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I Said What I Said

167 episodes - English - Latest episode: 12 days ago - ★★★★★ - 52 ratings

"I Said What I Said" is back! Full weekly episodes on Patreon. ISWIS is a raucous self development podcast about closing the gap between who we are and who we want to be. From career changes and problematic friendships, to mediocre sex, neurodivergence and money matters; sisters Mukundwa and Nyak explore how to prioritise your pleasure and move with intention.


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33. The Friendship Audit - the results of facilitating theoretical conflict

July 22, 2019 03:00 - 53 minutes - 49.2 MB

This week we talk about *surprise surprise* FRIENDSHIPPPPP. This episode is the culmination of all our friendship episodes as Mukundwa takes her own advice and the results are *SHOCKING*We discuss- Which is kinder, the crippling truth or a lie?- Can we transition vapid, unintentional friendships into meaningful ones?- Can you still be friends with someone if you love them but don't like them?- What happens to friendships that become more maintenance and damage control than bliss and new share...

The Friendship Audit - the results of facilitating theoretical conflict

July 22, 2019 03:00 - 53 minutes - 49.2 MB

This week we talk about *surprise surprise* FRIENDSHIPPPPP. This episode is the culmination of all our friendship episodes as Mukundwa takes her own advice and the results are *SHOCKING*We discuss- Which is kinder, the crippling truth or a lie?- Can we transition vapid, unintentional friendships into meaningful ones?- Can you still be friends with someone if you love them but don't like them?- What happens to friendships that become more maintenance and damage control than bliss and new share...

The Friendship Grind Part 2: hard decisions, priorities and performativity

July 15, 2019 03:00 - 1 hour - 56.6 MB

In part 2 we use three listener dilemmas as the lens through which to explore people pleasing and the intricacies of friendship amidst mental health issues Come chat about this episode on our Facebook group! - https://www.facebook.com/groups/242333026713965/InstagramMukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_
Nyak: www.instagram.com/nyakweziYouTube:
Mukundwa: tinyurl.com/y4x7klh4Twitter:
Mukundwa: twitter.com/mukundwa_RESOURCES1. Abraham Hicks2. Deepak Chopra on The Laws of Abundance (easiest to start ...

32. The Friendship Grind Part 2: hard decisions, priorities and performativity

July 15, 2019 03:00 - 1 hour - 56.6 MB

In part 2 we use three listener dilemmas as the lens through which to explore people pleasing and the intricacies of friendship amidst mental health issues Come chat about this episode on our Facebook group! - https://www.facebook.com/groups/242333026713965/InstagramMukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_
Nyak: www.instagram.com/nyakweziYouTube:
Mukundwa: tinyurl.com/y4x7klh4Twitter:
Mukundwa: twitter.com/mukundwa_RESOURCES1. Abraham Hicks2. Deepak Chopra on The Laws of Abundance (easiest to start ...

31. The Friendship Grind Part 1: Transitions, Loyalty, and Complacency

July 08, 2019 03:00 - 50 minutes - 93.2 MB

In part 1 we discuss friendship transitions and the effort we do/nt make towards curating meaningful relationships. What doses it take to successfully transition a friendship from high school / university into adulthood? Do we want a quality of friendship that we aren’t willing to work for? And is requiring loyalty a cover up for your cowardice?Instagram:Mukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_Nyak: www.instagram.com/nyakweziYouTube:Mukundwa: tinyurl.com/y4x7klh4Twitter:Mukundwa: twitter.com/mukundw...

The Friendship Grind Part 1: Transitions, Loyalty, and Complacency

July 08, 2019 03:00 - 50 minutes - 93.2 MB

In part 1 we discuss friendship transitions and the effort we do/nt make towards curating meaningful relationships. What doses it take to successfully transition a friendship from high school / university into adulthood? Do we want a quality of friendship that we aren’t willing to work for? And is requiring loyalty a cover up for your cowardice?Instagram:Mukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_Nyak: www.instagram.com/nyakweziYouTube:Mukundwa: tinyurl.com/y4x7klh4Twitter:Mukundwa: twitter.com/mukundw...

30. Do You Boo: Internet Activism, Tangible impact and Retweet Complacency

July 01, 2019 03:00 - 1 hour - 56.5 MB

Things get heated! Are some forms of activism better than others? Is impact more important than Intent? And who gets to decide whether internet activism is genuine or not?GUEST: Andrew - www.instagram.com/tloukieInstagram:Mukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_Nyak: www.instagram.com/nyakweziYouTube:Mukundwa: tinyurl.com/y4x7klh4Twitter:Mukundwa: twitter.com/mukundwa_ Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do You Boo: Internet Activism, Tangible impact and Retweet Complacency

July 01, 2019 03:00 - 1 hour - 56.5 MB

Things get heated! Are some forms of activism better than others? Is impact more important than Intent? And who gets to decide whether internet activism is genuine or not?GUEST: Andrew - www.instagram.com/tloukieInstagram:Mukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_Nyak: www.instagram.com/nyakweziYouTube:Mukundwa: tinyurl.com/y4x7klh4Twitter:Mukundwa: twitter.com/mukundwa_ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Part 2: Envy? I don't Know Her! On comparison and the in\ability to Fulfil our Dreams

June 24, 2019 02:59 - 1 hour - 61.5 MB

MUKUNDWA IS BRAND NEW. In true Pisces fashion I have done a 180 and don't know what or who envy is. In this episode we reflect on the pillars of envy (perception and symbols of success, especially via social media). We also discuss personal branding on Instagram relying on aspiration and exclusivity, and debate whether every human can fulfil their dreams both within and outside of capitalism.LEAVE A RATING AND REVIEW + CONTINUE THE CONVERSATION ON:Instagram:Mukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_Ny...

29. Envy? I don't Know Her! Comparison and the in\ability to Fulfil our Dreams (Part 2)

June 24, 2019 02:59 - 1 hour - 61.5 MB

MUKUNDWA IS BRAND NEW. In true Pisces fashion I have done a 180 and don't know what or who envy is. In this episode we reflect on the pillars of envy (perception and symbols of success, especially via social media). We also discuss personal branding on Instagram relying on aspiration and exclusivity, and debate whether every human can fulfil their dreams both within and outside of capitalism.LEAVE A RATING AND REVIEW + CONTINUE THE CONVERSATION ON:Instagram:Mukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_Ny...

28. Envy and Comparison: I Met My Tethered and She's THRIVING! (Part 1)

June 17, 2019 03:00 - 1 hour - 55 MB

In this episode Mukundwa details her struggles with envy and comparison, and Nyak takes the role of her unpaid therapist: do we get over envy by being+feeling BETTER than the other person? Do some people consciously try to inspire envy in others? Is it realistic to reimagine envy as inspiration?LEAVE A RATING AND REVIEW + CONTINUE THE CONVERSATION ON:Instagram:Mukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_Nyak: www.instagram.com/nyakweziYouTube:Mukundwa: tinyurl.com/y4x7klh4Twitter:Mukundwa: twitter.com/m...

Part 1: On Envy and Comparison - I Met My Tethered and She's THRIVING!

June 17, 2019 03:00 - 1 hour - 55 MB

In this episode Mukundwa details her struggles with envy and comparison, and Nyak takes the role of her unpaid therapist: do we get over envy by being+feeling BETTER than the other person? Do some people consciously try to inspire envy in others? Is it realistic to reimagine envy as inspiration?LEAVE A RATING AND REVIEW + CONTINUE THE CONVERSATION ON:Instagram:Mukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_Nyak: www.instagram.com/nyakweziYouTube:Mukundwa: tinyurl.com/y4x7klh4Twitter:Mukundwa: twitter.com/m...

Sexcetera - is your pleasure worth prioritising? Ep27

June 10, 2019 03:00 - 1 hour - 57.7 MB

Someone asked me (Mukundwa)what prompted me to stop having sex with subpar men. Nyak and I dissect my answer: we discuss prioritising pleasure, body dissociation and energy transfers. We also argue about sweating during sex and the benefits of missionary vs. cowgirl (after all who deserves these kneecaps?!)LEAVE A RATING AND REVIEW + CONTINUE THE CONVERSATION ON:Instagram:Mukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_Nyak: www.instagram.com/nyakweziYouTube:Mukundwa: tinyurl.com/y4x7klh4Twitter:Mukundwa: ...

27. Is your sexual pleasure worth prioritising?

June 10, 2019 03:00 - 1 hour - 57.7 MB

Someone asked me (Mukundwa)what prompted me to stop having sex with subpar men. Nyak and I dissect my answer: we discuss prioritising pleasure, body dissociation and energy transfers. We also argue about sweating during sex and the benefits of missionary vs. cowgirl (after all who deserves these kneecaps?!)LEAVE A RATING AND REVIEW + CONTINUE THE CONVERSATION ON:Instagram:Mukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_Nyak: www.instagram.com/nyakweziYouTube:Mukundwa: tinyurl.com/y4x7klh4Twitter:Mukundwa: ...

26. Throw her in the trash? On bending vs. breaking friendships

June 03, 2019 03:00 - 1 hour - 57.2 MB

In this episode we discuss what friendship breakups actually look like - are they explosive or silent withdrawals? Is it possible to run a friendship like a transaction, and how do we know if it's time to introduce conflict or bin the relationship altogether?LEAVE A RATING AND REVIEW + CONTINUE THE CONVERSATION ON:Instagram:Mukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_Nyak: www.instagram.com/nyakweziYouTube:Mukundwa: tinyurl.com/y4x7klh4Twitter:Mukundwa: twitter.com/mukundwa_ Get bonus content on Patreon...

Throw her in the trash? On bending vs. breaking friendships

June 03, 2019 03:00 - 1 hour - 57.2 MB

In this episode we discuss what friendship breakups actually look like - are they explosive or silent withdrawals? Is it possible to run a friendship like a transaction, and how do we know if it's time to introduce conflict or bin the relationship altogether?LEAVE A RATING AND REVIEW + CONTINUE THE CONVERSATION ON:Instagram:Mukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_Nyak: www.instagram.com/nyakweziYouTube:Mukundwa: tinyurl.com/y4x7klh4Twitter:Mukundwa: twitter.com/mukundwa_ Hosted on Acast. See acast...

Forever After (and other scams) ft. Retha

May 27, 2019 03:00 - 58 minutes - 53.8 MB

*FIRSTLY LEAVE A RATING AND REVIEW, I SEE Y'ALL DINING AND DASHING!!!*Is marriage the ghetto? In this episode we explore whether marriage is: - an unpaid internship- beneficial for women- a dumping ground for your daddy issuesWe discuss personal development within relationships, friends demoting friends post-marriage, and the myth of happy ever afterGUEST: Retha - https://twitter.com/Retha101Instagram:Mukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_Nyak: www.instagram.com/nyakweziYouTube:Mukundwa: tinyurl.c...

25. "Forever After" (and other scams) ft. Retha

May 27, 2019 03:00 - 58 minutes - 53.8 MB

*FIRSTLY LEAVE A RATING AND REVIEW, I SEE Y'ALL DINING AND DASHING!!!*Is marriage the ghetto? In this episode we explore whether marriage is: - an unpaid internship- beneficial for women- a dumping ground for your daddy issuesWe discuss personal development within relationships, friends demoting friends post-marriage, and the myth of happy ever afterGUEST: Retha - https://twitter.com/Retha101Instagram:Mukundwa: instagram.com/mukundwa_Nyak: www.instagram.com/nyakweziYouTube:Mukundwa: tinyurl.c...

24. Cute or Concerning? Social Media Stalking and Transparency

May 20, 2019 03:35 - 1 hour - 59.6 MB

We all Google our crushes (right?!): do you stop at LinkedIn or go to page 7 of the results? When does due diligence become stalking? Does bae OWE you transparency? Is invasion of privacy wrong if the person never finds out?We discuss the line between due diligence and stalking, and discover that Mukundwa is Joe-from-Netflix adjacent :)JOKES ASIDE: stalking (as well as abuse and lack of boundaries) can be hard to identify or 'prove', mostly because it is romanticised in mainstream media. If y...

Cute or Concerning? Social Media Stalking and Transparency

May 20, 2019 03:35 - 1 hour - 59.6 MB

We all Google our crushes (right?!): do you stop at LinkedIn or go to page 7 of the results? When does due diligence become stalking? Does bae OWE you transparency? Is invasion of privacy wrong if the person never finds out?We discuss the line between due diligence and stalking, and discover that Mukundwa is Joe-from-Netflix adjacent :)JOKES ASIDE: stalking (as well as abuse and lack of boundaries) can be hard to identify or 'prove', mostly because it is romanticised in mainstream media. If y...

Social Media flexing and Tapdancing for the D - ft Abolade. Ep23

May 13, 2019 03:00 - 58 minutes - 53.2 MB

In this RAUCOUS episode we discuss - social media optics and why we have instagram if it ruins our mental health, we interrogate catfishing on apps, and racial stereotypes that JUMP OUT when datingAbolade: https://twitter.com/Aboladeee Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

23. Social Media flexing and Tapdancing for the D - ft Abolade

May 13, 2019 03:00 - 58 minutes - 53.2 MB

In this RAUCOUS episode we discuss - social media optics and why we have instagram if it ruins our mental health, we interrogate catfishing on apps, and racial stereotypes that JUMP OUT when datingAbolade: https://twitter.com/Aboladeee Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Suicide, Life And Death Q&A - A Frank Conversation On Suicide Part 2

May 06, 2019 03:00 - 59 minutes - 54.2 MB

We read out comments and questions sent in by listeners as a followup to Part 1, link: https://tinyurl.com/y5q7joo8 . The topics touched upon are searching for meaning and purpose, the fear of old age and mourning via social media.Youper: https://www.youper.aiAbolade: https://twitter.com/AboladeeeUshbah: https://www.instagram.com/ushbiz/PLEASE leave a rating + review!! And send in topic suggestions and questions Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

22. Suicide, Life And Death Q&A ft. Ushbah (Part 2)

May 06, 2019 03:00 - 59 minutes - 54.2 MB

We read out comments and questions sent in by listeners as a followup to Part 1, link: https://tinyurl.com/y5q7joo8 . The topics touched upon are searching for meaning and purpose, the fear of old age and mourning via social media.Youper: https://www.youper.aiAbolade: https://twitter.com/AboladeeeUshbah: https://www.instagram.com/ushbiz/PLEASE leave a rating + review!! And send in topic suggestions and questions Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more in...

21. Would You Date Yourself? ft. Nunu & Abolade

April 29, 2019 03:00 - 1 hour - 56.6 MB

Manipulation? Emotionally checking out? Parring off the responsibility of breaking up? In this spicy episode we count down the ways in which we're problematic lovers! SUBSCRIBE, LIKE AND COMMENT - I see you PIGEONS in the analytics not subscribing! Leave a review on iTunes + Spotify <3NUNUhttps://twitter.com/neon_nuhttps://www.instagram.com/neon_nuABOLADEhttps://twitter.com/Aboladeee Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Would You Date Yourself? Ft. Nunu & Abolade - Ep. 21

April 29, 2019 03:00 - 1 hour - 56.6 MB

Manipulation? Emotionally checking out? Parring off the responsibility of breaking up? In this spicy episode we count down the ways in which we're problematic lovers! SUBSCRIBE, LIKE AND COMMENT - I see you PIGEONS in the analytics not subscribing! Leave a review on iTunes + Spotify <3NUNUhttps://twitter.com/neon_nuhttps://www.instagram.com/neon_nuABOLADEhttps://twitter.com/Aboladeee Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

20. Polyamory vs. Romantic Longevity - ft. Nunu

April 22, 2019 03:00 - 58 minutes - 53.2 MB

Is polyamory conducive to longevity, and is longevity even a goal? Also do Gemini’s have emotions?Nunu:https://www.instagram.com/neon_nu/https://twitter.com/neon_nuName drops:https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Polyamory vs. Longevity - ft. Nunu. Ep20

April 22, 2019 03:00 - 58 minutes - 53.2 MB

Is polyamory conducive to longevity, and is longevity even a goal? Also do Gemini’s have emotions?Nunu:https://www.instagram.com/neon_nu/https://twitter.com/neon_nuName drops:https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Opposite of life is Apathy: a frank conversation on suicide - Ep19

April 15, 2019 03:00 - 56 minutes - 52 MB

TRIGGER WARNING: SuicideUshbah discusses her experience with suicide and mental health, and we discuss apathy and death/life as choicesHolla at Ushbah - https://www.instagram.com/ushbiz/Read her letter to her therapist about suicide: https://tinyurl.com/y3z3toy3 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

19. Suicide, Life and Death ft. Ushbah (Part 1)

April 15, 2019 03:00 - 56 minutes - 52 MB

TRIGGER WARNING: SuicideUshbah discusses her experience with suicide and mental health, and we discuss apathy and death/life as choicesHolla at Ushbah - https://www.instagram.com/ushbiz/Read her letter to her therapist about suicide: https://tinyurl.com/y3z3toy3 Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

18: The Beauty Myth: Shifting beauty trends in women

April 08, 2019 12:59 - 50 minutes - 46 MB

Are you beautiful if no one is there to see it? Are you beautiful if no one agrees? We discuss the function of beauty, its shifting goalposts and gatekeepers, and whether beauty is a physical trait or an experienceBook mentioned: The Beauty Myth by Naomi Wolf - http://tinyurl.com/y4q74auw Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Beauty Myth - Ep18

April 08, 2019 12:59 - 50 minutes - 46 MB

Are you beautiful if no one is there to see it? Are you beautiful if no one agrees? We discuss the function of beauty, its shifting goalposts and gatekeepers, and whether beauty is a physical trait or an experienceBook mentioned: The Beauty Myth by Naomi Wolf - http://tinyurl.com/y4q74auw Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

17. Fast Money & Motivation: is wealth karmic?

April 01, 2019 03:00 - 45 minutes - 41.5 MB

IS THERE SUCH A THING AS FAST MONEY? Is money a karmic reward for effort, or can we cut corners to richness? We also discuss money as escapism, happiness as an (impossible) destination and the difference between motivation and inspiration Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Fast Money & Motivation - Ep17

April 01, 2019 03:00 - 45 minutes - 41.5 MB

IS THERE SUCH A THING AS FAST MONEY? Is money a karmic reward for effort, or can we cut corners to richness? We also discuss money as escapism, happiness as an (impossible) destination and the difference between motivation and inspiration Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dating in Denial - Ep16

March 25, 2019 03:00 - 51 minutes - 47.4 MB

In this episode we discuss looking for love in all the wrong places, and the journey of forgiving ourselves for romantic decisions made out of fear and insecurity Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

16. Dating in Denial: looking for love in all the wrong places

March 25, 2019 03:00 - 51 minutes - 47.4 MB

In this episode we discuss looking for love in all the wrong places, and the journey of forgiving ourselves for romantic decisions made out of fear and insecurity Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ageing Anxiety: On Comparison, Purpose And TeamNoSleep. Ft Retha - Ep.15

March 17, 2019 20:43 - 57 minutes - 52.9 MB

GETTING OLDER! We discuss TeamNoSleep, the tension between purpose and paycheck, and finding independence while still relying on parents Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

15. Ageing Anxiety: On Comparison, Purpose And TeamNoSleep - ft Retha

March 17, 2019 20:43 - 57 minutes - 52.9 MB

GETTING OLDER! We discuss TeamNoSleep, the tension between purpose and paycheck, and finding independence while still relying on parents Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Irony Of Conflict Avoidance - Ep14

March 12, 2019 23:08 - 56 minutes - 52.2 MB

DO YOU HANG THE TOILET PAPER UNDER OR OVER??!!! We explore the labour of conflict and the burden of conflict avoidance.Comment / DM us topic suggestions! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

14. The Irony Of Conflict Avoidance

March 12, 2019 23:08 - 56 minutes - 52.2 MB

DO YOU HANG THE TOILET PAPER UNDER OR OVER??!!! We explore the labour of conflict and the burden of conflict avoidance.Comment / DM us topic suggestions! Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

13. Parents and the Pursuit of Respect - ft. Lethabo

March 04, 2019 03:00 - 50 minutes - 46.1 MB

Can we have autonomy AND need our parents financial support? Do parents care about our happiness or our fulfilment of their expectations? WILL OUR PARENTS EVER PUT RESPECK ON OUR NAMES? Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Parents and the Pursuit of Respeck - ft. Lethabo. Ep13

March 04, 2019 03:00 - 50 minutes - 46.1 MB

Can we have autonomy AND need our parents financial support? Do parents care about our happiness or our fulfilment of their expectations? WILL OUR PARENTS EVER PUT RESPECK ON OUR NAMES? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

12. Sexcetera:(Life Before)Celibacy Ft. Mica

February 25, 2019 03:00 - 48 minutes - 44.7 MB

The road to celibacy is paved with bad sex and performativity. What kind of experiences contribute to the choice of celibacy, and what kind of sex would end it?‘Sexcetera’ is a series of sex-related episodes. Send in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisGUEST:https://www.instagram.com/micamontana/ Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sexcetera:(Life Before)Celibacy Ft. Mica - Ep.12

February 25, 2019 03:00 - 48 minutes - 44.7 MB

The road to celibacy is paved with bad sex and performativity. What kind of experiences contribute to the choice of celibacy, and what kind of sex would end it?‘Sexcetera’ is a series of sex-related episodes. Send in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisGUEST:https://www.instagram.com/micamontana/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

11. #FupaMustFall: on the collective fear of Fatness

February 18, 2019 03:00 - 47 minutes - 43.5 MB

Is anyone else fed up of being at war with their body? We discuss how people the world over spend their lives feeling fat, fearing fatness or trying to lose weight. We explore the links to childhood trauma around food and bodies, the male gaze and palatability. Send in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisNames dropped: https://twitter.com/yrfatfriend Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

#FupaMustFall: on the collective fear of Fatness. Ep11

February 18, 2019 03:00 - 47 minutes - 43.5 MB

Is anyone else fed up of being at war with their body? We discuss how people the world over spend their lives feeling fat, fearing fatness or trying to lose weight. We explore the links to childhood trauma around food and bodies, the male gaze and palatability. Send in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisNames dropped: https://twitter.com/yrfatfriend Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10. Seasons of friendship: lean in or let go?

February 11, 2019 03:00 - 44 minutes - 40.5 MB

Do we treat friends how they want to be treated or how they treat themselves? Should we intervene when a friends lack of personal boundaries burden the friendship?Send in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisinstagram.com/mukundwa_twitter.com/mukundwa_Nyak (Co Host)instagram.com/nyakweziFollow #podcastiswis Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Seasons of friendship: lean in or let go? - Ep10

February 11, 2019 03:00 - 44 minutes - 40.5 MB

Do we treat friends how they want to be treated or how they treat themselves? Should we intervene when a friends lack of personal boundaries burden the friendship?Send in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisinstagram.com/mukundwa_twitter.com/mukundwa_Nyak (Co Host)instagram.com/nyakweziFollow #podcastiswis Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

9. Gender Wars: Men Are from Mars, Period! - Ft. Boris

February 04, 2019 09:26 - 1 hour - 59.9 MB

On dating: splitting bills, gender performativity and labour division. TRIGGER WARNING - gaslightingSend in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisinstagram.com/mukundwa_twitter.com/mukundwa_Nyak (Co Host)instagram.com/nyakweziBoris - guestinstagram.com/borisk15Follow #podcastiswis Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Men Are from Mars, Period! - Ft. Boris. Ep9

February 04, 2019 09:26 - 1 hour - 59.9 MB

On dating: splitting bills, gender performativity and labour division. TRIGGER WARNING - gaslightingSend in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisinstagram.com/mukundwa_twitter.com/mukundwa_Nyak (Co Host)instagram.com/nyakweziBoris - guestinstagram.com/borisk15Follow #podcastiswis Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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