Latest Johnhoward Podcast Episodes
34 The Power of Expectations
The John Howard Show - November 14, 2018 06:13 - 17 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsIn this episode, you'll learn why expectations of care and support are so important and how you can communicate about them with your partner. “We have the ability to reflect on the mindset that we’re bringing to our relationship and be curious about whether we’re bringing the mindset that expe...
33 Learning and Growing as a Couple
The John Howard Show - November 07, 2018 04:00 - 59 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsIn this episode, I speak with real-life couple Liz and Steven Coufal about how they learn and grow together in relationship. “It isn’t about not fighting, it’s about fighting well. And fighting well comes from fighting from the same side of the table”– Liz Coufal Learn more about this episod...
32 How to Have a Vibrant Relationship for Life
The John Howard Show - October 31, 2018 05:21 - 55 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsTune in for a conversation with founder of modern couples therapy, Ellyn Bader, PhD about the field of Couples Therapy and relationship as a path of growth. “We see healthy, evolving couples relationships as having the potential to move through a series of developmental stages. And when couple...
31 What is a Relational Repair?
The John Howard Show - October 24, 2018 04:30 - 52 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsTune in to learn how disconnection can be an opportunity to create deeper intimacy with your partner when you engage in effective relationship repair. “We need these misattunements, these moments of disconnection so that there’s an opportunity to deepen understanding and deepen love.” - John H...
30 Crushing Life as a Couple with AJ Yager & Meaghan Connell
The John Howard Show - October 17, 2018 08:38 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsTune in for an interview with entrepreneurial power couple AJ Yager & Meaghan Connell about how they communicate and help each other grow as individuals. “If there is a self, it’s a very changeable entity. And if we allow our relationships to expand us, we can go way beyond who we thought we w...
29 Raising Smart Kids with Jeff Sandefer
The John Howard Show - October 10, 2018 03:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsTune in for a discussion with Acton Academy founder Jeff Sandefer about how you can help your kids become entrepreneurial creative thinkers. “If you’re in the middle of a startup, you need permission from your significant other and your kids that you’re not going to be around as much. And then...
28 How To Find A Great Therapist
The John Howard Show - October 03, 2018 03:00 - 44 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsTune in to learn how to find a highly trained couples therapist with the right credentials who is an ideal fit for you and your partner. “Sometimes when we’re having conflict with our partner, it’s not necessarily the bad kind. A couples therapist can help you understand the difference. Good c...
27 Keeping it Simple with John Welbourn
The John Howard Show - September 26, 2018 03:00 - 58 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsVeteran NFL lineman John Welbourn used to beat people for a living, now he's a family man. Hear his approach to parenting, relationships, and fitness. “Sometimes you have to apologize for things you didn’t do because it helps the general good.” - John Welbourn Learn more about this episode o...
26 What Really Holds Us Back with Rob Dial
The John Howard Show - September 19, 2018 10:42 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsListen to Rob Dial and John Howard discuss how your approach to relationships affects your ability to find success and thrive as an individual. “People don’t view you as weak when you’re vulnerable; people view you as courageous.” - Rob Dial Learn more about this episode of Ready Set Love at...
25 Developing Aware Kids with Jonathan Hewitt
The John Howard Show - September 12, 2018 03:00 - 39 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsIn this episode, my guest Jonathan Hewitt talks about how you can teach your children to be aware of themselves and the people around them. “Perfection is being the best you can be in the moment, being authentic and transparent.” – Jonathan Hewitt Learn more about this episode of Ready Set L...
24 Healthy Relationship Lifestyle
The John Howard Show - September 05, 2018 09:23 - 22 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsIn this episode, you'll hear about how to cultivate a healthy relationship lifestyle that will benefit you and all of your relationships. “None of us are ready for the relationships that we’re in, even if we have relationship skills as individuals.” – John Howard Learn more about this episod...
23 The Spiritual Science of Receiving in Relationships
The John Howard Show - August 22, 2018 18:46 - 19 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsTune in to listen to how this powerful and often-overlooked quality of healthy relationships can make a big difference in your connection! “People, when they are fully received feel valued and they feel respected and they feel understood. And at least with the couples I work with, those are al...
22 The Secret Life of Emotions
The John Howard Show - August 08, 2018 03:00 - 22 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsTune in for a quick-start guide to understanding your emotions, labeling them, and then communicating them with the people in your life. “Many of us keep up our guard too much, even with people that we designate as our key go-to people. And that’s a problem, because relationships really benefi...
21 How To Solve The Pursuer-Distancer Maze
The John Howard Show - July 25, 2018 07:19 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsTune in to learn about one of the most common relationship dynamics so you can have more thoughtful and compassionate relationships! “Both partners in this dynamic have a reasonable claim to frustration, and when they each talk about why the relationship is frustrating, they both make sense, b...
20 Maturing Your Sex Life
The John Howard Show - July 11, 2018 06:43 - 55 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsMy guest Dylan Davies and I discuss how partners can improve their communication about sex, paving the way to increased desire and deeper intimacy. “You cannot perform an eroticectomy; you cannot excise the thing that turns you on the most.” – Doug Braun-Harvey Learn more about this episode ...
19 Secrets From A Pro
The John Howard Show - June 20, 2018 08:39 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsIn this episode, you'll learn about how you can get your needs met effectively as well as the 4 myths that prevent many people from doing so. “Those things that we feel a need for and a desire for are the very things that can amplify our relationship.” – John Howard Learn more about this epi...
18 How to be Truly Married
The John Howard Show - June 06, 2018 05:39 - 59 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsIn this episode, Jungian analyst, world-renowned speaker, author and Episcopal priest J. Pittman Mcgehee discusses what it means to be truly married. It’s deep, and reflects many decades of wisdom from a truly wise soul who has been on the front lines of psychotherapy and education for a long ti...
17 Dating in the 21st Century
The John Howard Show - May 23, 2018 07:04 - 34 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsThese days, dating can often be confusing and frustrating, but it doesn't have to! Tune in to hear my top-10 tips for navigating dating in the 21st century. You will learn what type of work you need to do on yourself before dating, how to develop a coherent dating strategy, and how to not burn o...
16 How To Be Attractive
The John Howard Show - May 16, 2018 03:00 - 35 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsIn this episode, I bust 3 myths that exist in popular culture about what causes people to be attracted to one another. Whether you are single or in a committed relationship, the information in this episode will help you learn to be attractive! “To the extent that we can generate more self-love...
15 What is Love?
The John Howard Show - May 09, 2018 03:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsLove is complicated and often mysterious, but you have more control over it than you may think. The ideas in this episode will help you create deeper emotional bonds with the people around you, whether by strengthening your existing relationship, or helping you form a new connection. “Love is ...
14 How to Handle an Affair
The John Howard Show - May 02, 2018 03:00 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsIn this episode, I share an overview of what you need to know about handling affairs. You’ll learn the three steps to dealing with an affair, as well as why an affair doesn't need to be a death sentence for the relationship. “You can’t gloss over the feelings that arise in the midst of an affa...
13 Parenting Tips from Neuroscience
The John Howard Show - April 25, 2018 08:06 - 24 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsIn this episode you'll learn parenting tips from the new neuroscience, developmental psychology, attachment theory, and John's own experience as a parent. You'll learn how to better regulate your child and your own emotions, and how to help your kiddo build an awesome relational map! “Kids dev...
12 How to Repair Trust in Relationships w Mojo
The John Howard Show - April 18, 2018 03:00 - 40 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsTrust is easily eroded in relationships. It's not just big ticket betrayals--it's also not calling someone back, staying out too late, or missing a birthday. Are we aware of how we decrease trust in our relationships and what can we do to repair those instances? John Howard and Mojo give you pra...
11 Deepening Intimacy in Relationships
The John Howard Show - April 11, 2018 03:00 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsWant to deepen closeness and intimacy in your relationship? The biggest complaint I get as a therapist is that partners don't feel as connected as they would like. In this episode you will learn about the different kinds of intimacy and how to deepen each one in your relationship. “Show yourse...
10 Open, Kink, Poly & Alt-Sex in Relationships
The John Howard Show - April 04, 2018 03:00 - 53 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsGet answers for the most commonly-asked questions about open relationships, kink, polyamory, and alt-sex lifestyles from my guest, Heather McPherson. You'll learn what alt-sex is, communication techniques for exploring your desires with your partner, and many other things that will expand your r...
09 Spiritual Growth in Relationship
The John Howard Show - March 28, 2018 03:00 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsIf you learn how to interact with your partner in a way that brings the focus to spiritual and personal growth, not only will your relationship improve, but you will also see the world in a new way and move through life with more maturity. You will be more present in the moment, more curious, an...
08 Carrie Contey - Parenting while Thriving
The John Howard Show - March 21, 2018 03:00 - 47 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsCarrie Contey teaches us how parenting can negatively impact the adult relationships of the parents and gives us a number of powerful, research-supported strategies that will empower parents in their adult relationships, giving them the support they need to parent successfully. “Think of it as...
07 Tori Olds PhD - Being our True Self in Relationships
The John Howard Show - March 19, 2018 17:00 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsIn this episode Dr. Tori Olds talks with us about finding your true self in a relationship and how a relationship built on the key ingredient of curiosity is one that leads to greater bonding and love. Learn more about this episode of Ready set Love at www.readysetlove.com.
06 Maja Kermath - #MeToo & Patriarchy in Relationships
The John Howard Show - March 07, 2018 18:00 - 43 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsMaja is the co-founder and fearless leader of Kor180. Maja is on the show today to share her story of both pain and triumph which will help you broach the same topics in your relationship. Learn more about this episode of Ready set Love at www.readysetlove.com.
05 Developing Presence with your Partner
The John Howard Show - February 28, 2018 18:00 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 105 ratingsIt's time that we focus on what drives the sense of presence, security, connection, and love. In this episode we will dive into several ways you can improve your presence with the most important person in your life. "Where is your attention going when you are with your partner?" - John Howard...
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