The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

A mile wide and an inch deep, sucks.

August 24, 2020 13:52 - 16 minutes - 6.32 MB

Monday morning rambling on the deep unexplored inner world of men. www.manuncivilized.com/thenation www.manuncivilized.com/thebook

The Bio Hacking Nomad with Kevin Crenshaw

August 20, 2020 22:53 - 51 minutes - 47.2 MB

No matter how many bad things happen we can always overcome adversities. From being bullied to carrying his life in a backpack, today's guest is a man who has experienced the good and bad things in life and now he dedicates to helping others selflessly. In this episode, I had the honor of speaking with Kevin Crenshaw. Kevin is a nomad and founder of Freedom Lore, a non profit domestic violence foundation. He will share with us what it's like to be nomad, his experience with bullying, how he...

The new paradigm of motherhood with Rebecca Freeman

August 17, 2020 23:44 - 56 minutes - 51.7 MB

Motherhood is one of the most important things in society. Mothers raise, love and lead the future generations. So, to honor all the mothers out there, today's guest is a mother willing to break motherhood paradigms, her name is Rebecca Freeman. In this episode, Rebecca shares the importance of finding your true self. We also talked about a mother's sexuality, men responsibilities and her work helping other mothers to be who they truly are in order to transform their lives. About Rebecca Fr...

Why police need to solve for pain more than crime with Garrett TeSlaa

August 13, 2020 17:36 - 53 minutes - 49.2 MB

Perspective. Every story has more than one side, and every side should be listened to in order to figure out a solution. When we talk about justice the first thing that comes to mind is the police, but recent news has shown the police as the bad guys in the story. To listen to both sides, and make your own criteria, today's guest is Garrett TeSlaa. Garrett is a veteran cop at the police department in California. In this episode, he shares what a day in the life of a cop is like and the ...

What kind of man wakes up in your house? Minisode w/ Traver Boehm

August 10, 2020 14:27 - 16 minutes - 6.37 MB

Here's an expansive question to start your week off right! In this mini solo Monday morning episode I dive into a question that's bound to help you on your path to excellence. www.manuncivilized.com/thenation to join my expanding men's group! www.manuncivilized.com/thebook to get your hands on a copy of my book. Cheers, Traver

Trusting Yourself and the Dangers of Fear-Based Chaos With Cat Bigney

August 06, 2020 23:41 - 56 minutes - 78.2 MB

We’re constantly being bombarded with chaos... What happens when that chaos comes from a place of fear? In this episode, I was joined by the amazing Cat Bigney. Cat is the Head Instructor for Boulder Outdoor Survival School (BOSS). We talked about her experiences as an instructor, tattoo artist and tv host. She shares the importance of developing self-trust and what it was like overcoming the fear of death. Cat has an incredible story and I can’t wait for you to hear her thoughts on resilien...

Minisode - The three misconceptions about doing difficult things with Traver Boehm

August 03, 2020 21:44 - 13 minutes - 5.24 MB

In this short episode I tackle the three biggest misconceptions about doing things that are difficult. From writing books and launching businesses, to getting divorced and fighting in a cage, I've done some hard things. And...notice the patterns people have and stories they tell themselves about why they can or cannot do the same. Enjoy. Men - we have over 60 members in the UNcivilized Nation! If you're tired of being a lone wolf and dealing with the stress of a pandemic on your own - STOP...

Minisode - The power of clean anger with Traver Boehm

July 27, 2020 15:47 - 16 minutes - 6.24 MB

In this short minisode, I dive into the benefits of clean anger and the differentiations between anger that runs through your heart and anger that doesn't! Men -- The Nation wants you! Come join the fastest growing men's group in the land: www.manuncivilized.com/thenation Please share and subscribe to my podcast! Cheers, Traver

How to survive in the wilderness with Matt Furches

July 23, 2020 10:00 - 53 minutes - 73.9 MB

If you’ve been around here for a while, I am sure you’ve heard me talk about the month I spent with Boulder Outdoor Survival School (BOSS). Today I brought on Matt Furches, Matt is one of the instructors for BOSS and a good friend of mine. We talked about how he got into his work at BOSS and how their training helps transform attendee’s lives for the better. We get into the idea of not having everything available to you at your fingertips, outcomes he’s seen from the BOSS training and some o...

Lessons from Hospice: Don't fear death.

July 20, 2020 15:38 - 10 minutes - 4.16 MB

In this episode I share one of the most impactful experiences I had as a hospice volunteer and how it reshaped my view of death and the time we have before it. Enjoy. www.manuncivilized.com/thenation www.manuncivilized.com/thebook Traver

Mother Hunger and Accessing Your Shadow With Rainier Wylde

July 16, 2020 10:00 - 57 minutes - 78.8 MB

Your relationship with the world and the people in the world is greatly affected by your relationship with your mother. That’s something we discussed in this episode with guest Rainier Wylde. Rainier talks about the term, mother hunger and how it differs from father wounds. We also explore what your shadow is and how men and women deal with their shadow in different ways. You’ll hear all about Rainier’s experience of disowning his embodied self, how he overcame that and why he doesn’t want t...

Killing the Nice Guy 101 with Traver Boehm

July 13, 2020 18:26 - 13 minutes - 5.16 MB

The Nice Guy isn't nice. He's a wolf in sheep's clothing. He's a danger. And he's in pain and there are ways out of that pain. In this episode I dive into the Nice Guy paradigm and give three tools to working your way out of it. My men's leadership course starts on July 19th! www.manuncivilized.com/hhb to sign up. If you're looking for an amazing group of men - www.manuncivilized.com/thenation And to get your hands on a copy (audio as well) of my book: www.manuncivilized.com/thebook Che...

Lessons learned from a month in a pitch black room.

July 10, 2020 16:37 - 1 hour - 24.6 MB

In this solo episode recorded live with an audience on Zoom, I'm sharing some of the lessons learned when I spent 28 days in a dark retreat in Guatemala. The focus was these three pillars: Pain. Surrender. Freedom. There's also an offer at the end for my upcoming men's leadership group course: www.manuncivilized.com/hhb Enjoy, and please share this!

The Opposite Of Racism Is Love with Kiné Corder

July 09, 2020 16:45 - 1 hour - 86.2 MB

There’s so much hate in our world, especially when the conversation turns to race and inequality for non-white people. In this episode, I was joined by an amazing guest, Kiné Corder to discuss this and how we can render better approaches to race. Kiné is a Black therapist who shares her own experiences of being a Black woman in American society. She shares a story about finding out her brother’s experience as a Black man, why many conversations about race are ineffective and how we need more...

Pain boulders in your living room. Solo w/ Traver Boehm

July 06, 2020 16:34 - 14 minutes - 5.49 MB

Sometimes the answers staring us in the face are the hardest to see. But only because we think they're too big to handle. In this solo episode I dive into a few ways to manage your pain and work with it once and for all. Wed night July 8th at 8pm EST -- FREE Master Class on how to use your pain as rocket fuel. www.manuncivilized.com/unplugged to register. www.manuncivilized.com/thenation for ANY man who's ready to take his life to the next level with brothers by his side. www.manuncivil...

The Collective Responsibility of Healthy, Masculine Leadership With Connor Beaton

July 02, 2020 23:43 - 52 minutes - 72.4 MB

Society always needs healthy, masculine leadership. In this episode, I was joined by a recent guest on the podcast to chat about this. We talked about why authoritarian and dictator style leaderships are so popular and I shared one of the best leadership lessons I saw as a young adult. We talk about the shadow masculine leadership and how it uses division and segregation to come into power and divide. Connor and I discuss why men need to prioritize self-care, get in community with other men ...

Men, you need to know what you're building.

June 29, 2020 15:52 - 15 minutes - 6.21 MB

Tell me what you're building and I'll tell you who you are - especially if you're a man. The best way to navigate a chaotic world is to have a plan, a map, and an idea that's inspiring. This episode will dive into all of this. Men: www.manuncivilized.com/thenation to become part of the fastest growing men's group in America. My book Man UNcivilized is available on Audible as well as: www.manuncivilized.com/thebook Cheers, Traver

How To Unpack Your Trauma As A Man with Michael Gay

June 25, 2020 11:00 - 47 minutes - 65.7 MB

Trauma comes in many forms which is why many people don’t realize they have it. But the fact is, we all face trauma whether it’s big or small. In this episode, I was joined by Michael Gay, a private practice therapist who specializes in depression, trauma, PTSD, and grief for families and groups. We talk about his work as a therapist including the practices of wilderness therapy and equine therapy. Michael shares about the power of connection and relationship with others. He gives insight in...

Why you need to have both agency and tension in your life.

June 22, 2020 13:42 - 20 minutes - 7.9 MB

Solo Monday morning pod on the power of taking agency and coming back to the question, "What are you building?" It's easy to tear things down, it's far more difficult to build - thus why the men of the UNcivilized Nation are constantly reminded to stay in the tension of building their unique life visions. www.manuncivilized.com/thenation www.manuncivlized.com/thebook

Somatic Sexology and Opening Into Pleasure With Julianne Vaccaro

June 19, 2020 18:28 - 45 minutes - 61.9 MB

No matter who you are, you likely have faced some varying form of trauma in your life. The things you go through have an effect on your wellbeing, relationships and sex life. That’s why I had today's guest, Julianne Vaccaro to talk about the practice of somatic sexology and what she does in her career as a somatic sexologist and women’s holistic health and spiritual life coach. She and I explore opening up into pleasure and how who you are in the bedroom reflects who you are in the world. Ju...

Why you need to break your addiction to future knowledge

June 15, 2020 17:43 - 14 minutes - 5.83 MB

Another Monday morning solo episode. In this I'm diving into how to LEAD at a time when leading has never been more challenging. I'm sharing the same advice here I've been giving to my private clients for the last few weeks on how to thrive when others are struggling. If this is helpful, please share it! Men -- join your BROTHERS here --> www.manuncivilized.com/thenation

How To Deal With Grief And The Death Of A Loved One With Christina Rasmussen

June 11, 2020 20:24 - 57 minutes - 78.5 MB

What happens when we pass away? How do we overcome grief of lost loved ones? You’ll hear about that and more on this episode with guest Christina Rasmussen. Christina is an author, acclaimed grief educator and podcast host. She founded The Life Reentry Institute to help people rebuild their lives after grief. Christina and I discuss the concept of the waiting room and why so many people get stuck there. She talks about why you should never minimize the pain of others and how validation from ...

How to navigate the continuing chaos of 2020 - solo episode w/ Traver Boehm

June 06, 2020 14:12 - 22 minutes - 8.8 MB

In this episode I share my thoughts on what's happening in America at the moment and how to be with all of it in an UNcivilized fashion.

Dismantling Shame With Jules Webber

June 04, 2020 16:55 - 59 minutes - 81.2 MB

You can’t just escape shame from your past however you can begin to work through (and eventually) overcome the shame that weighs you down. In this episode, I was joined by life and intimacy coach Jules Webber. Jules helps people get into a more intimate, loving relationship with themselves. We talk about her own experience with doing energy and being energy. She shares her journey through shame and how she helps other people to dismantle their shame. Jules and I discuss embracing intimacy wi...

How To Be A Leader During Covid with Connor Beaton

June 01, 2020 08:00 - 52 minutes - 72.4 MB

In this podcast, men’s coach and Man Talks founder Connor Beaton and I discuss how men can become leaders during these difficult times. We dive into the potential challenges we’re facing in the West and how men can step into leadership roles without ever leaving their house.

How Men Can Take Ownership Of Their Lives with Stefanos Sifandos

May 28, 2020 08:00 - 52 minutes - 72.3 MB

So many people seem to struggle with living in fear which can be a huge hindrance to your life and relationships. In this episode, I was joined by a genius in the world of relationships, Stefanos Sifandos. Stefanos is a love and relationship coach that helps people become more consciously connected. We talk about the biggest relational challenges pre-pandemic and during the pandemic. He shares how to use this time to tap into your sexuality, the importance of healthy routines and what made h...

Getting In Touch With Your Sacred Purpose With Jeff Brown

May 21, 2020 17:17 - 53 minutes - 74 MB

Believe it or not, you have a sacred purpose. There’s a reason for you being on earth right now. In fact, we all have a sacred purpose for our lives. In this episode, I brought on Jeff Brown, an author and Enrealment Activist. Jeff and I discuss the idea of spiritual bypassing and how it differs from having a healthy spirituality. He shares his ideas about what a conscious capitalist society would look like and his thoughts on the future of patriarchal constructs. Jeff talks about his book, ...

The power of conscious sinning with Sophie Josephina

May 14, 2020 12:00 - 1 hour - 94 MB

Are you living your fully expressed self? In this episode, I was joined by Sophia Josephina, a life, sex and relating coach and teacher who helps us understand how to come back into your body. We talk about everything from living as a fully expressed and sexually liberated woman (her experience and how men often react to having a partner with a high sex drive). Sophie shares her own experience of transitioning to work around tantra, sex and relationships after years of working as a quantum p...

Minisode: Why I quit drinking five years ago.

May 11, 2020 20:48 - 29 minutes - 11.4 MB

Lots of people are stuck at home right now contemplating how they want to move forward with their lives. One of the best decisions I've made in my life was quitting drinking. Voluntarily. In this episode I talk about why I went this route, what some of the challenges were, and the positive outcomes that have come so far. Enjoy, Traver www.manuncivilized.com www.manuncivilized.com/thenation www.manuncivilized.com/thebook @traverboehm

Psychedelics & Exploring the Frontiers Of Your Consciousness With Dylan Lyon

May 07, 2020 11:00 - 1 hour - 86.7 MB

Are you ready to move toward your highest evolution? If so, you’ll want to hear this episode with guest Dylan Lyon. Dylan is a coach that works with radical consciousness and heart-based intuitive guidance to help people find their true self and live the life they’re meant to live. In this episode, Dylan and I talk about his journey of choosing his own path in life. He talks about the divide between the wildness and the civilized world. He shares all about the work he does with meditation an...

Why You Need To Know Your Shadow With Connor Baton

April 30, 2020 17:42 - 51 minutes - 70.7 MB

Are you facing battles with the Shadow? Have you found that you tend to self-sabotage the things and relationships in your life? If so, you'll want to hear this episode because I brought on a great friend of mine, Connor Beaton. Connor is a coach, teacher and speaker that helps men (and women) walk through their darkness. He talks about the Shadow and what that means to him. Connor talks about managing conflict in your relationships. He also shares why you should consider challenging social ...

Moving Past Perfectionism with Julian Reeve

April 23, 2020 17:11 - 54 minutes - 75.2 MB

Is perfectionism getting in the way of your life? Are you facing the idea of a career shift? In this episode, I am joined by Julian Reeve, a speaker, coach and motivator for people going through career transitions. Right now, many people are facing career changes so I thought you’d really enjoy Julian’s take on how to navigate transition with ease. We chat about his experience of going from being a Music Director for HAMILTON to what he does now. Julian shares his experience with perfectioni...

The Power of Pleasure with Jamie Thompson

April 16, 2020 16:21 - 45 minutes - 63 MB

The power of pleasure is life-giving. Pleasure can be used to help you attain new levels of consciousness and enlightenment. This episode is filled with wisdom from holistic sex and intimacy coach Jamie Thompson. Her guidance for women is unmatched and she truly helps women discover how to reprioritize and take action on what they want. Jamie touches on her own experiences with cervical orgasms and how they differ from g-spot and clitoral orgasms. She talks about developing erotic rituals in...

Aphrodisiacs, Sexual Desires and Why NOW Is The Time to Show Up for Women with Jamie Thompson

April 16, 2020 16:15 - 47 minutes - 65.7 MB

Now more than ever, women need men to show up for them. As most of us are stuck at home, there are a lot of different things running through our minds as men right now. Whether you’re in a relationship and living with your partner or single and living alone, this episode with holistic sex and intimacy coach Jamie Thompson will help you to realign with your own sexual practice. She shares how men can focus on their relationships during this time. She dives into how to develop a sex practice t...

How a Pandemic May Shift the Way the World Views Masculinity with Jack Donovan

April 13, 2020 16:13 - 1 hour - 92 MB

Have you ever considered how a pandemic such as the one we’re facing in today’s world could drastically shift the way the world looks at and appreciates masculinity? In this episode, I am joined by Jack Donovan, author of The Way of Men to discuss masculinity and how this pandemic could reshape men and the way that the world looks at men in culture. We discuss a possible resurgence of tribalism, why many men are disconnected from leading and why ritual is essential for masculinity. About Ja...

How The UNcivilized Respond To The Corona Virus

March 30, 2020 23:46 - 28 minutes - 25.7 MB

How to use the 5 Pillars of UNcivilized Masculinity to turn this challenge into your greatest teacher. Applicable to both men and women.

Corona Virus Live Stream Guided Meditation

March 18, 2020 16:27 - 31 minutes - 29 MB

Live track from this morning's live stream meditation.

Making Decisions From A Place of Love, Not Fear with Kendra Adachi

March 13, 2020 20:32 - 44 minutes - 60.6 MB

Are you operating from love or fear? Today’s guest, Kendra Adachi came on to talk about the changes that can be made in your life by doing things out of love instead of from a place of fear. Kendra moved toward a healthier lifestyle after realizing her body was addicted to processed foods and on this episode, she shares why she prescribes movement as a form of healing to her clients, how to recognize your own bio-individuality when making food choices and paying attention to your mental and e...

Challenging Yourself In Meditation and Uncovering the Truth of Sexual Desires with Steve James

March 05, 2020 20:26 - 1 hour - 85.2 MB

Disclaimer: Traver’s audio is choppy but this is a great conversation so bear with us. Just like with physical health, your meditation practices will only get stronger by pushing and challenging yourself. That’s what we discussed in this episode with Steve James, also known as the Guru Viking. In this episode, Steve and I discuss long-form meditations, his current meditation practices and how he transitioned from the music industry to meditation and consciousness practices. He discusses his ...

How to be an UNcivilized man in a civilized world.

January 20, 2020 19:13 - 19 minutes - 7.44 MB

How to be an UNcivilized man in a civilized world. by Traver Boehm

The UNcivilized Podcast: Embodying the King & Warrior Archetypes

December 23, 2019 15:16 - 21 minutes - 8.43 MB

The UNcivilized Podcast: Embodying the King & Warrior Archetypes by Traver Boehm

Preference vs Prejudice - Why Men Need To Find Sovereignty

December 10, 2019 03:38 - 28 minutes - 11 MB

Preference vs Prejudice - Why Men Need To Find Sovereignty by Traver Boehm

Preference vs Prejudice -- Why Men Need To Find Sovereignty

December 10, 2019 03:38 - 28 minutes - 11 MB

Preference vs Prejudice -- Why Men Need To Find Sovereignty by Traver Boehm

The Men’s Mental Health Predicament with Asher Packman

November 05, 2019 21:15 - 50 minutes - 69.1 MB

Today I spoke with a friend that I met on Instagram, Asher Packman. We discuss everything from men’s work to mental health, illness, mediation and the human experience. Asher and I chat about how he ended up doing this type of work, the losses he went through and how that grief took a toll on him. We discuss turning inward and how to overcome loss. He shares why you should listen to the messages from the universe and how to use meditation as a tool for your daily life. About Asher Packman: ...

What you can learn from your dreams with Tom Elsner

October 16, 2019 22:34 - 1 hour - 87.7 MB

What you can learn from your dreams with Tom Elsner by Traver Boehm

Mastering Your Pleasure with Michaela Boehm

September 25, 2019 17:36 - 59 minutes - 82 MB

Today I had one of my absolute favorite humans to discuss relationships, intimacy and getting in touch with your own body. I spoke with Michaela Boehm, counselor and author of the must-read book, The Wild Woman’s Way. We dive into the world of dating and how the dating game looks different because of today’s technology. She shares the need for sensitizing your relationship with your own body, why most women struggle with being honest about what they want in relationships and why men are afrai...

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