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Queer Relationships, Queer Joy

115 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 11 hours ago - ★★★★★ - 19 ratings

We often hear so much about the struggles of the LGBTQ+ community. But on this show, we talk about all of the awesomeness within queer relationships! We're here to de-center the cis, hetero, monogamous relationship escalator- and find out what's working.

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Dating with Mixed Experience Levels in Non-Monogamy

April 26, 2024 12:00 - 51 minutes - 93.4 MB

Are you navigating non-monogamy as a newbie, feeling intimidated by those with more experience who have read all the books or had lots of partners? Or maybe you're the one with the experience, rolling your eyes at the fresh faces? We’re exploring the nuances of different experience levels in the context of non-monogamy because experience doesn't guarantee a great partner or ethical behavior, just as being new doesn't always lead to disaster. You’ll hear— (12:38) The nuances of being exper...

Finding Glimmers of Joy

April 05, 2024 12:00 - 36 minutes - 65.9 MB

How do we engage with the world around us and continue some form of activism or social justice while also finding moments of joy? We’re exploring this question to bring some optimism and mindfulness when it feels like the world is fire.  You’ll hear (5:56) Finding joy in challenging times (8:37) Balancing activism with moments of joy and hope. (13:56) Finding hope and inspiration in small moments, or glimmers  (19:43) Oxytocin and sex (25:23) Meaning, joy, and overstimulation in moder...

Differentiation in Relationships

March 26, 2024 12:00 - 35 minutes - 64.1 MB

Differentiation of self is like learning how to be your own person while still being part of a group, or a relationship. We’re unpacking this fancy psychological term by Bowen and applying it to dating to help you be connected with your own emotions while also being present for others.  You’ll hear— (15:19) What “differentiation of self” is and why Melisa thinks it’s a fun term  (18:38) Differentiation in the context of relationships (25:12) How to practice self-awareness in this proces...

Managing Change and Keeping Ourselves Regulated

March 08, 2024 13:00 - 38 minutes - 70.9 MB

How do we stay calm and adaptable in the face of life's ups and downs, especially in our relationships? We’ve talked before about regulating your nervous system, but after you’ve taken those first steps, let’s shift the conversation to building flexibility and adaptability. You’ll hear— (12:46) Finding reliability and stability during times of unexpected change (15:31) How to ground yourself to feel a sense of consistency (21:29) Creating relationship rituals (26:56) What to do if you ...

From Married Friends to Roommates & Lovers

February 23, 2024 13:00 - 44 minutes - 81.9 MB

Raise your hand if you’ve ever had your queer awakening to your friend moonwalking in the office, the same friend that also officiated your wedding to another man. Anyone? Well luckily, we found that exact couple, Caroline and Amy Bouvin, and they’re here to tell you their unconventional but very queer love story.   You’ll hear– (02:54) How Amy and Caroline became friends (06:44) Making out with girls while drunk (the signs were there) (10:37) Sobriety and moving in toge...

Rethinking Valentine’s Day & Leading With Love

February 09, 2024 13:00 - 37 minutes - 69.5 MB

It’s easy to dismiss Valentine's Day as this commericialized holiday full of red roses, hallmark cards, and cupid’s arrows. The real meaning of love gets buried under all the marketing hype. That's why we're all about redefining the holiday, making it more about genuine love and connection, as we like to put it, leading with love as we move through our relationships. You’ll hear (12:56) What it looks like to lead with love in daily life (18:23) When it’s not possible to lead with love ...

Regulating Your Nervous System

January 26, 2024 13:00 - 41 minutes - 75.4 MB

Everyone feels stressed and anxious from time to time, but high stress leaves an impact on your body, particularly your nervous system. Join us for an overview on understanding how to calm our nervous system and why its important for your relationship health.  You’ll hear (15:24) The nuances of anxiety, dysregulation, and sensations in the body (18:59) Coregulating in relationships (21:23) Strategies to regulate stress and strengthen the vagus nerve (36:41) Queer joys   Chat wi...

New Relationship Energy

January 12, 2024 13:00 - 46 minutes - 84.4 MB

Ah, New Relationship Energy (NRE)–that magical, butterflies-in-your-stomach phase at the start of a new relationship, where everything feels exciting and your new person seems absolutely perfect.  Maybe you're in this phase–love it or hate it–or maybe you're on the outside watching someone else experience this rush. Whichever side you’re on, we’re discussing how to navigate NRE.   You’ll hear (10:23) How we experience NRE and how it impacts others (18:22) NRE in non-monogamo...

What to Leave Behind & Bring Into the New Year

January 05, 2024 13:00 - 39 minutes - 71.8 MB

We love the energy of the New Year, especially as a time for embracing new intentions and releasing old patterns. Today, we’re sharing how we can slow down to evaluate relationships, trust our intuition over societal expectations, and use the winter season for reflection and leaving behind what no longer serves us.   You’ll hear– (11:19) Slowing down & the process of transformation. (13:16) Rest, setting intentions, and personal growth during winter. (21:26) Goal-setting...

End of Year Reflections & Relationship Check Ins

December 15, 2023 13:00 - 38 minutes - 71 MB

In this end-of-year episode, we're taking a moment to celebrate the past two years of this podcast. It's hard to believe, but we're already at the midpoint of our current season and heading into a well-deserved mid-season break. As we wrap up another year, we're excited to dive into applying these end-of-year reflections to the realm of relationships. You’ll hear about Nervous system regulation in dating and relationships Connection and communication challenges in the digital ag...

When to Seek Relationship Counseling

December 08, 2023 13:00 - 44 minutes - 82.2 MB

Let’s talk about relationship counseling! We've received questions from listeners about when it's time to think about couples counseling and how to make the most out of it. So, we’re exploring the nuances of couples therapy, its challenges, and its impact on addressing relationship issues. You’ll hear Why you might seek support during transitional periods How to get the most out of couples counseling When to decide it may be time to seek out relationship therapy Be sure to...

Performative Equity in Non-Monogamous Relationships

December 01, 2023 13:00 - 47 minutes - 86.9 MB

In relationships where multiple partners are involved, we may make gestures to promote fairness and balance. But, is true fairness achievable when certain hierarchies naturally exist in non-monogamous dynamics? We’re discussing how to navigate these inherent imbalances. You’ll hear How layers of hierarchies subtly exist within polyamorous relationships The importance of intentionality over guilt or obligation in approaching these conversations How to show self-compassion for...

Slowing Down and Paying Attention

November 24, 2023 13:00 - 42 minutes - 77.5 MB

Slowing down in your relationships gives you the opportunity to make really intentional choices, with who you're connecting, how you're connecting, and what choices you're making especially during a time of pressure. In this episode, we’re exploring the dynamics of pacing and intentionality. You’ll hear The importance of prioritizing self-care during this holiday season How pacing new relationship energy can lead to a more sustainable connection Why attention and curiosity c...

Relationship Boredom and Spicing Up Connections

November 17, 2023 13:00 - 44 minutes - 82.3 MB

Are you feeling bored and wanting more from the relationship(s) you’re in? The thrill of the chase fades, routines set in, and suddenly, things feel a bit predictable? In this episode, you’ll learn ways to add that zest back into your relationships – and trust us, it's not just about spicing things up in the bedroom. You’ll hear Why relationships don't always have to follow a traditional "escalator" trajectory The role overstimulation in modern society plays in relationship bore...

Renegotiating Agreements in Non-monogamous Relationships

November 03, 2023 12:00 - 55 minutes - 101 MB

From defining relationship dynamics to navigating multiple connections, agreements ensure that everyone's values and desires are respected and honored. We’re joined again by Heather Simpson to talk about polyamory, agreements, and communication. You’ll hear about The importance of check-ins and agreements in non-monogamous relationships Having open and explicit conversations about sexual health & sexual preferences Why some relationships could benefit from a written agreemen...

Staying For The Wrong Reasons: Long-term Relationship Dynamics

October 27, 2023 12:00 - 47 minutes - 87.5 MB

Relationships should be about developing connections, not just seeking stability. In this episode, we’re exploring the idea of being in a long-term relationship for healthy reasons, rather than relying on the other person for stability or other unfruitful reasons. You’ll learn How to know when you’re at the place where you’re ready to leave Why it’s important to create explicit agreements and consent in your relationship Where to find the balance between being selfish and se...

Polyamory, Platonic Relationships & Queer Fashion

October 20, 2023 12:00 - 45 minutes - 83.8 MB

Join us for a laid back conversation with fellow queer therapist, Heather Simpson as we delve into the world of queer polyamory, platonic relationships, and modern dating. You’ll hear about Fashion as a tool for queer self-expression and dopamine dressing Decentering romantic relationships and couples privilege Love is blind and polyamory in dating shows If you’d like to learn more about Heather and her practice, you can visit www.mindfulinquirytherapy.com. And if you...

The Green Flags of Healthy Relationships

October 13, 2023 12:00 - 34 minutes - 63.6 MB

Looking for signs of a healthy and thriving relationship? We’re diving into recognizing green flags in your connections–from calmness and effective communication to conflict management and healthy boundaries.   Green flags are something that could be very personal to you, and we’re curious to know what you identify as a healthy sign, so write to us at [email protected] or hit us up on Instagram @Queer_Relationships_Queer_Joy

Repair and Accountability: Navigating Cancel Culture and Rebuilding Relationships

October 06, 2023 12:00 - 51 minutes - 94 MB

When you recognize that you’ve been harmed by a partner or caused harm, and you would like to move forward and reconnect, what does that actually look like? In this episode, we’re discussing repair and accountability, in the context of cancel culture and how what is going on in the bigger social sphere affects our relationships and us individually. You’ll hear How cancel culture lacks genuine intention in repair Why it’s important to practice self-compassion in order to take accountabil...

Overcoming Weaponized Therapy Jargon in Relationships

September 29, 2023 12:00 - 49 minutes - 89.7 MB

Maybe you’ve heard terms such as "narcissist", "gaslighting", and "toxic" in your own relationship, or when scrolling social media. These terms are overused and even weaponized leading to a breakdown in communication which is why we’re exploring the misuse of therapy jargon, differentiating between casual use and actual diagnostic criteria. You’ll hear How certain terms, such as "narcissist," are often weaponized in relationships, leading to unproductive conflicts The nuances of...

Navigating Past Trauma to Build Healthier Queer Relationships

September 22, 2023 12:00 - 47 minutes - 86.4 MB

Being a queer person in today’s world is traumatic–shaping us and our relationships in complex ways. We discuss how to address these traumas and build stronger relationships with Dr. Jennifer Towns, a trauma therapist and author of a book on trauma and healing.  You’ll hear One tool to keep growth alive in long-term relationships How not addressing shame and guilt in relationships can hinder the process of repair Why it’s important to move beyond shared trauma as the sole ba...

Deepening and Sustaining Queer Relationships: Season 4 Preview

September 15, 2023 12:00 - 38 minutes - 70.7 MB

So you’ve learned how to meet people and start relationships, but like, now what? In this Season 4 kickoff, you’ll get a sneak peak at our focus this season of deepening and maintaining your relationships.  You’ll hear How Keely has found themself in a relationship anarchy model Two theories on why it’s difficult to sustain queer relationships over time And, the lifelong dream that Keely recently fulfilled If you want to read ahead for our interview with an author that wri...

Community Compersion: The Power of Shared Joy At Pride

July 07, 2023 16:00 - 41 minutes - 76.6 MB

Are you planning on attending a pride event this year? In this episode, we’re diving into how to navigate pride differently this year and what community compersion looks like.   We’re sharing why communication with your partner(s) is important in preparation for pride, how to set expectations for your pride experience, and three ways you can be a better ally.   Pride events are crucial for celebrating diverse identities and love and we know this episode will prepare you to be p...

Season 3 Finale + Bye From Cardinal

May 26, 2023 14:00 - 27 minutes - 25.7 MB

We’re wrapping up season 3! Join Keely and Melisa as they recap what has happened so far this year and what’s happening next. Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Desires Worksheet: bit.ly/3MKiTFX Our website: connectivetherapycollective.com/queer-relationships-queer-joy FB & IG: @queer_relationships_queer_joy

A Guide To Throuplehood: Finding Your Match

May 19, 2023 19:58 - 39 minutes - 37.3 MB

What are the different intentions behind “finding a third”? What are some tips for unicorns looking to date? How can you create a throuple that is balanced and meets everyone’s needs? Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. NEW Intimate Desires Worksheet: https://bit.ly/3MKiTFX Our website: connectivetherapycollective.com/queer-relationships-queer-joy FB & IG: @queer_relations...

Relationship Spotlight (double feature)! Liana and Elizabeth

May 12, 2023 14:08 - 52 minutes - 50.1 MB

Why would someone live alone while in a deeply romantic relationship (or several romantic relationships)? What are some tips for voicing insecurities? What is a brain thought?! Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. This week’s guests are Liana Griebsch and Elizabeth Cunningham. Liana Griebsch instagram @lianagriebsch Elizabeth Cunningham instagram @ELZCunningham Love deep...

Relationship Spotlight! Tara and Maddie

May 05, 2023 14:00 - 57 minutes - 54.4 MB

What’s working well in Tara and Maddie’s relationship? How have they worked through previous trauma to be able to connect better? How do they address mistakes? Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Find Tara on IG @taralsharp @alanafaithchenfoundation @queerpsych_original  Our website: connectivetherapycollective.com/queer-relationships-queer-joy FB & IG: @queer_relation...

When People Talk: How To Deal With Gossip

April 28, 2023 14:08 - 42 minutes - 39.5 MB

What do you do when someone thinks you’re something you’re not? How can we cope with being unable to control other’s view of us? Could that be impacting your relationships? Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Leave us a voicemail: 503-660-4409 Put QRQJ into action with our Relationship Check-In worksheet. Get it here: bit.ly/QRQJworksheet Our website: connectivetherapycoll...

Coming Into Queerness: Dating Advice For Newbies

April 21, 2023 14:15 - 44 minutes - 40.8 MB

What is it like to come out later in life? How can we support newly emerging queer folks? How can we all approach a new partner with a beginner’s mind? Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Put QRQJ into action with our Relationship Check-In worksheet. Get it here: bit.ly/QRQJworksheet Shop at As You Like It here: bit.ly/asyoulikeitshop Our website: connectivetherapycollecti...

Accepting Imperfections In Relationships

April 14, 2023 14:06 - 41 minutes - 38.4 MB

What’s the difference between a red flag and a misplaced expectation? Have you ever put someone on a pedestal and then later found out they weren't who you thought they were? What if you don’t want to meet your heroes? Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Relationdhips, Queer Joy; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Put QRQJ into action with our Relationship Check-In worksheet. Get it here: bit.ly/QRQJworksheet Shop at As Yo...

Crushing On Your Straight Friend (and other tales of queer longing)

April 07, 2023 17:06 - 43 minutes - 40.1 MB

What does queer longing mean? Where does it show up in our relationships? How can you heal from that deep, forbidden yearning? Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Trans Erotic Embodiments Workshop: bit.ly/TransEroticEmbodiments Lucie Fielding episode: connectivetherapycollective.com/post/62-being-ethically-curious-about-trans-sex  Our website: connectivetherapycollective.c...

Non-Monogamous Relationship Systems: Navigating Your Role

March 31, 2023 13:22 - 52 minutes - 48.7 MB

Nothing exists in a vacuum, we are all a part of many systems. What relationship systems do you exist in? Monogamous? Non-monogamous? How do we act with responsibility towards both ourselves and others in our system? Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Monthly mental health resource newsletter: connectivetherapycollective.com/sign-up-for-our-newsletter Shop at As You Like It...

Revisiting Relationship Anarchy

March 24, 2023 14:05 - 38 minutes - 35.5 MB

In this episode we talk about destabilizing the relationship hierarchy, finding pleasure in unexpected places, and creating community. This is a re-release of our interview with Tuck Malloy on epsidoe 5, season 1 of QRQJ.  Tuck's IG: @intra_sensual Queer Relationships, Queer Joy FB & IG: @queer_relationships_queer_joy

Balancing Safety And Pleasure (with Doug Braun-Harvey)

March 10, 2023 16:01 - 48 minutes - 44.4 MB

What do you do after breaking a relationship agreement? How can we look at sex addiction through a new lens? What’s the difference between a “healthy sexuality” and “sexual health”? This week our guest, Doug Braun-Harvey, answers these questions and more about what’s working in queer relationships. Leave us a message! 509-660-4409 The Harvey Institute Queer Relationships, Queer Joy FB & IG: @queer_relationships_queer_joy

A Beginner's Guide to Sex Therapy

March 03, 2023 15:00 - 45 minutes - 41.8 MB

What is sex therapy really about? What do you talk about in sex therapy? How do you prepare for sex therapy? Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see the joy in queer relationships. Tell us your queer joy! 503-660-4409 Our website: connectivetherapycollective.com/queer-relationships-queer-joy FB & IG: @queer_relationships_queer_joy

Where Size and Sexuality Meet: Celebrating Body Diversity (with Dani Adriana)

February 24, 2023 17:16 - 55 minutes - 51.5 MB

What happens when queerness and body size intersect? Can joy and pleasure be found at this intersection? In what ways can we create space for a diversity of bodies and pleasures? Join us as we interview guest Dani Adriana and explore these questions and more. Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Leave us a message! 503-660-4409 Find Dani Adriana here linktr.ee/iamdaniadriana ...

Beyond Trust: Building Integrity In Your Relationships

February 17, 2023 15:00 - 44 minutes - 41 MB

How do you start off new relationships from a place of integrity? What about if you’re nonmonogamous? How do you integrate integrity into existing relationships? What is the difference between nondisclosure and dishonestly? Is people pleasing manipulative? Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Leave us a voice message at 503-660-4409 Our website: connectivetherapycollective.co...

Finding Sexual Intimacy Amidst Chronic Pain

February 10, 2023 15:00 - 47 minutes - 43.2 MB

What are the ways that you can experience pleasure even if you are in pain? How can you explore with yourself within the limitations of your body? What is the connection between disability and sex? Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Put QRQJ into action with our Relationship Check-In worksheet. Get it here: bit.ly/QRQJworksheet Shop at As You Like It here: bit.ly/asyoulikeit...

Being Ethically Curious About Trans Sex (with Lucie Fielding)

February 03, 2023 16:27 - 53 minutes - 51.2 MB

What is trans sex? How can we access our body parts in a new way? What is muffing? This week we interview sex educator, Author, and therapist Lucie Fielding. Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Trans Sex Workshop with Lucie Fielding: qrcc.me/roln5h5ivd0s Lucie’s Website: luciefielding.com Leave us a message! 503-660-4409 Our website: connectivetherapycollective.com/quee...

Breaking (And Rebuilding) The Relationship Escalator

January 27, 2023 15:00 - 52 minutes - 47.9 MB

Dating leads to marriage leads to kids. That’s how relationships move forward, right? UGH. How do we make progress in relationships outside of what we've been taught? Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Relationship Smorgasbord: https://www.connectivetherapycollective.com/post/61-breaking-and-rebuilding-the-relationship-escalator Our website: connectivetherapycollective.com/...

Trauma, Healing, and Relationships: Understanding the Connection

January 20, 2023 15:00 - 47 minutes - 43.6 MB

Keely and Melisa explore the complexities of how unhealed trauma from past relationships show up in present relationships. Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in monogamous, polyamorous, and single queer relationships. Leave us a voicemail at 503-660-4409 Put QRQJ into action with our Relationship Check-In worksheet. Get it here: bit.ly/QRQJworksheet Our website: connectivetherapycollective.com/q...

Embracing Your Gray Areas: Queering Sex and Intimacy

January 17, 2023 00:07 - 49 minutes - 47.2 MB

There are a LOT of variations and gray areas when you’re having queer sex. Pleasure, pain, gender, STI’s, vocabulary, bodies, oh my! In this episode of QRQJ, Keely and Melisa clear out shame and discuss the in-between. Text me <3 503-660-4409 Browse Toys at As You Like It: bit.ly/asyoulikeitshop Our website: connectivetherapycollective.com/queer-relationships-queer-joy FB & IG: @queer_relationships_queer_joy

The Big Queer Sex Episode

January 06, 2023 15:00 - 46 minutes - 44.2 MB

What are accelerators and brakes? How do you deal with differences in desire types and responses? What even is sex?!?   Hear it all on this episode of Queer Relationships, Queer Joy; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships.   Foundations of Sex Therapy Workshop: connectivetherapycollective.com/workshops    Shop at As You Like It here: bit.ly/asyoulikeitshop   FB & IG: @queer_relationships_queer_joy

Refreshing Relationship Intentions for the New Year

December 30, 2022 15:05 - 43 minutes - 41.8 MB

Keely and Melisa reflect on their relationships in 2022. Other topics include: breaking up with people during the holidays, where the podcast is going, and how relationships are like cats. Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships.   Free relationship check in worksheet: bit.ly/QRQJworksheet   Shop at As You Like It here: bit.ly/asyoulikeitshop   Connective Therapy Collective web...

Challenges and Opportunities of Neurodiversity in Love and Sex

December 16, 2022 15:00 - 40 minutes - 38.4 MB

How does being neurodivergent impact relationships and sexuality? What are some common yucks and yums? How can everybody foster understanding? Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists (and guest Taylor Kravitz) explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Free relationship check in worksheet bit.ly/QRQJworksheet Shop at As You Like It here: bit.ly/asyoulikeitshop Connective Therapy Collective website: www.connectivetherapy...

Compulsive Love: Recognizing and Overcoming Love Addiction

December 09, 2022 15:00 - 50 minutes - 48.2 MB

When does love addiction become pathological? What's the recipe for addressing love addiction? What's the difference between love addiction and codependency? Who are you when it is just you? Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Put QRQJ into action with our free 5 question worksheet. Get it here: bit.ly/QRQJworksheet Shop at As You Like It here: bit.ly/asyoulikeitshop Connec...

Relationship Spotlight! Creating Truly Custom Agreements

December 02, 2022 15:03 - 42 minutes - 39.3 MB

How do you navigate a changing relationship? What if you want it to remain a flexible situation? Michelle and Paul invite us into the special relationship they have made. Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Put QRQJ into action with our free 5 question worksheet. Get it here: bit.ly/QRQJworksheet Shop at As You Like It here: bit.ly/asyoulikeitshop Connective Therapy Collect...

Savoring Each Other: Thoughts on the Club Q Tragedy

November 26, 2022 03:17 - 36 minutes - 34.4 MB

Grief comes in all forms. This episode is specifically about the Club Q shooting on 11/20/22, but also about introverted and extroverted grieving, navigating queer collective trauma, witnessing your feelings, and finding the joy. Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. CTC Group Therapy: www.connectivetherapycollective.com/group-therapy  Website: www.connectivetherapycollectiv...

Loneliness In Relationships; Exploring Anxious Attachment

November 18, 2022 15:16 - 35 minutes - 34.1 MB

What do you do when you're home alone, or you're jealous that your partner is spending time away? What do you do if you're the one pulling away? We'll explore in the moment actions as well as deep reflections about attachment styles, and finding stability in close relationships. Hear it all on this episode QRQJ: where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. The Attachment Project www.attachmentproject.com Second Adolescense Podcast www...

Healthy Conflict Field Guide

November 11, 2022 15:00 - 47 minutes - 45.1 MB

How do you tell the difference between healthy conflict and toxic conflict? How do you navigate healthy conflict with your partners? When do you have that conversation? Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Power and Control Wheel: https://www.connectivetherapycollective.com/post/ep-51-healthy-conflict-field-guide  FB & IG: @queer_relationships_queer_joy