Finding My Yum
154 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 2 years ago - ★★★★★ - 27 ratingsJoin Geri Courtney-Austein, actor, comedian, former goodie two shoes, on her journey to find her yum and explore everyone else’s.
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Quarantining Alone - with Will!
May 21, 2020 07:50 - 24 minutes - 22.3 MBThis week (and next!) we talk to our hosts about what the quarantine experience has been like for them. This week we hear from Will about quarantining alone, working for the weekends that no longer exist, and even a few attempts at digital dating!
Intimate Partner Terrorism on a Global Scale - with Nicoletta Heidegger
May 14, 2020 07:25 - 24 minutes - 22.2 MBWe welcome Nicoletta from Sluts and Scholars back for part 2 of this quarantine special! We move from the ground level view of domestic violence during the quarantine up to the world view. We hear from Nicoletta about legislation in the works, what problems we should be aware of, and what you can do to attempt to positively affect change during times like this. As a reminder, if you need access to resources, please reach out to the national domestic violence hotline - https://www.thehotlin...
Identifying Abuse During Quarantine - with Nicoletta Heidegger
May 07, 2020 08:05 - 23 minutes - 22 MBWe are joined once again by Nicoletta Heidegger from the Sluts and Scholars podcast, to discuss abuse during quarantine. She offers tips on how to identify it, what you can do if you are experience it - or know someone who might be - and how everything is amplified during quarantine. It's an important conversation to have, so listen and learn how you might be able to help. If you need access to resources, please reach out to the national domestic violence hotline - https://www.thehotline.or...
How to Communicate and Stay Charged in a Pandemic - with Isabella Frappier
April 30, 2020 15:40 - 21 minutes - 19.3 MBWe welcome Isabella Frappier back for part two of staying steamy during quarantine! This one focuses on being aware of what you're going through, communicating with your partner and yourself, and how to adapt to your new circumstances, and what affect the pandemic may be having on your sex drive.
Keeping Quarantine Spicy - with Isabella Frappier
April 23, 2020 08:10 - 23 minutes - 21.9 MBWe welcome Isabella Frappier (sexual healer, doula and founder of Geri's favorite facebook group) back with open arms to discuss how to take advantage of the time we're allowed with this pandemic. We hear tips on how to keep things spicy, but also get practical advice on how to take this moment and reimagine what sex means - and can mean - to you.
Homemade BDSM Tools for a Quarantine - with The O-Man
April 16, 2020 07:00 - 25 minutes - 23.7 MBWe are joined once again this week by the O-Man! This week in a short, quarantine episode, we hear about all the things around your house that you can work into your play. There's not a lot going on, and there's no reason to not spice things up - consider this a guide! To contact our guest, find his website at www.the-o-man.com or reach out directly at [email protected] For more information on how the stimulus is ignoring sex workers, check out this link! https://www.the-sun.com/news/637240...
Learn to Squirt During Quarantine - with The O-Man
April 09, 2020 08:40 - 28 minutes - 26.3 MBWe're excited to bring you the first in a series of mini-episodes to keep you occupied during quarantine! In the series, we are talking with The O-Man. Personal trainer turned movement educator turned sex guru, he goes deep into how a woman can learn to squirt - and how her partner can help get her there. A great past time when you're stuck at home! If you'd like to talk with him, you can reach out here - [email protected] or see his website here - www.the-o-man.com Let us know if it works ...
Partnered Non-Monogomy with Taylor and Chase!
April 02, 2020 22:51 - 1 hour - 57.9 MBThis week we talk partnered non-monogomy with friends of the podcast Taylor and Chase! We find out how they found each other when neither of them were looking, what their rules are, and what makes their relationship work. They're passionate and lovely, we can't wait for you to meet them!
Being a Woman on Fire - with Amy Jo Goddard
March 26, 2020 16:36 - 57 minutes - 52.8 MBOn this weeks episode we talk with Sexual Empowerment Educator, author and film maker Amy Jo Goddard! We hear about her upcoming documentary about insane medical practices when it comes to pelvic examinations - and how that can be better. We also hear about the Fire Woman festival and the 9 elements to wake up your erotic energy. To learn more, check here out here!
Getting Naked On-Screen with Ashleigh Morgan
March 19, 2020 15:40 - 41 minutes - 38.4 MBThis week we are joined by actor Ashleigh Morgan to talk about the good and bad sides of stripping down on-screen. We also hear about the new roles on set of an intimacy coordinator - something we know our listeners will appreciate! Enjoy and stay inside (if you can)!
Learning about STI's with Javay Dabae
March 12, 2020 18:59 - 48 minutes - 44.7 MBThis week we're here to educate! We have the wonderful Javay Dabae - Millenial Sexpert - joining us to talk all things STI's. Misconceptions, myths, and real practices on how to communicate with your medical professionals around it. She's a wealth of information and a delight, to boot!
Consent while Drinking, how to be safe, and how tech can help - all with Dr. Jennifer Lang
March 05, 2020 18:30 - 1 hour - 57.2 MBWhat a wonderful interview we have for you today! We are joined by gynecologist, author, educator and businesswoman Dr. Jennifer Lang to focus on modern day consent. How do we address the modern dating style while emphasizing and empowering the idea of consent? A lot of great conversation - and if you want to know more, check out her book, here!
Cripping Up Sex - with Eva Sweeney
February 27, 2020 15:42 - 28 minutes - 26.2 MBWe are beyond excited to be releasing this episode to you this week. We were joined by sex educator Eva Sweeney to talk about her journey pioneering the conversation around sex within the disability community. As someone with cerebral palsy, she realized that there was a dearth of information around sex-positivity, proper sexual health and education for people like her and those with other disabilities. So she set off to create! The founder of Cripping Up Sex with Eva where you can find reso...
Living Consciously with the hilarious Cynthia Levin
February 20, 2020 07:30 - 1 hour - 58.5 MBThis week we were joined by stand up, writer, performer and acting teacher Cynthia Levin. She is *so* funny, and such a delight to talk to, I know you'll love it. We touch on what it's like to go through life unconsciously - and how it can completely change when you start living actively. We also get into the comedy scene, Chicago, Los Angeles, acting, bullying, dating and more!
Love from The Princess Bride - with Tyler Johnson
February 13, 2020 15:11 - 1 hour - 57.5 MBHappy Valentines Eve! This week we are joined by the charming and funny Tyler Johnson - we get into what it's like to wait to have sex, how a religious upbringing shaped his views on sex and relationships, and whether or not the classic movie The Princess Bride makes a good guide for figuring out how to love and be loved. You'll spend the whole episode with a smile on your face - enjoy!
Escaping a Cult pt. 2 - with Ben Moroski
February 06, 2020 07:00 - 59 minutes - 54.7 MBThis week we welcome Ben Moroski back to the show! Last time we left off just after he began to really deprogram, and we pick up right from there. Ben shares with us his journey getting mentally healthy, the challenges someone in America may face when making a choice to better themselves, and how it affected his relationships. It's a great follow up episode, and we can't wait to share it with you!
Talking Consent with Erica Folinsky
January 30, 2020 07:00 - 57 minutes - 52.5 MBWe dive deep into the topic of consent this week with Erica Folinsky! We learn what consent has in common with Fries, how to talk about it with a partner, and dip into the idea of trauma bonding. It's the first in what promises to be a series of conversations around the topic, and a must listen. You can find Erica here: https://www.therapyden.com/therapist/erica-folinsky And for more resources around consent, check out the following links: http://www.teachconsent.org/ https://www.rainn.o...
Sex Parties Part 2 with Wendy Shoef
January 23, 2020 07:00 - 1 hour - 56.3 MBWe are thrilled to bring Wendy Shoef back to the show this week! We talk through sex parties a bit more in depth, hear her journey to being a 'fantasy fulfiller' and her time as a professional submissive. If you enjoy Wendy as much as we do, make sure to check out her upcoming FREE virtual summit - Womxn 2020! She has an amazing line up of over 30 experts talking everything from sex to trauma to relationships. You can check it out at owningyour.love Enjoy!
Exploring a Kink Buffet - with Emily Anne
January 16, 2020 16:17 - 1 hour - 63 MBThis episode covers the gamut! We are joined by Emily Anne, kinkster, and go on a journey from growing up on a farm to leading pegging parties in LA. Touching on everything from consensual non-consent to breeding to cuckolding, this one gets specific! Trigger warning: Within the context of consensual non-consent, rape fantasies are discussed. We also discuss an instance of unintentionally crossing the line in a bdsm scenario - and how to avoid that in a scene. Finally - check out the expl...
Discovering Dominance - with Alexis
January 09, 2020 07:00 - 55 minutes - 50.7 MBThis week we were joined by the hilarious and talented Alexis! She talks about her journey coming out as bisexual, discovering her dominant side, and dabbling in the Craigslist Personals section.
Better Relationships and Better Sex - with Dr. Adam Sheck
January 02, 2020 16:01 - 54 minutes - 49.7 MBHappy New Year everybody! In the first episode of 2020, we are joined by the Passion Doctor - also known as Dr. Adam Sheck - to talk psychology. We tough on Imago Relationship Therapy, trauma bonding, ethical monogamy, and how to have better sex by understanding more about how our brain chemicals function. If having better relationships and better sex is on your resolution list, you don't want to miss this episode!
Rebroadcast: Living Openly and Out Loud with Kai Wes
December 26, 2019 15:06 - 47 minutes - 43.7 MBThis week we are joined by Kai Wes from MTV's Are You the One - Kai talks to us about everything from growing up in a small town in Rhode Island, to college, through what it was really like in the house! They share what their goals were going into the house, and what it's been like on the other side. Plus, there's an awesome story about standing up to a bully - you don't want to miss this one!
Sexuality from Jamaica to Texas - with Shamar Philippe
December 19, 2019 07:00 - 48 minutes - 44.8 MBThis week we are joined by actor/writer Shamar Philippe! He gets into his sexual journey from growing up in a hyper sexualized culture in Jamaica, to good ol' Texas, to LA and beyond. Then he details his experience dating women, having threesomes, and dating men. It's an all encompassing episode, and his energy is so fun to listen to! Enjoy!
Waiting (and Waiting) to Have Sex - with Cassie Keet
December 12, 2019 16:10 - 58 minutes - 53.6 MBWe are joined by the HILARIOUS Cassie Keet and hear about church camp, the concept of virginity and how chat rooms lead to writing careers... and being into BDSM. She's a delight and you're sure to fall in love - enjoy!
39. Sex Party 101
December 05, 2019 07:00 - 54 minutes - 50.2 MBThis episode gets steamy! We talk all things Sex Parties with a friend of the show - we hear what to expect, how consent is treated, what to do and what it's like dating someone who shares that interest with you. We also hear about how it's not exactly for everyone - so if you have an interest but aren't sure, this is a great episode for you to check out!
Sex Party 101
December 05, 2019 07:00 - 54 minutes - 50.2 MBThis episode gets steamy! We talk all things Sex Parties with a friend of the show - we hear what to expect, how consent is treated, what to do and what it's like dating someone who shares that interest with you. We also hear about how it's not exactly for everyone - so if you have an interest but aren't sure, this is a great episode for you to check out!
38. Escaping a Cult with Ben Moroski
November 21, 2019 17:54 - 1 hour - 57.9 MBThis week we are joined by Ben Moroski to hear about shaking off the restraints of growing up in a cult. We touch on issues of self harm, mental health, sexuality and how to learn to live free. It's a really powerful story, and one we know our listeners will love.
Escaping a Cult with Ben Moroski
November 21, 2019 17:54 - 1 hour - 57.9 MBThis week we are joined by Ben Moroski to hear about shaking off the restraints of growing up in a cult. We touch on issues of self harm, mental health, sexuality and how to learn to live free. It's a really powerful story, and one we know our listeners will love.
37. Hot Sex and Sexual Regeneration with Susan Bratton and Dr. Robyn Benson
November 14, 2019 07:00 - 53 minutes - 48.8 MBComing straight from a hotel room bed, Geri brings a conversation with Trusted Hot Sex Advisor Susan Bratton and sexual regeneration with Doctor Robyn Benson. We hear about how to have better sex, penis pumps and the sexual practices of Quodoushka - it's a lot and it's so so good!
Hot Sex and Sexual Regeneration with Susan Bratton and Dr. Robyn Benson
November 14, 2019 07:00 - 53 minutes - 48.8 MBComing straight from a hotel room bed, Geri brings a conversation with Trusted Hot Sex Advisor Susan Bratton and sexual regeneration with Doctor Robyn Benson. We hear about how to have better sex, penis pumps and the sexual practices of Quodoushka - it's a lot and it's so so good!
Getting into Stripping with Kilani
November 07, 2019 07:30 - 52 minutes - 47.9 MBIn this weeks episode we talk with Kilani about how she ended up stripping to pay off a speeding ticket, if stripping at a club is really like Hustlers, and what it was like to be a non-sexual escort. If you've ever wanted to know about that world, we get a nice tour of it today!
36. Getting into Stripping with Kilani
November 07, 2019 07:30 - 52 minutes - 47.9 MBIn this weeks episode we talk with Kilani about how she ended up stripping to pay off a speeding ticket, if stripping at a club is really like Hustlers, and what it was like to be a non-sexual escort. If you've ever wanted to know about that world, we get a nice tour of it today!
35. Public Sex and Coming Out with Marc-Sully Saint-Fleur
October 31, 2019 21:26 - 42 minutes - 39.2 MBThis spooooooooky episode features Marc-Sully Saint-Fleur! He is such a joy to talk with and listen to - you're going to love the energy he brings. We hear what it was like for him to come out to his family, the struggles with managing those changing relationships, and then things get steamy as he tells us all about bath houses! Get your Michael Phelps on with Marc-Sully, and have a Happy Halloween!
Public Sex and Coming Out with Marc-Sully Saint-Fleur
October 31, 2019 20:26 - 42 minutes - 39.2 MBThis spooooooooky episode features Marc-Sully Saint-Fleur! He is such a joy to talk with and listen to - you're going to love the energy he brings. We hear what it was like for him to come out to his family, the struggles with managing those changing relationships, and then things get steamy as he tells us all about bath houses! Get your Michael Phelps on with Marc-Sully, and have a Happy Halloween!
34. Building Yourself to Build a Bond - Eva Ceja and Jared Rider
October 24, 2019 15:49 - 58 minutes - 53.7 MBThis week on Finding my Yum, we are joined by our first couple! Eva (actor and writer) and Jared (actor) talk growing up and finding what works for you. We hear about defining yourself in a small town, how to live under the shadow of divorce, and what happens when two people who have worked on themselves find each other. Enjoy!
Building Yourself to Build a Bond - Eva Ceja and Jared Rider
October 24, 2019 14:49 - 58 minutes - 53.7 MBThis week on Finding my Yum, we are joined by our first couple! Eva (actor and writer) and Jared (actor) talk growing up and finding what works for you. We hear about defining yourself in a small town, how to live under the shadow of divorce, and what happens when two people who have worked on themselves find each other. Enjoy!
33. Orgasmic Meditation with Nik Zaleski
October 17, 2019 15:40 - 47 minutes - 43.8 MBThis week we are joined by playwright, director, and cultural activist (rooted primarily in the reproductive justice movement) Nik Zaleski! We talk about how art can help drive social change, and then dive into the practice of Orgasmic Meditation - the practice of combining mindfulness, touching and pleasure. It's all about letting go and feeling! Enjoy!
32. Living Openly and Out Loud with Kai Wes
October 10, 2019 19:05 - 47 minutes - 43.7 MBThis week we are joined by Kai Wes from MTV's Are You the One - Kai talks to us about everything from growing up in a small town in Rhode Island, to college, through what it was really like in the house! They share what their goals were going into the house, and what it's been like on the other side. Plus, there's an awesome story about standing up to a bully - you don't want to miss this one!
Living Openly and Out Loud with Kai Wes
October 10, 2019 18:05 - 47 minutes - 43.7 MBThis week we are joined by Kai Wes from MTV's Are You the One - Kai talks to us about everything from growing up in a small town in Rhode Island, to college, through what it was really like in the house! They share what their goals were going into the house, and what it's been like on the other side. Plus, there's an awesome story about standing up to a bully - you don't want to miss this one!
Rebroadcast: 15 - There's a Doctor in the House - with Dr. Amie Harwick
October 03, 2019 13:55 - 47 minutes - 43.8 MBIn this episode, Geri is joined by our first licensed therapist Dr. Amie Harwick! She talks to us about her journey to becoming a doctor, what it was like to have a very public relationship, and how to handle other people trying to define your identity. Sneak peak - don't let 'em! Amie is amazing and has such a great personality, you'll love this one, guaranteed.
Rebroadcast: There's a Doctor in the House - with Dr. Amie Harwick
October 03, 2019 12:55 - 47 minutes - 43.8 MBIn this episode, Geri is joined by our first licensed therapist Dr. Amie Harwick! She talks to us about her journey to becoming a doctor, what it was like to have a very public relationship, and how to handle other people trying to define your identity. Sneak peak - don't let 'em! Amie is amazing and has such a great personality, you'll love this one, guaranteed.
31. Finding your Yum with Geri!
September 26, 2019 18:56 - 44 minutes - 41.1 MBThis week we take a break from guests and give listeners a look into what's been going on with Geri! It's important to check in from time to time, you know? We touch on how relationships have changed, what it's like to have a more open brain as you walk through the world, and what our favorite episodes have been. We hope you enjoy!
Finding your Yum with Geri!
September 26, 2019 17:56 - 44 minutes - 41.1 MBThis week we take a break from guests and give listeners a look into what's been going on with Geri! It's important to check in from time to time, you know? We touch on how relationships have changed, what it's like to have a more open brain as you walk through the world, and what our favorite episodes have been. We hope you enjoy!
30. Being your Whole Woman Self with Janis DeLuca
September 19, 2019 15:35 - 52 minutes - 47.9 MBThe week we are joined by Janis DeLuca, a mentor and guide for women, focused on sexuality. She talks with Geri about how to have a conscious relationship with sexuality, her work with women in the 40-60 age range, and even touches on a few exercises to try! Enjoy!
Being your Whole Woman Self with Janis DeLuca
September 19, 2019 14:35 - 52 minutes - 47.9 MBThe week we are joined by Janis DeLuca, a mentor and guide for women, focused on sexuality. She talks with Geri about how to have a conscious relationship with sexuality, her work with women in the 40-60 age range, and even touches on a few exercises to try! Enjoy!
29. Sexology and Law-ology with the Sluts and Scholars Podcast!
September 12, 2019 14:50 - 55 minutes - 50.6 MBToday we were blessed to have on Nicoletta and Simone from the Sluts and Scholars podcast! Nicoletta is licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#110256) and Sexologist, while Simone is an actor-turned-law-student that likes to talk about banging. They're both incredibly smart and funny, and talking with them was a delight. Listen to hear about how to communicate during sex, why MFT's often times gloss over sex (and why they shouldn't), and how Simone had a run in with the Pope! I mean, may...
Sexology and Law-ology with the Sluts and Scholars Podcast!
September 12, 2019 13:50 - 55 minutes - 50.6 MBToday we were blessed to have on Nicoletta and Simone from the Sluts and Scholars podcast! Nicoletta is licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#110256) and Sexologist, while Simone is an actor-turned-law-student that likes to talk about banging. They're both incredibly smart and funny, and talking with them was a delight. Listen to hear about how to communicate during sex, why MFT's often times gloss over sex (and why they shouldn't), and how Simone had a run in with the Pope! I mean, may...
Rebroadcast: 4. Kissing Parties, Threesomes, and Unicorns Oh My!
September 05, 2019 07:00 - 47 minutes - 43.2 MBRebroadcasting our fourth episode with a dear friend - this is the one that shaped what Finding My Yum is today. Listen to our friend talk about her journey to discovering what it means to be a unicorn, why saying yes can be fun, and hear our hosts realize what the show should be about - all thanks to her. It's been one of our favorites from the start!
Rebroadcast: Kissing Parties, Threesomes, and Unicorns Oh My!
September 05, 2019 06:00 - 47 minutes - 43.2 MBRebroadcasting our fourth episode with a dear friend - this is the one that shaped what Finding My Yum is today. Listen to our friend talk about her journey to discovering what it means to be a unicorn, why saying yes can be fun, and hear our hosts realize what the show should be about - all thanks to her. It's been one of our favorites from the start!
28. Coming Out while Catholic with Steph Schlerf
August 29, 2019 07:00 - 55 minutes - 50.6 MBWe were thrilled to be joined by Steph this week! She talks with Geri about the other side of growing up religious - and what it's like when you feel like there's not a spot in the church for you anymore. Steph shares bravely and openly about her journey accepting her bisexuality, how she has handled external pressures, and how to steam up a car in high school - all while keeping your promise ring. (Spoiler alert: it's by doing a lot of talking) Enjoy!