Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?
649 episodes - English - Latest episode: 25 days ago - ★★★★★ - 3K ratingsActor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while.
It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more.
On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.”
Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation.
On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well.
Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions.
They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.
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Episodes
Obsessive Ex Has My Nudes
June 12, 2023 07:00 - 55 minutes - 77.3 MBThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Navigating FOMO as a chronically ill homebody Asking ex boyfriend to delete our sex tapes Boundaries when going to a strip club How to pick yourself up after the world gives you a FU Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and...
But Am I Wrong Results: Hypocritical Siblings
June 09, 2023 07:00 - 29 minutes - 40.9 MBMeghan and Melisa share the results of BAIW episode: Hypocritical Siblings, then chat about cute nephews, mucous and Shaq. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Vanderpump Anaphrodisiac
June 08, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 86.8 MBContent Warning: Melisa's But Are They Wrong - Gun Use But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Friendship spring cleaning Meghan: Give fondue the recognition it deserves But Are You Wrong: Reality show ruining husband's libido Social Media birthday posting But Are They Wrong Melisa: Clifton Williams Meghan: Teachers Off Duty Podcast Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba...
Meghan Is the Next Logan Paul
June 06, 2023 07:00 - 30 minutes - 42.3 MBConfused by the title? Well Meghan actually said it. In this episode of See You Next Tuesday: Meghan and Melisa kick off the episode with gluten-free food recs. They recommend some frozen foods from their favorite grocery store, Sprouts. Next, they discuss what they're watching. Meghan has been binging Night Agent and Melisa is obsessed with Queen Charlotte. Melisa is looking forward to taking Meghan to see The Little Mermaid so Melisa can watch it a second time. Finally, they talk about ...
Being A Bad Friend
June 05, 2023 07:00 - 56 minutes - 78.1 MBThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Going away with a friend Manipulative Sister Friends ending your relationship Supporting your friend Friend's boyfriend belittles others Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/me...
But Am I Wrong Results: Her Boyfriend Was Cuddling Another Girl
June 02, 2023 07:00 - 37 minutes - 51.6 MBMeghan and Melisa read the results from "Her Boyfriend Was Cuddling Another Girl" and then discuss 4D movies. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Hypocritical Siblings
June 01, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 84.8 MBContent Warning: Writer #2 - Gun Use Meghan's But Are They Wrong - Bestiality and Spousal Abuse But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Method Acting is for bad actors Melisa: Keep French Fries crispy But Are You Wrong: Partner not doing any household chores Sister who won't cut siblings off But Are They Wrong Meghan: Horses Restaurant Melisa: Trevor Jacob Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our M...
REPLAY: Guest: Claudia Sulewski (and Finneas) - Dating A Guy In A Band
May 29, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 59.3 MBOriginal Air Date: November 11, 2019 Claudia Sulewski is back and she’s joined by her boyfriend Finneas O’Connell to share advice. This week we’re answering your questions on what to do if your friend thinks you FWB isn’t good for you, how to get back together with a guy that ghosted you, how to talk to your live in boyfriend about things that annoy you, and handling your ex that’s hooking up with your friend. Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @claudiasulewski www....
REPLAY: Sexy Potato Salad
May 25, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 109 MBOriginal Air Date: January 9, 2022 Melisa has strong beliefs on dinosaurs being fan fiction (but she totally believes in dinosaurs) and Meghan want to change the narrative around control They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Boyfriend getting food from a co-worker Husband not accepting your pronouns Pride theater Boyfriend not going to a baby shower And in "But Are They Wrong" AKA "Rachel of The Week" they discuss former NRA President Marion Hammer and...
Stressed Out Over Pride
May 22, 2023 07:00 - 52 minutes - 73.3 MBThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Ex best friend and sister are now besties Friend's partner is comfortable around our friend group Trying to make everyone happy at Pride Fest Racist therapist Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.ins...
But Am I Watching Results: The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel
May 19, 2023 07:00 - 25 minutes - 34.9 MBMeghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Watching: The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, then discus Martha Stewart. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Her Boyfriend Was Cuddling Another Girl
May 18, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 109 MBBut Am I Wrong: Melisa: The WGA Strike Meghan: Hollandaise But Are You Wrong: Changing party plans Sharing a salacious video Inappropriate comments Idle car But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Kouri Richins Meghan: @gen_laforce Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us:...
Would A Penis By Any Other Name...
May 16, 2023 07:00 - 44 minutes - 61.2 MBIt's been identified. We also make some discoveries about 7th Heaven and The Secret Life of the American Teen. And then Meghan gushes over Jury Duty (the TV show, not the civic duty). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Loving Your Own Company
May 15, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 89.4 MBThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Teased about your friend with benefits Learning to enjoy you Annoying room mate Stop being so critical Don't Blame Them Girlfriend doesn't love me like she loved her ex Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa htt...
But Am I Watching Results: Gilmore Girls
May 12, 2023 07:00 - 30 minutes - 41.6 MBMeghan and Melisa read the results from But Am I Watching: Gilmore GIrls then listen to a disturbing video. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
But Am I Watching: The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel
May 11, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 93.3 MBIn this very special episode of But Am I Wrong? Melisa introduces Meghan to the Amazon Prime show "The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel." This is part two of our Amy Sherman-Palladino Double Feature. But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Joel is a kept husband Melisa: Joel is the hero os this episode But Are You Wrong: Unnecessary big beheaded baby shaming Midge leaning on her privilege Miriam should have kicked Joel's ass Miriam investing in her future But Are They Wrong: Meghan: Rose Weissman/Rose's mom...
To Know The Penis Is to Know Thy Penis
May 09, 2023 07:00 - 39 minutes - 53.9 MBApparently it's Judd Apatow's. + Met Gala reviews continued. Follow along with us: https://www.vogue.com/slideshow/met-gala-2023-red-carpet-live-celebrity-fashion Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Fart to the Face
May 08, 2023 07:00 - 59 minutes - 81.7 MBThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Partner taking a dump in front of you Adult mean girls Rekindling a friendship Getting catfished Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curat...
But Am I Wrong Results: Going Off On An Ex + Met Gala Review
May 05, 2023 07:00 - 29 minutes - 40.6 MBMeghan and Melisa read the results from But Am I Wrong: Going Off On An Ex They also share their thoughts on Met Gala Fashion. Follow Along:https://www.vogue.com/slideshow/met-gala-2023-red-carpet-live-celebrity-fashion Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
But Am I Watching: Gilmore Girls
May 04, 2023 07:00 - 56 minutes - 78.1 MBIn this very special episode of But Am I Wrong? Gilmore Girly Meghan introduces Melisa to the iconic 2000's CW show. This is part one of our Amy Sherman-Palladino Double Feature. But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Big Loreli needs to check her privilege Meghan: Sookie needs to be medicated But Are You Wrong: It's farfetched that a man would hit on a child If Dean was "ugly" he would be put on a watch list for being creepy Rory is painted like "show not like other girls" But Are They Wrong: Me...
Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me Like She Loved Her Ex
May 01, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 101 MBFill out our survey! https://www.dontblameme.show/survey This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Not being happy for your friend in a relationship Girlfriend shared her inside thoughts Both the guys you're dating showing up to the hospital Best friend's girlfriend used to hook up with their work bully Don't Blame Them Standing up to racists Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter...
But Am I Wrong Results: Shark Tat
April 28, 2023 07:00 - 21 minutes - 29.2 MBMeghan and Melisa share the results of But Am I Wrong: Shark Tat. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Going Off On An Ex
April 27, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 88.4 MBBut Am I Wrong: Melisa: Stop ignoring the greatest health drink ever invented Meghan: Cancel interactive audience experiences But Are You Wrong: Hating your hateful relatives Confronting your ex Ending a friendship Sharing food storage But Are The Wrong: Arnold Schwarzenegger Oklahoma Sheriff's Department Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collec...
Fyre Fest 2 Is Coming
April 25, 2023 07:00 - 29 minutes - 40 MBMelisa is locked in and writing. Meghan is making new friends. They want nothing but the best for Ego Nwodim, and FYRE FEST IS BACK BABY. Invite us Billy. Take our survey: https://dontblameme.show/survey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
How Not to Friend Zone Yourself
April 24, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 86.6 MBFill out our survey! https://www.dontblameme.show/survey This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Uncomfortable with partner drinking Inexperienced dating Telling your boss that you're going to grad school Don't Blame Them Yeast Infections Asking Boyfriend if He Would Sleep With my Friends Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.co...
But Am I Wrong Results: Post-It Notes
April 21, 2023 07:00 - 26 minutes - 36.1 MBMeghan and Melisa read the results from 4.13.2023. Please take our survey: https://www.dontblameme.show/survey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Shark Tat
April 20, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 95.8 MBContent Warning: Transphobia (last write in) But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Joining the LED light problem Melisa: Fake employees But Are You Wrong: Being friends with your friend's situationship Boyfriend who doesn't tip Standing up for a service worker Fixing a tattoo But Are The Wrong: Tennessee Republicans Kimesha Munford Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dft...
The Barbie Movie
April 18, 2023 07:00 - 37 minutes - 52.1 MBMeghan and Melisa talk about the Barbie movie, Meghan being scared by Santa and Melisa's delicious Easter meal. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Asking Boyfriend if He Would Sleep With my Friends
April 17, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 72.3 MBFill out our survey! https://www.dontblameme.show/survey This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Is this racist? Getting into a physical altercation with a friend Are we dating the same guy? Self-sabotoging Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa...
But Am I Wrong Results: Boyfriend is No Longer "In Love" With Me
April 14, 2023 07:00 - 18 minutes - 25.4 MBWe're pitching a new idea for a show so make sure you listen! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Post-It Notes
April 13, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 96.1 MBContent Warning: Suicidal Ideation (Call 3) But Am I Wrong: Melisa: declining to do free labor from a book publisher Meghan: naming adults, not babies But Are You Wrong: Friend's boyfriend who is afraid of needles Boyfriend being weird about a female friend Telling your ex's sister that he's depressed Wanting a clean working environment But Are The Wrong: Joanne Marian Segovia California Government - Daycare Facility Checks Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in th...
I Did it My Way
April 11, 2023 07:00 - 29 minutes - 40.4 MBWe're back! Meghan got a new car. Melisa is having a moment. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Is This Racist?
April 10, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 104 MBThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: A friend's drinking problem Moving guilt Trying to get back with your ex Microaggressions Don't Blame Them: Not wanting to go to med school Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghana...
REPLAY: His Mom Came to Our Anniversary Dinner
April 06, 2023 07:00 - 49 minutes - 45.7 MBOriginal Air Date: December 2, 2021 Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault, Racism, Anti-Semitism, Homophobia Melisa is tired of the media not holding men accountable and Meghan reported a woman who threatened her. They then give their thoughts if a listener was wrong in the following situations: Mom wanting access to her college child’s information Boyfriend inviting his mom to his anniversary dinner If you should tell someone that their boyfriend non-consensually touched you A colleague w...
REPLAY - Guest: Jessi Smiles - Dog Licks Sheets After Sex
April 03, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 64.5 MBOriginal Airdate: January 6th, 2020 Jessi Smiles joins us this week to answer your questions on what to do if your co-worker acts coldly around the guy you’re dating, how to handle your boyfriend making fun of your fake tan, easing your boyfriend’s concerns about selling feet pics, and confronting your boyfriend about his addiction to porn. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares their own advice on constant UTI and cuming one way. Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbm...
We're Struggling
March 28, 2023 07:00 - 35 minutes - 49.1 MBMeghan and Melisa are having a rough few days. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dad Asked Me to Sign Immigration Paperwork
March 27, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 83.8 MBThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: White person asking a Black classmate about white racism Apologizing to a friend that didn't understand boundaries Dad reappearing in your life Going on a trip with a cousin who may not be boosted Don't Blame Them: Telling your parents you aren't religious Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instag...
Just Gabbing
March 24, 2023 07:00 - 33 minutes - 45.7 MBSince there wasn't a new episode of But Am I Wrong, we're just using this time to discuss: our love of Tabitha Brown, weird hair growth, Scandal, and milking nuts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Boyfriend is No Longer "In Love" With Me
March 23, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 98.7 MBBut Am I Wrong: Meghan - Blind items are fucked Melisa - Sharing Kate Campbell's thoughts on how we track violence But Are You Wrong: Brother's girlfriend who always makes snarky responses to your instagram If you should block your friend Being left in a club Love vs. In Love But Are They Wrong: The Weeknd and Sam Levinson Principal/Coach Philip Koons Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ ...
Do We Have a Mole?
March 21, 2023 07:00 - 26 minutes - 36.2 MBMelisa took a 24 hour trip to Las Vegas and separately met a new cool friend. Meghan has mouth sores, spent some quality time with her nephew, and is starting a new house project. They then discuss Law Roach retiring, and have a slightly delusional conversation about influence, Tony Goldwyn, and of course, Scandal. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Not Wanting to be a Mean Girl
March 20, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 114 MBThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Trio Friendships Maneuvering a relationship with a transphobic friend Update Ex lying to sleep with someone (3.6.2023) Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable T...
But Am I Wrong Results: Boyfriend Wants Me to Pose Like His Ex (+Scandoval Pt 2)
March 17, 2023 07:00 - 34 minutes - 47.2 MBMeghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Boyfriend Wants Me to Pose Like His Ex and then discuss more Vanderpump Rules even though they've never seen an episode. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
REPLAY: My Boyfriend Doesn't Want to Try to Have Sex Again
March 16, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 57.7 MBOriginal Air Day Feb 17, 2022 Meghan believes that the upper middle class is worse than the rich. Melisa is over the commercialization of Valentine's Day, looking at you Build-A-Bear After Dark. They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Strangers obsessing over your dog Not including a friend in your bridal shower Anti-vaxx classmate's mother's death Bad sex with long distance boyfriend And in "But Are They Wrong" AKA "Rachel of The Week" they discuss film...
Wakanda Forever
March 14, 2023 07:00 - 43 minutes - 60.1 MBMeghan and Melisa discuss Black Panther: Wakanda Forever. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Guilt Over a Mutual Break Up
March 13, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 84.2 MBThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Telling your parents you aren't religious anymore Found out your boyfriend physically and emotionally cheated Losing your best friend/ex Don't Blame Them: Standing up to a parent, communicating with your partner, postpartum depression Becoming a Sugar Baby Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instag...
But Am I Wrong Results: F Off, Partner (Plus Scandoval Chat)
March 10, 2023 08:00 - 42 minutes - 59 MBMeghan and Melisa share the results of BAIW: F Off Partner. The also recap the Scandoval... but have never watched Vanderpump Rules. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Boyfriend Wants Me to Pose Like His Ex
March 09, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 98.9 MBFor But Am I Wrong Meghan thinks that jobs should have built in maintenance/admin day Melisa believes that God is a cis man - based on period pains In But Am You Wrong: Boyfriend wants you to recreate his ex's sexy phot Sister's new boyfriend wants to attend your grandmothers' tombstone unveiling Reporting a teacher for being racist Boyfriend hanging out with his friends after being deployed And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Meghan: TERF Ruby Sampson ...
LA Weather Woes + What We're Watching
March 07, 2023 08:00 - 38 minutes - 52.9 MBMeghan and Melisa discuss the stress the LA weather is putting them through, then chat about the TV shows they're watching: Scandal Poker Face Meredith's Exist From Grey's Anatomy Treason Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Pressured to Make Decisions
March 06, 2023 08:00 - 52 minutes - 72.4 MBThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Friends rely on me too much Living with an awful couple Moving to a new country Ex lying to sleep with someone Don't Blame Them: Husband doesn't finish Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram...
But Am I Wrong Results: Boob Tape (+Sophia Bush/Rachel Bilson Mistaken Identity)
March 03, 2023 08:00 - 20 minutes - 28.7 MBMeghan and Melisa read the results from Boob Tape But Am I Wrong? episode. Then discuss Love Island. And for some reason Melisa thought Rachel Bilson went to the NAACP Image Awards. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.