No One Dies from Divorce
164 episodes - English - Latest episode: 11 months ago - ★★★★★ - 40 ratingsI’m Jill Coil, the author of the book and docuseries “No One Dies from Divorce.” But with the mental, emotional, financial, physical, and spiritual toll that divorce takes on people, the scope is so big that I decided to create a podcast, so this can be an ongoing conversation.Divorce sucks. I know because I’m a divorce attorney and have divorced hundreds of clients at this point. I also went through a separation myself with my husband. Though our journey ultimately did not end in divorce, it gave me personal insight and empathy into the pain and turmoil of my clients’ lives. So if I can use my experience to save you from some of the heartache, confusion, stress, anxiety, or unknowing, our sole mission for this podcast will have been met. Remember, I am an attorney, but I am not your attorney. I’m inviting other divorce attorneys, relationship experts, mental health professionals, fitness and health coaches, spiritual leaders, and financial advisors, as well as plenty of people just like you, who are going through or have been through divorce, to talk about their journeys.You’re not alone. You can do this. Let me help you to not only survive through, but also thrive after your divorce. We can use our trials as a pivot to become a better version of ourselves. Let’s get through this together.
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Take The High Road in Divorce
May 22, 2023 14:00 - 43 minutes - 29.7 MBDo you feel stressed out, bewildered, emotionally compromised, or overwhelmed with navigating your divorce? Today we are talking with author Andy Heller about how to deal with high-conflict divorces and co-parent effectively. Through his own divorce and life experience, Andy has outlined a pathway for how to manage emotional, logistical, and financial issues that occur during and after a divorce. His goal is to help people choose compassion over fear, heal hearts, prepare for a future, and p...
The Ugly Truth About Co-Parenting with Samantha Boss
May 15, 2023 10:00 - 52 minutes - 36 MBSamantha Boss spent years in and out of court, fighting to modify a poorly crafted divorce decree. This experience inspired Samantha to begin coaching others through the divorce process in order to help more parents avoid the pitfalls of parenting plans. Join us on this episode as we talk about the need for a solid, perfectly tailored parenting plan that covers your family's specific needs, or as Samantha calls it, ”the playbook for life with your kids.”
Dear Parents: Notes from a Child of Divorce
May 08, 2023 10:00 - 41 minutes - 28.4 MBDivorce is hard on everyone. Between Mediation, decrees, lawyer fees, court dates, parent-time, and more, the divorce process can create a lot of chaos. Often the children of divorce get lost in the conflict, and their voices are not heard. Today we are talking with Grace Casper, a young woman who was a child of divorce. Grace is sharing her perspective as her parents divorced while she was still a child. In her book that's coming out in June, Grace shares what she wishes her parents knew du...
How to Move Forward after Loss, Divorce, & Grief
May 01, 2023 16:00 - 43 minutes - 30.2 MBShelly Anderson is passionate about life's journey and the stages we grow through. At times that includes loss, divorce, and death. Join us as we discuss how grief isn't just a single stage, and that trauma becomes a part of who we are. Time does not heal all wounds; time allows the body to absorb the wounds and create space so we can mourn the life we thought we’d live, and press forward in the life we have.
The Cost of Blended Families with Naja Hall
April 24, 2023 06:00 - 45 minutes - 31.2 MBIf you're divorced and dating or dating a divorcee, then this episode is for you! Listen in as Naja Hall tells it like it is. Blended families are difficult under the best of circumstances, but marrying someone with a High-Conflict divorce comes at a cost. It will test you mentally, emotionally, and financially, and test your relationship with your new spouse as well as any children involved. All blended families come with chaos and friction, so take Naja's advice and make sure your expectat...
Should I stay or Should I go? with Kate Anthony
April 17, 2023 15:00 - 42 minutes - 29.2 MBRegardless of where you're at in your marriage or divorce process, there are a few key things to consider before choosing to stay or go. Divorce coach Kate Anthony talks about the importance of doing the emotional work which can guide you to finding joy and/or exit with grace. She says, Happiness is an inside job and it begins with making the choice. You deserve to be happy!
Why Not Ask? Getting what you want and need after divorce.
April 10, 2023 10:00 - 48 minutes - 33.5 MBThe question we should all be asking ourselves Why not ask is relevant in all facets of life. From high-conflict divorces to negotiations in the workplace, we can all benefit from the art of having Crucial Conversations that apply to all our relationships. Join us as we talk with Negotiation expert, Christine McKay, about how Negotiation isn't about winning, it's a conversation about relationships and you can't “win” a relationship.
Divorce and the Unspoken Childhood Trauma with Tara Seals
April 03, 2023 10:00 - 45 minutes - 31.4 MBMake your passion your purpose and it becomes your profession, something Tara Seals, The Bossy Educator has definitely accomplished. As a child of divorce, an educator, and a bonus mom herself, Tara knows all about what divorce means for children. In this episode, Jill and Tara dive into the unspoken trauma and confusion that impacts children when parents divorce. Gather your village, get clear on communication, and put your child's needs first. They see it, feel it, and need you as the ad...
Let Him See That Child with Attorney Boyd
March 27, 2023 10:00 - 48 minutes - 33.2 MBFor Jill and Joanna, family law was a calling. A call to represent the underdog and even the playing field for fathers. Both women have set the bar high in establishing firms that advocate for equal rights, parent time, and a voice is doing what's best for the child. Too often children are weaponized and used as leverage for money and control. Listen in as they share their journey through law and proclaim the battle cry, “Let him see that child.”
A Path to Peaceful Resolution with Jan & Jillian
March 20, 2023 10:00 - 41 minutes - 28.7 MBNavigating the tumultuous waters of divorce can be exhausting and at times infuriating. However, many couples are able to come to peaceful resolutions having little to no conflict with the help of experts Jan and Jillian. Divorce doesn't have to ruin your life, but it will redefine it. In some cases, it may open old wounds and push you to find emotional freedom and hope through the trials. With the help of skilled professionals, experienced mediators, and lawyers, you can divorce differentl...
Murdaugh Murders: Scandal of a century with Kara North
March 13, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 47.7 MBYou are in for a wild ride as we journey down the Rabbit hole of corruption with the Murdaugh family murders. At the center of it all is underage drinking, poor parenting, white privilege, and a prominent family wrapped in a web of deceit and corruption. On the surface what appeared to be a reckless boating accident turned into the scandal of a century with bodies piling up. Where there's smoke, there's fire. Listen in as we dissect all the recent accusations, settlements, and pending ver...
Radical Stepmom
March 06, 2023 11:00 - 43 minutes - 30.3 MBSo you fell in love with a partner who has kids! Everything seems pleasant at first, but quickly you become villainized as the “wicked stepmother.” You feel overwhelmed, unseen, blamed, and like you're always walking on eggshells. If this sounds like your journey as a step parent, join us as Radical Stepmom Christina shares her personal and professional experience of how to put your marriage first and navigate the tumultuous terrain of being a stepmom.
Unbounded: How to reclaim your life with Mary Crafts
February 27, 2023 16:00 - 42 minutes - 29 MBToday we are talking with Mary Crafts about her hard won life lessons in her newly published book, Unbounded: From Sorrow to Summitt. At 50 Mary found herself, overworked, overweight, and in a toxic loveless marriage. Something had to give. Join us as she shares her wisdom on how to honor yourself, reclaim your life, and let go of fear.
Women Breaking Barriers with Kathleen Martinez
February 20, 2023 11:00 - 46 minutes - 31.7 MBIn this episode we uncover the outdated beliefs and practices within the legal system and how being a strong, independent woman comes with unique challenges. Listen in as Jill and Kathleen share their journey to success by overcoming the odds and obstacles of discrimination, shaming, and self doubt within the legal field. Join them as they champion each one another, other women and break barriers.
Grace and Growth After Divorce
February 13, 2023 11:00 - 46 minutes - 31.9 MBMake no mistake, divorce is a tragedy, but you can bounce back and live out your dreams even after a disaster strikes. Today we are talking with Candace Rivera who has weathered many storms including divorce. In this episode you will hear sound advice and encouragement on how to address the trauma, be intentional with your time and GIVE YOURSELF GRACE! Rock bottom has a basement, find it, then take the stairs. A new life awaits!
Doing Divorce Differently
February 06, 2023 11:00 - 43 minutes - 30 MBSadly our society and the legal system encourages that we stack the evidence against our spouse to justify why we deserve a divorce. Often this approach only makes things worse and children become the collateral damage. There is another way. Today we are talking with Kate Strong about what it really means to do divorce differently. It starts with Asking Yourself and doing the work of inner Self-Care. Listen as she shares how being open and vulnerable is a strength that helps you heal. “You h...
Doing Divorce Differently with Kate Strong
February 06, 2023 11:00 - 43 minutes - 30 MBSadly our society and the legal system encourages that we stack the evidence against our spouse to justify why we deserve a divorce. Often this approach only makes things worse and children become the collateral damage. There is another way. Today we are talking with Kate Strong about what it really means to do divorce differently. It starts with Asking Yourself and doing the work of inner Self-Care. Listen as she shares how being open and vulnerable is a strength that helps you heal. “You h...
Old School Dating Standards with New School Style ft. Katy Clark
January 30, 2023 11:00 - 58 minutes - 40.3 MBDating after divorce can be daunting and exhausting. “The grass isn't always greener. It still has to be watered and most of it is fake. 80% of the dating pool is junk, they haven't done the work to be a good date,” says Katy Clark. Join us as we dive into how to reinvent yourself post divorce, start your Glow-Up and go from frumpy to fabulous with the 3 Fs.
When We Know Better, We Do Better with Cindy Stibbard
January 23, 2023 07:00 - 42 minutes - 29.6 MBOften when we are young we are blinded by love and overlook the small acts of indiscretion and disrespect in a relationship. Years later after marriage, kids, and abandonment of self, we face divorce filled with anger, fear and resentment. Together Jill and Cindy are on a mission to eradicate the shame and stigma around divorce. Listen in as certified divorce coach Cindy Stibbard unpacks her journey through dating, marriage and divorce and how looking back she can identify all the things s...
Time to clean house: How Real Estate can affect your Divorce
January 16, 2023 11:00 - 38 minutes - 26.6 MBDivorces are messy, especially when it's time to clean house and sell! Today we are talking to divorce real estate expert, Joe Gordon on why you want a certified specialist vs. a standard agent when selling a house during a divorce. Having experienced his own divorce and the complexities of selling, Joe understands the delicate process it is to unravel a life and home. Listen in as he shares tips to finding a good agent that will help you move forward with your new life.
Breakup to Breakthrough with Leanne Kanzler
January 09, 2023 11:00 - 36 minutes - 25.4 MBWith a New year, new you under way, this might include new relationships. But first, before we can start something new, we need to break up with the old and let go of what is holding us back. Join me and Leanne Kanzler as we talk about how to Breakup to Breakthrough and live your best life! It's time to break free from what isn't working.
New Year, New Me 2023
January 02, 2023 11:00 - 19 minutes - 13.6 MBIt's that time again! Join us as we present this year's calendar challenge designed with you and life in mind. We all have roadblocks, setbacks, and heartbreak, but we also have dreams, goals, and ambitions. This month focus on one daily challenge to create a better you. And remember, courage begins with one step!
Kim and Kanye: Ice cold
December 19, 2022 11:00 - 46 minutes - 32.2 MBWhat should have been a clear cut divorce turned into a 3 year long battle with wild accusations, late night social media rants, and massive public scrutiny. Join us as we talk all about Kim and Kanye, his radical behavior, her ice cold shut outs and how even an iron clad prenup won't save you from a PR and legal nightmare.
Smoke and Mirrors: the Jen Shah and Momtok Scandals
December 12, 2022 11:00 - 48 minutes - 33.3 MBThere is no shortage of drama in Utah when it comes to the Wizard of Oz, Jen Shah and Momtok “swinger,” Taylor Frankie Paul. Jen Shahs is facing potentially 30 years in federal prison for fraud and Taylor is facing solitary confinement as a newly proclaimed monogamous woman. Shah struck gold by defrauding elderly people out of their retirement and now it's time to pay the piper with her sentencing just around the corner on December 15th.
Tackling Teenage Angst During Divorce with Amy Parry
December 05, 2022 11:00 - 34 minutes - 24.1 MB"How can I help the individuals going through a traumatic event like divorce,” is the question psychiatrist Amy Parry asks herself? Oftentimes teenagers get thrown to the side when parents are divorcing. Amy was drawn to teenagers who are struggling with the fallout of divorce on mental health. In her work she focuses on trying to understand what they are feeling and going through. “We can't make them behave, we need to work to understand them and help them understand themselves.” Listen in ...
Tackling Teenage Angst During Divorce with Amy Parry
December 05, 2022 11:00 - 34 minutes - 24.1 MB"How can I help the individuals going through a traumatic event like divorce,” is the question psychiatrist Amy Parry asks herself? Oftentimes teenagers get thrown to the side when parents are divorcing. Amy was drawn to teenagers who are struggling with the fallout of divorce on mental health. In her work she focuses on trying to understand what they are feeling and going through. “We can't make them behave, we need to work to understand them and help them understand themselves.” Listen in ...
Stephanie Andersen- Cultivating Gratitude
November 21, 2022 11:00 - 45 minutes - 31.4 MBWith the holiday season upon us, we often become quickly overwhelmed with to-dos. In this episode, Steph Andersen talks about the power of healing and yoga: to unit or become one with self. If the heartbreak of divorce and fractured relationships have you stressed out, take a minute to release those trapped emotions and center yourself. Finding balance can bring peace and calm into our life. Join us as we slow things down and reflect on all the reasons we have to be grateful. May we all find...
Cleaning up The Trauma of Divorce
November 14, 2022 11:00 - 49 minutes - 34.3 MBRelationships are hard and being human is complex, especially when you're going through a divorce. Today we are diving into why therapy is beneficial to individuals and families during or post separation. Divorce doesn't erase the relationships, it just changes the dynamics. We all need a safe space to unpack the emotions without shame or blame. Listen in as I talk with LMFT Ben Farmer about the challenges families face and overcome when navigating divorce.
How to go from Lonely to Loved with Dr. Morgan
November 07, 2022 11:00 - 43 minutes - 29.7 MBAs an expert on attachment theory, Dr Morgan shares with us her insights on how to attract relationships you deserve. In today's episode we discuss how the habit of putting others' needs before our own, or ignoring our internal experiences, drives us to seek distractions from dealing with ourselves. Join us as we explore how healthy romantic relationships work and how to go from lonely to loved.
How to go from Lonely to Loved with Dr. Morgan
November 07, 2022 11:00 - 43 minutes - 29.7 MBAs an expert on attachment theory, Dr Morgan shares with us her insights on how to attract relationships you deserve. In today's episode we discuss how the habit of putting others' needs before our own, or ignoring our internal experiences, drives us to seek distractions from dealing with ourselves. Join us as we explore how healthy romantic relationships work and how to go from lonely to loved.
The spooky side of divorce (Halloween edition)
October 31, 2022 10:00 - 26 minutes - 18 MBNot all divorce is high conflict. In this special Halloween edition, we uncover the seemingly dark side of divorce. We shake the bones loose and question the cost of Adultery, being a bad Spouse vs a good parent, and do moms always win? Listen in as we blast some of the spooky myths about divorce.
The spooky side of divorce (Halloween edition)
October 31, 2022 10:00 - 26 minutes - 18 MBNot all divorce is high conflict. In this special Halloween edition, we uncover the seemingly dark side of divorce. We shake the bones loose and question the cost of Adultery, being a bad Spouse vs a good parent, and do moms always win? Listen in as we blast some of the spooky myths about divorce.
Getting creative and compromising in mediation
October 24, 2022 10:00 - 40 minutes - 27.8 MBYou can't fight for your rights if you don't know your rights. Rob Jepson has dedicated his career to helping divorcees avoid heartache, pain, and financial setbacks through solution oriented mediation. We all need guidance on what is legal, within our rights, and what we really want during divorce. Join us on this episode as we talk about the goal of mediation and how it can help you minimize damage and find resolution.
Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Family with Andy Heller
October 17, 2022 10:00 - 53 minutes - 36.9 MBWhile navigating through the turmoil of his own divorce, Andy Heller read countless support books to help him through the process. He identified a crucial hole in the self-help space for men and women experiencing divorce. His book, “Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family,” is his give back with a stated goal of making the divorce process easier. In this episode we discuss all the tips to help you not only survive through divorce but thrive and along the...
Two Attorneys Talk all things Johnny Depp-Amber Heard trial. Ft. Jahan Kalantar
October 10, 2022 10:00 - 36 minutes - 25.3 MBJahan Kalantar fell in love with advocating for the little guy. During the pandemic, overnight he went from a booming practice in Syndey to zero revenue. The Government's regulation was confusing, convoluted and divisive. So he took to TikTok to help explain the law in plain English. Then he struck TikTok gold with the Depp-Heard case, or as he calls it, the trial of our generation. As a self proclaimed nerd, Jahan read up on Virginia law to give the most informed and eloquent play by play...
Preparing for One Extraordinary Marriage
October 03, 2022 10:00 - 44 minutes - 30.7 MBTony and Alisa DiLorenzo co-host one of the top marriage podcasts on Apple called, The One Extraordinary Marriage Show. From their own experience and years of helping others, they know a thing or two about what it takes to make any relationship last. It starts by understanding the six pillars of Intimacy. Tony and Alisa have written a best selling book, “The 6 Pillars of Intimacy” to guide anyone who wants a stronger, healthier relationship. If you have gone through a divorce or are goin...
Her Hips Don’t Lie: The shake down of Shakira and Gerard’s split.
September 26, 2022 10:00 - 42 minutes - 29.3 MBShakira and Gerard Pique split after 12 years together. They have two children together. There is much speculation and gossip around why they are breaking up. Join us as we go into all the juicy details of the power couples split. Shakira’s hips may not lie but her lips aren’t moving and the truth behind their break up may never come to light. And later, my guest Kelly Baldwin and I will dive into the difference of Common Law Marriage and Paternity: what it means for you and your famil...
Her Hips Don’t Lie: The shake down of Shakira and Gerard’s split.
September 26, 2022 10:00 - 42 minutes - 29.3 MBShakira and Gerard Pique split after 12 years together. They have two children together. There is much speculation and gossip around why they are breaking up. Join us as we go into all the juicy details of the power couples split. Shakira’s hips may not lie but her lips aren’t moving and the truth behind their break up may never come to light. And later, my guest Kelly Baldwin and I will dive into the difference of Common Law Marriage and Paternity: what it means for you and your famil...
Tomorrow Needs You! You are never alone: Suicide Prevention Month
September 19, 2022 10:00 - 51 minutes - 35.1 MBMichael Wise is a paralegal for MoxieLaw, a personal injury firm. He is dedicated to helping people find peace and closure through difficult times, including the struggles many of us have with mental health. Today Michael and I will be discussing the very sensitive yet crucial topic of suicide. Join us as we go over 5 things you can do to help you through your darkest moments and remember, Tomorrow Needs You! If you or a loved one are struggling with suicidal thoughts, please call 988 for he...
Tessa White: Crucial Coaching on How to Be Successful in Your Career
September 12, 2022 11:00 - 49 minutes - 33.8 MBWelcome to season 2! Tessa is the founder of The Job Doctor. A practice dedicated to building career strategies and re-engaging people in the workplace. She believes anyone and everyone can gain new skills to enter the workplace and thrive. Tessa was newly divorced and had been out of the workplace for a while. She knew she had to provide for her family which would require hard work and determination to become a valuable asset in a company. She worked her way up from an entry level posit...
Tessa White: Crucial Coaching on How to Be Successful in Your Career
September 12, 2022 11:00 - 49 minutes - 33.8 MBWelcome to season 2! Tessa is the founder of The Job Doctor. A practice dedicated to building career strategies and re-engaging people in the workplace. She believes anyone and everyone can gain new skills to enter the workplace and thrive. Tessa was newly divorced and had been out of the workplace for a while. She knew she had to provide for her family which would require hard work and determination to become a valuable asset in a company. She worked her way up from an entry level posit...
The End of Season 1!
June 27, 2022 10:00 - 3 minutes - 2.29 MBNo One Dies from Divorce concludes it's first season. Thank you everyone for the support and we will see you in the fall! Follow @jillcoil on Instagram, Tiktok, and Facebook to stay up to date.
A Better Way to Come Through Trials with Krista Andersen
June 20, 2022 10:00 - 49 minutes - 33.8 MBKrista Andersen is passionate about living fully, family, conflict engagement, using words to heal instead of harm, and creating memorable experiences. Her passion for how words are used to heal and harm led her to the field of mediation where Krista is devoted to helping clients learn how to engage in conflict in healthy ways. Knowing that conflict is a constant in our lives, Krista seeks to educate people on how what they say and write has a deep impact on their relationships and personal...
Divorcing a Narcissist
June 17, 2022 10:00 - 8 minutes - 6.05 MBThe final divorce tip this season! I'm explaining what to do when divorcing a Narcissist
From Falling Flat to Standing Tall with Megan Sanford
June 13, 2022 10:00 - 48 minutes - 33.5 MBYou sometimes have to fall flatter on your face then you ever have to be able to stand taller than you ever could. This is exactly how Megan Sanford would describe her experience of being addicted to Meth, pregnant at 19, and not knowing if she would be here tomorrow. Megan shares her most vulnerable story with the world in hopes that it will give hope and encouragement for anyone feeling they are in a hopeless situation. Megan rallied back after giving two children up for adoption, quit ...
Why Are You Getting a Divorce?
June 10, 2022 10:00 - 6 minutes - 4.53 MB"If you are in a relationship that is keeping you from being happy for whatever reason, then it is probably not best to stay in said relationship."
Family and Immigration Law Broken Down with Pooja Mehta
June 06, 2022 15:00 - 48 minutes - 33.5 MBImmigration is scary and a complicated process for those that have started, are in the middle and/or are in the final stages of the process. It can be almost paralyzing when having to deal with immigration when going through a divorce. In fact many think that they cannot divorce or leave an abusive relationship because of their immigration status. However, Pooja Mehta, an attorney out of New Jersey joins our show to dispel the myths and fears with family law and immigration. Her biggest ...
Why Would a Divorce Case Go to Trial?
June 03, 2022 10:00 - 8 minutes - 5.63 MBNot all divorces go to trial, but some do. I explain in this divorce tip episode why that would happen.
Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard - Trial broken down with Sterling Swank
May 30, 2022 10:00 - 46 minutes - 32.1 MBJohnny Depp v. Amber Heard’s Defamation trial has been heard around the world. Millions are captivated at every move, argument and evidence that has been presented regarding Johnny Depp's Defamation case against Amber Heard and her Counter Complaint for Defamation against Johnny Depp and his Lawyer. Jill Coil and Sterling Swank break down the trial all the way up to the last week of testimony. You can get all the information, opinions and gossip right here. Jill Coil has been covering th...
Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard - Trial broken down with Sterling Swank
May 30, 2022 10:00 - 46 minutes - 32.1 MBJohnny Depp v. Amber Heard’s Defamation trial has been heard around the world. Millions are captivated at every move, argument and evidence that has been presented regarding Johnny Depp's Defamation case against Amber Heard and her Counter Complaint for Defamation against Johnny Depp and his Lawyer. Jill Coil and Sterling Swank break down the trial all the way up to the last week of testimony. You can get all the information, opinions and gossip right here. Jill Coil has been covering th...