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Unapologetically Sensitive

350 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago - ★★★★★ - 173 ratings

In this podcast, we explore how sensitivity weaves itself into our lives. We talk about the richness that it adds, and the strengths we have BECAUSE of our sensitivity and some of the challenges it poses as well. If you are a Creative, a deep thinker, a deep feeler, neurodivergent, autistic, a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), an introvert, or identify as INFJ or ENFJ, you may enjoy the in-depth conversations where we talk openly and honestly about how we experience life. This is a podcast where you can learn, relate, laugh and maybe even live a bolder, brighter life.

Have you been told you’re “too” (fill in the blank)? You’re too sensitive; you think/worry too much; you take things too personally; you’re too emotional, too finicky, too fragile, too intense, too uptight, too slow. Have you been told you can’t take a joke; you can’t go with the flow? You can’t let go of things? Making decisions can be very difficult. You might have an acute sense of smell, and strong odors, crowded noisy environments and bright lights are just too much!

You notice things that no one else does. You have a strong sense of justice and you may be a peace-keeper. Conflict feels uncomfortable. You’re the one that everyone tells their problems to because you’re a good listener who cares deeply.

You’re in the right place!

You may have been diagnosed with anxiety, depression, ADHD or something else. Sometimes Highly Sensitive People are misdiagnosed. Our brains are wired differently. We are born with the trait of High Sensitivity. There’s nothing wrong with you! You will learn that your perceived weaknesses are really are your superpowers! Dr. Elaine Aron coined the term Highly Sensitive Person (also known as Sensory Processing Sensitivity).

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Episodes

244 Managing Expectations: Showing Up For Yourself During Hard Times

May 21, 2024 07:00 - 43 minutes - 56.8 MB

Managing Expectations: Showing Up for Yourself During Hard Times   Jen and Patricia discuss attachment wounds in their friendship. They explore the importance of self-awareness, setting boundaries, and managing expectations. They highlight the need for compassion & understanding when dealing with attachment issues & emphasize the ongoing work of healing & growth. In this conversation, Patricia shares her recent experiences with conflict & how she navigated this. She discusses the impo...

243 Attachment Wounds: OCD, Projection, Managing Dysregulation

May 14, 2024 07:00 - 38 minutes - 50.3 MB

Attachment Wounds: OCD, Projection, Managing Dysregulation   Patricia candidly discusses her experiences with attachment wounds, OCD tendencies, projection and trauma responses with Jen, and how this is showing up in their relationship. Patricia shares what her OCD thoughts tend to look like. Through introspection and vulnerability, Patricia reflects on the impact of past traumas on her emotional well-being. Their dialogue underscores the importance of self-awareness, self-care, and r...

242 Attachment Wounds: A Follow Up Conversation

May 07, 2024 07:00 - 51 minutes - 65.7 MB

Attachment Wounds: A Follow Up Conversation   Jen and Patricia reflect on their recent challenge (see episode 241), and they discuss the importance of taking responsibility for their own needs and emotions. They explore the impact of attachment wounds and the challenges of navigating relationships. They talk about what trauma and reenactment looks like in a relationship. They also discuss the need for self-care and the importance of managing expectations. This is a very vulnerable and...

241 Attachment Wounds: When You Can't Work it out in the Moment

April 30, 2024 07:20 - 28 minutes - 39.7 MB

Attachment Wounds: When You Can’t Work It Out In The Moment   Patricia reflects on her attachment wounds & something that happened with Jen. She emphasizes that the issue was not a rupture in her relationship, but rather her own trauma and wounding. She reassures listeners that they are doing fine & have navigated the situation with honesty & grace. Patricia also touches on the importance of doing personal work & finding others who are also committed to growth. She encourages listener...

240 Navigating Grief, Uncertainty & Travel Through the Lens of Attachment

April 23, 2024 07:00 - 45 minutes - 58.2 MB

Navigating Grief, Uncertainty & Travel Through the Lens of Attachment Patricia and Jen discuss navigating uncertainty and overwhelm, managing change and unexpected situations, balancing personal needs, the power of communication and validation, finding meaning and value in relationships, coping with anxiety and catastrophic thinking, choosing to assume the best, managing energy and boundaries, secure attachment and autonomy, dealing with uncertainty and seeking information, taking care o...

239 Being “Too Much” is a Narrative that needs to be Re-examined

April 16, 2024 07:00 - 23 minutes - 33.3 MB

Being “Too Much” is a Narrative that needs to be Re-examined   Summary   Patricia discusses the wound of too much and how it can impact relationships. Too much is about BOTH people and the capacity of the other person. This is a narrative that needs to be reexamined, and the context of both people needs to be addressed. She explores the intersection of neurodivergence, trauma, and socialization. Patricia also explores the concept of rules, and how through an autistic lens, this ...

238 Learning to Trust Yourself and Finding Peace in Your Own Rhythm

April 09, 2024 07:00 - 28 minutes - 39.4 MB

Learning to Trust Yourself and Finding Peace in Your Own Rhythm   Patricia discusses her experience when her husband is away. She shares her journey of managing attachment wounds, and the challenges of household responsibilities. Patricia also explores the impact of autistic burnout and ADHD on her ability to stay on top of things. She emphasizes the importance of honoring autonomy and considering others while maintaining a sense of self. Patricia concludes by encouraging listeners to...

237 Unmasking & Authentic Communication: Navigating Differences in Relationships

April 02, 2024 07:00 - 43 minutes - 56.6 MB

Unmasking & Authentic Communication: Navigating Differences in Relationships   Patricia and Jen discuss the challenges of unmasking and being authentic in relationships including the role of PDA (Pervasive Drive for Autonomy). They explore the narratives we have about ourselves and how they can impact our interactions with others. They also delve into the differences in communication styles and perspectives, and the importance of embracing who we are. The conversation highlights the n...

236 Exploring Neurodivergence in Relationships: Understanding Unique Perspectives

March 26, 2024 07:00 - 37 minutes - 49.6 MB

Exploring Neurodivergence in Relationships: Understanding Unique Perspectives In this conversation, Patricia and Jen discuss their struggles with linear content and their values of focusing on relational topics. They explore the challenges of staying true to their authentic selves while creating content. The conversation also delves into the dynamics of their relationship and the growth they have experienced in building trust and security, and things they sometimes find difficult to disc...

235 Red & Green Flags in Relationships

March 19, 2024 07:00 - 22 minutes - 31.9 MB

Red & Green Flags in Relationships   Patricia discusses red flags and ideal qualities in relationships. She emphasizes the importance of honoring rhythms and self-care, as well as effective communication and conflict resolution. Patricia also addresses gaslighting, setting boundaries, and the significance of trust, honesty, and similar values in a relationship. She explores the impact of political differences and attachment wounds on a partnership. The episode concludes with a reminde...

234 Navigating Miscommunication and Misunderstanding

March 12, 2024 08:00 - 38 minutes - 51.1 MB

Navigating Miscommunication and Misunderstanding   Jen helps me process through a communication blip I had with my son. My husband & I have very different styles when talking to our boys, & I felt inadequate, and I sometimes struggle to attune. We talk about context when communicating, projection, who is a safe person to get angry at, & I talk about my own reactivity and confusion at my reaction. Jen reminds me that my family sticks with hard conversations. We also talk about having n...

233 Neurodivergence and Friendship: The Struggle is Real

March 05, 2024 08:00 - 36 minutes - 48.1 MB

Neurodivergence and Friendship: The Struggle is Real   I talk about the challenges and complexities of friendships for neurodivergent folks, and the changing nature of friendships, the importance of reciprocity and communication. I discuss navigating difficult conversations, recognizing and addressing needs, and setting boundaries. I talk about the tendency to feel central in someone's life, and the challenges of accepting neurodivergence in relationships. I explore the importance of ...

232 The Importance of Rest & Learning to Receive & Ask for Help

February 27, 2024 08:00 - 37 minutes - 49.1 MB

The Importance of Rest & Learning to Receive & Ask for Help   Patricia and Jen discuss their health updates and the challenges they have faced. They also delve into the pressure to be productive and the fear of not functioning. The conversation shifts to vulnerability and insecurity in relationships, as well as the process of learning to receive and ask for help. They reflect on the growth and healing that comes from navigating attachment wounds. The conversation concludes with a discu...

231 Autism Identification Should Come with a Warning Label (Including Autistic Burnout)

February 20, 2024 08:00 - 29 minutes - 40.2 MB

Autism Identification Should Come with a Warning Label (Including Autistic Burnout)   There are things that happen to most autistic people once they identify as autistic, and there should be a warning label! If you’re late diagnosed, and high masking, there’s a good chance you are, or will be in autistic burnout. There’s also skill regression, and not being able to push through anymore. This can be confusing and distressing. I bring you up to date on my health journey, and where I’m a...

230 Exploring Identity, and Turning Toward Yourself in Affirming Ways

February 13, 2024 08:00 - 37 minutes - 49.2 MB

Exploring Identity, and Turning Toward Yourself in Affirming Ways   Jen and I touch on so much in this episode: challenges setting boundaries; structure vs. the need for novelty (ADHD vs. autism), attachment injuries and bids for connection; the challenges and gifts of hard conversations; what neuro-affirming therapy looks like; PDA and focusing on others to reduce demands; masking; what comes up when someone suspects they are autistic or are recently diagnosed.   CO-HOST Jen ...

229 Real Talk on Health Challenges: Speaking FOR Your Parts vs. Speaking FROM Your Parts

February 06, 2024 08:00 - 48 minutes - 62 MB

Real Talk on Health Challenges: Speaking FOR Your Parts vs. Speaking FROM Your Parts   Jen and I talk about the difference between complaining, speaking honestly about what’s going on, and the other person’s capacity to sit with things that they may feel they need to fix or change. Many of you have been told that you complain too much or that you’re too negative. Neurodivergent brains tend to report the truth, and we are very discerning about what we like and what we don’t like. This ...

228 Getting from Here to There When You’ve Lost Your Routine

January 30, 2024 08:00 - 27 minutes - 37.8 MB

Getting from Here to There When You’ve Lost Your Routine   How do you get back in a groove after you’ve gotten out of it? We often assume we can jump back in, but sometimes it’s harder than that. I also talk about getting consent in relationships before giving feedback and advice. Attuning to the other person is the best gift you can give someone. This means dropping your agenda. I also talk about how to communicate your sensory needs when others are unaware. It can be exhausting it c...

227 Attachment Injuries, Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Self-Care

January 23, 2024 08:00 - 44 minutes - 57.8 MB

Attachment Injuries, Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Self-Care Jen and I discuss attachment wounds and using an Internal Family Systems (IFS) framework. We talk about the difference of speaking for our parts vs. speaking from our parts. We talk about overperformance, the pressure to show up and masking, and the importance of feeling seen and heard in relationships. We talk about unpacking an autism diagnosis and reviewing life through the lens of autism. We also emphasize embracing imp...

226 The Power of Showing Up: Embracing Imperfection and Struggles with PDA and RSD

January 16, 2024 08:00 - 42 minutes - 55.1 MB

The Power of Showing Up: Embracing Imperfection and Struggles with PDA and RSD   Jen and I discuss our struggles with showing up and doing life even when it's hard. We model grace and vulnerability, reminding you that it's okay to not have it all together. The conversation touches on topics such as PDA, rejection-sensitive dysphoria RSD, and the pressure of gift-giving. We also discuss the importance of communication and staying connected, even when feeling tired or overwhelmed. This ...

225 Navigating Autism and PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance, or Pervasive Drive for Autonomy)

January 09, 2024 08:00 - 34 minutes - 46.4 MB

Navigating Autism and PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance or Pervasive Drive for Autonomy)  I discuss being diagnosed Autistic with a PDA (pathological demand avoidance) profile. I express frustration with the DSM criteria for ADHD and autism, as I don’t see myself in the criteria. I highlight the common misdiagnosis of PDA as oppositional defiant disorder in children, emphasizing the need for a deeper understanding of neurodivergent experiences. I advocate a shift from viewing differences...

224 Building Trust in Neurodivergent Settings: Overcoming Group Apprehension

January 02, 2024 08:00 - 46 minutes - 59.5 MB

Building Trust in Neurodivergent Settings: Overcoming Group Apprehension Ellie and Patricia highlight the importance of creating inclusive spaces that foster trust, comfort, and collaboration for neurodivergent folks. They discuss the benefits of tailoring curriculum to individual and group needs. This episode also touches on the depth and organic nature of group conversations, and the role of personalized attention within a structured framework. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the ...

223 Neurodivergent Insights: Navigating ADHD, Autism, PDA and Communication

December 26, 2023 08:00 - 45 minutes - 59 MB

Neurodivergent Insights: Navigating ADHD, Autism, PDA, and Communication   Jen and I discuss the challenges of living with ADHD, Autism and PDA, including communication difficulties and perception of reality. We talk about how these show up for us differently, and how we navigate some of the challenges. I also share about disclosing to my MD about being autistic, and how that was received. We also talk about the difficulty of the holidays for some, and some end of year reflections tha...

222 Redinfining Success for the Neurodivergent

December 19, 2023 08:00 - 42 minutes - 54.8 MB

Redefining Success for the Neurodivergent   Jen and I discuss the concept of success and how it is often measured by neurotypical norms. We challenge these measures, and explore alternative ways to define and measure success for the neurodivergent. We emphasize the importance of authenticity, having hard conversations, and embracing imperfection. We also discuss the value of uncertainty and not knowing, and how it can lead to creativity and growth. We invite you to redefine success on...

221 Navigating Relationship Bumps: Whose Stuff is This?

December 12, 2023 08:00 - 32 minutes - 43.6 MB

Navigating Relationship Bumps: Whose Stuff is This?   Once again, I had a bump in a relationship, and I got to see that I had a part in it. Our fear of rejection, abandonment, or someone getting angry with us, can prevent us from having difficult conversations. We minimize our feelings for fear of being too sensitive. When we do this work enough, eventually, remaining silent, no longer works. I got pretty dysregulated, but I was able to manage. It was more important to share my feeling...

220 Navigating Competing Needs in a Relationship

December 05, 2023 08:20 - 47 minutes - 61.1 MB

Navigating Competing Needs in a Relationship Jen & I talk about having competing needs while I was visiting her, and what came up for me, and how we navigated having uncomfortable feelings. We look at this through the lens of neurodivergence (Autism, HSP, ADHD and PDA). We also explore the difficulty I had as a neurodivergent person assessing if I had a good time on the trip or not. We also look at where we blended well and what we will do differently next time. CO-HOST Jen Perry, ...

219 When Your Stuff Bumps Up Against Your Friend's Stuff

November 28, 2023 08:00 - 38 minutes - 50.6 MB

When Your Stuff Bumps Up Against Your Friend’s Stuff How do you navigate feeling hurt in a relationship, and the other person doesn’t understand (or realize) that you have been hurt? What do you do when the other person thinks you want space, but you feel hurt, and that’s not what you need, but you think the other person is distancing from you? Is it ok to text or email someone when you feel hurt and a phone call or in-person conversation feels overwhelming? I also talk about my dislike ...

218 Navigating Change: How to Stay True to Yourself While Traveling

November 21, 2023 08:00 - 43 minutes - 56.1 MB

Navigating Change: How to Stay True to Yourself While Traveling Travelling and being a guest in someone’s home can be challenging due to change: adjusting to new routines, and being out of your routine. I spend a week with Jen, and we talk about checking in with each other, and my need for structure, and Jen’s lack of structure. We talk about structure vs. flexibility, and as an autistic, how do I honor how I’m wired and still go with the flow? We focus heavily on self-care and compassio...

217 Navigating Executive Dysfunction: Managing Busy Minds

November 14, 2023 08:00 - 43 minutes - 56.8 MB

Navigating Executive Dysfunction: Managing Busy Minds Managing appointments, schedules and life can be challenging when you’ve got ADHD, AuDHD, or simply challenges with executive functioning. Jen and I talk about our struggles and the things that work for us. We talk about what may be more neuroaffirming. We also talk about the challenges of getting advice, or working with someone who doesn’t understand neurodiversity. For example: being told to try silent meditation, but that may not w...

216 Friendships Can Be Bleeping Hard

November 07, 2023 07:00 - 37 minutes - 49.5 MB

Friendships Can Be Bleeping Hard! Friendship struggles are real! How does being neurodivergent or specifically autistic impact friendships? Common themes of being misunderstood in spite having good intentions, and allowing others to see you in ways that are not how you see yourself. I talk about navigating breakups, not being able to do repair after a rupture, and using these painful experiences to clarify your values and what you want in your friendships. I also talk about coping strate...

215 Neurodivergence & Autsim: Navigating Challenges in Relationships

October 31, 2023 07:00 - 48 minutes - 61.9 MB

Neurodivergence & Autism: Navigating Challenges in Relationships We explore the challenges of maintaining friendships for people who are neurodivergent (AuDHD, autistic, HSP etc.) We emphasize the importance of emotional intelligence, empathy, active listening, open communication, patience, setting boundaries, and forgiveness in building and maintaining meaningful relationships. CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC HIGHLIGHTS ·         An autism diagnosis means that sometimes one...

214 AFAB Autism Assessment: PDA, and other Common Questions Answered

October 24, 2023 07:00 - 57 minutes - 72.2 MB

AFAB Autism Assessment: PDA, and other Common Questions Answered Dr. Jessica Myszak, who provides autism assessments for late-diagnosed, high masking women answers the following questions: What is PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance or Persistent/Pervasive Drive for Autonomy)? What does PDA look like? What is important to ask if someone wants to pursue a formal autism diagnosis? What are common comorbidities (as well as misdiagnoses) if one is autistic? Is it possible to manipulate or che...

213 Autism, Relationships & PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance or Pervasive Drive for Autonomy

October 17, 2023 07:00 - 47 minutes - 60.5 MB

Autism, Relationships & PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance or Pervasive Drive for Autonomy The challenges people have maintaining relationships can be related to relational trauma, PDA, the desire for consistency and/or adherence to high or unrealistic expectations. PDA is a profile of autism, and people with PDA may have no problem making friends, but they may have difficulty keeping them. Can someone who is autistic become more flexible and lower their expectations if they want to? Wha...

212 AFAB Autism Assessment: Common Questions Answered

October 10, 2023 07:00 - 46 minutes - 59.3 MB

AFAB Autism Assessment: Common Questions Answered Dr. Jessica Myszak, who provides autism assessments for late-diagnosed, high masking women answers the following questions: How does autism present differently in women? Is self-diagnosis valid? Why haven’t the lived experiences of women been included in the diagnostic criteria? What might social differences, repetitive and stimming behaviors look like in someone who is AFAB? We explore thoughts about HSP vs. autism? What is Pathological ...

211 Emotional Intelligence in Relationships: Honoring Neurodivergent Needs and Communication Styles

October 03, 2023 07:00 - 40 minutes - 52.9 MB

Emotional Intelligence in Relationships: Honoring Neurodivergent Needs and Communication Styles How do you center yourself in relationships when you’re being told you’re difficult to be around, or people stop communicating with you? How do you navigate ambiguous communication? I go on a rant because I was feeling frustrated. I talk about neurodivergence and my experience being autistic. I also explore the following: Is self-diagnosis for autism valid? What are misconceptions about autis...

210 Not Feeling Good Enough: Self-Criticism, Healing and Vulnerability

September 26, 2023 07:00 - 52 minutes - 67 MB

Not Feeling Good Enough: Self-Criticism, Healing and Vulnerability We talk about the origins of feeling not good enough, and even if you understand why you feel this way, you still may be stuck.  At the end, Jen and I have a tearful moment that is bursting with vulnerability sharing something we have never talked about before. We talk about our own rigidity, inflexibility and having high expectations for others. We explore the power of naming what is going on in the moment, even when it ...

209 Navigating Difficult Conversations: Communicating Honestly in Relationships

September 19, 2023 07:00 - 37 minutes - 49 MB

Navigating Difficult Conversations: Communicating Honestly in Relationships Being assertive with medical providers can be hard; does one disclose an autism diagnosis? I discuss the importance of vulnerability, as well as the challenges of transparency and balancing honesty and privacy. My birthday came with expectations and disappointments, and some unexpected healing. I explore the challenges of talking about personal experiences without hurting or offending others, and I discuss the im...

208 Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People

September 12, 2023 07:00 - 49 minutes - 63.5 MB

Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People Dr. Lindsay Gibson, discusses her most recent book, and she offers practical strategies, reflective exercises, and tips for dealing with emotionally immature people (EIPs). We explore topics such as understanding emotional immaturity, healing from emotional immaturity, and developing emotional maturity. We discuss the importance of self-care, self-compassion, and self-improvement. Dr. Gibson offers hope, validation, and empowerment to those...

207 Empowerment in Vulnerability: Becoming the Heroine of Your Story

September 05, 2023 07:00 - 44 minutes - 57.6 MB

Empowerment in Vulnerability: Becoming the Heroine of Your Story This episode includes wanting people to intuit what you want without having to ask; struggling with having to ask for what you want; not being chosen, and how to turn this around; identifying who your people are; assessing what others have to offer in relationships instead of assuming that you’re the one with the deficits. We also talk about how to have compassion for where you’re at, and the gifts of doing healing work. ...

206 Expressing Feelings when Systems Fail and Frustrate Us

August 29, 2023 07:00 - 40 minutes - 53.3 MB

Expressing Feelings When Systems Fail and Frustrate Us I had a meltdown after reaching my frustration limit. Jen & I discuss how to discharge frustration, while navigating inefficient systems. What prevents us from speaking up, and our concern about how we are perceived. How to advocate for yourself, and get support from others, especially when you’re dysregulated. How do you stay grounded and focused on getting your needs met when things are breaking down? We also discuss how much heali...

205 Navigating Neurodiversity: The Struggle to Figure out the Rules

August 22, 2023 07:00 - 55 minutes - 69.7 MB

Navigating Neurodiversity: The Struggle to Figure out the Rules We discuss the importance of emotional intelligence, & allowing oneself to feel the full range of emotions. We talk about the struggle to figure out what the unspoken expectations are. We talk about how neurodivergent brains process information compared to neurotypical brains, as well as communication styles that may be more effective. If you’re neurodivergent (HSP, autistic, ADHD etc.), being around others who also have hig...

204 I Needed to Become the Person I Needed Most

August 15, 2023 07:00 - 46 minutes - 60 MB

I Needed to Become the Person I Needed Most  Kelly took the HSP Course 3 years ago. When life threw her a curveball 18 months ago, she had no idea the profound impact the Course would have on her. Kelly embraced her emotions without judgement, and she began to heal and grow. She allowed people to be there for her. She shares the mantras she used, and she talks about the beauty she experienced while being present and in discomfort. Kelly is thriving in spite of challenges.  GUEST Ke...

203 Regulating your Nervous System: Setting Boundaries, and Self-Care while Travelling

August 08, 2023 07:00 - 45 minutes - 58.4 MB

Regulating your Nervous System: Setting Boundaries and Self-Care while Travelling  On a Saturday, I decided to fly to Philadelphia the next day. This episode addresses travelling considerations when you’re neurodivergent. I had to set some boundaries and I also had to implement a lot of self-care. We talk about strategies for travelling, and how to anticipate, prepare, execute, and communicate your needs. We talk about non-violent communication, frequent check-ins, how to adjust if you n...

202 I Am Learning That There is Nothing Wrong with Me

August 01, 2023 07:00 - 44 minutes - 57.9 MB

I Am Learning That There is Nothing Wrong with Me Finding a community of people who are wired like you is healing and validating since HSPs often feel isolated in traditional social settings. As a result of taking the Online HSP Course, Kathy shares how she learned that nothing is wrong with her, and how she learned to trust herself. The Group models what a functional “family” is like, and everyone has permission to show up exactly as they are. We talk about the importance of resistance...

201 Female Autism: Challenging Stereotypes, and the Need for Education

July 25, 2023 07:00 - 47 minutes - 60.9 MB

Female Autism: Challenging Stereotypes, and the Need for Education Another Highly Sensitive Therapist and I discuss the challenges (and gifts) of being diagnosed autistic. We discuss how autism in sensitive females (Assigned Female at Birth AFAB) presents differently, as well as how autism in females tends to be very different than autism in males. We address common things that are said that may feel supportive, but aren’t, and we talk about common misperceptions as well. We talk about the...

200 The Art of Boundary Setting: Nurturing Authentic Relationships

July 18, 2023 07:00 - 32 minutes - 43.2 MB

The Art of Boundary-Setting: Nurturing Authentic Relationships Establishing boundaries can foster deeper connections by allowing us to remain authentic and present. You might feel dysregulated, and/or guilty when you set a boundary. Not all relationships will be close, and not all relationships are meant to last for years. There are also seasons in relationships. When we're genuine in our interactions, we create a space for trust and openness to grow. However, it's essential to remember t...

199 Words Matter: Claiming Identity Through Inclusive Language

July 11, 2023 07:00 - 45 minutes - 58.5 MB

Words Matter: Claiming Identity Through Inclusive Language Co-regulation does not mean that you will feel calm. It’s about attunement and being present with you in the moment. We challenge negative biases and stereotypes about neurodivergence, such as the idea that being pedantic is always negative. We discuss the importance of using non-judgmental language when speaking to someone about their experiences, especially when it comes to gender identity and pronouns. We also talk about the d...

198 Neurodivergent Considerations when Nurturing Authentic Relationships

July 04, 2023 07:00 - 40 minutes - 52.8 MB

Neurodivergent Considerations when Nurturing Authentic Relationships Are you struggling with self-monitoring and communication? We dive into some of the challenges faced by neurodivergent folks. Discover the power of authenticity and direct communication for neurodivergents. Explore practical strategies to navigate challenges, set boundaries and forge meaningful relationships.  Learn practical tools for practicing self-care, and deeper connections. Embrace vulnerability and create genuin...

197 Unlocking Your Voice: Strategies for Assertiveness and Connection

June 27, 2023 07:00 - 43 minutes - 49.7 MB

Unlocking Your Voice: Strategies for Assertiveness and Connection We explore managing expectations, and the innate need for feeling seen and heard. You'll learn techniques to regulate expectations, express personal requirements, and foster authentic connections. We emphasize the importance of vulnerability, empathetic listening, and setting healthy boundaries. We also provide insights into the challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals and offer strategies to overcome them. GUEST ...

196 Embracing Neurodiversity: My Journey Continues to Unfold

June 20, 2023 07:00 - 29 minutes - 40.8 MB

Embracing Neurodiversity: My Journey Continues to Unfold I may have dropped a bombshell in episode 191. I apologize and I provide more information in this episode. My understanding about neurodivergence has really expanded, and I’m recognizing myself in some new and unexpected ways. I share some insight, education, and how this expands my work with neurodivergent people with new understanding. I also talk about how I see this impacting the podcast and my work with clients. HIGHLIGHTS ...

195 Healing & Connection: Finding Your People Amidst the Storm

June 13, 2023 07:00 - 42 minutes - 55 MB

Healing & Connection: Finding Your People Amidst the Storm We talk about honoring your neurodivergence, and bringing in self-compassion when you’re having a hard time connecting with your strengths and gifts. We talk about having unrealistic expectations in friendships, and the fear of rejection if you ask for what you want. How do you recognize where you do have control of yourself, and how do you learn to embrace uncertainty? We talk about the challenges with setting boundaries, and id...

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