Dr. Randy Paterson guides us through the ins and outs of assertive communication, explaining why it's essential for healthy, happy relationships in work, love, and life.

Show Notes

What is assertiveness?Common misconceptions about assertivenessThe 4 styles of communicationThe benefits of becoming more assertiveThe barriers to being assertive: the stress barrier; the social barrier; the belief barrierWhy it’s so hard to ask for what you really wantDemanding what we want vs informing people of what we wantDESO scriptsWhy it’s hard to say no to what you don’t wantHow to handle confrontation wellStrategies for constructive confrontation, especially how to find common groundAre we responsible for other people’s feelings?Beyond assertive communication: taking responsibility for your own life


You can learn more about Randy and his work here:

Personal Website YouTube ChannelThe Assertiveness Workbook (book)How to Be Miserable (book)How to Be Miserable in Your 20s (book)


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