Latest Optimistic Podcast Episodes

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The Problem With Control, Episode 63

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - April 04, 2023 15:30 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Wouldn’t it be nice if you could control everyone and everything so they did just what you needed them to do, right when you needed it? Maybe. The reality is, that will never happen. But there is a way, an approach you can use that will get people and situations on board with what you want and n...

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The Temptation of Blame, Episode 62

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - March 21, 2023 15:30 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
What is it about blame that makes it so very tempting? And what’s wrong with knowing you’re right and others are wrong? Surely they should know they messed up! The problem with blame is that it may feel good in the moment, but it doesn’t do a darn thing to resolve the situation. Dang. In this po...

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What Little Old Me?, Episode 61

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - March 07, 2023 21:07 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Does anything you do really matter? Why do you feel so often like an insignificant cog in some giant wheel? Where you don’t matter. In this podcast, you’ll discover that you really do matter, that what you do – big or small – has impact, not just in some philosophical way, but real, important, v...

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The Agony of Shame, Episode 60

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - February 21, 2023 15:30 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
You beat yourself up endlessly over the “I should haves” and “I should have known betters” that punch nasty holes in your otherwise happy life, aka the “shame” of messing up. Yuck! What to do? In this podcast, you’ll find possible answers to that very question, so that you can mess up without fe...

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The Choice For Love, Episode 59

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - February 07, 2023 15:37 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Love. Everyone wants it, in every aspect of their lives, from self-love to love of others, to love of how we are and what we do in the world. Too often, though, we are run by fear, not love. Our lives cease to be satisfying, and we are too often downhearted and unhappy. Yet there is a way to dea...

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“A” Versus “The” Solution, Episode 58

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - January 17, 2023 15:30 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Why is it that the apparently easy one-shot answer to your problem just caused a whole bunch of other problems? You’re exhausted! Understandably so, because you see, one size does not fit all. In this podcast, you’ll learn how to figure out the impact of your possible solution before implementin...

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New Year’s Resolution, Episode 57

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - January 03, 2023 15:30 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
You resolve to be nicer, you get walked on. You resolve to be more assertive, people avoid you. What’s up with that? Why can’t you get this dealing with people thing right? Well, maybe it’s not that you can’t get it right, maybe, as you’ll discover in this podcast, it’s because you’ve allowed so...

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On Choosing Enthusiasm, Episode 56

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - December 20, 2022 12:00 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
What you bring to life is what you get from it. No, that’s not just a cute platitude, it’s real. As in, you really do get what you give. But how? How exactly do you go about giving to life, your life, what you want from it? Good question! In this podcast, you’ll find possible answers to that ver...

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Enabling v Helping, Episode 55

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - December 06, 2022 12:00 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Have you ever been caught between wanting to help a loved one, but worried that in your attempt to help, you’re just furthering their dysfunction? You’re not alone! It’s a dilemma faced by many of us who care about our nears and dears. Yet there is a way through the dilemma that does not involve...

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A Matter of Focus, Episode 54

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - November 15, 2022 12:08 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
It is said that whatever you focus on, grows. Great. Except when you find yourself focusing on yucky hurtful things, which just seem to magnify the misery in your life. How can you use the enormous power of focus, or concentrated energy, to work for you, rather than against you? What tools can...

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Approval v. Love, Episode 53

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - November 01, 2022 12:00 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Why is it you can never seem to find the love you seek? That special relationship that would fill you with such joy. What’s wrong with you? Nothing! What’s wrong is how you’re going about seeking love, namely confusing someone’s approval of you with loving you. In this podcast, you’ll discover t...

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Whose Life Is It Anyway?, Episode 52

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - October 18, 2022 15:56 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Do you ever feel like your life isn’t in your control? Like you’re living what everyone else wants you to and you’re not happy, and you don’t know what to do about it? What a painful unfortunate way to spend your days! Well, you don’t need to put up with it anymore. In this podcast, you’ll disco...

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The Power of Mental Rehearsal, Episode 51

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - October 04, 2022 15:53 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Olympic athletes use it, successful performers use it – guess what? You can use it too! When you have to have that conversation you dread, make that presentation for the first time, face that person you’re in awe or fear of, you too can use mental rehearsal to position yourself in the best possi...

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Where’s The Horse? Episode 50

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - September 20, 2022 15:48 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
How can you make sense of the pile of manure you’ve just dumped into? The upset or disaster you didn’t anticipate but is now making a mess of your life? Good question! In this podcast, you’ll explore some of how you turn that pile of manure into something positive and valuable for your life (and...

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Winner In The Making, Episode 49

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - September 06, 2022 15:41 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Is it ever just all too much? That the marriage or job or friendship you counted on to last forever falls apart? Or some dreaded disease afflicts your beloved child and all you can do is rant and rave? Rather than turning into a perpetually miserable victim or anger finger-pointer, discover in t...

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Silence Is Not Always Golden, Episode 48

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - August 16, 2022 12:00 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Why can’t you get heard? Why, no matter how loudly, angrily or with tears abounding you speak your distress, your partner stands there like a stone? Aargh! In this podcast, you’ll find out how to express your unhappiness in a way that your partner can hear you and respond. Hopefully appropriatel...

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How Judgment Hurts You, Episode 47

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - August 02, 2022 12:00 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
You can’t help yourself. When “stuff” hits the fan, you go down that rabbit-hole of dread and despair so fast, it not only hurts, it hurts bad! But what if there was a way to avoid the rabbit-hole altogether? In this podcast, you’ll learn a surprising technique that will help you turn any “stuff...

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When Love Is Not Enough, Episode 46

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - July 19, 2022 12:00 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Are you tired of endlessly “working” on your relationship? Why should you have to be “working” on it in the first place? Good question! In this podcast, you’ll explore some of the reasons why you can’t seem to get your relationship to “work” despite all the energy and effort you put into “workin...

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What’s Wrong With Me? Episode 45

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - July 05, 2022 12:00 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Do you ever feel that you can’t do anything right? That you can’t get things to go your way no matter how hard you try? Rather than deciding something must be wrong with you – or with whoever’s not being helpful - discover in this podcast a different, far more powerful and empowering (!) approach!

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What Now, Why Me?, Episode 44

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - June 21, 2022 12:00 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Why does it seem like just when life is going along so nicely, something pulls the rug from under you? Like losing your job, relationship, car? Why can’t things just stay steady on course? Like forever? In this podcast, you’ll find out how to deal with some of the ordinary inevitable losses of l...

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Transform Parent into Adult, Episode 43

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - June 07, 2022 12:00 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Now there’s a challenge for you! Getting your parent to quit bossing you around when you’re waaaay past the need-bossing-around age. And yet, it’s doable! In this podcast, you’ll learn a surprising technique that will help your parent grow up into an adult, and thus treat you as one. Oh happy day!

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5-17-22 What s the point

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - May 17, 2022 12:00 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Feeling overwhelmed? Feeling down about life, or has something knocked you for a loop? Psychologist Dr. Noelle Nelson believes that inside all of us is an often hidden optimistic perspective that can help us find greater happiness and success. Helping to uncover that inspiring inner gem is what U...

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What's the point?, Episode 42

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - May 17, 2022 12:00 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Feeling overwhelmed? Feeling down about life, or has something knocked you for a loop? Psychologist Dr. Noelle Nelson believes that inside all of us is an often hidden optimistic perspective that can help us find greater happiness and success. Helping to uncover that inspiring inner gem is what U...

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Value of Intuition, Episode 41

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - May 03, 2022 12:00 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Feeling overwhelmed? Feeling down about life, or has something knocked you for a loop? Psychologist Dr. Noelle Nelson believes that inside all of us is an often hidden optimistic perspective that can help us find greater happiness and success. Helping to uncover that inspiring inner gem is what U...

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5-3-22 Value of Intuition

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - May 03, 2022 12:00 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Feeling overwhelmed? Feeling down about life, or has something knocked you for a loop? Psychologist Dr. Noelle Nelson believes that inside all of us is an often hidden optimistic perspective that can help us find greater happiness and success. Helping to uncover that inspiring inner gem is what U...

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The Pull of The Familiar, Episode 40

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - April 19, 2022 13:00 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Why is it that sometimes in the best of times, you feel anxious? Like the other shoe is going to drop any minute, and sure enough, something comes along to bump you out of your happiness bubble. How unfortunate! Especially since it doesn’t need to be this way. In this podcast you’ll learn how to...

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The Trap of Comparison, Episode 39

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - April 05, 2022 13:00 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
It’s tempting to compare yourself to others, you know, those slimmer-richer-happier-more successful others, yet whenever you do, you end up feeling awful about yourself. Lower than an earthworm, undeserving, miserable. That’s not a way to live! And certainly not a way to achieve your unique goal...

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The Truth, The Whole Truth, Episode 38

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - March 15, 2022 13:00 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Why can some people express their disappointment, frustration or even anger with a loved one so easily, and yet confrontation is something that totally makes you cringe. You can’t go on like this, bottling up all your hurt and angry feelings, but what are you to do? Tune in to this podcast to fi...

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The Power of Expectation, Episode 37

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - March 01, 2022 13:00 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
Does it ever feel like you’re in a really bad movie, where no matter what you do, you end up in a sucky relationship? Over and over and over again? To where you want to give up on relationships forever. Yet you know you really want a good relationship, so what now? In this podcast, you’ll discov...

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The Power of Choice, Episode 36

Up! Uplifting, Inspiring, Practical - February 15, 2022 13:00 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 1 rating
You don’t think of yourself as an overly sensitive person, but heck! When people think your ideas are ridiculous or stupid or whatever, or when they don’t see the value of your work, your help, you get hurt or angry - sometimes both at the same time. Neither of which truly makes you feel better....