 MB

Sex is awesome. We’re all on board with that, right? Beyond the act, er, acts, for many of us (in fact I’d wager a large percentage of our listeners) getting information about sex carries with it its own form of titillation and enjoyment. That’s the purview of the sex geek. Tonight we’re lucky enough to be joined by Kate McCombs who has turned geeking out about sex into an art form, and into her life. In business, we touched on Kiss a Ginger day and on Technogeisha and Dylan heading to Ca...

SS 144: The Ebb and Flow of Libido and its Effect on Swinging and Polyamory

January 20, 2014 13:39 - 1 hour - 31.9 MB

We all want to be "on". We carve out the time, spend some money, clean up the house, groom our fun areas, and make the arrangements with the people we want to see. Sometimes as "the time" gets closer we realize... we're not really up to the task, and while there's still a good time be had we may not be interested in sealing the deal. We discuss dry spells, lulls in desire, varying levels of intensity in interest, today... it's all about libido, how to deal with it when it wanes, and how to...

SS 143: Swinging and Polyamory Resolutions for 2014

January 10, 2014 16:47 - 54 minutes - 35.7 MB

Happy New Year everyone! 2013 was a year filled with pain, regret, and some amazing time spend with wonderful people, fans, and at fantastic venues and conventions. 2014 is on course to be a much better year for those of us on the Swingset. We all got together (Cooper, Dylan,  Shira, and Miko) to discuss our hopes and our projects for this new year. Dylan seems to spout out a new resolution every five minutes, between hitting the clubs more, getting larger Chicago based groups of people tog...

SS 142: Looking Back at 2013, Welcoming 2014 - New Years Closer

December 30, 2013 20:25 - 1 hour - 39.3 MB

We had a pretty rough year on the Swingset. We had some wonderful ups, speaking at two major sex-positive conferences about Progressive Swinging, giving a "Swinging 101" seminar at the Tool Shed in Milwaukee, WI, hosting a second trip to Desire: Riviera Maya, and had some terrible lows; divorce and relationship drama, family issues, and extreme time constraints. We decided to have a nice little end of the year chat. We've traveled and spoken so much this year, experienced so many beautiful ...

SS 141: Dylan Hosts a Roundtable Discussion in Paradise - Part 2 - Live from Desire Resort & Spa Cancun

December 20, 2013 20:03 - 58 minutes - 34.2 MB

This is Part 2 of my accidental roundtable discussion put together in the seaside room of one of our guests at Desire - Riviera Maya. We continue the discussion about bi-women, mansplaining, and puppeteering, and move into non-monogamy identifiers and why they were useful, but taking some time to talk with other people in a room is much more useful. We end our discussion with giving the reasons we came and why we'll keep coming back. Then the frisco community brings up possibilities o...

SS 140: Dylan Hosts a Roundtable Discussion in Paradise - Part 1 - Live from Desire Resort & Spa Cancun

December 13, 2013 22:54 - 1 hour - 38.9 MB

Dylan had an idea. He thought it'd be a great idea to sit down, two on one with couples while at Desire and interview them, ask questions about how their vacation was going, get some decent soundbites, and enjoy the calm warmth of good discussion and good company. This was anything but calm. What began as a simple interview turned into a roundtable (dildohead) discussion where no topic found itself out of bounds, we discussed single male swingers, the trials and tribulations of dating...

SS 139: Swinging In Paradise - Live from Desire Resort & Spa Cancun

December 04, 2013 17:29 - 1 hour - 39.2 MB

Midway through Life on the Swingset's second annual trip to Desire Resort & Spa in Cancun, Dylan, Ginger, & Cooper sat down with many of the tour guests to record a silly podcast reflecting on the trip so far, and what lifestyle vacations can be. There's a drinking game, there's guests talking about what Desire means to them, there's Dylan and Cooper squaring off the way they always seem to do in person, and there's Ginger continuing to be the heart and soul of the Swingset. With tequila.

SS 138: Risk Aware Sex - Condoms, Dental Dams, & Rebranding Safe Sex with Dr. Antoinette Izzo

November 21, 2013 19:50 - 1 hour - 45.9 MB

We've evolved quite a bit over the last three years, our choices in play preferences, what we're open to, and the people we're open to play with have expanded as well. We've chosen to use safer sex barrier barriers and integrated it with our play. Thinking about it all in the lens of Risk Aware Sex, a term coined by Dr. Antoinette Izzo is what we discuss today. Getting away from fallacies and dangers of using "clean" as people who don't have STIs and moving towards making safety sexy occupie...

SS 137: Our Open Agreement - Setting Rules and Boundaries in Swinging & Polyamory with Cat Maness

November 07, 2013 03:08 - 55 minutes - 34.8 MB

When preparing to embark on open relationship, or deep within the throes of one, hammering out an open agreement, determining your rules and boundaries, and having those ever important discussions are essential. Today we’re joined by Cat Maness, creator of Our Open Agreement Tool, an online resource for creating your agreements, to discuss why these are worth having and discuss how to put them together. We also discuss a listener e-mail from Episode 130, Swinger Profiles. You can find Cat M...

SS 136: Swingset on the Road - Talking Swinging, Polyamory, and Ethical Non-Monogamy IRL

October 31, 2013 18:46 - 1 hour - 51.7 MB

The past two episodes have been live recordings in front of an audience of folks anxious to listen to us talk about non-monogamy and swinging. Our “toury-ness” has brought us to San Francisco, Washington DC, Los Angeles, and Milwaukee. On the road we’ve learned about our audience, we’ve learned about ourselves. Tonight on Life on the Swingset, the podcast, we talk about what it has taught us, why we continue to meet, and the importance and risks associated with gathering with fellow sex geek...

SS 135: A Primer On Swinging, Recorded Live at the Tool Shed: An Erotic Boutique!

October 14, 2013 07:42 - 1 hour - 41.6 MB

  A Primer on Swinging: How to Meet, Have Sexy Times, & Otherwise Enjoy Your Friends and Neighbors Cooper and Dylan, co-hosts of Life on the Swingset the podcast, take you through the common peaks and valleys of beginning swinging, from the moment that voice in your head tells you that you're different, to when you're setting up that gang-bang for your fiancee's birthday. They cover jealousy, safer sex practices, communication with your partner and playmates, and delve deeper into the whys...

SS 134: Sex With Benefits: Progressive Swinging, Recorded Live at CatalystCon West!

October 07, 2013 20:26 - 1 hour - 42.9 MB

Our second trip to CatalystCon in 2013 yeilded our best audience yet, and our most cohesive discussion on what Progressive Swinging truly means. We discuss the importance of community, coming out if you can, safety, and fun, as well as learning about yourself and your partner(s). From the Catalyst Con program Sex with Benefits: Progressive Swinging Cooper Beckett, Ginger Bentham, Dylan Thomas, Shira B. Katz #cconswing No longer content to be the pervy cousin of “more enlightened” forms of...

SS 133: Live Nude Cast - Naked In Bed With The Swingset at CatalystCon West

October 02, 2013 04:06 - 1 hour - 30 MB

Chaos.  Just chaos. 

SS 132: Gang Bang the Mailbag 11 - Swing Clubs, BBWs, Unicorns, and Cockrings

September 27, 2013 07:38 - 1 hour - 44.1 MB

We've flipped it in and out, over and under, even hung it up and left it for a while, that mailbag gets a lot of gang bang action... as it should! We take more of your questions (send us more at [email protected]) and discuss questions about swing clubs; how to approach couples, whether virgins are verboten, and whether voyeurism and exhibition and girl/girl are encouraged, we discuss being both a single male and a single female in the lifestyle (with a little bit of a discussio...

SS 131: Gang Bang the Mailbag 10 - Cream Pies, Allergies, Declining Sex Life, and Blogging

September 19, 2013 20:38 - 1 hour - 44.7 MB

Today we hit the mailbag hard... harder than usual.  We like our mailbag and we received a metric ton of your questions! We talked about cream pies and how to play safer, with a detour about ethical swinging, food allergies and play parties, declining sex lives due to illness, and blogging your experiences on the Internet. We also took time to catch up with our favorite Technogeisha, Miko, and get an update on her life! Ginger is taking a brief break, she's crossing the Yukon sipping on te...

SS 130: Back To School: Swinging For Dummies V - Online Swinger Profiles

September 11, 2013 16:47 - 1 hour - 39.5 MB

You don't know any swingers in person. You don't know where any clubs are. You're eager, wide eyed, and ready to explore sexiness with others. Luckily the Swingset has been there and we found our way out! We discuss posting profiles online, we go through the basics of what to include in a profile, how pictures affect how other swingers perceive you and how you perceive them, protecting privacy, preferences, and rules, and what most turns us on AND off when we visit a new swinger profile. I...

SS 129: Accidentally Off-Topic! Swingset Updates!

September 04, 2013 16:48 - 1 hour - 38.4 MB

We had every intention about talking about swinger bloopers this episode. It stayed in our heads while we went through business... then went through some more business... then we lost it and ended up talking about "the long game", some relationship updates, and just general non-monogamy and how living this lifestyle is out in the real world. So, please enjoy our accidentally off-topic update show! Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, SWINGSET for a 10% discount! C...

SS 128: K.I.S.S.I.N.G

August 28, 2013 12:35 - 1 hour - 45.7 MB

Cooper, Shira, Ginger, and The Professor (tm) all get together for a discussion on kissing; why it's a big deal, why some swingers make rules against it, how it feels great... how badly you can screw it up! Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, SWINGSET for a 10% discount! Check out the Lelo Gigi Rechargeable Vibrator!

SS 127: Impermanence in Non-Monogamy; Learning to Embrace Brevity and Let Go

August 13, 2013 23:11 - 1 hour - 43.3 MB

Shira B. Katz makes her triumphant return with a considerable discussion about impermanence and how the changes in her and both Cooper's relationships statuses have affected their views on non-monogamy and their own sexuality, and how... that is ok. We also worked some Law and Order, Doctor Who, and "cream" as a verb into the discussion. Check it out! [powerpress] Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, SWINGSET for a 10% discount! Check out Tristan Taormino's Exper...

SS 126: In Which Domina Takes over 2: Ride Harder

August 06, 2013 22:49 - 59 minutes - 39.9 MB

Riding herd on the Swingset isn't something you forget. Ginger isn't ready to put it behind her, so she holds on to the reigns and rides harder; we discuss our best erotic moments as swingers, explanabrags via managing multiple but separate partner issues, and we watch Cooper devolve into domina's pet! [powerpress] Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, SWINGSET for a 10% discount! Check out the Eriscillator Plus Electric Clitoral Vibrator!

SS 125: In Which a Domina Takes over and Rides Us Hard

July 30, 2013 16:30 - 58 minutes - 40.1 MB

Ginger Bentham takes over the Swingset today to ask questions we may never have directly addressed. Our Domina inquires about condom disasters, our biggest turn-offs, and how to approach a big group of people. We also get to see a peek into Ginger and the Prof's relationship dynamic, it's pretty wonderful! Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, SWINGSET for a 10% discount! Check out Kimono MicroThin Comdoms!

SS Special - Swingerpiece Theater Presents: Weinergate 2 - The Embiggening

July 30, 2013 06:15 - 10 minutes - 5.46 MB

In this very special (non)episode of Life on the Swingset, Ginger Bentham and Cooper Beckett do a dramatic reading of the recent Anthony Weiner twitter scandel "reported on" by The Dirty We would again like to insist that this is all alleged, and if Anthony Weiner was on the up and up with all involved, we at Swingset have no problem with this at all. In fact, it'd be nice to see a mayor who acknowledges certain proclivities.

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Tristan Taormino
3 Episodes
Christopher Ryan
2 Episodes
Dan Savage
2 Episodes
Andrew Gurza
1 Episode
Bex Caputo
1 Episode
Mike Joseph
1 Episode

Books

Birds of a Feather
1 Episode

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