134: Rosie A. - first call

🔸 A whirlwind of parts. I scramble for footing.



🔹 Part (Location, Fear, Rather be doing, Age, Needs):

Alone, not good enough → Prove I'm good enough → Blank out the emotions.

🎓 What I'd like to do differently:

Yes I sincerely enjoyed this conversation, yes it was challenging, and I think I made plenty of mistakes. What do you think? Total failure? Moderate failure? 

A part says: "Weak. I should have stayed the course, I jumped around too much, following each part that came up." 

Another part: "Too heavy handed. It's our first call. See what happens when you don't match energy? You lost her when you focused too much on one particular step (staying in appreciation)"

Another part: "Meh. Can't win 'em all... Dinner time!"

Another: "mmm but... remember whiskey!?" 

Another: "Sometimes trust is forged by the shared difficulty, by trying and failing and trying again. This could be the start of a beautiful relationship" 

I pray she calls back.

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