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Regaining Your Hotness After Divorce

 Life after divorce allows you to be true to who you really are. So often in marriage, we forget our own needs because we are busy taking care of our spouse and our children. Because of this, we end up losing sense of what we want and what our needs are. Divorce gives us that chance to rediscover who we are and what we want to be. Today’s guest, Leta Greene,  is all about embracing what makes us individually hot and amazing. Join us to learn how you can  break down the walls of self doubt an...

Divorce Tips: Does the Length of the Marriage or My Age Affect the Divorce?

Taken from Chapter 1 of my book, No One Dies from Divorce: How to Survive and Thrive When Your Marriage Ends.   This is a book about not only surviving divorce but also coming out on the other side stronger and more capable. The scariest part about divorce is the unknown, the questions that keep you up at night: Am I going to be okay? Are my kids going to be okay? What will my family and friends think? Am I a failure? What is wrong with me? People get divorced for a variety of reasons, but...

The Surprising Financial Benefits of Divorce

Most assume the financial ramifications of a divorce to be devastating, but with the right legal and financial counsel, divorce can offer the chance for a new financial beginning and opportunity. Today’s guest, Rick Salmeron, is a certified financial planner and knows firsthand about the financial issues that arise when getting divorced.  Keep your focus on rebuilding after a difficult process with these surprising financial benefits of divorce. Rick Salmeron is that guy who actually loves ...

The Surprising Financial Benefits of Divorce

Most assume the financial ramifications of a divorce to be devastating, but with the right legal and financial counsel, divorce can offer the chance for a new financial beginning and opportunity. Today’s guest, Rick Salmeron, is a certified financial planner and knows firsthand about the financial issues that arise when getting divorced.  Keep your focus on rebuilding after a difficult process with these surprising financial benefits of divorce. Rick Salmeron is that guy who actually loves ...

Divorce Tips: Dealing with DCFS / CPS Issues During Divorce

The mission of the state funded programs, DCFS and CPS (Division of Child and Family Services and/or Child Protective Services), is to keep children safe from violence, abuse, and neglect. If DCFS/CPS shows up at your door, you likely have a lot of questions about their process and what your rights are at each stage of the process. Tune in if you are dealing with DCFS/CPS issues during divorce, so that you know all the ways to protect your family. Download Jill Coil's  Division of Child an...

Divorce Tips: Dealing with DCFS / CPS Issues During Divorce

The mission of the state funded programs, DCFS and CPS (Division of Child and Family Services and/or Child Protective Services), is to keep children safe from violence, abuse, and neglect. If DCFS/CPS shows up at your door, you likely have a lot of questions about their process and what your rights are at each stage of the process. Tune in if you are dealing with DCFS/CPS issues during divorce, so that you know all the ways to protect your family. Download Jill Coil's  Division of Child an...

Commissioner T.R. Morgan: Tips from the Bench

TR Morgan has presided in over 10,000 hearings as a former Domestic Relations Commissioner for the Utah Courts. After years of practicing on the bench, TR joins to share his background, judicial philosophy, and best practices when your case goes to court. Tune in to learn more from a retired Commissioner!  T.R. Morgan grew up in Northern Utah playing high school basketball, winning at board games, and watching tv when he wasn’t reading. After serving an LDS mission to Brazil, he attended th...

Divorce Tips: How to Keep Your Inheritance Safe From Divorce

Can I keep my inheritance safe from divorce? The short answer is yes, however you need to ensure you’re protecting money by knowing your state’s laws.  Regardless of your state, I always advise that you avoid commingling these funds, and to consider getting a trust as an added layer of protection. If you’re the recipient of an inheritance, tune in today to learn more about your options. 

Divorce Tips: How to Keep Your Inheritance Safe From Divorce

Can I keep my inheritance safe from divorce? The short answer is yes, however you need to ensure you’re protecting money by knowing your state’s laws.  Regardless of your state, I always advise that you avoid commingling these funds, and to consider getting a trust as an added layer of protection. If you’re the recipient of an inheritance, tune in today to learn more about your options. 

JLo and Ben Affleck - Bennifer Forever?

Even though I’ve been a JLo fan since the beginning of her career, I’m not a huge fan of “Bennifer”. Today, Cameron and I are indulging in more salacious celebrity gossip and sharing why it’s not the best idea to get back with your ex. 

JLo and Ben Affleck - Bennifer Forever?

Even though I’ve been a JLo fan since the beginning of her career, I’m not a huge fan of “Bennifer”. Today, Cameron and I are indulging in more salacious celebrity gossip and sharing why it’s not the best idea to get back with your ex. 

Divorce Tips: Divorcing Without Children

Even if you consider your divorce amicable or less complicated because you do not have children, it does not hurt to consult with a family law attorney to ensure you’re protecting yourself, property, and future.  While many people may think of hiring an attorney for a “simple” divorce without children, there are other factors to consider when proceeding, such as: refinancing and removing a party from the marital home, splitting retirement accounts, and joint debt. Access your credit report, ...

Dr. Debi Silber: Post-Betrayal Syndrome

Betrayal can affect your entire life - work, health, and even your relationships. While we’ve heard it before, “time heals all wounds”, Dr. Debi Silber joins me today with proof that this is not true. It doesn’t matter if your betrayal happened decades ago, you can still experience post betrayal syndrome today. Listen in as we discuss how to heal from betrayal in your relationship and experience freedom on the other side.  Dr. Debi Silber is the founder of the PBT (Post Betrayal Transformat...

Dr. Debi Silber: Post-Betrayal Syndrome

Betrayal can affect your entire life - work, health, and even your relationships. While we’ve heard it before, “time heals all wounds”, Dr. Debi Silber joins me today with proof that this is not true. It doesn’t matter if your betrayal happened decades ago, you can still experience post betrayal syndrome today. Listen in as we discuss how to heal from betrayal in your relationship and experience freedom on the other side.  Dr. Debi Silber is the founder of the PBT (Post Betrayal Transformat...

Divorce Tips: Dealing with the Housing Market

Tune in today to learn my take on the pros and cons of the hot real estate market right now, and how to deal with that while getting divorced. 

Karen McMahon: Raising Teens and Young Adults Post Divorce

Divorce and Relationship Coach, Karen McMahon, joins me today to discuss the hardest parts of co-parenting, tips to help your kids through divorce, and how to deal with a high conflict ex. Listen in to learn how you can build a strong and lasting foundation for parenting teens and young adults. Karen McMahon is a Certified Relationship and Divorce Coach, Founder of Journey Beyond Divorce. Karen leads a team of divorce coaches in supporting men and women around the world to become calm, cle...

Divorce Tips: Why I Wrote No One Dies from Divorce

My name is Jill Coil, and I know a thing or two about divorce. I have been a divorce attorney for the past 14 years and am licensed to practice law in Texas and Utah.  I own the domestic litigation firm Coillaw and have grown it in the past 7 years to be a multimillion-dollar law firm and one of the largest family law firms in the State of Utah. I have also written the Amazon bestselling book “No One Dies from Divorce” and am the executive producer of the docuseries with the same name.  I am...

Dr. Susan Thompson: The Divorce Diet: How to Avoid Turning to Food to Cope

The stress of divorce can trigger a wide range of emotional responses, including eating disorders. Today, I’m joined by Dr. Susan Thompson, President of the Institute for Sustainable Weight Loss and the founder of the worldwide Bright Line Eating Movement, to discuss the psychology behind how and why we eat the way we do. Susan Peirce Thompson, Ph.D. is an Adjunct Associate Professor of Brain and Cognitive Sciences at the University of Rochester and an expert in the psychology of eating. S...

Divorce Tips: Emergency Orders

In this mini-episode, I’m discussing a few different types of emergency orders. What issues qualify as an emergency, and tips on how to proceed. If you are in an emergency or feeling threatened, please call the cops and seek protection. 

Michael Wise: Reconciling Religion, Fear, and Divorce

 [TRIGGER WARNING: Mentions of self harm and suicide.] If you or a loved one need support, call the 24/7 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255).  This week I’m joined by my friend and paralegal, Michael Wise, who shares his raw and real story of divorce, and how he worked through fear, guilt, and shame to reclaim his life. It may not kill you, but in the thick of it, divorce can certainly test your will to live.  Find out the tools, keys, and things you need to do to pr...

Divorce Tips: Depositions in Divorce

Summary: Today we’re talking about depositions in divorce: what is it, why is it needed, and who is a part of them? Although they tend to be pricey, depositions can be a powerful tool in the discovery process and important pieces to building a case, especially in high conflict/assets situations. Listen in to learn more about this process and to determine if it’s right for you.  The deposition is a sworn statement, taken in the office of one of the lawyers, before a court reporter who takes ...

Luke Shaw: Nick Cannon: 8 kids, 5 Moms

 I’m diving into the legal details we know about Nick Cannon’s family life, as he recently announced his current girlfriend is pregnant with his eighth child! Join me and my fellow family law attorney, Luke Shaw, as we discuss potential outcomes for Nick, and what we can learn from celebrity paternity issues.

Luke Shaw: Nick Cannon

 I’m diving into the legal details we know about Nick Cannon’s family life, as he recently announced his current girlfriend is pregnant with his eighth child! Join me and my fellow family law attorney, Luke Shaw, as we discuss potential outcomes for Nick, and what we can learn from celebrity paternity issues.

My Ex Wants to Move Out of the State, What Happens to the Kids?

Relocation cases are not easy and often involve high emotions and conflict. While it may not be unusual for one parent to want to move out of state after the divorce is finalized, it won’t be as easy as taking the kids with you if it interferes with the other parent’s court ordered custody time. Listen in as I discuss specifically what actions you can take when, and how to navigate these circumstances. Show notes: I won’t sugar coat it (and you probably know by now, anyway) but relocation ...

Divorce Tips: My Ex Wants to Move Out of the State, What Happens to the Kids?

Relocation cases are not easy and often involve high emotions and conflict. While it may not be unusual for one parent to want to move out of state after the divorce is finalized, it won’t be as easy as taking the kids with you if it interferes with the other parent’s court ordered custody time. Listen in as I discuss specifically what actions you can take when, and how to navigate these circumstances. Show notes: I won’t sugar coat it (and you probably know by now, anyway) but relocation ...

Jan & Jillian Yuhas: All Things Co-Parenting

Co-parenting isn’t always easy, but it’s extremely important that you and your ex find ways to co-parent respectfully and effectively. Today, I’m joined by sisters, mediators, and co-parenting coaches, Jan and Jillian Yuhas. Today we’re discussing tools to become a better co-parent, divorced or not, so that your child(ren) is given the best life possible.   Jan Yuhas and Jillian Yuhas, MA, MFT, CPC are Family Mediators, Co-Parenting and Children of Divorce Coaches. They guide co-parents & ch...

Jan & Jillian Yuhas: All Things Co-Parenting

Co-parenting isn’t always easy, but it’s extremely important that you and your ex find ways to co-parent respectfully and effectively. Today, I’m joined by sisters, mediators, and co-parenting coaches, Jan and Jillian Yuhas. Today we’re discussing tools to become a better co-parent, divorced or not, so that your child(ren) is given the best life possible.   Jan Yuhas and Jillian Yuhas, MA, MFT, CPC are Family Mediators, Co-Parenting and Children of Divorce Coaches. They guide co-parents & ch...

Divorce Tips: Child Custody Evaluations

A custody evaluation is an extremely important part of a divorce case involving children. Without a custody evaluation, the part of the trial involving custody could spiral into a he-said, she-said situation in which everyone—especially the children—suffer. While this may be titled differently in each state, it still serves the same purpose of providing the court with unbiased information to make the right decisions about custody and parent time. In this episode, we’ll talk more about the pu...

Lesa Koski: 5 Step Coaching Process and How to Use it in Mediation

There is no perfect way to divorce but there is a better way. Attorney Lesa Koski joins today with her 5 steps to get you to a better mindset for a successful mediation session. Tune in as we discuss the realm of possibilities on how to do divorce differently and better. After 18 years of Elder Law and Family Law, Lesa Koski brings extensive experience to the complex area of Mediation.  In truth, Lesa Koski Mediates wherever she shows up.  She is fully equipped with the communication skill...

Lesa Koski: 5 Step Coaching Process and How to Use it in Mediation

There is no perfect way to divorce but there is a better way. Attorney Lesa Koski joins today with her 5 steps to get you to a better mindset for a successful mediation session. Tune in as we discuss the realm of possibilities on how to do divorce differently and better. After 18 years of Elder Law and Family Law, Lesa Koski brings extensive experience to the complex area of Mediation.  In truth, Lesa Koski Mediates wherever she shows up.  She is fully equipped with the communication skill...

Divorce Tips: Parenting Plans: What If My Ex Isn’t Following It?

Today we’re talking about what to do if your ex is not following the parenting plan and/or denying you time. These legal road maps detail how parents plan to communicate or co parent with each other after the divorce. If you’re being denied parent time or having to deal with an ex who is not following the plan, listen in to learn what I share with my clients and steps you can take to enforce the decree.   Show notes: While these exist in all US states, we call them parenting plans  in Utah...

Nicea DeGering: Life After Divorce

“It takes two years and then you’ll be great,” is what Nicea DeGering was told after her divorce. Divorce can be horrible, but it can also be amazing. It all depends on how you set your expectations and perspective. Today’s guest, Nicea DeGering, shares her journey to self-discovery and tips on how to move forward with life after divorce.  I met my guest today when I joined her ABC4 show, Good Things Utah, last year while promoting my book, No One Dies from Divorce.  Nicea DeGering has bee...

Divorce Tips: Child Therapy

In this episode, I’m answering all your questions about child therapy: When should you put your kids in therapy? Should all kids go to therapy during parental divorce? Do you need your spouse’s permission to put your child in therapy? How should you choose a therapist? And others. I get a lot of questions from parents about therapy for their children: When it’s ok, should all kids whose parents are going through divorce go to therapy, do you need your spouse’s permission to put your kid in ...

Divorce Tips: Child Therapy

In this episode, I’m answering all your questions about child therapy: When should you put your kids in therapy? Should all kids go to therapy during parental divorce? Do you need your spouse’s permission to put your child in therapy? How should you choose a therapist? And others. I get a lot of questions from parents about therapy for their children: When it’s ok, should all kids whose parents are going through divorce go to therapy, do you need your spouse’s permission to put your kid in ...

Celebrity Divorce Bonzana: What Not to Do in a Divorce!

Jill is joined by her CoilLaw associates, Luke Shaw and Corttany Brooks, to discuss the latest updates in celebrity divorces!  So much has developed in these celeb divorces (especially on social media) and we're here to discuss what NOT to do in a divorce. 

Celebrity Divorce Bonanza : What Not to Do in a Divorce!

Jill is joined by her CoilLaw associates, Luke Shaw and Corttany Brooks, to discuss the latest updates in celebrity divorces!  So much has developed in these celeb divorces (especially on social media) and we're here to discuss what NOT to do in a divorce. 

Celebrity Divorce Bonanza : What Not to Do in a Divorce!

Jill is joined by her CoilLaw associates, Luke Shaw and Corttany Brooks, to discuss the latest updates in celebrity divorces!  So much has developed in these celeb divorces (especially on social media) and we're here to discuss what NOT to do in a divorce. 

Divorce Tips: What Is a Bifurcation, and Am I Eligible for One?

Because some states have regulations about how long you have to wait before being granted a divorce after filing, many couples try to get a bifurcation first. Bifurcation means you are legally divorced and can get remarried, but your issues are still pending, like child custody and asset division. Listen in as I explain when it’s viable, and when you should just work toward divorce. Bifurcation means you are legally divorced and can get remarried, but your issues are still pending, like chi...

Ryan Kalamaya: Attacking and Defending Pre-Nups

Premarital agreements are becoming more and more common. But does everyone need a prenup? And how do you make sure your prenup will be upheld? Do you need to hire an attorney to get a good prenup? And how long before the wedding should you be negotiating a prenup? Find out these answers and more on today’s episode, with Colorado attorney and marital agreement expert, Ryan Kalamaya. Life is full of peaks and valleys. Ryan Kalamaya and his team meet people when they are suffering in an emotio...

Divorce Tips: What if My Ex Is Evading Child Support?

Though most parents do pay child support, there are instances where you or your ex can’t or won’t. Whether the parent is able but refusing, unemployed, on social security, or owns their own business and doesn’t seem to have a regular or trackable income, listen in for what options you have and how you can ensure your children receive financial support. Most people pay child support because they love their kids and want to take care of them. If your spouse is refusing to pay or evading child...

Divorce Tips: What if My Ex Is Evading Child Support?

Though most parents do pay child support, there are instances where you or your ex can’t or won’t. Whether the parent is able but refusing, unemployed, on social security, or owns their own business and doesn’t seem to have a regular or trackable income, listen in for what options you have and how you can ensure your children receive financial support. Most people pay child support because they love their kids and want to take care of them. If your spouse is refusing to pay or evading child...

Jade Bianca: Dating after Divorce

Dating can be overwhelming for anyone in today’s world of apps and social media. But even more so for divorcees who may not have used any technology to date in their first marriage. Dating coach and matchmaker Jade Bianca offers safety tips, realistic expectations, and hope for people who are looking to date again. Jade is a certified matchmaker & dating expert. She founded Dating After Divorce to provide divorced men and women with the effective tools, communication, and insight it takes t...

Divorce Tips: Being Your Own Valentine After Divorce

Spending Valentine’s Day alone might not be your number one choice. However, spending the day alone is a lot better than staying in a bad marriage. Though your first year as a divorced person may be difficult, spending the holiday alone doesn’t have to be an emotionally devastating event. You can be your own Valentine this year, and you can make it a day all about self-care and relaxation.  Do not feel guilty about self-care when being your own valentine! Here are some tips: Do something f...

Adeel George: Nice Guys Finish in the Middle Management

Past divorce client, entrepreneur, organizer of the Integrated Men community, and my friend, Adeel George, joins me to discuss why “nice guys'  often get stuck in middle management of life. Find out how to stop playing it safe, not play the victim in divorce, build a supportive community, and achieve your potential. Adeel is a user experience professional, but through his personal experiences of divorce and subsequent journey of self-discovery, he has accepted his calling to help other men ...

Divorce Tips: Mediation: It’s Not Worth Fighting over the Toaster

Most everyone who gets divorce does some kind of mediation. Because there’s so many types of mediators, I’m giving you my tips on what to look for in a mediator. Listen in for how you can prepare before going into mediation—and how to have the most successful outcome.  Show notes: Most divorces that are litigated go through mediation at some point. There’s lots of types of collaborative mediation and law. There are mediators out there where you go meet with the mediator with your ex, no at...

Divorce Tips: Mediation: It’s Not Worth Fighting over the Toaster

Most everyone who gets divorce does some kind of mediation. Because there’s so many types of mediators, I’m giving you my tips on what to look for in a mediator. Listen in for how you can prepare before going into mediation—and how to have the most successful outcome.  Show notes: Most divorces that are litigated go through mediation at some point. There’s lots of types of collaborative mediation and law. There are mediators out there where you go meet with the mediator with your ex, no at...

Corttany Brooks: Angelina Jolie & Brad Pitt’s Ongoing Custody Battle

It’s been 6 years since Brangelina filed for divorce, and although they finally achieved a bifurcated divorce, they are still dividing and fighting over assets and custody and parent time for their 6 kids. Join me and fellow divorce attorney, Corttany Brooks, as we discuss the messy, expensive, and ongoing drama and speculation over this Hollywood ex-couple.  Show notes: I have Corttany Brooks back on the show for this celebrity episode to discuss the ongoing drama of Angelina Jolie and Br...

Divorce Tips: Child Support: Do you have control over how your ex spends it?

The answer to this question may surprise or frustrate you. But I’m outlining how child support is often split and why, so you can stop worrying about it and shift your mindset. Remember that if you are blessed to make more money than your ex-spouse, it’s your privilege and responsibility to make sure your kids’ needs are taken care of. You don’t get to decide how your ex spends the child support money; they get to spend it on how they deem appropriate. This may sound frustrating to you, but...

Divorce Tips: Child Support: Do you have control over how your ex spends it?

The answer to this question may surprise or frustrate you. But I’m outlining how child support is often split and why, so you can stop worrying about it and shift your mindset. Remember that if you are blessed to make more money than your ex-spouse, it’s your privilege and responsibility to make sure your kids’ needs are taken care of. You don’t get to decide how your ex spends the child support money; they get to spend it on how they deem appropriate. This may sound frustrating to you, but...