School For Fathers Podcast

#71: SPEAK - Stuart Lawrence

SPEAKing up for what's right. My guest today is motivational Speaker and Author, Rt Hon Stuart Lawrence, he is also the younger brother of Stephen Lawrence. Stuart joined me to explore how the events of his life have meant he's had to step up and speak out - and how he's taking this work forward.  About my guest, Stuart Lawrence:  Stuart is a Motivational and Public Speaker; he's also been a teacher and graphic designer. In his book, Silence Is Not An Option, he talks about what he has l...

#70: PUSH - Ying Tan

PUSHing forward - for ourselves and our families. Entrepreneur and Author Ying Tan joins me to explore what's pushed him forward. From the incredible journey made by his parents to the UK, to his first job pushing trolleys and more.  About my guest, Ying Tan: Ying is a qualified accountant with a background in investment banking having worked for UBS, Deutsche Bank and Goldman Sachs. A successful entrepreneur, he is the founder and chief executive of Dynamo – one of the country's leading...

#69: SNAP -

A SNAPshot into fatherhood with Jeremy Schneider. Jeremy and I talk raising multiples and transitioning into new phases of parenting as Jeremy's twins prepare to go to college. We also explore the double-edged joy/pain of commuting (really!) and the impact this had on Jeremy's ability to write his book.  About my guest, Jeremy Schneider:  Jeremy has a Masters in Marriage and Family whose career spans almost 20 years of working with individuals and families focusing on parenting, relation...

#69: SNAP - Jeremy Schneider

A SNAPshot into fatherhood with Jeremy Schneider. Jeremy and I talk raising multiples and transitioning into new phases of parenting as Jeremy's twins prepare to go to college. We also explore the double-edged joy/pain of commuting (really!) and the impact this had on Jeremy's ability to write his book.  About my guest, Jeremy Schneider:  Jeremy has a Masters in Marriage and Family whose career spans almost 20 years of working with individuals and families focusing on parenting, relation...

#68: LUCK - Simon Squibb

Can you hack LUCK? I’ll be exploring all things LUCK with entrepreneur + angel investor Simon Squibb. Do you think LUCK is something that can be hacked and grown? We’ll be unpicking what LUCK means for Simon and how others may experience luck or not... About my guest, Simon Squibb:  Simon is an entrepreneur, angel investor, mentor, podcast host, founder and Chief Purpose Officer at The Purposeful Project. He left school at 15 years old and has since started 18 companies, invested in over...

#67: QUIRK - Patrick Olszowski

Learning let our QUIRKiness shine through. In today's episode, I'm joined by Patrick Olszowski for a beautifully candid episode exploring self-acceptance, healing past trauma, and fatherhood.  About my guest, Patrick Olszowski: Patrick is an activist researcher and the CEO of Outrageous Impact. His company powers organisations to rapidly grow profits & tackle injustice through tech-powered research. Their work has raised millions of pounds and changed laws. They’re often involved with bi...

#66 LIFT - Patrick Hutchinson

How can we LIFT others for the greater good? Patrick Hutchinson joins me for an exploration of an incident that many of us from 2020 that many of us will remember well. On 13th June 2020, Patrick and his friends were compelled to intervene in an incident which would subsequently change the course of their lives and garner worldwide media attention. The image of Patrick lifting and rescuing the Anti BLM protestor from serious harm went viral. We explore how this was a crossroads moment for Pa...

#65: How To Be A Feminist Dad - Jordan Shapiro

What does it take to be a Feminist Dad - and why does it matter? Author Jordan Shapiro joins me for an exploration of his upcoming book, How to Be a Feminist Dad. We question “what is manliness?”, dive into intersectionality, and consider how the world view is changing, and what’s needed for men and fathers.  - About my guest, Jordan Shapiro:  Jordan Shapiro, PhD is a globally celebrated American thought leader. He's senior fellow for the Joan Ganz Cooney Center at Sesame Workshop, and...

#64: WORLD - Tharik Hussain

Exploring Muslim heritage in the UK and around the WORLD. My guest this week is author and travel writer, Tharik Hussain. We hear about his family trip exploring European Muslim heritage and the importance of moving beyond a white-centred narrative, in the way and where we travel.  About Tharik Hussain  Tharik is an author, travel writer and journalist specialising in Muslim heritage and culture. His forthcoming book, 'Minarets in the Mountains; A Journey into Muslim Europe' (Bradt; June...

#63: BUILD - SPENCER BROWN

How to BUILD a new version of masculinity that makes sense in the modern world. My guest this week is Spencer Brown, amongst lots of things he's the author of "The Rebuilding of Tom Cooper" and "The Lockdown Diary of Tom Cooper". In this episode we explore how exactly to build a new type of masculinity plus building a life around our talents.  Spencer Brown started life as a stand-up. He cut his teeth doing sketches with the Cambridge Footlights, and since then he’s performed everywhere fr...

#63: BUILD - Spencer Brown

How to BUILD a new version of masculinity that makes sense in the modern world. My guest this week is Spencer Brown, amongst lots of things he's the author of "The Rebuilding of Tom Cooper" and "The Lockdown Diary of Tom Cooper". In this episode we explore how exactly to build a new type of masculinity plus building a life around our talents.  Spencer Brown started life as a stand-up. He cut his teeth doing sketches with the Cambridge Footlights, and since then he’s performed everywhere fr...

#62: Dismantling Diet Culture around Kids - Molly Forbes

What will it take to dismantle diet culture for our kids, and for ourselves? I'm so glad to be sharing a gloriously body-positive episode with guest Molly Forbes @mollyjforbes. January's always a stark reminder that there's so much unpicking for us to do with diet culture- considering the impact on our kids is a great place to start! With kids as young as 7 wanting to count calories and PE teachers commenting on weight gain, there's so much work to be done. Molly and I explore having convers...

#61: MIX - Hadrien Chatelet

Finding a MIX that works for you. My guest this week is Hadrien Chatelet, Creative Director of The Wern, a communications consultancy for startups, entrepreneurs, and independents. We explore the gift of dyslexia, the impact of proving yourself constantly, and how to find space for downtime when you’re a passionate workaholic and father to young children.  About Hadrien Chatelet: From literally being caught red-handed and commissioned on the spot to create street art for (Agnes-B) a fashio...

#60: NEW - Andrew Reiner

The current model of manhood is outdated - do you agree? My guest this week is Andrew Reiner; a writer, healthy masculinity researcher & educator. In his latest book “Better Boys, Better Men - The New Masculinity That Creates Greater Courage and Emotional Resiliency” he explores how modern masculinity is harming and holding back men. In this episode we explore: Trump + toxic masculinity, what grit has to do with this all and how men simply don’t have the spaces to explore their emotions *and...

#59: CHANGE - Elliott Rae

What’s next for creating diversity and equality? My guest this week is Elliott Rae, founder of music football and fatherhood, the parenting and lifestyle platform for men. We explore the role of “facilitator”, how to create safety as an ally and changing the narrative around fatherhood.    Elliott is also a Diversity & Inclusion specialist currently working on Central Government strategy. Elliott’s written on diversity issues for established platforms like The Independent, been featured ...

#58: TRUST - Kevin A. Thompson

Solid relationships need TRUST to thrive. Kevin A. Thompson, author of several books including "Friends, Partners and Lovers: What it Takes to Make Marriage Work", joins me to talk all things TRUST. We explore how to intentionally create a healthy marriage through communication and focus. And of course, how to embed trust in a marriage. 

#57: MERRY CHRISTMAS from the School for Fathers Podcast

Merry Christmas from the School for Fathers podcast! I’ve rounded up a few of my fave snippets from 2020 SFF episodes to celebrate. Wishing you and yours a wonderful Christmas! Thanks so much for joining me in 2020, what a year it’s been. See you in 2021!

#56: WRITE - Tim Taylor

How do we re-WRITE the father + daughter relationship? My guest this week is Tim Taylor, an emerging advocate to shifting the conversation around Dads raising daughters. In Tim's words: It's the one, imperative relationship that is a true, reliable emotional hack into men balancing thinking and feeling. Join us as we unpack this and more!  Head over to the full shownotes School for Fathers >  http://schoolforfathers.com/podcast/56-write-tim-taylor/

#55: Christmas Tapping - Sarah Tobin

#54: CHAIR - Simon Webster

We’re heading behind the scenes of life as an award-winning hair stylist and father. As an International Session Stylist and Creative Director of Simon Webster Hair, Brighton, Simon splits his time between the salon, session-styling for magazines, backstage at London, Milan and Paris Fashion Weeks and mentoring developing talent.  I explore with Simon what being behind the CHAIR is like, plus how we’re all the CHAIR of our own lives.  P.s. Simon’s anecdotes are well worth a listen!

#53: Christmas after Separation or Divorce - Nina Farr

How do we navigate Christmas with separation and divorce in the mix? Today’s episode with Nina Farr is all about making this season as drama-free as possible. Let’s face it, Christmas can be an intense time, adding a new family setup/grief/conflict (and whatever else) into the mix is tough. This ep will equip you with practical advice and tips to move forward positively over Christmas. Nina’s a Single Motherhood Coach, Author, and Founder of The Cluster Mothers community for women who parent...

#052: BIRTH - Flynn Talbot

Do you remember the BIRTH of your children? My guest, Flynn Talbot, is a Couples Sex, Relationship and Birth Coach.  He assisted his wife Lacey in free-birthing both of their children and continues daily to deepen his understanding of how to support both women and men on their journeys into full power living. We explore:  Free Birth How men can be involved in Mothercentric birthing experience Working with fear Learning to trust And more…  Listen to my conversation with George Floyd...

#52: BIRTH - Flynn Talbot

Do you remember the BIRTH of your children? My guest, Flynn Talbot, is a Couples Sex, Relationship and Birth Coach.  He assisted his wife Lacey in free-birthing both of their children and continues daily to deepen his understanding of how to support both women and men on their journeys into full power living. We explore:  Free Birth How men can be involved in Mothercentric birthing experience Working with fear Learning to trust And more…  Listen to my conversation with George Floyd...

#51: RACE - Selwyn Jones, George Floyd's Uncle

The events of 2020 have shown that the fight against racism and the struggle for equality are far from over. My guest today George Floyd’s uncle, Selwyn Jones, has a unique perspective on this topic. We explore how his life has changed since 25th May 2020 and how Selwyn and his family continue to grieve and move forward. Selwyn also shares his perspective on what’s next and the three ways we should all be working to create an anti-racist world.     Read the full show notes over on our we...

#50: SHARE - STEPHEN SHARER

Youtube Creator SHAREs how he spreads positivity with his family-friendly content. I'm joined by Stephen Sharer, a Youtube Creator with over 8 million YouTube. We explore the importance of making sure our children are enjoying fun and safe content that's adding value to their lives. Stephen also shares some behind-the-scenes of life as Youtuber and how his whole family get involved! JOIN US LIVE ON SUNDAY 8th November at 4pm UK time for HOW TO HAPPILY CHANGE CAREERS https://www.facebook...

#49: TECH - Jordan Shapiro

“For at least one hundred years, since the beginning of television, people have been trying to prove that screen-time is bad and they have not been able to find any sort of toxic impact”. My guest this week is author and academic, Jordan Shapiro. His book "The New Childhood: Raising Kids to Thrive in a Connected World" offers a down to earth, and positive perspective on the narrative around children and technology - and that’s exactly what we’re getting into. We explore how to make digital-t...

#48: LINK - Martin Insley

What's the LINK between getting moving and feeling good? For technology leader and extreme runner, Martin Insley, being active is a non-negotiable - and an act of self-care. We explore the different relationships men and women have with leisure, self care and time management and more.

#47: COCK - Kristopher Lovestone

Do you know what you want, sexually, and are you able to ask for it? My guest this week is Kristopher Lovestone, relationship counsellor, sex educator and author of Conscious Cock. This ep delves into the world of sexuality for men - with some interesting results! We explore: Improving relationship with our own sexuality and our partners’ Rejection as redirection  How to pinpoint what we want, and ask for it Kristopher’s book is included in this month’s School for Mothers giveaway - wh...

#46: LEARN - David Willans

#45: DEEP - Daron K. Roberts

How DEEP are you willing to go? Former NFL coach and author, Daron K Roberts joins me for an episode where we explore: keeping ourselves accountable, embracing self-forgiveness, and allowing time to be alone with yourself. A true all rounder, Daron is also the Founding director of the Center for Sports Leadership & Innovation (CSLi) at the University of Texas where his passion for sport and business meet. Read the full show notes over on our website >> http://schoolforfathers.com/podcast/45-...

#44: YEAR - Ruari Fairbairns

One Year No Beer founder, Ruari Fairbairns, joins me for an episode all about his journey from boozy City Boy to CEO of OYNB a global alcohol prevention program. We explore the numbing power of alcohol, the clarity that sobriety brings, and all the many benefits of living a booze-free life. Read the full show notes over on our website >>  http://schoolforfathers.com/podcast/44-year-ruari-fairbairns/

#43 MUSE - Tom Briggs

How do you connect with your MUSE with young kids and life carrying on all around you? For Tom Briggs it meant using his day-to-day life with his young family as the inspiration behind his award-winning blog, Diary of the Dad. For 10 years Tom’s been documenting the highs and lows of SAH parenting. We get into how much to share online, consent with kids and their own online profile and much more! Read the full show notes over on our website >>> http://schoolforfathers.com/podcast/43-muse-...

#42: WHOLE - Eldra Jackson III

Being WHOLE can mean accepting the light and dark sides of ourselves. TED Talker and Co-Exec Director of Inside Circle, Eldra Jackson III joins me for a conversation unpacking toxic masculinity from inside the prison system as an life-sentence inmate to his work with Inside Circle. We talk power + control, gang life, remorse (or lack of) and more. Eldra’s perspective on life and his humility is truly refreshing. I’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode - as always, you can email me on ...

#41: SHARE - Rambaut Fairley

How to SHARE parental leave is a hot topic for any expecting parents. For Rambaut Fairley, Commercial Director at Bourne Leisure, taking 6 months out to care for his twins was “the best time of his career”. In this ep we explore: The realities of making parental leave work Shattering “default presumptions” How organisations can encourage take-up

#40: STIFF - Giles Wheeler

My guest this week is Giles Wheeler, Brand Consultant and Stiffy Club founder. I explore, with Giles, the journey that took him from branding to selling condoms online (!). We talk peer pressure, making bold business moves and much more in this episode.

#39: GAME - Mark Robson

Does it take skill or luck to win the GAME? Mark Robson, gaming industry veteran, joins me to explore showing vulnerability, poker and negotiating.  Read the full show notes over on our website >> http://schoolforfathers.com/podcast/39-game-mark-robson/

#38: NOW - Brad Burton

So things haven’t quite gone to plan, what NOW? My guest this week is *all* about brushing yourself off and getting back up. Motivational Business Speaker, entrepreneur, and author; Brad Burton joins me for an episode all about taking responsibility for our actions, being “found out” and making sh*t happen. Read the full show notes over on our website >>  http://schoolforfathers.com/podcast/38-now-brad-burton/

#37: RELATIONSHIPS

What does it take to navigate a relationship and parenting? In this compilation episode my guests share their experiences and wisdom. Fancy listening to the full episode? Click the links below >> PAUL JOHNSON MICHAEL RAY TIM HILLEGONDS RODD STOCKWELL JAMIE BEAGLEHOLE IAN DINWIDDY BRYAN SEELY JAMES MILLAR

#36: WORK LIFE BALANCE

Looking for that elusive work-life balance? I’m sharing the wisdom from a selection of my guests on what work-life balance looks like for them (if it exists at all). Click the links below to enjoy the full episodes:   IAN DINWIDDY DAN FLANAGAN IAN FARRAR DARYL WOODHOUSE RODD STOCKWELL CARL READER BRYAN SEELY JAMES MILLAR   SchoolForFathers.com 

#35: Sleep Training for Parents - Stephanie Modell

Not getting enough space because the kids just will not go to sleep? This ep might be just what you need as I’m joined by Sleep Specialist, Stephanie Modell. Stephanie shares her tips for getting the right routine in place to make sure sleep is a given.  

#34: FATHER'S DAY

What does fatherhood mean to you? In celebration of Father’s Day, I’ve gathered up nuggets of wisdom that SFF guests have shared on what it means to be a father and more.    In running order:    TIM HILLEGONDS DAN FLANAGAN DAVE WILSON BRYAN SEELY RODD STOCKWELL DAN KNOWLTON TIM BENTINCK JAMIE BEAGLEHOLE IAN FARRAR MICHAEL RAY ACE RUELE IAN DINWIDDY NEIL HINDER JAMES MILLAR PAUL JOHNSON TIM WORLOCK JOSH CONNOLLY CLAY GORDON

#33: CHOC - Clay Gordon

“Never let anyone tell you that what you like is bad or wrong”. I’m joined by Clay Gordon, chocolate expert extraordinaire for a whistle-stop tour around the world of chocolate. We talk business, privilege and the UK’s best chocolate (in Clay’s opinion). I ask Clay: what exactly is The Chocolate Life? Read the full show notes over on our website >> http://schoolforfathers.com/podcast/33-choc-clay-gordon/

#32: HEAL - Milagros Phillips

"We all have a place in dismantling racism". Long-term listeners will remember this episode from July 2019 over on the School for Mothers Podcast. I was joined by Milagros Phillips, a race HEALer on a mission to fight racism through education. Milagros shares how there is no time for inaction and while not everyone is born to be an activist, everyone has a role to play in dismantling racism. It was an honour to speak with her then and it’s an honour to share her work on the SFF podcast.

#31: ACT - Tim Bentinck

ACTions speak louder than words. In this ep I’m joined by Tim Bentinck MBE. Whilst best known for his 38 year long role as David Archer in Radio 4’s The Archers - Tim’s a true multi-hyphenate. In this witty episode we get into being an Earl (yes- really), fatherhood, famous friends and so much more.  Read the full show notes over on our website >> http://schoolforfathers.com/podcast/31-act-tim-bentinck/

#30: HACK - Bryan Seely

Hacking is all about going to unseen places - and it's a rather fitting title for this episode in many ways. I ’m joined by world-famous hacker, Bryan Seely. In his most open and personal interview yet, we delve into more than computers and data. Bryan shares openly about his battle with addiction, his route to fatherhood and committing to showing up as his best self. Read the full show notes over on our website >> http://schoolforfathers.com/podcast/30-hack-bryan-seely/

#29: SOLE - Michael Ray

Do SOLE fathers have it harder? I’m joined by Michael Ray, Public Speaker, Blogger, Writer - who’s all about calling time on outdated gender stereotypes holding fathers back. We explore life as a solo parent, moving on from being Jack-the-Lad and empowering daughters.   Read the full show notes over on our website >> http://schoolforfathers.com/podcast/29-sole-michael-ray/   

#28: KNIT - Tim Worlock

“You can’t angry KNIT”. My guest this week is PT and family man, Tim Worlock. In this frankly adorable episode we talk tight-knit families, coming out and being a “mummy’s boy”. Tim also shares how to keep our mental health in tip-top condition.  Read the full show notes over on our website >>http://schoolforfathers.com/podcast/28-knit-tim-worlock/

#27: BAR - Paul Johnson

Where was the BAR set? In this episode I'm joined by Paul Johnson,  a career bartender who has worked at private clubs, the Plaza Hotel, and currently works at the Pierre Hotel. We get into role-models, bad dates, why certain drinks match certain occasions and so much more.  Read the full shownotes over on our website >>> http://schoolforfathers.com/podcast/27-bar-paul-johnson/

#26: COVID-19 and Working Parents - Rebekah Bostan

Can we predict the long-term impact of COVID-19 on working parents’ careers? In this ep I’m joined by Rebekah Bostan, Data Operations Manager and flexible work advocate. We explore the need for a personal contingency plan - where homeschooling is NOT the top of the list. We also get right into how to have difficult conversations when it comes to managing work/life balance in a partnership.  If you’re wondering how to manage the upcoming months this episode will help get your priorities in or...

#25: SIT - James Millar

“By definition, you cannot babysit your own children” we couldn’t agree more, James! I’m joined by James Millar; journalist, editor of WorkingDads.co.uk, podcaster and pundit. We explore: where are we really at with co-parenting? And what’s next? Read the full show notes over on our website >> http://schoolforfathers.com/podcast/25-sit-james-millar/