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You can perform emotional alchemy and I will show you how.



The idea of alchemy is to reduce something with fire – burning it down so that something new can rise from the ashes. You can do this with your personality, too. You’ve always had the power; you just didn’t know that. Now you do.


 

Highly sensitive, emotional, and intuitive children are often impacted most severely by dysfunctional family dynamics, childhood emotional neglect, sexual abuse, grooming, generational trauma, and inherited toxic shame. As adults, these same children often find themselves with a disorder or dysfunction label, as mainstream psychiatry tries to convince them that the root of their suffering is due to a disordered personality or chemical imbalance.



Our current medical model of mental health is quick to pathologize. Psychiatrists and therapists operating within this model often ask, “What’s wrong with you?” but rarely, “What *happened* to you?” Personalities are not cancerous tumors; psychological suffering cannot be accurately understood or treated through the lens of a purely medical model. We have to go deeper. And that's exactly what we do here on Back from the Borderline.



A path toward healing exists, even though I know it can feel impossible when you’re looking up from rock bottom.



Through working with and integrating the concepts we explore in each episode together, you’ll learn to:



✧ Better regulate, name and process your emotions

✧ Understand and reduce chronic feelings of emptiness

✧ Confront and uproot your toxic shame

✧ Put an end to recurring patterns of self-sabotage

✧ Connect with your Higher Self

✧ Break the cycle of generational family trauma

✧ Set healthier boundaries with yourself and others

✧ Recognize the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships

✧ Heal from a chronic need to please and seek validation from others



Tune in and prepare yourself to be standing in the ashes of the person you used to be. New episodes drop every Tuesday.


 

As for me? I'm Mollie Adler. A disillusioned millennial, podcaster, writer, creative, existential thinker, obsessive researcher (huge nerd), and fellow f*cked up human desperately trying to find meaning in a society and culture that seems to be devoid of it. To read my Substack articles, access my Amazon book recommendation list, submit a voicemail, or contact me for collaborations, visit https://linktr.ee/backfromtheborderline



Anyone – even you – can come Back From the Borderline. 𓆩ᥫ᭡𓆪 


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how a dysfunctional family system functions like a cult [preview]

April 25, 2024 09:00 - 36 minutes - 84.6 MB

In this exclusive preview of a premium BFTB episode, we explore the disturbing parallels between dysfunctional family structures and cult organizations. Drawing insights from psychologist Jose Fernández Aguado's article, "How a Dysfunctional Family Functions Like a Cult," I delve into the mechanics of control, trust, and dependency that define both these environments. Dysfunctional families, much like cults, can manipulate and erode the individual identities of their members, leading to a cy...

childhood emotional neglect part 7: signs and symptoms – chronic feelings of emptiness and counter-dependence

April 23, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 158 MB

As we transition into a new phase of our mega-series exploring the impact of childhood emotional neglect (CEN), we’ll begin examining the lasting effects of CEN as they manifest in late adolescence and early adulthood. This installment exposes the first two critical, often covert impacts: chronic feelings of emptiness and counter-dependence. First, we address the pervasive sense of emptiness that haunts individuals long after their childhood has ended. This condition is more than fleeting s...

childhood emotional neglect part 6: linking past pain and present health while challenging the myths of modern recovery methods

April 16, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 160 MB

Episode 6 of my deep-dive into Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN) series ventures into uncharted territories, where the shadows of neglect stretch beyond the emotional realm to cast a profound impact on your physical well-being. This segment peels back the layers of how emotional turmoil from neglect and trauma in our formative years doesn't just scar our emotional landscapes but also seeds the ground for physical diseases and chronic conditions that can shorten your lifespan and diminish you...

reparenting visualization series introduction [free premium offering]

April 11, 2024 09:00 - 36 minutes - 84.6 MB

This is the introductory episode of a premium visualization series available exclusively to my paid subscribers - I've made the full episode available to you for free to provide a taste of what you can expect in the following visualizations. This initial episode is your gateway to a journey of deep healing and self-discovery, where you'll learn to nurture and reclaim parts of yourself that may have been lost or neglected.   Inspired by John Bradshaw's influential book, "Homecoming: Reclaim...

childhood emotional neglect part 5: sociopathic, childlike, and well-meaning-but-neglected-themselves parents

April 09, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 248 MB

While this is far from the final episode of our mega-series exploring the impacts of Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN), this does mark the final episode exploring the various dysfunctional parenting styles that can contribute to its development. Join me for part five, where we delve into the profound and often covertly traumatic world shaped by parents who, through their own unresolved issues, inadvertently sow the seeds of emotional neglect in their children. This episode takes us through ...

childhood emotional neglect part 4: workaholic, perfection-obsessed, and special-care parents

April 02, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 185 MB

Part four of our series unfolds the complex narratives of three more distinct parenting styles that, beneath their unique challenges, share a common thread of emotional neglect. Together, we’ll navigate the realms of “the Workaholic Parent”, “the Perfection-Obsessed Parent”, and “The Parent Caring for a Family Member Who Requires Special Attention”, each presenting a unique set of psychological dynamics that inadvertently contribute to Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN). 1. The Workaholic Pa...

is avoiding discomfort by self-censorship halting your healing process? [preview]

March 28, 2024 09:00 - 28 minutes - 65.4 MB

In this free preview of a premium episode, we dive deep into the realm of self-censorship, exploring its nuanced definition as the act of muting one's own voice out of fear or deference to others' sensibilities, without external compulsion. Kicking off with insights from Africa Brooke—a London-based beacon in overcoming self-sabotage and self-censorship—we dissect the intricacies of muting oneself in a world increasingly intolerant of dissenting voices. Africa Brooke, renowned for her candi...

childhood emotional neglect part 3: divorced, grieving, addicted, and depressed parenting

March 26, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 188 MB

This third installment of our series on Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN) continues to unravel the intricate web of parenting styles that inadvertently contribute to emotional neglect. Focused on the more nuanced and often overlooked aspects of parenting under the duress of personal challenges, this episode examines: The Divorced or Grieving Parent: Discusses how the intense sorrow from loss or separation can overshadow a parent's ability to attend to their child's emotional needs. It highl...

when you feel like an alien in your own family: defying dysfunction through healing [preview]

March 21, 2024 09:00 - 27 minutes - 63.8 MB

Join me for a free preview of this Patreon-exclusive episode as we dive deep into the groundbreaking insights of renowned psychoanalyst and storyteller Clarissa Pinkola Estés. Through an exploration of a passage from her book, “Women Who Run With the Wolves”, we’ll unravel the complex effects of childhood emotional neglect on individuals' sense of identity and belonging. Exploring Estés' concept of the ‘Mistaken Zygote Syndrome’, we reveal the profound impact of feeling misplaced or misunder...

childhood emotional neglect part 2: narcissistic, authoritarian, and permissive parenting

March 19, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 233 MB

This marks the second installment of our multi-episode discussion on of the impact of Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN), where we delve into the elusive and powerful impact of what didn’t happen in childhood. Often overshadowed by more visible and overt forms of neglect or abuse, CEN is the absence of emotional support and validation during our formative years, and its effects can deeply influence our adult lives. Despite its invisible and covert nature, CEN leaves those it impacts with feel...

beyond the mother wound: healing neglect and trauma with the black madonna [preview]

March 14, 2024 09:00 - 48 minutes - 110 MB

In this preview of an exclusive premium episode, we delve deep into the transformative power of the Black Madonna archetype, a journey that's particularly close to my heart and I believe, will resonate profoundly with yours. Amid the exploration of childhood emotional neglect (CEN) in our series, it's crucial to address not just the wounds inflicted but also the paths to healing. The Black Madonna, transcending religious confines, emerges as a universal symbol of unconditional maternal love,...

childhood emotional neglect part 1: the silent legacy of invisible wounds

March 12, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 232 MB

In this first part of our multi-episode series on Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN), we delve into the elusive and powerful impact of what didn’t happen in childhood. Often overshadowed by more visible and overt forms of neglect or abuse, CEN is the absence of emotional support and validation during our formative years, and its effects can deeply influence our adult lives. Despite its invisible and covert nature, CEN leaves those it impacts with feelings of disconnection and unfulfillment, o...

breaking down to break through: psychiatry, covert abuse, and awakening [preview]

March 07, 2024 10:00 - 39 minutes - 89.6 MB

Join me for a preview of this exclusive premium episode of the podcast where we dive deep into the mind and explore the concept of 'Wetiko', a cannibalistic spirit that symbolizes the darkest aspects of human psyche and society. Drawing from Paul Levy's illuminating book, "Wetiko: Healing the Mind-Virus That Plagues Our World", we unpack how this malevolent force insidiously infiltrates our lives, propelling us towards self-destruction and collective devastation. We confront the unsettling r...

the "sharenting" trap: protecting children's digital footprint in the age of gen alpha influencers

March 05, 2024 10:00 - 1 hour - 246 MB

Content Warning: This episode contains graphic discussions about online child exploitation and the potential long-term impacts of social media sharing on children’s privacy and safety. Listener discretion is advised, especially for those who may find these topics distressing. Episode Description: In this critical episode, we delve into the stark realities of a digital age where the allure of social media stardom for young influencers is overshadowed by the looming threat of exploitation. Ou...

the SSRI lie: the fraudulent study that laid the groundwork for psychiatry's greatest deception [preview]

February 29, 2024 10:00 - 31 minutes - 72.3 MB

In this eye-opening episode, we delve into previous BFTB guest Bruce Levine's explosive new article from CounterPunch (released in January 2024), "Scientific Misconduct and Fraud: The Final Nail in Psychiatry’s Antidepressant Coffin." Levine dissects the scandalous misuse of data in the STAR*D study, shedding light on the overestimated efficacy of antidepressants. We unravel the true impact of SSRIs and SNRIs and confront the disturbing reality of their side effects, including sexual dysfunc...

surrender and heal: a guided trauma recovery ritual through visualization

February 27, 2024 10:00 - 1 hour - 176 MB

Join me for a transformative guided meditation and visualization practice as we explore the profound practice of surrender, crucial for healing from emotional neglect and trauma. Surrender here is not defeat; it's a key to unlocking a future where the past no longer dictates our path. Through words and ritual rooted in the wisdom of the ancients, we'll shift from the 'having' mode that fosters chronic feelings of emptiness and actions of self-sabotage to a 'being' mode of presence and peace...

tarot and dreams: embracing the wild within [preview]

February 25, 2024 10:00 - 23 minutes - 53.6 MB

Welcome to another free preview of my Patreon-exclusive series, where we delve into the art of tending to dream symbols and the exploration of the psyche through the wisdom of the tarot. In this episode, we're entering into the dream of Premium Submarine, Cameron. Together, we’ll will dive into the depths of a dream that blurs the lines between the everyday and the animalistic, revealing the universal archetypes that reside in our shared subconscious. We delve into a narrative that starts w...

VN30: the impact of emotionally absent mothering [preview]

February 22, 2024 10:00 - 13 minutes - 31.2 MB

In this preview of a voice note available exclusively for my Ultra Premium Submarines on Patreon, we’re diving into the profound effects of emotionally unavailable mothering and the far-reaching implications of childhood emotional neglect. You’ll gain an understanding of the crucial role a mother's emotional presence plays during infancy in fostering secure attachment, which is foundational for a child's future mental and emotional well-being. We examine how the absence of such nurturing can...

spiritual emergency pt 3: uncovering pathways for self-healing and professional help

February 20, 2024 10:00 - 1 hour - 182 MB

Facing a spiritual emergency and need guidance? Learn how to blend self-care with expert assistance in our series conclusion. In a world where mental health dialogue often vacillates between strict biomedical interpretations and elusive new age spirituality, the concept of spiritual emergence stands out. It's a profound experience that defies simple classification, often overlooked in mainstream mental health due to its focus on clinical aspects, neglecting the deeply personal and transcende...

finding secret delight in the downfall of others: exploring schadenfreude [preview]

February 15, 2024 10:00 - 28 minutes - 64.8 MB

Have you ever secretly rejoiced in someone else's misfortune? This episode peels back the layers of schadenfreude, a complex emotion often hidden in plain sight. Schadenfreude, the feeling of pleasure derived from another's troubles, is a concept deeply ingrained in human nature, yet it's rarely acknowledged openly. We delve into its origins and the psychological underpinnings that make us susceptible to this emotion. Why do we experience it, and what does it say about our societal values a...

spiritual emergency pt 2: a guide to recognizing the different types of transcendent crises

February 13, 2024 10:00 - 1 hour - 231 MB

What if your deepest struggle was a gateway to total inner transformation? Explore the types of spiritual emergencies and their hidden meanings. Dive into Part 2 of this 3-part series, 'Spiritual Emergency,' and explore the intriguing concept of psychospiritual crises. Through the lens of the work of transpersonal psychiatrist Dr. Stanislav Grof, this series examines the fine line between profound spiritual awakening and overwhelming psychological breakdowns.   In today’s world, discussion...

tarot and dreams: decoding symbols in lucid and prophetic dreams [preview]

February 08, 2024 10:00 - 23 minutes - 53.6 MB

Welcome to another preview of a Patreon-exlusive episode where we dive into an enchanting journey into the realm of dreams and tarot. As I continue to hone my skills in Dream Tending and Jungian Tarot Reading, under the guidance of Dr. Stephen Aizenstat and Dr. Ken James, we delve into the fascinating world of lucid dreaming and its profound impact on our psyche. In this episode, we embark on an exploration of lucid dreaming – its nature and the varied cultural perspectives surrounding it. ...

spiritual emergency pt 1: mental breakdown or spiritual awakening?

February 06, 2024 10:00 - 1 hour - 225 MB

Have you ever wondered if there’s more to your psychological struggles than meets the eye? Dive into Part 1 of our 3-part series, 'Spiritual Emergency,' and explore the intriguing concept of psychospiritual crises. Through the lens of the work of transpersonal psychiatrist Dr. Stanislav Grof, this series begins by examining the fine line between profound spiritual awakening and overwhelming psychological breakdowns. In today’s world, discussions around mental health often oscillate between ...

your chance to participate in a study that could transform the future of BPD diagnosis

February 01, 2024 10:00 - 43 minutes - 100 MB

Join me for a deep dive into an exciting research initiative spearheaded by honors student Pearl Meredith at Kwantlen Polytechnic University. Under the guidance of Principal Investigator Dr. Jocelyn Lymburner, this study seeks to transform our perception and relationship with the Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) label. The heart of this research lies in understanding the lived experience of those diagnosed with BPD. If you're at least 16 years old and have been clinically diagnosed wit...

down-to-earth awakening beyond the woo-woo and delulu

January 30, 2024 10:00 - 2 hours - 313 MB

Do you find yourself questioning the authenticity of watered-down mainstream spirituality and seeking a deeper truth? Join me for a candid chat with Christian Bradley West, a unique voice in the realm of intuitive arts and spiritual exploration. This conversation isn't your average spiritual dialogue; it's a raw and real journey through the complexities of new age beliefs and the quest for authentic spiritual awakening. Christian, an artist and intuitive, shares his own path from a sensitiv...

the hidden toll: carrying the mental load in relationships [preview]

January 25, 2024 10:00 - 22 minutes - 51.1 MB

Join me for an exclusive preview of another premiun episode of Back from the Borderline, as we delve into the often invisible world of 'mental load' in relationships. Listener Geneva shares her decade-long journey with a partner, revealing a common yet seldom discussed challenge: the burden of silently managing everything. Her story is not unique but reflects a deeper, more pervasive issue many face. We explore the depths of why we sometimes take on more than our share, leading to a cycle of...

sacrificing our mental health at the altar of social media

January 23, 2024 10:00 - 1 hour - 228 MB

Are we sacrificing our mental health at the altar of social media and big tech? Uncover this pressing reality with 21-year-old Thanasi Dilos, a trailblazing advocate and founder who chose to skip college to champion the cause of his generation's mental well-being. This episode sheds light on the shadow cast by digital giants over the psychological states of millennials, Gen-Z, and Gen Alpha. Thanasi's story is one of bold choices and profound impact. As a young leader and co-founder of seve...

tarot and dreams: wisdom of athena and dionysus from the subconscious [preview]

January 18, 2024 10:00 - 31 minutes - 72.2 MB

Welcome to your free preview of the first in a brand-new Patreon-exclusive series, where we delve into the art of tending to dream symbols and the exploration of the psyche through the wisdom of the tarot. As I’ve previously mentioned, I’m currently in the process of gaining certifications in both Dream Tending and Jungian Tarot Reading, courtesy of my studies under previous BFTB guest Dr. Stephen Aizenstat and Dr. Ken James. In this episode, we dive into two different dreams from Premium S...

show me your scars and i’ll show you how deep you are (ft. laurence hillman)

January 16, 2024 10:00 - 1 hour - 252 MB

Join me as I sit down with Laurence Hillman, a renowned expert in archetypal astrology and depth psychology. As the son of James Hillman, Laurence has developed a unique perspective on astrology and psychology, influenced by his father's legacy but distinctly his own. We dive into how understanding archetypes can profoundly impact our healing processes, particularly for those grappling with emotional challenges and personal traumas. Laurence explains the role of archetypes in self-discovery ...

the radical therapist: silent screams from the asylum [preview]

January 11, 2024 10:00 - 22 minutes - 52.5 MB

In this exclusive preview of the fourth episode of our eye-opening multi-part series exploring the book "The Radical Therapist," we dive into an intimate and revealing letter from an anonymous person who refers to themselves as "C.B.", who recounts their harrowing experiences in various mental hospitals during the 1960s and 70s. This episode is an unflinching look at the impact of institutionalization on mental health and personal autonomy. This powerful narrative explores: The profound lo...

consciousness-expansion and deeper healing through the power of myth

January 09, 2024 10:00 - 42 minutes - 98.1 MB

In this captivating episode, we explore the profound insights of Paul Rebillot, a Gestalt therapist and former actor, who harmoniously blends the art of storytelling with the transformative process of therapy. His article, "The Power of Story and Myth – The Genesis of an Approach to Healing," takes us on a journey through the time-honored tradition of myth and its pivotal role in shaping human consciousness. In this episode, you'll discover how: Stories and myths have been the vessels of ...

the radical therapist: unmasking the systemic stagnation of psychiatric training [preview]

January 04, 2024 10:00 - 21 minutes - 49.5 MB

Join me for a preview of this Premium Submarine exclusive multi-part series exploring the 1971 book "The Radical Therapist." In part three, we'll take a critical look at the training of psychiatrists and its far-reaching implications on the practice of therapy and systemic change within the field. In this episode, you'll learn about: The deeply entrenched 'master and apprentice' model in psychiatric education and its effect on trainee therapists. The cycle of mystification in psychiatric...

trauma worlds: embodied healing beyond shame’s shadow [part 3]

January 02, 2024 10:00 - 1 hour - 204 MB

This third and final installment of our "Trauma Worlds" series marks a turning point from darkness to light, focusing on the transformative process of healing. In this episode, we continue to unravel the complex layers of trauma, including the role of shame, as we forge a path toward recovery and self-renewal. Here's what we'll cover: ✧ How confronting and understanding shame paves the way for profound healing. ✧ Methods for liberating ourselves from the chains of trauma and redefining o...

the radical therapist: challenging psychiatry - care or control? [preview]

December 28, 2023 10:00 - 22 minutes - 50.7 MB

Tune in for an exclusive preview of another premium episode of Back from the Borderline, where we tackle an exploration of the roots of psychiatric care and its potential to oppress and mystify. This sneak peek will confront the uncomfortable, questioning if the care provided truly heals or further entangles us in unseen binds. Topics Covered: ✧ Deciphering oppression in psychiatric treatment ✧ The role of awareness in transforming our mental health journey ✧ Unmasking 'mystification' in...

trauma worlds: navigating the hidden realms of fear and disconnection [part 2]

December 26, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 197 MB

Embark on a profound exploration in Part 2 of the 'Trauma Worlds' series, as we navigate deeper into the concealed landscapes of the psyche where fear and disconnection warp our sense of self and reality. This episode is an invitation to uncover the veiled forces sculpting our trauma responses, guiding you through the complex interplay of biological and psychological elements that shape the intricate tapestry of internalized fear, shame, and unworthiness. Discover the concept of 'trauma-wor...

the radical therapist: therapy means change, not adjustment [preview]

December 21, 2023 10:00 - 19 minutes - 37.3 MB

Join me for an exclusive preview of this premium episode where we begin a virtual book club to read and react to an out-of-print book from the 1970's called The Radical Therapist. As I read, I’ll be providing some modern reactions and reflections. It’s incredibly interesting to see for how long therapists and psychiatrists within the mental health establishment have been fighting for change. This episode marks part one of our exploration. Here's a bit about the book: The Radical Therapist,...

trauma worlds: when negative experiences meet unique human beings [part 1]

December 19, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 182 MB

In the intricate tapestry of our lives, the "trauma world" emerges as a parallel reality shaped by survival systems during our formative years. Defined by fearfulness, disconnection, and shame, a “trauma world” operates beyond our conscious awareness. Living in this way distorts both our inner and outer realities. Recognizing this distortion for what it is, is the first step toward healing. This three-part series aims to explore how survival-threatening events can thrust us into a “trauma wo...

the alchemy of self-knowledge: jungian insights on synchronicity

December 12, 2023 10:00 - 2 hours - 392 MB

Have you ever experienced something so strange and seemingly unexplainable that you felt almost crazy? Yet, simultaneously, there was an undeniable gut feeling that this moment held significance. There is a term for this phenomenon: synchronicity.   The psychologist and mystic Carl Jung coined the term synchronicity and first mentioned it publicly in 1930. He described it as a "peculiar principle active in the world so that things happen together somehow and behave as if they were the same...

are mental disorders brain diseases ‘in waiting’? [preview]

December 07, 2023 10:00 - 18 minutes - 41.6 MB

Join me in this exclusive preview of this premium BFTB episode as we dive deep into the complexities of the biopsychosocial model and scrutinizes claims that label mental health conditions as diseases of the brain. Embark on a journey through the fascinating debate on mental disorders through an exploration of the words of renowned psychiatrist Joanna Moncrieff. In this episode, we question the prevailing notion that mental disorders are unequivocally brain diseases. In the article we analyz...

from coercion to consent: WHO and UN say psychiatry must change entirely

December 05, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 153 MB

Uncover the seismic shift in global mental health perspectives as we delve into the newest groundbreaking WHO and UN Guidance that challenges the very foundations of contemporary psychiatry, exposing the routine violation of international human rights in mental health practices worldwide. Join me as we navigate the key revelations—psychiatry's overreliance on the biomedical model, the emphasis on detention and involuntary treatment, and the exclusion of individuals with mental disorders from...

the healing power of somatic breathwork [preview]

November 30, 2023 10:00 - 13 minutes - 31.1 MB

We don’t tend to think much about our breath in our day-to-day lives. It just… happens, right? Not exactly. Taking the process of breathing for granted would be a mistake, which is exactly what we’re exploring in this episode. Science is only just beginning to validate the extraordinary power of the breath. Breathing, a process which every animal, insect, and plant shares, is perhaps our most vital system. Inhaling gives us life by extracting energy from the interaction of food and oxygen. ...

the bledsoe family's cosmic rebirth: unveiling non-human intelligence

November 28, 2023 10:00 - 3 hours - 435 MB

Prepare for a mind-expanding exploration into the cosmic realms of consciousness and the resilience that emerges from the depths of adversity in a world that often misunderstands or rejects the unknown. In this powerful and exclusive interview, Chris and Ryan Bledsoe invite us to explore a different dimension that exists all around us, one that remains aware of our presence. In this episode, we're delving into the extraordinary experiences of the Bledsoe family and their encounters with non-...

from human doing to human being [preview]

November 23, 2023 10:00 - 13 minutes - 31.1 MB

Author John Bradshaw (the author of “Healing the Shame that Binds You”) was one of the first to introduce the idea that we are human BE-ings, not human DO-ings. This catchy expression has particular relevance to those of us who get so busy performing activities “out in the world” that we begin to determine our worth through external measures at the expense of pausing, grounding, and having faith in our inherent value as living beings. Today, you’ll hear a free preview of part one of a relax...

healing from religious trauma using the philosophy of the mystics

November 21, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 190 MB

In this episode, we’re diving deep into the complexities of religious upbringing and the lasting impact it can have on our lives. Our guest, Bob Peck, author of "Original Sin is a Lie," shares insights into healing from fundamentalist religious trauma and childhood confusion about high-level (and often shaming) religious concepts using mystical philosophy and sheds light on how dogmatic religious ideologies can lead to a sense of inherent unworthiness.   Together, we’ll explore the role of...

venting or vicious: escaping the grip of toxic gossip [preview]

November 16, 2023 10:00 - 35 minutes - 80.3 MB

Tune in for a free preview of this premium BFTB episode. Through my obsessive research, I’ll take you on a journey through the evolution of gossip, from its historical roots to the explosive rise of celebrity culture in the 90s and its impact on toxic rumors. Together, we’ll delve into psychological perspectives, drawing from renowned theorists and researchers, to understand why gossip is ingrained in our social fabric. Whether you're seeking guidance on dealing with a gossip habit yourself ...

embracing your crazy while falling apart and coming back together

November 14, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 216 MB

Join me for a conversation with Taune Lyons, the psychotherapist and licensed marriage and family therapist who aims to help empower you to discover and uncover the growth and healing that is already inside of you. Read on for a more detailed breakdown of what we cover together in this episode.    Questions answered + topics discussed in this episode:   ✧ How to begin to learn to pause before reacting to common triggers (and how this simple practice will dramatically change your life) ✧...

unlocking emotional freedom: a guide to EFT tapping [preview]

November 10, 2023 18:30 - 23 minutes - 45.1 MB

In this preview of a Premium Submarine exclusive episode, we'll be expanding on the topics covered in my conversation with Dr. Larry Burk and explore the world of Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), a powerful tool for healing emotional wounds and overcoming trauma.  Together, we'll demystify what EFT is and how it can help you release the grip of painful emotional experiences. Through my obsessive research, I'll break down the technique, providing a step-by-step guide to using EFT for yours...

from mainstream to energy medicine with dr. larry burk

November 07, 2023 01:53 - 1 hour - 131 MB

In this episode, we’ll embark on a fascinating journey with Dr. Larry Burk, a medical maverick who transitioned from mainstream medicine at Duke University to the realm of energy healing. Explore the untold stories of past pioneers of medicine like Ignaz Semmelweis, a 'savior of mothers' who was shamed for his “unconventional” groundbreaking ideas, only to be validated in the end, but only after his death. Larry and I also delve into the profound mind-body connection, uncovering how chronic ...

"my phobia of death and dying is making it impossible for me to truly LIVE” [preview]

November 02, 2023 09:00 - 21 minutes - 50.1 MB

Tune in for a free preview of this premium BFTB episode where we discuss all things related to how to cope with anxious or phobic feelings around death and dying. I understand this fear deeply because it’s ruled much of my life. And chances are it’s ruling yours, too. Turns out that learning more deeply about this subject and exploring how other cultures approach it instead of shoving my fears down further into my psyche has helped me more than anything else so far. I hope what I share can h...

processing complicated feelings around death and grief through working with the unseen worlds

October 31, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 193 MB

What if you could tap into the wisdom of those who have passed on, making their guidance available at your fingertips? Perdita Finn believes it's not only possible but essential. In her book, "Take Back the Magic: Conversations with the Unseen World," she invites us to reclaim the forgotten guidance of the deceased and rekindle the magic and miracles in our lives. Finn masterfully weaves memoir, history, and a non-denominational spirituality rooted in ecology, encouraging readers to embrace ...

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