Latest Sexologist Podcast Episodes

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58. Managing Jealousy in Relationships ft. Multiamory

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - May 26, 2023 14:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
Why do we feel jealous? Jealousy is often a complex, catch-all word that encompasses the emotions of fear, anxiety, disappointment, or anger.   Some people romanticize this feeling in relationships. Others use jealousy as a justification for controlling and destructive behaviour.   On th...

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57. The Healing Practice of Yoni Massage

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - January 26, 2023 14:00 - 57 minutes ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
Yoni massage, which has its origins in Tantra, has recently been getting a lot of attention in the sexual wellness space.    What is the meaning of Yoni anyway? It’s Sanskrit term that means “sacred portal” and it represents all the female genital parts - the vulva, vagina, womb and feminine...

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56. Achieving Work Life, Sex Life Balance

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - January 08, 2023 02:00 - 53 minutes ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
Many of you are busy people with multiple responsibilities and who lead stressful lives. So how do you navigate a good work life, sex life balance?   On this episode, Sara talks with Lisa Fei and celebrity matchmaker Carmelia Ray about how to juggle a busy work life and maintain a fulfilling...

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55. Bonus: The Science of Horniness from Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - December 22, 2022 00:43 - 15 minutes ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
On this bonus episode, I’m sharing an excerpt of a new podcast I’m enjoying and think you will, too. On Come As You Are, educator and bestselling author Dr. Emily Nagoski answers questions about sex with the latest science.   You’ll get a modern guide to sexual wellbeing, backed by groundbre...

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54. The Ins & Outs of Sex Parties

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - December 16, 2022 02:00 - 55 minutes ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
Curious about attending a sex party, also known as a play party?   Think about entering a party with a giant bed, and everyone’s exploring their kinks and fetishes. It’s a smorgasbord of pleasure…   On this episode, Sara speaks with a sex-positive couple, James and Kat, who enjoy organiz...

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53. How to Enjoy Porn Ethically

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - November 24, 2022 01:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
How can you enjoy porn ethically - with more of the pleasure and less of the guilt?    Porn is commonly used to accompany masturbation. On this episode, Sara chats with erotic filmmaker Paulita Pappel (www.paulitapappel.com) on what constitutes “ethical porn” and how to consume it in a healt...

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52. Oh My G! Finding & Stimulating the G-Spot

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - November 04, 2022 00:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
It’s been called the “Holy Grail” of the woman’s pleasure anatomy. But does the G-spot even exist? It's been a highly debated question.   And one that Sara discusses with co-host Kat Leung and guest Vera Lui on this episode. Vera is the founder of Sally Coco (http://sallystoy.com), the first...

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51. Sex FAQs - How Do I Get My Libido Back?

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - October 09, 2022 02:00 - 35 minutes ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
How do I get my libido back? From antidepressants, to trying to conceive and having kids, Sara invites clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Kristin Zeising (http://drzeising.com) on this Sex FAQs episode to tackle the different real-life situations that could cause one’s libido to do a ...

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50. Exploring Prostate Play

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - September 18, 2022 14:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
Have you heard of the “male G-spot”? It’s another name for the prostate and it’s a major erogenous zone. But it’s an area that has been largely unexplored by most people.   On this episode, Sara and Prescott Gaylord (http://prescottgaylord.com), an improv actor and intimacy co-ordinator, go ...

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49. Practicing Mindful Masturbation

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - May 31, 2022 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
How can you be more mindful with masturbation?   Mindfulness has taken off as a wellness practice in recent years, yet most people don’t generally think of using it in the context of masturbation. Mindful masturbation is all about reconnecting with yourself and focusing on what makes you ...

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48. How Do I Build My Sexual Confidence?

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - May 15, 2022 00:00 - 40 minutes ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
What helps you build sexual confidence? Sex is a vulnerable act, and fear and self-doubt can often arise in situations where things don’t go according to our expectations.   On this thoughtful FAQ episode, Sara and relationship coach, Valentina Tudose from Happy Ever After (https://happyeveraf...

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48. Sex FAQs - How Do I Build My Sexual Confidence?

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - May 15, 2022 00:00 - 40 minutes ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
What helps you build sexual confidence? Sex is a vulnerable act, and fear and self-doubt can often arise in situations where things don’t go according to our expectations.   On this thoughtful FAQ episode, Sara and relationship coach, Valentina Tudose from Happy Ever After (https://happyeverafte...

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47. Threesomes, Foursomes & Moresomes with Vonny Lang

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - April 28, 2022 07:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
Is three always a crowd? Apparently not when it comes to group sex encounters - since studies say that having a threesome is one of the most popular sexual fantasies.    On this episode, Sara and co-host Jannus sit down with model and sexy lifestyle events host Vonny Lang (http://instagram.com/vo...

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46. Sex FAQs - How do I Open My Relationship?

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - March 22, 2022 11:00 - 44 minutes ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
Curious to try an open relationship, but don’t know quite where or how to start?   On this episode, Sara chats with relationship coach Valentina Tudose (http://happyeverafter.asia) to answer your most common questions about open relationships, such as:   What basic ground rules should I set...

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45. Sex FAQs - Performance Anxiety & Penis S.O.S. with Jeff Abraham

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - March 05, 2022 23:00 - 52 minutes ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
How’s your penis doing today? Penises come in all shapes and sizes, and it can be tough to talk about them openly - especially if you’re anxious about it’s health or how it’s performing.   That’s why Sara and Jeff Abraham, CEO of sexual health company Promescent sit down and answer your most p...

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45. Sex FAQs - Performance Anxiety & Penis S.O.S.

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - March 05, 2022 23:00 - 52 minutes ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
Ever been in a sexual situation where your - or your partner's - penis wasn't doing exactly what you wanted it to do?    Penis issues are incredibly common, yet they are often accompanied by stress, fear, anxiety, and shame. The penis-owner can feel like a failure, and they can make sex a ta...

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44. Self-Love is Sexy

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - February 19, 2022 23:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
How does self-love help us have a better sex life?   On this uplifting episode, Sara sits down with co-host and relationship coach Valentina Tudose of Happy Ever After to discuss the principles of self-love and how they apply to the bedroom.   We start off with a definition of how self-l...

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43. Rekindling Sexual Desire

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - February 05, 2022 23:00 - 58 minutes ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
How can we rekindle the sexual desire for a long-term partner? Or is desire always destined to fade?   On this pre-Valentine’s Day episode, Sara chats with Dr. Kristin Zeising, a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist, and co-host Mo from the Ho Ho Hong Kong podcast, and we tackle...

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42. The Art of Erotic Touch

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - January 20, 2022 23:00 - 57 minutes ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
How are you incorporating erotic touch into your sex life? On this sensual episode, Sara chats with sex educator and founder of Confident Lovers, Christina Antonyan and co-host Kat Leung about the art of erotic touch. Touch is fundamentally important to all of us, as a love language and form o...

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41. Sex Toys & Your Sexual Health

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - December 18, 2021 07:59 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
Can sex toys be good for our sexual - and overall - health? Many of us regard sex toys as tools of pleasure, but this informative episode will help you to rethink the possibilities of sex toys, and how you’re using them. Sara chats with Dr. Soum Rakshit, co-founder of Mysteryvibe, a brand th...

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40. Becoming Sexually Assertive & Dominant with Mistress Eva Oh

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - December 03, 2021 11:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
How can you be more sexually assertive and dominant in the bedroom? Sara co-hosts this episode with kink coach Jannus, and we chat with guest Mistress Eva Oh, a professional dominatrix about her journey into BDSM. We discuss the psychology behind being assertive and dominant in a BDSM contex...

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39. Hotter Sex on Holiday

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - November 17, 2021 11:00 - 53 minutes ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
Why is sex always so hot when you’re on holiday? In this hilarious episode, Sara chats with sex-positive friends Kat and Will, about some fun and exciting holiday sex encounters. Holiday sex brings out a sense of adventure in all of us, it allows us to break from routine and explore somethin...

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38. Overcoming Sexual Prejudice with Project X

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - October 11, 2021 13:07 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
How do you perceive sex work and sex workers? And why does the stigma around sex work exist?   Sara and co-host Prescott interview Vanessa Ho of Project X, a non-profit group dedicated to advocating for sex workers' rights in Singapore.   Vanessa helps to clarify some of the biggest misc...

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The Cheating Women

Discover Your Sexual Journey - July 28, 2021 23:00 - 3 minutes
In the podcast episode "The cheating woman" sexologist and relationship therapist Drs. Nynke Nijman talks about Naomi. She cheats for the fourth time. This time with a colleague. Her husband finds out and the end of their relationship is near. And that while her environment thinks that her husba...

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37. Sex FAQs - Casual Sex & Dick Pics

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - July 23, 2021 12:00 - 55 minutes ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
After a year of lockdowns, what’s being called the “summer of love” is upon us - wherein people are keen to release their pent up sexual energy.   So on this Sex FAQs episode, Sara chats with relationship coach and clinical hypnotherapist, Valentina Tudose about all things casual…casual sex ...

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Sex, Masculinity and Shame

Discover Your Sexual Journey - July 14, 2021 23:00 - 3 minutes
In the podcast episode " Sex, Masculinity and Shame" sexologist and relationship therapist  Nynke Nijman tells about a man with an erection problem. The fact that he doesn't talk about it because of shame, keeps him constantly worried. In this way, an improvement of the situation seems far away....

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Effect of Smartphones in the Bedroom

Discover Your Sexual Journey - July 03, 2021 17:00 - 3 minutes
In the podcast episode "smartphone or TV in the bedroom" sexologist and relationship therapist drs. Nynke Nijman talks about the impact of electronic equipment in your bedroom. Ben is constantly on his smartphone or watching Netflix on the TV. His partner Amanda just waits for attention and inti...

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Sex Education

Discover Your Sexual Journey - June 16, 2021 23:00 - 3 minutes
In the podcast episode "Sex education", sexologist and relationship therapist drs. Nynke Nijman talks about a parenting conflict between Antonio and Anne. Antonio was raised sexually free and wants to give his children the same values. Anne, on the other hand, comes from a more conservative fami...

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36. Penis Performance Pointers - Lasting Longer with Jeff Abraham

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast - June 10, 2021 23:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 20 ratings
Calling all penis owners and penis lovers! Want to know how to make sex last longer, and avoid finishing too soon?   On this episode, Sara chats with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, who shares some great pointers on one of the most common penis challenges - early or premature ejaculation (P...

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Hurting Someone Because You Try Not To Hurt

Discover Your Sexual Journey - June 02, 2021 23:00 - 2 minutes
In the podcast episode "Hurting someone because you try not to hurt" sexologist and relationship therapist Nynke Nijman talks about a common relationship problem: one of the two is in doubt, but doesn’t tell it for fear of hurting his or her loved one. In this case, Mandy hurts her boyfriend Tom...