Your POV podcast
37 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 2 years ago - ★★★★★ - 9 ratingsHey everyone! We are Jeff and Jara and welcome to our podcast!
This is were we sit down as Husband and Wife and have a conversation about different topics, or talk about different things and really get each others Point of View! Sometimes we will agree and other times we will be on opposite ends of the spectrum, enjoy the conversation anyways!
Listen to how we navigate our way through difficult conversations to strengthen our love. We hope you are able to gain something from this podcast, and enjoy listening to us! Please subscribe and share with friends and family!
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Episodes
Setting Goals
December 22, 2021 11:00 - 25 minutes - 23 MBListen to some of our proud moments in 2021 and some moments we could have done better in. In this episode we discuss how we create our goals for the future and how we plan on doing the same next year with a few changed to level up! We will become all that is designed for us! Follow us on all social Media platforms: @yourpovpodcast Send us an email on topic you would like us to discuss in future episode!
Oversharing
December 15, 2021 11:00 - 28 minutes - 26.2 MBListen to Jeff and Jara discuss how they approach this world of over-sharers! They explain how sharing to much of yourself will leave you with nothing for yourself. They explain our even sharing too much of your dream can be the quickest way to kill it. Understand that not everyone will have the same excitement that you have about a vision you see for yourself, and that is exactly why it is important to be cautious about what you share and who you share it with. Follow us on all social med...
Running
December 09, 2021 11:00 - 21 minutes - 19.6 MBListen to us discuss why running forward is the quickest way to get to the life you desire. We discuss how our parents play a vital roll in pushing us and making sure that every opportunity they have given us is so that we end up in a place that is better then the one they left us at. Do not let their ending goal be the benchmark to where you think it is possible to talk life! Anything is possible and achievable so long as you keep moving forward, and remember your goals! Follow us on all...
The Holidays
December 01, 2021 11:00 - 20 minutes - 19 MBIn todays episode we talk everything holiday edition. We talk about our favorite and least favorite parts about this time of year. We talk about how we celebrated the holidays as kids and what traditions we plan on continuing in the future. Let us know what fun traditions you and your family do for the holiday season! Don't forget to follow us on all social media platforms and share with a friend so they can start listening today! [email protected]
Adulting
November 23, 2021 11:00 - 29 minutes - 26.6 MBListen to us tackle to question of what we miss about being a child, and how adulting is going so far! We talk about when we were kids we really had no idea how good we had it! We also discuss the pros and cons of being an adult and the lessons we have learned in that transition over into adulthood. Tell us what your favorite memory is of being a kid! Share your stories on our E-mail or on our facebook stories! [email protected] Don't forget to follow us on all social media plat...
Feeling Vs Logic
November 16, 2021 11:00 - 24 minutes - 22.4 MBWe all like to think that were logical thinkers, that we fully sit with a thought and pick it apart so that the decision that comes from it is fully thought out and logical. Realistically we all have catered to our feelings more often than we would like to admit. Whether it's going back to a toxic relationship that makes us "feel" loved superficially. Befriending someone that you know is not going to help you grow. Putting up with that family members that constantly tears you down and makes ...
We are back / Vacations
November 09, 2021 11:00 - 30 minutes - 27.5 MBWe are back from a very long break, and we're ready to hit you guys with some amazing topics. On this episode we talk about our vacation and everything we learn about each other and about traveling. We give you some pointers on where to find the best traveling hacks, and things you should know about traveling. Listen Now! Don't forget to follow us on all social media platforms and send us an e-mail on our next topic you would like to discuss. @YourPOVpodcast [email protected]
A Few Weeks Off!
September 21, 2021 10:00 - 4 minutes - 4.05 MBChecking out for a few weeks to spends some time with friends and family and to reconnect with one another! Use the opportunity to catch up on all of our old episodes and if you have already heard them, check um out again… you never know what gems you will find! If you haven't already done so leave us a rate and review on the platform that you listen too, and also share with your friends and family. We would love to hear your feedback, email us your thoughts anytime at [email protected]...
Missed Experiences
September 07, 2021 10:00 - 22 minutes - 20.9 MBListen to Jara explain how sometimes she feels like she missed out on the full dancer experience. Jeff talks about how he feels like he missed out on one of his dreams. Would the change this now, or keep things the same. Listen to how they feel about their missed experiences! Question of the Day: If your could spend an entire month anywhere in the world where would it be? Follow us on Social Media: @yourPOVpodcast E-mail us at [email protected] Don't forget to subscribe!
Fears and Frustrations
August 31, 2021 10:00 - 25 minutes - 23.5 MBFind out what fears we have in life and how we plan to overcome those fears. We talk about what really scares us in this life and also what frustrates us most about the world we live in. Question of the day: Are your a forgiving person? Follow is on all social media platforms: @yourPOVpodcast [email protected]
You're Replaceable!
July 27, 2021 10:00 - 21 minutes - 19.4 MBIn typical work environment your employers will pile on more responsibility with no additional pay, is it worth it for you? Listen to Jeff and Jara break down how they handle their work expectations. Listen to the great POV and many lessons to take away from this episode. This Weeks Question: Would you rather live 1 week in the future or 1 week in the past. Let us know your thoughts. Follow us on all social media platforms: [email protected] E-Mail Us today; [email protected]...
6 Month Check-In!
July 20, 2021 10:00 - 25 minutes - 23.4 MBListen to how we grade ourselves on how our year is going. We reflect on our goals and get real on where we are. This is a great opportunity for people to do check-ins', let's hold ourselves accountable for our success and our failures. Don't give up, learn and do better! Todays question: Do you think everything happens for a reason? Follow our Social Media: @YourPOVPodcast E-mail us your questions: [email protected]
Being Brutally Honest!
July 13, 2021 10:00 - 25 minutes - 23.7 MBJeff and Jara could not be more opposite in the way they like their truths given to them. He would prefer it straight with no chaser, and she like it sweet and wrapped in a bow! Its all about R.E.S.P.E.C.T., whenever your are trying to convey a message to someone. If you are trying to provide feedback and your delivery is rude and harsh, defensive wall goes up, but if your respectful and your delivery is careful then the person receiving the criticism is bound to listen with open ears, and...
Asking for Permission!
July 06, 2021 10:00 - 24 minutes - 22.4 MBListen to how Jeff and Jara differ in their opinions on whether one should ask for permission to do anything in the relationship. They discuss what things "need" to be communicated and what things may not "need" to be communicated. They go over the importance of keeping open communication in the relationship and how not asking for permission is selfish. Question of the Day: Do you think you are an introvert or an extrovert? Follow us on all Social Media Platforms! @yourpovpodcast E-mail...
The Life of an Over-thinker
June 29, 2021 17:00 - 25 minutes - 23.3 MBJeff and Jara discuss how overthinking has stopped them from making some really great decisions. They take a look at how overthinking has really helped them in making the most well thought out decision, and where it has held them back from prosperity. Question of the Day: What are some things you are most grateful for? Follow us on instagram and send us an email with your questions: @yourpovpodcast [email protected]
The Pressures of AGING!
June 22, 2021 21:00 - 27 minutes - 25.3 MBJeff and Jara give their personal stories of when they felt the most pressure from a particular age. They discuss what pressures the face now and how they handle it. Listen to some of the societal pressures they faced and are still facing and how they have overcome, or plan to overcome these obstacles! Question of the Day: What quality or ability do you wish you had? Follow us on Social Media and send your questions to our Email! @yourPOVPodcast [email protected]
Person of your Word!
June 15, 2021 10:00 - 24 minutes - 22.7 MBHow important is it for you to follow through on things you say you are going to do? Is it ok to change your mind when you've mad a commitment or should your stick to your word no matter the consequences? Listen to Jeff and Jara's reasoning for feeling the way they do about following through. Listen to the importance of being a person of your word, and to be careful on the things you say you're going to do! Listener Question: What is is that either of you do that is annoying to the other? ...
Effects of Social Media
June 08, 2021 10:00 - 33 minutes - 30.9 MBIn this episode we really take a look at where social media started for us, and where it is now. We talked about the negative effects of social media and how life is portrayed versus reality. We discuss our personal gains due to social media and potential losses. We really emphasize being self aware and to notice when it has consumed you and your thoughts, and to really consider a detox to elevate the presser your may experience from it. Listener question: Where was your favorite place to ...
Friendships
June 01, 2021 10:00 - 27 minutes - 25.3 MBIn this episode we discussed the different qualities weIn this episode we discussed the different qualities we look for in a friendship. Listen to us tackle the question of loyalty. What does it mean to be loyal in a friendship, and how your view on loyalty can be an unrealistic expectation, and how it could potentially say more about you as a person then about your friends. Listen to our unpopular opinion on how we think it is possible to be friends with a person that your friend may no...
Jumping on the Bandwagon
May 25, 2021 10:00 - 28 minutes - 25.8 MBIn this episode we explain why we believe Jumping on the Bandwagon is not a positive thing. We give various reasons and provide many example of how this creates a lazy mentality. We express the importance of thinking for yourself and the value of standing in your own beliefs. We also explain how sometime this may mean changing the people you surround yourself with to direct you towards the life you want. We explain how social media and the NEWS makes it extremely difficult to formulate ind...
Would you want to know if your significant other was UNFAITHFUL?
May 18, 2021 10:00 - 30 minutes - 27.6 MBJeff and Jara discuss whether they would want to know if the other was unfaithful. We go into the reasons why someone would and would not want to know, and make valid points for each. We also pose the question of whether it is ok to disclose person information about your relationship to a coworker and how that can lead you to a path of infidelity. Let us know your thoughts on this and every episod, and reach out to us if you would like us to address a particular topic! @yourpovpodcast ...
Meeting the Parents
May 11, 2021 10:00 - 25 minutes - 23.7 MBJeff and Jara go through the moments they first met each others parents, the feelings that they have felt and how they overcame different challenges. We discuss the relationship now with each others family and talk about some funny stories in the past involving the parents! We also hit the topic of cultural differences and how we have become accustomed to these changes and how we have incorporated them into our lives now! Follow us on all social media platforms, and email us at yourpovpo...
Power of Habits
May 04, 2021 10:00 - 26 minutes - 24.1 MBWe really go in depth on creating good habits to create the life you want. Listen to us discuss where habits are formed and why it may be easy to break certain habits due to discipline and planning. We also take a look at habits formulated in relationships and how comfortability can lead to a slacking in a relationship. See which listener question we answered today! Follow us on all social media platforms! @yourpovpodcast [email protected]
Ask us anything!
April 27, 2021 10:00 - 25 minutes - 23.8 MBListen to the answer to a few of our listener questions. Be sure to follow us on social media platforms to ask us anything! @yourpovpodcast Email us at [email protected]!
How we Met!
April 20, 2021 10:00 - 26 minutes - 24.2 MBIn this podcast we talk about the first time we met, who spoke to whom first, and how it all got started. Listen to how Jara turned him down at first, and how he eventually swept her off her feet. We go into how Jeff proposed and what that moment was like. To learn more about us, and how we were able to stay together for all these years, listen to our show each week. We will be telling you some background stories of our life and make you laugh along the way. We hope you enjoy! Don't forg...
Pandemic and your Relationships
April 13, 2021 10:00 - 29 minutes - 27.3 MBJara starts the conversation by explaining the many staged that the pandemic had and what her feeling where with each stage. She then goes on to describe her most reflective moment and how she has changed. Jeff explains his perspective of the Pandemic from a medical POV, and the extreme measures he has taking to ensure the safety of his loved ones. We really see things from different perspectives and understand one another in our differences! Let us know hoe the Pandemic has changed yo...
"Just Friends"
April 06, 2021 10:00 - 20 minutes - 18.3 MBThey could not be further apart on their opinions, listen to how Jeff and Jara feel about Men and Women being "Just Friends". Is it possible? Find out NOW! They look at both sides of the spectrum and really analyze the different possibilities. Ask yourself, do you think you could be friends with someone from the opposite sex? Would you 100% trust yourself or a significant other in this kind of friendship, or do you believe someone in that friendship has ill intentions? We bring up all t...
Jealousy
March 30, 2021 10:00 - 30 minutes - 27.9 MBIn this episode we break down some stories of us being jealous and how they effected our relationship. We talk about were it stems from and if we still have those same issues now. We also discuss jealousy among men and among women, and how jealousy can keep your from your progression. Listen to this episode and let us know your thoughts! Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, and send us an emails with your thoughts on todays episode! Leave a review on your listening platform! @yourp...
What is your relationship with MONEY?
March 23, 2021 10:00 - 30 minutes - 27.9 MBMoney rules the world, or does it? In this episode, we really learn what our own relationship is with money and where we learned it from. We go through the different stages in our lives and how money has been impactful. Coming from humble beginnings shaped our initial relationship with money, and the way treated it. As we got older we began seeing the way we used money and how some of our actions can be detrimental. In that we've grown and realized how we could use money as a means to build...
Asking for Help
March 16, 2021 10:00 - 28 minutes - 25.8 MBIs it tough for you to ask for help? Would you rather suffer, then to ask someone for a helping hand? In this episode we break down why asking for help can be extremely difficult, and how it really could be your pride preventing you from excelling.
Prisoner of Your Past
March 09, 2021 11:00 - 32 minutes - 29.9 MBIn this episode we break down a few of our childhood experiences that have played a huge roll in shaping the person we are today. We breakdown the importance of healing your wounds and how it will be beneficial to creating a better and stronger version of yourself. We go in depth on why we need to handle the things that created the person that we are, recognizing toxic behaviors and addressing it. We also talk about the importance of therapy and how people can use it as a tool to not burde...
Self Love vs Ego
March 02, 2021 11:00 - 30 minutes - 27.5 MBIn this episode we take a deep dive into what it truly means to love yourself. We explain what love means and what is means to take care of your external and internal self. We explain the important of not only taking care of your physical self but you're mental, spiritual and emotional self as well. Life is a balance. We also take a look at what is means to have an Ego (its not all bad). Most people would assume that having an ego is a negative thing but in actuality it is just how you ...
Do you want Comfort or a Solution?
February 23, 2021 11:00 - 24 minutes - 22.3 MBWe have all been apart of a conversation that went completely left because both parties are hoping for something different then what was given. In this episode we go over the importance of explaining what is expected and how clear you should make your expectations in a conversation. Listen to Jeff and Jara explain what works best in their relationship, and how they have been able to make things work, when things turned sour. Enjoy this episode, and don't forget to follow us on Instagram...
Apologies
February 16, 2021 11:00 - 34 minutes - 31.8 MBIn this episode we go through the different reasons as to why it may be difficult for someone to apologies. We take a look at why it is good to man up and admit your wrongdoing. We ask the question do you shift blame? What is it like being on the other side of you? Are you someone who never assumes responsibility, and what does that look like from the other persons POV! It is ok messing up, everyone makes mistakes, but it is not ok to never take accountability. We also discuss what is ...
Should you give up on your dreams?
February 09, 2021 11:00 - 32 minutes - 29.7 MBIn this episode we discuss our thoughts on when its time to give up on your dreams. We will discuss the perfect time to decide to should shift gears. We explain our thoughts as to why it is important to create a solid plan for your life and how to best execute. We will be discussing how each person should create a timeline based on the vision on life they have created for themselves, and how to best live that desired life. Send us an email or a DM as to what your thoughts are about today...
Love Languages
February 09, 2021 11:00 - 25 minutes - 23.7 MBListen to us break down the 5 different love languages, and the importance of loving your partner in their specific love language. We break down why we value our specific love language and were it stems from. These are very important tool to learn about if you want to have a successful relationship. After listening to us describe each Love Language, take a look at your relationships and see which you value most. Open up this discussion in your relationship and see where this takes you. ...
Time Apart
February 01, 2021 03:44 - 19 minutes - 17.6 MBHere we are talking about spending time apart, is it important for us as a married couple? Find out our thoughts on the importance of spending time with your friends without your significant other and the importance of spending time alone. We explain our POV, and go in depth on why it benefits our relationship. Send us an E-Mail on your thoughts. Is spending time apart good for your relationship, or does it not work for you? We would love to hear more from you so please reach out! Don't f...