EP 404: 3 Ways to Have a Terrible Relationship (And What to do Instead)

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

English - January 15, 2024 07:30 - 19 minutes - 18.3 MB - ★★★★★ - 931 ratings
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In this episode, Dr. Morgan discusses how to have a terrible relationship by highlighting three common mistakes: placing responsibility for happiness on your partner, actions not matching words, and making assumptions about your partner. Instead, she encourages listeners to create their own happiness, ensure their actions align with their words, and lead with curiosity and openness to growth. Dr. Morgan also introduces the Morning Alignment Journal, a daily practice that has transformed her life and is now available to listeners.

Episode Takeaways

Take responsibility for your own happiness instead of relying on your partner.Ensure your actions align with your words to build trust in your relationship.Avoid making assumptions about your partner and instead lead with curiosity and openness to growth.Consider using the Morning Alignment Journal as a daily practice to enhance self-awareness and personal growth.

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Episode Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction and Empowered Secure Love Program

02:24 Chapter 1: Putting Responsibility for Happiness on Your Partner

05:20 Chapter 2: Actions Not Matching Words

07:44 Chapter 3: Making Assumptions About Your Partner

14:08 Chapter 4: Leading with Curiosity and Allowing Growth

16:36 Conclusion and Morning Alignment Journal