Finding My Yum
154 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 2 years ago - ★★★★★ - 27 ratingsJoin Geri Courtney-Austein, actor, comedian, former goodie two shoes, on her journey to find her yum and explore everyone else’s.
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Let’s Talk Poly - with Tara Lynne Franco and Andre Turcotte
November 11, 2021 13:00 - 51 minutes - 46.7 MBIt is our LAST episode of FMY… for now :). And what a way to go out with Tara and Andre! Tara is a relationship and awesomeness coach and Andre is a sex positive registered Psychotherapist and together they cofounded T&A. They talk about their own relationship and journey exploring different dynamics and their version of polyamory. How Tara and Andre both found new possibility and pleasure with each other by looking past traditional ideas of monogamy. We also talk about their incredible onli...
Rebroadcast: Reproductive Psychology with Dr. Sarah Kauffman
August 05, 2021 18:25 - 1 hour - 59.8 MBWe are thrilled and honored to bring you this episode with the brilliant Dr. Sarah Kauffman, AGAIN :)! She talks us through the field of reproductive psychology, the role psychiatrists have played historically with abortion, and the physical and psychological changes that happen during pregnancy. We are always excited to talk with experts, and Dr. Kauffman blew us away. Enjoy!
On Set as an Intimacy Coordinator - With Marci Liroff and Chantal Cousineau
July 22, 2021 11:00 - 1 hour - 66 MBWhat an absolute joy it was talking to these two amazing women, Marci Liroff and Chantal Cousineau, all about their work as intimacy coordinators. We talk about the training involved to become an intimacy coordinator and the power and necessity of precise language and transparency from the audition process to the day of filming. We discuss the protections under the new SAG-AFTRA contract, the larger scope of these protections in legislation, other industries and beyond, what they do on set t...
Life as a Bilateral Amputee, Fitness Competitor, and Pole Dancer - with Barb Thomas
July 08, 2021 11:00 - 45 minutes - 41.5 MBI had such an inspiring chat with Barb!! She lost her arms in an electrical accident at the age of 2 1/2 years old and has grown to be a woman who has learned to live life independently. She is a mom, an accomplished athlete, and a mentor. We talk all about her upbringing, her journey to pole dancing (spoiler alert she competed and WON at an amateur stripping contest), paving the way as a limb different fitness competitor, her work with NubAbility and so much more. Limits truly only exist in...
Submission Possible, Feminist Porn, and Sexual Revolution - With Madison Young
June 24, 2021 11:00 - 57 minutes - 52.8 MBWhat an absolute gift to have superstar Madison young on the podcast!! Madison is a sexual revolutionary with an incredible body of work - acclaimed author, a trailblazer of the feminist porn movement, creator of an award winning one womxn show and host and director of a NEW documentary series, Submission Possible, available now on Revry TV. We talk about their art collective that started it all, their journey in front of and behind the camera working in porn and the importance of queer and ...
Housing Law and Inclusive Language - with Dan Kozieja
June 10, 2021 11:00 - 46 minutes - 42.7 MBHousing Law and Inclusive Language – with Dan Kozieja It was such a joy having Dan as a guest on the pod! I chat with full-time housing attorney and part-time educator, Dan Kozieja. We cover his journey and inspiration into law, his work helping unhoused folks and his educational videos discussing inclusive and mindful language. He is so insightful. I love talking about the importance of language and how we can all (especially those of us privileged white folks) be cognizant of the words we...
Activism, Adversity, and Stripping - with the Queen of Sexy
May 27, 2021 11:00 - 1 hour - 55.1 MBOh boy, this one is a goodie! This week we have on AM - the Queen of Sexy - to talk to us about her journey into stripping, introducing livestreaming to the pole dancing industry, learning to dance again after losing part of her leg, and growth through adversity. They're great, and you should check out their work here! Podcast Social page Soldiers of Pole
Rebroadcasting and Remembering Mistress Velvet
May 13, 2021 14:41 - 1 hour - 57.4 MBContent warning: Todays episode is in memory of a favorite guest, Mistress Velvet, as they tragically passed away earlier this week. Their life deserves to be celebrated, and their message deserves to be heard, so we hope you will listen and support their cause and their work. If you wish to support their loved ones, a fundraiser is being held here.
A multi-orgasmic experience - with Dominus Eros
April 29, 2021 11:00 - 1 hour - 56.5 MBThis week on Finding My Yum we are joined by Dominus Eros - a sex educator/coach, event coordinator, studio owner, founder of daddy retreat and pagans paradise, massage therapist, tantric healer and BDSM pro-Dom! He talks to us about the different paths towards orgasm, and how not every sexual experience needs to end with ejaculation. It's a perspective we are thrilled to be bringing to the podcast, and he really teaches us a lot!
Sexual Medicine and Anatomy - with Dr. Kris Christiansen
April 15, 2021 11:00 - 1 hour - 64.7 MBThis week we are joined by Doctor Kris Christiansen! She comes on the show to talk about her specialization in sexual medicine, treating sexual dysfunction, and all her cool diagrams and models!.She's a delight and it's a really fun conversation to listen to - plus updates from Geri and Will about their anxieties heading out of the pandemic You can find her and others like her here. And if you want to watch this one on youtube (diagrams!) follow this link!
Erotic Fanfiction, Expressing Sexuality On Stage, and Identity - with LGBT Pod
April 01, 2021 11:00 - 1 hour - 63.3 MBWe are joined by Kes, Hollis and Stacey of the Lime, Gin, Beer, Tequila (LGBT) podcast! They talk to us about Queer and Trans culture, as well as creating erotic fanfiction, expressing sexuality on stage, and their own journeys with identity. This episode is a party - where you learn a lot, too! The best kind of party! Check out their podcast here - https://limeginbeertequila.wordpress.com/about/
REBROADCAST: Living Openly and Out Loud with Kai Wes
March 25, 2021 11:00 - 47 minutes - 43.7 MBThis week we are joined by Kai Wes from MTV's Are You the One - Kai talks to us about everything from growing up in a small town in Rhode Island, to college, through what it was really like in the house! They share what their goals were going into the house, and what it's been like on the other side. Plus, there's an awesome story about standing up to a bully - you don't want to miss this one!
Creating Inclusive Communities Online - with Val Elefante from Lips!
March 18, 2021 11:16 - 1 hour - 57 MBWe are thrilled to bring you this episode with Val Elefante, the head of growth and community management at Lips! Lips is an awesome new social media platform designed for women, non-binary folks and the LGBTQIA+ community that allows for open and honest expression without bias, censorship or harassment. The platform is amazing, and so is Val! We talk about that, why it's important to have an alternative to the mainstream social media platforms, but also her white picket fence upbringing tha...
Sex Therapy - with Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy
March 11, 2021 12:00 - 54 minutes - 50 MBThis week we're thrilled to be joined by Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy! She is a psychologist and sex therapist, and gives us a ton of new ideas to work with. She shares some tips on how to listen better, what some of the most common communication conflicts stem from, and even helps us define sex positivity. She's extremely knowledgable and a great communicator, you're going to love her! -- For more information on Abortion Policy in the Absence of Roe - https://www.guttmacher.org/state-policy/exp...
Embodiment Coaching - with Usha Rose
March 04, 2021 12:00 - 50 minutes - 46.7 MBWe welcome Usha Rose to the podcast this week to talk about embodiment coaching! We hear about what self practices you can do to feel connected to your body, how to accept all parts of yourself, and why it's important to find the pleasure in all things.
Embodied Portrait Sessions - with Rebecca Tolk
February 25, 2021 12:00 - 47 minutes - 43.6 MBThis week we are joined by artist and embodiment photographer Rebecca Tolk! She walks us through her journey, details how photographs can sometimes reveal what you're really feeling inside, and how her services have continued to thrive even in a remote COVID world. You should absolutely check out her website here, her art is beautiful!
Shibari Practices with LA Rope Dojo
February 18, 2021 12:00 - 54 minutes - 50.2 MBThis week we are getting all tied up! We bring on Doug from LA Rope Dojo to talk about the history of Shibari, the psychology behind why it's so fun for participants, and how consent is key to mutual enjoyment. Doug is extremely knowledgable and has a lot of great stories to share! If you're interested in learning from him, you can find class information here. Or, if you want to check out his writings and other information around Kinbaku, you can do that here!
Ask A Sub - with Lina Dune
February 11, 2021 12:00 - 55 minutes - 50.6 MBThis week we are joined by Lina Dune, the brilliant mind behind ‘Ask A Sub’! Lina talks us through what her submissive journey was like, what a 24/7 lifestyle actually is, and all the kinds of communication needed in a kink focused relationship. There's so much to learn, and she's great at teaching us - enjoy! You can find *all* of Lina's links here - https://linktr.ee/askasub
Being Positive while Being STI Positive - with Courtney Brame
February 04, 2021 12:00 - 52 minutes - 48 MBThis week we bring on the charming Courtney Brame to talk about his journey through Herpes Positivity - and how he has grown from it. He talks to us about the common reactions people face when they have a positive test result, how it doesn't have to be the end of the world - and how, in fact, it can be the start of a more communicative approach to life and relationships. He also touches on how to best navigate the stigma people face everyday. You should absolutely check out his non-profit ...
Sacred Lotus Yoni Steam - with Sabrina Vedete
January 29, 2021 00:26 - 50 minutes - 46.3 MBThis week we bring on Sabrina Vedete to learn about Yoni Eggs! What makes those crystals so powerful? What are we missing out on if we ignore their properties? And which types bring which practical benefits? All this, as well as Sabrina's personal journey of discovery and why you should reconsider how you're using your vibrators, on this week's Finding My Yum!
Sex Work, Social Justice and Co-Parenting with Natalie Brewster Nguyen
January 21, 2021 12:00 - 1 hour - 57.9 MBThis week we are joined by Natalie Brewster Nguyen, an inspiration in so many ways. They tell us about their journey as a domme, educate us about co-parenting, and teach us about their social justice organization Justice Movement. To sign up for their workshops, visit the Justice Movement website.
Healing with the Human Side of Pelvic Organ Prolapse - with Pop Uplifting
January 14, 2021 12:00 - 1 hour - 59.8 MBWe are thrilled to bring you this episode with Annemarie Everett (PT, DPT, WCS) and Haley Shevener of Pop Uplifting! We talk about the importance of recontextualizing the conversation around POP, how COVID has shifted the approach to this kind of work, and why education should be the first step in your physical therapy or personal training journey. Check them out for more information here popuplifting.com
A Year End Review - with Geri and Will
December 31, 2020 12:00 - 46 minutes - 42.8 MBTo close out the year with Finding My Yum, Geri and Will go through their highlights from a tumultuous 2020! We talk favorite episodes, growth moments, and what we are most excited about in 2021. It's been a rocky year, but there's plenty of positivity to share around! Let us know what your favorite moments were as well - we'd love to hear from you!
Stripping, Sex Work, and Sex Work Policy - with Selena the Stripper
December 17, 2020 12:00 - 52 minutes - 48.5 MBWelcome Selena the Stripper to the pod! This week we talk with Selena about her journey into sex work, why the barrier to entry is much higher than many people think, and the oppressive treatment of her industry by the US Government. With even more regulations coming from social media and tech companies soon, the sex work industry is one we need to be fighting for at all levels. Listen to learn how, and check out Selena's various channels below! Instagram: Prettyboygirl Instagram: Soldiers...
Rebroadcast: Exploring a Kink Buffet - with Emily Anne
December 10, 2020 12:00 - 1 hour - 63 MBThis episode covers the gamut! We are joined by Emily Anne, kinkster, and go on a journey from growing up on a farm to leading pegging parties in LA. Touching on everything from consensual non-consent to breeding to cuckolding, this one gets specific! Trigger warning: Within the context of consensual non-consent, rape fantasies are discussed. We also discuss an instance of unintentionally crossing the line in a bdsm scenario - and how to avoid that in a scene. Finally - check out the expl...
Kinky Fun, Leather Fetishes, and Pup Play
December 03, 2020 12:00 - 50 minutes - 46 MBOn this weeks episode we talk with Chris all about his journey from Pentecostal evangelicalism to a polyamorous marriage to leather parties in San Francisco. We learn about pup play, what the leather community actually is, and what sexual hypnosis means - he is joyful to listen to and really taught us a lot, you’re going to love it!
Promoting Your Pelvic Floor - with Riva Preil
November 19, 2020 12:00 - 48 minutes - 44.1 MBThis week we are joined by Riva Preil (PT, DPT, WCS, BCB-PMD, CLT) to talk about pelvic floor physical therapy! The pelvic floor is a group of muscles located at the bottom of your ‘core’ - and due to disorders or not being taken care of, can cause a variety of ailments. Riva talks us through common issues, why it’s important to see a physical therapist, what you can do to help yourself, and how US policy could take inspiration from France in how they handle postpartum physical therapy. It...
Reproductive Psychiatry with Dr. Sarah Kauffman
November 12, 2020 12:00 - 1 hour - 59.8 MBWe are thrilled and honored to bring you this episode with the brilliant Dr. Sarah Kauffman! She talks us through the field of reproductive psychology, the role psychiatrists have played historically with abortion, and the physical and psychological changes that happen during a pregnancy. We are always excited to talk with experts, and Dr. Kauffman blew us away. Enjoy!
Dynamo Toys in New Orleans - with Hope Kodman
October 29, 2020 11:00 - 41 minutes - 37.7 MBThis week we are excited to be joined by Hope Kodman of Dynamo Toys! We hear about what brought her from a small town in Kentucky to running a sex shop in New Orleans, what it means for a toy to be body safe, and how Dynamo has become part of the community in Louisiana. To find some new toys for you or your partner, you can check out their shop here: http://dynamotoys.com/ Or follow them on Instagram for their entertaining and informative stories: https://www.instagram.com/dynamonola/
Choosing Christianity and Celibacy - with Kat Harris
October 22, 2020 11:00 - 1 hour - 57.6 MBThis week we are thrilled to be joined by Brooklyn-based online educator, digital content creator and female empowerment advocate Kat Harris. We hear about her journey growing up in Texas, why she chooses celibacy and what her faith has given her throughout life. She's incredibly empowering and brings a wonderful perspective to Finding My Yum! Follow more from Kat by going here: https://therefinedwoman.com/
Ancestral Healing and LINEAGE - with Michelle West
October 15, 2020 14:30 - 54 minutes - 50 MBThis week we are thrilled to be joined by writer/director Michelle West! Michelle talks to us about familial secrets, abortion rights of old (that may become new again), and the importance of addressing ancestral trauma to create opportunities for future generations. She is currently creating a film that features these stories in LINEAGE - and the fundraising is going on now. Visit here to learn more about it https://www.seedandspark.com/fund/lineageshortfilm#story -- Additional resource...
Rebroadcast: "A Dominatrix with a Syllabus" - with Mistress Velvet
October 08, 2020 11:00 - 1 hour - 56.7 MBYou do *not* want to miss this episode - this week we are joined by the wonderful Mistress Velvet! A Chicago based Dominatrix, she specialized in BDSM and Black Feminist Theory - and her submissives are often exposed to both. She talks to us about how she got into her career, the way she uses her platform to promote social justice, and the effect it has had on her clients (the work Mistress Velvet is inspiring is amazing to hear about!) Check out the HuffPost article on her here - https://...
Erotic Short Films for Women by Women - with Inka Winter
October 01, 2020 11:00 - 39 minutes - 36 MBWe are thrilled to have Inka Winter of ForPlay films on this week to talk about the difference in erotica made for men and the kind of films she makes - erotica for women. We also touch on her journey growing up within a cult, how social media has changed out views our image and sexuality, and how small changes in front and behind the camera can make all the difference in erotic creation. Check out ForPlay Films here - https://forplayfilms.com/
Pussy Based Business with Julia Wells
September 24, 2020 11:00 - 49 minutes - 45.3 MBOn this weeks episode we chat with pussy based business coach Julia Wells! Oh boy is she inspiring! We talk all about how to harness women's super power energetically and physically and use it to create more profit and more pleasure. Shifting out of a male centric system of hustle, rule playing and exhaustion into a life that's way better than IG. To learn more about her upcoming classes and private coaching, visit https://juliacwells.com and check out her very own podcast - Wait... WTF?!
Poetry, Spirituality, Sexuality and the Patriarchy - with Jo Heckett
September 17, 2020 11:00 - 49 minutes - 45.7 MBWe are delighted to be joined by Jo Heckett this week, calling in from Ireland to talk through poetry, spirituality, and looking for the point where the physical and divine meet. We also touch on the differences in upbringings within the a catholic Ireland and what we are experience in the US. To learn more about the topics we discussed in the intro, check out this intercept article here: https://theintercept.com/2020/09/14/ice-detention-center-nurse-whistleblower/
Polyamory with Kevin Patterson
September 10, 2020 11:25 - 50 minutes - 45.9 MBGeri is joined this week by Kevin Patterson - author (Love's Not Color Blind, For Hire: Operator, and For Hire: Audition) and educator (Unf*ck Your Polyamory with Dr. Liz Powell) to discuss his journey. We talk about what polyamory actually looks like in the real world, the role it plays in a day to day experience, and race and representation in the polyamorous and kink communities. Kevin is knowledgable, experienced, and a wonderful person to talk with - we know you'll enjoy it! Buy his bo...
Sexy Sex Ed in Rural Appalachia - with Kirstyn Ooten
September 03, 2020 14:00 - 48 minutes - 44.3 MBThis week we are joined by Kirstyn Ooten, founder of Club Q (resource and support group for LGBTQ+ students across Appalachia) and educator with Sexy Sex Ed, a workshop series that compels teenagers and people of all ages to openly discuss personal and political consent, sexual safety, and anatomy. Kirstyn talks to us about what it's like tackling topics in Appalachia, what her journey was to get here, why some misconceptions about the region should be reconsidered, and all her work to suppo...
Orgasmic Meditation with Renee Cairn
August 27, 2020 13:00 - 46 minutes - 42.5 MBThis week we are joined by playwright, director, and cultural activist (rooted primarily in the reproductive justice movement) Nik Zaleski! We talk about how art can help drive social change, and then dive into the practice of Orgasmic Meditation - the practice of combining mindfulness, touching and pleasure. It's all about letting go and feeling! Enjoy! To hear Nik's story that we reference in the beginning, check it out here https://www.newsweek.com/abortion-covid-19-pandemic-california-1...
Orgasmic Meditation with Nik Zaleski
August 27, 2020 13:00 - 46 minutes - 42.5 MBThis week we are joined by playwright, director, and cultural activist (rooted primarily in the reproductive justice movement) Nik Zaleski! We talk about how art can help drive social change, and then dive into the practice of Orgasmic Meditation - the practice of combining mindfulness, touching and pleasure. It's all about letting go and feeling! Enjoy! To hear Nik's story that we reference in the beginning, check it out here https://www.newsweek.com/abortion-covid-19-pandemic-california-1...
Rebroadcast: Homemade BDSM Tools for a Quarantine - with The O-Man
August 20, 2020 13:00 - 25 minutes - 23.7 MBWe are bringing one of our most popular episodes back, as quarantine doesn't seem to be slowing down - we are joined once again this week by the O-Man! This week in a short, quarantine episode, we hear about all the things around your house that you can work into your play. There's not a lot going on, and there's no reason to not spice things up - consider this a guide! To contact our guest, find his website at www.the-o-man.com or reach out directly at [email protected] For more informatio...
Modern Sex Education with LP Watts - Part Two
August 13, 2020 07:00 - 30 minutes - 27.8 MBThis week we are joined once again by the inspiring LP Watts! She's a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and psychological researcher with a professional focus on emotional intelligence and sex education. In part two, we talk about practical and new ways to talk about sex with your kids, non-violent communication - and what it's like to have these conversations within a christian conservative community in the south. The reception may surprise you!
Modern Sex Education with LP Watts - Part One
August 06, 2020 07:49 - 39 minutes - 36 MBThis week we are joined by the inspiring LP Watts! She's a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and psychological researcher with a professional focus on emotional intelligence and sex education. In part one of this two parter, we talk about sex education, how to view it differently, and the importance of building that conversation with your children. It's hugely informative and actionable, enjoy!
Rebroadcast: Keeping Quarantine Spicy - with Isabella Frappier
July 30, 2020 07:00 - 23 minutes - 21.9 MBAs we are staring down another potential quarantine, we wanted to rebroadcast this episode for those of you stuck inside with your partner! We welcome Isabella Frappier (sexual healer, doula and founder of Geri's favorite facebook group) back with open arms to discuss how to take advantage of the time we're allowed with this pandemic. We hear tips on how to keep things spicy, but also get practical advice on how to take this moment and reimagine what sex means - and can mean - to you.
Promoting Equity in the Arts - with Alex Creswick
July 23, 2020 07:00 - 1 hour - 68.8 MBWe are thrilled to bring you this episode with Alex Creswick. They're a sensitivity reader and social impact producer, and we initially wanted to discuss just what those roles mean in the entertainment industry - while we definitely touched on the evolution of both of those jobs, we ended up talking about so much more. From the need for huge systemic changes to the problem with diversity initatives (they don't do *enough*) to representation in all areas of production. We learned a lot from...
"A Dominatrix with a Syllabus" - with Mistress Velvet
July 16, 2020 06:59 - 1 hour - 56.7 MBYou do *not* want to miss this episode - this week we are joined by the wonderful Mistress Velvet! A Chicago based Dominatrix, she specialized in BDSM and Black Feminist Theory - and her submissives are often exposed to both. She talks to us about how she got into her career, the way she uses her platform to promote social justice, and the effect it has had on her clients (the work Mistress Velvet is inspiring is amazing to hear about!) Check out the HuffPost article on her here - https://...
Rebroadcast: Learn to Squirt During Quarantine - with The O-Man
July 09, 2020 06:48 - 28 minutes - 26.3 MBBecause it looks like we're going back into quarantine, we're bringing this one back! In the series, we are talking with The O-Man. Personal trainer turned movement educator turned sex guru, he goes deep into how a woman can learn to squirt - and how her partner can help get her there. A great past time when you're stuck at home! If you'd like to talk with him, you can reach out here - [email protected] or see his website here - www.the-o-man.com Let us know if it works for you!
The Virtual Strip Club with Phoenix
July 02, 2020 07:17 - 49 minutes - 45.4 MBAre you stuck inside? Do you want to support a good cause? This week we have an amazing recommendation for The Virtual Strip Club! We are joined by admin Phoenix to learn all about her entry into the world of stripping, what this new kind of strip club looks like, why virtual strip clubs might just be better than an in person experience - and how you can participate on either side of the screen. Check it out here! https://linktr.ee/Thevirtualstripclub
Feelmore with Nenna Joiner
June 25, 2020 09:09 - 44 minutes - 41 MBThis week we talk with Nenna Joiner, founder of Berkely and Oakland based sex shop Feelmore. They tell us about the challenges they've faced opening a sex shop - from general community stigma to intersectional challenges as the founder of the only black-woman-owned sex shop in Oakland. When you listen to Nenna's story, you'll be inspired by their hustle - and learn to not take no for an answer. Support Nenna by checking out Feelmore here! https://feelmore510.com/
Systemic Racism, Intersectionality and Reproductive Justice with Michelle Hope, M.A.
June 18, 2020 09:53 - 58 minutes - 54 MBWe’re thrilled to share our conversation with Michelle Hope, M.A. She is a dedicated Sexologist, educator, and Social Justice activist with a Master’s degree in Human Development and extensive post-graduate focused on human sexuality. As a veteran speaker, she has over 15 years of experience delivering impactful informative lectures and training across the nation. Amidst the current revolution and civil action worldwide, we are so grateful to talk with her about the root causes and larger sco...
Quarantining with a New Partner - with Geri!
May 28, 2020 08:13 - 26 minutes - 24.4 MBIn part 2 of 'quarantining behind the mic' we talk with Geri about her experience! Listen to hear what it's like quarantining with a new partner, and what all the extra time has meant for someone who lives life with a busy schedule. It's a huge adjustment both ways, but is it a blessing in disguise?