Lead A New Future with Kate Ruby Aroha

22. Here's how I decide between two options

I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at w...

EP. 22 - Here's How I Decide between Two Options

EP 22 - Here's HOW I DECIDE between two options

Ep 21 - HOW to develop the confidence that'll have self-doubt lose its power of you

21. How to develop the confidence that'll have self-doubt lose its power of you

I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at w...

EP. 21 - HOW to develop the confidence that'll have self-doubt lose its power of you

Ep 20 - Loving someone while NOT getting tangled in their struggle

What happens when we have a loved one who's struggling? So often there's a tendency to get entangled in their struggle, getting stuck in a loop of trying to 'help' them out of it, which has a hell of an impact on many levels. Ive had a lot of questions lately about this (since I posted about our family earlier this week), and so I recorded this conversation for the podcast this week: HOW TO LOVE SOMEONE WHILE NOT GETTING TANGLED UP IN THEIR STRUGGLE I think this is a bloody important conv...

EP. 20 - Loving someone while NOT getting tangled in their struggle

What happens when we have a loved one who's struggling? So often there's a tendency to get entangled in their struggle, getting stuck in a loop of trying to 'help' them out of it, which has a hell of an impact on many levels. Ive had a lot of questions lately about this (since I posted about our family earlier this week), and so I recorded this conversation for the podcast this week: HOW TO LOVE SOMEONE WHILE NOT GETTING TANGLED UP IN THEIR STRUGGLE I think this is a bloody important conv...

20. Loving someone while not getting tangled in their struggle

What happens when we have a loved one who's struggling? So often there's a tendency to get entangled in their struggle, getting stuck in a loop of trying to 'help' them out of it, which has a hell of an impact on many levels. I've had a lot of questions lately about this (since I posted about our family earlier this week), and so I recorded this conversation for the podcast this week: HOW TO LOVE SOMEONE WHILE NOT GETTING TANGLED UP IN THEIR STRUGGLE I think this is a bloody important con...

EP 19 - WHAT'S THE REAL OPPORTUNITY COST?

Whenever you’re saying yes to something, you’re saying no to something else. Even those good ideas, that would be ‘nice’ to do. And the requests that come your way that would be quick for you to do... Saying yes to all these things, doing all these things, has an opportunity cost. In this episode we’re talking about ‘opportunity cost’, and how these two words have been banging around in my head, forcing me to make new decisions. 

19. What's the real opportunity cost?

Whenever you’re saying yes to something, you’re saying no to something else. Even those good ideas, that would be ‘nice’ to do. And the requests that come your way that would be quick for you to do... Saying yes to all these things, doing all these things, has an opportunity cost. In this episode we’re talking about ‘opportunity cost’, and how these two words have been banging around in my head, forcing me to make new decisions. I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a...

EP. 19 - What's the REAL Opportunity Cost?

Whenever you’re saying yes to something, you’re saying no to something else. Even those good ideas, that would be ‘nice’ to do. And the requests that come your way that would be quick for you to do... Saying yes to all these things, doing all these things, has an opportunity cost. In this episode we’re talking about ‘opportunity cost’, and how these two words have been banging around in my head, forcing me to make new decisions. 

EP. 19 - WHAT'S THE REAL OPPORTUNITY COST?

Whenever you’re saying yes to something, you’re saying no to something else. Even those good ideas, that would be ‘nice’ to do. And the requests that come your way that would be quick for you to do... Saying yes to all these things, doing all these things, has an opportunity cost. In this episode we’re talking about ‘opportunity cost’, and how these two words have been banging around in my head, forcing me to make new decisions. 

Ep 18 - My 5 Communication Channels

Hi, it's Kate. In this episode, I am reflecting on the importance of protecting mental space. Because with a lot of stuff going on, it's easy to go through stress and frustration. And going through those in my life, I now have my five distinct communication channels. Through managing these channels, things shifted significantly.

18. My 5 communication channels

In this episode, I am reflecting on the importance of protecting mental space. Because with a lot of stuff going on, it's easy to go through stress and frustration. And going through those in my life, I now have my five distinct communication channels. Through managing these channels, things shifted significantly. I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while givi...

Ep 18 - MY 5 COMMUNICATION CHANNELS

Hi, it's Kate. In this episode, I am reflecting on the importance of protecting mental space. Because with a lot of stuff going on, it's easy to go through stress and frustration. And going through those in my life, I now have my five distinct communication channels. Through managing these channels, things shifted significantly.

Ep 17 - The Big Shifts I’ve Made in my Life & Biz from Asking "What Have I Grown Out Of?”

This episode Im talking about reviewing life, to find out where we've outgrown things. Which is exactly what Ive been doing lately, and making new decisions to grow forward... 

17. The big shifts I’ve made in my life & biz from asking "What have I grown out of?”

"What have I grown out of?" is a question that magnified that my life's been out of focus. In this episode, listen to the big shifts that I took on to emphasize my priorities. I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram:...

EP. 17 - The Big Shifts I’ve Made in my Life & Biz from Asking "What Have I Grown Out Of?”

This episode Im talking about reviewing life, to find out where we've outgrown things. Which is exactly what Ive been doing lately, and making new decisions to grow forward... 

EP. 16 - How We Accidentally Created a Large Recurring Passive Income from One Promise

I'm back! And sharing how I created (accidentally!) an extra passive income stream, based on a "PROMISE" to my team in the corona economy. AND I'm also discussing how when we get committed to things bigger than ourselves (and go balls to the wall to have it happen)... that greater opportunities open up. Opportunities that we wouldn't have been able to have seen for ourselves. What did you hear for yourself in this episode? feel free to share with me on Instagram @katemareeobrien

Ep 16 - How We Accidentally Created a Large Recurring Passive Income from One Promise

I'm back! And sharing how I created (accidentally!) an extra passive income stream, based on a "PROMISE" to my team in the corona economy. AND I'm also discussing how when we get committed to things bigger than ourselves (and go balls to the wall to have it happen)... that greater opportunities open up. Opportunities that we wouldn't have been able to have seen for ourselves. What did you hear for yourself in this episode? feel free to share with me on Instagram @katemareeobrien

16. How we accidentally created a large recurring passive income from one promise

I'm back! And sharing how I created (accidentally!) an extra passive income stream, based on a "PROMISE" to my team in the corona economy. AND I'm also discussing how when we get committed to things bigger than ourselves (and go balls to the wall to have it happen)... that greater opportunities open up. Opportunities that we wouldn't have been able to have seen for ourselves. I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is on...

15. Stop being available to other people's urgencies

I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at w...

EP. 15 - Stop being available to other people's urgencies

Ep. 15 - Stop being available to other people's urgencies

14. Partnering vs. Abandoning

I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at w...

Ep. 14 - Partnering VS Abandoning

EP. 14 - Partnering VS Abandoning

13. How to have an empowered relationship with breakdowns

In This Episode: >> It's the breakdown about the breakdown thats running havoc in your life >> Relationship is the foundation for our accomplishment - so if you have a shitty relationship with obstacles, you’ll always get stuck when they come up  >> Your obstacles are designed FOR you so include them as a part of the game! I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency...

EP. 13 - How to have an empowered relationship with breakdowns

In This Episode: >> It's the breakdown about the breakdown thats running havoc in your life >> Relationship is the foundation for our accomplishment - so if you have a shitty relationship with obstacles, you’ll always get stuck when they come up >> Your obstacles are designed FOR you so include them as a part of the game!

Ep. 13 - How to have an empowered relationship with breakdowns

In This Episode: >> It's the breakdown about the breakdown thats running havoc in your life >> Relationship is the foundation for our accomplishment - so if you have a shitty relationship with obstacles, you’ll always get stuck when they come up >> Your obstacles are designed FOR you so include them as a part of the game!

12. It's time to value what you already bring to the table

Are you valuing what you ALREADY bring to the table? I saw some research that women wait till they meet 100% of the criteria before applying for a job, while men will apply when meeting only 60%. This chronic screening is holding women back in more areas than just career and purpose. THIS episode is going IN on VALUING what you ALREADY bring to the table. And from that, boldly stepping forward... I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leade...

Ep. 12 - It's Time to Value What You Already Bring to the Table

Are you valuing what you ALREADY bring to the table? I saw some research that women wait til they meet 100% of the criteria before applying for a job, while men will apply when meeting only 60%. This chronic screening is holding women back in more areas than just career and purpose. THIS episode is going IN on VALUING what you ALREADY bring to the table. And from that, boldly stepping forward...

EP. 12 - It's Time to Value What You Already Bring to the Table

Are you valuing what you ALREADY bring to the table? I saw some research that women wait til they meet 100% of the criteria before applying for a job, while men will apply when meeting only 60%. This chronic screening is holding women back in more areas than just career and purpose. THIS episode is going IN on VALUING what you ALREADY bring to the table. And from that, boldly stepping forward...

11. Being effective vs. reactive in our communication

I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at w...

EP. 11 - Being Effective VS Reactive in Our Communications

Ep. 11 - Being Effective VS Reactive in Our Communications

10. Own your power, strap on a big one

In this week's episode: Those self-doubt stories in your head are no reflection of your capacity Because you don't hear what's going on in other people’s heads, you’re not realising the extent to which these thoughts are just human nature and therefore…. Meaningless! The background loop for me that gets stuck on repeat (and used to take me out of the game!) I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that v...

Ep. 10 - Own Your Power, Strap On A Big One

In this week's episode: Those self-doubt stories in your head are no reflection of your capacity Because you don't hear what's going on in other people’s heads, you’re not realising the extent to which these thoughts are just human nature and therefore…. Meaningless! The background loop for me that gets stuck on repeat (and used to take me out of the game!)

EP. 10 - Own Your Power, Strap On A Big One

In this week's episode: Those self-doubt stories in your head are no reflection of your capacity Because you don't hear what's going on in other people’s heads, you’re not realising the extent to which these thoughts are just human nature and therefore…. Meaningless! The background loop for me that gets stuck on repeat (and used to take me out of the game!)

Own your power, strap on a big one | Episode 010

In this week's episode: Those self-doubt stories in your head are no reflection of your capacity Because you don't hear what's going on in other people’s heads, you’re not realising the extent to which these thoughts are just human nature and therefore…. Meaningless! The background loop for me that gets stuck on repeat (and used to take me out of the game!) I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a cu...

EP. 9 - Walk Through The Damn Door

In this episode, we're going to talk about: The reason you’re feeling stuck, is cause you’re not walking through the door that's in front of you Stop trying to figure it all out before you get in the damn game How over-preparing and over-thinking is killing your results When you eliminate failure, you’re also eliminating your growth

Ep. 9 - Walk Through The Damn Door

In this episode, we're going to talk about: The reason you’re feeling stuck, is cause you’re not walking through the door that's in front of you Stop trying to figure it all out before you get in the damn game How over-preparing and over-thinking is killing your results When you eliminate failure, you’re also eliminating your growth

9. Walk through the damn door

 In this episode, we're going to talk about: The reason you’re feeling stuck, is cause you’re not walking through the door that's in front of you Stop trying to figure it all out before you get in the damn game How over-preparing and over-thinking is killing your results When you eliminate failure, you’re also eliminating your growth I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fair...

Walk through the damn door | Episode 009

 In this episode, we're going to talk about: The reason you’re feeling stuck, is cause you’re not walking through the door that's in front of you Stop trying to figure it all out before you get in the damn game How over-preparing and over-thinking is killing your results When you eliminate failure, you’re also eliminating your growth I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and t...

Ep. 8 - When I Called The Police On Henare

Here’s some of what I’m discussing in this... Being clear on & a stand for what you’re committed to We don't get what we deserve, we get what we allow to continue Defining non-negotiables The written contract we created as a family

8. The night I called the police - what I was standing for, and what came out of this as a result

Here’s some of what I’m discussing in this... Being clear on & a stand for what you’re committed to We don't get what we deserve, we get what we allow to continue Defining non-negotiables The written contract we created as a family I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professional...

Ep. 8 - The Night I Called The Police - What I was standing for, and what came out of this as a result

Here’s some of what I’m discussing in this... Being clear on & a stand for what you’re committed to We don't get what we deserve, we get what we allow to continue Defining non-negotiables The written contract we created as a family

EP. 8 - The Night I Called The Police - What I was standing for, and what came out of this as a result

Here’s some of what I’m discussing in this... Being clear on & a stand for what you’re committed to We don't get what we deserve, we get what we allow to continue Defining non-negotiables The written contract we created as a family

The night I called the police - what I was standing for, and what came out of this as a result | Episode 008

Here’s some of what I’m discussing in this... Being clear on & a stand for what you’re committed to We don't get what we deserve, we get what we allow to continue Defining non-negotiables The written contract we created as a family I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or...