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How to conquer your fear and depression. An atheletes mindset. #15
Find Your Voice
English - April 01, 2019 04:55 - 1 hour - 142 MB - ★★★★★ - 40 ratingsMental Health Health & Fitness Education Self-Improvement confidence entrepreneur business anxiety adversity mindset passive income fulfillment mental health health Homepage Download Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
Find your voice - Episode 15 - "My Way" - Raj Sallan #15
Tagline: "The only person that should be proud of you, is yourself"
Raj Sallan was the Fresh Prince, before he got shipped off to Bel-Air. His parents swiftly realised he was going to end up going down the wrong path if he stayed in Germany, he was sent to Birmingham, UK where he was forced to learn another language, way of life and develop his own mindset. Having had to learn his 3rd language, Raj utilised martial arts, kick-boxing and boxing to channel his mind and found a passion that would see him travelling the world and proving all his doubters wrong.
Raj explains that your mindset starts from the moment you wake up. He strengthened his perspective and mindset to help him handle not living with his parents for the majority of his childhood, learning English and fighting professionally in combat sports. Realising that nothing is impossible Raj has overcome his own levels of depression, loneliness and now spends his hours helping world-class fighters, girls and boys of all ages in becoming fit and finding their own confidence.
A genuinely loving guy, whose energy is infectious. He explains his daily rituals that have helped him earn a favourable reputation in the fight game, but also as a genuinely humble human being.
A story of adversity, with no excuses and an individual who found his voice and continues to write his own story.
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welcome to an episode of find your voice
a movement led by yours truly
Aren do a guy who has overcome
crippling anxiety adversity and
difficulty like so many of you in life
whose main goal now is to help you
combat your excuses take control of your
life write your own story and most
importantly find your voice so now
without further ado I welcome the host
of the show himself mr. Aren do what's
going on people thank you for tuning in
to another episode of find your voice my
name is Aren and as always I am the
host of the show so as you sit here now
listening to this podcast I just want to
ask you a quick question now obviously
it's rhetorical
because I can't hear your answer but how
many times in the last week have you
thought about something negative have
you complained when it really wasn't
that bad
have you mould about how little progress
you've made rather than actually commend
yourself for how far you've came my
guess is probably more than you wish to
admit and that's absolutely fine listen
we've all been there but what I find
remarkable about this episode that
you're gonna hear is I guarantee 100% if
you listen to this all the way through
your perception and your mindset will
benefit you will change it you will
start to feel I'll say silly for morning
about the silly things that we often
moan about because this individual has
not only had to learn English as his
third language
he was uplifted as a ten-year-old from
his parents to live in a foreign country
where everything was alien to him and
the only thing he really knew how to
control was his mind and his hands and
his feet and with that he tells a
wonderful story so without further ado
I'm gonna get this interview on the way
so firstly I just wanna walk on right to
the show and thank you for taking time
out of your day to come and have this
interview myself how you doing today I'm
fine right it's just doing well good
good the UK where they're glad to hear
it so I think it's important for the
listeners to understand a little bit
yourself now I've heard about you my
wife's told me about you you know wanted
you on Instagram for some time now so if
you could kind of give the listeners
basically a history of how you've came
about to where you are today
well basically am I was born in Germany
1988 in Frankfurt and grew up in a rough
estate area basically it was there was
no Indians back then it was just if you
name it just like Turks albanian
different all different cultures but no
Indians no Asians my family was the kind
of the first Indian community around
there my uncle and everyone and growing
one went school there stayed there -
lost ten the time there was no people
probably asking what are you doing here
yeah yeah it's just growing up in this
state area it was a rough and tough you
know being through fucking some hard
time and the other day and seeing my
parents there being there and as an
Indian people you know how did German
they say it's not it's not a racist
country but they won't put everyone in
one the cultural people would want in
one area so where this day so this is
their area it was a being a bad kid I
was like a as poor really but the other
yeah okay so I'm getting into naughty
stuff at a young age theft
not going school just no he just being
wrong basically doing the wrong things
that I do you know upsetting my parents
they wasn't happy they wanted a better
life for me so come to a stage where
they decided to send me here because my
mom's side everyone's here my uncle's my
cousins so they had a decision to make
which probably was the biggest decision
in their life so they decided to send me
here to have a better life and today
that's where I stand is here and I'm
being threw me through quite a bit you
know from being alone software
depression this is probably most of the
family members they don't even know
themselves so when they hear this they
probably think we didn't know this but
I've never come up out of it really I've
never told anyone about it because I
like to keep things sometimes myself and
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I've always always had that little thing
where you know when I was young come on
my own and basically crying by myself
and I was a kid when I come here cuz I
missed my parents because the hardest
thing in my life was probably was going
to that Airport and looking back and see
my mom and I'd cry maybe one else that's
a hard thing yeah it's a mental thing
and that's a ten year old I don't know
where I'm going I don't know what's
happening yeah what's going so you were
ten when you came over I was 10 years
old and was jamming your first language
but job dream dance from Indiana okay
some may not be fast champion easily
should I didn't know I didn't have a
clear barrage you know nothing English
from the age of 10 10 yes fantastic and
then it was just hard time it's just
hard that moment was very hard ten years
old you wouldn't know you took back and
why do you crying like we think he might
have great for holiday of his back of
course I know what they said that you
know going then the plan was to give it
a go see how it goes that's what my own
custom a moment which was good and then
it was hard that day I remember sitting
on the plane at ten years old amount and
it's going to another country to start a
new life and things started and use the
good is better for me basically because
the way I grew up in Germany there was
only one way in a prison gangs or dead
awesome other than something I didn't
want to disappoint my parents because
one thing in my life that could never do
is disappoint them they mean the world
to me and yeah another indeed appear now
in school world screed
come in years six or years five years
almost ten years old I didn't know no
English no English at all basically I
did not think I was that good fresh off
the boat but yeah and had to go through
lot of stuff as a kid because knowing
not know English
making friends was hard but it was just
very difficult to be fair and the way I
just gone through it I cried as a kid I
remember going home walking from school
I had no friends and this is when I
first come over and
that long road in hands of going home
and crying and just being upset missing
my parents 10 year old kid would course
Yong Yong you don't know you know you
don't know how you feel and it's just
very different unexplainable to people
that unless they've been through
themselves they know I feels and it was
hard there's hard times and then slowly
slowly things started changing for me
you know I just started getting thinking
in my head don't one thing I always said
to myself in life is that it's all about
you know your brief you got two arms two
legs
you're not worse than others know
there's people out there in lifestyle
going through lot worse than yourself so
I always that's one thing one of them
second is that the only place that's
gonna believe and use yourself you can't
believe in yourself
and having faith in yourself then you
know I strongly believe that you know
people believe in like North of
Attraction the universe I think
personally you are your universe you are
what you think in it you become what you
think so absolutely things change for me
you know if I didn't have if I didn't
want to become like my parents or
everything I took a lot of criticism in
life as well like you can't do this my
parents up to because they sent me yeah
as if our Asian families are they'll put
you they'll put a lot of people down
they like to say oh he ain't gonna do
nothing course of course being in a
making oh why you sent him there for my
parents after he all that then it was
like a it was me against the people as
one to prove them wrong that you know
what I'm fuckin of made it yeah you know
I am Who I am I'm a good person
I've not turned that wrong a lot of
people expected me to come here and take
advantage oh yeah and film become a
druggie junkie do whatever can you know
make most of it because my parents in
here but um you know you know plenty of
friends we just forget just before this
interview as well I've been mutual
friends we've got as well yeah
definitely is so I think that's
interesting what you've touched from it
you said a couple of things that I've
just made notes of so one is you become
what you think and believe in yourself
this is something that I know is a very
date hero you have to say affirmations
and implant that in my head now and I
think indirectly because you've been put
in that situation you have to develop
that yourself and
giving you some strengths although you
might not have seen it as a strength
then it's brought you into the person
that you are now which I think it's
fantastic because and a lot of people
listening to this probably had a lot
more shout class yeah whereas you were
by yourself and you thinking buddy got
these two hands and legs
yeah and just speaking on those two
kinds of legs now yeah that you knew you
had you've done incredible things with
those yeah which I just wanted to tell
the audience as well it all started with
a fire school basically okay
when I was in Germany I was a bit of a
tempered kid you know it's but I still
gave too loud so when I come here I was
it - I got into a few fights and this is
my first the first few month for you
already
and my uncle goes to meet my mom's
brother he goes you know you got
suspended from school you just come over
here in basically Punjabi because I
couldn't speak English course and so
from there he started and there he goes
well I'm gonna send you to kickboxing
gym and I go ah they don't give me a
coke it's nothing they asked or just
yeah by then I made friends
I put friends by them you know people
that were around me and school friends
and I took one friend with me and said
let's give me a coke see what's about
yeah and who wants me to go okay and
walked into the gym and then from there
never looked back cuz just suddenly I
found a talent I wasn't good mmm yes so
it wasn't actually beating people up but
it's something I had in me and I used
that a lot if it wasn't for that I think
that sports and combat sport fighting
and all that helped me in a way my using
my hands and feet my mentally if it made
me better and it was more energy changed
everything like if I was upset at home
or if I was feeling down
oh go to gym no I'll use that a lot and
then that just made me who I am
from there he just kick-started amateur
fights I went to turn pro in Thai boxing
I had laws of numerous fight all over
the place over India to fight at a pro
MMA fight for winning age and over 20
pro kickboxing fights
it's incredible a mature buck cells as
well as boxing for Saint Francis in
Birmingham
fantastic yes or other good chance I was
even told to stick to boxing and one way
is that gonna be pro in that but I just
love kicking okay yeah so that's where
you all started my hands or feet and
they kicked off then I think that's
where I I saw your Instagram stuff Nick
initially because I know my wife Tommy
love about you because you went to the
same school and she said it's really
inspiring you've come from completely
different country and you found your way
in life and I remember going to be spoke
about this just before the podcast going
to ask them University yeah which is
what ten miles from my house can get
there in 15 minutes yeah and I was
homesick
so Monday to Thursday by the time
Thursday comes I couldn't wait to get
home on a Friday so I can only imagine
what it's like for a ten-year-old kid to
kind of have to do that but I don't now
we've spoken obviously before this you
go home a lot now and you visit in
Germany quite yeah I spend much time
with my family I can I personally think
that nowadays degeneration now they
forget their parents and they forget
about the old alumni like I spend a lot
of time my parents because the
difference with me is that I've not
actually I've lost a lot of time with
the growing of pianos and not being with
them so be going back and then every
time so anytime that means the world to
me now first thing you couldn't you know
a man if you don't spend time I agree
and I'm sure they're very proud of how
far you've come now they are yeah they
are very very proud but the most
important thing is my dad always tells
me is the only place that should be
proud this are you proud you have people
like that that's what matters
personally I'm proud of myself that's a
pretty messy that's the best thing to
you now look that message as well and
that's something that I try and get
through this podcast as well is that
yeah the way we look at ourselves in our
self-worth and stuff like it's the most
important thing yet cuz it's nice
getting plaudits from the person next
door or somebody across the road but
until you start looking yourself and
believing in yourself I'll do something
like this is something I don't are many
Byrne I wake up in the morning and speak
to myself let me read it and there's a
reason why I do it because then I went
to see someone about three years ago
mm-hmm
and he helped me the way to think and
why how to change negativity into
positively I don't you feel great about
yourself so he said do something like
talk to yourself yeah but he actually
works so I realized that your mindset
starts from the time you wake up you
know when you say your feet touch the
floor yeah that is when your mind starts
working and whatever you think what
thought you wake up with so if you wake
up negative your day is going to be
negative if you wake up positive you're
positive so walk to the mirror and I got
this little white top where I just say I
am positive I am rich I am blessed I am
my own God I am this and that so and I
talk to myself yeah and then I said to
her I'm gonna have a great day today
do that and it helps me yeah that's
something that really helps me I know
some people might thinking wow that's
that but that is something like I can
really really help someone it's a mental
thing and this is like a you mentally
getting stronger and your mind you
you're basically transforming your mind
set you straight positive team and
you're looking forward to the day then
it can rain out there because no even
when I'm finished knowing and it's shit
whether I'll say it's a toy don't stop
me doing the finger prize of course it's
the mindset how people yeah and I know a
lot of people that wake up in the
morning say example one day I hate
mondays absolute that's the first
negative word that you say to yourself I
hate why do you hate go and do what you
had to do come home make a plan yeah
think coffee I love that so it's one of
them things I think as you were saying I
just opened up my diary so I have every
morning five thoughts and it's similar
to yourself I am powerful I understand
my own bothy
I am perfect every single morning best
thing and it's only something I've been
doing recently as well but it's so
important like what we feed am I here so
you're an athlete you know what it's
important to feed your body physically
strong but if this is weak that knows
everything there's no point of it's not
point being you know I mean the best
body but if you're my name right it's
the same with the fight game you can be
very good in the gym you can be
you can be whatever but if your mindsets
wrong and you my name in the fight
mm-hmm
you must say you lost the fight yeah
because it's not there lost it before it
started yeah but a lot of people don't
realize that so my mind is a powerful
thing I don't think people realize it I
think you're right there I think it's
becoming a bit more and this is probably
because I look into that fear you've got
a lot of mindset coach and a lot of
people talking about it but when I hear
it from someone like yourself who's put
it into practice in an arena and done it
on an international stage I find it a
lot more authentic and real so I'm glad
you said that and it was actually the
one of the next questions I was gonna
ask you was about your routine and so I
love athletes and if I could if I could
have a separate podcast in this they've
been just interviewing athletes because
I think it takes a certain type of
person to get to the top to stay at the
top to have that mindset because it
isn't like you said it ain't all about
your physical attributes you'll be the
hardest hit but if you aim right here
yeah
and somebody's got more clued on there
they're gonna have perform you throw it
main rhythm as an example indefinitely
so what I want to ask you is this was my
next question what do you do until the
time you go to sleep so obviously you
all can have you spoken to yourself in
the mirror now yeah what are their kind
of rituals or habits do you do in the
day often saying I can go back to when I
was fighting yeah yeah what I used to do
was we stay twice a day or three times
pushing it depending coming to a fight
waking up in a pony go for a jog I'm
just going back when I was at school my
uncle used to wet this secondary school
and I was competing then amateur level
and I was doing then I'd turn pro and I
mean my uncle waking you used to come
from a nightshift 4:00 in the morning
before I go school is to make me go for
a jog go for a run so the technologies
you hear I was 14 to 16 this was and the
dedication was built in me already you
know having that warrior mentality and
that listen you gotta train hard
maintaining one way to so what we used
to do is train three times a day say max
and diet so when you wake up in the
morning you run check your weight come
home eat you gotta watch my eat as well
you have a nutritionist watching what
you eat if you don't have a nutrition
you some people do it themselves which
is good as well so my daily routine is
Bella and especially
all days was going school all day watch
ye at school wow this is the time when
no one hardly knew realized I was in
year eight nine I was just my name was
just coming out and not people knew the
house no one knew that I was doing it
only later on people found that coming
from school finish school come home grab
my bag
don't do no homework come on felt like
training back there go straight to the
gym to our session and then back home
eat food go bed then after that when I
left school it was the only thing that
changed was there was no school time so
that's when three times a day training
started just running in the morning
training from different things like
strength speed and sparring session pad
work different sessions and needs to be
three times a day eating right and he
days used to just go basically and then
I'm coming home in the evening afternoon
chilling with the family and then in the
evening if you feel good you go for
mother jog and this is when it comes to
an eight week camp fight camp your aim
is to get fit get mentally strong and
get your weight down as well depending
on what weight division you find that
and then they just carried on like that
I've done that for a good 15 years to be
fair her
I've been training since I was 10 still
do it now but I'm fond of fighting fit
and fighting professionally I stopped at
25 my last fight was 24 when I was in
India a fourth road and times change but
I still keep the same similar routine I
still go for a jog here in l a-- wake-up
call for one you know in the morning and
I love going running in the morning at 4
or 5 I love that I love that it's the
fresh a door full run go work and
especially with my job now you know we
do shift work so I work everything
around it and the only thing that keeps
me going is my mind basically your body
can get old as much as they want but if
your mind is strong can control your
mind and yeah and the funny thing is
it's your mind that tells you're tired
even before your body is as well yeah
and that's something we definitely kind
of battle with yeah I looked at and I
just sort of touch on that so you've
done this for like 15 years I had a very
very short period and this is kind of
like something that I celebrate where I
train like an athlete as a knight I
got myself under an Olympic coach near
boxing what I was doing with those
copying national champions so when they
were training free time today I was
doing the same yeah because I knew I got
into the game late and I really wanted
to go on a floors so I was training and
I was copying them I was eating the
right stuff and I couldn't understand
what you're saying there I'm not sure if
the listeners will get this but there is
a point where your body and your mind
are in sync that you do stuff that you
think shit how we're doing this because
you're training so would you do so much
and the reason I say that is because now
I'll go to the gym and people normally
is not comparison trained or whatever
but the intensity that I had for those
two years is 10 times more than now what
I can't do is bring that intensity back
here so now when I go to the gym the mom
I'm tired up I don't know I just kind of
think okay let's got that Communists
abuse away and I wish I could transform
those two years of a true athletes
mindset into now are you able to still
do that now so you know how you would
train that 25 can you bring that a
little bit back or is it a matter of
when you're not competing it's difficult
to do I know exactly it doesn't make
sense yeah I don't make sense to do
right there especially the copying part
mmm that's exactly why I used to do
because watching people like the running
I got from sue my uncle told me run in
the mornings and everyone that fight her
mentality and I just watch people like
Tyson and knowing the jog in the morning
and he watched these videos okay and
that's the copying part like just
thought you said yourself you copy it
and do it but that's the only way to
these people are there it's by of course
you learn from them so that's why it
like Mayweather says you know what my
opponent sleep 2 a.m. in the morning I'm
going for it says it's a very good copy
it's not a bad thing it's doing
something that they're doing and then it
works on you but going to transforming
it if I wanted to do that now and
everything I could like I said it's a
sit my head I knew boys the older you
get or do you believe as well
laziness kicks in you know and
responsibilities change appear you know
you have a lot more other things to do
you know work people get you know
relationships and everything just
changes but in your head you got a you
have like a notebook and you write
everything down
today I'm gonna do this tomorrow I'm do
this you know you can write a routine
down and it still can be done it's don't
coming there's nothing impossible in
library people told me I could never
speak English
I've never got to speak English or a
school I get picked on here a day not as
in you know just not picked on but just
laughing you know he can't speak English
oh my cousin's would say oh and I think
you know what I realize now nothing is
impossible even when I was going through
the depression point no I'm sad I just
upset cry
I never should tell my family no one
used to know I should be on my own ice
like be a man just cry and miss my
parents but then while Walter went along
and I got older I realized that you know
what nothing's impossible I could do
anything or what you know what
um these people were standing out there
what am i crying about what is wrong
with me
you know I mean I can do this dusty and
today I'm here nothing today right now
I'm probably in the most longest mindset
I just believe in myself that I'm alive
they feel the good energy yeah and this
good energy but Zampa when you pass
positive energy got me excited here
before we started this you can see how
happy I'll wait that's the best thing to
do is the vibrations between two people
and it's a straightaway you send it to
them and you want to spend time with
people like that
that's it girl one thing I have to do is
the certain people didn't say family or
friends who all they do is negative
negative negative and when it's your
family and friends you can't always cut
them out yeah so after do is limit my
conversations with them or if I'm in
there if I'm in their proximity is
literally like how you doing and then I
walk away because I don't want that you
know what all of these kind of
relationships and this is where I'm
complaining nowadays in life and on the
grand scheme of things and people have
interviewed on this and including
yourself their problems that you know
the trivial the minor compared to what
you guys have been through nobody's been
lifted from their parents do you have to
learn a third language to that you don't
be fired in and they're not
understanding what people are saying
about them to then having to develop
their own - such a young age where I'm
here now as a 30 year old still trying
to develop my
and I'm seeing people who I'm actually
working with now who you are older than
me still trying to develop their Mon so
I think it's you should be very proud
for this yeah I think it's commendable
that you've been able to do that yeah
especially it's true you don't think I
agree with that exam it's that fucking
that did you do so you can't give a fuck
about anything fuck what people think
fuck what anyone thinks really and do
what you make sure you have people yeah
if you work on yourself you're never
gonna get out of that blockage it's a
circle around you like we've seen it a
lot with lot of people not mind coaches
people saying it like they put and die
in the middle then they put circle
around it that is you and you can't get
at that comfort zone you're just in that
middle you have to break through and
that's what he's like I had a friend
make for me two weeks ago saying I wanna
cop
and I said to him you found me to tell
me you walk on
well how about you think to yourself
that I am gonna get I'm gonna have that
car or believe that you already in that
car believe in yourself like I said yeah
yeah there's no one else gonna believe
in you you know I mean you can't ask
phone someone can you believe in
addition of everyone else that's it yeah
cuz I knew this was interview was coming
up and I try and learn about the person
a little bit I took myself back into
those two years and the key to my
success in those two years was a
decision I will just make a decision and
believe it oh there's an analogy when
somebody says I'm trying to quit smoking
for a bit or somebody just says I don't
smoke anymore they're two different
types of people the person who doesn't
smoke and move will not be tempted and
nobody will really ask him where
somebody's that off stop smoking for a
bit the most aren't you're gonna get
asked in a grave you want one or they're
gonna be very very tempted it's kind of
you've got to make your own identity you
do if that makes sense ain't the world
like I'm trying change that try to I am
NOT little words how you think I'm what
you say your language you know yeah you
to yourself what it's raining today or
Congo you know but you say I will go for
when the rain stops to be rain is not
gonna kill you you know it's just it's
the mind thing to be fair it's it's hard
it's hard I know what where people come
from like for me softly from being
judged mean creatures
is going through depression at a young
age you know feeling alone and
overcoming them things it's just it's
not as easy I want people to know that
they're not on their own you know I know
people it's hard to explain to someone
how you feel but they need to realize
that you're not on your own because
first of all these people not worse than
what they're going through you know
second you're breathing you know he got
two arms two legs
you put got a roof over your head get
food on the table and end of the world
never think that and just feel strong
about yourself and even yourself
but never give up and that's one thing I
think in the Asian community is Wally
not all there's nothing wrong with you
don't worry you're just crying all
you're just upset it's a debate know
what's going through yeah you don't know
what's going through the person's head
or what's happening and me as a young
kid I remember them little things when I
was on my own and crying and all sorts
it was quite hard and not family members
don't know this to be fair but all the
comment in a way that it was that fuck
you attitude like you know what I'm
gonna I'm gonna prove people wrong you
know I didn't care what people think but
I used that as a I'm gonna prove a mom
that I'll turn that good and I turned up
doing I achieve things that day car so I
used them as a fuel baby that's why I
used the mass and it carried on like
that and my mind just got stronger and
stronger hmm and anything even today
like I mean people who having a bad day
and I turned their mindset it's just me
talking deception isn't it yes it's how
you see it
and I think you took started this so
you've been doing this since you attend
they pretty much and that's probably why
you're better at it than most people I
think the important thing people should
take away from this episode is make it a
habit yeah so how you go to the toilet
at night how do you go have a shower
every morning it needs to become a habit
the way you speak to yourself from how
you see stuff so another good thing I do
other than these five things I do
gratitude journal is oh so I used to do
every morning which is fine but
somewhere along like the day after a bit
it kind of rubs off so something bad
happens even myself I'm guilty of
sometimes looking at
what I do you know I do have them
tonight as well so I'm doing gratitude
as soon as I wake open before I go to
sleep
it just helping me and my natural vibes
and everything it's very hard for me to
not be grateful for what I have like you
said I've got two hands and a few of my
health
touchwood at the minute got no diagnosis
of any illness isn't nothing I get to go
on holiday I know what I get to live the
life are what I'm blessed
yeah do you know what I mean I convinced
myself of that because because I am
never give up attitude may seem you know
that's the best way to be and being
grateful I've always been grateful I'll
be my dad and like we come from nothing
my parents come from nothing and we have
enough today to keep us happy and that's
all that matters
which is how well you know half is the
most important thing of course and you
know I've always been bought up in a way
to think that stay humble as well and be
grateful and that's well yeah and that's
one thing about me I love that and
that's something you preach on your
instagrams in your facebook as well
love that because always I can relate to
that so on my Twitter I just kind of say
stuff that comes in my head it's kind of
me talking to myself
yeah because sometimes if I'm a bad day
my first thing in my head is going back
to a prayer yeah and listen to how you
talk so be that person that you say
you're gonna be here and I wrote
something the other day which says
growing up I didn't have everything I
wanted but I had everything I needed and
that's literally how I grew up and and
that's kind of like one of my timelines
as well because I think my life is this
compared to so many other people that's
why people it's hard for them they think
they're humble but they're not really
they don't understand how what it takes
to be grateful you have to believe in
that you know what I'm happy
coming for my breakfast is a bit hard
times II was me I know and I've seen you
know looking at my friend he's buying
new train is no lazy Navi and now I'm
sitting up and for one but I still don't
go and get what I want because I know
I've got enough I don't you know that's
not gonna change your liver what
happened it's all still here it's not
cause it's a big example my friends
always like oh why didn't get yourself a
new car you know you all you need to
know
what can I'm humble in a way that my car
takes me a to be I'm happy that's what
the purpose of a car is that's all if
you could treat yourself to treat
yourself don't forget where you come
from people forget where they call
that's what happened I agree
they really forget asleep hour for a
listen that is I think so I come from
similar backgrounds no not as bad as you
in terms of not being very humble
because we had normally going up and I
remember the moment I got my first good
job he was in London and I was anymore
money thing on you wanted to deal with
and when I say what money I mean to me
to other people it's probably a normal
salary so I know all this money and I
remember Bibles designer gear these
jeans and stuff and if you go upstairs
to the third bedroom they're all them
jeans and all them teacher I just and I
hardly wear because yeah very quickly I
realized that doesn't make me happy
what makes me happy is being able to do
this or help people or give a hunter and
that kind of the best thing you can do
you know helping people is one of the
best things as well even if it's done
it's like the littlest thing like I'll
explain some time was of course telling
them how if they're saying the day's
been bad try and help and be they be
better not have a joke or just have
someone just maybe someone small yeah I
think I thinking in the world but
growing up humble and down to half is
probably my first thing not taking my
heart honestly from your hair is the
first thing that there is respect being
humble and down to the best can come
after that's the best thing I think the
world would be a better place if there's
no greed then like lot of people are
there's not greed
there's a lot of competition Cuba
competition not a lot of people compete
with them with others or their mates or
their family members like I've always
told my parents like listen don't worry
what people say let them talk let them
be they think what they want let them
think what they want they're jealous the
Haiti they got a negative problem which
they need help in but they don't
understand that especially in our
community indeed pretty they see they
won't know that they don't stand this
kind of stuff this is like if you can
fucking get it what can't you why don't
you do this why don't you do what they
don't realize the other person might be
happy you know they're happy with what
that for my dad my dad one kind of
person like you were says to me what
kids are happy
be healthy about reform I'll either see
you always you say that his whole life
and you're drilled into my head
no even though I didn't grow up with
them but but then let them believe
remember yeah I remember these things
and now always when I stay at home
that's why I got that little white book
top of the mirror and I love that look
honey and I've got one thing that I'm
I'm rich yeah and you know how I feel
and well feeling about everything I want
you keep saying that the things that you
don't you don't expect they'll come to
you anyway then you're attracting that
or anything of course but yes like I
said it's not easy for people out there
that's hard but I already know I love
that you've shared that because that's
literally how I think yeah so we just
before we started this episode I told
you I'm selling this house now yeah and
I was like we're gonna get ourselves a
smaller apartment and two other people
it's gonna be like shit you're given a
big house for a small little apartment
for what for me is my happiness my
wife's gonna give up WIC we're gonna be
together I don't care that I don't all
my house that doesn't bother me
I don't care my family or friends say oh
you don't want to have anymore
listen not many people do all that
houses the lights on the houses for a
start but secondly it doesn't bother me
I've got not ego in relation to that
what I am doing is controlling my own
life I'm living life on my own terms and
my wife's happy that's the best way and
going back to banks on that to be fair
we don't own exactly nothing
we're here for a very very short amount
of time we're leasing almost everything
in life you know to me we don't own
nothing and all your own only thing your
own is your own happiness their own
mindset and yourself absolutely and like
you said you and your wife are happy
that's when you care about a lot of the
people out there to care about the kids
and their parents and that's what they
should be this I think time is more
valuable than money you know I mean the
most most important commodity you can
get money all day long you'll get that
forever at the time you never get that
back and that's me saying it because
that time I lost with my parents I'll
never get anything I get that back yeah
me growing up as a most of my friends
used to go back school
don't open the door go back home sorry
don't open the door one day mom and dad
a day no I didn't have that feeling I
didn't know what it's like growing up
with parents or what it's like being
with you in a moment dad and my mom and
dad had to go through a lot they have to
cry you know they're always out
every day have known a magic I mean I'm
not a parody I can only imagine how hard
that must've been a song he was always
said to my mom and dad I said no there's
people are there I've lost you know the
parents in walls and this was going on
now and people are you know dying and I
said don't worry I'm fine and
everything's good
and I always came that positive energy
and that thing that I'm gonna do well
don't worry come off it and I will never
basically we say flop come so I'm gonna
prove everyone wrong don't worry and
same people they used to criticize us
they don't even want to look at me now
yeah yeah I know I still pull my hand
out unshaken because that's not the way
of yours just because they hate you
doesn't mean you have to hate back don't
go on to their level yeah and most
likely reason that they have these kind
of opinions or something positive stuff
is because really it's an opinion about
themselves so when they see you doing
stuff or saying you're gonna do
something they believe they can't do it
and that's what it is I had it well I
mean when I was 25
I'm 25 slate and I was like 42 pounds
overweight
heavier than I was now tits and
everything and I would but I want to go
and box it every single person close to
me other than my mom I like my brother
and like my immediate family were like
you can't do it straightaway
dad already decided my fate in here just
incredible how do you guys know you
haven't seen me try I wasn't as good as
when I was 17 when I first know but I
was like oh because I was so like
focused I was like respond I think I
could do something because I had an
Olympic coach who told me I could do it
and I was at surely his opinion in that
field matters a little bit more than
your opinion yet but then saying that if
I never had that guy tell me that I
probably would have believed it and I
probably would never have tried it and I
still say to this day those two years
are the best years of my life I never
achieved the things that I want to do
chief but I built my counter and I built
my strength and I built so much about me
as a person
yeah in those two years that I think is
really important that was me literally
ignoring people's opinions or definitely
urge people shut up everything the thing
is that when people when people say to
another person you can't do it who are
they don't you are needy they're
nobodies they just feel like that but
themselves that they Condor is on you
can do it
and it's good in a way because when you
start thinking like that you get
stronger and you think to yourself you
know what that's true who are they to
tell me and you that's why sometimes
that period of my life where I got
criticized judged I probably took any
now people but they won't do to my faith
but yeah but you need them people
sometimes because they've got a issue
with themselves in within themselves of
course but they're taking it out on
others but you need these people because
you use them as a competitive thing like
you know what I'm gonna prove you wrong
there and it helps you it pushes you
even more and it's just forget it I just
have this quote from the whole two years
on my wallpaper on my phone and it was I
do because I can't I come because I want
to I want to because you said I couldn't
and that's what it was because there was
so many people that said I couldn't yeah
I'm just gonna go and do this now yeah
almost to prove them wrong so I get that
yeah it's very hard but like I said
everyone goes to so much through life
and you mentioned the depression thing
earlier and obviously you know you found
fighting as your way of kind of
releasing energy and helping you and all
the benefits of exercise on mental
health and depression yeah how did you
overcome it or is it something that you
still feel you battle with now I think
um I don't have it no more now basically
up in a way but back then when I was a
kid I didn't know it was depression okay
but it was but I realized after
afterwards it what it was because going
in a room lock yourself up and crying is
just as a 12 year old and I was 10 to 12
that's when it was the main period and
it was a bit more you wouldn't realize
and you think one more crank you just
you know but that's what's going on your
head is telling you
Danya you're on your own you got no one
there your mom and dad that's so far
away you know you have all these
thoughts going through your head and
negative thoughts basically and he
started from there and I worked myself
in a way thinking and first of all
sports was helping me anyway keeps your
mind of things you know like I always
say to people find a hobby don't have to
become a sport do any sport it could be
anything you know sitting playing on
PlayStation yeah sometimes it gets your
mind off things remind some well
absolutely and the way I overcome it is
basically I was just
one day I'll just come home and thinking
to myself I'm about 14 now and I'm done
it in ages and I was thinking to myself
hold on I felt alone I'm not sitting
there I was thinking and no one cares
about me you know I want to go back to
Germany I don't want to be here no more
but then I started thinking these people
started coming all in my head that
criticized me and just my family my
parents basically and everything and I
said if I go back now and give up I
gotta hear that for rest of my life and
my mom and dad will have to hear that
say he didn't make nothing of himself he
ain't done nothing so at 14 I have to
think and more 14 year olds they don't
think about us knowing no chance I have
to prove after thinking my head don't
think you know what I can't do this I
give up no matter how hard it becomes I
will not give up I was there yeah and
prove everyone wrong and I'm not telling
everyone that it's easy to do you know
depression is it's a very I don't think
it's looked into as much it should be
and it's quite hard and not many people
can overcome it
because they feel that there's no one
day and of course you know I mean until
not only in the hard way
look I didn't speak to no one I used
myself as in I'm gonna do this I'm gonna
do that I'm gonna prove them wrong and
I'm gonna give it a go I'm not gonna
give up and then I never gave up from
they carried on I went through a lot of
stuff through it throughout then as well
I lost my grandparents in India mum or
my dad's mom and dad both died day after
each of that and especially a funeral
day it's a very different thing I've
gone I've lost fights that's made me
feel down you know I've had shit
performances fights I've been criticized
judged again this was around 18 19
so through in my whole life there's been
bits and bobs but I had that one thing
in my head I don't give a fuck I am NOT
gonna give up and I'm gonna carry on and
today people respect you for it you know
people think you know who's strong
minded person yeah definitely and now
I'm just too old I'm getting I feel like
my body might not be the same that I was
when
was 18 I'd like mmm fire and then got
the punches got the kid speed whatever
but in my head I'm still that lion and
he still there and if I have to do
something I know I can do it my body
might have to be shattered even if it's
not fighting or whatever is all training
using that one is yeah unify they say
people lose their jobs they get
redundant the baffled they don't know
what to do they go to a pub they start
drinking no cuz they don't used to
thinking one fuckin into the world
no walk through that door be happy mmm
see your family
what about girlfriend kids where that
smile say you know what
tomorrow's another day absolutely simple
as that to do them and that's the way to
overcome things it's hard it's it's not
easy I'm not saying it's easy but you
know yeah I think you need mindset yeah
you've got like an athletic like a top
top level of mindset but the things
you're saying is you're not saying you
don't feel it as well yeah you still
feel pain you still feel this struggle
or making a hole and you're not Superman
like nobody wants to wake up and running
the cold but you have to do cos
necessary you have to do and if anything
if we can train ourselves whether it's
through exercise combat sports or
whatever it is like any goals we have is
it going to discipline yourself yes
that's really where you get your rewards
yeah
discipline yourself alone you have to
discipline your mind and your you have
to think right and it's just like like
you said it's not easy but what isn't
easy
nothing's easy in life and this is a
thing and I think I'm not sure of the
right word for it but I feel a little
bit sorry for people who haven't been
through the hardship in life or suffered
as much because it's more difficult for
them to put themselves in somebody like
yourselfs position yeah see the thing is
you had your back against the wall you
had no other choice easy there look I
quit and this is the end now or I keep
fighting forward and you're calling
forward stand by swing it's true even as
a kid like when I was in Germany going
through being bad influence through I
was only seven eight and I wasn't doing
theft and that and literally you know
just I think the only time one thing I
remember is getting my head kicked in by
a bunch of sixteen year olds me I'm a
I'm
seven years eight years old but that was
the life growing up in the state and I
think coin from coming from Frankfort
they stay area there and come into hands
with it's just as bad well yeah I bought
that mentality to England that no one's
gonna fuck with me and I am Who I am I
see and they've helped me I don't know
me I remember last time getting in
trouble here in England you know just
stay disciplined and then what I have to
do found a talent kept up with it kept
my head strong you know regardless of
what happens in life they're gonna be
ups and downs gems are gonna come that's
no matter what they don't matter who is
okay you can be a celebrity you can be
yeah multi-millionaire credit they're
all going through storms and they all
come through life where they stressed
and they're whoever but the carrier of
the carrier they don't give up you know
and that's the way to be to be basically
and I carried on to be fair I bought
that same mentality it took time and
like I said I still you have ups and
downs now I have ups and downs now and
then but doing that thing like waking up
in the morning how makes it positive
it helps Lord and I hope people try that
this you try all right definitely I mean
I've started yeah I told you you'd like
to get people to start it because it's
important out and the thing that's
important is you showed your under
ability there so we all know you as this
tough guy yeah you know kicking ass all
over all over the world but it's good to
have wannabe of you as a human saying
look I still struggle that's it but like
you said you've got two choices you
before you go backwards and yours is
always to go forward keep looking
forward and don't look back basically if
you start looking back you living in the
past of course live in the moment that's
what we've gone the future that's got to
be fair forget the future the past live
in the limit yeah I believe in that
moment you know you wake up that's your
day live in that moment that time that
you got in that lake every minute hour
whatever counts yeah and giving that
moment I love it future is a plan past
is gone forget that and the moment is
what you're gonna do then whatever you
do in the day doesn't mean I'm telling
people to train or whatever not as
athlete wise as a normal human being
wise find happiness first
in yourself and think positive and what
your mind just starts changing myself
I'm just living that moment I love it
that's the best way brilliant bro I
appreciate that great lessons there um I
would ask you then another question and
so I know you're not scared of like
combat and stuff stuff that most people
a normal person on their own will be
scared of confrontation is tough because
obviously you've been then you're not
just competing against a normal person
throw it you're competing against
somebody who's trained and probably just
as hard as you yeah but other than that
what else in life scares you then you
know what be honest I've never feared
anything to be fair the only thing I
fear and as in person who Dean he's
probably my parents losing my parents I
don't feel nothing else I can go back to
the bottom I know I'll rise up again
nothing fears me but we all know that we
get old at one point and we're gonna use
people we love and it's a hard thing and
especially like me that I haven't spent
time with them as much as I want to do
my life and try my best I'll do
everything now a lot of people ask me
what you want you go holiday come with
you mate so I can do that whenever of
course at that time I have off I'll go
home and that time I spend with my mom
and dad it's the most important time in
my life and I think if I fear anything
it's losing my parents in life basically
nothing else fears me I could lose wah
wah lose my house I can lose my job I'll
do whatever is but you can't replace
that you can't replace certain things
your parents are one thing that you
can't replace you loved once something
you know and that is my fear
we take you for granted yeah we do
another fear that a lot it's it's
something that you know you gotta accept
it one day it's no and but you don't
want it to come and that's the fear you
have any you've got the right mentality
though that every day is you basically
seize the day
yeah so you make the most of it I'm the
same I think that probably one of my
biggest fears as well my immediate
family obviously if you know is you do
and I know a lot of people use that
dreams to inspire my sometimes use like
my nightmares to inspire me so I I
sometimes I know it sounds a bit morbid
but it's like just imagine if this is
their everlasting
do you know what I mean
that requires we have to really give my
all on the day because my my end game is
for them to have their life that they've
always wanted a do you know mean until
they have to find that for them so if
you always because I'm not the longer
you take the more chance it is of that
day coming that's it yeah that makes it
and you're right that is using that is
basic I use the same thing like I always
think the opposite I think to myself you
know it's God forbid something happens
to him that's why I booked my ticket on
the last minute hang on when I have that
time off it can be two days three days
I'm their dog of course no catch the
flight I'm gone you know I mean I could
use that money to do anything I want I
don't know anywhere in the world if I
want some toys and do I want but that
time I spend with them that's the best
was the best time and even if he's just
sitting at home and just talking to
having it laughing just chilling it
can't be no there's no that's the only
thing I personally fear anything else I
don't feel like you can throw me in the
jungle with nothing you know I mean
obviously I'll come at what I've gotta
do and going back to the bottom of my
advice by cooking I'm not scared normal
because you know once you've been there
yeah you don't fear to be there again
but you know how to wake yourself up
then yeah you can be poor rich but they
were still living our India and you see
poor people you see you know how people
live and how people are they still have
you know yeah you don't mean it's crazy
easy it's still happy I'm going Thailand
back end of last year and I remember
this one particular family was a three
generation family and they were just
smiling in this very small hut where
clothes on the line that didn't look
like they were washed but they were
washed I don't mean that in any
disrespectful way but happiness it was
almost like an advert you know that when
you watch these business embolus and I
walked past it with the wife and we just
walking back to the hotel sir that's
bliss I mean like no God they've got
each other that's actually enough you
know those relationships they got
happiness love and I was like I love
that it did change my perception a lot
coming back from a place like that and I
think them as people especially in
today's society so glued to our
Instagram and we should go out there we
should look at these people and travel a
bit of the world and see how lucky we
actually are I went when I fought in
India for in Bombay and
it was a the poverty day was crazy and
poor but I've seen it remember going
growing past in the car on the right
hand side there's a mom with the two
kids and they seemed happy
they smiley and the kids were playing
and they ended up in the dirt
things are not change you know you're
gonna experience a lot that change and
you think you know always complain
complain why am i complaining but yeah
going back to the fear that's the only
thing I fear in life otherwise I don't
fear anything - yeah I was gonna say if
you don't see that the guys getting it
here
fair enough fair enough so I'm gonna
assume obviously your parents are your
big motivation but you're also like
you're inspiring other people as well
now so you when I've talked about your
Instagram yes if you're waking Mackenzie
away commit will China another minute as
well what keeps you motivated to still
keep that up because I'm not even about
day job as well yeah through touch phone
yeah so you went from network around is
it yeah engineer you're an engineer and
you do that full time when I see you I
just see you is it after you keep
finding people and doing amazing things
what inspires you in terms of keeping
that going is that just something that
you just enjoy this part of your life or
have you got a bigger inspiration to do
anything and I'll be honest you know
when it's been in use since 10 years old
it's an it is in your blood and you will
never give it up he's always gonna be in
you that attitude that fighter mentality
that been there done it and he inspires
me in a way that I used to do this it's
the world I lived he was it's what made
me I'm not I'm not when people say know
me as me they know me as the fighter
yeah yeah no means nothing so easily
it's gonna live with me forever
yeah so that's why it pushes me to help
others I like to help but I like to be
in that environment in that gym
environment where kids are training it
reminds me of me and when these guys are
training for Big Show's big fights and
I'm holy punch to them I'm training him
it reminds me that I'll be through this
and I love it
I think it's great and Guilds all boys
and we have students that are little
kids from girls to boys and this so much
talent out there and I think it's just
brilliant
for them to get off the couch or hang on
the computers they enacted yeah I think
it's it's gonna be in me forever always
when it comes to that side I'll always
be there in that sport environment
because that's something that stuck with
me yeah yeah it's always there and I'm
always there to Harper I think this
interview is going to be interesting
though when people listen to it because
there's a lot more about this as well as
you as a person
yeah and I think you don't give yourself
credit for how wise and how emotionally
in terms of you you've obviously taken a
lot of knocks to the head as I telogen
because I listen to a lot of large
premieres and world leaders and most
people speak the same things so that the
max of everything is the same everyone's
trying to motivate us by I said there
was stuff but what it is we will have a
different way of communicating and yours
is obviously through your fight game but
some of the words you're saying today is
it's literally like I'm hearing it and
you can see how excited I'm when I'm
sitting here because I was just hearing
someone I admire lip killing it across
the game saying the same stuff yeah so
there's obviously a secret to the
success you know the secret ingredient
which people have it and whether it's
making money or whether it's inspiring
people are getting to the top of a
5-game the things you are speaking about
are amazing so hopefully this interview
gives that and I think you should
definitely try and showcase that more as
well we touched on mental health and
this is something we'll take offline
because I'm deuce a couple of projects
in mental health so my mom suffered with
it for eight years on know how serious
it is and I think having someone from so
of health and fitness background into it
there might be room for us to
potentially work together or something
to what help into poor people awareness
is tough so I'm excited for that because
I think you've got more than just horny
pants for people you've got a lot of
life why I like helping doing space of
that I don't see I'm doing yeah yeah
sometimes if my friends all my family or
even my parents of the day of negative
times on the talky negative I'm thinking
I'm explaining it to them yeah it's true
like you said you don't realize you have
that in your head you have it here like
you don't have to have a great a be
all agree but if you got general
knowledge in life and you know how to
especially help people I made people
happy no life experience is the main
thing a female nowadays this youths out
there that like that
you know I mean of course parents want
to give them everything on the plate
don't want to see them struggle but
they're not gonna experience life she's
not gonna not true no and I think the
best lesson they could teach at school
is how to control and understand your
own mind which is something that you've
had to do definitely cuz I remember last
time using science I use it a little bit
for fitness but generally speaking yeah
it's some of the stuff is okay yeah I
don't know how to pay tax and yeah of
course they should just be like a life
school or thing yeah yeah but I think
that's something that I'll probably do
with my kids because I'm not I've got
academics yeah then the whole degree the
Masters and stuff and it's not really so
me where I want to go look this stuff I
wanna do I don't actually need any of
that so for me it's like I've just
wasted so many years so when I get kids
and stuff I'd love first I'm gonna get
in the club box it's a little boxy
engineer sports all that's also but
generally speaking what I think when
they get to a certain age if they find a
passion or something they wanna do I
took their choice yeah absolutely their
choice and another thing I want to hit
on is basically a lot of people don't
realize this when there's no difference
between a girl and a boy a girl can do
anything that a boy can understand I
know girls are tough for the boys yeah
they're champions and I don't disagree
with the thing that a female can't do
what American you know they can do
anything anything that American and
nowadays females are more successful
than men really do what and he's just
the individual that's why yeah because I
get a lot of parents saying that oh yeah
my boys gonna do this but how about you
girl look of course it what means she
can't do that no example like fighting
or boxing
oh my boy he might not want to do that
but you go might become a world champion
be and it it's I mean yeah there's a lot
of female fighters now I'm seen coming
up as dangerous imagine you also is all
gonna bring on a female power lifter
it's just a normal girl that you
wouldn't think that
the power of technique and everything
they got and everything else boys this
got their own training and it's hard and
it's all a point athlete and fighting to
the sign as a person and human I'll be
through things but I'm still standing
okay so there you've heard it the buzzer
has gone off now we're gonna put Raj
through his paces and I'm gonna asking
the most random questions ever was 60
seconds so are you ready buddy yeah I'm
ready let's go okay brilliant three two
one what did you eat for breakfast see
ya the ability to fly or be invisible
visible money or fame money Bruce Lee or
Chuck Norris Bruce Lee your proudest
moment your favorite food pizza Netflix
or YouTube Netflix your number-one goal
this year just be healthy boxing or
kickboxing boxing
would you rather know how you will die
or when you were dying your favorite
boxer ever everything more or less your
favorite MMA fighter ever John Jones
love or money love books or movies
you're number one fitness tip your
favorite workout song yes if you could
sit with one person in the world for
another who would it be
not bad your worst fear is a child you
ever seen what is your biggest addiction
junk food summer or winter winter your
favorite place in the world India if you
could abolish one thing in the world
what would it be your favorite superhero
your biggest friend and the final
question is your favorite movie star
Robert De Niro really good stuff okay so
the next thing I ask is about reflection
so if you could go back to maybe an
earlier time in your life where you
could whisper something to your younger
self say for instance when you're first
coming to Tom that Airport yeah you
leavin funfair fine you comin up to
England and you can just whisper
something into that kids yeah knowing
what you know now what would you say if
I'll take it back to that time
when me when I first left Germany going
to that Airport back with my bags no
whispering to that kids hear my sob I'll
just say go there and smushy hmm you're
gonna make it okay
so we're actually at the last question
now and this is a question asked all on
my guess yeah and it's if you're not
hundred fifty years no members are
around anymore and all that exists is a
book book on the table and it's a book
about your life and everything that
you've done open to whenever you pass
and on that book what I wouldn't
obviously what the player would be and
secondly what the summary would tell us
about you at the back Montana would be
basically my favorite song with no one
knowing this notion of comedy it's my
way from Frank Sinatra okay love like my
book would be called my way yeah because
I've done everything my way the way I
wanted it to do the way I wanted it to
be and that's why I'll call it just my
way but a picture yeah okay straight
ahead my legs and the name my way and at
the back just a great human being
basically like how people and went
through the struggles through journey of
my life and a Beatle come my way my way
try and get the truck oh yeah I love
that song literally but um yeah that's
it really but that wouldn't be the book
and I will be the back the journey of my
life okay
that I destroyed my way no fantastic and
I've sort of said thank you again for
obviously sharing your story I knew it'd
be good my wife's been telling me for
ages brought myself as a podcasting back
in the day but she was like you need to
reach out to write you know it's got an
amazing stories inspiring
from the moment I met you today your
energy and stuff appreciate that
thank you very much days on I'm just
like as a friend now I'm proud of
everything you're achieving and what
you're doing going forward until your
parents are as well and just before we
close up the show what's the best place
the audience can connect with you or
follow your story they can connect with
me through Facebook social media
Instagram Facebook and your names for
the names are red silent
okay on Instagram only one radish salad
I like
and they're on Facebook right silent
I'll come up and you'll know
straightaway and you spout Raj Raj and
my second name is sa double L a and
fantastic so I do he's operating in the
show notes as well you'll find a lot of
like training footage as well I'm sure
there's a lot of mindset stuff in there
as well obviously if you throw a like
training like I knew actually before I
met you I was gonna want to go to the
gym after this episode so I've got my
shaker ready I've got my gym attire on
I'm going straight to the gym hopefully
inspires you guys but also inspires you
not to make excuses in your life because
there's always somebody out there who's
probably got it with so thank you
Raj and for everyone at home thanks for
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