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Secret Life

302 episodes - English - Latest episode: 2 days ago - ★★★★★ - 390 ratings

Tell me your secret, I'll tell you mine — true confessions of love, sex, money, relationships, addictions, and hidden taboo topics that are often hilarious, uplifting, and hopeful. Hosted by best-selling author, actress, and coach Brianne Davis, the podcast offers a mix of guest interviews and topic-specific discussions.

Every Monday, listeners are invited to join Brianne as she pulls back the curtain and explores the how, what, when, where, and why of various subjects. Some episodes feature guests sharing their own secrets and stories, while in others Brianne takes a deep dive into a specific topic. Whether laughing, crying, or feeling inspired, each episode offers a revealing journey into the human experience.

Brianne's best-selling book, Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex & Love Addict, a roman à clef novel based on a decade in recovery (with a dash of creative license), was launched in February 2021.

To share a secret or be a guest on the show, email [email protected] or visit www.secretlifepodcast.com.

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Episodes

That Safe Relationship: The Human Security Blanket

July 08, 2024 07:00 - 15 minutes - 13.8 MB

Sometimes, the relationships we hold onto for comfort can be the very things that prevent us from reaching our true potential. In this week's episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt shares her powerful journey of letting go and finding her purpose. From a decade-long relationship that provided security but stifled her dreams, to a thriving career in acting and coaching, Brianne's story is a testament to the transformative power of stepping into the unknown. Tune in for an in...

The Power of the Pause

July 01, 2024 07:00 - 14 minutes - 13.6 MB

In this episode of Secret Life podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt delves into the transformative power of "The Pause." Learn how taking a moment to pause before reacting can enhance self-awareness, improve communication, and foster better relationships. Brianne shares personal anecdotes and practical tips on how to integrate pausing into daily life to break the cycle of impulsiveness and create a more mindful existence. Tune in for an insightful discussion that promises to change the way you inter...

Emotional Incest

June 24, 2024 07:00 - 21 minutes - 19.2 MB

In this riveting episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt delves into the unsettling and often misunderstood topic of emotional incest. She breaks down the concept, distinguishing it from physical incest and enmeshment, and explains how it manifests in parent-child relationships. Brianne passionately discusses how emotional incest occurs when a child's energy is inappropriately directed to fulfill the emotional needs of a parent, rather than the other way around. Brianne shar...

The Magical Closure Talk: It Isn't Real

June 17, 2024 07:00 - 16 minutes - 15.2 MB

In this eye-opening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt tackles the elusive concept of closure. She passionately dismantles the myth of closure, describing it as a "motherfucking scam" and a fantasy that keeps people stuck in the past. Brianne urges listeners to accept the end of relationships as they are and to move forward without seeking that one final conversation or moment that promises to make everything okay. Brianne shares personal experiences and real-life examp...

Self-Preservation

June 10, 2024 07:00 - 18 minutes - 17 MB

In this compelling episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt delves into the powerful concept of self-preservation. Tired of the overused terms "self-care" and "self-love," Brianne introduces self-preservation as a more practical and immediate approach to protecting oneself from harm. She passionately discusses how self-preservation is essential for physical, mental, and spiritual well-being, especially for those recovering from trauma or navigating toxic relationships. Briann...

The 6 Types of Boundaries

June 03, 2024 07:00 - 21 minutes - 19.6 MB

In this enlightening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt takes us on a deep dive into the essential topic of boundaries. She passionately unpacks the "Six Types of Boundaries"—physical, intellectual, emotional, sexual, time, and material—revealing how each plays a crucial role in cultivating a healthy, serene, and drama-free life. Brianne emphasizes the transformative power of setting and holding firm boundaries, underscoring the benefits such as enhanced self-respect, im...

The Cocoon Stage: A Journey Through Solitude

May 27, 2024 07:00 - 18 minutes - 16.6 MB

In this transformative episode of the Secret Life Podcast, join host Brianne Davis-Gantt as she guides us through the seldom-discussed but crucial "cocoon stage" of healing. She describes it as a period of introspection and solitude following a significant life event, such as a loss or a personal revelation, where one must be gentle with themselves during the transformation from who they were into who they are becoming. Brianne shares her personal experience, emphasizing the importance of e...

Silent Strength: The Grey Rock Approach

May 20, 2024 07:00 - 14 minutes - 13 MB

On this eye-opening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt uncovers the art of "grey rocking," a powerful strategy designed for dealing with toxic individuals and navigating difficult relationships. Brianne illuminates the concept of grey rocking as a form of emotional camouflage, where one becomes the human equivalent of a rock—unresponsive and dull—to disarm the manipulative tactics of narcissists and those with toxic tendencies. Listeners will learn how grey rocking serv...

Evolve or Die: Winning the Game of Life

May 13, 2024 07:00 - 13 minutes - 12.5 MB

In this transformative episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt dives deep into the essence of personal growth with a compelling discussion on the necessity of evolution in life. Brianne challenges the traditional metrics of success, revealing that true victory in life isn't about material wealth or outward appearances, but about the continuous journey of evolving as a person. With her trademark blend of raw honesty and tough love, Brianne shares her insights into the pitfall...

Cycle Breakers: Ending Generational Trauma

May 06, 2024 07:00 - 23 minutes - 21.8 MB

In this profound episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt invites us into the world of cycle breakers, those courageous individuals who stand up against generational trauma and say, "This ends with me." Brianne, a self-proclaimed cycle breaker, shares her passionate journey and the honor she feels in disrupting the traumatic genetic imprint that has been passed down through her family line. Listeners will join Brianne as she discusses the challenges and triumphs of breaking c...

Silence is the Ultimate Boundary

April 29, 2024 07:00 - 15 minutes - 13.7 MB

In this reflective episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt invites listeners to explore the profound power of silence as a boundary. With her signature candor, Brianne delves into the challenging realization that sometimes, despite our best efforts to communicate and express our boundaries, the healthiest option is to embrace silence. Brianne shares her personal journey of discovering that silence isn't just a lack of words, but a deliberate choice to protect oneself from em...

Liar, Liar

April 22, 2024 07:00 - 18 minutes - 17 MB

In this gripping episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt pulls back the curtain on the deceptive world of liars, sharing her personal encounters with the spectrums of dishonesty. From the natural liar, whose falsehoods are a coping mechanism, to the pathological liar, who believes their own fabrications, and the chilling psychopath, whose lies are tools of manipulation, Brianne dissects the motivations and behaviors that define these deceivers. Through her exploration, Brian...

The Narcissist Among Us

April 15, 2024 07:00 - 23 minutes - 21.2 MB

In this revealing episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt delves into the complex and often misunderstood world of narcissism. With candid vulnerability, she shares her own experiences and tendencies, offering a personal touch to a topic that affects many. Brianne unpacks the traits of narcissism, from the subtle to the overt, and explores the root causes that can lead to these behaviors, including childhood trauma and familial patterns. Listeners will gain a deeper understa...

Grief & Loss

April 08, 2024 07:00 - 16 minutes - 15.5 MB

In this heart-wrenching episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt invites us into the raw and tender world of grief and loss. With the recent passing of a dear soul from her life, Brianne navigates the complex emotions that come with such a profound loss. She shares her personal struggle with the numbness that follows unexpected tragedy and the layers of pain that accompany the end of cherished relationships. Brianne bravely confronts the reality that grief operates on its own...

Abandonment

April 01, 2024 07:00 - 24 minutes - 22.1 MB

In this profound episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt takes us on an emotional journey through the landscape of abandonment. With unflinching honesty, she opens up about the raw sting of emotional abandonment, a phenomenon that has recently shaken her world, her clients, and the community at large. Brianne explores the pain and core wounds that surface when we feel left behind, discarded, or ignored, and questions the very notion of abandonment in adulthood. She meticulou...

Love Bombing!

March 25, 2024 07:00 - 23 minutes - 21.9 MB

In this enthralling episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt pulls back the curtain on the intoxicating yet perilous world of love bombing. With the precision of an emotional detective, Brianne dissects the manipulative tactics of love bombers, sharing her own past as both the perpetrator and the recipient of this seductive strategy. She exposes the lure of intense affection and the hollow promises that often leave a trail of confusion and hurt. Brianne equips listeners with ...

Sitting in the Unknown

March 18, 2024 07:00 - 17 minutes - 16.2 MB

In this compelling installment of the Secret Life Podcast, join Brianne Davis-Gantt as she delves into the uncomfortable but transformative space of sitting in the unknown. Sharing her own current personal struggle, Brianne candidly discusses the challenges of navigating uncertainty in relationships and life decisions. She reflects on the torment of not having clear answers and the instinctive urge to escape the discomfort through distraction or quick fixes. Brianne's vulnerability shines a...

Red Flags

March 11, 2024 07:00 - 24 minutes - 22.7 MB

In this riveting, Brianne Davis-Gantt confronts the warning signs we often overlook in relationships: the infamous red flags. With the acuity of a seasoned detective, Brianne unpacks the subtle and not-so-subtle signals that foreshadow trouble ahead. She shares anecdotes from her clients' experiences in the murky waters of dating, marriage, and even friendships, providing a comprehensive look at the red flags that surface in various types of relationships. Brianne doesn't just stop at the o...

Taking Accountability For Your Actions

March 04, 2024 08:00 - 15 minutes - 14.5 MB

In this eye-opening episode of Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt tackles the elusive and often avoided topic of accountability. With the passion of a seasoned coach who's seen it all, Brianne dives into the stories we tell ourselves to dodge responsibility and the victim mentality that ensnares so many. She shares her own struggles with saying "I'm sorry" and the transformative power of owning one's actions. Brianne dissects the excuses and justifications that keep us from acknowledg...

Unrealistic Expectations of Yourself

February 26, 2024 08:00 - 13 minutes - 12.3 MB

In this revelatory episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt confronts the pervasive challenge of unrealistic expectations we place upon ourselves. With the wisdom of someone who has navigated the treacherous path of self-improvement, Brianne dissects the notion that life must be fair, that opportunity should appear, and that personal growth should be rewarded with immediate, tangible benefits. Brianne shares a poignant conversation with a client struggling to reconcile the wo...

Confusing Intensity For Intimacy

February 19, 2024 08:00 - 16 minutes - 14.9 MB

In this enthralling installment of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt delves deep into the often-confused realms of intensity and intimacy. With the precision of a seasoned guide, she navigates the tumultuous waters where the thrill of a new relationship can easily be mistaken for a genuine connection. Brianne unravels the complex ties between our nervous systems and our need for intense experiences, revealing how this quest for a high can lead us astray. Through candid discussion...

Never Underestimate Trauma

February 12, 2024 08:00 - 14 minutes - 13.3 MB

In this profound episode of Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt confronts the underestimated force of trauma and its pervasive influence on our lives. With unflinching honesty, Brianne delves into the myriad ways trauma manifests, from addictions and toxic relationships to relentless pursuits of success and material possessions. Through a powerful narrative, she shares a gripping intervention story, shedding light on trauma's role in substance abuse and the often overlooked emotional wo...

Toxic Long-Term Friendships

February 05, 2024 08:00 - 19 minutes - 17.9 MB

Dive into a raw and transformative journey with Brianne Davis-Gantt on this week's Secret Life Podcast, where she exposes the harsh reality of enduring toxic friendships. Brianne pulls no punches as she explores the reasons we cling to long-term relationships that drain our spirit and violate our boundaries. With her characteristic candor, she shares the signs of unhealthy friendships, from friends who can't rejoice in your success to those who emotionally manipulate or abandon you when you ...

Toxic Positivity

January 29, 2024 08:00 - 15 minutes - 14.3 MB

In this eye-opening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt tackles the pervasive culture of toxic positivity and the misconception that positive thinking alone can heal deep-seated trauma. With her trademark blend of passion and authenticity, Brianne challenges the societal pressure to maintain a facade of happiness, arguing that true healing requires us to confront and feel our pain, not mask it with forced optimism. From vision boards to mantras, she debunks the myths that...

Unlocking the Five Types of Intimacy

January 22, 2024 08:00 - 21 minutes - 19.4 MB

As we journey beyond the initial rush of lust that so often masquerades as connection, Brianne breaks down the five essential types of intimacy: physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, and social. With her signature blend of humor and raw honesty, she shares personal anecdotes from her own 19-year relationship, offering insights into the evolution and deepening of intimate bonds over time. Whether you're navigating the complexities of a long-term partnership or seeking to enrich your c...

Porn: The Intimacy Killer - Fantasy vs. Reality

January 15, 2024 08:00 - 14 minutes - 13.7 MB

Explore the complex dynamics of intimacy in the latest episode of the Secret Life Podcast with host Brianne Davis-Gantt. Join the candid conversation as she delves into the impact of pornography on relationships, shedding light on how it can blur the lines between fantasy and reality. Brianne shares personal insights and stories from her journey, questioning the effects of widespread exposure to explicit content on emotional and physical connections. Tune in to uncover thought-provoking pers...

F- Resolutions! Lasting Change Means You Gotta Feel the Pain

January 08, 2024 08:00 - 15 minutes - 14 MB

In this episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt dives into the concept of lasting change, emphasizing the need to embrace pain and the journey of evolution. Sharing personal experiences, she challenges the conventional idea of New Year's resolutions and encourages listeners to focus on continuous improvement rather than setting unrealistic goals. Brianne advocates for leaning into discomfort and discusses how pain can be a catalyst for profound personal growth. #SecretLifePo...

Emotional Currency: The Real Wealth in Relationships

January 01, 2024 08:00 - 11 minutes - 10.7 MB

In this exciting new direction for the show, Brianne opens up about the often-overlooked concept of emotional currency in relationships. Drawing from her 19-year marriage, she challenges societal norms that prioritize financial contributions over emotional support. Brianne shares personal experiences and explores how emotional currency, the value one brings to a relationship through emotional fulfillment, is equally, if not more, important than monetary contributions. Listeners who already k...

Brianne: I Hate Change & Introducing The New Episode Format

December 25, 2023 08:00 - 14 minutes - 13.3 MB

The Secret Life Podcast takes a bold turn in this episode as host Brianne confronts her fear of change and announces a significant shift in the show's format. After three years of sharing secrets and fostering a supportive community, Brianne opens up about the emotional challenges of letting go and the difficulty of navigating endings. Candidly discussing the overwhelming demands of her flourishing career and personal life, she recounts the pivotal 2 a.m. realization that sparked a profound ...

Best Of: Ricky B - F*ck Cancer—Breakdown to Breakthrough

December 18, 2023 08:00 - 32 minutes - 29.3 MB

Checking himself into a psych ward with 29 years of sobriety was the last thing Ricky B. thought he would do. But after an aggressive prostate cancer diagnosis, he found the distant darkness that had plagued him in the past snuck back in. And the only option that made sense was to take his life. Yet he kept that all to himself. Yet another example that people are facing their own battles all the time, even if it isn't obvious. Ricky shares his heart-wrenching story as he turns his life aroun...

Best Of: Diane - I'm Married and Have Had Emotional Affairs

December 11, 2023 08:00 - 26 minutes - 23.8 MB

Is it really cheating? If you haven't actually done anything? But it's clear, that it can be very dangerous to get involved in.An emotional affair generally starts innocently enough as a friendship. But when a person invests significant emotional energy and time in a close friendship outside of their marriage, it's possible for the friendship to form an emotional bond that ultimately threatens and hurts the person's intimacy with their spouse or partner. While there are those who believe th...

Ashley: I Secretly Don’t Like My Friends

December 04, 2023 08:00 - 17 minutes - 15.7 MB

So, you know, sometimes old friendships kinda fade away because, like, all you have left is the good ol' days, you know? Like, people change and stuff – interests, opinions, life paths – it's just the natural flow of things. Imagine, our guest Ashley is going through this, trying to figure out where her friendships stand. You get to a point where all you and your friend talk about are those crazy memories from way back when. And hey, reminiscing is cool, it hits those brain reward buttons a...

Charlie: I’m Dating a Man 17 Years Younger Than Me

November 27, 2023 08:00 - 22 minutes - 20.3 MB

In this intriguing episode, we explore the clandestine love affair of Charlie, a woman who unexpectedly found herself entwined in a romance with a man 17 years her junior. Charlie opens up about the joys and challenges of their secret relationship, detailing the initial hesitations, the thrill of covert rendezvous, and the emotional rollercoaster of keeping their connection hidden from judgmental eyes.  _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexua...

Best Of: Nico: I Was in a 4 Year Affair With My Married Boss

November 20, 2023 08:00 - 28 minutes - 26.5 MB

Seduced by her powerful and charismatic boss, Nico found herself in a four year affair that got more and more adventurous as time went on. Continuing our Best Of series, we share some of our listener favorites. The episode originally aired as EP #125 on October 31, 2022. _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com. ______ To share your secret and be a ...

Charla: I Was So Shut Down, I Could Have Walked Away From My Kids

November 13, 2023 08:00 - 29 minutes - 27 MB

Charla started to shut down emotionally since age six. From emotional and physical abuse, to neglect and losing her virginity to rape at sixteen, Charla had to shut down in order to survive. Her underlying self-talk is, “Charla, you don’t matter.” As she got older and got into more relationships, she found herself trauma bonding and eventually found herself in recovery from Sex and Love Addiction (SLAA). *TRIGGER WARNING - This episode contains topics of sexual assault and trauma. Some peop...

Best Of: Mark — Money: From Debt to Abundance

November 06, 2023 08:00 - 31 minutes - 28.6 MB

Secret Life Podcast Ep #179 — Best Of: Mark — Money: From Debt to Abundance — In honor of Mark's 13-Year Anniversary from debting on Sunday, we wanted to replay this powerful episode. — Debting and underearning were destroying Mark’s relationships, career, and ultimately his sanity. With 20 years of sobriety, he found himself at yet another bottom. Underearning wasn’t just about an inability to pay his bills; it was a more profound belief that he wasn’t ever going to get what he desired. As ...

Nicole: I’m a Working Mom and I Feel Guilty Focussing on My Career

October 30, 2023 07:00 - 22 minutes - 20.7 MB

Working from home is also a double-edged sword for parents, who can find themselves taking on a disproportionate share of household and child care responsibilities on top of their paid work. The effect is more pronounced for parents whose partners work outside the home, and for moms, who still do the majority of child care in American families. _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of res...

Best Of: Brianne Davis — Crushing Dyslexia, ADHD & Publishing a Book

October 23, 2023 07:00 - 30 minutes - 27.9 MB

Ever since she was little, Brianne Davis had the belief that she wasn’t smart because she struggled with standardized testing due to her dyslexia and ADHD. Those negative voices of doubt and shame plagued her no matter how successful, abundant, or happy she was. As she peeled away the layers of the false self she created to protect her, her unique talent, voice, and purpose came into the light. Just days before releasing her debut novel, Brianne shares her journey and the gift of showing up ...

Brooke: I Might Be a Sex & Love Addict; I've Slept with Over 100 People

October 16, 2023 07:00 - 30 minutes - 28.4 MB

In this week's episode, we delve into Brooke's compelling story of seeking acceptance and battling personal demons in the world of love and sex addiction. From her humble origins in a small town, where friends and family subjected her to bullying, to her discovery of a supportive online community that embraced her for who she truly is, this is a narrative of resilience and transformation. Join us as we follow Brooke's path through the shadows of desire, addiction, and depression, where she n...

Best Of: Paul Gilmartin — I've Struggled with a Video Game Addiction

October 09, 2023 07:00 - 25 minutes - 23.4 MB

Is Video Game Addiction Real? It’s great to do things you enjoy. But can you go too far with a hobby? And at what point does it become an addiction? That’s the question experts are trying to answer about playing video games. Continuing our Best Of series, we share some of our listener favorites. The episode originally aired on March 21, 2022, as Ep #93. The World Health Organization added “gaming disorder” to the 2018 version of its medical reference book, International Classification of D...

Jaime: I Was Married to a Meth Addict

October 02, 2023 07:00 - 16 minutes - 15.1 MB

Jamie was living with her meth-addicted husband for over two years while pregnant with their second child. Though she knew something was wrong, he repeatedly lied and made her feel crazy. She suffered in silence to protect him until she found his "sex den" and crack pipes, confirming her worst fears. In a last-ditch effort, she staged an intervention with his family. After dropping him at rehab, she felt free for the first time in years. _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with a...

Best Of: West — Body Dysmorphia: Male Body Shame

September 25, 2023 07:00 - 25 minutes - 23 MB

Secret Life Podcast Ep 173 — Body dysmorphic disorder is a mental health disorder in which you can't stop thinking about one or more perceived defects or flaws in your appearance — a flaw that appears minor or can't be seen by others. But you may feel so embarrassed, ashamed and anxious that you may avoid many social situations. — Body dysmorphic disorder - Symptoms and causes - Mayo Clinic Body dysmorphic disorder affects about 1 in 50 people. In the United States, an estimated 5 million to...

Lisa: I’m a Recovering Sex & Love Addict and Still in the BDSM Community

September 18, 2023 07:00 - 28 minutes - 26.1 MB

Lisa brings us into the world of BDSM and how she’s balancing that life and the life of recovery from sex and love addiction. _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com ______ To share your secret and be a guest on the show email [email protected] _____ SECRET LIFE’S TOPICS INCLUDE: addiction recovery, mental health, alcoholism, drug addict...

Best Of: Beau — Vanity: Perfectionism, Ego & Pride

September 11, 2023 07:00 - 29 minutes - 26.9 MB

Society conditions us to strive to be perfect — be thin, toned, ripped, trimmed, waxed, peeled, tan, liked, followed, friended, and then... we will be loved. There's a misconception that only women put themselves under a microscope when it comes to their bodies and their looks, but men do too. Continuing our Best Of series, we share some of our listener favorites. The episode originally aired on November 2, 2020, as Ep #22. A new study points to a surprising connection between rising perfe...

Gwenn: I Was a Mute in My Marriage and Profession for 12 Years

September 04, 2023 07:00 - 25 minutes - 23.5 MB

From a very young age, Gwenn realized that it was easier for her to do what people wanted instead of sharing her point of view. That theory carried into her marriage, profession, and motherhood.  _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com ______ To share your secret and be a guest on the show email [email protected] _____ SECRET LIFE’S TOPIC...

Jamie: I Was a Sober Mom and Relapsed on OxyContin

August 28, 2023 07:00 - 23 minutes - 21.3 MB

Unfortunately, Jamie's story is all too familiar within the recovery community. A person with a decade of recovery from alcohol relapses on pain pills. _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com ______ To share your secret and be a guest on the show email [email protected] _____ SECRET LIFE’S TOPICS INCLUDE: addiction recovery, mental heal...

JC: I Lied About Having Kids to Get a Job

August 21, 2023 07:00 - 25 minutes - 23.3 MB

The entertainment industry is getting better about hiring more women and BPOC, but there was a time, not so long ago, when even the make-up and hair departments were run by men. JC and Brianne unpack what it’s like to be a mother in the film and tv business.  _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com. ______ To share your secret and be a guest on the sh...

Best Of: Kellee Stewart: Single and Freezing Eggs

August 14, 2023 07:00 - 29 minutes - 27.1 MB

Kellee has 29 eggs chillin 'in a freezer in El Segundo. It all started when her seven year relationship came to a tearful and agonizing end. The heartbreak of saying goodbye to her almost, maybe, or one day baby daddy sent her into a tailspin of anxiety about what her future may hold. Naturally she did what every newly single Black woman in her late thirties does - She froze her eggs. Except, that’s not quite what we all do, is it? In fact, we rarely talk about fertility with ourselves, or e...

Claudia: I’m a Casting Director Who Was Secretly Married to a Successful Actor

August 07, 2023 07:00 - 24 minutes - 22.9 MB

What happens when you’re a casting director, and you meet the perfect guy, except he’s an actor and right for most of the projects you cast? Would it help or hinder his chances if the producers and director knew? Do you keep it a secret? For how long? That’s what Brianne and Claudia explore in this episode.  ______ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com. __...

Best Of: Brittany — I Hate Being a Mom Sometimes

July 31, 2023 07:00 - 30 minutes - 27.5 MB

What they don’t tell you is that when your child is born, a part of you dies and you have to come to terms with this new identity. Brittany Ishibashi and Brianne share their stories of struggling with postpartum, trying to be the perfect mom and finding time for self-care in times of quarantine. The two swap hilarious stories of fantasizing about just walking out the door (with their masks on of course), only to have their child do something insanely adorable, reminding them why it’s all wor...

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