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How to Get Your Spouse to Listen to You

Marriaging: The Marriage Podcast with Jessica Fairfax - October 28, 2019 07:00 - 10 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings
Overview of this Episode You feel unheard. You want your spouse to tune in and listen to what you’re feeling and what you need. It can be so challenging to get them on the same page. It leaves you feeling more frustrated, and possibly stuck in conflict or further disconnected. In this episode,...

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Know Yourself Before the Relationship, with Taylor Looney, LMFT-A

Marriaging: The Marriage Podcast with Jessica Fairfax - October 21, 2019 07:00 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings
Taylor Looney, LMFT-A shares about her work with young adults. This episode is especially helpful for college-aged students and young adults who are single or early in their relationships. Overview: Taylor shares about how her work experience has given her insight into the importance of youn...

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009 Is Resignation Shaping Your Relationship?

Relationship By Design - October 15, 2019 21:28 - 2 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
www.RelationshipByDesign.com If you really listen to yourselves talking about your relationships, you’ll hear (1) how often you exaggerate with “always” and “never” - which fills your future with your past - and (2) how often you unconsciously talk about what happened in the past as if it’s ha...

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Your Defensiveness in Your Relationship

Marriaging: The Marriage Podcast with Jessica Fairfax - October 14, 2019 07:00 - 14 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings
Defensiveness is hard to stop in yourself, and hurtful for your relationship. In this episode, we cover ways you can check yourself and calm yourself to not let defensiveness run wild in your heart and your relationship. Your defensiveness might be escalating arguments or putting up walls betw...

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Your Spouse's Defensiveness and How You Can Respond

Marriaging: The Marriage Podcast with Jessica Fairfax - October 07, 2019 07:00 - 12 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings
Defensiveness in your relationship is harmful. It’s important for you to know how to respond when your spouse gets defensive, and how to communicate in a way that facilitates keeping guards down and listening to each other. Have you ever tried to have a conversation with your spouse, and they ...

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Episode 065: How to Get an Expert to Help your Relationship Without Having to See One

Relationships Uncomplicated - October 03, 2019 10:00 - 25 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
Tackling a big relationship issue that has the potential to end it? You know you need an expert to help you, but how do you get the best of the best to work with you? This episode is mind shifting because it will change your understanding about how to get help from professionals you normally c...

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Time Together vs. Time Alone

Marriaging: The Marriage Podcast with Jessica Fairfax - September 30, 2019 07:00 - 13 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings
Time Together vs. Time Alone Finding a balance between your personal time and time spent with your partner can sometimes be challenging. You or your spouse might be really good at spending time alone, whether that’s for your self-care, your personal hobbies, or other activities. But if that’s ...

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Time Together vs. Time Alone

Marriaging: The Marriage Podcast with Jessica Fairfax - September 30, 2019 07:00 - 13 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings
Time Together vs. Time Alone Finding a balance between your personal time and time spent with your partner can sometimes be challenging. You or your spouse might be really good at spending time alone, whether that’s for your self-care, your personal hobbies, or other activities. But if that’s ...

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008 Strike 2: Fear In Relationships Part 1

Relationship By Design - September 27, 2019 00:18 - 11 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
www.RelationshipByDesign.com  Commitments and promises are the foundation for every relationship. What is the basis for your relationships? For ALL relationships? There’s a foundation that all relationships rest, lay, or stand on. For the most part, as human beings, we haven’t really looked ...

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Your Relationship is Not a Fairytale

Marriaging: The Marriage Podcast with Jessica Fairfax - September 26, 2019 07:00 - 44 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings
Your Relationship is Not a Fairytale: Purposeful Love, with Morgan Huffines Morgan Huffines, LMFT-A talks about issues millennial couples face when the lust phase, or honeymoon phase, ends. Intimacy is about vulnerability. We have the rom-com idea of what we want our relationship to be like...

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Relationship Roles in Your Marriage

Marriaging: The Marriage Podcast with Jessica Fairfax - September 23, 2019 07:00 - 11 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings
Navigating relationship roles can be challenging, especially early on in your relationship, or when you and your partner are facing seasons of change. In this episode, we discuss the ways your relationship roles might be defined, and how you and your partner can have honest and productive conver...

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Low Self-Esteem and Your Relationship

Marriaging: The Marriage Podcast with Jessica Fairfax - September 18, 2019 01:19 - 17 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings
Low self-esteem can take quite a toll on your relationship. In this episode, we’re digging deeper into understanding what low self-esteem is, the signs you can look for, and how your low self-esteem affects your relationship. We’re also talking about what you can do, individually and with your p...

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007: Are We Doing Politics The Way We Do Relationships?

Relationship By Design - September 17, 2019 12:28 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
www.RelationshipByDesign.com  Today Paul Bennett from Relationship By Design is reading his blog post about Politics and Relationships.  There’s a lot of dissatisfaction and unhappiness in American politics today. There’s a lot of dissatisfaction and unhappiness in relationships, too. Could ...

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Your Phone and Your Relationship

Marriaging: The Marriage Podcast with Jessica Fairfax - September 16, 2019 23:38 - 15 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings
Overview of this Episode:  You and your partner might be feeling disconnected lately. And there’s a chance some of the disconnection could stem from too much focus being on the phone screen, and not enough focus on each other. With social media, group messages, emails, and any information you ...

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Introduction to Marriaging Podcast

Marriaging: The Marriage Podcast with Jessica Fairfax - September 15, 2019 19:31 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings
Welcome to the Marriaging podcast! This episode is created to give you a brief introduction to the podcast, and to share with you what you can expect moving forward. The goal of the Marriaging podcast is to help you approach your relationship with authenticity, to improve your communication and ...

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006 Strike 1: The Fantasy

Relationship By Design - September 12, 2019 04:41 - 14 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
www.RelationshipByDesign.com  Today Sandy and Lon Golnick are talking about the “fantasy” in a relationship they call Strike 1. They’ll be covering the problems; what you’re looking for; everything you want, all the time, everywhere, w/everyone, forever - and that fantasy is not going away. ...

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006 Strike 1: The Fairy Tale

Relationship By Design - September 12, 2019 04:41 - 14 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
www.RelationshipByDesign.com  Today Sandy and Lon Golnick are talking about the “fairy tale” in a relationship they call Strike 1. They’ll be covering the problems; what you’re looking for; everything you want, all the time, everywhere, w/everyone, forever - and that fantasy is not going away....

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Episode 064: Episode 064: Are you in a Parent - Child Relationship With Your Spouse?

Relationships Uncomplicated - September 10, 2019 18:04 - 14 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
Are you and your spouse equal partners in your relationship? Or has one of you become more of a parent to the other? When a couple starts to fall into a parent-child dynamic, codependency, rather than a balanced, cooperative relationship starts to emerge. Essentially, this means that the overa...

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005 What’s Hidden From View

Relationship By Design - September 06, 2019 04:59 - 6 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
www.RelationshipByDesign.com  Unseen conditions undermine effectiveness. Today Sandy and Lon Golnick take a look at what’s hidden from our view when we have upsets or concerns, and breakdowns in relationships. So what happens when you don’t see what’s actually going on?  If you’re new to R...

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004 What Is A Relationship?

Relationship By Design - August 29, 2019 13:03 - 5 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
www.RelationshipByDesign.com  Subtitled: Synonyms, characteristics, actions; you don’t know; problems; blame. Today Sandy and Lon Golnick have a short conversation discussing “What is a relationship?” The question is not answered here, but what’s given are a few things to consider when attem...

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003 Three Facts About Relationship

Relationship By Design - August 23, 2019 03:17 - 7 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
www.RelationshipByDesign.com  Today Sandy and Lon Golnick have a short conversation about the 3 facts about relationships in hopes of leaving you with questioning, wondering, and curiosity about relationships. Relationships are natural. There is no escaping breakdowns in your relationships ...

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002 Strong, Lasting Relationships

Relationship By Design - August 15, 2019 05:14 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
www.RelationshipByDesign.com Does your relationship have what it takes to last? A relationship could be considered to be a structure. And like any structure, its strength and durability is determined by its foundation. A strong foundation produces a strong, lasting relationship. The streng...

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Get Real About Relationship

Relationship By Design - August 03, 2019 05:15 - 49 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
www.RelationshipByDesign.com Lon and Sandy Golnick were interviewed in the mid-2000s by their good friend and associate Jill Raiguel, MS, MST, and who is a California Marriage & Family Therapist. It was recorded and engineered by Bill Corkery Productions. The recording became a CD which we've r...

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Episode 063: Who's going to Heal Your Pain After Infidelity?

Relationships Uncomplicated - March 19, 2019 19:36 - 19 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
Today, I want to talk about who can heal your pain after infidelity. You’ll learn who really can help heal the pain, who doesn’t have the power to help, and what you can do if you’re stuck feeling unable to move past the hurt. I dive into the topic by telling you about a contact that I recentl...

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Episode 062: Will it Take a Miracle to Save Your Relationship?

Relationships Uncomplicated - January 21, 2019 11:00 - 18 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
Feel like you don't even know what is going to make your relationship work anymore? Let relationship expert Idit Sharoni give you a surprising strategie to help you get insight as to what can save your relationship, when everything seems like chaos.  As promised in the episode, here's what y...

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Announcement

Relationships Uncomplicated - November 27, 2018 17:11 - 3 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
We're deep into creation mode, and a a result my team and myself are taking a short break. We will be back with more great episodes filled with relationship tips and ideas on January 21st, 2019.  Until then, have a happy holiday season and a wonderful New Year! Don't forget to check back in ...

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Episode 061: Make Your Couples Counseling a Success

Relationships Uncomplicated - October 22, 2018 10:00 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
Have you stopped couples counseling because there was no result? Are you now in the stages of looking for a therapist but aren't sure what to look for? Do you desperately wish you had a tool to measure whether couples therapy is the right fit for you? Couples therapist Idit Sharoni shares from...

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Episode 060: Why Do You have to Be so Defensive?

Relationships Uncomplicated - October 08, 2018 10:00 - 19 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
If you are human, you probably engaged in escalating a conflict by being defensive. In this episode, relationship expert Idit Sharoni shares what is defensiveness, how it looks inside a conversation, what it does, and how to avoid it. You'll get tools and ideas on what you can do when you feel...

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Episode 059: Once a Cheater Always a Cheater… Thoughts and ways to know

Relationships Uncomplicated - September 17, 2018 10:00 - 19 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
Betrayed partners are exposed to a great amount of uncertainty when they learn their spouse has been unfaithful. One of the things they often hear is "Once a cheater always a cheater". Is this ture? Listen to Miami's relationship expert Idit Sharoni expressing her thoughts and ideas about the ...

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Episode 058: How to handle partners who feel uncared for and unappreciated

Relationships Uncomplicated - August 27, 2018 10:00 - 22 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
Do you hear from your spouse that they need to feel more loved? Do they tell you you're not making time for them, attending to them, or making them feel appreciated enough? That is a very real issue for many modern relationships these days. So, how do you make your partner feel loved and cared...

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