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Social Injustice - George Floyd Mattered #BlackLivesMatter

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - May 31, 2020 03:00 - 11 minutes
This is my response to the murder of George Floyd at the hands of a police officer.  I’m 55 years old. I was born in 1965.  Before I was 5 years old, Martin Luther King would be murdered, Drag Queens and trans women would fight off the police in front of Stonewall, and the United States would ...

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BAM: From Oppression to Celebration

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - May 29, 2020 14:00 - 25 minutes
Today’s episode is the 2nd installment of my “Being a Man” series. This is an intimate 1on1 between me and you, the listener.  I will present ideas on “living” on “being” (as in Being A Man) that I find useful in my own life. Being A Man episodes are: part older brother insight, part theoretic...

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Dr. Don Kilhefner: Wisdom of the Tribal Elder

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - May 22, 2020 14:00 - 52 minutes
Today’s guest is Dr. Don Kilhefner. I wanted to interview Dr. Don Kilhefner because his name and accomplishments show up nearly every time I do work on elevating Gay Male Existence. He’s a living icon of gay activism. In his 80’s, he is still a dynamic force in the gay community. As you will h...

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Wisdom of the Tribal Elder with Dr. Don Kilhefner

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - May 22, 2020 14:00 - 52 minutes
Today’s guest is Dr. Don Kilhefner. I wanted to interview Dr. Don Kilhefner because his name and accomplishments show up nearly every time I do work on elevating Gay Male Existence. He’s a living icon of gay activism. In his 80’s, he is still a dynamic force in the gay community. As you will h...

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Yuval David: The Loving Adventurer

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - May 15, 2020 15:00 - 1 hour
Today I talk with Yuval David. Yuval is an accomplished actor, filmmaker, content creator, and activist. But the biggest reason I wanted to have a conversation with him is because of his attitude. His motivation for doing all of these things comes from a place of love. If you have already list...

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Q&A: Hey Gerle, why do gay men...?

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - May 08, 2020 15:00 - 54 minutes
This is the first in a series of Q&A episodes. Feel free to submit your questions via Facebook, Twitter or using the voice memo feature on your smartphone and emailing it to [email protected]. Enjoy the show! We talked about: Why did you start this podcast? [06:59] Is there anything that’s of...

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Intuition is Everything with Dr. Frankie Bashan

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - May 01, 2020 15:00 - 56 minutes
Today I talk with Dr. Frankie Bashan, renowned relationship coach and dating expert. Dr. Frankie Bashan (or, just Dr. Frankie) is the founder of Little Gay Book, the most successful exclusively lesbian (and bisexual women) matchmaking agency in the United States. I wanted to interview Dr. Fr...

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Intuition is Everything with Dr. Frankie Bashan

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - May 01, 2020 15:00 - 56 minutes
Today I talk with Dr. Frankie Bashan, renowned relationship coach and dating expert. Dr. Frankie Bashan (or, just Dr. Frankie) is the founder of Little Gay Book, the most successful exclusively lesbian (and bisexual women) matchmaking agency in the United States. I wanted to interview Dr. Fr...

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Dr. Frankie Bashan - Intuition is Everything

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - May 01, 2020 15:00 - 56 minutes
Today I talk with Dr. Frankie Bashan, renowned relationship coach and dating expert. Dr. Frankie Bashan (or, just Dr. Frankie) is the founder of Little Gay Book, the most successful exclusively lesbian (and bisexual women) matchmaking agency in the United States. I wanted to interview Dr. Fr...

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Dr. Frankie Bashan: Intuition is Everything

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - May 01, 2020 15:00 - 56 minutes
Today I talk with Dr. Frankie Bashan, renowned relationship coach and dating expert. Dr. Frankie Bashan (or, just Dr. Frankie) is the founder of Little Gay Book, the most successful exclusively lesbian (and bisexual women) matchmaking agency in the United States. I wanted to interview Dr. Fr...

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JD Wolfe: Mentors and My Hero’s Journey

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - April 24, 2020 16:00 - 1 hour
Today, I’m speaking to JD Wolfe. I wanted to interview JD because I saw his gifts in action in brotherhood at the ManKind Project (MKP). It’s a pleasure to have JD Wolfe joining us on today’s podcast to discuss (among other things) re-framing our gay personal history as a hero's journey, health...

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My Hero’s Journey & Mentors with JD Wolfe

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - April 24, 2020 16:00 - 1 hour
Today, I’m speaking to JD Wolfe. I wanted to interview JD because I saw his gifts in action in brotherhood at the ManKind Project (MKP). It’s a pleasure to have JD Wolfe joining us on today’s podcast to discuss (among other things) re-framing our gay personal history as a hero's journey, health...

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BAM: The Courage to Feel

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - April 17, 2020 16:00 - 31 minutes
Welcome to the "Being A Man" series! These are not “BE a man” directives. Instead, I present ideas on “living” and “being” I find useful in my own life. I’m not telling you what to do to prove you’re a man. I’m sharing insight on “being,” the inward reflections of a conscious man who knows wha...

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WeHo Mayor John D’Amico, COVID-19 & AIDS

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - April 10, 2020 18:00 - 47 minutes
Today we talk with the Mayor of West Hollywood, John D’Amico. He’s a civic leader who recently contracted COVID-19 and is here to tell us his story. I first met Mayor D’Amico when I was working in the City Manager’s Office at West Hollywood City Hall. Later, John believed in my vision of creati...

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The Queer Hero's Journey with Sister Unity

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - April 03, 2020 18:00 - 56 minutes
Blessings from Sister Unity.  Sister Unity and I met more than 25 years ago at a photo shoot where the boys were naked and the sisters were in full, clownlike “face”: bright-colored heretical nun gear. We were shooting for a “cooking calendar” fundraiser. I stood on set naked while Sister Uni...

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Connection, Death, Sex and Opportunity

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - March 27, 2020 21:00 - 13 minutes
As a culture, we are facing a sexual moratorium that, for gay men, is simultaneously familiar and completely new. I discuss the impact on gay men’s connecting culture, hooking up, missing the gym, AIDS vs. Coronavirus, and the opportunities this social isolation presents. The GerleMen team was...

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Growing up “girly”.

Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality - March 21, 2020 00:00 - 2 minutes
I grew up in the late 70s and early 80s as a kid in the state of Nebraska, Wyoming and Idaho with a last name pronounced girly. Yeah, you heard that right, girly. That name was challenging. It was a daily experience and being seen for who I was a gay boy. And then lying to everyone, telling the...

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