Latest Marriage coaching Podcast Episodes
Infidelity - How to Help Your Spouse Heal After the Affair - Relationship Counseling
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - March 20, 2017 07:14 - 14 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsIf you have had an affair but have regrets and hope to save your marriage, don't let another mistake-ridden day go by without reading some of these tips. Or, if you are the betrayed spouse and your cheating wife or husband unintentionally keeps on hurting you in their attempts to make you feel be...
The 5 Negative Thought Patterns That Lead to Divorce -...
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - March 07, 2017 00:00 - 14 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsAfter the honeymoon period in a relationship is over, and our partner raises complaints about us, or does things we don't agree with or is somehow absent, we often start to make or draw slightly negative conclusions about them or the relationship. Typically it starts off as a thought one day, but...
Grief & Loss Expert Interview Discusses Loss & Preparing for It
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - July 25, 2016 00:00 - 28 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsJane Duncan Rogers wrote her memoir Gifted By Grief: A True Story of Cancer, Loss and Rebirth 3 years after her husband died and now is passionate about enabling the western world to become more comfortable with the thought of dying and loss. She is committed to guiding people to the relief and p...
Expert Interview with Divorce & Sports Parenting Coach - Brian Brunkow
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - July 15, 2016 07:37 - 29 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsBrian Brunkow is a San Diego-based lawyer, sports parenting coach, and author of Zero Offseason – a guidebook on divorce & effective & “sane” sports parenting. With a background in family law and coaching youth football, Brian’s focus is helping divorced parents collaborate on the “ABC’s of div...
Part 2 Help Children with Divorce - Using Universal Laws
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - July 13, 2016 10:47 - 16 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsFrom the Amazon Best Seller - I read you my chapter which is designed to inspire parents help their children through separation. We all know that marriage breakdown, separation and divorce is stressful and painful time for all involved, especially children. Despite parents best efforts to protec...
Help Children Thrive After Divorce - Using Universal Laws from Amazon Best Seller
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - July 04, 2016 10:55 - 14 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsFrom the Amazon Best Seller - I read you my chapter which is designed to inspire parents help their children through separation. We all know that marriage breakdown, separation and divorce is stressful and painful time for all involved, especially children. Despite parents best efforts to protec...
Help Children Thrive After Divorce - Using Universal Laws from Amazon Best Seller
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - July 04, 2016 10:55 - 14 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsFrom the Amazon Best Seller - I read you my chapter which is designed to inspire parents help their children through separation. We all know that marriage breakdown, separation and divorce is stressful and painful time for all involved, especially children. Despite parents best efforts to protec...
Want to Change Your Life? Law of Attraction Interview with Expert Chris Spink
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - June 21, 2016 09:36 - 54 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsDo you have any specific obstacles or challenges in your life or relationship you’re ready to overcome? Are you open to learn about and acquire powerful mindset changing tools to take your life to the next level? If you answered yes to these questions check out this interview with Chris Spink, La...
6 Ways to Support Children Through Long Distance Separation and Divorce
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - June 19, 2016 15:28 - 18 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsLong-distance children experience many changes. Often, the relationship changes rapidly and dramatically, which can be upsetting and unsettling for children. I have outlined 6 of the biggest changes children experience and some solutions to minimize the stress and change, the absence of a parent ...
7 Surprising Reasons Exercise Can Make You Happier - Relationship & Divorce Support
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - June 11, 2016 19:10 - 22 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratings7 Surprising Reasons Exercise Can Make You Happier Insomnia, Anxiety, Depression, Low Self-Confidence Are common when a relationship breaks down or ends in divorce Wondering what the future will hold and how things will turn out can send even a healthy, happy person into a state of turmoil ...
When Past Hurts Affect Your Current Love Relationship
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - June 08, 2016 15:30 - 10 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsWHEN PAST HURTS AFFECTS YOUR LOVE RELATIONSHIPS Past hurts from our previous relationships or even our childhood can get in the way of our current relationship happiness. When our partner says or does something we may get triggered and over react as: • We may fear history repeating itself • W...
How to Grow TOGETHER Not APART When Children Are Born
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - May 29, 2016 15:39 - 11 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsI'm currently working with a couple in the U.S who are struggling to communicate and connect. They like many couples thought that when their baby was born they would be closer than ever. Instead 18 months later, they feel frustrated with one another and like they are drifting apart. Sadly this i...
Regret Over Wasted Time - 5 Tips to Let Go & Move Forward
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - May 27, 2016 19:13 - 10 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsYou can waste your food. You can waste your money. You can waste your clothes... But wasting time is a whole other ball game. I'm not referring to the hour you spent in traffic or 2 hours you spent watching a trashy movie. I am talking about months and years of wasted time people stay in unhappy...
7 Questions to Know if Your Expectations Are Too High
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - May 27, 2016 19:13 - 11 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsWhen expectations are not being met on a consistent basis in a marriage it can often lead to disappointment, destruction and sometimes divorce. As our expectations of others, our relationships, our self and how we expect live our life directly impact our happiness it is important to know if our e...
8 Ways To Ensure Hobbies Help Not Hurt Your Relationship
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - May 27, 2016 19:13 - 8 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsWhether you or your partners hobby is triathlon's, golf, video gaming, sailing, football... many marriages suffer from a hobby that one passionately embraces and the other sees as nothing but an intrusion. If not dealt with, the built up frustration and resentment can lead to explosive rows or di...
8 Ways to Overcome Insecurities After an Affair or Break Up
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - May 07, 2016 19:39 - 11 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsInsecurity is a feeling of general unease that is triggered by perceiving oneself to be inferior in some way or vulnerable. Listening to our inner critic can do serious damage to our self-esteem. It can cause us to feel desperate toward our partner or pull back, get angry and reject them in fear...
Help My Spouses Negativity Is Bringing Down - 5 secrets to keep you feeling good and your energy high
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - May 01, 2016 19:24 - 12 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsIt's extremely challenging to live with a negative person. They may have depression or they may be habitually negative and cannot see how miserable they are making themselves and the toxic effect they are having on others. They may even mock you for being positive or naive when you see the good i...
Were Only Staying Together For The Children
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - April 24, 2016 19:30 - 12 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsWhen couples come to me saying that "we're only together for the children" I can't help but feel concerned for their future happiness and marriage and like to suggest an alternative plan. You see when couples think, say and believe that there is nothing else but their children holding them toge...
When Will I Stop Feeling Guilty? 7 Truths to Eliminate Post Breakup & Divorce Guilt
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - April 20, 2016 06:31 - 14 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsWhen will I stop feeling guilty? Is a question that comes up frequently in my private online sessions. Typically it's where after much deliberation and consideration someone has decided to leave their marriage and cannot shake off the breakup and divorce guilt. Some worry about how their ex has...
All It Takes Is Good Habits - Interview with Weight Loss Expert Carole Holditch
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - April 20, 2016 06:18 - 25 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsDuring relationship challenges and divorce it is common to either overeat or not eat and neither aids recovery. To change your life "All It Takes Is Good Habits" - I borrowed this line from Carol Holditch founder of Good Habits UAE, it’s the slogan for her business which has helped hundreds of m...
If I'm SO Amazing then Why am I Still Single?
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - April 09, 2016 20:18 - 22 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsThis episode is for single men and women, looking for love. Want to know why so many people struggle with finding incredible relationships? No… it’s not because there aren’t any good women or men left out there, or because they are in the wrong city, profession, or wrong time in their life. And ...
Having a Shared Meaning in Marriage Is The Glue That Can Hold it Together
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - April 02, 2016 20:03 - 13 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsWhat is Your Reason for Being Together? Do you have a Purpose for sharing a Life with one Another? Gottman in his book "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" that has sold over a million copies worldwide, states that in order to have a successful marriage we must create a shared meanin...
12 Tips for Successful Long-Distance Parenting - Staying Connected After Divorce
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - March 24, 2016 00:00 - 18 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsOf all the challenges, change and stress divorce brings, long distance parenting is one of the most painful and difficult to face. And yet, it is a very real experience for countless numbers of divorced families. In this episode I will explore common reasons for long-distance parenting, the chang...
Do Teenagers Need Support Or Space Through Divorce? What are the Warning Signs?
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - March 18, 2016 06:56 - 15 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsWhen it comes to teenagers and divorce, many parents can find difficult to know whether teenagers need space or support. In this episode I cover the 3 warning signs to look out for, so you can decide if extra care or additional help is needed. If you like this, you may also like my free e-book P...
What do Men Need from Relationships?
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - March 12, 2016 19:44 - 12 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsWhat Do Men Need from Relationships? Well certainly the worst advice you can ever receive when it comes to meeting a man's needs is "treat them mean, keep them keen!" According to Dr Harley's research many of us fall in love with our partners partly because of the compliments they give us. So...
When Does Drinking Become A Problem In A Relationship?
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - March 12, 2016 13:29 - 16 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsSo when does drinking become a problem in a marriage? Is it when the drinker recognizes they have a dependency? Is it when the non-drinker says they have a problem? Is it when the drinking is interfering with the relationship? Alcohol consumption in my coaching has been linked to an increase in...
Criticism in Relationships Doesn't Work - Marriage & Divorce Counseling
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - January 23, 2016 09:16 - 23 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsI don’t believe “Constructive Criticism” works in close relationships, especially between husband and wife. Criticism kill passion, love and closeness Just the same way Self-Criticism diminishes self-esteem, confidence and overall happiness. Even in business surveys and statistical data show t...
Strategies to help make New Habits & Changes Stick
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - January 10, 2016 15:09 - 12 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsDid you make any New Year resolutions? Perhaps you don’t believe in them but have been wanting to make some positive changes in 2016. Either way, how are the changes going? If you have failed to do what you planned, don’t give up! Set-backs happen, just recommit to your goals and start aga...
Combat Separation Anxiety & Divorce Fears in 3 Steps
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - January 03, 2016 20:02 - 14 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsThe first conversation and thoughts about ending your marriage often results in numerous questions, doubts and fears come flooding in. If you’re unsure, you may think it’s safer to ignore and bury your feelings but this won’t help you long-term. Fears must be dealt with, addressed or put to rest...
Feel the Fear And Do It Anyway - Overcome Relationship Fears
Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer - December 30, 2015 19:04 - 19 minutes ★★★★ - 27 ratingsFace and overcome your fears this year. Whether it’s a fear of loving and trusting again after a break up, a fear of loving fully to your partner after a rough patch, a fear of starting something new. When we address our fears we become powerful. In this episode you will learn a 5 step process t...
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