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Personal Upgrade

146 episodes - English - Latest episode: 9 months ago - ★★★★★ - 36 ratings

The different Approach to Self Discovery and Enhanced Abilities

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The Secret Superpower of Integrity; What happens when your thoughts, word and deeds finally align.

November 01, 2020 07:54 - 8 minutes - 12 MB

We know we should act with integrity right? But how can we make it really happen? And when you do it right, did you know there are many unexpected benefits? Lets dive in.

The Charmed Life, once become successful this ingredient is the difference between further growth or stagnation

October 25, 2020 12:04 - 8 minutes - 12.3 MB

Growing is essential, and once you have grown to achieve what you set out to do, now what? This episode explores the concept that stops the Successful individual from fulfilling their potential, what is it? Listen in :)  

Capacity Upgrade - How Martial Arts will do more for your Confidence than years of Self Help Books

October 17, 2020 09:00 - 8 minutes - 12 MB

Avoiding violence is noble right? Well - if you have no ability to use violence then you simply are avoiding a beating.  However if you have the ability and choose not to use it? THAT is power that incorporates the physical and mental, which translates to all areas of your life, stay with me to see what I mean...

The Holiday Update (Short)

October 11, 2020 09:47 - 21 minutes - 29.7 MB

Make sure in the craziness of the year you take time to get away at some point, you cant afford NOT to. Last day of my Holidays today and it has been amazing! Reset = Recharge First break in 2 years from uploading, recommencing as of next weekend Stay tuned  

NLP Values Change Session - Upgraded feat. the Mirror Concept

September 19, 2020 01:36 - 15 minutes - 21.2 MB

This technology allows the individual to see clearly where they are, how they got there and more importantly - HOW they can change everything to move towards a new direction. If you want to stop eating junk food IF you want to stop being judgmental or critical If you want more confidence or Even if you want to fulfill your potential - then this is the tool that reaches down and creates deep change.  As always Personal Upgrade promises to Upgrade this beyond, so for any NLP Practitioners,...

The way of the Door, and how it will unlock you potential Outer and Inner game.

September 13, 2020 07:17 - 10 minutes - 13.8 MB

"There are things known and there and things unknown, and in between are the doors" Jim Morrison Questions drive us and while the answers have utility, they are not the ultimate.  This episode will explore this unusual dichotomy and teach you: - To excel at any given situation  - To understand yourself and of course - How to Upgrade yourself. Lets begin!

Self Discipline Upgraded - the Synergistic effect

August 29, 2020 04:14 - 11 minutes - 16 MB

If you could will yourself to do what you wanted to do, life would be amazing right? Possibly - the fact is many people do this and either fail or are miserable. This doesn't make sense, until you realize discipline while being an incredible tool is not enough on its own...  

Emergency Tool - Use in case of Panic, Apathy or Unresourcefulness

August 22, 2020 02:44 - 8 minutes - 11.4 MB

If you want to spend a significant portion of your day 'meditating' to become centered: 1) This will consume a significant amount of your valuable 'spare' time and  2) Results are NOT guaranteed What would be better, is a tool you can use in the moment, that could help you to calm down the craziness, become charismatic and just enjoy your life...

The FEAR Epiphany

August 16, 2020 08:36 - 9 minutes - 12.6 MB

Once you realize, I mean understand at a deep level that you make up your fears, you are on the way to conquering them. 'But what if it's a dog going to attack me?' or something equally urgent? This and other questions are answers within. Remember: Defeat your fear and start living.

Archetypes: the blueprint to overcome and make a comeback

August 09, 2020 13:56 - 9 minutes - 13.3 MB

You are not alone whatever you are going through: - Perhaps you are in a Rut? - Maybe you are being attacked in someway by others? - Or did you make a mess of things? Four words: YOU ARE NOT ALONE, not only has it been done before but there are documented patterns of such behaviour, learning these will assist you in overcoming.  Understanding this is just the first step...

Congratulations on your Graduation!

August 02, 2020 10:10 - 7 minutes - 10.7 MB

We are around one hundred episodes deep so far.   In the process we have undertaken the equivalent of full courses in:   Memory, Hypnosis, Habits, Persuasion, Verbal Self Defence, Parenting, Alpha Systems, Social Dynamics, Emotional Alchemy, Psychological Warfare, Character and Leadership, Resilience, Stress Management, NLP, CBT and so much more...   So what are you going to do now?   A) Enjoy the intellectual buzz? or b) Use all the learnings to change absolutely everything to Bea...

The thing you are looking for...

July 26, 2020 12:02 - 5 minutes - 7.9 MB

The famous problem, do you want to:   1) Over come challenges and obstacles or 2) Attract the good things in your life   - What if you could do both automatically? Listen on...

Yes OR No - The consequences of your choices

July 19, 2020 05:18 - 8 minutes - 11.1 MB

Life is a series of choices.  Choose whats right, Chose what makes you happy, Choose what is important. However are you aware of the implications of each choice? Each time you say yes to something you are in effect saying no to many more things. Let's go deeper in this episode...  

Deal with Toxic People and Friendships

July 12, 2020 08:58 - 5 minutes - 7.76 MB

We are directly influenced by our environment, and impacted by those closest to us, as such we need to make sure we make the right choice when it comes to dealing with difficult people.  Sometimes its good to cut them out, sometimes however this will hurt you in the long run.  Let's deal with this dichotomy head on.

Time Compounding - Delayed Cause and Effect

July 05, 2020 09:52 - 6 minutes - 9.6 MB

Cause and effect in science is straight forward but in terms of human behaviour, it's not. This is not necessarily a negative though, through understanding and adapting to this, we are able to make the changes to achieve more than you even thought was possible! From here you can achieve any goal, behaviour or outcome.  

The True Power of Gratitude - feat one man's journey in spiritual awakening.

June 28, 2020 01:53 - 23 minutes - 31.7 MB

We have all heard about gratitude as a tool of personal transformation, however this episode explores the practice at a deeper level leading to amazing results. Then we have our guest on: Dane Dormio is a martial artist and mindbody mastery mentor.  Since his first spiritual awakening in 2004 he has dedicated his life to understanding the secrets of flow states and optimal human performance.  

The Key to Charisma

June 21, 2020 13:55 - 8 minutes - 11.6 MB

The unique approach to being the most charismatic person in the room. Learn, enjoy, apply and watch the benefits. SUPER EASY.

How to Develop a Quick Wit for Social Situations, Comebacks and More

June 14, 2020 11:47 - 8 minutes - 11.6 MB

Either you have a quick wit or you don't? Fine - if you don't its ok -Lets develop one by exploring: - The Underlying Psychology - The Framework - Techniques and More That will transform you from the person who has a delayed response to saying what you need to at the right time. 

The Two Step Cycle that will help you to achieve your dream, even if difficulties arise.

June 07, 2020 07:16 - 6 minutes - 9.49 MB

From the System, we will examine a small part of your Attitude. Specifically the 2x R's that allow you to: - Aggressively Pursue your Goal and Importantly: - Overcome difficulties as they arise. These two aspects are synergistic, and the results are amazing, stay tuned.  

Get Set on Fire, Inspiration and Increase your Knowledge - through Reading about those who came before us.

May 31, 2020 09:54 - 6 minutes - 9.53 MB

In this episode: From the studying of those who came before us we can then learn so much which will in turn enhance our lives. - What to Read - How to Read it - What the benefits are and  - How the process allows you to reflect ton your life and guide your future.

The Psychology of Dreaming - How you can change your life while asleep and dreaming.

May 24, 2020 09:41 - 11 minutes - 15.4 MB

Dreams and Dreaming. Everyone does it, few of us understand them, until now.  This episode will examine sleep and dreams, then delve into dreams and how they affect the mind. Creating change in your dreams can create change in the real world. Tune in and see how!  

Introversion OR Extraversion - Capitalise on your Strength, Overcome the Weakness and Achieve Balance

May 17, 2020 02:21 - 8 minutes - 12 MB

Jung's introversion and extroversion have both defined and limited people since it's inception. It is incredibly useful as a starting point, but it must not limit you. Learn about the true (Upgraded) powers of the two positions, then establish how you can achieve balance between the two. Even if you have learnt about these concepts prior, I hope you enjoy this episode as it introduces unique concepts that help you to Upgrade once and for all.

Break Free From your Past. How to change things, when you have tried everything else.

May 10, 2020 12:46 - 16 minutes - 23.3 MB

This episode explores the missed step of cleaning out the closet, THEN adding upgrades, so you can fulfil your potential. Stop wasting your time with self help, only to find out that you are in the same place. We will look at the final blocks that hold you back so you can make the Upgrade tools work for you. Skip this and you build a house on a crap foundation...

Upgrade your Communication Skills with this Novel Approach PLUS Bonus Coach Episode

May 03, 2020 11:06 - 33 minutes - 45.8 MB

Have you been told to sell by: Enhance the positives / Hide the negatives? Or more advanced: Sell emotions. What if there was something that is MUCH greater... Stay tuned. We also have our coach on to work through mindset: SassBoss CEO Sara Weiss  

Reclaim Your Masculinity, Society creates conditions, but YOU create the outcome.

April 26, 2020 11:06 - 7 minutes - 10.2 MB

Did you know society is programming you, how you should think, act and respond? Realising this is the first step, understanding how to break free from the programming is the purpose of this episode, stay tuned and keep an open mind.  

Master Conflict - Fear vs Fire

April 19, 2020 09:26 - 8 minutes - 12.3 MB

Avoiding conflict leads to ultimately more pain.  YET if facing it was that easy, we would all do it. So what is the solution? In this episode we examine Conflict and Fear, how to not only overcome it but thrive and transform at the level of your identity, let's begin...    

The Power Mindset, Overcome Social Pressure feat. Inner Martial Arts

April 11, 2020 03:47 - 42 minutes - 57.9 MB

This episode will cover a whole lot. First let's understand what social pressure is about, then upgrade your mindset to deal with anything; after which you will communicate to yourself AND others what's happening in your reality.  Then we Bring on Sameer Sharma to talk about his journey in Martial Arts and Personal Growth. www.saemeersharma.com      

Master the Supercomputer that is your Mind, Complete with Coach Case Study

April 04, 2020 14:57 - 23 minutes - 32.1 MB

Your mind is truely incredible. With the power beyond the greatest supercomputer, you can use it to solve OR create OR compound Problems. What will you do with yours? Our Coach Dawn Chantel is on to talk about her story and how she changed everything with some simple reprogramming. Dawn Chantel http://www.dawnchantel.com https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDVCXp3Njzmp_Wo39kRaHtw

The Physiology of Psychology

March 29, 2020 10:37 - 9 minutes - 13.6 MB

How do we retain control of our psychology when physiologically we are out of control? The Nervous, Endocrine and Multifactorial responses aimed at maintaining homeostasis, often work against us - then people describe maladaptive responses including: Panic Attacks Chronic Anxiety  and Poor Mental Health This episode will help you to overcome. Then you can utilise it to level up and make your Personal Upgrade. This is a hard topic for sufferers, feel free to reach out as required... mi...

Destroy the ROOT cause of your problems.

March 21, 2020 13:03 - 10 minutes - 14.3 MB

When you get that not so gentle reminder, that sick feeling that something is not right, it is the cognitive dissonance that it reminding 'you are off course.' What you do with it changes everything. Will you fight for homeostasis, and overcome or compromise yourself. This episode will guide you to the correct path home.

Carbon copies - avoid the trap and a new approach which changes lives.

March 15, 2020 03:38 - 20 minutes - 28.4 MB

Who do you follow? More importantly why do you follow them? Final step - how do you follow them? The answer to this defines the outcome you will get and is the reason why we often get exactly what we don't want. Don't be a poser Don't copy others In this episode we learn how we can learn from others and how iron sharpens iron. With the help of our guest Jessica Barclay and her unique approach. www.jessbarclay.com www.pageantlandpodcast.com @jessicaabarclay Insta & Twitter www.facebook.c...

Altitude = The Secret to Read Minds and Communicate without Talking & Guest presentation on Becoming an Author

March 08, 2020 02:20 - 28 minutes - 39.3 MB

In this episode:  How to read Minds Unabomber psychology Hack  Unpacking Altitude from the Alpha Dude System and  Marc and his daughter come on to talk about becoming an Author http://ritortofamilybooks.com/  

Aptitude, Circle of Influence and Knowledge

March 01, 2020 02:11 - 12 minutes - 17.4 MB

In this episode we will cover: - Knowledge Breadth vs Depth - Open your Horizons - Overcome Stress - Increase your impact  and our Coach Aubrey Johnson is on to discuss his story and perspective. check him out roadtorediscovery.podbean.com

Double Feature: Grow where you are planted AND Free yourself from Self Slavery

February 23, 2020 05:12 - 25 minutes - 35.4 MB

If you're not growing your dying right? Yet so many of us feel the need to conquer the world before conquering ourselves. This episode will focus on the fix:  1) Start Growing  and 2) Grow the Right way. Let's begin. Our coaches are back! This week we welcome speaker, writer and coach Lori Beard. Lori Beard Coaching

Red Pill VS Blue Pill. What it really means, the Journey to Truth.

February 16, 2020 06:00 - 11 minutes - 15.9 MB

Neo : What are you trying to tell me? That I can dodge bullets? ... You take the red pill - you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes ... (from the Matrix.) There is much discussion about red and blue pills, and between pseudo self help, pop culture, viagra, left and right wing politics, becoming 'woke' and waking up it has basically lost its true meaning.  When you take the red pill, it is the step of pursuing truth. The truth is not always pleasing to hear, so w...

Persuade, Motivate and Influence

February 10, 2020 13:32 - 12 minutes - 17.5 MB

In this episode we will unpack the incredible tool that has an extensive evidence base which supports its use. Used for self change, on others, family and social dynamics. Once you understand what Influence really is, you can then motivate or persuade others in the most ethical and effective manner.

Master your Memory - Long term Recall in the short term.

February 02, 2020 02:07 - 13 minutes - 19 MB

You must have heard or read something about memory and hacks to improve your memory. After seeing someone memorise large lists effortlessly you may try their techniques only to find that it does require more effort than you thought.  There are two options: be flooded by information on how to master your memory or spend a few minutes listening to the show, then the same time practicing and you will be infinitely better off.  

Social Anxiety - THE Solution feat. Move from Failure to Success

January 26, 2020 03:17 - 27 minutes - 38.2 MB

Imagine if you could overcome social anxiety? You don't suffer this affliction? Think again! It's a spectrum and we all experience it at times, which severely limits us in multiple areas of our lives. Overcoming it it Easy! The solution is discussed in the podcast or better yet the book:   (Free on Kindle unlimited or .99c if regular)   Once you overcome this you are on the road to success, this is something our guest Chris Hunter knows a lot a bout and is on to talk about his journey....

Quantum Psychology - Newtons 3 Laws of (E)Motion

January 19, 2020 06:49 - 8 minutes - 11 MB

Welcome to the science of Psychology. In this episode we examine Newtons 3 laws of motion, as it applies to emotions. Simple, short and profound. Enjoy.

What to do when... INTERRUPTIONS!

January 12, 2020 03:55 - 9 minutes - 13 MB

So you know verbal self defence - GREAT! You even know physical self defence - AWESOME! Now you are talking and your abruptly interrupted now what? Following on from the Verbal Self Defence episode we examine: - How to deal with interruptions - How to deal with Hecklers and of course the psychological and philosophical underpinnings of both approaches. Short and Succinct.

Verbal and Social Self Defence featuring The Leadership Phalanx

January 05, 2020 11:44 - 29 minutes - 40.5 MB

Welcome 2020!   With a new year comes new opportunities, and unfortunately the potential for others to abuse your good nature, this episode will safeguard you from this endemic problem.   Remember: If you don't stand up for yourself, you are telling others and yourself that you are worth-less. So let's stand up, in a dignified, savy and effective manner.   Our coach will be Earl Breon - Speaker, Coach, and Mentor, in this edition he will share his amazing back story from humble beginnings to ...

My Martial Arts Journey (as it runs parallel to) My Personal Development Journey

December 31, 2019 10:27 - 33 minutes - 45.4 MB

Aka ZERO to HERO I hope you had an amazing Christmas and wish you all the very best for 2020!   This episode is in response to some of the listeners I interact with about martial arts, it unpacks my martial arts journey, which runs in parallel to my personal development journey.   You may hear people say, “If I can do it – then anyone can…”   In my case I really mean it, coming from the worst athletic background ever, to where I am today   Rather than impress you - I want to impress...

The Philosophy to Change Everything - (side effects include integrity and alignment). Feat Find your Courage.

December 21, 2019 09:57 - 23 minutes - 32.7 MB

This episode will go through my personal philosophy in life, which will be a slight change from the focus on psychology. I hope this is useful as you prepare for the new year. Once you aligned and live with integrity, life is actually fulfilling, and the struggle starts to fade... Joining us is our Guest Sharon, to discuss Courage. Sharon Koenig, CPLC Fearless Pursuits, LLC "Be fearless in building the business AND life that lights you up!" The Podcast: https://bit.ly/36d1o9T www.Facebook...

The Recipe for Success VS The Recipe for Happiness

December 15, 2019 09:09 - 26 minutes - 36.8 MB

Success = Happy? Sometimes - yet why are there numerous examples of happy people who aren't successful (e.g. the happy homeless man) vs the successful person who isn't happy (e.g. suicidal celebrities.) The fact is that these two paths may influence each other - however the strategy for each is unique to itself.  In this episode we will explore success, happiness and how to pursue them effectively so you can have your cake and eat it too. Joining us is Janet Mohapi-Bank - Coach, Speaker,...

Deal with Anxiety

December 08, 2019 03:46 - 24 minutes - 33.6 MB

Real Anxiety is... crippling. Everything is harder than it should be, logic wont overcome it and any emotional appeals to address it are often negative or even worse - destructive. What would it be like if you could take anxiety head on and handle it properly? This episode explores the concept, and even if you have minor stress in your life, it can be utilised in these settings too. Now, what if your childhood was ripped away from you. You wake to your mum being beaten to a pulp right bef...

Master Course - Habits and Routines Upgrade for 2020

December 01, 2019 11:38 - 10 minutes - 14.8 MB

Ask any high achiever what their secret is, statistically most include some variation of habits and routines.  By doing this right you can be sure that it will have a massive impact on all areas of your life: - Get your Blackbelt - Become a Lawyer - Earn a million dollars Each thing you want to achieve is largely predicated on it. BTW - Don't forget to flip it and kill the bad habits too!  

Understand Everything - Master Anything

November 24, 2019 02:52 - 13 minutes - 18.2 MB

10,000 hours to Mastery? What if you wasted your time mastering a skill you hate? What if you wasted your time exploring - yet mastered nothing? This episode is the antidote.  There are so much amazing possibilities in the world, and all you have to do is to learn the blueprint to take advantage of it all. One of the Four A's of the Alpha Dude System is examined in this episode, get the cake and eat it. Experience limitless, and enjoy the limitless satisfaction of mastery too.  

SHOUT your message so others will listen. Share your voice.

November 17, 2019 08:00 - 11 minutes - 15.8 MB

Do you have a message that you need to share with others? What changes could others expect from your message? Importantly, HOW can you get your message out. This episode will show you step by step how to achieve  all of the above. Make sure you know your stuff, you are ready for the journey and you have the right tools. Then the adventure begins.

The WRONG question - The RIGHT answer

November 10, 2019 09:41 - 9 minutes - 12.7 MB

What if you could not fail? Hmmm sound so full of potential, but questions like this will harm you instead of help if you haven't got the right order. Put the Horse before the Cart, tune in to see what I mean... 

Social Experiments BONUS Masterclass

November 03, 2019 03:40 - 36 minutes - 50.7 MB

Are you bored? Do you lack social skills? Do you want to level up wherever you are? Let's do all of the above - have fun, learn, and grown - all while developing a great story to tell with it afterwards! Guaranteed to shake up your life, enter if you dare. Afterwards we have Wassim back to present a Masterclass on something you shouldn't experiment with - your wife and family. Wassim Life Mastery Call Booking - https://appoint.ly/t/wassimdabboussi Free E-Book - Man Decoded Secrets Bl...

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