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Authentically Kinky (formerly known as What Women and Other Wonderful Humans Want)

239 episodes - English - Latest episode: 1 day ago - ★★★★★ - 2 ratings

NOW IN IT'S FOURTH SEASON WITH OVER 200 EPISODES! A Podcast about authenticity and the wonderful humans in our kinky world.

Presented by Dating Kinky and Powered by Clips4Sale

A fun and frank discussion about how people connect with each other and to their own authentic selves,. While many of our guests come from the sex positive and non traditional relationship world, the program is about the humans behind the character and the stories of how people find their authentic selves through an atmosphere of expectations, exaggerations, and challenges. The show is the Official Podcast of Fetishcon. Please subscribe at your favorite podcast outlet and thanks for taking the journey with us!

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Episodes

Nicholas Tanek and Your Kinky Friends

September 26, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 57.2 MB

As host of Your Kinky Friends and author of books about kink and life, Nicholas Tanek has said that the world of kink has saved his life. As you hear this interview, you will see how his connections in kink have done just that and how his podcast has helped him bring to light the beauty of this community.

Denzil: The CEO of Clips4Sale on the 20th Anniversary of C4S

September 20, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 58.1 MB

SPECIAL EDITION! It may be the most interesting show we have had as we get a look at the fetish content industry from the inside when Denzil, the CEO of Clips4Sale joins Hitherecatsuit for an exclusive interview on the day of the platform's 20th Anniversary.

Mistress Alexandra Balance: From Athens to the Emerald City

September 19, 2023 12:00 - 57 minutes - 52.9 MB

She put together one of the most beautiful gatherings of Dommes with her Femdom Gala in Athens, and now she comes to the United States with her passion and her #TempleofDommes and has landed in the Emerald City. Meet the extraordinary @alexandra.balance.official on the first show of our fourth season. Our show is presented by Dating Kinky with thanks to Kinkster Merch on Etsy

Enchantress Sahrye and Calisa Bliss: The interview from Fetish Con

September 12, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 124 MB

Calisa Bliss was a guest on our Fetish Con episode in 2022, and charmed us with her story of starting out in the industry. Now, she is a force in Damsel related content and with the veteran switch and content producer Enchantress Sahrye, they frequently get mistaken for each other. Now, from Fetish Con, they bring their powerful story to us in this interview taped in St. Petersburg, Florida. You can see a video version of this on our youtube channel at youtube.com/@whatwomenwantpodcast.

Pinxsters and Coralyn Jewel

September 08, 2023 12:00 - 40 minutes - 74.9 MB

TODAY ON A SPECIAL FRIDAY SPECIAL EDITION OF THE SHOW! We talk about the new adult social media platform called Pinxsters with Coralyn Jewel, whose presence in the adult industry from content creator to lifestyle club owner to podcaster gives her a unique perspective on what it's like to survive in that realm. You can visit Pinxsters at Pinxsters.com and sign up for a free account.

Queen Ana Blue - The Empowerment of Kink

September 05, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 122 MB

Queen Ana Blue hails from the midwest but her power is far and wide as one of the Dommes of destinction at Sanctuary LAX. She previews her visits to Dark Odysses and DomCon NOLA and shares her journey from a deeply religious background to a place she calls home in this conversation with HiThereCatsuit. Our podcast is presented by Dating Kinky with special thanks to KinksterMerch on Etsy.

Holland of Chicago: The transformation of Thought

August 29, 2023 12:00 - 57 minutes - 106 MB

She creates content that makes you think of who you are and what you dream to be. She is Holland of Chicago, who has been producing content that stretches the boundaries of sexuality and promotes change in your authentic selves that your fears may have left behind. It is a powerful interview with HiThereCatsuit that even makes them take a second look at themselves.

Audrey Fatale: The Domme from Down Under

August 22, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 130 MB

The soft spoken but oh so powerful Audrey Fatale reigns over her submissives in Melbourne, Australia with intensity and a proclivity for the rubber things in life. She speaks to Jon aka HiThereCatsuit in this around the world connection.

Skylar West: The Beauty of Bondage

August 15, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 120 MB

She is a vision in ropes for Bondage Cafe and Jim Weathers but there is so much more to this talented fetish star beyond the bonds. Meet Skylar West as she joins HiThereCatsuit on the show presented by Dating Kinky with thanks to KinksterMerch on Etsy

Liz River: The Queen of Vendors and the kindest content creator

August 08, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 62.8 MB

In addition to being the coordinator of vendors at Fetishcon, Liz River stands out in the community as one of the most kind individuals who has seen it all, and always is there to lend a helping hand. She talks with HiThereCatsuit in this episode that is also available At YouTube.com/@whatwomenwantpodcast

Rachel Adams: Tied up here there and everywhere

August 01, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 65.7 MB

From her work at UltraGirl to being Tied in Heels or Bound in the Midwest, Rachel Adams (racheladamsfantasies.com) is able to do it all, and we discuss her very busy life in the business when she joins HiThereCatsuit for a in person interview. that is available in video form at https://youtu.be/UpSZqvCmdaA

Anastasia Pierce: Creator Mentor Model

July 25, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 125 MB

She has a special place in our hearts as the woman who introduced us to the influential people of the fetish world. Anastasia Pierce has been an iconic fetish model for many years and now as Creator Relations point person for Loyal Fans, she is mentoring the next generation of content providers. She is a Fetishcon legend and she joins HiThereCatsuit for a great conversation as the Countdown to Fetishcon continues.

TerraMizu: From Model to Living Logo

July 18, 2023 12:16 - 1 hour - 124 MB

From her over the top and campy characters that have graced the screen in nearly every fetish genre, to her latest venture as the Living Logo of Fetishcon, TerraMizu is a delightfully energetic veteran of the industry. She visits with HiThereCatsuit to talk about her history in the business and how she found her way into that special catsuit to be the logo!

Genesis Lynn - The Co-Founder of Fetishcon

July 11, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 113 MB

The co-founder of the world's largest Fetish Trade Show - Fetishcon - Genesis Lynn joins HiThereCatsuit to discuss the conferenced beginning in New York City and its growth into the mega event in St. Pete every year and look ahead to this year's edition, August 10-13.

Mistress Mia Darque: The Oklahoma Amazon

July 04, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 119 MB

The Oklahoma Amazon Mistress Mia Darque talks about her nearly long career as a Domme, being a Social Chameleon, being trained in a non traditional way and how being 6-3 brings possibilities to her that few others can have. Also discussed, Daria, Hacksaw Jim Duggan, nerds, and cows in purple catsuits. She joins HiThereCatsuit for this very tall set of tales. (Catsuit is 6-4 you know!)

Goddess Alanis: The Butterfly Emerges

June 27, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 116 MB

The Butterfly has emerged as the Goddess of Love and the Professor of Pain. The amazing Goddess Alanis joins us just after her role as Guest of Honor at DomConLA and as she prepares for FetishCon. It is a very intimate discussion full of personal stories, interesting insights and a lovely conversation with my friend.

Queen Gia Love: The Wrestling Dominatrix

June 20, 2023 12:00 - 50 minutes - 92.5 MB

Queen Gia Love is a phenomenal and fierce wrestler and Femdom whose energy is contagious. He talks with hitherecatsuit about her career and the joy of connection through touch.

Max: tOuch kink

June 13, 2023 22:18 - 58 minutes - 106 MB

Max is an award winning director producer in many other mediums and he brings his talents to the big screen with the production of "tOuch kink," a compelling documentary that hopes to demystify the world we all love.

Nookie - Take No Sh!t - A look at Boundaries

June 06, 2023 16:00 - 1 hour - 133 MB

The founder of DatingKinky and the woman who helped me create this show, Nookie, joins us to discuss her upcoming book "Take No Sh!t: building Better relationships through discovering, creating and maintaining healthy boundaries in three (sometime fiveP easy steps." We also talk about the progress of this show and its future.

Troy Orleans - The Artist

May 30, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 150 MB

She is a true bondage artist whose work encompasses the binds that most could not even dream about. She is the amazing Troy Orleans and she discusses her amazing world of extreme bondage with HiThereCatsuit.

Mistress Jennifer - From Houston with Power

May 26, 2023 13:08 - 43 minutes - 79.7 MB

Mistress Jennifer started her journey writing the ads for Dommes in newspapers and ended up being in the world of Pro Dommes as a profession. Her interesting journey is the subject of our special Friday show this week.

Snow Mercy - The Benevolent Dominatrix

May 23, 2023 09:00 - 58 minutes - 107 MB

She is a legend from California and is a mainstay in the BDSM Scene in Los Angeles, but she is known far and wide as Snow Mercy, the benevolent dominatrix for her work in the world and her many media appearances. She visits with HiThereCatsuit in this fascinating interview.

Eve Minax - The Approachable Pervert

May 16, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 146 MB

Dubbed “The Approachable Pervert” by peers, renowned Kink Educator and Professional Dominant Eve Minax demystifies BDSM by showing erotic explorers how to be more confident, compassionate, and kinky! We talk to this legendary personality about the past, present and future of kink.

Lee Harrington - Become Your Own Beloved

May 12, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 130 MB

Become Your Own Beloved: A Guide to Delighting in Self Connection is a new book by the groundbreaking author and educator, Lee Harrington and he visits with HiThereCatsuit on a special edition of the show. It is the host's 60th birthday and they talk self love with Lee in a very personal episode.

sweet Girl Julia - The Eyes of Domcon

May 09, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 119 MB

She is the official photographer of Domcon, but that is just a part of the amazing journey of Sweet Girl Julia. She shares her story of discovery, joy her relationship with Mistress Damiana Chi and a world of support with HiThereCatsuit in this beautiful episode.

Mistress Malissia - From Mistress to Motherhood

May 02, 2023 09:00 - 54 minutes - 99.8 MB

Montreal's Mistress Malissia joins the program to tell her incredibly beautiful story from her life as “the Mistress” to the joy of being a mother. It’s a side that is rarely talked about in our community and we are so proud she will be sharing her story with Jon. We also discuss her Mistress Mindset and Dominatrix Academy which goes far beyond just what you need in a session to a complete look at the business.

Jaqueline Michelle - On Solo BDSM and more

April 25, 2023 09:00 - 48 minutes - 89.1 MB

Jaqueline Michelle is a Self Love & Embodiment Coach based in Miami, specializing in helping women develop intimate relationships with themselves through somatic healing, self actualization, and creating a sensual lifestyle. And in this episode of the show, she talks with HiThereCatsuit about the topic of Solo BDSM. 

Mistress Rogue - Latex and Lessons in the Dom House

April 18, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 127 MB

Mistress Rogue of Florida is a passionate dominatrix who is able to see the scene in a cinematic way, with the setting, the story and the emotion coming to the forefront in each scene. Her love of latex is also a part of her life as this powerful Latina takes her place in your mind and heart. Join the wonderful conversation with HiThereCatsuit in this episode.

Mister Pierre - Custom Tailor to the Community

April 11, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 58.1 MB

He is the custom tailor to porn stars and kinky people and the purveyor of fine leather products for daytime and playtime... and a superstar on TikTok for his amazingly entertaining videos. He is Michael Pierre of Mister Pierre Fashion on a special edition of the podcast

Mistress Marley - The Mogul of the Scene

April 04, 2023 09:00 - 56 minutes - 103 MB

As seen in the New York Times and other national publications, Mistress Marley has taken her role as Femdom, FinDomme, Event Curator and Mogul to new heights and has created a brand that is educating the work of kink. She talks with HiThereCatsuit in this informative conversation.

Tim Woodward - The Father of Skin Two

March 28, 2023 15:30 - 1 hour - 114 MB

In the late 20th century, people would marvel at the beauty of a magazine that spoke to us. Skin Two was groundbreaking and its effects on the kink and fetish community resonate today. We visit with the founder and publisher of this ground breaking publication when @timparkerwoodward joins @hitherecatsuit as we discuss the history of fetish in London, the beginnings of Skin Two and how it lives on today thanks to @honourclothing and @skintwoglobal. The show premieres on Tuesday, March 28.

Master Lola Smiles - Education and BDSM with Smiles

March 21, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 117 MB

Master Lola Smiles joins the show to talk education and giving back to the community as well as a life in leather and what it means to be named Master. Her discussion with Hi There Catsuit is presented by Dating Kinky.

Vicky Devika - The Unmasking

March 14, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 118 MB

She went viral for her Rubber grocery store adventures in 2020 and now, she has taken a journey to find her real self and help others find their way out of the shadows. The incredible Vicky Devika joins HiThereCatsuit for an inspirational interview. Our show is thanks to the wonderful people at Dating Kinky.

Lola Jean and Miss Shayla: 7 Days of Domination

March 07, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 127 MB

They are the founders of 7 Days of Domination and just amazing humans who bring topics to the forefront for Dommes and those curious about domination. Miss Shayla and Lola Jean join HiThereCatsuit for a great discussion on education and their views on the scene.

Miss Vivian Darkbloom - The Doll Handling Domme

February 28, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 123 MB

Boston based Domme, Miss Vivian Darkbloom discusses her love for #latex, her pursuit of the perfect doll and the joy of a lifestyle and work in kynk with HiThereCatsuit.

Fayth on Fire - The Trail to Discovery

February 23, 2023 14:26 - 1 hour - 60.3 MB

The free spirited Fayth on Fire is an veteran fetish model when it comes to balloons and bondages of all types, but it's the journey she is taking right now that makes her so amazing. She joins us on this Fetishcon Friday edition of the show

Gloria Brame - From Different Loving to a Different World

February 21, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 137 MB

In 1993, Gloria Brame had the courage to write a book called "Different Loving" which was a heavily researched study of the world of fetish and kink. Now 20 years later, BDSM is in the mainstream. How did we get here? A visit with the good Doctor as she talks to HiThereCatsuit in this fascinating interview.

Friday Extra: Lady Supernova: Interview with a NYC Lifestyle Domme

February 17, 2023 13:41 - 22 minutes - 20.7 MB

Lady Supernova is a NYC Lifestyle Domme, Erotica Writer and a medical professional. She always wondered what it would be like to be a guest on the show and today, she gets to experience it in this Friday Extra.

Damazonia - The Warrior Mistress

February 14, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 61.2 MB

Like a powerful Amazon goddess, Mistress Damazonia brings fantasies to life while championing the downfall of the patriarchy and the rise of authenticity. She is HiThereCatsuit's guest in this very intense conversation you don't want to miss.

Evie Lupine - The YouTube Connection to Kink

February 07, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 130 MB

She is as amazing and delightful as you would imagine she would be. Just finished a great interview with Evie Lupine talking about her YouTube channel, her education videos, Friday night livestreams, BDSM, Asexuality, Self Collaring and so much more.

Princess Kali - The Founder of the Kink Academy - Part 2

February 03, 2023 10:00 - 47 minutes - 87.6 MB

The founder of The Kink Academy and the Red Key Club and 2022 inductee into the Dominatrix Hall of Fame, Princess Kali joins us for the second of a two part episode. In part 1, we discussed the Kink Academy, the art of erotic humiliation and more. In Part 2, we have a discussion on Ethical Financial Domination.

Princess Kali - The Founder of the Kink Academy - Part 1

January 31, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 144 MB

The founder of The Kink Academy and the Red Key Club and 2022 inductee into the Dominatrix Hall of Fame, Princess Kali joins us for the first of a two part episode. In part 1 we discuss the Kink Academy, the art of erotic humiliation and more. Part 2 will be Friday Feb 3 with a discussion on Ethical Financial Domination.

Temptress Raven Eve - The Return to the TRE Dungeon

January 27, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 65 MB

In our second FetishCon Friday show, it's a trip back to the dungeon of Temptress Raven Eve for an amazing interview that now only goes into her origin story but also takes HiThereCatsuit through a journey to interview her. Also available on video at youtube.com/datingkinky.

Mistress Ezada Sinn - The Matriarch

January 24, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 134 MB

Today, we will share a visit from the true Matriarch - the incredible Mistress Ezada Sinn. It is an important conversation that will allow you to see a new vision of power and one that will create conversation. She joins Jon to discuss her vision.

Tara Indiana and the Dominatrix Hall of Fame

January 17, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 136 MB

This week, we have a return visit from one of our favorite guests with an amazing discussion with Tara Indiana with stories of the early days of dungeons and fetish porn. History comes alive with this legendary dominatrix in her conversation with HiThereCatsuit.

FetishCon Friday -First Faves

January 13, 2023 11:55 - 53 minutes - 48.7 MB

In the debut of FetishCon Friday, we revisit the first fives of Jean Bardot, Temptress Raven Eve, Jim Weathers, Anastasia Pierce, Stacy Burke and Ludella Hahn, all personalities who appeared at FetishCon 2022. Will you be at the next great gathering of the fetish world? FetishCon 2023 - August 10-13 - tickets at fetishcon.com

Dirk Hooper - The Art of Kink

January 10, 2023 16:59 - 1 hour - 134 MB

We talk about the multimedia life of Dirk Hooper. From his podcast to his art to his photography to so much more, Dirk is a fetish industry unto himself, dedicated to honoring the community in the best ways. We talk about ART BECOMING LIFE in a thought provoking story sure to inspire you. He joins Jon for a lively conversation.

Dr. Alison Ash - Turnon.love into a new year

January 03, 2023 10:00 - 58 minutes - 107 MB

We have a return visit from Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, a trauma-informed sex and intimacy coach and educator, Stanford Lecturer, and the founder of TurnON.love. She talks with HiThere Catsuit about her upcoming class series and more! * For info on her Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse, visit www.TurnON.love/intimacy

Natalya Sadici: The Patron Saint of Debauchery

December 20, 2022 10:00 - 1 hour - 124 MB

The Patron Saint of Debauchery, Vixen Sadist & South Florida Dominatrix - the incredible Natalya Sadici joins @hitherecatsuit for a conversation that includes her amazing history in the community and the story of how they connected in a beautiful way through the podcast.

Goddess Severa - The Height of Domination

December 13, 2022 10:00 - 1 hour - 131 MB

At 6 foot 5, she towers over the Dominatrix universe, and as a content producer since 1999, she provides amazing videos that features wrestling, domination and one of a kink adventures. She is the imposing Goddess Severa and she joins @hitherecatsuit for this enlightening conversation.

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