Latest Couplescounseling Podcast Episodes

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Episode 083: Can you Heal from Infidelity Without Full Remorse?

Relationships Uncomplicated - July 08, 2024 10:00 - 46 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
Are you struggling to heal after an affair when your partner isn’t fully remorseful? Join us for this eye-opening episode of "Relationships Uncomplicated," where host Idit Sharoni, LMFT, along with experts Dr. Yael Haklai-Neagu and Ana De la Cruz, delves into whether couples can recover from inf...

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Episode 082: Overcoming Biases in Infidelity Recovery

Relationships Uncomplicated - April 26, 2024 10:00 - 47 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
🎙️ Welcome to Episode 82 of the Relationships Uncomplicated podcast! In this episode, titled "Overcoming Biases in Infidelity Recovery," host Idit Sharoni, LMFT delves into a topic that's often overlooked but profoundly impactful: the biases surrounding infidelity. 💔 Infidelity doesn't just sh...

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Episode 081: A Guide to Joint Recovery When Infidelity Strikes Both Ways

Relationships Uncomplicated - April 05, 2024 10:00 - 23 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
In this episode of the Relationships Uncomplicated podcast, host and affair recovery expert Idit Sharoni, LMFT delves into the intricate process of navigating healing when both partners have been unfaithful. Titled "A Guide to Joint Recovery When Infidelity Strikes Both Ways," Idit explores th...

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Episode 080: How to Rebuild Trust After Cheating: Earn It!

Relationships Uncomplicated - January 19, 2024 11:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
If you and your partner are navigating the challenging journey of affair recovery, understanding how to rebuild trust after infidelity is crucial. In this episode, we delve into the intricate process of earning back trust that has been lost in a relationship. Join us as we explore the evolutio...

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Episode 079: How Can Someone Who Loves Me Betray Me?

Relationships Uncomplicated - September 12, 2023 10:00 - 43 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
In this intriguing podcast episode, the topic of love and betrayal takes center stage, prompting us to explore the complex dynamics that arise when the people we cherish deeply hurt us. Idit Sharoni hosts her team of experts in order to shed a light on this topic. She begins with asking Alana ...

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Episode 078: Can conventional couples therapy help you heal from infidelity?

Relationships Uncomplicated - May 01, 2023 10:00 - 50 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
Have you wondered whether conventional couples therapy can help you heal from infidelity? Is it effective for infidelity recovery? Do you want helpful options in the aftermath of infidelity or an affair recovery? You aren’t alone. Unfortunately, there isn’t much information out there to trul...

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Episode 077: The Undetected Cause of Infidelity

Relationships Uncomplicated - March 07, 2023 18:31 - 24 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
You don’t want to miss this article. In fact, I can’t believe we haven’t talked about this  before. Why? Because this topic is too important to skip. What I’m about to share with you has a way of hiding in the shadows of too many relationships… First, you probably know that infidelity happens ...

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Episode 076: Hypnotherapy, Connection, and Change with Dr. Douglas Flemons

Relationships Uncomplicated - August 08, 2022 10:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
We are very excited and thankful to interview psychotherapist and hypnotherapist Douglas Flemons, Ph.D., LMFT. Both Yael (my co-host for this episode) and I, having had the opportunity to learn from him in different capacities, greatly appreciated Dr. Flemons’s willingness to meet with us and sh...

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Episode 075: Talking About the “Us” in your Relationship with Terry Real, Part 2 of 2

Relationships Uncomplicated - June 27, 2022 10:00 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
Idit Sharoni interviews Terry Real who is an internationally recognized family therapist, speaker, and author. He is the founder of the Relational Life Institute and wrote THE book on male depression. Idit & Terry discuss therapy in the aftermath of infidelity and his newest book US: Getting P...

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Episode 074: Talking About the “Us” in your Relationship with Terry Real, Part 1 of 2

Relationships Uncomplicated - June 26, 2022 10:00 - 34 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
Idit Sharoni interviews Terry Real who is an internationally recognized family therapist, speaker, and author. He is the founder of the Relational Life Institute and wrote THE book on male depression. Idit & Terry discuss relationships, individualism, couples therapy, and his newest book US: G...

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Episode 73: How Long Does Affair Recovery Take?

Relationships Uncomplicated - May 23, 2022 10:00 - 39 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
Are you wondering if you're healing at a normal pace? Well, in this episode I will not be telling you how long you and your spouse "should" be taking to heal. Instead, I’ll provide you with tools to make an educated estimate based on important variables.  Links mentioned in this episode: Inf...

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Episode 072: What Makes a Therapist a Relationship Expert

Relationships Uncomplicated - February 07, 2022 11:00 - 44 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
What makes a therapist a relationship expert? How can you make sure that you’re hiring the most qualified relationship expert to help you save your marriage?   We can all agree that not all therapists are relationship experts. Moreover, there are those who call themselves relationship expe...

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Episode 071: Does infidelity pain ever go away?

Relationships Uncomplicated - October 11, 2021 10:00 - 55 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
Are you hurting badly now and wondering whether infidelity pain will ever go away? Are you concerned about what life will be like after you heal? This is not unusual. This, or some form of this line of thinking, is a concern both hurt and unfaithful partners share. This is particularly true fo...

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Episode 070: Intrusive Thoughts After Infidelity: How to Help Your Partner Get Past Infidelity PTSD Triggers

Relationships Uncomplicated - May 27, 2021 10:00 - 25 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
In this episode relationship expert Idit Sharoni discusses the symptoms of infidelity PTSD including intrusive thoughts and how to help your hurt partner get past the triggers. She also shares about whether it is even possible to help a hurt partner with this and the do’s and don’ts around that. 

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Episode 069: Can an Affair Recovery Program Save Your Relationship

Relationships Uncomplicated - May 10, 2021 10:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
I recently met with Dr. Marie Murphy on her podcast, Your Secret is Safe With Me to discuss how an affair recovery program can help couples in the aftermath of infidelity. We also shared about how unfaithful partners can get help ending affairs or making decisions on how to proceed with an ongoi...

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Episode 068: How to Recover From Infidelity PTSD

Relationships Uncomplicated - March 29, 2021 00:41 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
One of the most common yet difficult issues hurt partners experience in the aftermath of infidelity is post trauma symptoms or PTSD. I interview relationship expert Yael Haklai-Neagu, LMFT who specializes in helping hurt partners handle their intrusive thoughts and Hypervigilance as a result o...

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023 Compromise In Relationships

Relationship By Design - October 28, 2020 07:30 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
Today our topic is “Compromise in Relationships" recorded with the community on October 10, 2020. Happy Halloween! Anyone can join in on these calls by going to our Community Page and sign-up to receive notifications about upcoming calls. Contact Us Sandy & Lon Golnick www.RelationshipBy...

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Episode 067: What Hurt Partners Need Most in Affair Recovery

Relationships Uncomplicated - September 29, 2020 10:00 - 20 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings
In the aftermath of infidelity, what does a hurt partner need most? What comes to mind? Most people, unfaithful partners, or even therapists routinely answer the same way: hurt partners need true remorse from the betrayer, to forgive, and to know why among other things.  Of course, these a...

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022 Community Call: The Pitfalls of Promises

Relationship By Design - September 01, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
Today our topic is “The Pitfalls of Promises” on our twice-monthly Zoom Community Call. At the end of the call, someone asked if there would be a replay of the call? We took a poll to make sure nobody would have any problem if we shared the complete call. Nobody objected so here it is. The com...

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021 Community Call: You can do it. Or you can pretend you can’t.

Relationship By Design - August 25, 2020 21:48 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
The original title of this episode recorded on August 15, 2020, was “Do you have your relationship handled? Part 2" HOWEVER at the top of the call Lon asked the question “What’s possible with going forward?” So as it is with all relationships, things change. Carol England gave us permission ...

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020 Community Call Exploring: Do You Have Your Relationship Handled?

Relationship By Design - August 04, 2020 08:00 - 19 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
We thought today we’d give you more excerpts from the Community Calls we have a few times a month. We take people’s privacy seriously. You’ll only be hearing from the leaders of Relationship By Design. If you like what you hear, consider joining us for the next call by going to the Community pag...

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019 Community Call Excerpts July 11, 2020

Relationship By Design - July 21, 2020 10:00 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
We thought today we’d give you some excerpts from the Community Calls we have a few times a month. We take people’s privacy seriously. You’ll only be hearing from the leaders of Relationship By Design. If you like what you hear, consider joining us for the next call by going to the Community pag...

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018 What if a Snarky Remark is a Red Flag?

Relationship By Design - July 07, 2020 10:00 - 3 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
Have you ever said something snarky, spiteful, unkind, or just plain thoughtless, to someone you love?  How did it go?  Did you get into a fight or hear a defensive reaction? Or worse. Perhaps you ended a relationship.  It happened to us and opened a door to greater intimacy. As Paul started t...

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017 Irritations in Relationships

Relationship By Design - June 23, 2020 19:16 - 3 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
At the beginning of our workshop, “Relationship: The Real Deal,” some participants are startled when we announce this intention:  “The issues you have been dealing with, trying to fix, or just plain tolerating … dissolve/disappear simply by being in relationship.” For people who believe that...

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016 When Your Relationship Isn’t Working, What Should You Do?

Relationship By Design - June 09, 2020 12:49 - 2 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
Well, our first question for you is, “Are you willing to set aside your penchant to fix, change or leave your relationship?” Leaving, either physically or emotionally, surely doesn’t resolve anything. It simply transports your concerns to your next relationship. But staying and trying to dea...

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015 Ordinary to Extraordinary… in a Moment

Relationship By Design - May 26, 2020 23:31 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
How do people move from ordinary relationship to extraordinary relationship? In ordinary relationship, we react to upsets by pulling out of the experience of relationship, the experience that we actually long for.  It’s extraordinary to be aware that upset, irritation or annoyance are simply...

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Finding Adventure and Connection in the Ordinary, with Jason Frishman, PsyD.

Marriaging: The Marriage Podcast with Jessica Fairfax - May 04, 2020 07:00 - 46 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings
Jason Frishman, PsyD, shares his insights into creating adventure and meaningful connection in the everyday activities of life. We’re often taught the adventure story of the hero’s journey. We think we have to do grand, extraordinary things. It’s important for us to have a new perspective an...

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Desire Differences with Jessica Cline, MSW, LCSW

Marriaging: The Marriage Podcast with Jessica Fairfax - April 27, 2020 07:00 - 49 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings
Jessica Cline, a Clinical Sexologist and Licensed Clinical Social Worker, discusses sexual desire differences in relationships. Many couples experiences desire differences and need help navigating their sexual life.   What couples experience with sexual desire differences People often set t...

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Love Languages with Bridget Boursiquot, MSW, LICSW

Marriaging: The Marriage Podcast with Jessica Fairfax - April 20, 2020 07:00 - 53 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings
Bridget discusses love languages and how we can all have relational care through understanding the basic work needed to create a healthy foundation. We often speak to our partner in the love language we want to receive instead of understanding how they receive love. 5 Love Languages (Develop...

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014 Preview Our “Distancing Relationship” Community Zoom Call

Relationship By Design - April 16, 2020 16:26 - 40 minutes ★★★★★ - 3 ratings
For many of us during this time of “physical distancing” we’re finding ourselves at home, sheltered in place, and in close-quarters with family members, and just maybe feeling a bit overwhelmed by it all. We have a community Zoom call coming up Sunday April 19, 2020 at 4 PM Pacific. Today in t...

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