Latest Relationship development Podcast Episodes

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Huge Announcements For What’s To Come

Relationship Transformers - September 03, 2020 11:00 - 45 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
First things first, let’s celebrate the success of the July 2020 Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. This was the first RBR we did online. We reached so many more people than past in-person breakthrough retreats. We delivered multiple breakthroughs, and we were so happy to see people ach...

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50: Stuck In The House: Student Stories About What's Really Going On In Their Homes - Part 1

Relationship Transformers - May 07, 2020 11:00 - 22 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a talk that they recently had with their Relationship U students on what is going on in real life today behind closed doors when couples and families are stuck together because of the COVID-19 related self-quarantining. Paul and Stacey have be...

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49: Marriage And Parenting Survival And Sanity In Quarantine - Part 2

Relationship Transformers - April 30, 2020 11:00 - 20 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Stacey will share part two of her talk on how couples (and parents) can maintain their sanity during these social distancing and self-quarantining times. She will talk about what she sees as two of the most common causes of kerfuffles that are going on right now and how...

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48: Marriage And Parenting Survival And Sanity In Quarantine - Part 1

Relationship Transformers - April 24, 2020 11:00 - 17 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Stacey will talk about how couples can maintain their sanity during these social distancing and self-quarantining times where parents have to be at home all day every day with their kids. She recently did training with their RelationshipU students on the same subject an...

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47: The PIVOT...Not Going to Jamaica...

Relationship Transformers - March 26, 2020 11:00 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Stacey will share a recording that she made to talk about pivoting instead of canceling their Breakthrough in Paradise live event in Jamaica. She will talk about the decision that they made to pivot the event, what they will be doing instead, and how they made that deci...

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46: I’m Not The One That Needs To Change

Relationship Transformers - March 19, 2020 11:00 - 13 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a common point of view that most people in a relationship have that negatively affects their relationships without their knowing. And that is the view that they have something figured out more than their partner and so they have to get th...

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45: How Can I Get Them To See That….

Relationship Transformers - March 12, 2020 11:00 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a dynamic where someone in a relationship gets stuck in the false belief that their way is the right way and that their partner’s way is all wrong. The issue between a couple could be just about anything, but with this dynamic, one partne...

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44: Is He Just Being An ASS?

Relationship Transformers - March 05, 2020 12:00 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a very common complaint that they get from women about how their husbands are too blunt and mean in their conversations, and how that triggers or embarrasses them. Stacey will share the story of one of their relationship transformers who ...

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43: Give Him The Answers To The Test

Relationship Transformers - February 27, 2020 12:00 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the invisible expectations that women have of their partners and the harm they cause their relationships. They will start off by sharing a story from a long time ago of how Stacey ruined their Valentine’s Day. Paul had told Stacey that he...

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[REPLAY] 08: The Lies About Relationship: But What if My Partner is… (Part 3)

Relationship Transformers - February 20, 2020 12:00 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will cover part three of busting the myths series, and talk about the “But my partner is …” myths, which are all about how one partner thinks that their partner is keeping them from having their desired relationship because they behave a certain way. Ke...

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42: Taking Sides

Relationship Transformers - February 13, 2020 12:00 - 13 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a topic that is literally fundamental to what we think of when we think of relationship struggles. And that is the tendency of taking sides when we re-tell stories or people re-tell stories to us, mostly about terrible situations, either ...

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41: Our Driving Kerfuffle (Fighting In The Car)

Relationship Transformers - February 06, 2020 12:00 - 25 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a persistent and repetitive kerfuffle that they used to have often in the car when Paul was driving, and it’s a kerfuffle that a lot of couples can relate to. They’re going to share a clip from their previous three day live immersion even...

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[REPLAY] The Invisible Force That Is Killing Your Relationships

Relationship Transformers - January 30, 2020 12:00 - 16 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
This week we are replaying one of our most popular episodes!  In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the invisible force that stops people from living with a relationship development mindset and instead continues to enslave them in a demand relationship mindset. That force bl...

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40: Relationship Development Parenting Part 2 - The Misery of Parenting

Relationship Transformers - January 23, 2020 12:00 - 12 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will do part two of the two-part series on relationship development parenting. They will share the second clip from behind scenes of their filming for the Relationship Development Parenting Program that they will be releasing this year. In this particula...

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39: RD Parenting Podcast Part 1: Demand Parenting

Relationship Transformers - January 16, 2020 12:00 - 18 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will do part one of a two part series on relationship development parenting. They teach a lot of tools on how people can stop doing demand parenting with their kids, and start doing relationship development parenting so they can create peaceful harmoniou...

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38: Why Most Goal Setting Fails

Relationship Transformers - January 09, 2020 12:00 - 10 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Stacey will dive into step two of their 10-step planning and strategy day framework, and talk about the thing that keeps us from seeing the biggest version of ourselves and the reason why most goal-setting/strategy setting doesn't actually work. The way most people do ...

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37: Groundhog Day

Relationship Transformers - January 02, 2020 14:32 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the strategy and planning framework that they use in both their business and personal lives to get results that exceed their expectations every year. They just recently shared the framework with their Relationship U students and they got so mu...

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36: Follow the Yellow Brick Road

Relationship Transformers - December 26, 2019 12:00 - 17 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the Yellow Brick Road, a tool that they created to help people learn how life works, and what is required to move from one level  of life to another. They teach the tool to all their students, and Stacey even taught an expanded version of...

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35: How To Work With Your Spouse

Relationship Transformers - December 19, 2019 12:00 - 34 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will answer the question, “What are the strategies for being able to work with your spouse in a way that strengthens your marriage instead of weakening it?” This is something that they get asked a lot because most spouses who work together find it nearly...

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34: My Spouse Triggers Me

Relationship Transformers - December 12, 2019 12:00 - 10 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about triggers and how to go about them. We all have those moments where we get triggered by our partner, and unfortunately, people don’t know what to do in that moment, and it happens to the best of us. The one thing that’s most important to ...

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33: When People Make Promises That They Don't Keep

Relationship Transformers - December 05, 2019 12:00 - 10 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the surprising answer they have to the popular questions, "Why do people make promises they don't keep?" and "What can I do when my partner keeps making promises they don't keep?" These are two questions that plague a lot of relationships (in...

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32: How To Catapult Your Relationship To The Next Level QUICKLY

Relationship Transformers - November 29, 2019 11:00 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Stacey will share a special video that she recorded where she shares the three secrets that can revolutionize the way any of us does relationships. She will talk about how we can implement the relationship development tools in our relationships in order to get the love ...

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31: It's Not Fair

Relationship Transformers - November 21, 2019 12:00 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a very powerful dynamic that keeps so many people stuck and miserable. It’s a dynamic that goes beyond marriages, and into all the relationships that people have in life, and it impacts us every single day, and yet it’s invisible to us. ...

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30: Your Plant Is Dead

Relationship Transformers - November 14, 2019 12:00 - 18 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the biggest mistake people make with their relationship development method, mainly from misinterpreting it to mean that they should put up with things or just let things go. This comes from a deeply wired demand relationship thinking whic...

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29: Breaking the Chains of Demand Parenting!

Relationship Transformers - November 08, 2019 12:00 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share some behind the scenes content from their recent relationship development parenting live event day and specifically focus on sharing one major nugget that we can all implement immediately in our parenting. Listen in as they dive into the diff...

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28: It Only Takes ONE Person To Transform Any Relationship

Relationship Transformers - October 31, 2019 11:00 - 37 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share their most popularly downloaded episode where they explained in detail how it’s possible that it only takes one partner to transform any relationship. There have been thousands of people who have single-handedly saved their marriages, transfor...

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27: Ten Year Look Back

Relationship Transformers - October 24, 2019 11:00 - 23 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the story of where they were 10 years ago when they lost everything and had to start over. It all started when they lost their consulting business and started experiencing financial difficulties that pushed them to get jobs. Fast forward 10 y...

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26: Your FRIEND Is F’ing Up Your Life

Relationship Transformers - October 17, 2019 11:00 - 17 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the well-meaning people in our lives who have the best intentions for us, and how they might be negatively affecting our lives. Advice is something that we all get every day, from every body, even when we’ve really not asked for it. That...

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25: Why Learning MORE Is Moving You Backward

Relationship Transformers - October 10, 2019 11:00 - 14 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about how learning more actually moves people backward in their relationships. People get obsessed with knowledge, especially those who are growth-oriented, and they’re always looking for the next thing to learn. Tune in as Paul and Stacey sho...

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24: Why Nothing Changes

Relationship Transformers - October 03, 2019 11:00 - 20 minutes ★★★★★ - 143 ratings
In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share with you one of the biggest reasons why nothing changes for you. They hear these statements from people all the time; “I've asked a million times, but nothing changes” or “We talked and agreed to X, Y, Z, but still nothing changes.”    Often...

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