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Underneath It All Show Notes
Season 4, Episode 13: Type 9: The Peacekeeper

Grizel is joined by Kelsie, an Enneagram 9 Mentor, who helps other Enneagram Type Nines deal with mental health, conflict, boundaries, and more. On this episode, Grizel and Kelsie talk about accountability to dig into emotions, the unique emotional thresholds, and how to hold space for conflict as an Enneagram Type 9: The Peacemaker. 

From Truity.com: Nines are defined by their desire to maintain a sense of inner peace and harmony, and to avoid conflict or other emotional disturbances. They are typically agreeable, calm, and easy to be around. Nines rarely rock the boat, but they can be stubborn. While they typically go with the flow, they dislike being controlled and will respond with passive resistance if pushed too far.

Deepest Fear: Nines fear being too needy and thus pushing people away. They cope with this fear by submitting to the desires and agendas of the people around them: being agreeable in order to be included.

Core Motivations: Nines are motivated by their need for peace and harmony in their environment, and the desire to avoid conflict and deal with unpleasant emotions.

 

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If you want to continue digging into your Enneagram Type, you can check out the Enneagram Workbook HERE

If you’re a Nine, or want to learn more about Nines, visit Kelsie’s Instagram, @healthy9club. She is coming out with a course for type Nines, which will be released in 2023!!!

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