The KYLO Show

Singles - Be Powerful

This week Danny and Brittney start a brand new series on how the KYLO Principles apply to Singles. If you’re not single, don’t tune out! There's important information in these next episodes that you won’t want to miss. We’re really talking about how to become a whole, healthy person. Whole, healthy families are made up of whole, healthy people! -- Do you want to develop your character, your relationships, and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ and...

Irresponsibility Cycle - The Rescuer (Part 2)

This is our last episode in our series on the irresponsibility cycle. If you missed any parts of this series go back and give them a listen. Last week we looked at how the Rescuer ends up doing damage by helping in ways that are irresponsible. This week you’ll learn how Rescuers can build a life they actually want to live in, how to set healthy boundaries, and trust God to be the real Rescuer. -- Do you want to develop your character, your relationships, and build a whole, healthy family o...

Irresponsibility Cycle - The Rescuer

The Rescuer or the Good Guy is typically one of two types of people--a recruit or a volunteer. They are often well-meaning and empathetic, but they end up becoming codependent with the Victim and working harder on the Victim’s problem than the Victim is. In both cases, the Rescuer/Good Guy is the one who gets handed the “hot potato” of responsibility by the Victim and Bad Guy. In the next podcast, we’ll look at how Rescuers can shift toward responsibility. -- Do you want to develop your ch...

Irresponsibility Cycle - The Bad Guy (Part 2)

In this episode of The KYLO Show Danny & Brittney continue their conversation on the Irresponsibility Cycle and talk about how the Victim and the Rescuer can shift in responsibility toward the Bad Guy and what it looks like to deal with the people in our lives who are scary and hurtful. -- Do you want to develop your character, your relationships, and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ and get our online training and resources to build healthy rel...

Irresponsibility Cycle - The Bad Guy

This week Danny and Brittney are talking about the next person in the Irresponsibility Cycle, the Bad Guy. They answer questions like, "What do you do when someone is blaming and accusing you of something you didn’t do?" and "What do you do when you actually are guilty of an offense against someone else?" Buckle up because you’re about to find out in this week's episode of The KYLO Show. -- Do you want to develop your character, your relationships, and build a whole, healthy family of your...

Irresponsibilty Cylce - The Victim (Part 2)

Triangulation or “the irresponsibility cycle” has three people; a) the Victim, b) the Bad Guy, and c) the Rescuer. The Victim blames the Bad Guy and recruits the Rescuer. The Victim is the one driving the whole cycle because they’re passing responsibility onto someone else. So, what happens when this irresponsibility cycle starts to shape families, organizations, and society? Danny and Brittney answer this question and more on this week’s episode of The KYLO Show. -- Do you want to develop...

Irresponsibilty Cycle - The Victim (Part 2)

Triangulation or “the irresponsibility cycle” has three people; a) the Victim, b) the Bad Guy, and c) the Rescuer. The Victim blames the Bad Guy and recruits the Rescuer. The Victim is the one driving the whole cycle because they’re passing responsibility onto someone else. So, what happens when this irresponsibility cycle starts to shape families, organizations, and society? Danny and Brittney answer this question and more on this week’s episode of The KYLO Show. -- Do you want to develop...

Irresponsibilty Cycle - The Victim

This week on The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney are teaching on the topic of abusive relationships. For those that are in an abusive relationship, it is very real and very scary but fortunately, there is a way out. The KYLO Principles are the antidote to abusive relationships and you’ll learn how it all works in this week’s episode. -- Do you want to develop your character, your relationships, and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ and get our onli...

Irresponsibilty Cylce - The Victim

This week on The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney are teaching on the topic of abusive relationships. For those that are in an abusive relationship, it is very real and very scary but fortunately, there is a way out. The KYLO Principles are the antidote to abusive relationships and you’ll learn how it all works in this week’s episode. -- Do you want to develop your character, your relationships, and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ and get our onli...

Setting Healthy Limits

Of all the KYLO Principles the most misunderstood is Principle #5… Healthy Boundaries. To have healthy boundaries you need to know what they are and what they are not… As well as how to set and keep them. You’ll get the answers to these questions and more in this week’s episode of The KYLO Show. -- Do you want to develop your character, your relationships, and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ and get our online training and resources to build he...

Modeling Respectful Communication to Your Kids

Do your kids ever act disrespectfully? If so, you may be wondering where they even learned to act that way. Danny and Brittney have the answer in this week’s episode of The KYLO Show. (Hint: It might not come from where you think) You'll also learn about the "Big Red Button", helpful communication techniques, and how to attain high levels of respect and responsibility in your home.  -- Do you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://loving...

Build a Heart-to-Heart Connection with Your Kids

In all relationships we are pursuing one of two goals. One goal leads to deep covenant relationships and the other creates chaos and power struggles. On this week’s episode, Danny and Brittney explain what both of these goals are and how to choose the one that leads to thriving relationships. -- Do you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ and get our online training and resources to build healthy relationships. St...

Using Love and Fear in Parenting

When we talk about choosing love over fear in parenting, we’re talking about what is motivating our behavior toward our kids––and the motives we want to foster in them. We are actively trying to get them to manage themselves to make choices and behave in ways that promote and protect healthy connection. A reminder that as we look at parenting, these truths not only apply to listeners who have children, but also help us understand our relationships with our parents, with authority, and with G...

Powerful Parenting vs. Powerless Parenting

For the next five episodes, we’re going to dive into how to apply the 5 KYLO Principles in parenting. If you’re not a parent don’t tune out because this is still going to be helpful for you! These episodes are about parenting, but it is ultimately rooted in our relationship with God and how He parents us. One of the greatest classrooms for your relationship with God is being a parent. Today we’re going to zone in on #1: Be powerful. -- If you want to develop your character and build a whol...

KYLO Principle 5: Honor Healthy Boundaries

A healthy boundary keeps in what you want to keep in your life and keeps out what you want to keep out. When we make the powerful choice to say yes to a relationship, that “yes” means saying “no” to other things. So, Boundaries are ultimately about protecting and honoring our “yes.” Danny and Brittney will explain further in this week’s episode of The KYLO Show. -- If you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own, visit LovingOnPurpose.com and get all of ...

KYLO Principle 4: Practice Respectful Communication

Do you want to be; A) a passive communicator, B) an aggressive communicator, C) a passive-aggressive communicator, or D) an assertive communicator? Here’s a hint- the answer is D! Unfortunately, knowing the answer and practicing the answer are two different things. In this week’s episode, Danny and Brittney talk about the #1 reason for communication breakdowns and how to become a better communicator. -- If you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own, vi...

KYLO Principle 3: Pursue the Goal of Connection

In every relationship we’re pursuing one of two goals; the goal of connection or the goal of distance. And in case you didn’t know the goal you want to pursue is connection. It's a really simple concept but it can feel very hard to do. In this week’s episode, Danny and Brittney teach on how you can pursue the goal of connection (always), the 7 Pillars of a Healthy Relationships, and you’ll get to hear an amazing listener testimony. This is an episode you’ll want to listen to over and over ag...

KYLO Principle 2: Choose Love Over Fear

Hiding, avoiding, blaming, manipulation, and using people are all fear-based tools that create relationships full of anxiety. This is not the way it should be. In this week’s episode, Danny and Brittney talk about how to move out of self-preservation and into connection so that you can love like Jesus. If you want connected, life-giving, relationships then buckle up and get ready for this week’s episode, and KYLO Principle #2, Choose Love Over Fear! -- If you want to develop your character...

KYLO Principle 1: Be Powerful

In the last 8 episodes, Danny and Brittney laid the groundwork for why whole, healthy families are going to save the world. In these next 5 episodes they're going to launch into how to keep your love on with The 5 KYLO Principles, starting with Principle #1: Be Powerful. Being a powerful person does not mean being angry, loud, or destructive. Being powerful means loving God, others, and ourselves like God loves. If you want to become a powerful person then cut the distractions and tune in be...

Our Family Mission

God gave the human family a mission to be fruitful, multiply, and subdue the earth. In essence, to build family and build culture. Specifically, a kingdom culture. Our original mission was to expand heaven on earth. Sin didn’t remove the mission or mandate, it perverted it and caused it to be full of pain, frustration, futility, and strife. We’ve created hell on earth. Jesus came to redeem all of that and renew our mission. Our mission is to build the family of God, kingdom culture–and to br...

Identity

Being made in the image of God means being made in the image of family. We are not atomized individuals who just hatch out of the ground or get made in a factory. We are persons connected to other persons and to God in the design of family. This means our identity is relational AND that we can’t know who we are, why we are here, and what we need to be doing with our lives apart from this relational identity. -- If you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of you...

The Marriage Covenant

The current divorce rate is nowhere near 50 percent and has never been close to the 50 percent mark. Instead, the vast majority of marriages last a lifetime. Top experts continue to project divorce rates of 40 to 50 percent, but these are future projections based on various assumptions, and we’ve never come close to that high of an overall divorce rate. Most marriages (about 80%) are happy, but there’s a strong cultural message that most aren’t, which creates fear and discouragement about th...

Male and Female

There us unity in diversity. We see it in the Trinity and in the human family. The Godhead is “three in one,” and in the human family “two become one” and produce children to make three. Each part is a whole person that is essential to make the whole family. We are complementary to one another and our differences were designed as a gift. Then sin entered. As a consequence, God explains to them that their relationship is not going to work as it was designed. Now there’s this dynamic of domina...

The Heart of the Father

We are in a cultural moment where there’s a battle over our inheritance and our national story.  There’s one narrative that wants honor, preserve, and live more fully from what we’ve received from our founding fathers. To forgive them for their faults but also thank them for the inheritance they gave us and try to live up to it.  There’s another narrative that’s about distancing ourselves from and criticizing our fathers and rejecting our inheritance, which just perpetuates the fatherlessn...

The Trinity

In this episode, we’re going to unpack some of the big concepts we introduced in the last episode's brief theology of family. We want to talk about this idea of God being a family. What kind of family is God and what kind of family did He design us to be? Jesus’ whole mission, of course, was to reconcile us back to the Father and restore us to their divine family.

God's Design for Family

We often say that each person is made in the image of God. This is true. But if you look at this verse, you have God describing Himself in the plural--let US--and then making mankind in the plural--male and female--as his image. God--Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, is a family, and the human family is His image.

Introduction to the KYLO Show

Welcome to the KYLO Show, the podcast where we talk about how to keep our love ON no matter what and how to build healthy, whole families.

Welcome to The KYLO Show

Welcome to The KYLO Show

Parenting - Keeping Connection Your Goal

Parenting- Working as a Team Pt. 2- Loving on Purpose

Part 2 of Mike and Kelly. An episode focusing on the importance of individual child to parent relationships.

Parenting- Working as a Team Pt. 1- Loving on Purpose

Part 1 of Mike and Kelly. An episode focusing on the individual parent to child relationships.

Loving on Purpose Episode 41

This episode focuses on parenting and relationships.

KYLO Conferences: Communication

We are answering questions from our KYLO conferences around the country on Communication.

Foundations of Honor: Tom Crandall Part 2

A conversation on Honor, leadership, legacy, growth and stewarding the momentum of inheritance.

Foundations of Honor: Tom Crandall Part 1

A conversation on Honor, leadership, legacy, growth and stewarding the momentum of inheritance.

Foundations of Honor: Seth Dahl Part 2

A conversation on honor, raising powerful children, and understanding abundance.

Foundations of Honor: Seth Dahl Part 1

A conversation on honor, raising powerful children, and understanding abundance.

KYLO Conferences: Connection

We took questions on connection from our KYLO Conferences around the country and answer them here.

KYLO Conferences: Boundaries

We took questions from our KYLO Conferences around the country and answer them here.

Loving on Purpose Episode 40: Maria Part 2

Loving on Purpose Episode 39: Maria Part 1

Loving on Purpose Episode 38: Bob and Becky Part 2

Loving on Purpose Episode 37: Bob and Becky Part 1

Loving on Purpose Episode 36: Brian and Raina Part 2

Are you able to maintain boundaries in the midst of busyness? How do you do that with a busy schedule and life?

Loving on Purpose Episode 35: Brian and Raina Part 1

Are you able to maintain boundaries in the midst of busyness? How do you do that with a busy schedule and life?

Loving on Purpose Episode 34: Brian and Lindsey Part 2

How do you protect your relationships in the midst of a busy schedule? Listen in!

Loving on Purpose Episode 33: Brian and Lindsey Part 1

How do we protect relationships with a busy schedule? Listen in!

Special Edition: KYLO EVANGELISM Part 2

Life impacting stories of those affected by Keep Your Love On and how they have gone on to spread the word!

Special Edition: KYLO EVANGELISM Part 1

Life impacting stories of those affected by Keep Your Love On and how they have gone on to spread the word!