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Thy Queendom Come

47 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 2 months ago - ★★★★★ - 19 ratings

Thy Queendom Come provides an honest (and often hilarious) look at sexuality and power dynamics in the bedroom and beyond through the eyes of professional dominatrix and host Queen Lo. Whether she’s sharing outrageous stories pulled straight from her daily sessions or having conversations with unforgettable guests, Lo helps de-stigmatize sexual exploration and reminds us all that there’s nothing more normal than getting a little kinky.

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Introducing Queen Mother

May 24, 2024 02:03 - 1 hour - 94.2 MB

Queen Lo welcomes her mom (Queen Mother) onto the podcast for the first time! Over multiple shots of tequila they discuss Lo’s journey into SW, mom’s hilarious introduction to online submissives, and why it’s about damn time to bring back Zima. Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events – thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram (@queendomlo) or Twitter (@domqueenlo) Follow the podcast on Instagram (@TQCPod) Follow Queen Mother (https://linktr.e...

Humiliation, Or Is It Just The Truth?

May 09, 2024 20:07 - 41 minutes - 56.9 MB

Queen Lo dives into the complex world of humiliation kinks, explaining why humiliation can be such a powerful tool (for good or ill) in someone’s life, as well as her personal approach for engaging in humiliation play.   Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events – thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram (@queendomlo) or Twitter (@domqueenlo) Follow the podcast on Instagram (@TQCPod) Original music by Guillermo Jemmott, Jr (@guillermocanta) and...

Masturbation Meditation

April 04, 2024 21:38 - 37 minutes - 51.3 MB

Queen Lo unlocks the secrets of the “O Method” (orgasmic meditation) and explains why getting off with a little intentionality might just change your life. Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events – thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram (@queendomlo) or Twitter (@domqueenlo) Follow the podcast on Instagram (@TQCPod) Original music by Guillermo Jemmott, Jr (@guillermocanta) and LDK Please direct all inquiries to [email protected] Apply...

The Curse Of The Average Cock

March 21, 2024 15:54 - 34 minutes - 47 MB

Queen Lo breaks down the male fixation on dick size, revealing why average cocks are the very worst and offering guidance for men who want to move their play from ordinary to extraordinary.  Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events – thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram (@queendomlo) or Twitter (@domqueenlo) Follow the podcast on Instagram (@TQCPod) Original music by Guillermo Jemmott, Jr (@guillermocanta) and LDK Please direct all inquir...

Sensual Sweet Potatoes - My Tantric Dining Experience

March 14, 2024 20:04 - 31 minutes - 43.7 MB

Queen Lo dives into the diverse (and often misunderstood) world of tantra, describing her latest adventure at a tantric dinner event and discussing why we can all benefit from incorporating more sensuality into our lives. Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events – thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram (@queendomlo) or Twitter (@domqueenlo) Follow the podcast on Instagram (@TQCPod) Original music by Guillermo Jemmott, Jr (@guillermocanta) an...

On Selling My Body

March 07, 2024 14:32 - 1 hour - 91.2 MB

Queen Lo honors her 30th birthday, and the 3rd anniversary of Thy Queendom Come, by intentionally opening up about parts of her story she has never shared and explaining why she is so passionate about de-stigmatizing sex work.  Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events – thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram (@queendomlo) or Twitter (@domqueenlo) Follow the podcast on Instagram (@TQCPod) Original music by Guillermo Jemmott, Jr (@guillermocan...

Witchy Shit (Ft. Ella-Shawntaé)

February 29, 2024 21:25 - 1 hour - 114 MB

Queen Lo is joined by her witchy sister, Ella-Shawntaé, to chat energy, protection, and Beyoncé’s new hair care line. Grab your sage, sprinkle some cinnamon, and settle in for a magical TQC. Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events – thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram (@queendomlo) or Twitter (@domqueenlo) Follow the podcast on Instagram (@TQCPod) Follow Ella-Shawntaé on Instagram (@cholulalovingchick)  or Twitter (@ellaella3385) Origin...

Dungeon Diaries (ft. Emily Gay)

February 15, 2024 08:00 - 1 hour - 86.7 MB

Queen Lo invited her friend, sexual educator and intimacy coach Emily Gay, to join her in the dungeon for a recent Domme session. Today they sit down to recap all the spicy details and examine the differences between what Emily expected walking in and what actually went down.  Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events – thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram (@queendomlo) or Twitter (@domqueenlo) Follow the podcast on Instagram (@TQCPod) Foll...

All Caged Up

February 08, 2024 17:18 - 29 minutes - 40.2 MB

Queen Lo unlocks the wild world of chastity and deciphers why this particular kink is becoming so popular, as well as the surprising spiritual undertones she brings to the practice. Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events – thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram (@queendomlo) or Twitter (@domqueenlo) Follow the podcast on Instagram (@TQCPod) Original music by Guillermo Jemmott, Jr (@guillermocanta) and LDK Featured on this episode: Megan ...

Men Are Very Simple Creatures (ft. Domina Augustina)

February 01, 2024 09:00 - 52 minutes - 71.4 MB

Queen Lo shares a conversation with her friend (and fellow Dominatrix) Domina Augustina exploring what motivates subs, the purpose of humiliation, and why average cocks are definitely the worst.  Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events - thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram (@queendomlo) or Twitter (@domqueenlo) Follow the podcast on Instagram (@TQCPod) Follow Domina Augustina on Twitter (@LadominaXoX) Original music by Guillermo Jemmott...

It's A Porno Party! (XBIZ LA '24 Recap, ft. Goddess Annaliisa)

January 25, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 84.9 MB

Queen Lo and Goddess Annaliisa recap their favorite moments from XBIZ LA '24, North America's largest adult industry conference, and describe why they're more excited than ever to be a part of the sex work community. Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events - thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram or Twitter Follow the podcast on Instagram Follow Goddess Annaliisa on Instagram or Twitter Original music by Guillermo Jemmott, Jr (@guillermoca...

12 Sad Sub Behaviors (ft. Emily Gay & Goddess Annaliisa)

January 18, 2024 08:00 - 1 hour - 105 MB

Queen Lo hilariously details the sub behaviors she *least* enjoys working with for her friends Emily Gay and Goddess Annaliisa. Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events - thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram or Twitter Follow the podcast on Instagram Follow Emily on Instagram / TikTok or visit her website Follow Goddess Annaliisa on Instagram or Twitter Apply to SextPanther! **I offer a free 30 minute coaching call for anyone who gets a...

Talking Kink With Your Partner (ft. Emily Gay)

January 11, 2024 16:20 - 1 hour - 111 MB

Queen Lo sits down with her friend, sexual educator and intimacy coach Emily Gay, to discuss why it’s so challenging to talk about evolving sexual desires within a relationship and how couples can grow closer through intentional communication. Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events - thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram or Twitter Follow the podcast on Instagram Follow Emily on Instagram / TikTok or visit her website Original music by G...

Do I Dominate My Man?

December 31, 2023 04:50 - 38 minutes - 53 MB

Queen Lo opens up about how she and her man navigate dominance and submission in their relationship and discusses whether working with a dominatrix should be considered cheating.  Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events - thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram or Twitter Follow the podcast on Instagram Original music by Guillermo Jemmott, Jr (@guillermocanta) and LDK Apply to SextPanther! **I offer a free 30 minute coaching call for anyon...

He Shoved WHAT Up His Ass?!

December 31, 2023 04:42 - 59 minutes - 81.6 MB

Queen Lo interviews one of her favorite subs who has a very specific kink involving feminine products. They discuss his evolving sexual journey and how open he chooses to be with his wife. Be Slutty For Good & donate at freethetampons.org Visit my website for upcoming tours & ways to contact me - thyqueendom.com Apply to SextPanther! **I offer a free 30 minute coaching call for anyone who gets accepted as a model on SextPanther using my link. Email [email protected] for details. Sig...

He Shoved WHAT Up His Ass?! (ft. Brandon the Slut)

December 31, 2023 04:42 - 59 minutes - 81.6 MB

Queen Lo interviews one of her favorite subs who has a very specific kink involving feminine products. They discuss his evolving sexual journey and how open he chooses to be with his wife. Be Slutty For Good & donate at freethetampons.org Visit my website for upcoming tours & ways to contact me - thyqueendom.com Apply to SextPanther! **I offer a free 30 minute coaching call for anyone who gets accepted as a model on SextPanther using my link. Email [email protected] for details. Sign...

WTF Is FinDom?!

December 31, 2023 01:18 - 29 minutes - 39.8 MB

Queen Lo dives into the controversial and often misunderstood world of Financial Domination and explains why it’s a refreshing new take on men sending money to hot women on the internet. Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events - thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram or Twitter Follow the podcast on Instagram Original music by Guillermo Jemmott, Jr (@guillermocanta) and LDK Apply to SextPanther! **I offer a free 30 minute coaching call fo...

My Life As A Dominatrix

December 30, 2023 23:33 - 44 minutes - 60.8 MB

Queen Lo describes her journey from sacred sexuality into the world of BDSM and how it led to her calling - putting men on their knees as a professional dominatrix. Visit my website for all the ways you can connect with me, plus upcoming tours & events - thyqueendom.com Follow me on Instagram (@queendomlo) or Twitter (@domqueenlo) Follow the podcast on Instagram (@TQCPod) Original music by Guillermo Jemmott, Jr (@guillermocanta) and LDK Please direct all inquiries to [email protected]...

#25: My Life as a Nympho with Angel Griffin (Pt.1)

December 24, 2021 03:00 - 58 minutes - 40.1 MB

In the first part of this two-part episode, Lauren talks toAngel, whose hyper-sexuality has been a dominant part of her life since before hitting double digits. She talks openly about her addiction, the ways it's impacted her life, and how it's been the source of both absolute destruction and unimaginable pleasure. She talks about the pressures of growing up a "good Christian girl," and feeling repressed and isolated at a young age. Now in a committed partnership, Angel talks about the way s...

#24: A New Season: Death, Birth, and a Wooly Mammoth

December 17, 2021 21:00 - 47 minutes - 33 MB

We've entered a new season in the Queendom, and today Lauren talks about how a Kundalini yoga class led to 2 weeks of what she referred to as her "truth sickness," and ultimately a major decision to relocate and make major shifts in her life. She talks about the way seasons pass even within ourselves, how parts of us that were once alive and beautiful are now past their expiration dates,  parts we hold dear but have ultimately outgrown. She talks about the mourning in letting those parts of ...

#23: When Hate Hits Home

November 11, 2021 08:00 - 54 minutes - 37.5 MB

A few weeks ago, Lauren released the episode titled "My First Sex Party". It's safe to say it pissed some people off. In this episode, Lauren talks about the first real time, since starting this podcast, that she's come face to face with the reality that sharing her own stories, experiences, and truths so...loudly... will inevitably put to the test some of her closest, most long-term relationships, and how some will go like the seasons while others strengthen as permanent fixtures in her lif...

#23: When Hate Hits Home

November 11, 2021 08:00 - 54 minutes - 37.5 MB

A few weeks ago, Lauren released the episode titled "My First Sex Party". It's safe to say it pissed some people off. In this episode, Lauren talks about the first real time, since starting this podcast, that she's come face to face with the reality that sharing her own stories, experiences, and truths so...loudly... will inevitably put to the test some of her closest, most long-term relationships, and how some will go like the seasons while others strengthen as permanent fixtures in her lif...

Free Nudes Are So 2002

November 03, 2021 18:00 - 1 hour - 42.5 MB

In this episode, Lauren talks to Britni Myhre about OnlyFans, her decision to start one, and the transition into modeling full time. They talk about what it's like building a career, and also healthy relationships, in an industry that is notoriously toxic, in a city where everyone comes to do something or be someone. They talk about facing judgment, steering clear from comparison, and why it's important to keep it real on social media. Also! Listen for an exciting announcement about an upcom...

My First Sex Party

October 22, 2021 17:00 - 52 minutes - 36.1 MB

In this episode, Lauren talks about her first "lifestyle party" in Hollywood. Find out how, at the very last minute, she ended up going with someone she's known since childhood and who lives on the other side of the country. Together, they met interesting people in unique ways, to say the least, and left with a slew of new insights and, of course, an epic story. Make sure to listen to this one in public with no headphones on. ;)

Fully Flowered (& Having Sex)

September 22, 2021 20:00 - 53 minutes - 36.5 MB

In today's episode, Lauren talks about going back to her hometown and revisiting the very spot she first had sex in at 14  years old. She discusses the concept of virginity and why it's not only outdated but also damaging and even dangerous. The definitions and implications of "virginity" have varied over the centuries, but they almost always primarily pertain to women. But it's not just women who are negatively affected by this. In this episode, Lauren shares her story and talks about ways ...

A Trip With My Ex

September 08, 2021 01:00 - 38 minutes - 26.6 MB

In this episode, Lauren talks about her weekend antics in Joshua Tree, where, after a meltdown at the airport and almost missing her flight, she went with her ex-boyfriend, "Oh Monogomy's" Kombucha, to surprise her brother for his birthday and do an epic mushroom trip in the middle of the desert. She realized just how unique her relationship with Kombucha is these days, and also how beautiful it is despite its challenges. The one way their relationship doesn't quite work is the one thing tha...

I'm a Piece of Shit

September 01, 2021 01:00 - 56 minutes - 38.7 MB

In this episode, Lauren shares the story of how she fell in love with her best friend while living in South Korea, and how she royally fucked things up in the end - not just between her and "the man upstairs," but also with others in the friend group who were affected by her shitty decisions. She talks about the poems and letters she never sent, the things she never said, the fucked up way the truth came out, what this journey has taught her and how it's pushing her to be a better, more hone...

Addicted to Climax (mini-episode)

August 27, 2021 07:00 - 23 minutes - 16.4 MB

In today's mini-episode, Lauren announces the Queendom's move to Tuesdays, and also her brewing idea for Kinky Thursdays, which she wants you to be a part of. Then she discusses how through a course she's currently taking called Pussy Wisdom, she's realized that she is, indeed, addicted to climax. In sex and in life. She unpacks what a climax-addicted life looks like and explores ways to become more mindful and present and to enjoy the process of attracting her desires vs rushing to the fini...

Fu*king With Fantasy. Or Fantasies Fu*king With Me?

August 20, 2021 05:00 - 1 hour - 50.7 MB

<TRIGGER WARNING: suicide, abuse, sexual assault> In this episode, Lauren explores the idea of chasing dreams and fulfilling fantasies, what it looks like when they come to be, and why so often it seems reality just doesn't compare. She talks about her own victim mentality, how it's kept her from being present and embracing what is, or what could be, at this current moment, and how prioritizing pleasure and practicing embodiment has helped repair the relationship with her body, trust her int...

Sexually Hangry with Jen Rufo

July 30, 2021 16:00 - 1 hour - 64.5 MB

Today, Lauren and Jen sit down for some spicy, NSFW girl talk - sexual frustration, masturbating for the first time, taboo kinks, monogamy and open relationships, casual sex, and sending sex videos to your friends. Jen makes a fascinating scientific discovery, and Lauren lets you in on fantasy secrets and her sacred "pillow practice." 

Sexual Sinergy with Angsty Christian Podcast

July 15, 2021 22:00 - 1 hour - 52.7 MB

In the second part of this 2-part episode, Lauren joins forces with the Deconstruction Daddies of The Angsty Christian Podcast, Daniel Ramos and Jake Schroeder. In this episode, they talk about their college days, masturbation, purity culture, and the messages we receive growing up around sex. Strap in for this spicy episode- and listen to part one on The Angsty Christian Podcast, available on all listening platforms, or find them on Instagram @angstychristianpod. 

Seoul Searching & Honey Nut Feelios with Olivia Cate

June 24, 2021 20:00 - 1 hour - 64.5 MB

Today Lauren talks with Olivia Cate about living and dating in Seoul, South Korea. They tell some spicy stories, of course, and talk about life in Seoul, "expiration dating," travel husbands, open relationships, and experiencing the emotions that come with it all. 

Arrested in Paradise with Lance Mordachini

June 10, 2021 23:00 - 2 hours - 83.9 MB

Today Lauren and her brother, Lance, tell the story of their first, real backpacking experience through Thailand. Of course, they landed themselves in a myriad of shenanigans within no time- a full moon party, Shroom Mountain, sailboats, love triangles, moped accidents, and even jail. It was beautiful chaos, but chaos nonetheless, and it taught them both just a little more about themselves, each other, and life as a whole. 

Arrested in Paradise ft. Lo’s Unnamed Brother

June 10, 2021 23:00 - 2 hours - 84 MB

Today Lauren and her brother, who shall remain nameless for reasons made clear by his boss, tell the story of their first, real backpacking experience through Thailand. Of course, they landed themselves in a myriad of shenanigans within no time- a full moon party, Shroom Mountain, sailboats, love triangles, moped accidents, and even jail. It was beautiful chaos, but chaos nonetheless, and it taught them both just a little more about themselves, each other, and life as a whole. 

Pride and Pleasure

June 04, 2021 02:00 - 1 hour - 45.3 MB

In honor of Pride Month, Lauren talks about her journey exploring her own sexuality. She talks about the concept of "coming out," experimenting sexually with other women, threesomes, what the Bible has to say about homosexuality, some of her experiences growing up in the Bible Belt, and her hopes for a more compassionate world, where we accept and are gracious with ourselves and others. 

We're Not in Kansas Anymore with Kady Guyton

May 27, 2021 17:00 - 1 hour - 50.4 MB

Today Lauren talks with Kady Guyton about growing up in Kansas during the "true love waits" movement and while "purity culture" was becoming mainstream. Kady talks about her experience in a protestant Christian family and community, her first sexual experience, and the time she spent dancing, as well as what relationships have looked like for her over the years. 

Dear God with Brandon Morales

May 21, 2021 02:00 - 1 hour - 75.3 MB

Today Lauren sits down with her old friend, Brandon Morales, to discuss Western Christianity and sexuality within the church. Special commentary from Madi Cooper. 

Special Shroomy Edition

May 07, 2021 00:00 - 1 hour - 64.3 MB

Lauren and Madi go on a little journey with psilocybin and talk about a range of random things- dreams, Bumble adventures, Lauren's turtle traumas, sexcapades and dating, what a "wook" is, and a bunch of equally as random shit in between. Channel your innermost hobgoblin and enjoy the ride. 

Special Shroomy Edition

May 07, 2021 00:00 - 1 hour - 64.3 MB

Lauren and Madi go on a little journey with psilocybin and talk about a range of random things- dreams, Bumble adventures, Lauren's turtle traumas, sexcapades and dating, what a "wook" is, and a bunch of equally as random shit in between. Channel your innermost hobgoblin and enjoy the ride. 

Fu*k Normal

April 30, 2021 00:00 - 1 hour - 51.6 MB

What is normal, anyway? Today Lauren continues the conversation on monogamy and explores the possibilities of non-monogamy. Do non-monogamous people lack the ability to be truly intimate? Are they confused or indecisive? What does it mean to be consciously monogamous vs monogamous by default? Is there one, "right," way of relating intimately? Or do as many unique possibilities exist as there are people? Strap in, my loves. We're headed down the rabbit hole.

Oh, Monogamy

April 22, 2021 20:00 - 58 minutes - 40.5 MB

In this episode, Lauren gets uncomfortably real about her struggles in monogamous relationships and how she's blown up essentially every one of her own in the most catastrophic ways. She questions whether or not life-long monogamy is still a realistic goal, or if there could be other ways of intimately relating. Be warned, this is certainly a conversation that requires an open mind and an even more open heart. 

Let's Talk Sex

April 15, 2021 18:00 - 56 minutes - 38.9 MB

The idea that "what happens in the bedroom should stay in the bedroom..." has kept the most powerful form of human connection to be learned about via unhealthy and unrealistic ways, or completely in the shadows and untalked about. Today Lauren talks about why it's so important to normalize talking about our sexual experiences and viewing them as sacred.

That One Time in Costa Rica...

April 01, 2021 19:00 - 1 hour - 46.8 MB

Once upon a time, Lauren thought she'd move to Costa Rica on a whim. Everything that could go wrong did, and within a month she was forced back to the States to get her life together (once again). This isn't the first or only nuclear bomb of a shitshow travel story she's managed to create, but this one is special because it led directly to the creation of this podcast. In the midst of so much chaos, she decided to stop running from the things she wants most in life and to finally say YES to ...

The Irony of Freedom with Madi Cooper

March 25, 2021 16:00 - 1 hour - 45.6 MB

Today Lauren and Madi get real about anxiety, the fear of judgment and rejection, and also what it means to truly be "free." Is a free spirit one who lives in a state of perpetual bliss, absent of all the worries and problems of "normal" people? How can we move through life accepting fear's accompaniment, but never allowing it to drive? Does being in a relationship mean you shouldn't post "sexy" photos on social media? All of this and so much more on today's episode. Plus a lot of talk about...

I started an OnLy FaNs

March 18, 2021 20:00 - 1 hour - 42.8 MB

Today Lauren talks about why she decided to create an OnlyFans, the way it's empowered her in creativity and in life, and how sexually empowered women are the key to changing the world. 

I started an OnLy FaNs

March 18, 2021 20:00 - 1 hour - 42.8 MB

Today Lauren talks about why she decided to create an OnlyFans, the way it's empowered her in creativity and in life, and how sexually empowered women are the key to changing the world. 

Welcome to the Queendom

March 05, 2021 08:00 - 1 hour - 54.2 MB

The Queendom is finally upon us, but the journey has felt anything but royal. In this episode, Lauren discusses what being a part of the Queendom means to her, the Divine Feminine's role in all of our lives, and how growing up a sexually confused girl in the bible belt was the beginning of a long and colorful road towards self-discovery and (some) understanding. From kissing boys in Kindergarten to almost marrying a gay porn star, she's getting real about her experiences, traumas, and triump...

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