School Of Attraction Podcast
197 episodes - English - Latest episode: 13 days ago - ★★★★ - 10 ratingsA place for men to learn about everything from approaching and attracting beautiful women, to men's personal development, the politics of sex and much much more. There's no topic Damien won't discuss as we dive down the rabbit hole of learned seduction and men's health.
https://schoolofattraction.com
https://www.youtube.com/schoolofattraction
https://www.instagram.com/theschoolofattraction/
https://www.tiktok.com/@schoolofattaction
Homepage Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
Episodes
Biggest Mistakes Guys Make On Tinder
September 26, 2019 00:00 - 14 minutes - 9.71 MBToday I'm going to share with you some of the biggest mistakes guys regularly make on Tinder. Because trying to get matches, and text women, and get them out on dates can be difficult or downright impossible if you're doing these few things wrongly. In this podcast I'm going to look at the 3 topmost frustrating reasons guys don't get results on tinder. 1) Women don't respond to your first message 2) Women respond but the conversation always fizzles out and you can't get them out on a d...
How To Make Women Want You Sexually
September 23, 2019 00:00 - 20 minutes - 14 MBWomen feel sexually attracted to men who behave in very specific ways. When you're learning to pick up women because you want to get laid or because you're looking for a relationship, you're going to discover very quickly that if you have the wrong approach and the wrong dating mindset that women will easily friend-zone you. So today I'm going to discuss 5 strategies to make women want you sexually.
How I Overcame Chronic Anxiety - 3 Powerful Strategies
September 19, 2019 00:00 - 16 minutes - 11.3 MBWhen I was in my early 20s and late teens, I suffered with debilitating anxiety and was trapped in my parents house for months. Today I want share with you the strategies I used to overcome my anxiety. What worked? What didn't? I'm going to share my 3 top strategies for dealing with anxiety once and for all, whether it's social anxiety, or health anxiety, or any other kind you can imagine.
Is Learning Pick Up Totally Wrong For You?
September 16, 2019 05:00 - 12 minutes - 8.4 MBAre you getting increasingly frustrated with learning pickup? Are you starting to feel your self-esteem going downward rather than upwards because you're feeling like nothing you can do can get you any success with women? Are you feeling like maybe every dating coach and pick up artist out there is just feeding you lies? Perhaps right now is the wrong time to be thinking about girls completely - Perhaps most dating coaches don't realise that without a base level of social skills - tryi...
Find Your Purpose And Women Will Be Drawn To You
September 05, 2019 00:00 - 11 minutes - 7.81 MBOne of the most important things every man needs in his life is a passion for the things that he does week to week. These passions lead a man to discover his purpose, the thing in life that makes him want to get out of bed in the morning and gives him resilience against life's ups and downs. When you're trying to learn how to attract women, it's usually more important to first spend time developing yourself as a man before you start learning how to talk to and flirt with women.
Think Like a CEO – Date Like a Rockstar
September 01, 2019 14:00 - 54 minutes - 37.8 MBWhat are the key skills that CEOs, top sales executives, and entrepreneurs have in common that men who want to learn to become more successful with women need to know? As it turns out, there's a lot we can learn from the corporate world about consistently improving our results in a highly competitive market.
Why PUA Deception And Manipulation Will Hurt You Long Term
August 29, 2019 00:00 - 13 minutes - 9.4 MBI first got involved in the Pick Up Artist community 15 years ago just after I read the book 'the game'. After a lot of initial excitement and some initial success, I realized that while I was talking ]to women, and I was getting some dates, and I was getting laid, I still wasn't feeling completely confident or happy. In this Podcast, I'm going to talk you through my pua journey and give you the dating advice for how to meet girls that I wish someone wouldn't have given me when I was on ...
When She Doesn't Text Back - What To Do (And Why It Happens)
August 26, 2019 00:00 - 13 minutes - 9.5 MBWhen a girl doesn't text you back, it can be extremely frustrating. Especially when she seemed happy to give you her number in the first place. There are a number of reasons why girls give out their numbers but then never end up going on dates with guys, and in this video, we're going to explore those reasons. We're also going to look at what you can do to ensure you don't get flakey behavior ever again and make women feel compelled to message you back almost every single time.
5 Keys To Be Amazing In Bed - What Men Need To Know
August 22, 2019 00:00 - 18 minutes - 12.7 MB5 Lessons about Sex that every man needs to know to be better in bed. Most men waste energy trying to learn a whole range of sex techniques so that women will be more satisfied. But the key to being amazing in bed and giving a woman mind-blowing sex is to understand that her most erogenous zone is her brain. If a man can tap into a woman's mind to make her feel extremely aroused during sex then she'll walk away feeling like she's had an incredible experience.
Master The Art Of Witty Banter
August 19, 2019 00:00 - 59 minutes - 40.6 MBDid you know that witty banter with women is rated as one of the sexiest traits a man can have? But how do you go about improving your ability to tease women, and keep interactions playful? More importantly, how do you go about doing that without accidentally insulting women, or come across as a dancing monkey or an outright tryhard?
Interview With Mentor Royce (Asian Ex-Student)
August 15, 2019 00:00 - 34 minutes - 23.8 MBI interview one of our ex-students Royce who talks about his experience learning pickup as an Asian student - some of the most important lessons he learned on his journey as well as some of his personal favorite experiences.
Overcome Fear Of Failure - The Surprising Origins For Smart People
August 12, 2019 00:00 - 16 minutes - 11.6 MBThe fear of failure is one of the biggest impediments to truly becoming successful at anything. We all know that in order to succeed, then you need to repeatedly fail at things over and over again until you get really good at them. But knowing this fact, and actually LIVING this fact are very different. I want to talk about why the fear of failure and the belief that we are smart are intimately linked, along with the way we were raised and taught as children. Then I'm going to show you ...
How To Compliment A Girl - Without Losing Her Respect
August 08, 2019 00:00 - 15 minutes - 11 MBDid you know that there's a right way and a wrong way to compliment girls? The wrong way to compliment women will lose respect and cause her to want to get away from you. The right way will flatter her, and make her like you more (because of course, you have good judgment) A lot of guys think that complimenting women is wrong and that you should instead adopt a 'Keep her mean, keep her keen' mentality. But I'll also explain why this isn't the way you want to go about trying to pick up a...
These 12 Dating Resources Will Change Your Life
August 05, 2019 00:00 - 43 minutes - 30.2 MBWhat at the 12 surprising ways any man can radically begin to improve his success with women? In today's podcast I'll be sharing the 12 resources I used to massively up my game which most dating coaches never tell you about
How Does Life Change When You Become Successful With Women?
August 01, 2019 00:00 - 16 minutes - 11.1 MB10 years ago, I was the most successful guy I knew when it came to attracting women - What did that journey look like? How has my life changed over the last 10 years as a result? I'm going to share with you some of the insights I gained about my life as a man, about attraction, about what I think many men are doing wrong on this journey. I'm also going to share some of the surprising benefits of embarking on a journey like this, that many men don't even realise lie waiting for them on th...
Damien Diecke & Steve Mayeda | The Men's Movement Begins
July 29, 2019 00:00 - 1 hour - 54.8 MBIn this interview with Steve Mayeda, we're cover a ton of bases. Feminism, Male Empowerment and Liberation. The Myth of Male Power, and let me tell you, if you want a Men's Movement ... here it is!
Being Authentically Masculine
July 25, 2019 00:00 - 1 hour - 66.9 MBListen to this hour-long seminar on the nature of masculinity in the 21st century. I'm going to be talking about what masculinity really is, and cover a whole range of ways that you can develop your own sense of masculinity and 'manliness' so that you become much more attractive for women.
Increase Your Social Intelligence - No Woman Will Be Out Of Your League
July 22, 2019 00:00 - 12 minutes - 8.92 MBStop approaching women out of your league and first start focussing on your social intelligence. So many guys who are just starting to learn to attract women get focussed on approaching women who are too far up the social hierarchy and wonder why they're failing so frequently. Social Intelligence is a trait that any guy can learn which will help him attract the hot girls he always wanted. But unfortunately learning this skill set takes time. Damien Diecke will show you exactly how you c...
3 Big Mistakes Guys Make When Talking To Girls
July 18, 2019 00:00 - 11 minutes - 7.71 MBWhen approaching women, guys there are 3 big mistakes most guys make that get them rejected, and they're really easy to fix. Whether you are running out of things to say, or you simply have no idea why she doesn't like you back, the reasons for getting rejected are really quite simple to fix. I've been coaching men for almost a decade now, and getting rejected every time they approach a girl they like is one of the most common causes for frustration. The good news is that once you underst...
6 Biggest Mistakes Guys Make When Learning Attraction
July 15, 2019 00:00 - 16 minutes - 11.4 MBWhen guys start working on being successful at attracting women, there are 6 common mistakes I see guys making over and over again. Most guys start the journey of learning how to talk to girls, but they quickly hit a wall where they stop getting any better and they burn out and quit. Today I'm going to discuss what these mistakes are so you can avoid them and learn how to better attract women.
My Client got Scarlett Johansson To Give Him A Call! - Here's Our Interview
July 09, 2019 00:00 - 24 minutes - 11.3 MBA few years ago, one of my clients managed to get Scarlett Johannson to give him a call on the phone - how did he do it? I'm going to talk with Brendan who is an ex-student who has gone on to live a colourful sex life including orgies, many casual sex relationships and more. What were the most important lessons he learned about becoming the kind of man women want to get down and dirty with?
Why MGTOW, Red Pill, And Feminism All Make The World A Worse Place
July 04, 2019 00:00 - 22 minutes - 10.4 MBIt's no secret that I believe strongly in fighting for men's rights, and that I think feminism usually takes political issues way too far, but I'm also not a fan at all of the Redpill and Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) movement. All these ideologies act as big red flags to emotionally unstable people who have vendettas against the opposite gender. I'm going to talk about why I think all of these philosophies are hurting the world at present and what I think members of these parties need...
Developing Your Masculine - That Elusive Quality That Drives Women Crazy
July 02, 2019 00:00 - 54 minutes - 25.1 MBWhat do women want? What do women want in a man? What is a masculine man? What is a feminine woman? What is Masculine Sensitivity? These are questions which get asked a lot, and in this day and age, it can be a very tricky question for some to answer. In this Podcast, Damien Diecke and Diviya Nand discuss some of the powerful aspects to being the kind of man that women sit up and take notice of. Sexual polarity is getting forgotten in the modern world. Getting to the core of masculinity is...
Why Does Society Massively Underrate This Critical Life Skill?
June 27, 2019 00:00 - 12 minutes - 5.53 MBThroughout society men are being taught that learning to find a high quality partner isn't that important, and will just 'happen' naturally down the line. But increasingly, men are becoming frustrated with their dating lives because they don't know how to talk to women. We invest 100s of thousands in our career but never think to invest in learning to attract better women into our lives.
7 Mindset Changes Every Man Needs To Attract Women
June 25, 2019 00:00 - 52 minutes - 24 MBNo matter what kind of results you want to have with women, whether it's to find that one special woman for a fulfilling long term relationship, or just live the single life and sew some wild oats - There's no denying that our mindsets lie at the center of our success (or lack thereof!) So what are the mindsets that truly set apart the men who seem to always have such an easy time talking to and attracting beautiful women into their lives? How do they think differently from the average guy...
How To Create A Rewarding And Lasting With A Woman?
June 20, 2019 00:00 - 47 minutes - 21.6 MBWould you like to know how to consistently have more fun and more successful relationships? Would you like to know how to embrace your passions and purpose while still having a fantastic relationship with an amazing woman? Would you like to have relationships explained to you in great detail by one of the world's foremost relationship experts? Some of the topics covered include: - the importance of being open to meeting an amazing women - the importance of having a list of criteria for p...
Learning To Adult - How To Be The Man She Craves
June 18, 2019 00:00 - 14 minutes - 6.75 MBDo you find yourself constantly falling into childish emotional states around women? Do you get jealous or insecure or generally controlling around women? Do you struggle with rejection and act out? These are all signs that you haven't learned to deal with your inner child appropriately. When women say they want a man and not a boy, what they really want is a man who knows how to manage his childish side. That's what women really want.
Is She Out Of Your League? She Just Might Be (SPOILER: for now)
June 13, 2019 00:00 - 17 minutes - 8.1 MBSo many times guys see cute girls and refuse to take any action because she's so hot that she must be out of his league. Correlating hot women with leagues is a terrible strategy that's going to guarantee you never have success with women. What you want to find a girlfriend, or just pick up a hot girl in a bar, you need to be aware that there is a league of sorts at play that's related to your social skills and your confidence levels. The great news is that you can learn to become more...
Casual Sex Mindset - Why Most Men Are Missing Out
June 11, 2019 00:00 - 13 minutes - 6.19 MBDid you know that most men miss out on the most amazing sex of their lives? Did you know that the beliefs you have about casual sex can play a massive role in how eager women will be to go to bed with you? If you're struggling to get one night stands with girls, or you're never feeling fulfilled by your sexual experiences, then this could be the missing piece of the puzzle. I know it certainly was for me!
How To Get Her Interested In Casual Sex - The Biggest Mistakes Guys Are making
June 06, 2019 00:00 - 7 minutes - 3.61 MBKnowing how to get her interested in casual sex is a critical skill most guys struggle with. The reason the struggle so much is that they don't understand what's in it for the girl. When it comes to casual sex for women the truth is that it's NOT just about the sex. It's about a complex emotional journey that women want to go through before they will WANT no strings attached casual sex. So join Dee from http://solvingme.com/blog/ and Damien the School of Attraction host, for a great i...
Toxic Masculinity - Is It All Madness?
June 04, 2019 00:00 - 25 minutes - 11.5 MBToxic Masculinity has really polarised a lot of people recently especially with the recent release of the Gillette ad campaign. I took the time to have a deeper look to see what was really going on in society that's causing so many women and some men to get upset at the modern notion of masculinity. What I discover is that there are some really valid problems that deserve attention but that the way the message is being delivered is causing a lot more damage than good. The gender debate ...
How To Tell If She's Approachable - And Which Girls To Avoid
May 30, 2019 00:00 - 16 minutes - 7.65 MBEver wondered how to tell if she's approachable? I'm going to share the red and greed flags so you know exactly what to look out for, especially when working out which girls to avoid. Knowing if a girl is available, and knowing how to tell if she wants to talk to you is a very important skill to learn. Most men have no idea and as a result, they have to face a lot more rejection and awkward silences than they would like. Once you know which girls are going to be friendly to you, then it's...
Red-Pill, MGTOW, Feminism, and much more - Interview With YogiOabs
May 28, 2019 00:00 - 40 minutes - 18.8 MBThere's a lot of negativity being shifted towards men in society right now but who's to blame? In this interview with Fascinating opinion-youtuber - Yogioabs, we're going to delve into the world of MGTOW, Feminism, Red-Pill, and Men's Rights. This is one of those times when I get to interview a man who I respect, but don't agree with all the time - It's a way to explore both sides of a very important debate that's happening right now.
The Red Pill Philosophy - Is This A Healthy Lifestyle?
May 23, 2019 23:00 - 25 minutes - 11.7 MBOver the last 2 weeks, I've read through the entire Rational Male book by Rollo Tomassi, to better understand the philosophy behind the red pill movement. It turns out there's plenty that I agree with, but there's also a lot that turns out to be teaching very unhealthy mindsets. Do I think men should be turning to the red pill philosophy to improve their lives? For many it would drastically improve their dating lives and their relationships - But I still think it's a flawed option. I'm...
What's The Secret To Being Truly Happy? - My Famous 21 Convention Speech
May 21, 2019 23:00 - 59 minutes - 27.5 MBIn this talk, you’ll learn what it takes to be happy. Damien Diecke shows that “getting stuff” is the long and unstable way to happiness, and shares the direct, efficient and effective way to you achieving sustainable happiness that lasts. In this podcast, you’ll learn: - How pursuit, not pleasure is the key to your happiness. - What you can learn from the happiest people ever recorded. - The practical steps to happiness you can start to use today.
How Can You Have Casual Sex With Integrity? - Interview With Diviya Nand
May 16, 2019 04:00 - 43 minutes - 20 MBCasual sex doesn't have to be sleazy or selfish, learn how to establish and maintain quality casual sex relationships with this interview with School of Attraction head coach Damien Diecke. Having a casual sex relationship with a girl can be easy and with these steps, you can ensure that nobody gets hurt.
Getting Over Emotionally Abusive Relationships - The Path To Recovery
May 14, 2019 23:00 - 17 minutes - 8.2 MBFew things can be more soul-destroying than going through an emotionally abusive relationship, and yet almost all men go through this at one point or another in their lives. But what's really important is how you learn to process the abuse you received during your relationship, and what kind of accountability you take for the role you played.
How To Eliminate Neediness - Getting To The Root Of The Problem
May 09, 2019 23:00 - 13 minutes - 6.2 MBHave you ever been caught in a neediness spiral? Where you can see yourself getting more and more needy with a girl, and she's getting more and more turned off by you, but the more turned off she is, the needier you become? We've all had it happen to us at least once - And most guides that teach us how to be less needy focus on controlling our behaviours in the moment. But in today's podcast, I want to show you how to become less clingy and needy around women by focusing instead on the r...
Online Dating VS Cold Approaching - Which Is The Best Way To Meet Women?
May 07, 2019 23:00 - 21 minutes - 9.82 MBI hear a lot of debate about whether online dating or cold approaching is a better way to meet women. Often times guys sit in one camp and hurl abuse at the other. But in truth, when it comes to meeting girls, both can be great strategies but they do have their own pros and cons. Sure you could invest time in both, but the truth is that you'll eventually need to invest your time in just one way of meeting women.
Is Affirmative Consent Insane? Maybe Not Entirely...
May 02, 2019 23:00 - 14 minutes - 6.67 MBI want to explore my personal evolving views of what is going on in the aftermath of the #METOO movement, especially the notion of affirmative consent which has a lot of men left scratching their heads. I've spent a lot of time talking to women trying to understand their take on the events and the general psychological environment of the movement and why it exploded so quickly and what it's fighting for. I've learned some pretty incredible facts about women's' experiences around men espe...
Why Women Test Men - How To Answer The Tough Questions
April 30, 2019 23:00 - 15 minutes - 7.21 MBLet's first explore why women test men when they first meet them, to understand why women want to put us on the spot and make us feel uncomfortable. Then let's look at some of the most frequently asked 'shit tests' that men frequently receive, and how to bust through them in a way that leaves women liking us even more. Shit tests are a golden opportunity to demonstrate to a woman that we are the man they're looking for.
Are Open Relationships Right For You? - Interview With Seve Mayeda
April 25, 2019 23:00 - 58 minutes - 26.9 MB2 Dating professionals discuss the good, the bad, and the ugly in their experiences with open relationships with their long term partners. Are open relationships the natural path for humans? Or is monogamy still the way to go? How do you bring up conversations about open relationships with your partner? How should you react if she brings up the idea of an open relationship with you?
How To Make The Perfect Approach
April 23, 2019 23:00 - 16 minutes - 7.6 MBIn this in-course training sound byte, Damien is going to show you step-by-step how to make the perfect approach when you see a woman you really want to talk do but have no idea what to do or say.
Why Pick Up Artists Must Evolve - For Their Own Good!
April 18, 2019 23:00 - 15 minutes - 6.91 MBPick Up Artists have been around for a long time, trying to become more confident and successful with women. But there are many beliefs and mindsets that PUA's have that destroy their chances of getting true success. Become successful with women isn't just about lying and cheating and playing games with the minds of pretty women. Attracting girls shouldn't be about convincing to date you, it should be about becoming the kind of man she really wants to date. I'm going to share with you ...
What Is good Sex - Interview With Jacqueline Hellyer
April 16, 2019 23:00 - 48 minutes - 22.3 MBWhat really constitutes good sex? Tantra Instructor and sex therapist Jacqueline Hellyer, shares some incredible insights on the world of sex and eroticism. So many men and women dream of being good in bed.. But what do women really want in bed? What do men want in bed? Is the path to making her orgasm simply following a set of steps? Or is it like an artwork, where every body is a different style of art to be understood and appreciated? This is one of the most interesting interviews th...
Men Vs Women - Who Has The Disadvantage When Dating?
April 11, 2019 23:00 - 16 minutes - 7.53 MBThe age-old question of Men Vs Women - Who struggles the most with dating? Is there an unfair advantage at play? If I asked a man and a woman this question, both would likely be certain than they have it worse - But often that's because we can't see the other side of the gender debate. We are too caught up with our own dating pains and struggles. So do men have it worse than women when dating? Keep watching to find out!
Why Women Have Casual Sex - The 4 Emotional Needs Women Need For Sex
April 09, 2019 23:00 - 11 minutes - 5.43 MBDiscover the 4 emotional needs women need to have met in order to want to have casual sex, one night stands, or simply to have more sex with their boyfriend. Women don't want casual sex relationships for the same reason that men do, and very often women avoid having sex with guys not because they aren't interested in him, but because he isn't meeting her emotional needs. So if you're wondering how to start a casual sex relationship, or how to drastically improve your chances of finding a...