Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?
649 episodes - English - Latest episode: 25 days ago - ★★★★★ - 3K ratingsActor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while.
It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more.
On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.”
Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation.
On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well.
Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions.
They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.
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Episodes
F Off, Partner
March 02, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 59.7 MBFor But Am I Wrong Melisa is annoyed by "Passport Bros" Meghan doesn't believe that some businesses should have social media In But Am You Wrong: Reporting everyone who is racist towards you Tenant not closing the garage Friend and family who won't get fully vaccinated A partner who can't make their own breakfast And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Melisa: Packers Sanitation Services Meghan: Kelly Family Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: V...
Melisa's Birthday Present
February 28, 2023 08:00 - 31 minutes - 42.9 MBMelisa shares the details of her birthday weekend and opens her gift from Meghan and Meghan has finally met her neighbors. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
How to Date Casually
February 27, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 99 MBThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Ex-friend talking about you on Snap The right time to move to a new country Telling someone you're dating other people Breaking quarantine to shower Exploring your sexual side Don't Blame Them: Jobs where you can't seek mental healthcare Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sh...
But Am I Wrong Results: Finessing OF Subscribers
February 24, 2023 08:00 - 32 minutes - 44.2 MBMeghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Finessing OF Subscribers Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Boob Tape
February 23, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 85.1 MBFor But Am I Wrong Meghan thinks companies are fucking with adderall Melisa is questioning someone's moral's over money In But Am You Wrong: Friend not paying back for boob tape Asking for a friends with benefits Imbalance of power in an age gap relationship Switching jobs And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Meghan: PickleMeEverything Melisa: Dana Simmons & Dylan Charles Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagra...
Family Wants Me to Date Someone I Hate w/ Candice King
February 20, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 88.3 MBCandice King is back! And for the full episode this time, we promise. They give advice on: Update: Found a sibling Childhood friend wants me to change my wedding date Sister thinks my wedding is an inconvenience Friend going through a depressive episode Avoid a man you don't want Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmeli...
But Am I Wrong Results: Dad Hates Women's Tats
February 17, 2023 08:00 - 34 minutes - 47.5 MBMeghan and Melisa read the Results for Fisting Friday: Dad Hates Women's Tats They then discuss a bad review and unseasoned chicken. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Finessing OF Subscribers
February 16, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 97.2 MBFor But Am I Wrong Melisa is celebrating her birthday however she wants Meghan want to bring back treasure hunts In But Am You Wrong: Bullies tipping you Going on a trip with someone you don't like Asking for cash as a gift Husband not like your tattoos And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Melisa: Representatives Carlos Gonzalez and Judith Garcia Meghan: Makers and viewers of AI porn Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly pol...
Meghan's Topless
February 14, 2023 08:00 - 42 minutes - 58.9 MBMeghan stripped down because she's hot and Melisa is sending and receiving interesting gifts. The duo practices saying things without sounding sarcastic and then read THOSE gummy bear reviews. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Husband Didn't Finish w/ Mats
February 13, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 97.3 MBMats, the first member of our 5-Timers Club, joins for the annual Valentine's Day episode. They give advice on: Update: Serial monogamous now dating a friend Ex-friend/current roommate spreading lies Being co-dependent with your mom Boyfriend doesn't take initiative Postpartum Sex Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotme...
But Am I Wrong? Results: Privileged Friends
February 10, 2023 08:00 - 30 minutes - 42 MBMeghan and Melisa read the results from But Am I Wrong? Episode 59. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dad Hates Women's Tats
February 09, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 95.4 MBFor But Am I Wrong Meghan: People that hate kids Melisa: Politicians should take civics tests In But Am You Wrong: Ghosting a friend that doesn't support you postpartum Father who shares his thoughts on women's bodies Brother uses the living room as his bedroom Manipulative mother that wants to go to therapy And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Meghan: Jeffree Star Melisa: Florida Nursing Schools Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in th...
Ziwe Hire Melisa
February 07, 2023 08:00 - 33 minutes - 46.3 MBMeghan and Melisa have an out of touch conversation about out of touch restaurants in Los Angeles. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Found A Sibling w/ Candice King
February 06, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 107 MBTW: Gun Violence - Call 4 We have our first guest in years! Actor and friend Candice King joins us for part of the episode, but don't worry, she'll be back again soon! They give advice on: Finding something unexpected in your genealogy test Not living up to your mother's dream Having your first kiss Being threatened by your uncle Update: Regifting Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twit...
But Am I Wrong? Results: Biggest Loser Tradition
February 03, 2023 08:00 - 33 minutes - 46.4 MBMeghan and Melisa read the results of But Am I Wrong? Episode 58. They also discuss Love Island and How to Build a Sex Room. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Privileged Friends
February 02, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 93.3 MBFor But Am I Wrong Meghan: BridalTok is one of the worst sides of influencing Melisa: Gun violence needs to end and it starts with the manufacturers In But Am You Wrong: Distancing yourself from friends Taking break from a friend Big dog, little kitten During chores during a potential exposure And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Meghan: Madison Russo Melisa: Pat Grassley Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagr...
Pad Your Body
January 31, 2023 08:48 - 32 minutes - 45.2 MBSee You Next Tuesday Meghan would make a terrible spy/finds mold in her garden level. Melisa is preparing for her birthday party. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Becoming a Sugar Baby
January 30, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 103 MBMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Little white lies Tips on casual sex Not inviting a friend on a trip Getting an offer from a Sugar Daddy Don't Blame Them: Trouble finding a job Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmel...
But Am I Wrong? Results: I Should Be More Important Than My Boyfriend's Friends
January 27, 2023 08:00 - 24 minutes - 33.7 MBMeghan and Melisa share the results of But Am Wrong? I Should Be More Important Than My Boyfriend's Friends. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Biggest Loser Tradition
January 26, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 128 MBtw: Writer #4 - weight loss For But Am I Wrong Melisa: Stop posting videos about white people not washing their bodies Meghan: Body trends do not exist in the way people claim they do In But Am You Wrong: Calling a tow truck on someone Avoiding your roommate Best friend's ex bringing his new girl on a trip Teachers pushing a "Biggest Loser" Challenge And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: •Melisa: La Vergne Police Department sex scandal •Meghan: Ozempic ...
Did A Woman Direct This?
January 24, 2023 08:00 - 44 minutes - 61.7 MBSee You Next Tuesday Meghan and Melisa discuss the defining mark that a woman directed an action movie, then discuss Black Widow as well as Melisa getting free stuff, and Meghan suggesting they try Tabitha Brown's new Target line. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Trainer Set Me Up With His Brother-In-Law
January 23, 2023 08:00 - 59 minutes - 82.7 MBMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Found out dad is cheating on mom Keeping a sex buddy casual Irresponsible grandmother Don't Blame Them: Drinking when you turn 21 Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable ...
But Am I Wrong? Results: Pity Wedding Party Invitation
January 20, 2023 08:00 - 38 minutes - 52.6 MBMeghan and Melisa read the results to But Am I Wrong? Episode: Pity Wedding Party Invitation then discuss Sorority Life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I Should Be More Important Than My Boyfriend's Friends
January 19, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 103 MBFor But Am I Wrong Melisa: People who are disrespectful to service workers shouldn't be in your life Meghan: The aesthetic-fication is too much In But Am You Wrong: Buying friends a belated wedding gift Telling your employer you were overpaid Raising your voice at a family member Spending time with your boyfriend And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: •Melisa: Askern Medical Practice •Meghan: Logan Paul Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote ...
Disney Pixar's DSM-5
January 17, 2023 08:00 - 56 minutes - 77.2 MBExtra Content - See You Next Tuesday Meghan and Melisa Discuss: Nickelodeon Auditions Free Food Shark Tank Pitch She-Hulk The MCU The Defenders Bing Bong Hot Take Love of Captain Raymond Hold Marvel's Runaways Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Regifting
January 16, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 90.4 MBTW: Call 3- Self-harm Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Ending a friendship Update-ish: Husband won't get a vasectomy Not liking a present Ending a friendship with someone you think will hurt themselves Asking for a monetary gift Don't Blame Them: Issues with living alone Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa ht...
But Am I Wrong? Results: Apologized But Left on Read
January 13, 2023 08:00 - 14 minutes - 19.5 MBMeghan and Melisa read the result from But Am I Wrong? 1.5.2023. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Pity Wedding Party Invitation
January 12, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 86 MBTrigger Warning Writer #3: Sex Offender For But Am I Wrong Melisa: White people shouldn't vacation on Martin Luther King, Jr. Day Meghan: Dippin' Dots isn't the ice cream of the future In But Am You Wrong: Asked to be an usher for a wedding All White people Picking up items from an ex Laundry mishap And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Melisa: Akon Meghan: Brittany Dawn Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram...
Good Morning Charlie
January 10, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 93.6 MBSee You Next Tuesday Meghan asks Melisa about Soap Opera characters then shares her love of Uptown Girls. They then discuss all the eras of Charlie's Angels and the lack of respect of women led films. New Years hobbies include Meghan buying a dollhouse and Melisa taking swimming lessons. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Messy Friends
January 09, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 108 MBTW: 1st Call - Disordered eating and fatphobia Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Cutting off an emotionally abusive father Turning 21 but not wanting to drink Friend dating a racist Don't Blame Them: Losing Interest during sex and deconstructing fatphobia Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/s...
But Am I Wrong? Results: Surprise! I'm Not Going to My Party
January 06, 2023 08:00 - 28 minutes - 39.6 MBMelisa and Meghan debate the difference of the Kids Choice Awards and Teen Choice Awards, then have a spirited discussion about Scream Queens. Finally they reveal the results of But Am I Wrong episode from December 29, 2022. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apologized But Left on Read
January 05, 2023 08:00 - 48 minutes - 67.1 MBTrigger Warning in both But Are They Wrong: Ezra Miller, Endangerment of a Minor, and Sexual Coercion For But Am I Wrong Meghan: Stop posting people opening gifts Melisa: Keeping distance from a former friend In But Am You Wrong: Invisible to brother-in-law Upstaging the bride Not responding to a friend's apology Stealing a name And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Meghan: Warner Brothers Melisa: Coppin State University Catfishing Scandal Write In: b...
Who Should Run Twitter?
January 03, 2023 08:00 - 41 minutes - 56.8 MBMeghan and Melisa discuss who should run Twitter. https://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/elon-musk-or-this-other-guy Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Husband Makes Me Wrap My Own Gifts
January 02, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 111 MBMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Keeping a Christmas gift from an ex Inconsiderate gift giving Mother who keeps trash Losing interest during sex Don't Blame Them: Winning Back an Ex Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanan...
But Am I Wrong? Results: Kissing Mother on the Lips
December 30, 2022 08:00 - 21 minutes - 29.8 MBMeghan and Melisa read the results from But Am I Wrong: Kissing Mother on the Lips Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Surprise! I'm Not Going to My Party
December 29, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 89.9 MBFor But Am I Wrong Melisa: New Year's Rants Meghan: Big Quicksand In But Am You Wrong: Not going to boyfriend's mom's birthday dinner Party you didn't ask to be planned Brody Jenner sexualizing his stepsister Neighbors shoveling show in a handicap space And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Melisa: Rep. Elect George Santos Meghan: New York Times Crossword Puzzle Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://w...
Smash or Pass Christmas Food
December 27, 2022 08:00 - 53 minutes - 73.1 MBMelisa is deep into holiday/birthday parties in Arkansas and Meghan is prepping for her trip to Colorado. They then take a Buzzfeed quiz on holiday foods and rave about their love of Schär foods. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sucky Friends
December 26, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 104 MBMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Getting more out of a sex buddy If you should use pronouns on social media Failed Friendships Don't Blame Them: Dating a Virgin Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Th...
But Am I Wrong? Results: Laxative in the Creamer
December 23, 2022 08:00 - 26 minutes - 36.8 MBThe long awaited results (do y'all still even care) from December 1, 2022. Plus our thoughts on Margot Robbie kissing Brad Pitt As well as the greatest Marvel Romance never told: Carol Danvers and Maria Rambeau And Melisa tries to convince Meghan to watch The Sex Lives of College Girls Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Kissing Mother on the Lips
December 22, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 109 MBFor But Am I Wrong Meghan: Sharing isn’t broken up into bragging or complaining Melisa: Christmas Hot Takes In But Am You Wrong: Reimbursement for a group trip Bariatric surgery suggestion Boyfriend and his mom kissing Moving away from roomate And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Meghan: Emory Nurses Melisa: Bloggers posing as journalist Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/megha...
Basically a Love Letter to Abbott Elementary
December 20, 2022 08:00 - 35 minutes - 48.7 MBMeghan and Melisa celebrate Keke Palmer's pregnancy, the talk TV: No Spoilers Dead to Me White Lotus Wednesday Lupin Luther Bad Christmas Movies Spoilers Abound Abbott Elementary And also talk about their new hair styles Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Winning Back an Ex
December 19, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 119 MBMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Having a crush again Living with boyfriend's mom Being a bad friend First real breakup Don't Blame Them: Movie to LA Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By S...
REPLAY: My Boyfriend Took His Friend Out On Our Date Night
December 15, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 58.3 MBMelisa reported a too early deliver and Meghan has some thoughts on International Women's Day They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Grandma claiming you owe her money A friend buy concert tickets and wanting to be paid back Being coerced into a relationship Boyfriend taking his friend to your date spot And in "But Are They Wrong" AKA "Rachel of The Week" they discuss Jane Campion, Kimora Lee Simmons' ex Tim Leissner, and Bob Saget Death Conspirators Wr...
REPLAY: Guest: Kamie Crawford - His Ex’s Clothes Are Still In the Closet
December 12, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 58.4 MBOriginal Air Date: December 9, 2019 Television host Kamie Crawford is here this week to share advice! We’re answering your questions on: if you should have a backup plan, dealing with a roommate that doesn’t talk to you, flirting with a guy to get your boyfriend’s attention, and dating someone that is older than you. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice on networking in law school. Follow Us! @meghanandmelisa www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa/ @meghanrienks www.instagram.com...
REPLAY: My Ex-Hookup Is Now My Boss
December 08, 2022 08:00 - 55 minutes - 51 MBOriginal Air Date: December 9, 2021 Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault Melisa is tired of "Washington Outsiders" running for congress while Meghan is over social media parents. They then give their thoughts if a listener was wrong in the following situations: Future brother-in-law proposing to his girlfriend a few days after his brother proposed Distancing yourself from a reckless friend Anti-Vaxxer dance coach An ex-hookup who is now your superior They also discuss Katie Thurston and A...
REPLAY: My Bestfriend Used Me to Cheat on Her Husband
December 05, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 56.2 MBOriginal Air Date: July 6, 2020 Trigger Warning: Negative Body Talk - Call 1 This week we're sharing advice on: Boyfriend gaining weight Telling your boyfriend's sister you don't have sex Being concerned your boyfriend is overmedicated Bad tasting cum Don't Blame Them: boyfriend playing too many video games Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa @meghanandmelisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmel...
But Am I Wrong? Results: Holding Grudges
December 02, 2022 08:00 - 18 minutes - 25.9 MBMeghan and Melisa read the results from But Am I Wrong: Holding Grudges Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Laxative in the Creamer
December 01, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 109 MBFor But Am I Wrong Melisa: Silicon Valley pronatalist are eugenists Meghan: Raisins deserve better In But Am You Wrong: Bad friend putting distance between you Co-workers taking your food Taking money from the elderly Separate fridge for chest milk And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Melisa: Gordon Lawshe Meghan: Chris Brown and his supporters Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com...
Brandy's #1 Fans
November 29, 2022 08:00 - 36 minutes - 50.3 MBBouncy houses, overpriced cotton candy cakes, Nature's Cum Shot, mouse traps, Lowe's, The Decedents, Moesha. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
When to Call it Quits
November 28, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 101 MBMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Being unhappy in a long distance relationship Not feeling at home Adult friend who still asks parents for permission Hooking up with a guy that's dating an acquaintance Don't Blame Them: My life is falling apart Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotme...