Secluded Thoughts
530 episodes - English - Latest episode: 3 days ago -Secluded Thoughts is dedicated to inspiring you to become the best version of yourself through genuine conversations on how to take accountability of your life. This show is all about being authentic, raw and vulnerable as we discuss topics like achieving goals, self improvement, following your dreams and more. If you struggle with self-doubt, getting out of your comfort zone, fear of any kind, and just need some motivation and inspiration to work on yourself and achieve your goals then you’re in the right place!
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Stop saying yes when you really want to say no (Clip from #128)
March 07, 2024 11:00 - 9 minutes - 9.01 MBThis one is for the people pleasers. It's time to stop saying yes to people and dreading the day because you really didn't want to do it. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #128. It's time to put an end to your people pleasing sis JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: : https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Journal: https://...
How long will you sit on your ideas? (Clip from #127)
March 05, 2024 11:00 - 10 minutes - 9.85 MBHow long will you put off the nagging feeling you have to do that thing? How long will you let it torture you? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #127. Don't bring the same ideas, goals, and fears into 2024 JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: : https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/hea...
153. Get out of your comfort zone; It’s making you miserable
March 03, 2024 16:45 - 24 minutes - 22.1 MBEverything you want is on the other side of your comfort zone… and fear. RELATED EPISODES 60. You've been too comfortable 101. Girl give yourself some GRACE while you grow 35. This is why you think you're behind in life Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/9jAXfJ6d-tM JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: : https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing J...
If you slack off in one thing you'll slack off in everything (Clip from #126)
February 29, 2024 17:33 - 5 minutes - 5.28 MBDon't think you can slack off in one area of your life and then be the best in another area. It will apply to everything you do. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #126 - Hold yourself to a high standard JOURNALS: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals Reinvent Yourself Planner: : https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Jour...
Pastor politics and protecting your relationship with God (Clip from #124)
February 27, 2024 11:00 - 9 minutes - 9.14 MBSo you decided to build a relationship with God but you're dealing with all the pastor politics of people wanting to give opinions on certain pastors and condemn you for it.. here's what I've learned in my early days of trying to build a relationship with God. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #124 - How to build a relationship with God JOURNALS: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthought...
152. Your need for approval is holding you back
February 25, 2024 11:00 - 39 minutes - 35.9 MBIt's time you stop letting your need for other people to approve of you and support you hold you back. You can't be in a place where you never take action on what you want to do just because you don't have the support of family and friends.. or even let that hold you back along the way. JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: : https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships He...
It's time to let go of this version of you (Clip from #121)
February 22, 2024 14:58 - 6 minutes - 6.12 MBYou've outgrown this version of yourself. It has taken you as far as it can take you. It's time to shift into new habits and patterns to get the things you're working toward. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #121 - Stop running from the call. You've outgrown this version of yourself JOURNALS: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsP...
It's just not your time...YET (Clip from #76)
February 20, 2024 21:33 - 5 minutes - 5.42 MBA lot of what you do before you elevate will be unseen. Only you will know how bad you're struggling right now. But eventually, when you're propelled into what you're praying for, people will think you're an overnight success. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #76 - You're planted, not buried JOURNALS: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Secluded...
151. The waiting season - when God's timing doesn't align with yours
February 18, 2024 11:00 - 35 minutes - 32.8 MBHave you ever felt like you were working on yourself or working toward a goal and you've been waiting to see the fruits of your labor for so long but nothing seems to be changing?... and you're just.... waiting...? It can make you feel hopeless but you can't give up. Here's how to deal with your waiting season. RELATED EPISODES: 86. Don't settle for "what if.." 124. How to build a relationship with God 117. Are you too busy/distracted for God now that he has blessed you? 68. Are you be...
Take your word seriously (Clip from #120)
February 15, 2024 11:00 - 8 minutes - 7.41 MBChoose your words carefully and stick to your commitments. It reflects poorly on your integrity and confidence when you don't. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #120 - Honor your commitments JOURNALS: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Sponsorship Inquiries: hel...
Don't make poor decisions this Valentine's Day ma'am (Clip from #71)
February 13, 2024 11:00 - 4 minutes - 4.29 MBDon't revisit any closed doors just because you're single on Valentine's day miss girl. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #71 - Listen before you give them a second chance JOURNALS: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Sponsorship Inquiries: hello@secludedthoughts...
150. Your old desires won't go away just because you decide to be better
February 11, 2024 23:15 - 38 minutes - 35 MBJust because you decide to be the best version of yourself and walk in alignment with God's plan for your life doesn't mean that your fleshly desires go away. But how many of us beat ourselves up for it? Let's talk about it. Suggestions: https://secludedthoughts.com/suggestions LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Support this podcast at —...
Contradicting yourself isn't always a bad thing (Clip from #101)
February 08, 2024 18:56 - 6 minutes - 5.85 MBI used to be afraid of contradicting myself on my platform. I was afraid of saying the wrong thing and being wrong or crucified if I changed my mind later. But I learned something very important and I'm going to share it with you today. This perspective literally freed me from that fear. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: 101. Girl give yourself some GRACE while you grow LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https:/...
How to start being selfish (in a good way) (Clip from #114)
February 06, 2024 15:30 - 11 minutes - 10.4 MBIt's time to start putting yourself first and being selfish (in a good way). You gain nothing from putting yourself last. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #114. Give yourself as many chances as you gave that man LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Sponsorship Inquiries: [email protected] Su...
149. Accept your story and become UNBOTHERED
February 04, 2024 11:00 - 21 minutes - 19.4 MBThis is the only way to fully love yourself and feel confident in who you are. Once you do this people won't have any ammunition on you and you'll feel absolutely invincible. Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/4evXeJynu74 RELATED EPISODES 145. The 4 Most Important Things to Prioritize in 2024 130. Who are you when no one is looking? 125. Are you hiding behind titles? 140. Navigating people's expectations + being accepted for who you are LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https:/...
Are you letting distractions make you drift in life? (Clip #117)
February 01, 2024 11:00 - 12 minutes - 11 MBBe mindful of what you give your time to because you might find yourself drifting and feeling lost in life. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #117 - Are you too busy/distracted for God now that he has blessed you? LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Sponsorship Inquiries: [email protected] S...
Are you giving off desperate energy in your dating life? (Clip from #116)
January 30, 2024 11:00 - 12 minutes - 11.2 MBWe weren't meant to be alone forever.. but have you been alone for so long that you're coming across as desperate? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #116 - You date at the level of your self esteem... so make sure it's HIGH LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Sponsorship Inquiries: hello@secludedthoug...
148. Stop hopping on every trend and blending in with the crowd
January 28, 2024 11:00 - 15 minutes - 14.4 MBDo you realize hopping on every trend is making you blend in with everyone else? Let's start thinking for ourselves in 2024. Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/1uWpDBD8nBI RELATED EPISODES: 97. What are you doing with your pain? 130. Who are you when no one is looking? 128. It's time to put an end to your people pleasing sis 140. Navigating people's expectations + being accepted for who you are LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube:...
Are the things you give your time to helping you or distracting you? (Clip from #118)
January 25, 2024 11:00 - 9 minutes - 8.74 MBChange what you consume to align with what you desire. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #118 - Stop getting caught up in the destination and enjoy the journey JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Vision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/vision Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@...
What does your time with God look like AFTER He gets you out of tough situations? (Clip from #117)
January 23, 2024 11:00 - 14 minutes - 13 MBChildd the devil is always working hard so make sure you're working harder! If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #117 - Are you too busy/distracted for God now that he has blessed you? JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Vision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/vision Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: ht...
147. Stop living for the next best thing
January 21, 2024 16:53 - 21 minutes - 20 MBDon't overlook the season you're in right now because it's not aligned with where you'd "rather" be. BOOK: The Courage to Be Disliked - https://amzn.to/48TvrmI RELATED EPISODES: 138. 3 Mindsets to adopt in the new year 128. It's time to put an end to your people pleasing sis 124. How to build a relationship with God 119. Change what you consume to align with what you desire JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: : https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://s...
Remember this the next time you want to scroll mindlessly (Clip from #118)
January 18, 2024 11:00 - 9 minutes - 8.78 MBYou can have fun and get some entertainment but be mindful of the type of "entertainment" you consume and what it does to your mindset or how it distracts you. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #118 - Stop getting caught up in the destination and enjoy the journey JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Vision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/vision Heali...
STOP promoting the STRUGGLE GOSPEL (Clip from #113)
January 16, 2024 11:00 - 13 minutes - 12.3 MBYour tough times were for YOU. They were to mold you. And even if you made it out the suburbs vs the hood your experience is still VALID. Stop making people feel invalidated your work ethic because you weren't traumatized OR make you feel like you have to prove that you were traumatized to deserve success. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #113. Girl stop trying to prove yourself to other people JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthought...
146. 2024 will NOT be your year if you fear success
January 14, 2024 15:40 - 30 minutes - 28.1 MBWe all want success but I'll bet the closer you get to it the more you'll start to fear it. PEOPLE PLEASING 128. It's time to put an end to your people pleasing sis RELATED EPISODES 145. The 4 Most Important Things to Prioritize in 2024 144. The SECRET to TRUE FREEDOM 134. How to handle conflict as the best version of yourself JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: : https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: ...
But what have you gained for putting yourself last? (Clip from #114)
January 11, 2024 11:00 - 11 minutes - 10.4 MBYou might think putting yourself last is noble but sis.. what has this done for you so far? How can you continue to justify this when it leaves you so depleted? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP 114. Give yourself as many chances as you gave that man JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Heali...
So you have time for others but not for yourself? (Clip from #115)
January 09, 2024 11:00 - 8 minutes - 7.72 MBBut... what about the things you're supposed to be doing for yourself? If you committed your time to do something for you why do you easily change your plans when other people need things from you? What about your personal commitments? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #115. Stop overextending yourself, miss sacrificial lamb JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/se...
145. The 4 Most Important Things to Prioritize in 2024
January 07, 2024 17:40 - 44 minutes - 40.9 MBEverything you want to achieve and become stems from these 4 things so if you prioritize them you will not only become a better person but you will achieve your other goals as well. RELATED EPISODES: 144 - The Secret to True Freedom 126 - Hold yourself to a high standard 100 - It's time to UPGRADE your Standard 135 - How to build your confidence and self worth JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: : https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts...
Sis your mind was made up long before you asked people to cosign your decision (Clip from #109)
January 04, 2024 11:00 - 9 minutes - 8.39 MBYou might fool your friends but you can't fool me. You made your mind up long before you conjured up that story (in your favor) to tell your friends to get them to cosign on your bad decisions. Let's own up to it. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #109. How accountability will change your life JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https:...
USE YOUR PRIVILEGE! Stop downplaying them to make others feel comfortable (Clip from #113)
January 02, 2024 11:00 - 7 minutes - 6.65 MBYou gonna throw your advantage away so other people can feel comfortable??? You do know that they're only saying that because they're trying to belittle you and discount your hard work right??? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #113. Girl stop trying to prove yourself to other people JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secluded...
144. The SECRET to TRUE FREEDOM
December 31, 2023 11:00 - 26 minutes - 24.5 MBFirst we think it’s the money that will solve all of our problems.. Then we think it’s time. “If I had control of my time I’d be happy..” But it’s neither. Today we’re discussing the TRUE way to achieve FREEDOM. Book: The Courage to Be Disliked - https://amzn.to/4aqdDky Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/DyNqebw5Vr4 TOPICS DISCUSSED What we THINK freedom is The secret to TRUE FREEDOM Fear of being seen trying Examples in your own life Examples of people doing what it takes ...
144. Have the courage to be DISLIKED
December 31, 2023 11:00 - 26 minutes - 24.5 MBFirst we think it’s the money that will solve all of our problems.. Then we think it’s time. “If I had control of my time I’d be happy..” But it’s neither. Today we’re discussing the TRUE way to achieve FREEDOM. Book: The Courage to Be Disliked - https://amzn.to/4aqdDky Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/DyNqebw5Vr4 TOPICS DISCUSSED What we THINK freedom is The secret to TRUE FREEDOM Fear of being seen trying Examples in your own life Examples of people doing what it takes ...
Why are you so hard on yourself but lenient towards men?? (Clip from #114)
December 28, 2023 11:00 - 11 minutes - 10.7 MBLmao let's be real with ourselves pls. Somebody has to tell you this. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP 114. Give yourself as many chances as you gave that man JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www...
So after you've given everything you need to others.. what's left for you? (Clip from #115)
December 26, 2023 11:00 - 11 minutes - 10.3 MBConsider YOUR OWN needs before you prioritize that of others. In some situations it'll work against you if you always prioritize other people before yourself. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #115. Stop overextending yourself, miss sacrificial lamb JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing...
143. 6 Productivity tips to achieve your goals + warning against the productivity trap
December 24, 2023 11:00 - 23 minutes - 21.1 MBLet’s talk about the productivity trap that a lot of us fall into + productivity tips to help you achieve your goals in the New Year! Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/PwdO9ifotZA JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: : https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing THIS EPISODE PAIRS WELL WITH THESE: 93. Mic...
So he deserved your grace but you don't? (Clip from #114)
December 21, 2023 11:00 - 9 minutes - 8.61 MBSis.... why are you so hard on yourself but so lenient with people who don't deserve you? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP 114. Give yourself as many chances as you gave that man JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing LET'S STAY CONNECTED! ...
You don't owe people an explanation of how you spend your coin, sis (Clip from #113)
December 19, 2023 11:00 - 8 minutes - 7.74 MBIf these people aren't paying your bills or signing your checks why are you explaining and justifying how you spend your money to them? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #113. Girl stop trying to prove yourself to other people JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Journal: https://seclu...
142. 5 Tips to prepare for 2024
December 17, 2023 11:00 - 23 minutes - 21.4 MBThis is not your typical ‘create a vision board, declutter your phone, set goals’ prep list. I’m holding you accountable to these 5 things you need to do to get your life together in preparation for 2024. Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/CbQTscOMsc4 JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: : https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Journal: https://sec...
Are your beliefs serving you? (Clip from #111)
December 14, 2023 11:00 - 11 minutes - 10.2 MBAre the things you say about yourself conssitent with the best version of yourself? Are you holding yourself back from living your ideal life because you keep saying things like "that's just not who I am" or "that's just the way I am?" If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #111. It's time to redefine who you are JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship...
Let people assume you had it easy; stop defending your struggle (Clip from #113)
December 12, 2023 11:00 - 10 minutes - 9.39 MBStop fighting to prove that you "made it out the mud" or that life wasn't easy for you and you had to hustle and grind. Stop letting that offend you. Stop going overboard to try to prove that you struggled. Take it as a compliment instead. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #113. Girl stop trying to prove yourself to other people JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.co...
141. DO THE HARD WORK
December 10, 2023 19:35 - 31 minutes - 28.9 MBThere's no way around it. In order to get through this trial phase in your life you have to do the hard work! JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: : https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPo...
It's not your fault.. but it IS your responsibility (Clip from #109)
December 07, 2023 11:00 - 9 minutes - 9.14 MB...Or maybe he has potential.. but that doesn't mean you'll be around to ever see it. Put yourself first and don't negotiate based on fantasies! STAND UP SIS! If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #109. How accountability will change your life JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Journal: ...
Rest your MIND so you can hear God (Clip from #112)
December 05, 2023 11:00 - 10 minutes - 9.83 MBMake sure you rest your mind before the New Year so you can be refreshed and think clearly as your take on the New Year! You also need to make sure you're receptive to hearing God's voice If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #112. You need to rest your MIND too, sis JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relation...
140. Navigating people's expectations + being accepted for who you are
December 03, 2023 20:22 - 50 minutes - 46 MBHave you ever felt like people weren’t accepting you for who you are? Or that they were projecting their expectations onto you or holding you accountable for meeting certain needs? Let’s talk about it. JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: : https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: ht...
Get very CLEAR on what you want and work on your beliefs (Clip from #111)
November 30, 2023 11:00 - 12 minutes - 11.4 MBIt's not enough to be vague about your ideal lifestyle or financial position and just leave it up to change. You need to go in depth and then adopt the mindset necessary to manifest it. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #111. It's time to redefine who you are JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationship...
Stop dating out of loneliness and desperation (Clip from #109)
November 28, 2023 11:00 - 13 minutes - 12.5 MBDon't put yourself in a position to attract predators. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #109 - How accountability will change your life JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedt...
139. The only "motivational speech" you'll ever need
November 26, 2023 18:20 - 36 minutes - 33.5 MBIt’s time to stop *needing* motivational speeches and motivational videos to get you to do things. After all, if they were enough you wouldn’t need them in the first place. It’s not a reliable system so let’s talk about what you need to do instead. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Atomic Habits: https://amzn.to/49WHdOu #5 - Stop looking for Motivation - This is what you need instead #105 - Live in the world AS IT IS, not as it should be #129. Delulu is the solulu: How being delusional will g...
Keeping people out won't stop you from getting hurt (Clip from #109)
November 23, 2023 17:19 - 12 minutes - 11.2 MBIt happens to the best of us sis. Don't be too hard on yourself. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #109 - How accountability will change your life JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healing LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@...
Accept people for who they are and put them in their place (Clip from #105)
November 21, 2023 11:00 - 7 minutes - 7.27 MBDon't waste time and energy complaining about people who don't meet your standards or respect your boundaries. Accept them for who they are and decide on their place in their life (if at all). If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #105 - Live in the world AS IT IS, not as it should be JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedth...
138. 3 Mindsets to adopt in the new year
November 19, 2023 11:00 - 33 minutes - 30.3 MBOnce I adopted these 3 mindset changes and outlooks on life it changed the game for me. Mentioned in this episode: EP 88 - Stop begging and start preparing Hebrews 11:6-34 EP 99 - Stop nagging and justifying your non-negotiables Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/ewy4_k9JYFg JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: : https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships ...
Stop engaging with what doesn't align (Clip from #103)
November 16, 2023 11:00 - 8 minutes - 7.94 MBIt's time to declutter your social media feed. Stop making time for and engaging with content that doesn't align with your standards. Stop giving these unnecessary things your time. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #103 - Stop responding to what you DON'T want JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relations...