Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast
65 episodes - English - Latest episode: 11 months ago - ★★★★★ - 20 ratingsCreated by certified sex coach and educator Sara Tang, this podcast features intimate conversations about navigating sex in the modern world. On this frank, informative and lighthearted show, we tackle the taboos that many people commonly experience around sex. Expect banter and open hearted discussions between the hosts and their guests, as we dish up inspiration around how to get Better in Bed.
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58. Managing Jealousy in Relationships ft. Multiamory
May 26, 2023 14:00 - 1 hour - 58 MBWhy do we feel jealous? Jealousy is often a complex, catch-all word that encompasses the emotions of fear, anxiety, disappointment, or anger. Some people romanticize this feeling in relationships. Others use jealousy as a justification for controlling and destructive behaviour. On this episode, Sara sits down with Emily, Dedeker, and Jase, the hosts of the Multiamory Podcast (https://www.multiamory.com/), to unpack the topic of jealousy. We start off by defining what jealou...
57. The Healing Practice of Yoni Massage
January 26, 2023 14:00 - 57 minutes - 53.8 MBYoni massage, which has its origins in Tantra, has recently been getting a lot of attention in the sexual wellness space. What is the meaning of Yoni anyway? It’s Sanskrit term that means “sacred portal” and it represents all the female genital parts - the vulva, vagina, womb and feminine essence. On this episode, Sara is joined by her sex-positive friend Will and Viv Kan (https://www.mindfulintimacy.co), a mindful intimacy coach. They discuss the benefits of yoni massage, what ...
56. Achieving Work Life, Sex Life Balance
January 08, 2023 02:00 - 53 minutes - 74.6 MBMany of you are busy people with multiple responsibilities and who lead stressful lives. So how do you navigate a good work life, sex life balance? On this episode, Sara talks with Lisa Fei and celebrity matchmaker Carmelia Ray about how to juggle a busy work life and maintain a fulfilling sex life. Respectively, Lisa and Carmelia are the Founder and Head Coach of the relationship wellness app, Clarity (http://clarityapp.io) which offers tools for navigating every stage of your relatio...
55. Bonus: The Science of Horniness from Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski
December 22, 2022 00:43 - 15 minutes - 15.6 MBOn this bonus episode, I’m sharing an excerpt of a new podcast I’m enjoying and think you will, too. On Come As You Are, educator and bestselling author Dr. Emily Nagoski answers questions about sex with the latest science. You’ll get a modern guide to sexual wellbeing, backed by groundbreaking research about desire, anatomy, orgasm and much more. In conversation with her producer, Emily debunks cultural myths and flips the script on everything you thought you knew about sex and sexual...
54. The Ins & Outs of Sex Parties
December 16, 2022 02:00 - 55 minutes - 52.2 MBCurious about attending a sex party, also known as a play party? Think about entering a party with a giant bed, and everyone’s exploring their kinks and fetishes. It’s a smorgasbord of pleasure… On this episode, Sara speaks with a sex-positive couple, James and Kat, who enjoy organizing sex parties. They share their experiences on the ins and outs of planning such a party. James and Kat share the motivations of people in joining a sex party and the kinds of people one might...
53. How to Enjoy Porn Ethically
November 24, 2022 01:00 - 1 hour - 101 MBHow can you enjoy porn ethically - with more of the pleasure and less of the guilt? Porn is commonly used to accompany masturbation. On this episode, Sara chats with erotic filmmaker Paulita Pappel (www.paulitapappel.com) on what constitutes “ethical porn” and how to consume it in a healthy and responsible way. As someone who has been both in front and behind the camera, Paulita shares her journey into erotic filmmaking and how she defines her role as a feminist in the industry. ...
52. Oh My G! Finding & Stimulating the G-Spot
November 04, 2022 00:00 - 1 hour - 56.6 MBIt’s been called the “Holy Grail” of the woman’s pleasure anatomy. But does the G-spot even exist? It's been a highly debated question. And one that Sara discusses with co-host Kat Leung and guest Vera Lui on this episode. Vera is the founder of Sally Coco (http://sallystoy.com), the first female-friendly sex toy shop in Hong Kong, and a certified sex educator who is happy to share the latest research on the G-spot (or more accurately, G-area), and debunk its biggest myths. Findi...
51. Sex FAQs - How Do I Get My Libido Back?
October 09, 2022 02:00 - 35 minutes - 33.8 MBHow do I get my libido back? From antidepressants, to trying to conceive and having kids, Sara invites clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Kristin Zeising (http://drzeising.com) on this Sex FAQs episode to tackle the different real-life situations that could cause one’s libido to do a disappearing act. We answer the following questions: “Sex is often over in seconds with my husband. But we ignored these issues because we were great friends. Now I just feel nothing towards him se...
50. Exploring Prostate Play
September 18, 2022 14:00 - 1 hour - 84.2 MBHave you heard of the “male G-spot”? It’s another name for the prostate and it’s a major erogenous zone. But it’s an area that has been largely unexplored by most people. On this episode, Sara and Prescott Gaylord (http://prescottgaylord.com), an improv actor and intimacy co-ordinator, go on a journey to explore everything in prostate play. First, we discuss what is a prostate, where you can find it, and the benefits of stimulating it for pleasure. Prescott shares his personal ex...
49. Practicing Mindful Masturbation
May 31, 2022 09:00 - 1 hour - 59.6 MBHow can you be more mindful with masturbation? Mindfulness has taken off as a wellness practice in recent years, yet most people don’t generally think of using it in the context of masturbation. Mindful masturbation is all about reconnecting with yourself and focusing on what makes you feel good. The practice encourages everyone to slow down, become conscious of pleasure and explore the body more holistically, instead of just focusing on the genitals. On this episode, Sara and co-...
48. Sex FAQs - How Do I Build My Sexual Confidence?
May 15, 2022 00:00 - 40 minutes - 38.6 MBWhat helps you build sexual confidence? Sex is a vulnerable act, and fear and self-doubt can often arise in situations where things don’t go according to our expectations. On this thoughtful FAQ episode, Sara and relationship coach, Valentina Tudose from Happy Ever After (https://happyeverafter.asia/) answer your most pressing questions around building sexual confidence. Topics on this episode include: How do I feel sexy in my body after a double mastectomy for breast cancer? How can ...
48. How Do I Build My Sexual Confidence?
May 15, 2022 00:00 - 40 minutes - 38.6 MBWhat helps you build sexual confidence? Sex is a vulnerable act, and fear and self-doubt can often arise in situations where things don’t go according to our expectations. On this thoughtful FAQ episode, Sara and relationship coach, Valentina Tudose from Happy Ever After (https://happyeverafter.asia/) answer your most pressing questions around building sexual confidence. Topics on this episode include: How do I feel sexy in my body after a double mastectomy for breast cancer? How ...
47. Threesomes, Foursomes & Moresomes with Vonny Lang
April 28, 2022 07:00 - 1 hour - 68.7 MBIs three always a crowd? Apparently not when it comes to group sex encounters - since studies say that having a threesome is one of the most popular sexual fantasies. On this episode, Sara and co-host Jannus sit down with model and sexy lifestyle events host Vonny Lang (http://instagram.com/vonnylang), to chat about our personal experiences around group sex. We explore the different benefits and dynamics of group sex, and why its such a common fantasy. We also discuss the common fears t...
46. Sex FAQs - How do I Open My Relationship?
March 22, 2022 11:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MBCurious to try an open relationship, but don’t know quite where or how to start? On this episode, Sara chats with relationship coach Valentina Tudose (http://happyeverafter.asia) to answer your most common questions about open relationships, such as: What basic ground rules should I set if I’m just starting out with open relationships How can I handle my intense attraction to a new lover since I started to open my relationship with my spouse? I want to have an open relationship,...
45. Sex FAQs - Performance Anxiety & Penis S.O.S. with Jeff Abraham
March 05, 2022 23:00 - 52 minutes - 49.6 MBHow’s your penis doing today? Penises come in all shapes and sizes, and it can be tough to talk about them openly - especially if you’re anxious about it’s health or how it’s performing. That’s why Sara and Jeff Abraham, CEO of sexual health company Promescent sit down and answer your most pressing penis questions on this Sex FAQs episode. Topics include: How do I overcome performance anxiety? What can I do to keep my erections strong with age? How can I last longer during sex? Ho...
45. Sex FAQs - Performance Anxiety & Penis S.O.S.
March 05, 2022 23:00 - 52 minutes - 49.6 MBEver been in a sexual situation where your - or your partner's - penis wasn't doing exactly what you wanted it to do? Penis issues are incredibly common, yet they are often accompanied by stress, fear, anxiety, and shame. The penis-owner can feel like a failure, and they can make sex a task instead of a pleasure. That’s why Sara and Jeff Abraham, CEO of sexual health company Promescent (http://promescent.com) sit down and answer your most pressing penis questions on this Sex FAQ...
44. Self-Love is Sexy
February 19, 2022 23:00 - 1 hour - 62.5 MBHow does self-love help us have a better sex life? On this uplifting episode, Sara sits down with co-host and relationship coach Valentina Tudose of Happy Ever After to discuss the principles of self-love and how they apply to the bedroom. We start off with a definition of how self-love is about accepting and integrating all parts of ourselves, even the parts that we might ordinarily hide, reject or be ashamed of. When we love ourselves enough, we stop performing in the bed...
43. Rekindling Sexual Desire
February 05, 2022 23:00 - 58 minutes - 54.6 MBHow can we rekindle the sexual desire for a long-term partner? Or is desire always destined to fade? On this pre-Valentine’s Day episode, Sara chats with Dr. Kristin Zeising, a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist, and co-host Mo from the Ho Ho Hong Kong podcast, and we tackle all things sexual desire. Kristin shares the latest scientific thinking on the sexual response cycle, and we discuss the different styles of sexual desire - spontaneous vs responsive. We ...
42. The Art of Erotic Touch
January 20, 2022 23:00 - 57 minutes - 53.9 MBHow are you incorporating erotic touch into your sex life? On this sensual episode, Sara chats with sex educator and founder of Confident Lovers, Christina Antonyan and co-host Kat Leung about the art of erotic touch. Touch is fundamentally important to all of us, as a love language and form of communication. It is also one of the key skills to the art of lovemaking. We discuss the different types of touch that lovers typically use to communicate, from sensual, affectionate to sexual. ...
41. Sex Toys & Your Sexual Health
December 18, 2021 07:59 - 36 minutes - 34.7 MBCan sex toys be good for our sexual - and overall - health? Many of us regard sex toys as tools of pleasure, but this informative episode will help you to rethink the possibilities of sex toys, and how you’re using them. Sara chats with Dr. Soum Rakshit, co-founder of Mysteryvibe, a brand that aims to solve big topics in sexual health in an accessible way. Mysteryvibe creates FDA-approved medical devices for sexual health, which also do double-duty as sex toys and pleasure products. W...
40. Becoming Sexually Assertive & Dominant with Mistress Eva Oh
December 03, 2021 11:00 - 1 hour - 58.7 MBHow can you be more sexually assertive and dominant in the bedroom? Sara co-hosts this episode with kink coach Jannus, and we chat with guest Mistress Eva Oh, a professional dominatrix about her journey into BDSM. We discuss the psychology behind being assertive and dominant in a BDSM context and the dynamics that come with it. We learn where sexual power comes from, and what we can do to step into that power or give it away. Whether or not you’re into BDSM, sexual assertiveness is som...
39. Hotter Sex on Holiday
November 17, 2021 11:00 - 53 minutes - 50.2 MBWhy is sex always so hot when you’re on holiday? In this hilarious episode, Sara chats with sex-positive friends Kat and Will, about some fun and exciting holiday sex encounters. Holiday sex brings out a sense of adventure in all of us, it allows us to break from routine and explore something new in a completely different setting. We tend to be less inhibited and experience more anticipation. While the sex may be hotter, we also talk about some of the potential drawbacks of holiday sex...
38. Overcoming Sexual Prejudice with Project X
October 11, 2021 13:07 - 1 hour - 59.4 MBHow do you perceive sex work and sex workers? And why does the stigma around sex work exist? Sara and co-host Prescott interview Vanessa Ho of Project X, a non-profit group dedicated to advocating for sex workers' rights in Singapore. Vanessa helps to clarify some of the biggest misconceptions around sex work, and shares with us how the nature of sex work has changed over the years. We discuss the draconian laws in many Asian countries surrounding sex work and the risks and...
37. Sex FAQs - Casual Sex & Dick Pics
July 23, 2021 12:00 - 55 minutes - 52.5 MBAfter a year of lockdowns, what’s being called the “summer of love” is upon us - wherein people are keen to release their pent up sexual energy. So on this Sex FAQs episode, Sara chats with relationship coach and clinical hypnotherapist, Valentina Tudose about all things casual…casual sex that is! Together we tackle common questions crowdsourced from listeners on the following topics: how to transition from a long term relationship to casual sex changing our mindsets about...
36. Penis Performance Pointers - Lasting Longer with Jeff Abraham
June 10, 2021 23:00 - 1 hour - 60.5 MBCalling all penis owners and penis lovers! Want to know how to make sex last longer, and avoid finishing too soon? On this episode, Sara chats with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, who shares some great pointers on one of the most common penis challenges - early or premature ejaculation (PE). We start off by discussing the various ways to manage the anxiety, shame and fear around PE and its impact on penis performance. Some of the strategies include talking openly with our ...
35. How to Kegel for Better Sexual Health
May 13, 2021 23:00 - 23 minutes - 23.1 MB[This episode was recorded live as part of the Hong Kong Podcast Festival 2021] Are you using your pelvic floor to experience better sex and orgasms? On this live episode, Sara is joined by Trista Chan, a Pelvic Health Physiotherapist from Joint Dynamics to discuss the link between the pelvic floor and the role it plays in our sex lives. Trista explains what exactly the pelvic floor is and how to locate these muscles in the body. We also discuss the numerous sexual health ...
34. Exploring Your Sexual Fantasies
April 29, 2021 23:00 - 1 hour - 68 MBWhy do we love having sexual fantasies, and what are their benefits? On this episode, Sara chats with guests Mo and Andy, who are stand-up comedians that host the local Ho Ho Hong Kong podcast so be prepared for some big laughs. We discuss how sexual fantasies stimulate arousal, are an escape from reality (like the pandemic), alleviate boredom and can even help us heal from past traumas. We each share a few of our own personal stories around our favourite sexual fantasies a...
33. Navigating Consent and Sexual Boundaries
April 15, 2021 23:00 - 59 minutes - 56 MBWhat does consent look like, and how do you make it sexy? In this episode, Sara invites sex-positive friends Jessica and Prescott Gaylord to talk about their personal experiences on consent. Prescott is an improv actor and instructor who facilitates consent workshops. And on the show, he gives us practical techniques and exercises on how to establish better consent and boundaries. We talk about our definitions of consent and how our personal feelings towards this concept ha...
32. Keeping Sex Hot Over Long Distance
April 01, 2021 23:00 - 1 hour - 67.2 MBIs long-distance a deal-breaker for your sex and love life, or can it actually make things hotter and better? In this episode, Sara chats with sex-positive friends Helen and James, who have both been in long-term long-distance relationships and are happy to share their experiences. We talk about some of the difficulties couples may experience with intimacy and the misunderstandings that occur over long-distance relationships. But more importantly, we talk about how to keep it sexy and ...
31. Sex FAQs - How do I Manage Mismatched Libidos?
May 24, 2020 23:00 - 52 minutes - 49.7 MBSexual desire, or libidos, naturally ebb and flow. Sometimes over a course of a single day. So one of the most common challenges that couples face in relationships is a loss of desire or mismatched libidos. Often in these situations, sex begins to feel like a chore or a performance, which leads to further avoidance. On this Sex FAQs episode, Sara and relationship coach, Valentina Tudose from Happy Ever After tackle common questions crowdsourced from listeners around the topics of desir...
30. Sex FAQs: Getting Down with Dirty Talk & Sexting
May 08, 2020 00:00 - 1 hour - 59.8 MBDirty talk usually gets a bad rep. After all, sex isn’t dirty – so why should talking about it be? On this hilarious episode, Sara chats with her sex-positive friends Kat and James, who are never short on things to say, in the bedroom or otherwise. We talk about the many benefits of dirty talk – from building fantasy, increasing arousal, establishing consent, getting validation and connecting more deeply with one’s partner. We explore the many different styles – from flirty, naug...
30. Getting Down with Dirty Talk & Sexting
May 08, 2020 00:00 - 1 hour - 59.8 MBDirty talk usually gets a bad rep. After all, sex isn’t dirty – so why should talking about it be? On this hilarious episode, Sara chats with her sex-positive friends Kat and James, who are never short on things to say, in the bedroom or otherwise. We talk about the many benefits of dirty talk – from building fantasy, increasing arousal, establishing consent, getting validation and connecting more deeply with one’s partner. We explore the many different styles – from flirty, naug...
29. Sex FAQs - How do I Corona-Proof My Sex And Love Life?
April 09, 2020 10:00 - 42 minutes - 40.2 MBHow has the global pandemic affected your sex and love life? And how can you ‘corona-proof’ your relationship against the stress, uncertainty and conflict? A crisis like the one we find ourselves in accelerates the dynamics of any relationship, and you may feel more intense emotions for each other or reach breaking point more quickly. We’re all concerned about staying physically healthy during these times; but it just as important to keep your relationships safe, strong and healt...
28. Everything I wished I learned in Sex-Ed
March 26, 2020 23:00 - 1 hour - 66.8 MBWhat were you taught in sex-ed, and what do you wish you had learned? Often there’s a big difference between the two! Sara and guests Jules Hannaford, teacher and host of the Hong Kong Confidential podcast and comedian Elena Gabrielle of Story Party, talk about the sex education we received, which was shrouded in fear, abstinence and shame. We share our early sexual experiences, and reflect on what we wished we’d known about STI’s, consent and responsibility at that time. W...
27. BDSM for Beginners
March 16, 2020 23:00 - 1 hour - 60.8 MBIs your perception of BDSM and kink informed by the infamous Fifty Shades of Gray? Even though the Fifty Shades franchise does a lot to bring BDSM to the mainstream, it also get a lot of things wrong. Particularly one of BDSM’s key principles, negotiating consent. Sara and co-host Kat sit down with Jannus of KinkBites — a veteran kinkster, community organizer, and Hong Kong dungeon manager — to lament the Fifty Shades effect, and the myths and misconceptions around BDSM that it p...
26. Sex and Disability - Breaking the Taboo
February 27, 2020 23:00 - 1 hour - 60 MBDo people with disabilities have a right to be sexual? And what can they teach able-bodied people about intimacy and sexuality? On this episode, Sara and co-host Kat talk to Carmen Yau, a registered social worker with a PhD from Hong Kong Polytechnic University and founder of erotica collection, “Sugar’s XXX Stories”. Having been born with spinal muscular atrophy, Carmen is an iconic spokesperson for the sexual equality of people with disabilities and women. She is very vocal ab...
25. Making Sex and Love Last
February 13, 2020 23:00 - 1 hour - 58.6 MBHow do we keep that initial passion for sex and intimacy alive for the long-haul? Highly sought after sexual/marital psychotherapist and founder of The Academy of Lasting Love, Nikki Green shares some illuminating lessons with Sara and co-host Kat from over 20 years of experience primarily working with women in Hong Kong. She believes that great sex can definitely survive over the long-haul however it’s a myth that it will just happen spontaneously and naturally. Sex is usually f...
25. Keeping the Spark & Making Love Last
February 13, 2020 23:00 - 1 hour - 58.6 MBHow do we keep that initial passion for sex and intimacy alive for the long-haul? Highly sought after sexual/marital psychotherapist and founder of The Academy of Lasting Love, Nikki Green shares some illuminating lessons with Sara and co-host Kat from over 20 years of experience primarily working with women in Hong Kong. She believes that great sex can definitely survive over the long-haul however it’s a myth that it will just happen spontaneously and naturally. Sex is usually f...
24 Bold & Body Positive in the Bedroom
January 30, 2020 23:00 - 1 hour - 63.7 MBEver felt self-conscious about your body during sex? Studies show that shame and anxiety about one's body lead to the avoidance of physical intimacy and reduced sexual satisfaction. On this episode, Sara and co-host Kat follow Curvasian.com founder and body positive advocate Bertha Chan through her journey that led her to thrive as a plus-size woman in Asia. Having never been able to find a dress to fit into growing up—not to mention having to endure judgement from those who were...
23 Transform your life with Orgasmic Meditation
November 10, 2019 22:00 - 1 hour - 66.4 MBWe all love orgasms because they feel good, but are we actually using them to their full potential? Life and business coach Ying Han Cheng or “Hani” from YOLO Abundance believes that we can harness powerful orgasmic energy to create abundance and success in the rest of our lives – including our careers, business and personal lives. On this episode, Hani shares the philosophy behind the YUMMY orgasm, a unique practice brought about by orgasmic meditation, which combines mindfulne...
23 Transform your life with YUMMY Orgasmic Meditation
November 10, 2019 22:00 - 1 hour - 66.4 MBWe all love orgasms because they feel good, but are we actually using them to their full potential? Life and business coach Ying Han Cheng or “Hani” from YOLO Abundance believes that we can harness powerful orgasmic energy to create abundance and success in the rest of our lives – including our careers, business and personal lives. On this episode, Hani shares the philosophy behind the YUMMY orgasm, a unique practice brought about by orgasmic meditation, which combines mindfulne...
22 Finding Love in a Digital Age
September 29, 2019 22:00 - 1 hour - 67.3 MBHow has technology changed the world of dating and finding love? In some ways, the Internet has made it easier to meet and connect with people outside our immediate social circle. Yet it’s also exploded our options, and the choices can be paralysing. So finding love could be more challenging. Sara and co-host Prescott (http://prescottgaylord.com), discuss the impact that online dating has had on our psyches, and whether we still believe in romance. Or if ghosting and unsoli...
21 Owning your Sexual Wellness
September 05, 2019 23:00 - 1 hour - 62.8 MBWe all know that wellness is important, but how about sexual wellness? Sara and co-host Ben are recording from London this episode, and they talk to Billie Quinlan and Anna Hushlak, the creators of Ferly (formerly called Leika at time of recording), an app that guides women through various areas of sexual wellness, aiming to transform their relationship to sex. Billie and Anna introduce the concept of sexual wellness, which is not merely the freedom from sexual dysfunction, but a...
20 Secrets of the Bedroom Sequel (Season 1 Finale)
February 14, 2019 03:52 - 1 hour - 60 MBWant more “Secrets of the Bedroom”? Cumming right up! **This sequel episode covers all the material that we’d crowdsourced for the live show but didn’t end up being featured due to time - and public decency - constraints. We recommend that you listen to episode 19 before this episode to get the full Secrets experience.** Jye and Sara are joined by Kat Leung, our live show panelist as we reflect on the highlights of the live show, as well as the entire Better in Bed season. ...
19 - Secrets of the Bedroom (live)
December 10, 2018 21:14 - 1 hour - 56.8 MBWhat's the secret to.... having a threesome? Having anal sex pleasurably? Using a strap-on? Or keeping sex fresh in a long-term relationship? Everything is on the table at our live podcast, which was recorded on International Women's Day, and featured a panel of our favourite podcast guests and sex experts answering burning questions crowdsourced from our audience, i.e. you! We laughed (and maybe died a little inside) over the awkward sex stories that were shared and some of the...
19. Secrets of the Bedroom (live)
December 10, 2018 21:14 - 1 hour - 56.8 MBWhat's the secret to.... having a threesome? Having anal sex pleasurably? Using a strap-on? Or keeping sex fresh in a long-term relationship? Everything is on the table at our live podcast, which was recorded on International Women's Day, and featured a panel of our favourite podcast guests and sex experts answering burning questions crowdsourced from our audience, i.e. you! We laughed (and maybe died a little inside) over the awkward sex stories that were shared and some of the...
18 Make love not porn
November 19, 2018 23:01 - 57 minutes - 52.4 MBIs porn harmful or beneficial? With 30million people watching it every second and the average age of exposure being 11 years, porn in today's world has become a pervasive force we can't ignore. On this episode, Sara and Jye are joined by sex-positive friends Taura Edgar and Ross Gawelek to discuss all things porn. We discuss our personal experiences of porn, from how we discovered it to how its evolved, and the resulting impact on our watching habits. By sharing the diff...
17 Opening up to open relationships Pt. 2 (Swinging)
August 28, 2018 07:02 - 56 minutes - 52.1 MBThink swinging is just for leathery, old couples swishing around keys in a bowl? Think again. Or maybe swing again... and from that chandelier in the sex club! On this episode, Sara and Jye explore another form of open relationship with married couple, Ben and Fern Bale, who open up about how swinging keeps their relationship fresh and exciting. They also explain basic swinger terminology ("soft swap, anyone?") and protocol, debunk common swinger myths and as well as give...
16 Exploring the Forbidden
July 16, 2018 00:28 - 54 minutes - 74.5 MBWhy do we always want what we can't have? And want to do the things we shouldn't do? Sara and Jye invite Jayde Lovell, the YouTube host of popular science show SciQ to shed some light from the fascinating world of neuroscience. Jayde helps us understand how the brain is susceptible to the heightened risk and excitement of any forbidden sexual act - thanks dopamine and adrenaline! We discuss how to overcome the shame around our sexual desires and erotic selves, given that w...
15 The Future of SexTech
June 17, 2018 21:33 - 1 hour - 92.6 MBFintech, edtech, healthtech... and now, what is sextech? Sextech refers to any technology or tech-driven venture that enhances the human sexuality experience. Its the US$30 billion industry that you've never heard of... and no, its not just sex robots and VR porn. On this episode, Sara and Jye's worlds collide as we talk all things sextech with Gavin Heaton of Disruptor's Handbook. Together with Bryony Cole, Gavin is also part of the team that hosts the Future of Sex global hac...