Relationship Transformers
53 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 3 years ago - ★★★★★ - 143 ratingsPaul & Stacey Martino have proven that it only takes ONE partner to transform a relationship…ANY relationship! The question is - “How does ONE person do that?” This podcast is the answer!
The Martinos made a unique discovery. They cracked the code on how to save any marriage and take ANY relationship to the next level. All in a way that it only takes ONE person. You do not need your partner to listen to this podcast or do the work with you, in order for you to get the results you want in your relationship.
Stacey and Paul have saved thousands of marriages, using the Relationship Development® methodology they invented. They have hundreds of real, actionable tools and strategies you can use in real life today, to create your Unshakable Love and Unleashed Passion ...even if your partner REFUSES to change!
Stacey and Paul, are the creators of Relationship Development®, it’s personal development for your relationship. Together with their community of Relationship Transformers, the Martinos are Changing the Way Relationship is Done™!
Through their strategic coaching, online programs, and sold-out live events, Stacey and Paul have helped save thousands of marriages around the world and transformed thousands more. Now, through this podcast, you will finally get the answers you need to take all your relationships to the next level!
While studies show that couples counseling today results in approximately an 80% divorce rate… Stacey and Paul’s RelationshipU program has a 1% Divorce Rate over the last 6 years! That’s a 99% Success Rate! No one can touch those results! As the Relationship Transformers are known to say, it’s because #ThisSh*tWorks.
The raw truth is, relationships are nothing more than a skill set. Not only is it a skill set that most of us were not taught, but what we were taught is causing unnecessary kerfuffle and pain every day. Tune in each week to get the skills and solutions you need to take your relationships from meh to legendary.
Ready for your relationship breakthrough? You can get started by going to www.martinopodcast.com
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Huge Announcements For What’s To Come
September 03, 2020 11:00 - 45 minutes - 41.3 MBFirst things first, let’s celebrate the success of the July 2020 Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. This was the first RBR we did online. We reached so many more people than past in-person breakthrough retreats. We delivered multiple breakthroughs, and we were so happy to see people achieve great results. We are reimagining several of our programs to better serve you and we have several releases coming out this fall. One of them is the Relationship Development Parenting Program. It...
50: Stuck In The House: Student Stories About What's Really Going On In Their Homes - Part 1
May 07, 2020 11:00 - 22 minutes - 20.7 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a talk that they recently had with their Relationship U students on what is going on in real life today behind closed doors when couples and families are stuck together because of the COVID-19 related self-quarantining. Paul and Stacey have been working very hard in sharing amazing tools and strategies on what people can do to avoid kerfuffles and all sorts of negative issues in their households, but it’s very hard for anyone to really tel...
49: Marriage And Parenting Survival And Sanity In Quarantine - Part 2
April 30, 2020 11:00 - 20 minutes - 18.5 MBIn this episode, Stacey will share part two of her talk on how couples (and parents) can maintain their sanity during these social distancing and self-quarantining times. She will talk about what she sees as two of the most common causes of kerfuffles that are going on right now and how to solve that, and how to deal with the effects of the current pandemic on our lives. She will also dive into how to look at everything that’s going on in a way that's empowering, as opposed to feeli...
48: Marriage And Parenting Survival And Sanity In Quarantine - Part 1
April 24, 2020 11:00 - 17 minutes - 15.7 MBIn this episode, Stacey will talk about how couples can maintain their sanity during these social distancing and self-quarantining times where parents have to be at home all day every day with their kids. She recently did training with their RelationshipU students on the same subject and it had immediate phenomenal results for those who applied the tools and strategies they learned in their households. Right now families are having a hard time being quarantined at home, and parents ...
47: The PIVOT...Not Going to Jamaica...
March 26, 2020 11:00 - 26 minutes - 24.5 MBIn this episode, Stacey will share a recording that she made to talk about pivoting instead of canceling their Breakthrough in Paradise live event in Jamaica. She will talk about the decision that they made to pivot the event, what they will be doing instead, and how they made that decision in confidence and not fear. The live event was planned for next week, and Paul, Stacey, and 120 of their relationship students were going to Jamaica. They were all so desperate to get to that e...
46: I’m Not The One That Needs To Change
March 19, 2020 11:00 - 13 minutes - 12 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a common point of view that most people in a relationship have that negatively affects their relationships without their knowing. And that is the view that they have something figured out more than their partner and so they have to get their partner to subscribe to it too so their relationship can become better. That’s a common thing that Paul and Stacey hear from their program participants all the time. One particular relationship ...
45: How Can I Get Them To See That….
March 12, 2020 11:00 - 26 minutes - 24 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a dynamic where someone in a relationship gets stuck in the false belief that their way is the right way and that their partner’s way is all wrong. The issue between a couple could be just about anything, but with this dynamic, one partner feels that their way of solving the issue or their perspective on the issue is the correct one while their partner’s is not, and so they feel that they must make their partner see their way and agre...
44: Is He Just Being An ASS?
March 05, 2020 12:00 - 28 minutes - 26.2 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a very common complaint that they get from women about how their husbands are too blunt and mean in their conversations, and how that triggers or embarrasses them. Stacey will share the story of one of their relationship transformers who asked them what she should have done when she asked her husband if she could take a certification class for her work, but he responded in a rude way. The lady felt her husband was an ass and treated h...
43: Give Him The Answers To The Test
February 27, 2020 12:00 - 30 minutes - 27.6 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the invisible expectations that women have of their partners and the harm they cause their relationships. They will start off by sharing a story from a long time ago of how Stacey ruined their Valentine’s Day. Paul had told Stacey that he would take her out to dinner for Valentine’s when he got back from work, and she was so excited about it. She got a nice new outfit and was expecting Paul to send her a large bouquet of flowers to he...
[REPLAY] 08: The Lies About Relationship: But What if My Partner is… (Part 3)
February 20, 2020 12:00 - 29 minutes - 27.3 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will cover part three of busting the myths series, and talk about the “But my partner is …” myths, which are all about how one partner thinks that their partner is keeping them from having their desired relationship because they behave a certain way. Key Points Discussed: Depressed spouses and the dangers of labeling (00:52) Everyone changes at different points in life for various reasons (02:53) Whatever comes after the statement “I am” is super...
42: Taking Sides
February 13, 2020 12:00 - 13 minutes - 12.6 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a topic that is literally fundamental to what we think of when we think of relationship struggles. And that is the tendency of taking sides when we re-tell stories or people re-tell stories to us, mostly about terrible situations, either with their partners, or their parents, or somebody at their workplace. And when they tell us, we immediately go right into it with them either to console them or to hopefully give them some advice. I...
41: Our Driving Kerfuffle (Fighting In The Car)
February 06, 2020 12:00 - 25 minutes - 23 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a persistent and repetitive kerfuffle that they used to have often in the car when Paul was driving, and it’s a kerfuffle that a lot of couples can relate to. They’re going to share a clip from their previous three day live immersion event, the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat, where they ended up sharing the story of that kerfuffle in great detail. It all revolved around how Paul drives, and to give a little context to that, Paul i...
[REPLAY] The Invisible Force That Is Killing Your Relationships
January 30, 2020 12:00 - 16 minutes - 15.2 MBThis week we are replaying one of our most popular episodes! In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the invisible force that stops people from living with a relationship development mindset and instead continues to enslave them in a demand relationship mindset. That force blocks people from getting the results that they desire in their relationships and keeps leading them in the wrong direction. Paul and Stacey will expose it and teach you how to overcome it. Key Point...
40: Relationship Development Parenting Part 2 - The Misery of Parenting
January 23, 2020 12:00 - 12 minutes - 11.8 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will do part two of the two-part series on relationship development parenting. They will share the second clip from behind scenes of their filming for the Relationship Development Parenting Program that they will be releasing this year. In this particular clip, they addressed the issue of misery in parenting. This is a topic that might ruffle some feathers with a lot of people, but it’s a not so open secret that it affects a lot of parents in our soc...
39: RD Parenting Podcast Part 1: Demand Parenting
January 16, 2020 12:00 - 18 minutes - 17 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will do part one of a two part series on relationship development parenting. They teach a lot of tools on how people can stop doing demand parenting with their kids, and start doing relationship development parenting so they can create peaceful harmonious households, build up their relationships with their kids over time, and reduce the kerfuffles that they have of parenting. They are actually building a relationship development parenting program whi...
38: Why Most Goal Setting Fails
January 09, 2020 12:00 - 10 minutes - 9.42 MBIn this episode, Stacey will dive into step two of their 10-step planning and strategy day framework, and talk about the thing that keeps us from seeing the biggest version of ourselves and the reason why most goal-setting/strategy setting doesn't actually work. The way most people do their goal setting does not work to create results and it eventually backfires which makes them feel bad, and ends up creating a very vicious cycle. There's actually a strategic reason for that, and S...
37: Groundhog Day
January 02, 2020 14:32 - 30 minutes - 28 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the strategy and planning framework that they use in both their business and personal lives to get results that exceed their expectations every year. They just recently shared the framework with their Relationship U students and they got so much power from it to easily set achievable goals for this new year. So many people do their annual goal setting, but it never actually works because they use the traditional kind of goal setting which...
36: Follow the Yellow Brick Road
December 26, 2019 12:00 - 17 minutes - 16.4 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the Yellow Brick Road, a tool that they created to help people learn how life works, and what is required to move from one level of life to another. They teach the tool to all their students, and Stacey even taught an expanded version of it to 5,000 entrepreneurs at a Funnel Hacking Live. In the movie, The Wizard of Oz, there is a yellow brick road that people follow to get to Oz, and that yellow brick road that Paul and Stacey crea...
35: How To Work With Your Spouse
December 19, 2019 12:00 - 34 minutes - 32 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will answer the question, “What are the strategies for being able to work with your spouse in a way that strengthens your marriage instead of weakening it?” This is something that they get asked a lot because most spouses who work together find it nearly impossible to separate their marriages from their businesses. Most of those spouses end up failing at one of those things, and usually, it’s the marriage that loses out since it’s easier to do busin...
34: My Spouse Triggers Me
December 12, 2019 12:00 - 10 minutes - 9.54 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about triggers and how to go about them. We all have those moments where we get triggered by our partner, and unfortunately, people don’t know what to do in that moment, and it happens to the best of us. The one thing that’s most important to know is that every single trigger is unique, and therefore requires a unique solution that only we ourselves can come up with and not our partners. There’s so much value in a person learning to solve ...
33: When People Make Promises That They Don't Keep
December 05, 2019 12:00 - 10 minutes - 9.56 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the surprising answer they have to the popular questions, "Why do people make promises they don't keep?" and "What can I do when my partner keeps making promises they don't keep?" These are two questions that plague a lot of relationships (including with family and friends) because people tend to award blame on the other person when in reality they too are party to the problem. Paul and Stacey will share a clip from their recent Relatio...
32: How To Catapult Your Relationship To The Next Level QUICKLY
November 29, 2019 11:00 - 32 minutes - 29.9 MBIn this episode, Stacey will share a special video that she recorded where she shares the three secrets that can revolutionize the way any of us does relationships. She will talk about how we can implement the relationship development tools in our relationships in order to get the love and passion that we really want. She will then dive into the three secrets and talk about each of them in detail while sharing the real life actionable steps we can take to turn our relationships aro...
31: It's Not Fair
November 21, 2019 12:00 - 26 minutes - 24 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a very powerful dynamic that keeps so many people stuck and miserable. It’s a dynamic that goes beyond marriages, and into all the relationships that people have in life, and it impacts us every single day, and yet it’s invisible to us. Paul and Stacey will reveal what it is, how people have a lot of misconceptions about it, and how it always puts us in endless battles with the people that we are in relationships with. They will also...
30: Your Plant Is Dead
November 14, 2019 12:00 - 18 minutes - 17.2 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the biggest mistake people make with their relationship development method, mainly from misinterpreting it to mean that they should put up with things or just let things go. This comes from a deeply wired demand relationship thinking which only results in things staying the same or getting worse. Paul and Stacey discovered that their students didn’t quite understand that implementing the relationship development tools and strategies ...
29: Breaking the Chains of Demand Parenting!
November 08, 2019 12:00 - 26 minutes - 24.1 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will share some behind the scenes content from their recent relationship development parenting live event day and specifically focus on sharing one major nugget that we can all implement immediately in our parenting. Listen in as they dive into the differences between demand parenting and relationship development parenting, and share some real-life parenting scenarios where relationship development parenting works perfectly so we can easily apply th...
28: It Only Takes ONE Person To Transform Any Relationship
October 31, 2019 11:00 - 37 minutes - 34.4 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will share their most popularly downloaded episode where they explained in detail how it’s possible that it only takes one partner to transform any relationship. There have been thousands of people who have single-handedly saved their marriages, transformed their relationships, and divorce-proofed their marriages. Society has for many years been brainwashed to believe that it takes two people to achieve all that, but the truth is that with Paul and ...
27: Ten Year Look Back
October 24, 2019 11:00 - 23 minutes - 21.1 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the story of where they were 10 years ago when they lost everything and had to start over. It all started when they lost their consulting business and started experiencing financial difficulties that pushed them to get jobs. Fast forward 10 years, they’re now doing great, and they will share how overcoming financial challenges helped them create relationship development for the benefit of others. Their story will help you plan out your fu...
26: Your FRIEND Is F’ing Up Your Life
October 17, 2019 11:00 - 17 minutes - 16 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the well-meaning people in our lives who have the best intentions for us, and how they might be negatively affecting our lives. Advice is something that we all get every day, from every body, even when we’ve really not asked for it. That’s because the people in our lives always have an opinion about everything, and Paul and Stacey will teach us how to see that dynamic and navigate it in a way that doesn’t negatively impact us individ...
25: Why Learning MORE Is Moving You Backward
October 10, 2019 11:00 - 14 minutes - 13.6 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about how learning more actually moves people backward in their relationships. People get obsessed with knowledge, especially those who are growth-oriented, and they’re always looking for the next thing to learn. Tune in as Paul and Stacey show us how that not only blocks us from getting the results that we want in our relationships, but also moves us backwards, and away from our goals. Key Points Discussed: Learning how to forgive so w...
24: Why Nothing Changes
October 03, 2019 11:00 - 20 minutes - 18.8 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will share with you one of the biggest reasons why nothing changes for you. They hear these statements from people all the time; “I've asked a million times, but nothing changes” or “We talked and agreed to X, Y, Z, but still nothing changes.” Often it comes down to how YOU interpret and respond to the situations that you are presented with. Paul and Stacey will dive into how you can begin to see things in a positive light and alter how you resp...
23: Hand of Vlad
September 26, 2019 04:00 - 13 minutes - 12.2 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a clip of themselves teaching one of the most powerful tools LIVE during Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2019. The session was all about the importance of recognizing and seizing opportunities whenever they present themselves to us. They talked about the hand of Vlad, a tool that we all need to learn in order to seize opportunities and solve any challenges that we come across in life. Listen and learn. Key Points Discussed: Aiming for...
22: Why Living in Balance is Making You Miserable
September 19, 2019 11:00 - 23 minutes - 21.4 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will share all about how the societal pressure to live in balance is making you miserable and creating crap results. The fact is, when everybody tells you you have to live in balance, all that does is make you feel bad about yourself. You feel bad because you think that you're not getting good results by not living in balance. Listen in to learn how you can live out of balance and create extraordinary results for yourself and your family. Key Point...
21: When Your Spouse Tells The Kids Something You Do Not Agree With
September 12, 2019 11:00 - 13 minutes - 12.7 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a clip from the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat during the live Q&A segment. A woman got up to ask a question about what she can do when her spouse tells their kids something that she absolutely does not agree with. Has that ever happened to you? Of course, it has! Well, Paul and Stacey’s answer on how to solve this might surprise you, but it will surely give you some great actionable tips on how to implement impactful relationship dev...
20: Getting Your Way
September 05, 2019 11:00 - 17 minutes - 16 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a clip of themselves teaching live at their recent RBR 2019 event. The title of the session was, "Getting Your Way in Relationships", and it was all about overcoming the challenges that couples have whenever they try to get their way in their relationships. Listen in as they tackle that and share some action steps on how to overcome the culprit in the picture, accidental alignment predicament, which negatively impacts marriages and famili...
19: We Moved to Idaho
August 29, 2019 11:00 - 34 minutes - 32 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will share their experience moving from Pennsylvania to Idaho. They’ll talk about how hectic it was to pack up and move across the country, and the numerous challenges that that presented for their business and personal lives. If you wanna learn how to live by design and transform your life, listen in as they share why they chose to move to Idaho, the good and bad of the moving process, their kids’ experiences through it all, and some of the very in...
18: Behind The Scenes of RBR 2019
August 22, 2019 19:11 - 27 minutes - 25.5 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk all about the just concluded Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2019. They will talk about what their favorite moments were, what the challenges were, how things went behind the scenes, and most importantly, the breakthroughs that different attendees experienced. Listen in to get that behind the scenes look at this life changing event, get a feel of what it would have been like to attend, and get some tools you can use to build better relat...
17: What If My Kid Wants To QUIT?
August 15, 2019 11:00 - 19 minutes - 17.9 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will answer a question about what to do when one’s kid wants to quit something. So many parents have struggled with this because no parent wants to raise a quitter, but whatever it is cannot be forced on them from a demand relationship approach. Tune in as Paul and Stacey share the relationship development tactics you can use to tackle this issue with your kid and make sure that they’re A-okay moving forward. Key Points Discussed: It comes down to...
16: My Kid is Triggering Me (And Everyone In The House)
August 08, 2019 11:00 - 42 minutes - 38.6 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will be tackling the question of how to handle your kid when he or she triggers you. This is something that happens to every parent, and the biggest reason why parents can’t seem to find a solution to that problem is because they think that “fixing the kid” is the key, but its not. Stay tuned as Paul and Stacey dive into the issue of demand parenting, and learn how you can use relationship development parenting to get the results you want in your ho...
15: Why Go To Live Events?
August 01, 2019 11:00 - 25 minutes - 23.6 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey are going to talk about the power of immersion events in profoundly changing a person’s life versus just general learning. Learning is important and can be resourceful, but people usually tend to forget whatever they learn with time, but when they attend an event on what is important to them, they get to both learn and experience, and it’s the experience that sticks with them their entire lives. Paul and Stacey will also share the kind of action ste...
14: Fights Every Couple Will Have
July 25, 2019 11:00 - 43 minutes - 39.6 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey are going to dive into the most common fights that all couples have. When it comes to real life issues like parenting, money, work, family of origin, religion, spirituality, health, education, and others, most couples think that they share similar opinions until they get confronted by their differences on the same. That brings about conflicts between them, and because they lack the tools to tackle that, the conflicts become frequent and eventually l...
13: What Women Think About Men
July 18, 2019 11:00 - 24 minutes - 22.3 MBIn this episode, Stacey is going to talk about the feminine, and how women unknowingly get stuck in a dynamic that exhausts them, makes them feel miserable, causes kerfuffle, and zaps the passion right out of their marriage. Most women don’t understand how the masculine is wired, and so they tend to expect their men to react like women to different situations, and when they don’t, they get upset about it which causes a rift between them. Stacey will teach you how to stop looking a...
12: Paul Speaks To The Men
July 11, 2019 11:00 - 30 minutes - 27.8 MBIn this episode, Paul, with Stacey’s support, will be speaking directly to men, and women too, about how men see relationships. Men tend to view the topic of relationships and marriage as a feminine topic when in reality they need to know what makes a relationship work because they relate with so many different people in their lives. This episode will help in having men’s voice heard and understood, by giving women an inside look at the masculine perspective. Paul and Stacey will a...
11: STOP Being A Pleaser, It’s Not Helping!
July 04, 2019 11:00 - 32 minutes - 29.7 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will take on one of the most common and pervasive relationship killers, and it's called pleasing. This isn't just about love relationships, because when a person is a pleaser in any of their relationships, they are most likely pleasing in many of their relationships, and that actually causes way more damage than good. Paul and Stacey will talk extensively about it and share some very effective tools that we can use to stop being pleasers and embrace...
10: Reignite Your Passion (Part Two)
June 27, 2019 11:00 - 28 minutes - 25.8 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will continue with part two of their reignite the passion series, and talk about what actually kills the passion in long-term relationships. It is something that impacts almost everyone at some point in their long-term relationship, and yet it remains invisible to almost everyone. They are going to expose that passion killer today to empower you to reignite the passion. Key Points Discussed: Passion organically fades in a long-term relationship (0...
09: Reignite Your Passion (Part 1)
June 20, 2019 11:00 - 18 minutes - 10.8 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the truth about why passion fizzles in long-term relationships and what we can do to reignite it! They will dive into the two most common phases of a relationship where people need help in creating an unleashed passion that is hotter than it's ever been. Paul and Stacey will be very detailed about this so it can help you get the kind of relationship you deserve. If you are looking to reignite the passion in your relationship, don’t miss ...
08: The Lies About Relationship: But What if My Partner is… (Part 3)
June 13, 2019 11:00 - 29 minutes - 27.3 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will cover part three of busting the myths series, and talk about the “But my partner is …” myths, which are all about how one partner thinks that their partner is keeping them from having their desired relationship because they behave a certain way. Key Points Discussed: Depressed spouses and the dangers of labeling (00:52) Everyone changes at different points in life for various reasons (02:53) Whatever comes after the statement “I am” is super...
07: The Lies About Relationship: But My Partner is Not… (Part 2)
June 06, 2019 11:00 - 28 minutes - 26.5 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will go into part two of busting the marriage and relationship myths that are misleading people today. They are going to dive into the "but my partner is not..." myths, which are the myths where people will say that their relationships are not working, or that they are hard, or that they might not be with the right person. Key Points Discussed: The “but my partner is NOT” myth (01:00) The differences between partners are always a gift (02:11) Eve...
06: The Lies About Relationship (Part 1)
May 30, 2019 11:00 - 25 minutes - 35.4 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey bust a lot of the marriage and relationship myths that keep people so enslaved in their own lives. They are also going to debunk some beliefs about what relationship development really is, and hopefully all that will set you free, and totally revive your marriage or relationship. Key Points Discussed: You don’t have to be nice, suck it up and make everyone else happy (01:19) The power player and the non-power player (01:34) Confusion is a quality...
05: How Do I Know When It's Time To Leave
May 23, 2019 11:00 - 30 minutes - 41.6 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the very confusing issue of whether an individual should leave their marriage and give in to divorce. This is something that a lot of people in someone’s life will prescribe when their marriage is in trouble, but the truth is that none of them has the right to do that. Paul and Stacey will expose that for the lie that it is and tell us the best way to go about an impending divorce situation. Key Points Discussed: It’s a lie to say ...
04: The Invisible Force That Is Killing Your Relationships
May 21, 2019 11:00 - 16 minutes - 22.8 MBIn this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the invisible force that stops people from living with a relationship development mindset and instead continues to enslave them in a demand relationship mindset. That force blocks people from getting the results that they desire in their relationships and keeps leading them in the wrong direction. Paul and Stacey will expose it and teach you how to overcome it. Key Points Discussed: The Truth: It’s all about blame (01:47) Blaming ...