187: Aandraya A. revisits

🔸 The pressure of going along with external, inconsistent beliefs. We pick up where we left off and find an exile (who protects another) to unburden.



🔹 Part (Location, Fear, Rather be doing, Age, Needs):

17 - 21 year old, protecting the middle-schooler
Chest and throat
Feels horrible, alone, misunderstood, lost.
Rather be skiing!
Needs occasional check-in, to be reminded that she doesn't have to have it all figured out, and that there are lots of alternative viewpoints.

🎓 What I'd like to do differently:

Should I have directed us more toward the younger exile? I don't think so. WWDD*?

 *What would Dick Schwartz / Derek Scott do?





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