Through The Hard - Parenting Teens in Crisis
76 episodes - English - Latest episode: 4 months ago - ★★★★★ - 16 ratingsParenting teens can be hard. Parenting teens who are in crisis is even more complicated. You were never meant to walk through this alone.
Welcome to Through the Hard - Parenting Teens in Crisis, a twice-monthly podcast presented by Pathways to Hope Network.
Join us for honest conversations that drive out shame and show us how to navigate the emotions and uncertainty of parenting teens through crisis.
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The #1 Reason You Are Exhausted
September 27, 2022 10:00 - 32 minutes - 23.4 MBUnyielding Episode 20 The #1 Reason You Feel Exhausted Raising teenagers can be EXHAUSTING; in this episode, we discuss the #1 reason for it. Join the conversation as I talk about the “Backpack Principle.” This new way principle brings awareness and clarity to what it looks like to begin the process of loving detachment. I’ve been practicing it for a couple of weeks now, and it has been a GAME CHANGER in our family. We’ll also discuss why detaching is so uncomfortable. Two ...
When Does the Healing Begin?
September 13, 2022 10:00 - 21 minutes - 14.8 MBWhen Does the Healing Begin? Parents who have been stretched thin are questioning their ability to continue holding and often ask when does the healing begin? In this episode, we explore what healing really looks like on this journey with our child. We also discuss some of our obstacles in getting to a place of healing, how our hope is found in the whispers, whether our patterns in parenting are still serving us in the best possible way, and more. Special announcement regarding ...
Finding Meaning in the Mess
August 30, 2022 10:00 - 26 minutes - 21.4 MBA Mom’s Search for Meaning How do I do this, and how do I do it right? That’s the question nestled deep in the heart of every parent I meet. In this episode, we talk about the two truths found in every action we take, and we also discuss the one thing that changed everything about my journey, as well as each parent I’ve coached or mentored that has been able to implement it. Resources: Pathways website: https://pathwaystohopenetwork.org/ (Remember to Subscribe!) Local and nat...
A Mom's Search for Meaning
August 30, 2022 10:00 - 26 minutes - 21.4 MBA Mom’s Search for Meaning How do I do this, and how do I do it right? That’s the question nestled deep in the heart of every parent I meet. In this episode, we talk about the two truths found in every action we take, and we also discuss the one thing that changed everything about my journey, as well as each parent I’ve coached or mentored that has been able to implement it. Resources: Pathways website: https://pathwaystohopenetwork.org/ (Remember to Subscribe!) Local and nat...
The Secret To Reestablishing Trust
August 16, 2022 10:00 - 33 minutes - 27.7 MBThe Truth About Reestablishing Trust For this final episode in Season 2, we are talking about trust. Upon reading that word, some of you are already thinking to yourself… I can’t trust my child right now. They’ve made so many choices that have me questioning their thinking. Well, today isn’t about trusting them. Today, we are talking about trusting ourselves. See, somewhere along the way, we lost that ability, and it’s time we got it back. As promised, here are the links we dis...
Down Grief Mountain: With Mary Crantson
August 02, 2022 10:00 - 37 minutes - 29.9 MBDown Grief Mountain with Mary Cranston In part two of my interview with Mary Cranston, we begin looking ahead to the journey down the other side of Grief Mountain. What can we expect to encounter as we continue to navigate this journey? Understanding the grieving process gives us permission to accept where we are, to see more clearly the work we are meant to do in this season, and to wait expectantly, knowing that this too shall pass. 4:27 Depression 6:30 Re-Entry 7:45 What...
Grief Mountain with Mary Cranston Part 1
July 19, 2022 10:00 - 45 minutes - 36.3 MBSometimes we are so consumed with trying to keep our heads above water with court dates, challenging behaviors, and worrying about the future that it's easy to dismiss the fact that there is real grief under the surface. When thinking about the challenges of grief, one person came to mind that I knew would be an incredible blessing to you. Her name is Mary Cranston and she is a life coach, a counselor, a motivational speaker, and a published author who recently wrote the book Grief ...
When the Challenge Changes You - Part Two
July 05, 2022 10:00 - 11 minutes - 9.73 MBWhen The Challenge Changes You - Part 2 When the Challenge Changes You: Part Two In Episode 14, A quick part two of our interview with Blake, he continues his candid conversation about what life was like as a teen in the juvenile justice system. Listen as he examines if there was anything that anyone could've done that may have changed the path he was on, discusses life after detention, his advice for parents, what his life is like today, and sends a personal message to his mama. ...
When the Challenge Changes You - Blake's Story
June 21, 2022 10:00 - 36 minutes - 28.6 MBWhen The Challenge Changes You - Blake’s Story In this episode, I have the honor of interviewing Blake, who offers us the gift of his perspective on what it was like to be a child who experienced the juvenile justice system. In part one of this two-part interview, Blake openly shares his story of what life was like during his teen years. His experiences, the factors he believes influenced his decisions, his relationship with his mom and siblings, and what he credits as the differ...
What No One Tells You About Youth Probation
June 07, 2022 10:00 - 38 minutes - 28.4 MBIn this episode, I have the honor of interviewing Pete Feliciano. Pete graduated college with a degree in Law and Justice and a Master's degree in counseling. He recently retired from an extensive career working with hundreds of families in Thurston County Juvenile Court as a probation counselor for the last 32 years. Throughout those years, he has been a strong voice advocating for children and families in our community, and I am so grateful that he is on the show to provide us wit...
Protecting vs Equipping: How to Get it Right
May 24, 2022 10:00 - 26 minutes - 21.7 MBIn part two of my podcast interview with Pastor Jim Ladd, we discuss the difference between protecting and equipping our child and learn what could be at risk if we don't get this right. We also discuss the message our children receive when we constantly operate in protection mode and the question you should ask yourself if you find yourself helping a little too much. If you have a child in crisis, we sincerely hope that you find comfort and clarity while listening to his message ...
Moving Through the Unknown with Purpose
May 10, 2022 10:00 - 31 minutes - 25.3 MBMoving Through the Unknown with Purpose This episode is the second in a series of interviews with different people offering different perspectives on what to consider as you walk beside your child through the justice system. Questioning what it looks like to parent well through a season we've never had to navigate before is a normal part of this process. In this episode, I have the honor of interviewing my pastor and friend, Jim Ladd. Jim is gifted in his ability to communicate c...
Parent-Child Connection: 1 Thing You May Not Be Doing That You Should
April 26, 2022 10:00 - 26 minutes - 23.2 MBShow-notes (episode 9): Today's episode is the first in a series of interviews. We will interview different people for each show to offer different perspectives on important things you may want to consider while navigating the justice system with your child. It takes a lot of courage to share your story with others. Many families are so afraid of being judged or labeled that they never share the struggles they experienced when they had a child arrested, charged with a crime, or ...
Keeping it Real
April 12, 2022 10:00 - 30 minutes - 27.2 MBAre you always worried about what you'll say if someone asks you about your child? In Episode 8, we are talking about one of the most challenging aspects of having a child facing charges, on probation, or incarcerated. The challenge of how to approach talking to others about it. We'll discuss all the ins and outs of who you should trust with this information, what you should tell, and what to do when someone asks you and simply put, you believe it's none of their business. We'll a...
Parenting in the Shadows: Conversations About Children Facing Legal Hurdles
April 12, 2022 10:00 - 30 minutes - 27.2 MBAre you always worried about what you'll say if someone asks you about your child? In Episode 8, we are talking about one of the most challenging aspects of having a child facing charges, on probation, or incarcerated. The challenge of how to approach talking to others about it. We'll discuss all the ins and outs of who you should trust with this information, what you should tell, and what to do when someone asks you and simply put, you believe it's none of their business. We'll a...
Defining Strength
March 29, 2022 10:00 - 27 minutes - 24.9 MBWe all have different interpretations about what it means to be strong during a crisis. But, so often, when we find ourselves in the thick of it, our perception of what we should or shouldn’t reasonably be able to handle can be a little off. In this episode, I discuss what I think it means to be strong and the importance of managing your mental health as you navigate this season. Resources: Pathways website: https://pathwaystohopenetwork.org/ (Remember to subscribe!) Feeling...
Defining True Strength
March 29, 2022 10:00 - 27 minutes - 24.9 MBWe all have different interpretations about what it means to be strong during a crisis. But, so often, when we find ourselves in the thick of it, our perception of what we should or shouldn’t reasonably be able to handle can be a little off. In this episode, I discuss what I think it means to be strong and the importance of managing your mental health as you navigate this season. Resources: Pathways website: https://pathwaystohopenetwork.org/ (Remember to subscribe!) Feeling...
Into the Unknown: What to Expect-Your Child
March 15, 2022 10:00 - 29 minutes - 27.2 MBPodcast Info: Title: E. 6: What to expect: Your child Release Date: Month, Day, 2021 Speaker: Angie Frey In Episode Six we talk about the child at the center of it all, your son or daughter, who has temporarily gone off track and is learning in real-time how to navigate the juvenile court system while feeling the full impact of a decision they made gone wrong. Up until now, we’ve primarily talked about the feelings or experiences of others who have been impacted by the arrest...
Into the Unknown: What to Expect-Siblings
November 23, 2021 11:00 - 36 minutes - 33.2 MBEpisode 5: What to expect: Siblings Host: Angie Frey Having a child in crisis affects the entire family. Amid chaos and emotions, it's easy to overlook other family members who may not be directly involved, particularly siblings. Whether we talk about it with them or not, our children are very aware of the changes in the family dynamic and that the stress of the situation impacts us. This episode discusses how we should talk to our children about their sibling's arrest or incarcer...
Into the Unknown: What to Expect in Your Marriage/Relationship
November 09, 2021 11:00 - 32 minutes - 30.1 MBStudies show that couples argue more during their child's teen years than they do any other time in their child's developmental years. In episode four, we take at look at some of the ways having a child in crisis can impact your marriage/domestic relationship. From different parenting styles to the slippery slope of “Don’t tell dad,” I share a few lessons I had to learn the hard way. The show wraps up with a great practical trip to help keep you both on the same team. Resources: ...
Into the Unknown: What to Expect From Yourself
October 26, 2021 10:00 - 33 minutes - 30.6 MBPodcast Info: Title: E. 3: What to expect: From yourself Speaker: Angie Frey In Episode Three, we discuss the importance of understanding trauma while walking through this journey. More specifically, the trauma associated with parenting a child facing criminal charges. We hear the advice of other moms who have walked this very same road, those who have faced this trauma, and hope to help strengthen you as you are walking through your own journey. Resources: Pathways websit...
E.3 Into the Unknown: What to Expect From Yourself
October 26, 2021 10:00 - 33 minutes - 30.6 MBPodcast Info: Title: E. 3: What to expect: From yourself Release Date: Month, Day, 2021 Speaker: Angie Frey In Episode Three, we discuss the importance of understanding trauma while walking through this journey. We hear the advice of other moms who have walked this very same road, those who have faced this trauma, and hope to help strengthen you as you are walking through your own journey. Resources: Pathways website: https://pathwaystohopenetwork.org/ Blog: https://pathw...
Into the Unknown: What to Expect-Juvenile Court System Pt 2
October 12, 2021 10:00 - 37 minutes - 34 MBPart 2. Today we pick up where we left off in episode 1 and continue the conversation with more information on the juvenile court process. We’ll review felony and misdemeanor charges as well as degrees and counts. We’ll also briefly touch on plea deals & trials, what sentencing & probation look like, and then wrap the episode up by talking about record sealing. Local Thurston County Juvenile Court Programs https://www.thurstoncountywa.gov/sc/Pages/court-cases-juvenile.aspx Thurst...
Into the Unknown: What to Expect-Juvenile Court System
October 12, 2021 10:00 - 36 minutes - 33.6 MBIn Episode One, we take a look at the Juvenile Courts System. We talk through a little about what happens after an arrest, the diversion program (12:35), Detention (13:00), and Attorneys (15:00). We also talk about what to expect at a hearing (19:00), Terms and Conditions (26:00), and Pretrial Hearings (28:30). Most importantly, though, we talk about how having a child in crisis is not an indicator of whether or not you are a good mom. Resources: Local and national resources:...
Into the Unknown: What to Expect-Court System Pt 2
October 12, 2021 10:00 - 37 minutes - 34 MBPart 2. Today we pick up where we left off in episode 1 and continue the conversation with more information on the juvenile court process. We’ll review felony and misdemeanor charges as well as degrees and counts. We’ll also briefly touch on plea deals & trials, what sentencing & probation look like, and then wrap the episode up by talking about record sealing. Local Thurston County Juvenile Court Programs https://www.thurstoncountywa.gov/sc/Pages/court-cases-juvenile.aspx Thurst...
Unyielding Love
October 08, 2021 17:21 - 11 minutes - 10.7 MBWelcome to Unyielding My name is Angie, and as your host, my goal is to sit with you and meet you right where you are. To pick up on the conversation that is already going on in your head. I'm not afraid of tough conversations, and I'm not shy about giving a voice to the struggles you are facing. Most importantly, I'm here to remind you of all the ways the unyielding love you feel for your child reveals itself. In this space, we show our scars. We don't pretend or hide in shame. ...