School For Fathers Podcast

#24: BUILD – Carl Reader

How can we BUILD a business, and life, without over-complicating things? My guest, Carl Reader, knows a thing or two about building businesses! Carl is a business expert, qualified accountant, chairman and the founder of the #BeYourOwnBoss movement. In this episode we explore work/life balance, why Carl hates holidays and a 4 step process making things happen.  Read the full show notes over on our website >> http://schoolforfathers.com/podcast/24-build-carl-reader/

#23: SHIT - Dan Knowlton

Let's talk the good bits and the SHIT bits of business and fatherhood. My guest this week is Dan Knowlton; a UK-based digital and social media marketing expert, Speaker & Founder of Knowlton. Dan’s a man who integrates life and he’s also a new father so this episode is about hearing his perspective on how his life has changed since becoming a dad. Read the full show notes over on our website >> http://schoolforfathers.com/podcast/23-shit-dan-knowlton 

#22: FLEX - Ian Dinwiddy

Isn't it time working fathers were given more FLEX in corporations? In this episode I explore attitudes about flexible work with Ian and how these need to change, the importance of getting clear on what works for you and your family and negotiating for flexible work in corporations, especially given the Coronavirus. Ian is a Coach and the Founder of Inspiring Dads.

#21: Disruption: Routines in COVID-19 - Emma Gleadhill

How do we keep steady when everything is so up in the air? As we record this episode, the COVID-19 pandemic is sweeping it’s way across the world, unlike anything we’ve ever seen before. I asked Emma Gleadhill to join me on the show today because there are millions and millions of families that are way off their usual routine due to working-from-home, school closures and social distancing. In this episode Emma and I cover how to reframe what’s happening - sounds simple but as we know it’s co...

#20: LAID - Stephanie Dominy

It’s safe to say this is a NSFW podcast! Grab a set of headphones and buckle up. This week I’m joined by Stephanie Dominy, a commercial lawyer and titillating blogger known as The Wicked Jade.  Stephanie blogs about sex, lingerie and kink; and how she gets her lady-boner on. During the episode we cover how mothers are sexual beings (duh), ‘volume’ dating after 22 years of marriage, the under-representation of asian women in the body & sex positivity movement and SO much more.  It’s an epis...

#20: LAID - Steph D

It’s safe to say this is a NSFW podcast! Grab a set of headphones and buckle up. This week I’m joined by Steph D, a commercial lawyer and sex-positive blogger known as The Wicked Jade.  Steph blogs about sex, lingerie and kink; and how she gets her lady-boner on. During the episode we cover how mothers are sexual beings (duh), ‘volume’ dating after 22 years of marriage, the under-representation of asian women in the body & sex positivity movement and SO much more.  It’s an episode filled w...

#19: SON - Tom Malina-Derben

What’s it like having an ambitious parent? My SON, Tom (4/10 by the way) shares his perspective on ambition and following in the footsteps of parents. Excuse the background noise- we caught Tom in a quick break at work!

#18: REAL - Jamie Beaglehole

The REALities of adoption and fatherhood aren’t often spoken about. My guest, Jamie Beaglehole is a father of two sibling boys, fiance to Tom (his partner of 18 years) and blogger on his blog, Daddy & Dad. Jamie candidly shares the realities of adopting siblings, the adoption journey and why “gay” dads need no introduction.    Read the full show notes over on our website >>

#17: SPEAK - Danusia Malina-Derben

SPEAK UP and add your voice to the podcast. Yes, that’s right I want to hear from YOU! Tell us your opinions, experience and whatever else you fancy sharing over on our Speakpipe (*fancy voicemail)   Head over to the SFF Speakpipe to answer my question: What surprised you most about fatherhood?   SPEAKPIPE >> https://www.speakpipe.com/Schoolforfatherspodcast  

#16: BOOST - Daryl Woodhouse

Sometimes we all need a BOOST. Daryl Woodhouse, 26-time award-winning adviser, speaker and trainer joins me to explore how we can BOOST our mental fitness. We talk sleep apnea, finding that elusive work-life balance and maximising business results.    Download Daryl’s Perfect Week Planner >>> Daryl’s interview with Theron Fleury >>>

#15: ENOUGH - Marisa Peer

I AM ENOUGH < make that your mantra. I'm sharing an ep I originally recorded for the School for Mothers podcast because everyone needs feel they are enough - just as they are. Marisa Peer is a world-renowned speaker, RTT trainer and *full* of wisdom so grab yourself a notepad + pen, you won’t want to miss a thing. Learn Marisa’s strategies to address the ‘race to be enough’ and how society teaches us to feel unworthy. This is one life-changing episode filled with inspiration, just like Mar...

#14: STRONG – Josh Connolly

What does it mean to be a STRONG man in 2020? My guest Josh Connolly, is certain that it definitely involves showing a range of emotions. Josh is a mental health advocate breaking down the barriers to men discussing their emotions. We explore being a sensitive man, the impact of alcohol and staying present.  School for Mothers Website ●  School For Mothers Private Facebook Group ● School for Mothers Instagram

#13: DEATH – Neil Hinder

Why is DEATH a word that we shy away from? In this ep I'm joined by Founder of The Discerning Dad Caring Community, Neil Hinder. His charity supports men dealing with bereavement and raises awareness of the stigma. In this frank and honest conversation we discuss the death of Neil’s son Saul, how this has impacted his life and relationships and “reasons for getting out of bed”. 

#12 ROLE, Part 2 - Danusia Malina-Derben

Gender ROLEs - and our expectations - impact relationships in many ways. In this solo ep I share a personal story in order to begin unpicking gender roles of parenting/work/staying-at-home.

#11: SOUL - Dan Flanagan

Let’s put the SOUL back in being a dad. My guest this week, Dan Flanagan, is all about connecting dads - whether that’s with his mag, agency, day-time raves or meet-ups. We discuss everything from co-parenting, the corporate world and some hilarious (and pretty shocking) anecdotes. 

#10: Happy Holidays from School for Fathers

#9: TEAM - Rodd Stockwell

How can we go from couple to TEAM? In this week’s ep I’m joined by Rodd Stockwell, physician and husband to previous expert guest Alexandra Stockwell. We discuss TEAMwork at home and in relationships and the work we must ultimately do alone. Rodd shares his wisdom on habits, adaptability and the “relationship bank accounts”.

#8: PASSIONATE PARTNERSHIPS - Alexandra Stockwell

How can we create PASSIONATE PARTNERSHIPS? My guest this week, Relationship and Intimacy Expert Alexandra Stockwell, is all about guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into every aspect of life. Listen in if you fancy learning more about compromise, what foreplay *really* is and so much more.  School for Mothers Website ●  School For Mothers Private Facebook Group ● School for Mothers Instagram

#7: ON FATHERS

What did your father teach you? I asked a handful of SFM Podcast listeners that very question ahead of Father’s Day 2019. Their answers were poignant, funny, heartwarming and honest - exploring the impact of fathers on their lives then and now. Thank you to our contributors:  Sine Gyrup: mother of a daughter and living in Geneva. Chloe O’Sullivan: Founder of War to Peace®, a conflict resolution methodology she devised over a decade ago and has shared with over 4,000 people globally. She...

#6: GROWTH - Ian Farrar

Bottom line GROWTH isn’t necessarily the most important thing. In this ep I’m joined by Ian Farrar, self confessed social evangelist, professional speaker and Entrepreneur. From Mercedes to Subaru, Ian’s priorities have changed since his hustling lifestyle that led to burnout. We look into what the cost of hustling really is - to our health, personal lives and beyond.  Connect with Ian on his: Website ● Instagram ● Facebook ● Twitter School for Mothers Website

#5: ROLE, Part 1 - Danusia Malina-Derben

What ROLE does the media play in how fathers are perceived? In this solo ep I explore damaging “doofus dad” stereotypes and how producers & advertisers alike need to portray a more relevant, and sexism free, portrayal of modern fathers.

#4: HIDE – Ace Ruele

What’s the impact of needing to HIDE your true self to survive? In this ep I’m joined by Ace Ruele; actor, mentor and coach. We discuss proving extreme masculinity, Ace’s time in prison and fear. Ace and I also explore the importance of showing young men different ways of relating to themselves and others; and his performances with The Chocolate Men! School for Mothers Website ●  School For Mothers Private Facebook Group ● School for Mothers Instagram

#2: WASTE - Dave Wilson

Deciding not to WASTE anymore life on booze, Dave Wilson, gave up drinking in January 2019. As Sober Dave, he swapped his boozy drinking buddies for the sober community.  Dave joins me to share the highs and lows of his road to sobriety. We talk about everything from the impact of young fatherhood, coping strategies and some of Dave’s worst drinking memories.  @SoberDave is passionate about encouraging open, honest conversations about booze, especially involving other men. Dave runs his ow...

#3: BOY - Tim Hillegonds

The road from BOY to man isn’t always smooth. In this ep, I’m joined by Tim Hillegonds, author of The Distance Between, his recently released memoir. Tim and I delve into “emotional golddiggers”, recovery of self and the impact of race in a world dominated by toxic masculinity. We also explore the cultural norms that are installed in men from an early age and the chilling consequences. Tim’s work has appeared in Salon.com, The Los Angeles Review of Books, The Rumpus, and elsewhere on the w...

#1: WHY - Danusia Malina-Derben

C-Suite expert and mother of 10, Danusia Malina-Derben, shares the WHY behind hosting a podcast exploring modern fatherhood and masculinity. With her iTunes Business chart topping podcast, the School for Mothers podcast, it was about time men got in on the conversation. Join us each Friday for unfiltered conversations with thinkers shaping what it means to “be a man”.

#INTRO - Danusia Malina-Derben

The School for Fathers Podcast explores modern fathering and the challenge that fathers face as they reposition their role in work, the family and in society. Don’t expect parenting advice or anything baby friendly in this show - the School for Fathers podcast is sure to bring unfiltered conversations on fatherhood, business, culture and way more. Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben; C-Suite Expert, Mother of 10 and host of the School for Mothers podcast.