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Honeymoon Mindset

95 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 1 year ago - ★★★★★ - 2 ratings

Beth and James Deppa have a huge passion for helping couples create this mindset. They have been working on this for over 5 years. They are doing this because they struggled in their first marriages. The desire to not make the same mistakes again, they started to learn how to do this. They have been mentored by some of the best, read books, listened to podcasts, researched online and talked with people in different fields and experiences. They sat down with each other and worked through it piece by piece.

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How to Find the Right Partner

October 10, 2022 05:00 - 14 minutes - 12.6 MB

How do you know the person you are with is the right one?  How do you find the right one? Finding the right partner isn't so much looking for them.  However, knowing when they come into your life. First thing is to stop looking.  Looking for the right person usually doesn't go the right way and leads to disaster. Second, improve who you are.  Working on yourself, helps you know who you need in your life and make you an even better person. Third, when the right person comes into your ...

It's Ok to Say NO

October 03, 2022 05:00 - 9 minutes - 8.76 MB

Is it ok to say no in a relationship? Doesn't saying no tell your partner you don't care? Did you know that saying no is healthy? In society, we are led to believe that we need to say yes and on to be on the go.  However, in a relationship, and for ourselves and family, that can be very dangerous. In this episode, we talk about why it's important to say no in a relationship.  Saying no can make a us, our relationship and family stronger.

4 Tips to Help Positive Thinking to Spark Passion

August 01, 2022 05:00 - 14 minutes - 12.7 MB

STOP NEGATIVE THINKING!!! Negative thinking causes so many issues in you and your relationship.  It takes the passion out of your relationship and yourself. The best way to put passion is with positivity!   Here are 4 tips to stop negative thinking: 1. Tell yourself and brain that you don't think or talk that way.  Also, write it down. 2. Start thinking positive about yourself and things. 3. Go to bed thinking postivite thoughts and the goods that happened during the day and wh...

4 Tips to Surviving Difficult Times

March 07, 2022 17:39 - 16 minutes - 14.3 MB

There are times in life when everything seems against us and we are doing everything we can to keep our head above water. We are trying everything to keep tempers at bay, emotions in check and mental health healthy. 4 Tips to Surviving Difficult Times. First is know what your values are.  When you know your values, it helps keep your mental and emotions in check with them. Second, making your priorities are in line with your values.  When you have your priorities inline with your val...

Honeymoon Mindset Academy

February 16, 2022 06:00 - 19 minutes - 16.4 MB

What the background on Honeymoon Mindset Academy?  What is their point? How are they going to help you? This episode we talk about the history of Honeymoon Mindset.  What we have planned for the company. Who is Honeymoon Mindset for and how it can help you.  We also talk about how we can come along side you. Finally, we talk about where you can find us For more information email us:  [email protected] [email protected]

Dating 101

February 11, 2022 06:32 - 20 minutes - 18 MB

To keep the Honeymoon Phase going is by creating the Honeymoon Mindset. One of the best ways to do that is by keep dating. Dating is very benificial in any and all relationships. Are you dating?

4 Requirements to Build a Stronger Relationship

February 10, 2022 18:34 - 18 minutes - 15.7 MB

Skip the traditional date night or Valentine's Day stuff!!! Instead, build a stronger relationship with your partner! There are 4 requirements needed to be building a stronger relationship. First:  Communication Second:  Time Together Third:  Improving Who You Are Finally:  Intimacy, Emotional and Physical Listen to the episode for more information and details If you still have questions or not sure how; Email Us! email:  [email protected]             info@honeym...

Date Your Kid

February 07, 2022 06:00 - 29 minutes - 27.7 MB

In this week’s episode of Honeymoon Mindset with Kids we discuss why dating your kids is so important to them and to you! The most important thing you can give to your children is your time.  And by time we mean your undivided attention, your listening ear, your intentional connection. All humans want to matter, belong, be heard, and feel loved.  Kids are no different and when you let them know they matter by spending one on one time with them they can truly blossom. This time will grow ...

Strengthening the Intimacy

February 04, 2022 06:00 - 4 minutes - 3.39 MB

This is going to be a quiet intimate night for the 2 of you.  No phones or other electronics.  Your going to come home make dinner together, get dressed up and each others company. Listen to how this will boost the intimacy between you and your partner.

What is the Difference between Love Making and Sex?

February 02, 2022 06:00 - 17 minutes - 14.2 MB

This episode may not be suitable for kids! We are a week away from Valentine's Day! One of the biggest thoughts in someone's mind is sex. Is there a difference between sex and Love making?  What is the difference between lovemaking and sex? This episode, we talk about the differences between sex and love making. We talk about the difference about talking about it with your partner and often.  We also explain why it is different for every couple and how it changes as life changes. The...

Uncomfortable Conversations with Kids Made Comfortable

January 31, 2022 06:00 - 17 minutes - 14.2 MB

We as parents will always have those awkward, difficult and uncomfortable conversions with a child. How do we handle these moments with love and grace? We talk about this, give tips and ideas. When you are able to handle these awkward situations with love and grace.  It will only strengthen your relationship with your child. For additional resources or assistance email us:  [email protected]

Enjoy and Be Grateful

January 28, 2022 06:00 - 15 minutes - 14.6 MB

This tip we want you to just enjoy the holidays and let them happen.  When can do this by being grateful for those around you and what you have.  If you still struggle please reach out and we will listen.

How to Deal with Trophy Syndrome!

January 26, 2022 06:00 - 21 minutes - 17.5 MB

Everyone has this ideal vison of their perfect life, partner and dream job. We call this the Trophy Syndrome! We put a lot of time and effort to get these trophies.  When we get them sometimes it is not what we thought it would be. There are times, we need to remember that we need to keep bettering ourselves, so we are able to keep the trophy.   Are there things we can do to help with Trophy Syndrome? There are a couple things we can do. First, we can continue bettering who we are as...

Quit Ruining Kids with Perfection!

January 24, 2022 06:00 - 20 minutes - 16.8 MB

Kids are natural pleasers! We make the stressed out with perfection by not expressing our expectations, being critical with them and not picking our battles.  We need to teach our kids to be okay with finishing things, their way of doing something is ok and letting them discuss things with us. They learn from watching us, listening with our hearts and validating their thoughts and emotions. Need additional resources email us at: [email protected]

Do the Opposite of What You are Passionate About!

January 21, 2022 06:00 - 6 minutes - 5.22 MB

The activity will give you the chance to truly enjoy what you are passionate about. Doing the complete opposite of what you are passionate about gives you a new appreciation for it.  It helps you see it in a new way.  It gives you a chance to expand your knowledge a of it.  Finally, it gives you a chance to learn something new.  

Can You Use Passion as an Adverb?

January 19, 2022 06:00 - 16 minutes - 13.6 MB

This episode is in response to a TikTok video I saw. The gentleman in the video says that society says everyone needs to have more passion.  He claims that not everyone's thing is passion, but some are curious, some are funny.  I agree with him in what he is saying in general.  However, we all need more passion in our lives and in this world.  That is why we created Honeymoon Mindset! Listen to how we can add more passion in our life without changing who we are.  Using passion as an ad...

What are your Values?

January 14, 2022 06:00 - 5 minutes - 4.47 MB

This is a fun little activity to help you get a little closer to what your values are.   These are not just any values, but the values that you run your life with. Take a listen and have fun figuring out your true values are. Any Questions email us at: [email protected]  

What do You want, No, Need?

January 12, 2022 06:00 - 18 minutes - 15.7 MB

It is a new year and must people want a new you.  People want a change because they do like something about themselves. So, they decide to make a change. One will in magazines, friends, family, social media and all around them for ideas and inspiration.  You will find things that you want to change to.  When they do this; they are still unable happy. Maybe you are looking in the wrong area?  Maybe you have your wants confused for your needs? What are your needs? Listen to this episode ...

"Mom and Dad Divorced" author Caroline Martins

January 03, 2022 15:30 - 37 minutes - 33.9 MB

Divorce through the eyes of a 13 year old! Caroline Martins tells of her experience, thoughts and emotions that she had when her parents divorced. When she realized that it wasn't her fault she decided to write a book for kids. To help them know that what they are feeling is normal and they are not alone in this journey.  Her book is filled with tips, activities and ideas to help them processes those thoughts,  feelings and emotions.  Caroline and I talk about her experiences and the p...

How to Become a Visionary

December 31, 2021 06:00 - 10 minutes - 8.49 MB

A fun little game you can do by yourself, with your partner, family and in your business or profession. How can visioning the future help you now?  How can visioning the future make you a Visionary? A visionary is someone who looks out into the future and makes a plan.   This is what you are doing with dreamcatcher! You are envisioning the future for yourself, with your relationships and professionally.   If you are having difficulty with this or what someone to guide you through t...

4 Step to setting Goals not Resolutions

December 29, 2021 06:00 - 21 minutes - 18.1 MB

It is that time of your when a lot of people set New Year's Resolutions.  They do with the greatest of intention and want to seriously make a change.  However, majority of the resolutions do not make it past the first month. Why?  I talk about why resolutions do prosper and how to set goals that will spark the passion in you and succeed.   Setting goals takes 4 steps. 1. Looking to the past to see what did and didn't work and why. 2. Look to the future to see where you want to go a...

Teaching Kids How to Set Goals (part 2)

December 27, 2021 06:00 - 33 minutes - 30.6 MB

In this week’s episode: James and Kimberly discuss how to help kids with goal setting. Start small with daily “to do” lists and work up to bigger goals. How can they break them down, so they are achievable? How can they prioritize where to start? You will be surprised how daily goal setting will have a ripple effect reaching out to all aspects of their lives... mood, self-esteem, how they interact with others, etc. Need help learning how to set goals for yourself or how to teach it...

Season Greetings and Merry Christmas

December 24, 2021 06:00 - 1 minute - 1.54 MB

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! From All of Us here at Honeymoon Mindset Academy

Passion brings Gratitude

December 22, 2021 06:00 - 8 minutes - 6.96 MB

What happens when you have sparked the passion in you?   You become grateful which is what this time of year is all about.  We can so easily get caught up in the hustle and bustle of Christmas that we forget and have a hard time adjusting and going with the flow. Do you want to be able to go with the flow?  You want to be more grateful, especially this time of year? Then contact us about how we can help you become more grateful and going with the flow.   [email protected]...

Teaching Kids How to Set Goals

December 20, 2021 16:09 - 20 minutes - 18.7 MB

In this week’s episode James and Kimberly discuss how to help kids with goal setting. Start small with daily “to do” lists and work up to bigger goals. How can they break them down, so they are achievable? How can they prioritize where to start? You will be surprised how daily goal setting will have a ripple effect reaching out to all aspects of their lives... mood, self-esteem, how they interact with others, etc. Need help learning how to set goals for yourself or how to teach i...

Who is Honeymoon Mindset for?

December 15, 2021 16:38 - 17 minutes - 14.5 MB

When you think about honeymoon, we instantly think of a relationship.  When you think about relationships, everything starts as a relationship.  Therefore, you have a relationship with yourself!  You in a relationship with someone!  Business is a relationship!   Honeymoon Mindset is for you!  It is a process and takes time to develop it.  When you start to develop it, it sparks the passion in you.  When you have developed the Honeymoon Mindset that passion will naturally flow over to other...

When Christmas is a Struggle!

December 13, 2021 18:13 - 19 minutes - 16.1 MB

The side of Christmas that many parents do not want to see or address.  When their kid/s struggle with Christmas. There are kids who struggle during this time of year.  They struggle because of the loss of a loved one, a change with the family or because of a situation. This episode, I talk about to help your children if they are struggle during the holidays.  How to make them feel heard and important about what they are thinking and feeling. Listen to Honeymoon Mindset with Kids to he...

Take a Break!

December 10, 2021 14:55 - 9 minutes - 9.4 MB

It is crazy, hectic and unbearable!  The pressures of the holidays and expectation can be to much.  Take a break!  Taking a break will help you get through it, inspire you and or refocus you for the holidays.  Learn about the benefits of taking a break.

What can a Honeymoon Mindset do For You?

December 08, 2021 16:04 - 14 minutes - 11.6 MB

We have heard of the 3 phrases: In their honeymoon phase, find something you love, and you won't work a day in your life, and walking on cloud nine. What do they all have in common?   Listen to this podcast to find out what they have in common.  You will also discover how a Honeymoon Mindset can happen every day. Find out how Tony Robbins, Dean Graziosi, Rob Dial and Shiny Unsal have inspired and help us in the creation of Honeymoon Mindset. Resources: https://www.tonyrobbins.com...

Why is it Important to get Kids Ready for Christmas? (part 2)

December 06, 2021 06:00 - 28 minutes - 26 MB

This time of years is very exciting for kids!  All the talk about Christmas, toys, magic, sweets and more. The way our culture has fast tracked materialism and "keeping up with the Jones syndrome."  That our kids lose the real meaning of Christmas and that is giving and helping those less fortunate.  In this podcast, Kimberly and I talk about traditions and the importance of giving.  Why we as parents need to talk to our kids early and often about giving.  We also have a challenge at...

Communicating and Have Fun

December 03, 2021 06:00 - 18 minutes - 17.3 MB

Another two for the price of one.  A lot of times during the holidays, we get so caught up in the expectations and hype that we forget to communicate.  We forget to ask for help or find out what people are thinking.  In this process, we forget to have fun.  Find out why communicating and fun are so important and will help you survive the holidays

How to Help Your Stressed Partner?

December 01, 2021 18:34 - 12 minutes - 10.3 MB

When you have 10 things going on at once; what do we do? We usual get upset, frustrated and take things out on others. Honeymoon Mindset, we are able to come along and help our partner.  We are able to ask for help because we know our partner is there to help us succeed. The power of a Honeymoon Mindset we are able to work together and accomplish things, even if we have to do it ourselves.  It is a daily choice to allow the passion in us to flourish and grow.  So, we can succeed for us...

Why is it Important to get Kids Ready for Christmas? (part 1)

December 01, 2021 17:16 - 23 minutes - 21.7 MB

This time of years is very exciting for kids!  All the talk about Christmas, toys, magic, sweets and more. The way our culture has fast tracked materialism and "keeping up with the Jones syndrome."  That our kids lose the real meaning of Christmas and that is giving and helping those less fortunate.  In this podcast, Kimberly and I talk about traditions and the importance of giving.  Why we as parents need to talk to our kids early and often about giving.  We also have a challenge at...

Tip 1 for Surviving the Holidays

November 26, 2021 06:00 - 10 minutes - 10.4 MB

Here is a quick tip about how a moment of silence can help calm you down.  During the holiday season and Covid, silence can help keep our sanity and get us back on track to enjoy these Holidays.

What is the Purpose of a Discovery Call

November 24, 2021 06:00 - 14 minutes - 12.3 MB

I keep asking you to reach out to us to set up a discovery call. This episode, I tell you what is involved with a discovery call and why is important. I also talk about other important information that you need when you are working with a coach.

How Parents with Blinders on Effects Children part 2

November 22, 2021 06:00 - 19 minutes - 14 MB

In this week’s episode we discuss how having blinders on when it comes to who your kids are can have a negative effect on them. If you believe they are perfect how can you help them grow and learn from their mistakes? How can you talk to other parents who have blinders on when it comes to their children? Listen as James and Kimberly discuss these questions and more!

The Game of Life to Talk Money

November 19, 2021 06:00 - 5 minutes - 4.58 MB

The date tip is to play the Game of Life. As you play, stop and talk about, or write down, the topics that come.  As you does you will have a fun way to talk about money issues. This is a great way to talk to your kids about money

How talking about Money can build a Honeymoon Mindset

November 17, 2021 06:00 - 22 minutes - 19.1 MB

One of the leading causes of divorce is money! This doesn't have to be.  Talking about money early and often helps the relationship to work together with the understanding of money.  Money is tool and that is it. If you were in a long committed relationship, it isn't to late to talk about money.  Start now with your partner, it will be stressful at first, and watch you Honeymoon Mindset grow together as you both grow. Here is a link to Financial Peace University: https://www.ramseyso...

How Parents with Blinders on Effects Children

November 15, 2021 14:15 - 20 minutes - 9.37 MB

In this week’s episode we discuss how having blinders on when it comes to who your kids are can have a negative effect on them. If you believe they are perfect how can you help them grow and learn from their mistakes? How can you talk to other parents who have blinders on when it comes to their children? Listen as James and Kimberly discuss these questions and more!

Dreamcatcher to Build Your Honeymoon Mindset

November 12, 2021 06:00 - 5 minutes - 4.95 MB

This date night tip can be done individually, as couple, fun this way, or family. The date tip can be long and drawn out or short and sweet.  You can plan a whole evening around it or just 10 to 15 minutes before you and your partner go to bed. You are going to keep an aspect of the future or something and your going to envision what will be like.  You are going to add sound, touch, taste, sight and smell.  You are going to add as many details as possible, more details the better. Toge...

How to Get Life Back in Your Relationship

November 10, 2021 06:00 - 18 minutes - 15.4 MB

What is the best way to get life back in your relationship? What is a way to keep something in common as your goes on through out the years? How do you end the roommate syndrome?  The best way is to talk about your future together?  It isn't a one time discussion.  It is a topic you should have at least once a year. Having the discussion once a year helps keep your vision with each other alive and well.  It gives you a chance to adjust and grow.  Planning your future together is a ...

How to Discuss Body Image part 2

November 08, 2021 06:00 - 26 minutes - 24.8 MB

During this continuation of How to Discuss Body Image with your kids; We look at how you can use the future as reference point. How look at others image as a way of checking ourselves and the way we live.  Plus, we need to be sensitive to them because we don't know what is going on in the inside. Kimberly and James have a conversation about How to Discuss Body Image.

Assumptions are Charades

November 05, 2021 05:00 - 4 minutes - 3.71 MB

Idea for Date or Family night is to play the game charades, or something like it. Before you start, make up a sheet with the questions; First impression and why? What memories do you associate with that thought? What emotions do you relate to it? You and your partner will talk about these to help get a better understanding of yourselves.  When you have a better understand where those thoughts come from then you can change those assumptions, or limiting beliefs.

How to Change Assumptions

November 03, 2021 05:00 - 19 minutes - 16.7 MB

Assumptions are made up and not real.  They are our brain trying to protect us, but in reality it does the opposite.  I share how I struggle with assumptions and what I do to deal with them. It takes time and when you deal with assumptions, your Honeymoon Mindset will blossom even more.

How to Discuss Body Image

November 01, 2021 05:00 - 24 minutes - 22.2 MB

When you look around all you see are these beautiful images.  Images that makes us want to compare ourselves to. This comparison starts at a young age.  If it is not dealt with, it can be very dangerous to kids and give them a lifetime of stress and heartache. Listen to Kimberly and James, we talk about body image.  How and when it starts.  How and why you need to talk to your kids. Links: https://www.amazon.com/Its-Perfectly-Normal-Changing-Growing/dp/0763644846

Imagination to Enhance Honeymoon Mindset

October 29, 2021 05:00 - 6 minutes - 5.41 MB

This date tip, you and your partner are going to use your imagination. Imagination is something you can use to learn new and interesting things about your partner.  It can also be used to help build your future together. Listen to how imagination is used during date night.

How to Kill the Roommate Feeling

October 27, 2021 05:00 - 17 minutes - 14.3 MB

You didn't get into a relationship to live with a roommate,  it is someone you care, love and want to be with. How do you get out of that comfort zone? This episode is full of ideas on how to get out of that your partner is your roommate.

Do Teens Need Honeymoon Mindset from You and Your Partner?

October 25, 2021 15:11 - 16 minutes - 14.2 MB

Teens are going through so much during those years.  It is all done so they can figure out who they are and want to be. Them seeing a Honeymoon Mindset from you and your partner plays a huge role.  They get to see an example of how to handle issues, relax, be open and vulnerable and live. The relationship you and your partner have not only plays a role but is needed and wanted by your teenager/s. They want you to be there for them!

Date Your Self

October 22, 2021 13:52 - 5 minutes - 4.58 MB

Life can get very mundane or tried of doing the same old thing. That is why you need to date yourself once and a while.  This keeps you real to who you are.  It expands your knowledge and experiences.  It is also a huge self confidence booster. In turn, it will grow your Honeymoon Mindset because you have more to offer your partner.  You will be able to handle this differently because of this knowledge. Dating yourself help build a stronger Honeymoon Mindset

Open, Vulnerable, Honest and Reality

October 20, 2021 15:21 - 17 minutes - 14.7 MB

This podcast, I open up about our relationship.  I am vulnerable with you what it is like in Beth's and I relationship.  I share with you what is like and how I do and don't follow my own advice. I tell you how we make our Honeymoon Mindset and the choices we make daily. This is a raw and real episode .